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LTR/MARRIAGEnoburuwataya1984/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 06:05 AM
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Oh man, I missed a chance to use Mimbo! Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 09:50 PM
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The best thing about Instagram is the nature, travel and architectural photography. Ooh, and paintings. And life drawings. Connecting with other artists directly. Instant gratification from posting photos and artwork people will actually see on a consistent basis. You find what you seek, people. There is not one ass, titty, bicep or bulge in my feed, unless you count life sketches. And then they're just totally nude, so, like, even better... The worst thing on Instagram is people posting thots t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 09:42 PM
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If this were really an "if" question, I would say things would stay pretty much the same. There are a few objective biological reasons why physical attraction exists, and if we were all structurally and visually the same, we would probably be compelled to find or create a differentiating visual aspect. We would still need to assess quickly and at distance if they are friend or foe, similar in background, interests or values, same or different gender, related, etc, regardless of egalitarian magic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:23 PM
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Just to be clear, it isn't a dating strategy at all. It's a way of coping with life and making the best out of what you have available. Any halfway intelligent woman (person) is afraid to be financially vulnerable; how they handle that is a mark of both personality type and character, both of which should be vetted when dating. That said, Type A women who are drawn to "do it themselves" and push all the way until 35-40 and the 6 figure bracket may be less willing to give anyone else enough space…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 06:18 PM
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In literature/media? My thought is novelty... An uncomplicated woman and a complicated man are two things I don't find all that often in my day to day life, and seem interesting by default. If you're talking "Pill Theory," probably just ideals for either gender. Though it's mostly anecdotal to my experience, it would seem to be hard work for a woman to remain uncomplicated and upbeat, or a man to deepen his worldview and social intelligence, and could point to someone being more well-rounded. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:40 PM
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No one wants a partner to leave, but removing the option of choice pretty much assumes no benefit (or possibility?) of being chosen. Hopelessness and misanthropy are not generally healthy positions to make choices from. But, as often as they seem to come up, specifics of mental health are more personal than a debate topic. "Does my will and control of it even matter anymore?" Insomuch as you are the one aware of your own will and control over the other "being." Brainwashed sex trafficked people …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 03:48 PM
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"Implied UNCONDITIONAL permanence," from your OP. That is the control factor, and the link to the "sex slave" mentality. By design there are no conditions that will allow them to leave you, or even react negatively to anything you do with them or to them... And you actually own them. But by the sounds of it, preferring that to an "at will" relationship is not that out of the ordinary. Heck, I didn't even say it should be illegal, quite the opposite. I just find it disturbing on a personal level.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 08:44 PM
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Why even wait for improved robot technology? I'm sure there are a few countries left where you could buy a real person right now to do the same thing. Slavery hasn't been abolished worldwide, and survival is a pretty strong motivator to seem enthusiastic. The implied need to control the actions of another person in the "sex bot relationship" is troubling. It's indicative of bad coping mechanisms, and not something I'd feel comfortable supporting. Then again, I suppose if it's only robots, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 01:55 AM
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Interesting study! I'm still left wondering who actually initiated the divorce in the studied women's cases, unless I'm not reading thoroughly enough... Also interesting: ill wives were apparently more likely to be widowed, as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 05:06 PM
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Maybe I'm just hypersensitive, but it sounds like more than that to me... Not letting someone answer their own questions, or give them an answer they don't like aren't just dating/RP faux pas.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/19 05:04 PM
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Ghost it. And make sure to lock your doors and windows...
