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| -2 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tIf you pick an ass, obviously he isnt a good investment. If you picked a good guy he would be a good investment. The majority of men are decent. Its not hard to find one. If she picks an ass i blame that on the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 10:02 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Thats great! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.But for normal people cheating with their friends doesn't cross their mind. Right thats why most cheaters cheat with friends or someone they know for a long time and like (basically also a friend). Lol the delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 09:49 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Want another bluepill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Its funny to me how you keep rolling with this 😅🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Yes, most of us are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Lol sure. You would lie because it would help promote an image. Im not buying any of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.It doesn't sound like your friends' relationships are successful. On the contrary , my friends have much more control over their relationships than these chumps that girls describe here. Maybe they are like most men and didn't care if the girl was an obvious hoe as long as she looked good and now retroactively try and correct for that. Lol i dont have anyone that stupid on my crew. the woman not being able to be in a room with another man without these guys freaking out in jealousy doesn't sound… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Yeah, that just makes you sound insecure. Nope it makes me very secure in my masculinity. I dont need to appease women with pretend bs. I have options and standards. If you can't trust your partner to not fuck someone else, they shouldn't be your partner. Exactly. If she wants to go out with other guys she can stay out. I deserve a woman who will drop all other men for me and treats me like a king ;). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I spend a lot of time at work with people (way, way more time than I spend with friends) and some of them want to fuck me I’m sure. But if you arent friends with them you will not develop a connection with them that could open other doors. If you are only being professional, spending time with coworkers doesnt really make you attached to them. None of my friends “obviously want to fuck me”, you just said all men want to, so if that’s true then nothing I can do about it, but it’s not “obvious”. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Because they want to fuck you and you are still going out with them. A loyal woman wouldnt go out with men who want to fuck her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Apparently my bf is too sexy to be real. What a flattering cope. More like you are making this ish up. knowing that it sends other men into fits of insecurity and disbelief really hammers it home LOL. Nice attempt, what i feel for your man is pity. How sad to have your balls in your girls purse. It's not really about testosterone it's moreso about men who know they weren't or would not be chosen freely reacting to that subconscious realization. Its a natural phenomenon that all normal men have i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:39 PM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Or maybe he has nothing to worry about and the men you know do. Perhaps their girlfrienss aren't in love with or attracted enough to them. Every man does it if he needs to. If your girl isnt going out with other guys, obviously you dont have to. Arranged marriages are not the only situations where men arent chosen for desirability. Men who find themselves in that situation do it naturally. My point is its an innate masculine behaviour. Nothing "insecure " about it. Its non-masculine if you lack … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Yeah lol i totally believe that 🤣🤣🤣. Btw in the animal kingdom the phenomenon is called mate guarding, not "insecurity". High test men are territorial by nature so we naturally act this way. There is no way a high test man is not territorial, if it seems that way that means he clearly doesnt care for you as he doesnt claim you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Wrong. I am realistic and i have high standards. Why would you want to go out with guys who want to fuck you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Plenty of men I meet probably want to fuck me. Should I avoid all men because of that? There is a difference between interacting with people who want you and being friends with them its a big difference. Why would my husband care if other men want to fuck me? Same reason as above its because they spend time with you. I never said that, I’d have to avoid leaving the house to avoid men who want to fuck me. You said that you avoided becoming friends with men at work who made a move. Do you need me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Lol i am this way because i live in the real world and use my brain. Good thing i dont listen to the feminine idealists on the internet. I have good friends. I spend a lot of my time with them. I know from experience that no woman can offer friendship that is anywhere close to that. I am glad i am very realistic and aware and so far it has helped me a lot in my life. You guys can all ride the waves and see where it takes you, but i have direction in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Biology versus Cultural Conditioning. Female perception of Men showing Emotion and opening up and masculine Men.Yeah in real life i see that people are a bit more reasonable but online, people seem so feminized its alien to me. I dont see any masculine thoughts without any ridicule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Maybe your partner doesnt have the balls to speak up. I dont know any man who is okay with their girl having male friends 🤣🤣🤣. Sounds like unmasculine, non-territorial men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Nothing insecure or controlling. Its what most men are really like. I guess you are just used to low test boys who are too afraid to speak up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Maybe you just dont like the term submission. Personally i think for a woman and man to really achieve that higher level in a relationship she HAS to submit. Thats just based on my relationships and my observations but i know many people who agree. Unfortunately this kind of talk is only normal in kink communities now as most people nowadays dont accept anything that implies a relationship that is not "equal". Or maybe you dint like the idea at all. Idk. I'm confident that none of my close frien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Lol, my opinion is realistic. Not sexist. You dont even know what that word means. I'm not about to shag my male friends. Well they want to shag you. What a depressing world where we can't be friends with people depending on their genitals. You can if you are single. If you are in a relationship and do this, accept the problems that come with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.If you genuinely think your partner is going to cheat and stay with them, you have no one to blame but yourself. I would never be stupid enough to do that. I am also not stupid enough to tell my partner to go hang out with guys who want to fuck her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Im a non ugly non fat woman, that would mean I wouldn't talk to most men lol You can talk to them im just saying dont be friends with them. You cant avoid people like that, not even some people that you want to avoid. We cant dictate all that. However we can control who we keep around as a friend. Thats what i meant by not engaging it. If a guy wants to bone you and you are in a relationship, its good to keep that distance. I understand your position, Ive been there. I also learned a lot from it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Then it’s a dumb “rule”. Just because a rule applies differently to different populations doesnt mean its dumb. Obviously it will change according to sexual orientation. You know literally nothing about it except that I don’t believe I should sacrifice my social life for it (and my husband doesn’t either, he’s never asked me to). I do know that you dont prioritize it enough to give up a friend for it. That already would be a dealbreaker for me. My friends are all also friends with my husband, ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I think it would be disrespectful if I was flirting with them and encouraging that behavior but Im not. I think its disrespectful to just keep them. Imo you shouldnt engage anyone who wants to sleep with you when you are in a relationship. One of my bfs friends is his ex who I believe still has feelings for him. Personally i wouldnt be in that situation. Ive been the crazy jealous girlfriend before. It didnt change the fact that my ex would cheat on me any chance he had. It was a living hell and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.If you're so inclined to cheating that you need to limit who your friends are, you shouldn't be in a relationship anyway. I disagree. Everyone can cheat, some are more prone than others. But no one is really above it. Its better to be realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I don’t think women should have female friends due to cheating I think you meant *male. When men cheat it is typically only about sex, he can smash hoes but still be loyal to his wife because men show loyalty through providing and protecting a woman. Most women do demand sexual loyalty too, so that wouldnt work. Whether or not a man has female friends, if he is high value he is going to be surrounded by women especially at work, it’s unreasonable to expect a man to not exercise his options. I me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Ugh I made a long reply and it got deleted -_- Sorry about that. You can pm me if you want to talk mlre about this topic. if my male friends want to sleep with me that's their problem not mine. But you dont think that disrespectful to your guy? There are guys who want to bang you but you are still friends with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.So what if you are bi? You shouldn’t have any friends? Idk i can only talk for straight people. I don’t believe I should have to sacrifice my friends and social life for my relationship Then i guess you dont value the relationship or have much faith in it. You dont have to sacrifice female friends. Just men. They want to fuck you anyway, why would you keep them around when you have a man? I can easily control myself and will not have sex with someone else because I agreed to monogamy and my husb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.You said people in monogamous relationships OR marriages. Yup if you want your monogamous relationship to continue you would also be concerned. The stakes are different for everyone, the point is not everyone can or wants to just up and leave. Most people arent that lowly invested in their relationship. So, you do some preventive measures. I find that very smart and justified. Exactly because of this. You have very sketchy views of women and I rather avoid men that think like you. Did i lie tho?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Cheaters cheat. If my bf cheats on me I would break up with him and get over it. Its not the end of the world. Well the stakes are completely different if you are married and/or have kids. A man not having any female friends is a major red flag for me. Why is that? Personally i dont have any female friends. I dont see the purpose. Its not like any woman really has your back the way men do. Its not like most women would jump in a fight alongside me, its not like they would take big risks for me. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.This is insane. Nope it is logical. Also, no one is above temptation. Not defending cheaters, but to say you can never be tempted is ridiculous. I respect it if you are self aware enough to avoid temptation by putting yourself out of that position. Why do you think people are sexually attracted to their friends just because they're each other's preferred gender? I know that men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Most of these things dont change. Its just how you behave with the opposite sex that changes. Generally as a couple you would go to parties together. And your friends are mostly other couples. It would only be weird if one guy from one couple and the other woman were hanging out. Its normal if 2 couples hang out. when your guy friends get girlfriends, do you meet and socialize with them? My friends introduce their gfs to me and the other guys in the group, we all do the same. But its not like i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Sounds like you've never been in an equal relationship, I personally believe they're the only relationships worth having. Actually my first relationship was "equal", and the ine after was one where i took more charge and lead. I did that after i witnessed how older men and how some of my friends acted with their girl. Personally it went way better. Both my relationships were long term and fine, but my second girl definitely respected me a lot more and i brought out a lot more of her feminine sid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 02:42 PM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 02:23 PM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Women don't usually "submit" to male partners, and if they do it isn't generally out of respect. Yes they do. Maybe you dont understand what i meant submission in a romantic relationship. It means that you allow your man to take charge and trust him with his decision. It doesnt mean complete authority , its like he takes the lead and you follow. And you also take some prode in being " his woman". I think its the natural way for a relationship to work out. I dont believe in equal relationships th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Thats too simplistic and i disagree. I think everyone regardless of morality can and will cheat under certain circumstances. Wether its due to resentment towards partner, sexual dissatisfaction, a fight, dead bedroom, getting a crush on someone new, someone being very smooth and turning you on much more than your partner, someone being an emotional support that turns physical, etc. Or any combination of things. Good people are capable of committing grave offenses and crimes im certain situations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:27 PM |
| -1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I disagree. I think a friendship and a romantic relationship are very different. Women dont "submit" to male friends. They do that for their partner , if you respect him enough. To get an idea of male (or female) behaviour you dont need either though. You just have to interact with people a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Idk about women but most guys would actually. Listen in to mens opinions on the subject, there are plenty of videos podcasts etc about it. Most men hate it if we are completely honest. Most of us wish they didnt exist. Its just that some men have options and some dont. We have to be more territorial because of uncertainty of paternity. Its biological. You know that your child is your child. We dont (until very recently with paternity testing), so we have to make sure our woman doesnt spend time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Acceptable according to whom? People with a certain mindset. It is not only accepted but also considered the norm in many places. And the most important thing is that it does work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:07 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Thats because i keep a close circle of friends. I am friendly to a lot of people but i dont really consider then friends. They might consider me though. I dont really consider someone a friend unless i know them very well and i trust them 100%. I expect my friends to have my back when i face difficulties and i do the same for them. I cant do that with everyone. I understand that many people view it differently pr use different terminology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:06 PM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.It is a fact. Like i said, most people dont even have business trips. So how the hell is it even remotely comparable? It isnt , people spend more time with friends than they have business trips on average. By a margin. Your opinion is wrong plain and simple. As a woman THE LAST thing I’d want is fuck any of my male friends. If your male friends are straight they wanna fuck you. Why would you be friends with men who want to fuck you then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Those are some good points. I will stay orbiters can still become a problem if she gets overly attached once they get better game, or if they have a sudden glowup, not necessarily physically, but also if they improve a lot in social status and finances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.It isnt. But people would be better off if they practiced it. There would be less "unintentional" cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:53 PM |
