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1	Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them? Interesting. As a man who reaches most of what you listed, ex: 5'11, more or less fit, job with okay money. Your biggest problem is going to be what you find as common values. The thing is, many women like you want a man who fits a certain box looks wise but has a progressive as you put it egalitarian view on relationships. This is actually one of the reasons I don't date outside of my race (hispanic) anymore. I find that especially white women tend to have a very feminist, progressive view on r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 03:03 PM
1	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? I mean with such a large age gap I start to wonder what they could possibly have in common. At that point it becomes purely transactional from a monetary/sexual point of view. The man has money and the woman basically gives herself over for access to those resources. Now all relationships are transactional to some extent, perhaps it's because the old rich guy anf the sugar baby thing is so open in its nature perhaps people percieve it as crude? Not saying I do necessarily just an observation. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 07:52 PM
1	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? I think there should be a distinction here. What kind of age gap are we talking? I think a few years is normal, though as time goes it does seem a bit weird if say a man who was 50 was with a woman who is 25. I'm not quite that old yet (early 30s) but I won't be dating women my age or older. And contrary to how they make it about physical appearance it really isn't, at least for me. For me it's a matter that as I get older and am dating my age, I'm finding that the women are increasingly more an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 02:53 PM
2	How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end? I agree and the distinction is an important one. When you're life is going to shit, a negative inner feeling is warranted. With that said I think we are also have a mental health problem. A bit personal, but a few months back I had a weird experience, an epiphany if you will. I realized that I feel empty because there's something wrong not because of my situation necessarily. I was at dinner with the girl I was dating, great food, just had sex, good job, best shape I've been in and truth be told…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/24 04:58 PM
3	How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end? I'm gonna be honest while height is something women tend to like, so much of the manosphere get caught up in this beleif that if they aren't 6'3 they're never gonna get a girlfriend. It seems so long as your about 5'10 maybe even 5'9 it really isn't that big of a factor compared to how handsome you are or how good of physical shape you're in. I will caveat that with saying men under say 5'10 do really have it harder and the shorter the harder in the dating market.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/24 04:51 PM
2	How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end? I think social media while indicative of the culture to some extent also isn't real life. People say all sorts of hyperbolic statements that realistically they don't hold to. I've seen women and men who say I expect xyz physical trait but then meet someone who the like and go with them. Even myself, I am not attracted to hispanic women of a darker complexion even though I'm Hispanic yet that's the kind of woman I last dated. I'm not attracted to curly hair yet again last girl I dated had that fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/24 04:47 PM
0	Lets redo this bear vs man thing. "Ravenously hungry Polar bear with a history of killing people" VS "Jacked up 6 foot 6 350lbs Prisoner serving a life sentence for raping and murdering several women" Hate to be the bad news guy but you do not want to be eaten by a bear. They eat you ass first, will eat your hamstrings like jerky and maybe comeback while you're still alive. Big cats go for the neck/skull so the pain is over relatively quick. All this to say no a bear is a harsh way to go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 08:07 PM
1	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? I think sex is an obligation man or woman but all that goes within reasonable limits. If they are sick or some kind of other thing that makes them stressed or particularly not in the mood that be reasonable. However, I have to say speaking for myself I viewed it as my duty because there have been times where a woman I was dating wanted to go for round 2 or 3 and I honestly didn't want to but forced myself. I didn't really enjoy it physically but the part where I was making her happy made it wort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 07:24 PM
1	Is there a hill that you would die on when it comes to standards for a relationship? I dont personally have a problem with someone who has done casual sex because I have and I didn't find it fulfilling it was more to fill a void. The problem I've found is that in my experience every woman who I entertained a relationship or potential relationship with who had done the casual thing ended up being a promiscuous cheater. Correlation or causation I have no clue. All I know is I won't be entertaining relationships with those types of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/24 03:19 PM
–	Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating? No I agree with you. I just don't really put myself around people who are that bitter or go to forums where that kind of talk is the norm. I've said red pill is kinda like feminism for men. Like taking an adversarial take upon the opposite gender when we need each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 08:33 PM
–	Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating? I mean yeah wanting someone's downfall is unhealthy but recklessness in dating has its consequences. Through my own mistakes I have gotten someone pregnant and now recently my first std. That's reality, like when you're irresponsible, promiscuous and generally reckless that has its repercussions man or woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 04:35 PM
1	Rationalizing a pump and dump Question because I recently went through like a reverse of this. Why would a woman show tons of interest, start having sex regularly and often then downgrade and try to keep me in a friend's with benefits box? Just to see what else is out there? Perhaps like the OP said I accidentally over shared certain things that were off putting and that's why I went from the potential partner bin to the just for sex bin?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 02:53 PM
2	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? I wouldnt call it rape but perhaps assault. And I'm not even worried about me necessarily but I'd be horrified to pass this to someone I care about or meet in the future. That whole experience was terrible I went from caring about her so much to now I can't stand the sight of her and we still work in the same office.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 07:23 PM
2	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? Not even close to getting out unscathed. She intentionally gave me with hpv, like told me to take my condoms off that we didnt need them .This is why I disagree with the Red pill idea of screw as fast as possible. I slept with her on the first date and thereon no protection look at me now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 09:59 PM
1	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? I only noticed because at a certain point at the bar that card was declined yet worked for our uber.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 09:13 PM
3	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? I know I was blown away by the lack of foresight she had for her finances. Like she works 2 jobs, has that much debt yet regularly takes trips to different states and countries. I thought it was odd on our first date she kept trying to pay with her credit card rather than a regular debit. But again, word of experience this is often an indicator of other areas in their life. I came to find she is a very reckless person and those people hurt those around them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 05:47 PM
0	All the kerfuffle about "older men with younger women" overlooks what is possibly the biggest reason why it happens: Younger women often aren't looking for relationships. Yes but 59 is and I mean no insult nearly senior citizen. Hardly a comparison to saying a 30 year old man is more attractive than a 19 year old. All im saying is we all get old, so there is a window where men at an older age are more desirable but that too ends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 04:47 PM
2	All the kerfuffle about "older men with younger women" overlooks what is possibly the biggest reason why it happens: Younger women often aren't looking for relationships. I'm going to break from what Red Pill says. While as an early 30s man I do prefer younger women, it really isn't due to the physical for the most part. As I get older I'm sure that will more so play into it but primarily because I've noticed that older women or rather women my age, tend to be incredibly jaded and difficult. They are hung up on the past, have had so many bad experiences they drag into the new relationship, and just generally have this weird vibe when trying to be in a relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 03:43 PM
1	All the kerfuffle about "older men with younger women" overlooks what is possibly the biggest reason why it happens: Younger women often aren't looking for relationships. I disagree with the original statement your quoting but also with you. The fact you didn't endeavor to retain or improve whether physically or otherwise isn't a universal thing although it's very common. It's funny almost everyone I went to high-school and college with got fat at my age (early 30s) and I'm in the best shape or among it I've ever been. And the sheer number of partners isn't a good bench mark for how valuable you are, as 2019 was my 'hoe phase' and it brought me nothing but troubl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 03:39 PM
10	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? This is a big one for me. The last girl I dated it should have been a red flag how she valued material possessions yet didn't have the discipline to earn them so was heavily in debt. We're talking close to 100k in credit card debt financing a new car and going on vacations. Basically among many other problems between us this one made me uneasy when considering her for something like marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 03:28 PM