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nobsyoga/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/19 03:47 AM
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nobsyoga/r/askMRP10/04/19 08:04 PM
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Good job ditching the all or nothing thinking on addiction. That can be a death sentence.
/r/askMRP14/04/20 02:13 PM
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This isn't the place to come if you want to be rocked to sleep.
/r/askMRP02/04/20 02:47 PM
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The point where you will not be called names here is the point where you will either not need this forum anymore, or choose to post advice.
/r/askMRP30/03/20 02:12 PM
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Wear some socks. Problem solved.
/r/askMRP24/03/20 02:46 PM
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This is something I think we all need to be aware of: https://www.thehour.com/news/article/The-coronavirus-is-killing-far-more-men-than-women-15143405.php
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 03:28 PM
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I think the problem with texting and social media is it creates a semi-permanent record. Women love to bring up crap from the past all the time, so why give them a way they can hold on to it and rub it in your face?
/r/askMRP17/03/20 02:50 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with you on doing basic prep work for anything, much of that is just common sense. You would agree that having a good diet and taking care of yourself to have a robust immune system is part of doing prep work? I mainly bring this up because if you look at the long lines at many of the Wallmarts and Costcos, you can see how many people are obese and probably do not take care of themselves. I can attest to this as a former drunken captain who over-relied on medication to cover …
/r/askMRP13/03/20 03:30 PM
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Sure, nobody wants to die from anything, but we all eventually do. The question is, do you want to live a life of fear from things that are mostly out of your control? Much of what has happened to your friend is a result of panic heard thinking run amok with no sense of perspective attached to it.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 03:20 PM
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If you are going to the gym and taking care of yourself, your immune system should be good enough to handle it. That is my prep work.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 02:43 PM
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Instead of the song "Living in America", you get a front row seat to "Living with Hypergamy".
/r/askMRP25/02/20 02:15 PM
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You need to be smarter about the kids. If you read the divorce section of the dread post, it will say that you want to spend the time with them and build that bond. At worst, if it all falls to shit, you will have that strong with them.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 07:20 PM
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I'm a noob at this stuff, but a lot a clicked since I last posted about a year ago. You haven't internalized frame yet. It's hard. I takes a lot of time, but it's the one real thing you need to do in order to be grounded in all this and start moving another direction. I can't tell you how I did it, it just clicked with me one day and I moved on from there.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 04:40 PM
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You are trying to hard to control her behavior, which is her way of trying to control you. Pick your path, walk it and let her fall in line or not.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 07:01 PM
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Pull the stick out of your ass and let it go. You're acting like a nit-picky female.
/r/askMRP16/07/19 09:02 PM
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You have to wonder if the dude was on any psychiatric medication. I made the mistake of going to see a psychiatrist because I internalized all the bullshit that my wife was giving me instead of turning it around inside me and taking control. I never wanted to commit seriously commit suicide until I was put on psychiatric medication. Once I got off, things the feelings went away and I was able to better take control of my situation.
/r/askMRP12/07/19 06:20 PM
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Read The Rational Male. Game philosophy was created to counteract the effects of radical feminism, which is contrary to both male and female evolutionary biology. You act as though the status quo shifted thousands of years ago, when it was around 1970. Even worse, third wave feminism is now polluted with bullshit Marxist victim ideology, which you may still be wired into.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 05:35 PM
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Then work out a home where nobody will be around you when you are done.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 05:08 PM
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Shit dude, you are a mess. Lift and get your testosterone level checked at least.
/r/askMRP22/05/19 11:39 PM
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I'm kinda of in the same situation as you. I have infertility and my wife finally got pregnant with our first and she is due in October. We did not do IVF earlier because of the cost and did not have coverage for it under our insurance. We ended up being part of a clinical trail of a new ovulation stimulation drug and were able to use ICSI to implant my lazy sperm into her egg. I had to come to the grips a one point in my life that I would never had kids and would just have to live with that. My…
/r/askMRP25/04/19 08:39 PM
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Man, this is a tough situation. My wife used to get physical with me until I fought back by restraining her and she ended up with bruises on her wrists. I told her that if she came at me next time, I could not guaranty that she would not end up in a cast. Your woman seems different though. She is flying off in to blind rages and when that gets going, usually the only course of action is to walk. It's not always the case that men get the full blame for domestic violence. While things are still ti…
/r/askMRP17/04/19 05:01 PM
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Sulking and pouting were my biggest mistakes, much of which help me back from leading a happy life. Thanks for the reply. I'm getting better at doing my own thing without worrying about approval from others.