| -1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I find it funny how a lot of women disagree with this and how everyone is apparently bisexual or pansexual. I barely even know any bisexual/pansexual peoppe but i guess every other person on the internet is. And i dont care for female friends or family. I only say that if you are a woman (straight) its best if you dont have male friends. Vice versa for men. It has nothing to do with abuse its being respectful to your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Forbidding your partner from having friends of the opposite sex absolutely is irrational. Listen to the story again. Its completely rational. You are saving yourself and your relationship. In any trusting & healthy relationship, that wouldn't be necessary. People only did this for thousands of years. It is entirely necessary and works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.If someone is so awful that they cheat then they would have cheated anyway. I think there may be some people who are more predisposed to cheat, due to behaviour but i think everyone can cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:17 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.if i’m in a relationship i’m not making new friends with guys. that‘s weird and inappropriate to me. but i have 1-2 guy friends i’ve known since childhood that i would not just drop for a guy i started dating. hell, my best guy friend and my partner get along splendidly- they’re usually fcking roasting me together 🙄😤 I guess thats okay in your case. Personally i wouldnt do that though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.No, adults do not see their friends more than the people they work with. We are not talking about workmates. You said "business trips". You take more business trips than you see your friends? You seriously think thats even close to the norm? Most people dont even have business trips. Lets stay realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.think that women needing an emotional connection overtime is false I disagree. It might depend on the person though. I think women who hookup and such are more easily to spot. Also, whenever a woman wants to cheat indiscriminately, she travels Yeah but i think that is more obvious. I think thats for women who cheat intentionally. I think friendships are where it mostly happens where they didnt seek it out at first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:12 PM |
| -1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Its a load of FACTS that you dont like to hear. Cant have everything in life. Learn from the woman in the story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.So...it doesn't work for anyone who can get fall for people of both genders? I dont know and im not bothered. My knowledge is only about heterosexual relationships. I am only interested in that. Why? As I've said I'm demi, my husband knows about it and he has zero issues with me meeting with my friends on my own. Most guys are not like your husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:09 PM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Thats exactly what i said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Most people are either heterosexual , and otherwise many are homosexual. With homosexuals you could switch it to same sex, but many homosexual people have a different culture where they hang out mostly or a lot with other homosexual men. However, if you look into it you will find that there is a lot of cheating among them too. So clearly my theory does hold weight. I just dont care for much outside heterosexual relationships. And the fact that cultures throughout history placed such restrictions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:07 PM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Are we sure we're on the same page of what we mean by friendship? Maybe not. Like are you strictly referring to very close friendships (i.e. texting everyday, providing emotional support, one on one "dates" etc)? Thats what i call as friends. I consider others aquaintances. But if this applies to all friendships, then frankly that is pure paranoia. If you mean that im paranoid about my woman having any potential interactions with men that she is around, then no. I just dont accept friendships wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:04 PM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.What would you do if she made a male friend in her life while with you? That wouldnt happen because i would make my stance on it clear in the beginning. This is a topic that is a qualifier for me, its above politics and religion. There is no way any girl doesnt know where i stand on this. So if she makes a male friend, she knows its over for us. For some other guys, having some boundaries/restrictions may be enough. For me, its a no go completely. What if she met a man she could imagine you also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:59 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I want you to point out where in my post i said anything about controlling your partner. Take a good look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:55 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.It already is childish. Banning friends because you're afraid of them cheating is childish. Nope its logical.there are benefots and drawbacks to everything. And a successful relationship takes sacrifice, something a lot of modern people dont understand. If you are willing to make sacrifices you will get benefits. You cannot have everything in life. Choices need to be made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I agree. I avoided nuance purposely to get more interaction and discussion. But a lot of people who disagreed just straight up jumped to "insecurity" , " controlling", "abusive". Whatever lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:52 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I dont care to bring up a source. You know im right. If you dont and wanna argue otherwise go ahead, and make your point. But im not gonna start looking for sources just because you are too lazy to argue or want to discredit me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:50 AM |
| -2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I have no more interest in going on this tangent. You and i both know that friendships are more long lasting and offer more opportunities than a "trip". And as a woman you KNOW that women are much more lilely to cheat with someone they know than some random on a trip. Im not interested in an intellectually dishonest argument. Unless you wanna admit that friendship has a lot more pitfalls and opportunities to cheat im not continuing that discussion . Its a fact and that is that. Dating insecure p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:48 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Never said about forcing anything but keep going on your own tangent. Most people aren't worried about rivals and competition, despite both themselves and their partner having opposite sex friends. Blatant lie 🤣🤣🤣. You cant honestly say that everyone is a robot with no feelings. Because thats what this would imply. Either that or you dont really care about your partner. Its human nature. Its normal. This is because they trust their partner to have boundaries and remain loyal without interference… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Then don't Lol i already dont 🤣. I said that. I on the other hand don't trust men with no female friends Okay. But i would say most girls feel otherwise. Most girls dont really like female friends of their partners, from What i see and hear. Men who are unable to look at women as anything other that potential romantic or sexual partners have a tendency to be not well adjusted. That really is neither here nor there. You would be surprised by how many of these "male friends" are nothing but wolves… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:37 AM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Well i made this post for straight people (i stated that). It gets more complicated otherwise and you will need different rules i guess. And meeting 1-1 is okay, I was talking about sleepovers and late night meetings. I wouldnt be okay with 1-1 meeting either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:32 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Okay, but who has a relationship before they made anyfriend or had any non romantic interactions with the opposite sex? Seriously that almost never happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:22 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I completely disagree. You can know how men act from all your life until then. Its not a huge mystery. Same with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:21 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Lol lets not make ot childish. Not having friends of the opposite sex is something that was practiced almost everywhere in the past. Clearly it had a good effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:21 AM |
| 3 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Depriving a person of friendships with other people because you're worried they'll cheat doesn't seem like a good strategy for ensuring someone stays with you anyway. Thats not what i said. I think people should practice it on their own without any "force". Personally i wouldnt date a girl with male friends. I would date a girl who doesnt do that and is respectful to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:20 AM |
| 3 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Men don’t want women to have male friends, but they deserve the right to jack off to a thousand naked women on porn. Nope i dont think thats respectful and it doesnt have a place in a relationship. I have stated on this sub before that im against porn and i even have nofap in my name. There are a few men I have known for over 20 years who remain solid friends. We talk much less frequently now, but more meaningfully. I dont have an issue with that personally i just dont see that as a friendship. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Yeah i dont trust women who do that type of stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:16 AM |
| 3 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Very funny how i never once talked about controlling anyone but so many people just assume that. Very brainwashed groupthink going on in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:15 AM |
| 6 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I don't really care about the risk of cheating tbh, there's always going to be a risk of cheating in every relationship, you just have to accept it. There is much variance in that risk its not constant at all. And you can be logical about it and reduce it, you dont have to just "accept it". Thats loser mentality. Its why relationships in the past succeeded a lot more because they were more rational and had stronger rules. Now its just people winging it with nor discipline and no regard for your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:14 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Unfortunate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:12 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Like I don't mind crashing at the couch of a male friend and I don't care my partner crashes on the couch of a female friend On the other hand I'm never going to be sleeping with a straight male friend in the same bed. Already know this is a lie 🤣🤣🤣. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:11 AM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Not really? Yes it is. Friendships are long-lasting, but so is your business/hanging out/vacationing; How often do you go on a business trip a year? 5 times? 10 times? 50 times? How many days in a year are you friends? 365 days or any less? Its entirely different. There were years when I’ve done more business related functions than the amount of times I’ve seen my friends. Either we have very different definitions of friends or you are an exception. Most people see their friends more often. but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:11 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.It absolutely is about controlling your partner. You think very one-dimensionally if thats how you see it. If i have a rule not to have female friends, how is that my partner controlling me? Its my own rule. Lol. It's about keeping your partner away from potential rivals to soothe the fear of comparison and temptation. If you are in a relationship then you should not be worried about rivals and competition. I dont think you understand what a monogamous relationship is. Its not abysive its what p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:08 AM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.One of the worst things you can do when you are in a relationship is NOT have friends of the opposite sex. I disagree. Its one of the best things you can do and lowers cheating tremendously. A rule says you can't have opposite-sex friends; a boundary says, you can do what you like, but I will walk away if I don't like your behaviour. I dont really disagree. I also think this is something everyone should do thenselves not enforce it on others. And i agree with walking away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:04 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.The relationship won't work if you don't trust your partner a bit. Its about being rational not trust. I can trust my partner to be rational and not have male friends. If she has male friends, i dont trust her. Is it an orbiter who insists that you don't love her?? Is it a Chad who she clearly is attracted to?? If he is a lame orbiter why is she keeping him around? If you dont know much, you dont know if he is "just" an orbiter. She may just present him that way. I think you have some good point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:00 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.First of all, there are a lot of studies showing that women cheat just as much as men. Also the study says that mote than half of cheaters cheat with well known people AND more cheaters are men. It doesnt say that men cheat with well known people more. I would argue that its more women who cheat with friends. Because men are also likely to have prostitutes or sex workers of some kind. Women do that rarer so its probably more women cheating woth friends and people they know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:58 AM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Your argument is literally the same though - don’t do X because Y could happen and does happen. 🤷🏻♀️ They are very different circumstances though. You do realize that a friendship is long lasting and there are a lot more opportunities to make "mistakes" right? If your relationship is solid; then there’s nothing to fear. Lol. Heard that a lot. Not true obviously. You need rules and boundaries for any relationship to work. To me it’s a huge red flag if the guy has absolutely no female friends and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:54 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.And you haven't answered what bi/pan/demisexual people should do. They need to practice the same with whoever they feel attracted to. I get attracted to people of both genders and mostly to the ones who I'm friends with Well i would be worried if i was your man, thats all i will say on that. You can be friends without being overly touchy or sleepovers when there are only only two of you. If i dont hang out with you 1-1, then i dont consider you a friend. You are an aquaintance. But we establishe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:50 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I mean its common sense but the other commentor provided a link too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.It isn't irrelevant when the result is "My partner should change their behavior because I have issues." That is incorrect. You are vastly downplaying a much broader problem. Just take the example of the story. It doesnt state anything regarding insecurity. It doesnt even state whether her husband was aware of the cheating or not. People cheat in this fashion very often, regardless of "insecurity". So the topic of insecurity is irrelevant, she did what she did regardless. As i stated in my post t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:44 AM |
