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| 71 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy. | RELATIONSHIPS | nocreativity729 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 07:34 PM |
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| 1 | depressed about aging, wasted my "prime"Two words: FACE YOGA. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/23 11:53 PM |
| 6 | Birthday helpInvite his friends over. Bake the damn cake. let them all rave over it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | why is the man supposed to or meant to "take" the woman? Why is taking what you part, part of masculinity?Lol… women are the ones who have the final word. Men are the ones who pursue. If she likes you, great. If she doesn’t, you gotta spread your wings on to the next woman. Any man thinking a woman is waiting around for him is pursuing a low caliber woman. It’s as simple as that. In nature, are some women picking the firefly putting in low effort? Of course. Some are lower caliber than other women. To suggest that nature is not ingrained in us the same way as all other animals in the kingdom is simp… | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 02:36 PM |
| 11 | why is the man supposed to or meant to "take" the woman? Why is taking what you part, part of masculinity?It’s not old school or outdated. It’s in our biology. It’s nature. It’s not just a human concept. Males get to have all the cool features and colors and calls in an effort to attract women. Did you know you almost never see a female firefly? It’s true. They rest on the grass. While the men fly around, flashing their lights. Women only ever flash or move in response to an impressive mate. I don’t necessarily even think men are doing any of the choosing… it’s women. Men put on their best show for … | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 10:55 PM |
| 5 | I feel so behind in comparison to the other girls my ageThe honeymoon phase doesn’t have to pass when you’re in love with a good match. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It’s with every male in the animal kingdom. You either impress the girl or she doesn’t like you and picks someone else. If you’d like to pick your woman instead, then just be extremely appealing and woo several girls. Problem solved. That’s our nature. I think men who decide they can’t stand the heat are referred to as… beta? | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 10:00 PM |
| 5 | How do I find a good partner/relationship? I don't want to date down like my mother and my sister. (21F)Okay so I know you think it’s a good thing that you don’t have a strong personality and prioritize pleasing others…. HOWEVER people pleasing is the worst thing you can be with you’re trying to find a high value man. Secondly, being strong doesn’t mean being abrasive. You can be a strong and confident woman without being masculine. Ideally, you will stop people pleasing and set boundaries for yourself. You won’t end up with anyone abusive if you do that. Secondly, if you are too shy and not confi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/21 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Starting new relationship. How do I not mess this up with an anxious attachment?Read the book why men love bitches. Turned my dating life around. Written for women. It’s great. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 3 | I’m unhappy with my hardworking boyfriendEven him saying that is a depressive symptom called “confabulation” , where you say things about yourself that may not even necessarily be true because you are losing grip from reality, often accompanied by a sense of hopelessness. Depression is an illness. Please, do some research. You sound extremely unreasonable about this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/21 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Should I be ashamed of losing weight and looking nicer if it isn’t for myself?I mean you shouldn’t be ashamed, but it’s definitely an insecure thing to do. Particularly when you’ve already been obese the stats show that you’re likely to gain weight back—especially once you feel secure and you’ve got the guy. If you don’t do it for yourself, it’s not going to stay off. You’re better off finding a HVM who likes a thick girl. They do exist. A high value woman wouldn’t lose weight for a man; they’d find a great guy who wanted them already | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/21 12:17 AM |
| 5 | I’m unhappy with my hardworking boyfriendIt’s clear from this that you don’t understand depression. Do a bit of research on how to support someone who is struggling. If it’s too much for you to handle, I suggest you cut him loose. Because his healing will drive you crazy. Love is rarely a straight path forward. If you thought it would be easy, you’re not ready for marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/21 12:14 AM |
| 3 | I’m unhappy with my hardworking boyfriendThis post sounds all about you you you. When I read it I was like… poor man. He needs empathy and help coping with his struggles. Not a woman wanting to flee because the perfect man doesn’t exist and she’s surprised by it. Sounds a little immature to me… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Do girls like seeing guys naked like guys do?Not just any random guy, but I like watching my boyfriend remove his clothes. | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 04:42 AM |