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/19 07:03 PM
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From what I've heard (and experienced, to an extent), physical activity may help in the moment (think squats, jumping jacks, whatever) as will pursuing mindfulness, which will probably require you to "sit with your anxiety," and do literally nothing about it until it passes. You will not die, I promise ;-) . But please do find a professional to work with you on this. There is no shame in mental illness where there is a willingness and determination to address it. When you are happy & healthy the…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/19 09:52 PM
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What are the traits of a good husband and father, to you? Are there benchmarks or milestones you're working toward, or have already met?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:16 PM
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So it sounds like your motivation would be to be a good husband and father, independent of the wife you choose. That's much different than, say, being a slacker by choice your whole life, then meeting a woman and improving yourself "for her," because it's what (you think) she wants you to do. The first option is much more attractive, as it's an expression of positive character traits; but it sounds like you know that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 03:21 PM
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I'm definitely a little jaded by my own experience, but I just want to second the reassurances that this didn't sound right - especially trying to "keep" you after only a few dates... Even your body is telling you no, and a smart woman listens.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 01:31 PM
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By honest conversation I meant being honest about how you feel, the above statement included, not just arguing your case. He's stated he is hesitant because of your history together, no? It exists. Per you own admission it was not good. I know you can't change it, but any rational person could assume it's at least an indication of how things could go again, should life get stressful, right? That's pretty iffy footing, y'know? Maybe mixed signals mean he just wants to keep you open as an option. …
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/18 10:47 PM
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Probably going to be repeating better advice, but... It sounds like he's thought things through. If he's decided for whatever reason that he doesn't want to date you, I would respect that. I'm sure he doesn't want to get hurt either, and you can't force him to change his mind. It wouldn't be fair to try. Plus, I don't think you want to be with a man who has doubts about you, valid or not. If it were me (I am definitely not one to chase, mind you), I would have an honest talk with him, then let h…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/18 07:53 PM
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Ok, if you are suggesting that I need to reframe these things when talking to others, I get that. Thank you for the examples; for the most part (aside from the actual divorce), the above is true, and I really do appreciate the new take. I still do attend figure drawing sessions, etc. I know you're not supposed to dox yourself, but I do have an instagram account (or two) for my artwork & photography, if anyone's interested. The "peace with crazy" comes and goes, as she still has (negative) influe…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/18 03:31 PM
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Not diagnosed, but like you I do wonder what must be going on. I don't feel like I get the full picture from him. To be fair, many of the businesses/franchises closed down while he was working for them. But, on the other hand, he did often turn down offers to move to other locations, usually because of how they upset him in the process of being shut down.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/18 10:51 AM
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Edited to include the relevant information in the original. God, I would be tremendously screwed, even moreso than I already am, if I had been holding out for an "art career" since 2012! Nope, since my loans came due in 2013 I've been working any random decent job I could find, trading up when I could. Like follows like, I suppose.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/18 03:45 AM
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Not obese (165lbs @ 6', always aiming for the 135 I was back when I met DH), skin isn't perfect, but nothing an extra bottle of water/day doesn't help fix. Not sure about feminine/sexy, but I don't own basketball shorts or joggers, if that's the sort of thing you're talking about. OTOH, picture perfect airbrushed sexy, I am not.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/18 03:26 AM
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How?
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/18 01:52 AM
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You know, this touches on something for me... It's so refreshing to find somewhere where there is an actual, congruent example of "these are the things you want, and here's why." Honestly I don't think I've ever worked off of that premise before "in the wild." Obviously my vetting was very limited in this instance (not abusive, sense of humor, good sex, and, umm...). Sorry, just got me thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 09:01 PM
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Oh, ok. Thank you for expanding on that. Just that little bit puts the more of the big picture in perspective for me... Edit: It clicked: when I used to try to ask about his goals, I got what I thought was a disingenuous (read: infuriating) mix of "keep you happy" type statements - now I see he may have actually been honest there, lol. Lightbulb!
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 08:13 PM
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I do get most of that. Thanks for the feedback. I'm well aware he won't be the one to leave. I've actually attempted breakups a few times, after which he tends to follow me around making a scene until I cave, or get the cops to follow me. I know that part is not right, but I also don't want to be the bad guy in that immediate situation, so I just try to forget about it. I'd also never really had in person "breakups" before him, or really any LTR's. Maybe that means I'm screwed here. If I do leav…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 07:42 PM
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I... Do? I've been working in IT for a small company for the past 4 years, to pay our shared bills, not art. Guess I should have included that in the TL;DR as well? Never started out with a mind to be SAHW/M, but the rest of the post also describes that issue, too. You sure you're responding to the right post?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 07:32 PM
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All great points, though the first part is obviously easier said than done ATM. Thinking about a plan definitely makes me feel a little better. Thank you. I do worry about the true nature of me wanting a family, as well, and you nailed the FOO angle there...
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 04:59 PM
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Just wanted to say thank you for looking at things so carefully. Gives me more to think about.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 04:45 PM
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The short of your last question (and other people's similar questions) is that I did not want to bash him. I know, I see that he is not a success story, like at all, but neither am I and I didn't want to give the wrong impression. I don't feel like I have an objective frame of reference to make that judgement. Re: age/looks, I guess I do still get carded sometimes. Not really fat, but not where I want to be after 4 years of a sedentary office job (165 @ 6' - I do still work out off and on). It s…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 12:34 PM
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