| -2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.But the thing is its not irrational. " insecurity" used to refer to being irrational about it but now people call anything insecure. There is nothing irrational about someone feeling uncomfortable when your partner acts too intimate with another person. Its a fear based on very real consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:20 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.should you not leave a house if you’re in a committed relationship? No, you should not do that. You should focus on business while on business trips. You should not seek other women when vacationing with same sex friends You should not go out to random bars or go to a bar for men only( or women only). Or just drink with your friends. Its good to have restrictions. Society is built on restrictions. Its more complicated when it comes to friendships because you get emotionally attached and it messe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:17 AM |
| 5 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.It is invalid because it is irrelevant to my statement. It is a FACT that a lot of cheating happens this way. Arguably the vast majority of it (especially on women's side, some guys may use prostitutes etc) That FACT doesnt change regardless of if the guy is insecure or not. So bringing up "what drives the behaviour" is irrelevant and doesnt disprove or prove anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:11 AM |
| 0 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.The point is the insecurity argument is invalid. Its a FACT that this is something that can and does happen. So saying " you are insecure" is not a counterargunent. You need to make a counterargument that proves that having opposite gender friends is actually okay or positive. As my statement is basically that opposite sex friends are bad for monogamous relationships. " insecurity" does not prove or disprove my statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:09 AM |
| -1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.The "insecurity" argument is invalid. Use logic in pill forums. We are not normies here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:02 AM |
| 3 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I agree. I didnt want to make the post even longer and i wanted to encourage discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:01 AM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:59 AM |
| -3 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.I guess it depends on what you call friends. Being touchy and staying over are things that friends do. If you dont do that stuff at all idk if you call that a friendship. I would not. But by your definition what you do is correct. Thats what i am advocating too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herringGood points but you definitely can achieve status while being ugly. A lot of status is about networking and who you are connected to. If you are able to have a type of personality (or even just try hard enough) and get in touch with the right people you can achieve power and status. Especially if you have people that owe you favours and the like. This takes time too of course and you need to build up respect and a reputation. But that definitely helps you with girls. Having the respect and admir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I mean you can live a fairly long life nowadays with hiv if you take meds, but that doesnt change the fact that its a straight up no for most people if asked to date you. Same thing with herpes although not quite as extreme. Lets not pretend that your life is normal and the same as any nonifected persons. And dont get caught up in the semantics used here. Sex education can help, but it wont solve the issue. There are places that have pretty good sex education but they are not without problems. N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yes but being poorer is not an issue if your family has money. Being older and having lived/worked longer they usually do. In a normal society you wouldnt struggle financially to raise a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Software tools and robotics wont make up for emotional development. You need human interaction for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Depends on where you look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Thise are probably western tradcons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I didnt manipulate anything. You made a pointless comment there. I didnt say that women in their 30s are NOT fertile. I said they are LESS fertile. Which is a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Besides HIV meds are so good now that most people die from other comorbid conditions before the HIV does. People have pretty normal lives. Yeah thats highly debateable. People with hiv or even herpes etc will always have to deal with that. For STDs, the solution doesn't have to be "stop having sex." It doesnt have to be stop having sex, instead it should be stop having irresponsible, uncontrollable sex. People really shouldnt be trying to bang everyone. If people kept sex to within relationships… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Immunity related diseases and allergies may have more to do with the more sanitized environment we live in, and remember in the past if a child has any significant health issues (eg. weak immune system), that kid would've died and not reproduced. Thats a good point. But i also believe late kids are more susceptible this due to some personal reasons. Its just a hunch though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner." Couples who marry young and never divorce" Never divorce. Get it? :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I can see why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketFinally some good news this year, lol. I dont think it will have an imoact on the girls as much (by that i mean i dont expect them to change their ways), but it will definitely slow down the extreme simping. Maybe a lot of guys will come back to reality. That in itself may change the market a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Where are the excuses? Me making my points are excuses? You are being very dismissive due to your own bias. If youth and energy were such superior parenting qualities, the advantages would be undeniable The advantages are undeniable, its just that there are disadvantages as well. And my whole point is that its messed up to live ain a world where having kids young can be a disadvantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.So just have children when they're older and want children. You can do that but then the drawbacks would be that oregnancy and its effects can be worse and harder to recover from. Also the child has a higher chance of having illnesses aor genetic issues, like downs syndrome for example. As i said there are pros and cons. Sex with multiole peoppe can mess you up in different ways 1) STDs/STI's everyone knows about HIV for examlle and other lifelong conditions you can acquire. You can prevent a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.The ones who can, often do. There are a lot of things that hold people back, like finances. But i also think a lot of people do as they are encouraged to by peers and dont really think things through. And some people are just hestitant/scared to have kids. Which may make their decision not to have them correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Fair points but i dont think having kids later is the best solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Good point. But i would argue, if you have kids earlier, they also grow up earlier. Technically you could enjoy middle age and retirement better if you dont have to look after kids or worry about their education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Ah okay. I may have gotten mixed up as i had a lot of comments i was responding to. I do agree that monogamy and pair bonding are related. That being said i think most societies in the past were somewhat momogamous with powerful men being polygamous. In Europe powerful men were still polygamous, but kept it hidden due to christian beliefs. I still think its the same. And i dont think it made a big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Enjoy the pleasures of sex without the displeasure of caring for children Yeah the problem is that a lot of people do end up wanting kids later and then there are drawbacks to that. Pros and cons to everything. But people want to operate in a "have your cake and eat it too" mode. If you dont want kids at all ots not a problem. But maybe just don't date people who don't share your values? Good point, personally this is what i do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yes i have been made aware of this 😅. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Also a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.It literally does because wealthier parents have more time to spend with them, they might not even need to work. Thats assuming that the parents arent working overtime or extra hours to be wealthy. But otherwise, good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Im pretty sure that people are less happy and more depressed than before. There was a study showing that women in the 50s were happier than current women. That says a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Maybe in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Not disagreeing with your reality, my post is saying that this reality (the way society is structured) is kinda messed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Unfortunately this is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Ill rather go to the moon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.This made me lol 🤣🤣. Housecats are actually a huge threat to many species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Youtube tradcons arent actual tradcons. I know a lot of women who DO want kids early. But they cant for amny reasons or are hestitant. Some are just waiting for marriage before doing that. I think it depends on the individual but society has also made it difficult to have kids early on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.The fact that non-productive fun is promoted over having kids early means that there is something wrong. I think a lot of people want kids but cant due to financial reasons. I think a lot of men want to but they cant find an ideal partner. Women may have similar issues as well as other people telling women they should "have fun or work on their career" rather than have kids. And a lot of people also seem oblivious to the drawbacks of having kids late. A society that prioritizes fun without accep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.By main point you mean that its natural? How is that subjective? The fertile period is the fertile period. Its not subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah having kids outside a marriage or at least a committed relationship is a big risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Fair point 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.And thank you for your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.No, this is patrick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Thank you for the comment, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Fair points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Good point. If you dont want kids, dont have kids. But people should be aware of the drawbacks to having kids late. There are pros and cons to everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Very good points. Should have gotten more upvotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Good points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Why is it so wrong to want to live a life of freedom for a little bit before having kids? Its not about right or wrong, its about being aware. There are consequences to waiting too long to have kids, if you want to have them. Everything has a price. For some of us our 20s is truly where freedom is, why do you wish to take that away from people? Im not taking anything away. I cant make anyone do something. Im just saying people should be realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Everything I learned was pivotal to my understanding of the work I do, Wrong. Not everything you learned in school is applicable to your work. What a blatant lie 😅🤣. I will bet that there is a lot of stuff you learned from kindergarten to highschool that you dont even remember As i said, there is a lot to optimize. We're never going back to "make babies in your twenties". There are people still doing just that. And you dont know what the future holds. It is more likely that people align back to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.On a global scale it can also work but given there is a strategy. If it just hapoens randomly that can also cause a lot of issues. but maybe we get some alien immigrants that way. 🤣🤣👌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I dont know about scandinavian culture but it wasnt scandinavians who went on to colonize the african and asian countries. It was the english and spanish among others. And they used to have a pretty strict christian culture at the time, which they exported. It could be argued they were stricter than some of the cutures they mingled with. Why would it have to happen "at the same time"? The point is that current values on relationships and family are very different from the colonial ages. European… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Well luckily overall it still got upvoted in the end i think. You have 3 upvotes on it now (i think?) Yeah it was a random thought. I decided to post it here and see what people will say before i forget and move on. I still have my opinions on it. But its not something i think in my head day to day lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?The current scientific consensus is that we don't really know actually. No, the current scientific consensus that it is environmental, bit we dont know what exact factor it is. Or what the main factor is. You are once again being intellectually dishonest and pushing your agenda. First of all, you havent shown any proof of a phD, secondly a few more scientists from one study doesnt make the assumption the right one. there are plenty of other experts that you can ask. And i dont know anyone who cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah but i am coming from a bioligical standpoint. In this case im talling about the fertility period. I would also say the same about diet exercise etc. People shouldnt live sedentary lifestyles and they shouldnt eat a lot of sugar and processed foods. I know many do, but its not ideal/healthy. Lol yeah I don’t think people understood it was a joke. Yeah typical, its reddit lol. I mean i dont go around my entire life like that. I just have a general idea and find it weird when people go to extr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.People wont be ready if they have it in their heads that kids are for "later". There is a social element to it. Of people in general had kids earlier it wouldnt be an issue. Of course things like family support and financial security are also necessary im not arguing that its easy. Not in the current time. But its not a stupid argument. Biologically the fertile time is the ideal time so if everything else also aligned that would be the best option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Because they started postponing and having less kids as soon as they got safe, reliable and accessible contraception. I will agree that they would use it for family planning. I dont agree that they woul wait until they pass the fertioe period on purpose. There are a lot more factors why people have fewer kids now, other than contraception. Your point won't convince anyone. I disagree based on comments and how much traction the post got. Besides the point was to get people thinking, not to convin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.By prepared i meant if you have handled infants before. If you have done it before you already have an idea and will adjust better than if you have no experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:42 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Thats a very specific argument. Who said that oarents in their 20s dont want you? Or parents in ther 30s do? My point is that younger people have mkre energy and therefore can give more to their kids. Comparatively speaking this is true. Also mothers and children are healthier when born in the fertile time than later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?And now we have a semantics argument. This is what people do when they have no real argument and just want to argue for arguments sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Fair point. But that doesnt contradict what i said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.You're assuming and speculating As are you. You are assuming that given the choice, that ancient people would wait. That is an assumption. We know for a fact though that when people have the choice, they choose to have kids later and less of them. No we dont. This only happens under the condition of economic struggle. And if we take that away this isnt always the case. There are plenty of couples that choose to have children young, when they are financially able to do so. Even outside of the wes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:27 PM |