| 39 | Where can I learn what not to wear now im 30?Follow people who’s style you admire on Instagram or YouTube. They even have professional stylists who share tips. Buy magazines and pay attention to what the women wear and copy that. I think you know what things aren’t ages appropriate, so just don’t wear them. It’s not like you’re coming from a place of not understanding. I don’t think anything about people who lack maturity in their style. I notice people with excellent style and I notice people who have no idea what they’re doing. Anything … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How to not commit to girls? Or make them think you commit?They call it “benching” where I’m from. | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How to not commit to girls? Or make them think you commit?That only works for insecure women. So... try sticking to those. Otherwise, date women who honestly aren’t looking for anything serious. You can’t keep any woman worthwhile around with deception. | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 07:43 PM |
| 4 | When does being in a bad mood cross the line into taking it out on someone?Him getting upset about being told his wrong is not maki things worse. It’s human nature for some people to act out when they get told. They feel vulnerable and seen... it’s childish behavior... but he is who he is at this point. Like I said, my tolerance is 0, but if you love him, you can work through this with open and honest conversation. And you have got to get comfortable standing up for feelings, or the conversations will not be helpful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 05:01 PM |
| 6 | When does being in a bad mood cross the line into taking it out on someone?You didn’t make things worse by sticking up for yourself. You made him feel butthurt. You showed him he’s the one who’s in the wrong. This is a good thing. People need to be told when they are wrong. It doesn’t always feel good, but it keeps you safe and helps them learn to do better. I don’t see how this made things “worse”. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 04:50 PM |
| 8 | When does being in a bad mood cross the line into taking it out on someone?I have 0 tolerance for that, but everyone’s tolerance level is different. I could not be in a relationship with someone moody. It would not work for me. You know your limits, and you’re perfectly right to speak up about what they are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I am only attracted to the top 10% (looks-wise) guys, while being rather average-looking myself, Is there any way to work around it?Top tier men in looks doesn’t mean top tier men in general. And everyone has different taste, like you said. I just don’t believe I agree. I’ve seen beautiful women with not so beautiful men and vice versa all the time. It’s your confidence and what you bring to the table. As long as you are average looks or better, it shouldn’t be holding you back in the dating game. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 0 | I am only attracted to the top 10% (looks-wise) guys, while being rather average-looking myself, Is there any way to work around it?She said does maintain her appearance. Therefore, she shouldn’t have any issues if she is confident in herself. It doesn’t sound like she is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 04:15 PM |
| -7 | I am only attracted to the top 10% (looks-wise) guys, while being rather average-looking myself, Is there any way to work around it?There’s no such thing as leagues. You’re just insecure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 02:55 PM |
| 7 | How do you girls respond to your man drooling over another woman in front of you?It’s disrespectful. I’ve definitely seen my boyfriend looking (totally normal) but commenting??? He’d be gone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | What does RPW think of my mom's advice?I agree, that people want more money and things like that. But when it comes to your partner, I don’t think those feelings are supposed to come up. I know my boyfriend is probably smarter, kinder, and treats me better than some guy who just has more money. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What does RPW think of my mom's advice?Ahh. I see. I think that can be old school. Especially for women who work and have money. It’s okay to show your appreciation for your man in that way | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/20 07:21 PM |
| -1 | What does RPW think of my mom's advice?If other people’s relationships make you question your own, it’s probably not the right one for you. Point blank. The right guy for you will be a dream to spend time with, whether in a 5 star hotel or a 2 star motel. Doesn’t matter. If you don’t feel that way, keep looking. I agree with your mother. We never split. He pays, or I pay. But we NEVER. Ever split. I tend to buy things like coffee. Or lunch. And he picks up the bigger ticket items. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | How do I(22M) let her know I would like to take her on a date / I like her , without giving away all power ?You don’t lose power by asking her on a date. You lose power by getting excited about the outcome too soon. | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | I’m worried that my earning potential/ambitious career is too ‘masculine’ and off-putting to men?We are talking about choosing... not everyone’s choices will and should be the same. That’s the last thing I’ll say about this. You have shown that you are unwilling to see beyond your own perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 0 | I’m worried that my earning potential/ambitious career is too ‘masculine’ and off-putting to men?LMAO. It’s 2020. And women have choices. Not everyone is suited to be a housewife. Not everyone is suited to be an executive. Not everyone is suited to be in the middle of that spectrum either. Surprise !! Your perception of what is possible is shaped by your narrow experiences. Open your mind to different ways of living. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | I’m worried that my earning potential/ambitious career is too ‘masculine’ and off-putting to men?I’m being supportive of OP and everyone else isn’t. I literally said you can do what you want to do. No one is telling you to push yourself past your limits. I’m just saying, everyone’s limits are different. Don’t tell op what she’s capable of doing, because you don’t know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/20 06:42 PM |
