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A lot of people don't respond right away when texting. It really depends for me on where I am, the person I am texting, the text itself and my mood at the moment. I could be talking to a girl im really into and having a good conversation, but I might not have the time to respond, just enough time to read it. Or I might just not feel like texting at that moment, cause if I send one right away and then she might send one right back and then I should probably send another one, I just might not feel…
/r/seduction20/07/17 06:25 PM
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So i went through a pretty similar thing. I decided to get braces when I 25 and I got them off a couple months after turning 27. One of the best decisions I have made. I smile more, I don't cover my mouth so people wouldn't see my teeth anymore. It had helped a lot, especially with my confidence. Also I did have sex with a couple girls when I had my braces so it isn't as much of a deal breaker as you would think. I wouldn't give up on pickup, it's not going to hurt to approach, and if you build …
/r/seduction13/07/17 09:12 PM
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No Craigslist is very sketchy, no judgement there. Well tell me about yourself, what are you some things you like to do and what are you passionate about. Other than height and income, why do you think you have trouble with women. What do you think you do right and what do you think you do wrong. Also I would never suggest someone get a dog just to pick up women, they are a big obligation. You should only get one if you are prepared and really think you would enjoy the company of having a dog. T…
/r/seduction23/06/17 12:50 PM
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Shit, Im really bad about doing this sometimes. So many missed opportunities are flashing before my eyes. Great advice!
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:42 PM
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Online dating? What a great idea. 5'9" and not listing my income, for a good reason. Yep, that will work. Whoa now, I'm 5'9" probably closer to 5'8.5" , 30 and up until very recently I was a student so I had absolutely no income and I have done pretty well with online dating. You just need to have a couple decent pictures that aren't bathroom selfies, a funny or interesting bio section. And when you match, don't just say hey.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:23 AM
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I agree with the other people that gym opening is for the most part a no go. Unless you catch her watching you a couple times, I would just let it go. However if you have to absolutely do it, there is a couple ways you can try. If y'all are working out close to each other, you can always try to get a spot. If she is working on an unique piece of equipment or doing a not so common workout, you can try to ask her about it. But don't interrupt mid workout. Or if the gym is packed you can always ask…
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:08 AM
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What about being sexual do you think is giving you anxiety?
/r/seduction20/06/17 10:11 PM
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Have you considered trying therapy for anxiety? I hear really good things about CBT, in fact im probably start going myself once I move in a couple weeks. I also get pretty bad anxiety at times, although I will say it is way better now than before. For the first 2 years I had tinder, I never sent a single message, I thought the girl was going to think I was weird or I was bothering her. I mean how stupid is that, the girl swiped right, she was clearly interested. So I made myself send a message …
/r/seduction20/06/17 02:20 PM
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So if you have nothing to lose and are going to end up "empty handed" anyways might as well go out swinging.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:19 AM
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To build off of the other guys comment, there is a Ted Talk called "The Skill of Self-confidence" by Dr. Ivan Joseph that I like to listen to when I start to think I can't make it or I won't ever get or be the man i want to be. They only way to get better at something is through persistence, reptition and belief that you can do it.
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:25 PM
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Yea a big part of the battle is knowing where to look for a lot of these hobbies. I recently found out that a bar near me does a weekly dog night. Where people bring in their pups and hangout. I had no clue this was a thing and only found out when I was looking on their website for something else. I went last week and it was fun. CrossFit is good for being social and working out. I have a couple friends that do it and their gym has events all the time, and they have met some cool people through …
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:26 PM
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Are there any hobbies that you have or are interested in trying out that might have a good amount of females doing it? There is a brewery near my house that a run club does a meet up at every Wednesday. They start out at the brewery, run some route and end back at the brewery for beers. I knew it was something that happened at this brewery but I never thought too much about it. I happened to go there last week when they were getting back and I was blown away by the amount of young people who wer…
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:41 PM
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Great advice. Something that I have came to realize, only a little too late is I have a lot of trouble with being too needy and over-invested too soon. I did know I was doing it, but I didn't realize how easy it is for women to pick up on and how much of a turn off it can be.
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:20 PM
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First of all, never judge how good looking or ugly you are based off of how many tinder matches you got. Tinder is its only little world, and so much of it depends on what your pictures convey and not you physical attractiveness. You could be a really good looking mother fucker, but if all of your pictures are selfies, then you wont get a lot of matches. I know plenty of average looking or below average looking guys who kill on Tinder because of quality of pictures. Second it sounds like you suf…
/r/seduction17/06/17 03:05 AM
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I wouldn't wait it out and leave the girl to decide. If you have had a couple dates with a girl, there is a good chance she has already thought about and probably wants to or at the very least considered having sex with you. She expects you to lead her to sex The thing is you have to be confident about your intentions and you have to show that you are okay and confident with being turned down. If you are out with a girl and decide to ask if she wants to come back to your place and she turns you …
/r/seduction15/06/17 10:15 PM
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This has been a problem of mine for almost all of my adult life and I had honestly been waiting around for it fix itself. But unfortunately life rarely works that way. So as /u/Kenic_In_MD suggests find some activities you enjoy, especially ones that get you outside and at the very least out of your house and start doing those. Also something I like to do every morning is when I wake up I do pushups and situps and then I take my dog on a 20-30 minute walk. Don't have dog, then just go for a run …
/r/seduction13/06/17 10:02 AM
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