| 2 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?I mean you didn't prove it was environmental and not genetic so I don't have anything to disprove. You are the one asserting that this is just a normal part of "evolution", and even comparing to with female mate selection. You have a clear agenda here, i dont. It is common sense to anyone who understands evolution that the recent shift in testosterone has everything to do with environmental factors. Its not a debate. Your argument is the same as if you said people being taller in the last centur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Thats all fine but you are still better ewuipped to physically deal with childbirth and chilcare younger than older. So if you are just postponing it for later, you are only gonna have it worse. But if you dont want kids then thats up to you. And us being able to transcend biology doesnt mean its ideal. Its not. Look at all the things we have to do to be able to be sexually adventurous. Contraception, iud, birth control (which messes up your hormones) etc. Not to mention all the mental problems … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Good point. And i think that is an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.You do have some points but you are oversimplifying it. The conomy has gotten to a point where its hard to earn enough to sustain a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Debatable Well that clearly depends on what you find fun. Its not healthy to get drunk or high anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Women over 30 are already less fertile than in ther 20s. If you are honest about your knowledge on this topic you would admit this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?Doesnt disprove my point that that that is due to environmental factors rather than "genetic factors". Your third link talks about single celled organims. Of course evoution occurs quicker in them as their life cycle is much faster. And then in the other examples it is stated that environmental factors are the reason for the rapid change. Which proves my point. Test levels didnt decrease because of random mutations. Its not based on "evolution". It is a change due to environmental factors affect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Not imposing my values. Its a biological fact that having kids in your fertile period is best for the health of the mother and child. There is no argument there. My argument is that the way we have deviated from that being weird af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Couples who marry young and never divorce have the lowest divorce rates actually 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.If you are unplanned and unprepared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.No that was clearly a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?Evolution happens on a generational level True. huge changes can occur after just one generation Not true. Or to be precise, its not accurate. See, this is you kinda trying to switch science to your liking. A huge change can occur in 1 specimen, not the entire species. Its not like a huge change occurs simultaneously in everyone. Its that changes occur randomly (mutations) and over time and generations, those mutations are selected for (natural selection) and they become the dominant type. So it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Definitely better than listening to a porn addict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I agree with the financial part, i disagree with the idea of "living your life before settling down". You can still live your life and have fun while settled down, but you have to be responsible and with respect to your family. Otherwise its wanting to have your cake and eat it too. This goes as well for people wanting to have fun niw and a relationship and kids later. If you sleep around a lot, you ruin yourself for relationships. https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.The issue is how you go about it. If you have a "below replacement rate" childbirth without a plan then you will have to make up for it by having large amounts of immigrants come in to make up for that difference. Not that i have an issue with that. I come from immigrant backgrounds too. But that is not a sustainable solition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Good points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner."Having fun" can also mess up your bodies and freedom. Being an intelligent being doesnt mean you always make the right choice. A lot of these choices are clearly based on more primal instincts and are far from intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Cant solve everything with one adjustment but its a start. Obviously there are a lot of things that need to change if we want to solve all issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Same, but i dont think it ever completely goes away 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:09 PM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Thats completely fine. You dont have to have kids, and i dont want to persuade people to have kids. My point is just that having kids earlier vs later is better biologically speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Thats not an argument againts having kids younger. You are still healthier if you have kids younger. Same goes for the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.It does. Thats the whole idea of generational wealth. Lool at the highest earning ethnic groups in the US, its asians because asian households are interconnected and they have generational wealth. At least compared to other ethuc groups in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.My post was mainly about the biological reasons and that society is dumb to have become this way. I mean if it werent for the ecomonic situation, it would be possible for a lot of younger couples to have kids. Anyway, i dont take it personally, i hope you can have a kid/kids and start a family soon 🤗, good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Dont worry about them. 120k per year should be more than enough to save up and start a family. You just have to wait a bit more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:02 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.They can bring up arguments but it doesnt change the biological fact that the mist fertile time for wimen js 18-25 years. Its the healthiest for the mother to get pregnant at that time as well as for the baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:58 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah man things have changed now, i think we live in a very weird reality. Its like an experimental time period. Maybe 500 years later there will be a new "normal" or a new type of "stable" society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:57 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.True. But my point is thst its not ideal to have kids later in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menUsually those 2 arent the same type of men. At least most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:54 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Europeans didnt dominate ither cultures at the time where were liberal on relationships and marriage. European/western society only has that now, decades after achieving economic and military superiority. Liberal relationship values havent really helped, see china is catching up ecomomically amd militarily and ecomonic dominance is really the only thing keeping the west in the front. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:49 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.And this shows that the economic system we have currently is too extreme. I mean there are a lot of other proofs as to how the economy is hurting the people. The point is that current society is messed up and incredibly mismanaged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.No i just think we should be careful not to deviate a lot from what is normal for humans to do. You got downvoted for that post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Who is going to look after anyone when the planet is overpopulated, polluted, and hot? Then be strategic about not letting that happen rather than creating another fuckup by not having a plan and just going "stop having kids". Thats stupidity. the abled elderly will work with the disabled elderly. Yeah right. What is happening is that societies with below replacement rates of birth are bringing in a lot of migrants to deal woth this isse. Those people will maintian all the infrastructure and tak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:39 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Most people in the West these days live their lives as if they will be young forever. You are absolutely right. There are a lot of people who are very delusional about this. I disagree. I think some structure and order is necessary for people to function as a society. Too much freedom is dangerous and can cause a lot of trouble and conflict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:34 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah. A global economy and opportunities has caused this. Big changes need to be made. I think remote work may have a good future. With the pandemic, people have gotten more comfortable with it, it seems. Maybe that is a positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Because you're going to... take over the family farm and 'dont need no edumacation'? The idea that you should need education until your early or mid 20s is ridiculous. Its a waste of time. How much of what you learned in school do you still remember or is actually applicable for your work? Exactly. If we optimized the education system we could do away with a lot of wasted years and get people educated much quicker and younger. If we were able to optimize education to apply to individuals strengt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:28 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Better outcones how? As in a better education? More opportunities? Sure. But what about bonding with their parents more? Having more time and energy to play with your parents? Developing their social skills more? Things are difficult for young couples as it is currently. But if it was ideal, i would argue that young couples would do better than older ones. Once we take out the economic factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:22 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.And who is gonna look after the elderly when you have not enough young people to do so? Its only ethical if it is planned. And even then it can go sideways like with china. They planned it. And they still ended up with having surplus males in comparison to females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:13 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.The dude that started the famous incel site (Aoike), was 12 when he self-identified as an incel and 14 when he started that site. This is one of the problems about the internet. You shouldnt be trying to get a gf at 12 years old. You should be playing and having fun with friends. Even at 14 or 15 only a few people i knew had a gf/bf. And its not uncommon to be celibate/virgin until your 20s. A lot of people are likel that. That doesnt mean they turn to incel ideology. There is a lot of internet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:12 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.You have some good points. The extended family should be sticking together. This is how communities that do have kids younger do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.And that is what i call stupidity. Waiting to have kids at their convenience rather than when they are at their healthiest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:04 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Well there is something wrong with society if it is financially difficult to have kids at a younger age. It is biologically optimal as you admit yourself. So people should at least have the option. Kids are the healthiest when they are born at the most fertile time of their parents. We live in a time where a lot of diseases like allergies and other immunity related illnesses are becoming more and more common. I think we should take things like this more serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.You are oversimplifying the issue by saying "people didnt have a choice". My point id even if they had a chouce they would simply have kids younger. Because it is more natural and makes more sense. Waiting to get older to have kids is unnatural. We know that when people do have choice, they postpone having kids and have far less of them. Not really. They do so in the west. They dont all do that outside the western world. Also, my original point is that waiting is the wrong thing to do. A lot of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Well i guess it also depends on where you live and what the expectations for the women there are about marriage. I see a lot of young women get married in my community and they do fine. I think if you are prepared for it you will do fine. If you arent prepared for it, you will struggle regardless of age. A lot of people nowadays in the western world are not used to handling infants or children. So they are not equipped for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 10:55 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Lol what a bunch of bs. It is statistically proven that the less partners you have , the more likely your marriage is to succeed. https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability This is well known historically, which is why virginity used to be a necessity for marriage for many cultures, and that has only been relaxed (mostly in the west) since the last century or so. But the statistics show that 0-1 partners, have the highest marital s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 10:52 AM |
