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Is Romantic Top Tier Humor Good with his hands Same values as me (atheist, leftist, feminist) Last one is non negotiable no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:46 PM
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From my experience, most of my friends who use(d) the term “hoe” phase meant it hyperbolically as like a running joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:14 PM
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That’s fair. I’ve experienced and witnessed the opposite 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:09 AM
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Ah okay, I’m not saying that women don’t want to be bragged about. I’m saying that to argue against the dynamic in the original post that made it seem as though there were only two types of women to men: the “hot woman” and the “settle down woman.” I think, like anyone, men like to have someone on their arm that they’re proud to show off and it doesn’t always only entail the two types of women described here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:16 AM
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I don’t know what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:24 AM
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Agreed. I’ve never been had any problem getting men and 100% of them have pursued a relationship with me when I expressed interest back. Even the “fuck boys.” Up until my current relationship, I had a reputation amongst my friends for being pretty lazy in relationships and largely apathetic so I don’t think they saw me as an ideal homemaker or mother. This is such a narrow view imo. I honestly think a lot of guys will immediately try to date someone they think they could brag about to their frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:00 AM
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I don’t know if I hate it, but it has never come remotely close to turning me on so I would be extremely put off if a partner suggested watching it together. Thankfully, none have. I think, like with anything, porn in excess would warrant a side eye from me but I don’t really care as long as I don’t gotta watch it, hear about it, or deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:30 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean by “opposite percentile” of both sexes. I just meet people be it thru work, friends, or simply being outside and talk to them. It’s not some sort of calculated endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:00 PM
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No, I’m definitely thinking of the real world here. I have met so many people in my life and have never come across this sort of dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:46 AM
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I am convinced I live in a whole other world when I see posts like this on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:24 AM
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Bisexual men are elite. I hope you find the right one soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:44 AM
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It’s almost like men don’t like women or something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:01 PM
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It’s the personality 95% of the time. Most self proclaimed and entitled “nice guys” I’ve met have been extremely condescending and downright creepy. Source: Experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:38 AM
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I think it should be the mentality but not always the reality. Meaning, both partners should want to help each other and the one working shouldn’t think they don’t have to do anything with the house just because they are the breadwinner. However, I think they would naturally do some things but not an equal 50% if that makes sense. Help more when u can and less when you can’t. Keeping score is the doom of any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:44 AM
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Yeah, I don’t know why people are so afraid of having the “so, what are we?” talk early on. When I was single, I always asked that after the first time I slept with someone in order to make sure we were on the same page. Never failed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:09 PM
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Well, not disclosing this information is most likely why you’re being called a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:06 PM
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I honestly feel like a lot of relationships fail because of an overemphasis on the importance of money. I don’t care if I’m making more money or my partner is, I would never expect them to do everything in the house just because I make more. It’s not hard to divvy up chores based on what the other can do without making the crux of the point about who brings home more money. Reading about “hot takes” on these relationship dynamics oftentimes feel more akin to business deals than a partnership or …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:40 PM
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Nope. Everyone I’ve slept with, even if it started casually, eventually wanted to pursue a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:02 PM
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This is odd as I don’t necessarily see a correlation between body count and experience. I’ve only slept with 4 men but I consider myself to be one of the most experienced amongst my friend group because I’ve had a lot of sex regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:15 AM
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This is… laughable at best and sad at worst lol Reads like satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:43 AM
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Sometimes it isn’t always feasible to move in together immediately. My (now) fiancé and I did long distance for a year when I had to move to another state for a job. We obviously worked out and are happy now. Long distance only works if you have an end date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:23 PM
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I’d like to think I’d be cool about it, but I think it would ultimately be something that would nag at me to the point where I couldn’t do it. I’ve heard plenty of horror stories about how men treat sex workers because they view them as a product they purchased and I think the chance that he was like that at one point would just eat at me. Especially after I’ve read some of the “review” sites out of morbid curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:16 PM
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This checks out to me. I was never “wow’ed” by men like that. Most of the time, I wouldn’t be looking or notice unless they approached me. The last time a guy got me to turn my head to such a degree that I couldn’t stop thinking about it… with a little magic, I was lucky enough for him to fall in love with me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:04 AM