/r/askMRP15/04/19 07:13 PM
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I'm going through the same thing now myself. You do need to get your shit together and get it together fast. Start by getting your workout routine going and don't let her take you away from it. I started my daily exercise routing and my wife would not stop shit testing me to see if I would stop. Even if your LTR is pregnant, you still need to make time for yourself. The thing is, you also need to take care of her at some level at the same time. I made the mistake of going off the end with selfis…
/r/askMRP15/04/19 04:41 PM
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Nah, there is nothing wrong with circling around and recanting lessons learned. You are right about one thing: people are entitled to their own wrong opinions.
/r/askMRP15/04/19 03:19 PM
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Time to do a post mordem on this now that things have starting to calm down. Here are some things I took away from this post and the few people that gave useful advice: ​ My biggest mistake was letting her get under my skin in the first place and yelling at her like a fool after I pried open the door. I still stand by my decision to pry open the door because she has to know that she can't impede my daily routine by hiding my stuff or locking me out of things. I never apologise for what I did, bu…
/r/askMRP14/04/19 03:49 PM
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But it's so tasty.. Taste matters to me. Also, I never said I was poor, lol.
/r/askMRP13/04/19 02:58 PM
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I feel sorry for you. I can tell you have been to several 12 step meetings that constantly pound in the notion that addiction is an all or nothing matter. That is quit a shame because it leads so many addicts to their death from guilt thinking that they too do not have what it takes to get over their addiction. Science has changed so much since that 1930's faith healing voo doo was introduced. I don't blame you for your attitude however, you probably do not know better. I suggest you check out S…
/r/askMRP13/04/19 02:58 PM
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Yes I do.
/r/askMRP13/04/19 02:53 PM
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NMMNG put things into perspective for me. Reading that book was basically a carbon copy of who I am and what I need to do. The problem was so buried under layers of drugs that I could not see it for what it was. I used to be pretty buff, productive and full of life in my younger days. Now as I enter into my 40's I look back and cringe at the life of potential that I waisted. Part of me wounders if I am too old to make changes, but what else am I going to do? I have no male friends, so I found a …
/r/askMRP13/04/19 04:04 AM
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It's not switching, I've been using it at the same time. it's just the last egg in the broken basket I have to crack.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 11:42 PM
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I posted the whole argument below if you care to read it. The history of threatening her with divorce comes from many issues. It was dumb to do that, I get it. I'm not concerned about my parenting skills since I have worked with many foster kids over the years.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 09:27 PM
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Good advice. Getting a spare set of keys should be easy and I have a safe to put my stuff in. I was thinking of getting my own bank account, but I don't want to trigger her into thinking I am getting a divorce. Even if I wanted one, the courts won't do anything until the baby is born.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 09:25 PM
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I prefer grass fed steak or pork. I don't know where dude got the vegan shit from.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 09:22 PM
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I read a post on the mrp subreddit saying that you need to double down on your game when a women is pregnant.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 09:08 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with you on that. I still have to stabilize from my last taper.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 09:06 PM
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This is the advice i was looking for. Thank you.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 09:01 PM
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Kratom is a left over crutch drug from getting off of valium and I'm not using it to get high. I only take about 3 grams per day, which is why they basically laughed me off the quitting kratom subreddit. You are right about everything else. I have no male friends and few activities that I do outside of the marriage.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 08:38 PM
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Do you really want to hear the whole SA abuse story? I can give you the gist. Yes, I was a drunk captain of a ship for many years and I do not think she does this for fun. Instead of taking care of my shit, I would go out and get drunk or high to deal with my anger and not use it as a positive motivator to change myself. I also made the mistake of running to my mother for help like a whiny little momma's boy and she brought up the fact that my father had BiPolar. I then went to go see a shrink w…
/r/askMRP12/04/19 08:35 PM
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Fair enough. Here is the history of the whole argument as i see it. It started off after I had finished working out, so I started goofing off with her singing a song that her booty stanks, cuz she farts all the time. She told me to stop or I would get it, so I said it one more time and then stopped, because I thought it was a shit test. The next day is when I made a big mistake. I sent her a text that a certain phrase in emails drives me nuts, so she started sending me it over and over again. Fi…
/r/askMRP12/04/19 08:28 PM
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Better. I was thinking more of "Sawskank Deflection".