| 9 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:30 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah but there is more to how incels think. Normally a person figures out another way if one way fails or figures out alternative methods. These guys just fixate on the original failure and dont do anything to figure out a solution. Its not that i cabt empathize with them. Its that i cant relate to how they go about their problem. That is what is abnormal to me. That doesnt seem like self preservation. I mean if people told me i cant have something due to x y z i would find another way. If its s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Maybe its a difference in culture but i see young mothers who dont have these issues. I think it depends also on how you are raised and if you were prepared/had any training with kids. Of course if you have never dealt with kids and have one all of a sudden it can be too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:17 AM |
| 3 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I think having kids in your 30’s and being a bit lower energy is a much lesser struggle than dealing with life and death situations while having kids in our 20’s. Yes but that is comparing different times. If it were finacially possible to have kids in your 20s today, i would take that option. If anything I think the bigger ordeal is the lack of grandparents and village/community when it comes to raising kids I agree 100%. Its definitely much more easy when you have support from the community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.In from outside the us, but its very expensive here too, especially for a family . As a young single man its okay, but i need to save up before starting a family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:10 AM |
| 21 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Good point. The situation is almost comically difficult. But its normal to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I agree with you there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:05 AM |
| -1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Which data? There is some pretty strong data saying that the fewer partnets you have before marriage, the more likely your marriage will last. Its been posted here on PPD a few times by now. Correct me if in wrong, but as you get older, dont your numbers go up? They certainly dont get lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:03 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.You make a good point. Although with incels i also think there is a mild level of mental illness. Or at least extreme defeatism. At least thats how i felt with the ones i have met here on PPD. So i think there is more to it. Its interesting about the sugar babies though. I also think this may be the reason onlyfans is becoming a thing. The founder really figured out a great business opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:59 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.We cant just drop the number like that. Below replacement level populations are a big problrm. The population reduction should be more about control and gradual reduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:55 AM |
| 3 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.True. I dont think having fun in general is bad. People should have fun. I dont agree with the idea of hookups/ casual dating culture though. I think that is just damaging overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:53 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.That is true. The financial problem is a big hurdle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.All studies indicate that money trumps “energy”. I highly doubt that there is any study making this type of compoarison. Money doesnt help you interact and play with your kids. Money doesnt help you to bond with them. Money cannot make up for your tiredness when dealing with kid. Money is not a replacement for youth and energy. It can help. But not substitute. Teens marrying can be problematic. Young adults, not really, its no different from older marriage in terms of success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:50 AM |
| 5 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I think the population can decline over time but need to be a managed decline. Yup. You are the first one i see mentioning this here. I have seen people mention overpopulation as a counterargument but i was the one having to point this out. There are people who have negative views towards and blame immigrants. But honestly, immigrants are necessary given this sitiation. Unless the native people suddenly change to start having a lot more kids. Yeah the economic and social factors are an issue. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:46 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Fair point i cant question your experience. But i see a lot of peoppe in their youth having kida and no problems. But to be fair i see it in communites with a lot more community support. Where families support each other and care for the kids. Financially they take a bit longer to build up but the children do fine. Meanwhile i could argue there are a lot of kids in separated homes that come from well established people who waited long enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:42 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Well thats fair. Personally i disagree. I dont think an adult needs more maturity to deal with children i think patience and a willingness to engage/connect with them is actually the most important part. But i respect your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:38 AM |
| 3 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah but i would say even before that, even before those "norms" (which are now the old norms), it was like that. Because why would they wait? If they were fertile and ready to have kids they would. So even given the choice i dont think you could convince someone in the past to wait? They might ask what is there to wait for? As they dont have the same lifestyle and directions that we have today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:35 AM |
| 4 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah that is 100% true. The current economy is very oppressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:32 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah im not arguing against that. Im just saying that it is suboptimal to have kids later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:31 AM |
| 4 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.There were lots of things that were terrible in the past that were normal and “how things always were”. Normal is generally not a good enough justification for doing something. Yes. What i meant by normal was that it was the more accurate thing to do based on our biology. In this case i would it was correct because we are built to have and raise children earlier. I dont intend to change everyone or want to, i am pointing out thay the current system is out of alignment and that it can possibly be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Maybe placing it on casual sex was too specific. I should say i place it on the culture in general. And you are welcome 😀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.But having below replacement rate childbirths is still a problem. Generally its not the overpopulated places that have this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:23 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.And in those times you were more likely to die in childbirth if you were too old. Which is not as much of an issue anymore. But as i said you still have physical benefits of concieving earlier. Not everything is about control. Its not a me vs you thing. Its a simple discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:22 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yes but on average its a fact that having a child in your 30s will be more draining than in your 20s purepy due to the age difference. It also depends person to person and diet exercuse etc. Also a lot of people find having children very fulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:19 AM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.But its still biologically more optimal to have them early. Its mot just about kids surviving. You have more energy to raise kids im your 20s than your 30s. You will get less tired doing so. Then when you are in your 30s they will be in their teens and im your 40s they would be adults. You will be the heslthiest when the kids need it the most and less prone to being burnee out. This is considering finacial security though. Thats the biggest challenge in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:17 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.You are right. The economic situation today makes it difficult. I dont know if it can be reversed. But my point is that it is wrong that it got this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:13 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.No but men do hunt and fight. And men are more optimal for it. People do have kids. My point is 18-25 is more optimal than 30 and above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:10 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I mean that can always happen. As long as they arent too late to concieve they can still have them. Im just talking ( i guess debating) about what is optimal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:08 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Um no. I made it pretty clear in the post that the childbearing age is lower and that you have more wnergy to raise kids when younger. The whole point is that biologically you are supposed to have kids earlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:07 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.On a population scale, ots not an issue but when you see that that childborth is below replacement level in a country, it does become a problem. People usually want to be well established financially before having children. And the problem is by then they will no longer have the energy to raise the children as good as they could before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:05 AM |
| 4 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yes of course. But looking after elders takes less effort than kids IF they are healthy. And i think in the long term the benefits of the support outweigh the costs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:03 AM |
| 3 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Im in my mid 20s, to be vague 😁. I know its hard to change things now. Im just making a point that we arent in the correct position as a society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:01 AM |
| 3 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah those are just demographics who also dont have kids. People who are having casual sex and playing the field are waiting even longer to get together with someone if they end up doing that. And the thing is a lot of peoplestill do have kids but its late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:00 AM |
| 4 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah is see this type of situation quite often. The problem is the longer you wait, the harder it will be to raise kids. You are still fertile in your 30s. But you have less energy then than in your 20s. That makes a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Shameless game is the best game for menLol, good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menMen who are desirable generally have options. And men who have options choose women who havent been around. So logically women who have been around get left with the undesirable men. I dont need stats for showing that men dislike women with high counts., that part is common sense. Like, do you doubt that?? If you dont believe me make a poll and ask if men want women with high n counts or low. You will see it from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:54 AM |
| 6 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Most of the older generations did it because it was normal. Its how they always were. My point is that i believe that is the natural way for humans to be. What we have now is abnormal and damaging. There are a lot of factors as to why it became this way including economic reasons, and a shift in culture but my main point is that it is not correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:50 AM |
| 6 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Yeah, it depends on the families too. But generally if the culture changed to become more connected family-wise, it could be a start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.If it has been done in the past, it can be done again. I think its actually ideal. The economy isnt encouraging though, i agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:45 AM |
| 2 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Well i dont worry forever. I think about these things and then i move on. Its still in interesting topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:44 AM |
| 5 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Lol. Definitely IQ should be a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:43 AM |
| 7 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Thats because we live in a very individualistic society. If you had a support system like your parents uncles, aunts, etc all looking out for each other you could have children even if you arent settled in yet. You could do that while raising a child with support. It works out in communitirs that have that. Even if they arent well off financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:42 AM |
| 9 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I dont disagree that its harder and your points are valid. But i see blue collar couples (sometimes with the wife as a housewife) have kids in their young 20s). I think because we want to have maintain higher stabdards of living, we end up over-investing and waiting too long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:40 AM |
| 3 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.You can worry about society making a misstep, even if you dont have control over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:38 AM |
| -1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.I doubt you’d want all the people prioritizing partying and having fun creating children. Thats because they have been conditioned into thinking that is normal. If they were conditioned and trained to raise kids and form families they would have been ready. A lot of people wait to work on their career to have stable finances Yes that is a challenge. However, i still think if you change your priorities, your youth is the best time to have kids. You may have to cut some time off your freetime but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:37 AM |
| 8 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Cant say i disagree. A lot do anyway though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:34 AM |
| 0 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Because i do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menThe point is, not to a quality guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | People Who Advocate For The End Of Monogamy Never Talk About The Downsides Of Its Alternatives, But There Are ManyAh ,, should i post this under the autocomment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:32 AM |
| 2 | People Who Advocate For The End Of Monogamy Never Talk About The Downsides Of Its Alternatives, But There Are ManyI think humans are mostly monogamous. Given our behaviours that include mate guarding, jealousy, insecurity, etc within relationships om both sides (male and female) we are mostly monogamous and enforce it on each other. There are situations where men have multiple partners (usually the most powerful men) and then there is situational cheating which can happen on both sides. But i definitely think given most of our behaviour and nature, coupling up is the standard and the only arrangement that c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?Women preferring high or low testosterone men has nothing to do woth the current situation. Evolution doesnt happen in a few decades , it happens after millions of years. 2/3 generations of difference doesnt do that. The most likely reasons for a drop in testosterone are: unnatural levels of sedentary lifestyle ( believe it or not people, you are not built to sit AT ALL. PERIOD. You are built to squat down all the way and hold your weight on your feet, if you arent walking moving or lying down t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:08 AM |