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I’m not sure I would change anything about him per se apart from maybe just going for someone who is also into that lifestyle as they could partake in it together. Or at least have that basis of mutual understanding. It just taught me that muscles like that can be nice to look at from afar but not necessarily compatible with what I look for in a partner. I don’t mind working out and eating healthy, it’s the obsessiveness of it that can be off-putting. Which, from what I understand, is almost nec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:24 PM
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Nope. He doted on me. I never once felt pressured to share that lifestyle or judged if I decided to eat a bag of hot Cheetos or something lol He’d convince me to go to the gym with him sometimes so we could still be in the same vicinity but he just showed me the sauna, pool, and hot tub so I could chill there while he did his thing. Tbh, I think a lot of it boiled down to each other being arm candy for the other rather than having anything at all in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:54 PM
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I explained in another reply to my comment so I’ll quickly recap. The sheer amount of working out and unseasoned food that went into him maintaining a body like that got annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:32 PM
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Good question. I obviously knew you had to work out to get that kind of body but I just didn’t truly understand the full extent of it until I was around someone with that lifestyle all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:28 PM
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Just really annoying about having to go to the gym all the time and ate really gross unseasoned food. Sometimes I’d wake up and wanna go to the beach and he’d insist on going to the gym for an hour before we went. Not the kind of lifestyle I look for in someone I date. I like spontaneity and good food. Both of which were near impossible with him. I understand it takes a lot of work and dedication to get and maintain a body like that but man, it put me off forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:59 AM
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When I was younger, I thought really muscular guys were hot… … until I dated one. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:14 PM
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I’m not ~against~ porn per se. I just have no interest in it at all. It doesn’t turn me on and I just find it offputting unless it’s our own videos. I don’t want to see or hear my partner watching porn nor do I want to incorporate playing it in the bedroom. If I don’t notice, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:51 AM
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Bi men are elite ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:03 AM
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The post is referencing what The Red Pill commonly says about women, not what OP actually thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:54 AM
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For me it depends on the context of how misogyny (Along with other “touchy” subjects) is being expressed within art. If it’s gratuitous/purposeless then I’m more likely to critique it. If it’s saying or doing something clever or with nuance then I’m willing to engage. Like with comedians, are we laughing with women or at the expense of women? To me, that determines if the joke is good. Same with films, tv, music, etc. I love a lot of hip hop and I’ll dance to it. Same with reggaeton. Both can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:26 PM
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You’re right. Only the men in my life have warned me of other men. Ironically, listening to the women in my life resulted in the one and only toxic relationship I’ve had. Though it’s funny how men will warn the women they care about, but turn around and treat women in the way they warned us. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:12 AM
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Hasn’t directly ruined my life at all since I’m in a beautiful relationship with the most amazing man. In regard to other aspects of my life, being a part of this subreddit and lurking others similar in content has made me a bit more wary of men outside of my circle despite always having a general distrust in men which is why I never dated or slept around a lot. I grew up with an older brother who warned me of men in general and I always thought I was overly cautious until reading about these id…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:48 PM
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I like the drama because I have none in my real life lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:33 PM
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And what exactly is the debate here? I hope you’re a dime yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:54 AM
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SAME!!!! I never even saw him that way but he was always super sweet and attentive toward me so I decided to give him a chance. I was down for something casual but he eventually managed to convince me to be exclusive through effort. Once we started dating he was such a piece of shit who would make stupid excuses for things because he was insecure/depressed because I was too “out of his league.” It felt like he enjoyed parading me around to his friends and family but liked to neg me in private in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:59 PM
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I’m just surprised body count comes up so often in this sub because I’ve never asked anyone their body count. As long as they’re clean of STDs, it’s not my business and I’ve never cared to know. I actually prefer not knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:40 PM
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This is true. The only time I’ve ever heard women say this is after their friend expresses their partner reaaaaallly fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:16 PM
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Luckily, a red pill man probably wouldn’t be into me because of my profession. It would be revealed pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:00 PM
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A lot of the times it’s a compliment from people who think they are entitled to a response. And before someone says “it’s not hard to say thank you,” it is. Replying at all seems like an invitation for them to continue. There have been many times men have followed me into bars, cafes, while walking my dog, and to my car because I kept walking while they were yelling “compliments” at me. If I say “thank you” they want to keep talking and get mad if I say I’m busy or have to go. Catcalling, to me,…
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 08:32 PM
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Potentially. I had a crush on a book character from the Cirque Du Freak series when I was a teen and when the movie came out that crush transferred onto John C. Riley because he ended up playing said character.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:05 PM
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That’s another good example! I feel the same way about Spike.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:49 PM