| 0 | I’m worried that my earning potential/ambitious career is too ‘masculine’ and off-putting to men?Idk if you know people in finance, but. That’s literally impossible. She is an only child though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/20 06:16 PM |
| 3 | How do I withhold sex without offending the guy?Just be honest and say you don’t have sex with anyone outside the context of a committed relationship. Then you’re not withholding anything. He has the opportunity to commit if he wants to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | I’m worried that my earning potential/ambitious career is too ‘masculine’ and off-putting to men?My mom didn’t do it, but I certainly have friends mothers who did. Friends mom is a professor at a prestigious school who married a successful financier . Friend came out well raised by her mother. ^ not impossible, and that’s just 1 example close to home. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | I’m worried that my earning potential/ambitious career is too ‘masculine’ and off-putting to men?It’s not... no one said women are machines. I explicitly said not everyone has to do it all, but you can if you want to. That’s the opposite of machine. You have free will. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | I (32F) moved in with my boyfriend (44M) with the understanding that we would get engaged shortly after. He’s now decided he no longer wants to get married. Do not move in with someone before there’s a ring on your finger.Y’all. I don’t understand why you keep doing this... my moms been telling me this since I was literally 5 years old. And yet women keep moving in begging for a ring. Just stop. It’s insanity. Good for you OP, lesson learned!! Keep your head up. Go back to what you used to do, and life will work itself out. This happened to my sister. She ended up going to grad school. Life keeps moving. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else grinning and bearing through a career while hoping to be a homemaker one dayI’m not grinning and bearing it... I like my work, but I do plan to sit on my money and retire to raise my kids well in my mid 30s. I’ve always had that plan tho. No job is more fun than freedom, and I earn enough that it really doesn’t matter what he’s making by that time. Save. Your. Money. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 0 | I’m worried that my earning potential/ambitious career is too ‘masculine’ and off-putting to men?I repeat: you CAN do it all... period. Some people are just more capable than others. That’s life. Some people burn out, others adapt and overcome life’s challenges. If she wants to do it and believes she can do it, then let her do it. You don’t have to. Being a woman has never been easy. Men make excuses for themselves... we do not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Need advice on talking to my bf who doesn't believe in marriageOOOOH CHILD. That’s a red flag if I’ve ever seen one. You cannot make someone want to marry you. Period. That’s a reason to break up. And if he changes his mind, let him run back after you. You can forgive him with an open heart. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | I’m worried that my earning potential/ambitious career is too ‘masculine’ and off-putting to men?A career is not a turn off. All the women saying you can’t do it all, are just jealous that they can’t. You can have a career, be a mom, be a wife... you can do it. Don’t let it hold you back. The reason it holds women back is because they feel like they need to act like a dude to get ahead in their jobs. It’s not true. Be a WOMAN in the workplace. It’s okay. It’s not a bad thing. Be a woman always. It’s okay. It’s not a flaw. Paint your nails. Curl your hair. Wear a dress. Fuck a blazer. be you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill backfired?Being feminine does not equate to being a doormat. Wear the dresses if you like them. That’s still feminine. Spend time with your girlfriends sometimes... last time I checked, that’s a very feminine thing to do. Next time you do something, ask yourself if you’re being a doormat, or a feminine wife. They are not the same thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Are women capable of loving men?Those chemical reactions are VERY VERY real. They fuel our lives. If you’ve ever been clinically depressed, like diagnosed by a doctor, requiring medical attention, then you know just how real and critical to life these chemical reactions are. I disagree with your friend entirely. The best way to communicate in this sort of discussion is to provide a counter example. Do you have a female friend with a high paying job who could fully support herself, yet chooses to be with her husband? What’s all… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/20 02:44 PM |
| 2 | I don’t care about a mans financial stability or security,job status at all is that strange?Not strange. Passion is sexy, and not everyone is passionate about money and a boring desk job. You’re not interested in losers, you’re interested in artists. Not weird at all, but definitely make sure you’re able to support yourself if you’re interested in these types of men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you come to terms with men's' lack of mental monogamy?Your partners behavior is a serious problem. BUT not all men are like that. My boyfriend told me to my face that he can’t imagine having sex with anyone else and that it would be gross to him. Men who can fully commit are out there... this may not be the best fit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | What is you guys thoughts on prenup marriages? As a way for a man to make sure your their for him and not his resources, and that if you do get a divorce protecting his interest.It’s not just for men, and it’s a really smart financial decision to make if you have a lot of assets. Period. It’s not about you, or him. It’s about numbers. 