| 1 | The only sustainable, effective way for a male to truly uphold his mental health is to become a stoic.Stoicism has always been the best masculine way to deal with the struggles of life. Controlling our emotions is the way to survive for us. Nowadays it just relates to relationships more , as that seems to become more and more of an emotional challenge for men. But regardless of the cause controlling your emotions and mastering stoicism is the way. I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:58 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPersThis seems more incel - like than RP. I have never seen any racism in any of the RP forums i have went to. There were objective discussion about race (as to who is most successful dating etc) but never anything like this. Also, this is way too whiney for an RP thing. Honestly sounds more like a blackpill story/setup. ------‐---------- That being said, if you are looking for a partner, and want a traditional relationship/marriage, a college experience can be mindblowing. Especially if you are tra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | META: Is anyone else feeling extremely stressed being in the "neutral" space that is the purple-pill on the red-pill and blue-pill spectrum?No this is the best place to be. As scientific as RP tries to be it clearly has its biases. And i would identify as redpilled. Perhaps if the redpill had more legit researchers and scientists interested in these things it would have been better. But we have a lot of grifters and people trying to repeat things said in am echochamber and trying to sell you something. As far as bluepill is concerned. Being an unaware bluepilled guy in this current dating market is like jumping off a building into a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:26 AM |
| 3 | The "80/20 rule" is now borderline mainstream. Two examples I came across this morning totally by accident.Its called the pareto principle and its well knows in business and other fields way before redpillers took it up to apply to dating. it was just assumed to work for dating as well and there was some overlap. But the principle has been a concept for a long time. Its just now being related to dating as dating became a market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyI had an idea what a jock is (sports guy) but i didnt know why he would be popular with the parents and teachers. I guess we did have different experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyCool, so most of the bullying is exclusion. We had that too but not so extreme i guess, because if you got excluded from one group you could join another group. I got along with most people as well, but occasionally there might be a person who just has an issue or dislikes you for whatever reason and then it becomes a problem lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menI like how you added yourself to the list :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menThey can do what they like. Its a "somewhat" free world (depending on where you live). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menThe "town bike" is gonna have a hard time marrying any man of substance. Not being mean, but lets be realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menWho said i am this way? Did you read the post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menYeah i would say learning to converse and flirt helps, especially if you are more introverted but otherwise its just a matter of finding the balls to approach and shoot your shot. There are guys who just do this and then there are guys who spend months or even years trying to get the interest of 1 girl... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 01:59 AM |
| 14 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenThis situation is a lot more complex. Most people did not flee the country. They have been living in a very fragile version of "peace" for a long time. 20 years of US occupation. A weak propped up government. And constant tension from terrorists. The amount of people that fled the country were minimal in comparison to the ones who stayed. The ones who stayed made peace with the taliban. Its safer for them and their families to do so. As the saying goes "if you cant beat them join them" and there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.Cheater bad :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyIts not about saving the nerd, its about beating up the wannabe tough guy. Its like a game. The guys just need an excuse to gang up and fight someone. That and i guess the local tough guys dont want competition. I used to participate simply because i didnt like bullies. But thats not everyones motivation. Where did you go to school? Many places, in 2 different countries (not gonna specify where), i went to public schools and later private schools. This dynamic existed everywhere i went from prim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menThere are a lot more things you can have her do for you. Cooking is just an example. But you do what you like. Relationships take work on both sides. Its not for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:43 AM |
| 5 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyHighly disagree. Every bully gets away with it due to social status. Wherever i studied, any kid with no backup/support who tried to bully someone got jumped. Doesnt matter how tough he thinks he is or how strong he thinks he is. He gets beat down by 5 or 6 kids. The only people who got away with bullying were the guys who had enough support for that not to happen to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:31 AM |
| 6 | Shameless game is the best game for menHe grew up, is married with kids now. He avoids people that knew him back in the day and generally seems embarrassed by it. Lol. This is also part of the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menMy closest friends are a few from high school. The ones i hang out the most with are people i see currently though. "Made friends at the gym"? Are you one of those obnoxious dudebros who just goes up to people when they're in the middle of lifting and tries to 'give them advice'? No, that is a very cartoonish idea but funny 😆. I just spotted a few guys during a struggling bench. They returned the favour. A few started a conversation and then it went from there. Since everyone lives in the surrou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?🤣🤣. First time i heard that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.That "someone" would be the woman. The woman is at fault for cheating. She goes out dressed revealingly, looking for attention from men, sees the right guy and cheats. Thats her fault. Its not a debate as you said. All the blame you laid on men clearly is bs as you see that the woman was doing all of this on purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Shameless game is the best game for menThese are just suggestions. You dont have to do them. People make friends in childhood and adolescence, not at book clubs. In fact they join clubs as groups, not alone, and they hang out exclusively with each other. Not necessarily. I made friends at various martial arts clubs due to common interest and motivations with people of various ages. Went in knowing nobody. I just wanted to learn to fight better. I made friends in chess club, which i was assigned to in school where none of my friends w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Shameless game is the best game for men, I'm too short. Muscles on a small man look ridiculous Only if you are juiced. Dw you wont look wider than you are tall. You will only look stronger. Which always helps. At least think about working the attractive muscles ( neck, delts, forearms and glutes). but I'm just not a very 'fun' person so I'd probably ruin the vibe. Dont worry about that. This is how you learn to be fun. at first just try to chime in and listen to the conversation. Add an opinion/comment here and there and see if you c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menJust make sure you dont touch/grab upon approach and you will be okay. And dont stalk. But if you are wary enough about MeToo then you will be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Shameless game is the best game for menAh man. You have to build up that confidence a bit more. I know its easier said than done, confidence comes from experience. Have you thought about lifting weights and taking part in social groups/group activities? Lifting weights helps build strength and will make you confident in your body. Social groups make you more confident with conversing and having a good time. Not forcing/pushing anything on you. Its your choice, i just think this would be good. I lift weights as well. I have my friends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Shameless game is the best game for menFair point. We all have regrets man. It happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Shameless game is the best game for menWell the argument was originally about if they guy was shameless (i think, cant see past the last 4 replies). And the person was arguing its not shameless, its just a guy going for what he wants. I was just adding that women dont have the male perspective of being desperate for sex, the experience is different. Thats all. It seems that women understand him just fine, they just aren't interested. Yeah i agree with that part . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.By "let them hit " i mean "have sex with them". Maybe you are more familiar with let them smash/ let them bang. Wrong use of words on my part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menIndeed ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Shameless game is the best game for menLol. Damn. Does it work out or nah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menSorry bud. It happens 🍻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menI guess if a guy was completely shameless then that would be an accurate description. But im just talking about being shameless when it comes to running game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menIts only not true if you cannot maintain it. It certainly is possible. Just dont tolerate any disrespect and keep her in check. You also have to be willing to walk away. If they really respect you it can be rewarding. I had a girl cook me dinner every evening i went over. And that was even before we put a label on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menThe moment men start obsessing over women and especially on how to get into their good graces is the moment they become that horse pulling the cart of female validation. True. Your comment should be top comment. Both for the truth and also for the pics. That was legendary 😆. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menI wouldnt say that. There are certain things a lot of people wont do. Regardless of what benefits you may get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Shameless game is the best game for menYup, mindless cold approach. Or strategic cold approach but with maximum numbers in mind. From what i have seen its the most successful method if you just want to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?I mean yeah you can be kinky nothing wrong with that. Im talking about things that are extreme or degrading/humiliating, and things that are unsafe/detrimental to a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menMy bad 😅, got confused with all the different comments. Couldnt tell in what way you meant it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Shameless game is the best game for menThat part is right, but you dont really understand his perspective. To be fair he doesnt even care about the female perspective either so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menDamn that was poetic. Really nice and very true. Those 2 pics made me bellylaugh though. Hillarious. Yet, accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menI'd rather be found dead near a jar of lotion with my pants down. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 nice one. Hey the other way is to get into a relationship. I did that and didnt have to give up any of my pride. But tbh a lot of guys in relationships are simps and put their girl on a pedestal. Just dont do that bs. You literally promote bad behaviour by doing that. If you respect yourself and your girl respects you, and you keep her satisfied, a relationship can be fulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menI mean there will always be guys who wont make a move or wont make amove quick enough. Thats on them. My point is it still works as long as you take the initiative and dont get hung up on rejections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menWell, it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menI dont think you understood my post. Please read again but being open to a male perspective not one with a female victim complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menLol they go hand in hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:13 PM |
| 7 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyIt could work but i would still say that you have to be somewhat higher than average to be able to start bullying and get away with it. Otherwise you would just get jumped. At least in my experience. In the schools i went if a nobody or a new kid would start bullying they would get beat up by a bunch of kids immediately. Or at least verbally abused until they leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategySome very good points. You brought up things that i had not. I would say that if we live peaceful lives in general we would not want to use violence for all those reasons (dont want to hurt people, dont want revenge etc.). So we want to maintain the status quo. And moving up socially via education, work, talent and making connections/networking is far more productive. However lets say we lived in a rough place or we came from a community which was already being attacked oppressed etc. They have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menOh wow. I am lucky to say that i have never had a bar fight. Having later heard some bad stories im glad it never happened. Yeah the drinks can really let the emotions out, especially if you have been holding it in. Contrary to popular RP belief, chicks do not dig fighting or aggressiveness. I would say girls who have a reasonably high IQ level do not like that sort of behaviour, for the obvious consequences 😅. But i wouldnt say all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menI wouldnt say its being a simp. You arent tolerating bs behaviour from women, you are lowering your own standards. You may not like getting rejected 5 times in a night so you are lowering your standards to do that in order to find a hookup. Its different from agreeing with women over ridiculous stuff and putting them on a pedestal and letting them walk all over you. I would say that is a SIMP. Thats someone who is usually stuck in the friendzone. An orbiter. I wouldnt say going out and shameless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menYeah i would say get the offline chatting to an online meetup as soon as possible. Thats the best way to deal with flakiness. Yeah i guess i can get irritated when drunk. But im also happier when im happy and drunk and i find things funnier than i find them funny sober. I just also get more irritated and annoyed than usual when im drunk. I think my emotions just get a bit less controlled in general. I am aware of it though and when it starts going south i usually leave before i get to a point wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menId say he was similar but with much less planning than you have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyFair point, i dont necessarily disagree that it is evil. But really, if you could have your kids and grandkids live a much better life than currently, would you still be adamant about never using violence? I live a fairly comfortable life, and im guessing you do too. I guess if we lived more violent and oppressed lives we may have a completely different view about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menSocial media game is a whole different game though. You cant really let your personality shine through and have to use good pictures and text in a way that keeps their interest. And the reason i dont like drunk girls is that they lower their guard TOO much. To the point that they dont respect personal boundaries. I dont like it when i see a girl all nice and respectful in college and then later in the club she puts her finger in your drink and thinks its cute. I have been close to snapping a cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menYeah its a matter of women and men not relating to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menProbably a mistake on my use of words. I dont think he is a loser. But most girls + other folks looked at him that way as he couldnt get the first girl and asked out more and more. I have to say it was a bit extreme. Most guys try 2 or 3 and then hit the next avenue as your chances have decreased by then since girls take notice. The dude was defintely was high on the delusional self confidence. But he was/is successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menIn terms of going for who you think looks great, your attitude isnt wrong. Some guys lower their standards just to get laid but if your not desperate you dont have to do that. I would say your approach is the best tbh. Everytime you do get a girl, you feel satisfied, it seems. I have a bad habit of thinking if i dont score the 10/10, the night is ruined For me its that i dont really enjoy being around drunk girls in the first place and then when i see a girl who seems more my type, i develop a q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Shameless game is the best game for menI dont have a high n count. Only ever been in relationships. Long term. Never hooked up, never did casual sex. I have went out looking for it (clubs, bars, parties) with some guy friends a couple times but decided its not for me. But i made a lot of interesting observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women?Yeah maybe having sons gives you another perspective but either way i agree with your attitude. And i also agree that the real father should be held responsible to raising the child. If they are a bad parent at least provide the child with resources. Thats the bare minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 09:49 PM |