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This is a side note. But many women, including myself, only find Henry Cavil attractive as Geralt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:29 PM
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If we’re talking strictly visually, style supersedes everything for me. I 100% prefer looking at men with great style than men showing off huge muscles. In my opinion, the latter is more geared toward male perceptions of peak masculinity. For example, those fitness mags will have greased up muscle men on the covers but magazines geared more toward women don’t usually do that and tend to style the men nicely. Someone mentioned Kpop guys somewhere in the comments and I tend to think they’re right.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:29 PM
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I don’t know you, but I love you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:40 PM
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Nope. Not at all. Honestly, not even an “ex” red piller. To take this point further, I would most likely not even date someone who identifies(ed) with a pill at all. Why would I do that when I could just date men who actually like me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:17 AM
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Ummm, he didn’t try to kill me? What are you on about? We were holding hands and talking. He thought it would be hot to do that and I would have honestly been fine with it if we had that connection but I wasn’t feeling it and told him to go home. Kissing isn’t harming anyone, I just was bored with the conversation and the unwanted kiss just gave me an excuse to end the night early. Obviously, everyone likes good looking people but what I’m saying is that being good looking isn’t a one stop shot …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:27 AM
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This is actually not true. Just because someone finds a man attractive, doesn’t mean it’s already game over. For example, a beautiful 6’5 model asked me out while I was grocery shopping. Of course I said yes. He was nice and funny when he initially approached and asked for my number. When we actually hung out, we took a walk and he randomly pushed me against some random car and started kissing me. Just like the movies. I immediately told him to go home. The connection wasn’t there on my end and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:18 AM
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Nope. Though my current partner is the only person I’ve ever known who I’d be terrified of losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:35 AM
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LGBTQA+ rights are not even remotely related to consensual hetero dating issues. Your humanity or worth is not being questioned here. Nor would this age gap have historically put you at risk of death threats, jail, death, and/or widespread socio-political demonization. Your rights to engage in this sort of relationship have not been legislatively challenged. So again, the comparison is simply fraught. People may side-eye you or express contempt, but you do not run the same risks for partaking in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:28 PM
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I have never met a woman who fantasized about this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:25 PM
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I just don’t see why they belong in the same conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:06 PM
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I honestly feel like this comment was just an excuse to spew weird homophobic biases. Being gay, and asking people to accept that, is not remotely similar to a 20+ year age difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:55 PM
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Not true. 98% of my interactions began with them asking if they could kiss me and if things escalated then it was me leading the escalation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:51 PM
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Yes, you do. You’re making assumptions thinking you know women when, presumably, you haven’t been socialized as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:39 PM
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We’re often told that men won’t want to date you if you’re “easy” so a lot of women will try to avoid sleeping with someone they like on the first date because they don’t want to ruin their chances/not look like “girlfriend material.” To me, it seems like op’s girlfriend was prepared for a potential ONS until she saw a future with op.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:36 PM
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Eh, as a woman I would disagree with that. At least personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:26 PM
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I mean, understandably there are relatively harmless things that someone may want to keep to themselves for a while or forever. Stuff like the type of porn someone watches because not everyone wants to know that about their partner, etc. But if it’s something that prevents you from closeness with your partner I can see why that person may push you because they feel that uncomfortable distance. Though, while I don’t know the types of women you have dated, the three points made above come off as s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:05 PM
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I read some of these posts and just sit here thinking wtf kind of relationships have y’all had that made you so angry??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:47 PM
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What? No. I definitely am attracted to what I see and don’t understand what you mean by “what they hear.” Are you saying women find people attractive if they hear others find them attractive? Or are you saying that women are more swayed by someone’s personality? If so, I highly disagree with the former but can understand the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:33 PM
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Yes, but also this sub is convincing me that men and women seem to measure attractiveness differently. There are women who I know most men drool over that I wouldn’t look twice at, but there are also women I think are drop dead who men would probably accuse me of overhyping them or lying. I still notice the same thing with men that other men will say are attractive but I don’t find them attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:38 PM
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Why not listen to the women’s opinions though? I don’t understand that saying because, to me, it would seem smart to see advice from the sex you’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:54 PM
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I know it’s subjective, that’s why I prefaced it with “I prefer” and ended my post talking about subjectivity. To me, the only thing striking about Daddario are her eyes but that’s a negative for me because I don’t particularly like light colored eyes at all. Ultimately, I think we’re saying pretty similar things but just have vastly differing standards of attractiveness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:43 PM