50% of marriages end in divorce, and you and your marriage are not above statistics. I’m sorry. This is just the truth. Soooo if you or your partner have a lot of assets, please see it for what it is. If youuuu have a lot of assets, do not be stupid. Create a document that expresses where and how your assets will be distributed. Protect yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the stigma of coming from a Dysfunctional Family?If you feel broken, seek therapy. But whatever your father did is not a part of you and it’s not your fault nor is it your problem | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Birth control?Again... Alright let’s go with your logic... that’s literally not abortion. That’s preventing conception. You have to conceive to abort. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Birth control?it prevents. Ovulation. Which needs to happen for implantation to happen. It’s not an abortion... preventing implantation is also not an abortion. Nothing is being aborted if implantation doesn’t happen, and certainly nothing is being aborted if ovulation doesn’t happen. Regular woman who aren’t on birth control usually have a few anovulatory cycles a year anyway. Like I said before. Please, educate yourself. Ask your gynecologist if you have to. But let’s go with your logic: condoms prevent imp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How to become more secure and confident in a relationship?No. When I finally got into a healthy relationship I was like hell yes , finally. But do remember it takes 2 people to make a healthy relationship. Your thought patterns need to be healthy as well... | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Birth control?Hormonal birth control does not cause abortion. Hormonal birth control prevents ovulation, which means you do not get pregnant in the first place (if you use it correctly). This is just science. My thoughts are, educate yourselves on how birth control and conception works. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with the stigma of coming from a Dysfunctional Family?I’ve literally never had an issue with this. Anyone who feels this way, why would you want to date them? A person is their own individual. If someone is judging you for what you’re father did, and you’re a good person, honestly, it’s their loss. Definitely not yours. My dad left when I was 12. Never paid any child support or anything. Now he lives with some new woman in the Virgin Islands. No man I’ve dated has ever cared, and I’m currently in a serious relationship. It’s not about my dad. It’s … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/20 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Looks or money?Looks are more important than money to me. What can I say? I was raised by a single mom with nothing, so of course I pushed myself to be able to provide for myself if necessary. However, I can’t compromise on physical attraction. That just won’t work. I’m definitely happy to work with a man with a low paying job so long as he has ambitions, loves what he does, and invests what he can into the relationship. Like I can’t really fault a man who aspires to be a writer. Sure it’s not a lot of money, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | What do you prefer?Oh wow. Where’s the tall option? At the very least, tall with no muscles. 😂😂😂 I’m 5’8”. Fortunately, my boyfriend is 6’4” | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 4 | Advice on how to connect deeper with someone?talk to a friend who manages to connect deeply with you. Notice their conversational patterns. Copy those with other people. You learn how to be a good conversationalist through having good conversations. Practice !! | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 05:46 AM |
| 1 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.Yes this is so important. Still very young so not worried yet. If it doesn’t work out with this guy though..... panic mode! 😂😂😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/20 06:52 PM |
| 2 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.you can still move out when you are engaged. I am not waiting until marriage, I plan to wait until the engagement | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/20 06:36 PM |
| 2 | PornHonestly I don’t really care. Does my boyfriend watch porn? Yes. If anything, I’m happy he respects me enough to not just call and say “you up” whenever he feels horny. Now if it’s some every day, takes breaks during the work day, watches porn instead of having sex with me when I am available.... that’s an issue. But porn itself is not a problem | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.I would enter a legal domestic partnership anyway, if you are against marriage. Otherwise, you’re still “at risk” so to speak. But again, not everyone perceives it to be a risk | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.Yeah. This does not describe my friend circle, unfortunately. We notoriously interested in learning from other perspectives and take pride in supporting our own arguments. I believe this is the product of attending an Ivy League university. They’re my roommates. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.No it does not. Well... nice to meet you! Lots of other commenters in this thread with this view as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/20 11:29 AM |
| 3 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.So then how do we explain men who live with a woman for years and never marry her? At least if he’s going to be that way, it’s easier to move on if we are not living together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 5 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.Thank you. This is great insight! haha my boyfriend puts ALL the condiments in the fridge. I don’t put any... ketchup should be room temperature. Sorry. Lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 08:56 PM |