/r/askMRP12/04/19 07:36 PM
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You know this from personal experience? If so, is the only way out to run?
/r/askMRP12/04/19 07:16 PM
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I get that. I know I have a lot of work to do and need all kinds of guidance. In retrospect, I should have looked more into the sidebar and done more reading on how to maintain frame. I let her manipulate me all these years and she sucked off my weak tendencies.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 06:16 PM
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She's not on anything, but I suspect she is borderline. You right, I stuck my dick in crazy and married it not knowing any better and let her bullshit drive my crazy, literally, hence using all the substances to cover up what I really needed to do.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 06:13 PM
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I would have made some Shawshank Redemption joke about breaking open the door myself.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:30 PM
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I see what you are gettin at here. In the 24 hours since I made this post, I stopped messing around with the dresser crap and did work around the house that has been sitting for weeks. I then picked up some projects that I had put on the back burner.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:16 PM
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You are about half right on that stuff. I do lift. Checking yourself in is for rich people with good insurance.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:12 PM
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Nope, that really happened.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:10 PM
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I suck at maintaining frame. Any links to how I can get better at that?
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:06 PM
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Amen to that.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:04 PM
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"Is she on drugs?" No "Are you high out of your gourd?" No "What kind of an adult hides a wallet or locks someone out of a room before work for no apparent reason?" My Wife "15 years married and now you decide to have kids?" Yes "None of this sounds right. Get to the real story or fuck off." See above.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:03 PM
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Lol. I can't help you with that bro.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:00 PM
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She had a history of taking my wallet, keys and locking my out of the house early on in our marriage. The locked door issue has been something she has used against me. After this whole thing went down, I came home to find my dresser pushed out of the bedroom and my cloths all over the floor. I then proceeded to put them back and move the dresser back into the bedroom. After she moved the dresser out of the room, I moved it back in and put a bunch of weights in so it would be more difficult for h…
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:30 PM
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She has a history of doing this stuff. I was a fool and married the first person I slept with and I am now stuck with a person who has daddy issues and could be a possible borderline. As far as the fun factor, I suggest things like going out more, but she has some issues trying new things. Now I am going out and having fun by myself as much as I can, but it's a work in progress.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:24 PM
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I have a feeling a married a Borderline.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:21 PM
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I do lift, or at least use the Total Gym, lol. You are right about the side bar, I need to get on that and do a better job.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:20 PM
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I've already done the 12 step revolving door and decided not to because it just turns people into victims dependent on others instead of working of self sufficiency. I switched over to SMART recovery because it focuses more on core principles. As far as the Kratom is concerned, I am just going to ween myself off of it like every other drug I have been on. I just quit MJ about three weeks ago, so that one is going to be punted until I can level off of that stuff.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:19 PM
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I got my cloths and got to work on time. The results speak for themselves.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:02 PM
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I have quit a lot of substances in the past, which has helped me gain much insight into myself. It really was NMMNG that opened my eyes to what the root causes of my addictions were.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:00 PM
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I have quit all that stuff save for the kratom. I don't see how telling my full story to you adds any value other than you calling me a faggot.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 03:59 PM
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I completely agree with learning to STFU. I was stupid and let her get under my skin from the start instead of just holding frame. I bought some home gym equipment and have been exercising at least 4 times a week for a year, so I am getting pretty cut.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 03:55 PM
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Where there is smoke there is probably fire. If she's not cheating then she is probably hiding something.
/r/askMRP02/04/19 10:43 PM
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The main question I would have is how you feel when you go out by yourself? If you are feeling very anxious you have proof that you need to do MORE of it, if even just to get over the fear of being alone. Think of it like this, you can learn to enjoy being alone right now while she is like this or be forced into it via separation or divorce.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 10:51 PM
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I found a local group on FB.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 05:26 PM
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