| 8 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyExactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyIt depends. Lets forget the moral side of it for arguments sake. Lets say you can rise up through education, work and talent to am extend. But there is a limit. If you want to get past that limit, you need to use violence. If you dont use violence, you can live the rest of your life as a lower rank. You can get higher if you work hard, but never truly to the highest ranks or the top. On the bad side, violence means you will have to harm and kill people. But if you do use violence, you get to ris… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 09:12 PM |
| 53 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyI would argue this is more so because women like high status men, and bullies tend to be high status. If you arent high enough of on the social ladder you cant get away regularly with bullying. I think its the social status that draws them in. Girls like popular guys, in college and in hs, regardless of if they are dicks or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:48 PM |
| 7 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyWomen wanting high status men is not an excuse to resort to violence What if violence is a viable method to move up in social status (historically has been that way). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.Thats very weakminded. If she dresses revealingly and sees that you have no objections , she will take that as a sign that she can indulge with other men. Guys are only shooting thenselves in the foot when they allow things like this to appear "secure". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women?It would be great if most girls had your attitude. Hopefully in the future this becomes normalized. It could prevent so many paternity fraud situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.No see that is illogical. We should not be okay with that if they can actually do better. Its like you dont understand basic codes of conduct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women?Im for it. I think everyone should do it. Its women who are the strongest voice against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:30 PM |
| -2 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.changing your attire just so men don't approach you sounds stupid as fuck. Its the opposite. Its intelligent. Revealing clothes draw more attention from men. women should be free to dress how they want. Then they should accept the consequences. If you are gonna dress revealingly you will get more men hitting on you. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women?Probably about 65% would be pro . Thats a severe overestimation. If you make a poll or ask this question on anywhere outside PPD or maybe redpill forums i would say you would get 5-10% women for it at best. I have done it before. 3 women out of 50+ were open to the idea. The rest was the typical "if he doesnt trust me, he should leave" bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.By acting/dressing in a way that makes it clear that you are not available. Basically my last paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?I disagree. I would say that girls who have daddy issues (absent/neglectful dad or abusive dad) will have a completely different outlook of herself and behave sexually different from a girl who has a healthy relationship with her father. Sons who have been raised with too much encouragement and coddling and not too much discipline often tend to be very demanding and disregard boundaries sexually - according to some women i know. Peoples childhood and experiences can influence their sexual behavi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?I highly doubt that a mentally healthy, well adjusted girl would be into weird and humiliating stuff. Everyone has innocent kinks and fantasies, i just dont want my kids to do degrading stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?I would want my daughter to date someone who is at least naturally redpill (or purplepill) or redpill aware through literature or videos. I think OP doesnt differentiate between redpill men and players. Which is something a lot of bluepillers do , while at the same time relating redpillers to incels (weird, those 2 are at opposite ends). I definitely dont want her to date some bluepill SIMP, those types are getting more and more desperate and encourage the worst behaviour from women. I also dont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather women be more lenient with LOOKS standards.....or FRAME standardsLooks. Men need to learn to hold frame. Its important outside of relationships too. There are a lot of emotional, feminine men out there with weak boundaries who dont know anything about holding a masculine frame. They need to learn that. No 2 ways about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather women be more lenient with LOOKS standards.....or FRAME standardsRollos desription is pretty good. What he is describing is frame from an authoritative perspective. My description is a more personal perspective. Rollos frame is more about power. Mine is more about importance. Its not completelt different, my idea is just way more general. For example, if you are confident in a given setting and have good emotional control, someone cannot irritate or annoy you and provoke an action out of you. At least not easily. In this situation you maintain frame. If they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.Its not just them doing "shitty things when drunk too" its them being worse. This is confirmed by people who are in that profession. You are acting here as if men are the worse ones. If you act/look like a femboy i can imagine that you attract some creepy men, more than women but that doesnt mean thats the case for everyone. Also, i dont care about your status or count. But you pointing that out and your general whiteknightish stance makes me doubt that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather women be more lenient with LOOKS standards.....or FRAME standardsFrame isnt antisocial behaviour or manipulation. Its being confident and in control of your emotions in different environments. If you dont often feel outshined or not taken seriously, you have a good frame. Having a strong frame requires strong emotional control. Which is pretty much taught to us since we are boys. I dont see how any of this is antisocial. Women definitely respect frame. It doesnt always have to do with attraction though. Its a respect thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.Its not even a question. Women would definitely be 100% more insecure. They are gaslighting in the comments and bringing up other arguments, but they know too that they are full of 💩 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.Id say women cheat much more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.If your partner allows other people to hit on them, it is a problem. Any woman who denies this is a walking red flag. Loyal women know how to act in a way that doesnt draw male attention. Disloyal women got a ring on them but walk with "for sale" signs on their breasts and act as if its men's problem for approaching. Those of us raised by proper mothers arent falling for that bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.You are a femboy, lol of course you wouldnt be hit on by women as much as gay men. Ask any doorman/security for clubs/bars and they will tell you which gender is more problematic when drunk. Its always women in groups on girls nights out and bachelorette parties who are the worst when it comes to crossing boundaries and sexual harrassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.how are women at fault? Because you let them hit. Which takes aways all the man-blaming you just did and makes you just as bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.If they stick around they can become orbiters. You can call the others comets/shooting stars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women?What % of women do you think are actually open minded enough to allow paternity testing? If every woman were so open minded that would be great. But most of them hate it more than the devil himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 04:18 PM |
| -1 | Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women?The vast majority of men never had any chance at multiple partners to sacrifice. They do/did. Prostitutes existed throughout history. Its one of the oldest professions. STD's always existed but nothing really as deadly as aids existed and men who were unmarried had every incentive to sleep with hookers/easy women. Well you could get shamed for it, but so would women who slept without commitment. Women who slept without commitment were seen on the same level as porstitutes anyway. And its not lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 04:14 PM |
| 2 | On Sheryl Sandberg's advice to women on finding a life partner: be the first guyBad advice to women. Literally the opposite of what parents would say to their daughters from 2000 years ago until this day. Women who take this type of advice seriously only have themselves to blame. But as a guy, i dont think any guy wants to be the "husband" after the woman has been with a bunch of guys for fun. Rings are for serious girls. If you sleep around for fun thats all we see in you as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | The Biggest Red Flag is Substance AbuseI'll take a chick who has "fucked 50 dudes" over a chick who "likes to do the occasional bump" 10/10x. Why not avoid both? 😂 Neither seem ideal not in my opinion anyway. I agree with the post. Substance abuse and promiscuity in women are AT LEAST mildly related. Btw i wouldnt rule out cannabis. I know some girls who smoke and hookup a lot. Some say its an enhanced experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | My Best Friend Says She’s Allowed to Cheat on Her Husband as “Reparations” for Gender InequalityHard to feel empathy for a guy who puts up with such bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:13 PM |
| 0 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."You mean thirsty ass comments from girls on moviestars and models pics 😂😂? This isnt your element dude, you dont know how dating is like for straight men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Yes it is the truth. If you are not a straight guy, you dont know what im talking about. Women and gay men have NO CLUE how dating is for straight men. Dating for you is easy. We have to learn skills that you dont. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 07:39 PM |
| 0 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."You clearly have no clue how this works. Then hop in a gym and put on something more than sweatpants when you post a picture. It's really not that serious. It wont make girls dm you. It really is that serious. It may help you when YOU dm girls, but it wont make them come at you. You like guys so you severely overestimate how important looks are to women. Just looking good wont make girls dm you , thats a male thing, most women simply dont dm men. Being hot isnt enough to make girls bang you, you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 07:33 PM |
| 2 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Irrelevant. Point is that the deer doesnt know how to hunt deer. And women dont know how to get women from a mans perspective. Its a simple and easily understood analogy, unless you wanna nitpick because you hate the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 07:25 PM |
| 3 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Everyone who is out in the field has better results than before. They are everywhere. Unless they dont know how to meet women or dont want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."I am already RP aware. I dont need extra knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."You take advice from the hunter, not the deer. Deer cant teach you how to hunt 😏. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:32 PM |
| 2 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Yeah ik but damn she has no clue about how things are from the male side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Lol, are you serious? Just be yourself?? How can anyone be so out of touch with reality? Did you seriously think anyone for whom "just be yourself" worked out comes to redpill? This is exactly why you cannot take advice from women. You guys have no clue how life is for men. That advice may work for you. Not for us. You go to a club dressed up and looking nice a lot of guys may approach you or try to buy you a drink etc. You get on social media and you get dms from men. That is how it is for wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:29 PM |
| 10 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Meanwhile there are plenty of stories where guys open up to their girlfriends and the girlfriends freak out and cant handle it. Lots of stories where guys get dumped for crying and showing weakness. Sure you may be the exception, whenever we say things girls come up with exceptions. We cant make a bet on exceptions its not like we have 15 girls in our dms and have a lot of options. We are the ones who have to go out and get girls so its best to be attractive to MOST girls not the exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 7 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Trust me, we would bang the majority of you without makeup or waist trainers. If you are an average woman, you could wake up from bed dishevelled and unkempt and maybe 70% of dudes would still love to smash. It really doesnt take that much. A lot of the things some women feel will "help" them in attractiveness is straight up unnecessary. Okay, i admit that makeup can sometimes take a a girl up one point or 2 on the attractiveness scale. And so can shaving your legs. But there are a lot of cosmet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 7 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."The problem is a lot of guys are not that attractive to most women. And we dont really know who finds us attractive either unless the girl tells us, which is very rare. And i would argue that men and women are VERY different when it comes to sexual/romantic selection and behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 05:41 PM |