| 8 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.Thank you. This is my perspective but I have a hard time explaining it in this way to my friends | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 08:54 PM |
| 0 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.Lol giving your son and daughter the same advice I see. 😂😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 3 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.Wow, how was the conversation discussing this with him? Or was he on the same page from the start? Thank you. Were there any unexpected things that came up in the relationship shortly after moving in? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 08:51 PM |
| 5 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.Oh wow, I am going to watch these after work. Sounds very interesting! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 08:50 PM |
| 22 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.Thank you, this is helpful. I cannot imagine only cooking and cleaning for myself with a romantic partner. Lol that would be like a college roommate for me. I do worry my boyfriend will take issue with my feelings on this by the time he wants to move in together, but I guess we’ll have to cross that bridge when we get to it. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I don’t believe in living together until being engaged. My friends think I’m crazy.I don’t think I would pay a rent by myself for someone else to live in the space. Lol. But yes, I do see the perspective of testing out before the engagement, but I always thought engagement IS a test for marriage! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 08:06 PM |
| 31 | My new boyfriend told me that my breasts sag and I got REALLY upsetTrust me. Men find all sorts of people attractive. And there’s no such thing as leagues or anything like that. If you believe you are sexy and act like it, many men will believe it too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I’m so confused by the whole ‘who pays for the date thing’...in my observation masculine men get really turned off when I pay?I let him pay for the first couple of dates and then I’m down to take turns. Not keeping track, but just, paying when it feels right. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 07:20 PM |
| 44 | My new boyfriend told me that my breasts sag and I got REALLY upsetYou already know he doesn’t like your boob. You can proceed in a relationship where he pretends like he thinks they’re attractive.... but I feel like you deserve better. The bare minimum is a dude who finds you completely attractive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 07:18 PM |
| 10 | I try to look at life from a RP perspective and I find that ... men do not lead relationshipsYep. We have the power. My man says being with me makes him feel stronger and more capable. Not because I’m weak, but because I push him to do so much stuff he’d otherwise be way too lazy to do. Just recently: I dm him job applications I know he’d be amazing at, because he hates his, and now he has some incredible interviews lined up. He was content being sad and working his boring job. I knew he could do way better. I made comments about how nice his chest was looking after he went to the gym o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Do you wear low cut tops at all? I don't mean seriously plunging tops but tops that show the top part of the cleavage for example.What top part of cleavage? What is cleavage? 😂😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Budgeting for groceries?I plan meals ahead only if I will be cooking for someone else. Otherwise I buy the foods I know I enjoy as they go on sale, along with daily staples. I do not set a grocery budget—I just buy the amount of food that feels right each week, it’s usually around 80 bucks or so it feels like. I am careful about trying to get deals though. I don’t mind spending whatever, but I don’t overpay first the items. I save the most on groceries by using Instacart. I can compare prices at all the stores and orde… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Advice for husbands who are uncomfortable with period sex...If he doesn’t like it, he doesn’t like it. There’s literally nothing you can do. Maybe just have it after a shower or swim on a light day. My boyfriend enjoys it on a light day. It’s a bit extra wet! On heavy days, neither of us like the idea. Ick | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 01:20 AM |
| 3 | What do you do when you realize that you are a Femcel?Focus on being good at stuff. No one cares what you look like when you have real life skill sets that matter. Learn to cook. It’s easy to do at home during a pandemic. If you’re young, do well in school. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/20 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Does this man exist or am I just looking for a unicorn?Oh... these men don’t live in scenic places—they live in cities. I was thinking Boston, dc, nyc. If you’re not a city person, it will be much more difficult. These are liberal places, with educated men with high earning jobs, and no strong religious backgrounds. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/20 11:01 AM |
| 4 | Does this man exist or am I just looking for a unicorn?I suggest you get your degree and move to the north east for work. You won’t have any difficulties at all finding a partner. Although the not feminist part may be the only one that is a bit more difficult. Besides, if you are technical, it’s not likely you’ll meet a man providing much more income than you anyway. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/20 10:57 AM |