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I mean, it helps if you’re monogamous with someone you actually like and are compatible with lol I never got anything from casual sex. Afterward, I always felt unfulfilled and turned off. One of the most amazing things in life is being with someone who knows your body and mind while feeling both safe and secure. I don’t knock people for practicing ethical non monogamy, but it will never be in the cards for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:21 PM
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I’m a bi woman. But what I’m getting at is I think there is a difference in measuring attractiveness in a sex you’re attracted to versus not attracted to. Different factors are at play there. In regard to FKA Twigs, I tend to prefer people who are visually striking which is why I favor her to someone like Daddario.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:10 PM
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I expect a lot of people to! Hell, I disagree with a lot of the answers here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:32 PM
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Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:22 PM
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Tbh there are men with that body type I find exponentially more attractive than JGL (not saying he’s bad looking tho). Seth Rogen, for example. Shit, I’d put Seth Rogen in place of OP’s categorization of Jamie Dornan. For me, body type isn’t as important as how someone dresses/carries themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:19 PM
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Someone’s essence does indeed make them a million times hotter to me too. I understand u completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:26 PM
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I find plenty of other men Jared Leto’s age very attractive. Keanu Reeves is clearly on my top tier, it’s not his age. Idris Elba, Tony Todd and Willem Defoe also. Even as Catalano, Leto wouldn’t have been notable enough to be on my list anyway. It’s just how he looks now made him notable enough to be on the bottom tier. Second, I don’t think someone’s celebrity status automatically makes them a super attractive person. It could be where I’m from, but A LOT of people in my area (one of the count…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:16 PM
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Nah, he’s hot. That intro scene in Von Trier’s Antichrist did things to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:09 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:08 PM
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I’m glad you pointed out the different preferences! For me, your list would be the complete opposite of mine. Momoa 10, Jackman 5, Redmayne 2. I feel like people are getting bogged down in people’s personal taste not realizing that no one is ever gonna agree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:07 PM
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You are a breath of fresh air and I 100% agree with you comments. People need to understand that these celebrities literally have entire teams and a ton of money to maintain a certain image and the average commenter here doesn’t. Comparing yourself to any celebrity’s level of attractiveness is unwise. Plus attractiveness is a whole spectrum, I see/hear men in real life thirst over Kim Kardashian/the other sisters but if you were to look at this sub people would say they don’t find her attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:59 PM
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I HIGHLY disagree. Also, listen to FreshPrinceOfIndia because they’re right on the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:54 PM
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lol not at all. Someone’s -10/10 can always be someone’s 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:53 PM
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Maybe men and women have different visual appeals. A lot of the women men put in their mid tier would probably be higher up for me (for example I saw someone label FKA Twigs as average in another comment and I’d easily put her in my top tier) or it’s my specific taste. I don’t find Daddario as striking as the women I put in my top tier. The only thing that makes her stand out to me is her eyes, but I’m also not a fan of light colored eyes so that personally doesn’t appeal to me. Also, are you he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:48 PM
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She’s super cute! I just see women who look similar to her pretty often so she’s not a super stand out to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:43 PM
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I think he aged to be a bit physically terrifying. Now if this was the 90s and he was still in his Jordan Catalano era it would be a different story. And I find people I see outside on a day to day more appealing than most celebrities. Maybe people shouldn’t compare themselves to other peoples’ perceptions of someone else’s attractiveness? I haven’t seen anyone’s list of women and been like “oh that means I’m ugly” even if I look nothing like their top, mid, or low tier rankings. I don’t look li…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:42 PM
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Not true. It’s all subjective. Damon might not be attractive to me specifically, but super attractive to someone else. I see people walking around all the time who I find more visually appealing than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:40 PM
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Lol he’s just not at all my vibe. Tho I’m probs in the minority with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:59 AM
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Gong Yoo is bae
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:32 AM
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Nicole Byers ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:31 AM
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Willem Defoe is a dreamboat to me, idk why lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:28 AM
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I can’t believe you think Lizzo is ugly 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:27 AM
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Men: 10/10: Jason Momoa, Keanu Reeves, Trevante Rhodes, Kim Woo Bin, Toshiro Mifune Mid Tier (though I personally find none of these men attractive): Ryan Gosling, Ryan Reynolds, Arnie Hammer, Channing Tatum, guys like that Average: Timothee Chalamet, Matt Damon, Benedict Cumberbatch, Jared Leto (my god, he looks like a cult leader) Women 10/10: Zoe Kravitz, Jhene Aiko, Zendaya, Tati Gabrielle, Rina Sawayama, Selena Quintanilla, Ryan Destiny Mid tier: Sydney Sweeney, Alexandra Daddario (tho her …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:24 AM
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A lot of men wonder why women aren’t into them and then spew garbage takes like this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:27 AM
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Pete Davidson, yes. MGK, hell no. Pete Davidson is attractive in that funny guy whose demeanor grows on you. MGK physically has never appealed to me in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:03 PM
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