| 3 | To the women who love sweat pantsCarbon38 has the most gorgeous loungewear. Love it so much. so so so cute. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/20 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend with no jobDoes his family have money? If so... I mean if you love him, you do you. I couldn’t begin to understand loving a man with no work ethic... but that’s fine. If there’s no family money, I just don’t see how you’re going to survive though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to stay looking put together without makeup?Don’t use skin make up. Use mascara, lip stick, and style your brows. Purchase brands with natural ingredients that are safe for sensitive skin and eyes. I struggle with a lot of lip products, but have had luck with glossier and pat McGrath glosses. For eyes, liner is hard, but the ilia mascara is great. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/20 05:07 AM |
| 5 | What’s a really simple thing a girl can do to automatically look/feel more feminine?Glossy lips. So easy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/20 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Signs in a relationship that you dont respect eachother and at what point should you move on?If either person treats the other one badly repeatedly and the relationship is still going on... someone doesn’t respect themselves. And if you don’t respect yourself, I guarantee you your partner doesn’t respect you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/20 09:01 PM |
| 14 | Why is attraction sometimes so self-destructive?Yes. It is evidence of needing to work on self love. Think of it this way. The 2nd man plays games with your heart and rubs other women in your face. If you loved yourself enough, you’d be disgusted by that. With the first dude, he isn’t as exciting, but if you had your own exciting life and he were just the cherry on top, you’d ADORE his kindness and interest in your intellect. If you loved yourself even moreeee, you even grow to EXPECT that type of behavior from the men you date. Anyways. That… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/20 05:53 PM |
| 3 | I gave him an ultimatumThis is a win for u. A dodger bullet. Good on you for upholding your standards. He chose a Ho. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 3 | How to bring up the ‘no sex before commitment’ to a guy during early dating and not scare him away?Don’t bring it up. Just don’t have sex. Bring it up if he asks about it. Otherwise just don’t do it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Why can’t I accept myself as I am is an excuse to be complacent in life. Let’s say your doing badly in a class. You don’t just say. Okay let me accept these bad grades; You step up your game! You should be aiming to do that in all aspects of your life for your own well being. Like... drive and determination are attractive. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Can you still attract and connect with women without having a personality?So. Can you connect with a woman without a personality? No. Absolutely not. Do women date and fall in love with men they never connect with on a deeper level? Definitely, yes. So in conclusion, you can attract them, but you can’t really connect with them. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 03:55 AM |
| 14 | Two questions: too feminine for workplace and too masculine for menI mean when you first start dating and a guy is trying to be cute and helpful, then sure. It’s not “a thing” necessarily, but I think most decent men have a way of trying to show you that they want to take care of you in some way or another. That was one of his things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/20 03:43 AM |
| 27 | Two questions: too feminine for workplace and too masculine for menWho cares if they think you’re coming onto him. Do the job that you love. Don’t let them infringe upon your existence as a female who does great work. If you would feel better, get some beautiful neutral toned clothing. Doesn’t need to be black and grey. You could do some creams and taupes in the mix. Be a successful feminine queen. You will need to find a man as talented if not more talented than you in the work place. You are not too masculine for a really masculine man. However, you will need… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Any advice appreciatedHe’s paying for the home and bills and you’re complaining about the living conditions. You didn’t say anything about him complaining about the groceries you bring home or your cleaning habits... That tells me the issues seem to be very much one sided. Furthermore, you’ve expressed your point of view more than once to him. Get out of there and be serious about it. If he loves you, he’ll follow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/20 11:09 PM |
| 16 | Can I still be RPW?Exactly. They are telling us that they are losers. As I said. A man who doesn’t want you to be successful simply isn’t successful enough himself. Take the trash out. If you’re a successful woman you just need to be looking for a top tier man. Not lowering yourself and trying to make yourself seem less capable than you are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/20 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Can I still be RPW?You can do it all honey.... you really can. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/20 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Can I still be RPW?I agree with this. That’s why I submit to a man who is strong enough that I am able to be all that I’m capable of | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/20 05:44 PM |
| 17 | Can I still be RPW?Yes I do. You can absolutely be a rockstar and feminine. You just need to be with a man who is even more of a rockstar than you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/20 05:25 PM |
| 27 | Can I still be RPW?My boyfriend Is very alpha and he LOVES that I’m witty and funny. He LOVES that I work a job that earns 6 figures. (I’m a software engineer). He also loves that I make us dinner all the time. He loves when I wash his hair for him in the shower. He loves when I dress up for the date and wear sparkly lipgloss when we go out. He loves when I get mad when he doesn’t wear sunscreen and put it on for him. He loves when I tell him how much I miss him when he’s not there. He loves when I get really exci… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How to appear thin if you have awful bone structure?Dress for your figure. Fitted, but not revealing. Wear the right colors to match your undertone. Watch this video. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2xvmtMG1E8U | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/20 01:45 PM |
| 5 | How to feed children inexpensive meals that aren’t garbageFeed them literally whatever you plan to eat. Then it’s even cheaper in bulk. Nothing wrong with a tub of yogurt some fruit and granola for breakfast. (Easily 10 dollars total). Avo toast is also easy and cheap to do at home. Bagels too. Some tomato soup and grilled cheese for lunch. (Also super affordable and kid friendly. You can put spinach in there too. Tastes great). Snacks are also great for kids. Apples and peanut butter. So good. So cheap. Popcorn. Cheap, not too unhealthy. Kids honestly… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/20 01:11 PM |
| 18 | What are the ways to NOT get pregnant besides abstinence?All of those things used correctly. Also learn about your fertility window. If you do all those things and stay abstinent during your fertility window, there’s literally no chance you’ll get pregnant. Also merely using any combination of the above methods makes it significant less likely to get pregnant. For example, the pill and pull out. Condoms and the pill, etc | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Do my legs look long and too thin for a 6ft tall guy? Get stared down oftenThey really don’t. Google skinny guy and your legs don’t look like that. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Do my legs look long and too thin for a 6ft tall guy? Get stared down oftenHe’s 6’4” Your legs are honestly not legs I’d even refer to as thin. They look completely normal sized to me, but if you want to start squatting, that would help. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Do my legs look long and too thin for a 6ft tall guy? Get stared down oftenNo. My boyfriends legs are way smaller than yours. He ran track in school though. Too thin is relative. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 11:24 AM |
| 6 | 26 and told I have “old lady vibes.” On here and in real life, endearingly. I’ll admit, these comments have made a nest and bother me. How to come across as more “youthful” without compromising my maturity?The key to youthfulness involves the enjoyment and desire to “play”. Most people stop playing when they are kids, but adults and especially women should continue to remain youthful and attractive. In terms of attracting great men, generally these men take things very seriously and it’s a breath of fresh air to spend time with his woman. It relaxes him. Play can include dancing in the mirror, singing in the shower, baking fun treats and decorating them, picking a pretty flower and putting it in y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/20 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Moving in with my partner tips needed to ensure smooth transition.I don’t, have a high n-count. But the rest of your assumptions are correct. I am currently in a relationship with a high value man, who I met after college. He has a great job, goals for his future, and treats me well. I think there’s great advice to be found from people in all stages of life. I respect that you disagree, but we all have a voice here, and I think the key to marrying a high value man is not to act like a wife before you are one. That’s it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/20 02:41 AM |
| 0 | Moving in with my partner tips needed to ensure smooth transition.I will, but I think my advice is still sound regardless of proper terminology. No one wants a 10 year live in relationship with no ring—or worse, a massive fallout with nowhere to go. I’m sorry, but I will always stand by that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/20 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Moving in with my partner tips needed to ensure smooth transition.No, never heard it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/20 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Moving in with my partner tips needed to ensure smooth transition.I’d say.... okay bye. And then he would be like wait no I’ll give you a ring. 😂😂😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Moving in with my partner tips needed to ensure smooth transition.No, people are saying it’s too soon. I’m saying, it doesn’t matter the amount of time; Simply, don’t do it at any point in time without a ring. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 06:39 PM |
| 0 | Moving in with my partner tips needed to ensure smooth transition.Here's a pro tip: Don't move in with a man until you get a ring. No security for you, no motivation for him. Imagine the fallout. Don't tell me your relationship is different–everyone thinks their relationship is special until it ends. You are being very unwise here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Kissing preferenceIf it hurts, it’s too much. I think some variance is good. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 02:37 PM |
| 18 | Want to fuck my coworker who has a bf...Yes. Don’t do this. This makes you an asshole. Sorry, but you need to walk in the light of the truth. Even if she accepts your advances, all that’s showing you is that she’d be willing to accept some other guys advances too once y’all are dating. Get a hold of yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 06:53 PM |
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