| 9 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Okay, well no matter how you cut it, it's essentially "women like sleeping with men they find attractive." Thats the problem your post is reducing RP awareness to "women like sleeping with men they find attractive". The truth is that tons of guys are unaware what makes them attractive or how to use that to their benefit. "women like sleeping with men they find attractive." - is useless unless you figure out what attracts women how to be attractive and how to maintain that. That is the merit in R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 12 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Maybe redpill may have been "common knowledge" in the past but today there is definitely a market for it. I will show some examples. A lot of guys, especially young guys are unaware of how hypergamy works. We think women think like us; we walk into a room and would probably smash 50% of the women there. Maybe 80% on a desperate day. Thats because our base sexual strategy is a quanitity oriented strategy. On the other hand a woman walking into a room may only find 1 guy or 2 guys attractive most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Productive recreation is critical for the 'average' guy to succeed in the mating marketOr just learn and practice game and you will do better than 99% of men. And what you want for the rest of your time. I do recommend quitting porn and excess social media though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:05 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about snooping?I am on the other side of the argument. I believe that 2 partners should have full access to each others phones/computers. That solves the snooping problem too. If you cant do that, you have no business being in a relationship. There is a reason traditional marriages worked. There was no keeping secrets from each other. But ever since social media becane a thing everyone got all fussy about privacy. If you act on each others behalf on social media and the internet (as in you dont do sneaky or di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Yeah man those guys exist too. There is always a small risk. There is also the risk that the girl herself is the crazy one. In general things can get more extreme if they are currently dating. Either way i dont mind, you do you. I dont have an issue with what others do. Its just important for everyone to be aware of the risk to reward. If the risk is low and you get a nice reward, good. But if the risk is too high, personally i wouldnt take it. Thats my apporach to these topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Thats up to you, but its important that you are aware that you are committing a transgression. Its not a new discovery that guys dont want their girl to sleep with another guy. She may just be a hoe to us but thats not what the other guy is thinking. And depending on what kind of guy it is you may suffer severe consequences, maybe even your life. Happens all the time. Personally i have no reason to be part of that bs. But anyone who does should be aware of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Not when she is in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.No i agree , thats true. Although if they do find a suitable guy, their current guy might get replaced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.What’s the transgression? You are banging someone's elses girl. That is a moral transgression, no 2 ways about it. Unless you had no clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.Having casual sex but it doesn't work out and the feelings fade away is normal, but not a Pump and Dump That is what a lot of RPers call "pump and dump". Also, "feelings fading away" is not always as quiet and peaceful as you may think. The Pump and Dump needs to be deliberate and not just a loss of interest, or otherwise every time someone has sex without it turning into a relationship both have pumped and dumped each other, which makes little sense. There is no such rule. Its only terminology.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.First, you don't know how it turned out for them. Well not the people i dont know, but i know about the ones i know personally. Obviously the ones who are still hooking up or are in a relationship wont have that issue. Im talking about the ones where they hooked up for a while or even just once and then it ended. In those cases they guys are usually neutral and the girls usually hold resentment. Lets be real, most of us guys have seen or known this, if we havent expereinced it ourselves. Secondl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)But i guarantee that those women have a favourite. And unless their man who is not that guy can swallow that huge humble pill it wont work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Or just shopping for new guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)The legality is to make sure discrimination wont happen within the house. However it still proves that men are capable of doing so. If it was impossible we wouldnt do it. Its not possible the other way around as a woman can only submit to one man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.The generally do have a rotation of guys. I would say that the relationship guy is their "anchor" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Study: "Benevolent sexism" linked to parentingTrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)Look just objectively ask yourself, Is it more biologically advantageous for a man to have 1 kid or 10 kids? Is a man more likely to have multiple kids if he mates with 1 woman or 10 women? Its a very simple concept of what is advantageous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.More like, it doesnt sound morally right. But it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Sometimes that is the case. Men need to keep our eyes open and listen to our gut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.Your own data says that 8% of women expected a traditional romantic relationship from it but 42% desired it. You still think its only a minority of women that that happens to? Your source may say that they get closer as friends but idk what they based that conclusion on. From your data it could easily be seen that they could be resentful. In my experience, most guys meet and hookup girls through mutual friends groups. If a guy sleeps with multiple girls in a friends group that will cause issues … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.Even some of your data suggests that pump and dump is a thing while not explicitly stating so. Almost every girl that i know who has had casual sex with a guy for a while and then the guy moved on, holds resentment towards the guy. They definitelt act as if they were "dumped". The guys may have just wanted to have sex and no relationship, but the girls may have had bigger intentions. Its extremely common. Its not even necessarily guys doing it on purpose, a lot of the time its just that girls ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Stance on porn addiction and availability to kids100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Stance on porn addiction and availability to kidsSince we talked about it, you know my stance 😁. I think its as strong as drug/alcohol addiction and we need more awareness. We also should definitely be more careful and make measures to avoid kids from seeing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Lmao , sad but accurate i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Fair enough. Are you a man or a woman? Not attacking you, just asking for clarification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Interesting, so you hava a similar experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.I mean i basically just wanted to see peoples opinions. I just thought CMV was the most appropriate flair but maybe something else is better. The reason i say this is due to my experience. Id like to know what other people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)Science tells us that men are not biologically driven to ‘spread their seed’. I highly doubt that. Which piece of "science" says that? Im not saying i support male promiscuity btw, im just saying that this is a behaviour that exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.That makes sense. Tbh, im in my mid 20s so most of my friends are around this younger age range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Yeah if you want a relationship, i would also agree go for that one. Of course, after getting to know her more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Ill keep it in mind. I have to wait until this one dies down 😁. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Haha thank you for that, but i still need to go a long way. I hear once you make it to about 90 days, your brain sort of clears from the addiction. At that point it should get easier. Also in your case, i would say you did the right thing because he took it a step further than porn and actually cheated. Its hard to recover from that. Hopefully he has changed but its better for you to move on. You have a good mindset and need someone with the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.All were casual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Lol true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Yeah, it really depends on the individuals/the groups. I had a lot of friends that i met just through drinking, playing sports, lifting etc. I know guys who would do nothing like this for fear of their reputation and i also know guys who dont care and enjoy the free sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.You are being very supportive and i needed this 😁 very kind of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.True. For women, getting hookups/ONS is the easiest way to cheat since too many men are eager to hookup & will keep the secret. So female cheaters aim for hookups. Yeah that makes sense. And i think you are right. A lot of guys who go to prostitutes tend to be married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.who cares cause she'll just find someone else that will so you've prevented nothing. Heard this one from one of my friend like 10 times 😆😆. Yeah i get it man. It is what it is. Why do most men get hit on MORE when they're taken? We could make that a question but i doubt there would be a lot of honest answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Its not for me either. The more i figured this thing out the less i wanted to do it. As appealing as commitment free sex is, these issues really killed the interest for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Thanks for the honesty. My opinion why its women who seek casual sex are attached women is because single women are more likely to go for a commitment + sex. In my opinion. In my experience, single women are less likely to seek sex only, compared to women who already have a relationship. Of course there are a lot more factors that go into this, but this is just my insight. Feel free to share more if you want. Thanks for your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Yup. Anything to add? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.No you are 100% right. As you can see from my username i am against pornography and i am aware of the negative effects. Still havent completely made it but i am aware and trying my best to beat this thing. And thank you again 🙂. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.No, as i said its just personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Most of them yeah. We were in college at the time. There were a few women who were 25 26 28. But most were below 24. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.I am sorry to hear that. I hope your next partner is loyal and more respectful, if you are looking. Stay vigilant when seeking one. Good luck 😄. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.I agree with you. Technically when she cheats she is most likely looking for someone to replace her current man. At least imo. But i guess the point is that they will lead with sex and the other guy can just have sex without anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Yeah ik. But i think its also about guys being very unmasculine in relationships that lead to the women seeking something else. Maybe guys just need to be more masculine and know how to lead a relationship. RP awareness can help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Im just looking for peoples experiences and their opinions. I was unsure about the flair i had to choose. Should i change from CMV to something else? Which would be the best one for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Well in the cases that i was talking about, im certain that the majority of the women were not open. They were cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.Thats okay, i am just looking to see how people stand on this and their opinions. Thank you very much for your good wishes 🙂. I wish you all the best as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.As i wrote in the description this has been my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Women are more likely to disclose their relationship status to a man they are cheating with.Thats probably because guys will be lowkey about it if she says she has a man. While women will try to break up your relationship to get with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to disclose their relationship status to a man they are cheating with.Yup, this on is on the girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Study: "Benevolent sexism" linked to parentingWell this is what happens when society considers the statement that "men and women are different" to be sexist. A lot of things that are considered sexist are not really sexist, they are just realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?Lol no. The general consensus is that high n-count women suck. The burden of proof is on you to prove otherwise. You have no comebacks, cant argue and flee when challenged 😂😂😂. You'll forgive me but I have to go get some criminals back on the street. Have fun with your imagination. No one is buying your bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?Boot strapping argument upon argument is not a mechanism. This is not what i am doing though. You clearly have nothing to refute my points. Answer the question, would you let anyone stab you with a knife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?Yup. You are well aware of it :). People dont respond well when you bring these things up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?There is a logical mechanism. I just explained it. You dont wanna listen. Women who let a lot of men sleep with them have weak boundaries. This goes for all women with high counts. You dont think letting a lot of people penetrate you is having weak boundaries? You can even take out the sexual aspect of it so that you can relate to this as a straight man. How many people would you trust to stab you with a knife? Would you let every other guy do it? How about your friends? Or would you only let so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?Well, lets be logical about this. If there is a correlation between candy and cancer , would you ignore that and say "well that doesnt prove candy causes cancer" and keep on eating candy or double down on it, or would you be a bit more careful? I would say if you are worried enough about cancer, then you would most likely reduce or quit eating candy. This is no different. If you are a man looking for marriage and you want a woman who is loyal you are gonna take this correlation seriously. Women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?Feminism also only really took off after they recieved a lot of funding. This means that there was likely an economic motive behind it. Basically, imo it was more about getting women into the workforce than it was about equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)I am not basing what i said on any data. Ist not about the study. I actually said in the beginning that that study was done on animals and why its different to us people. My statement is just based on observed behaviours of people and common sense. Think about it, do women generally want to sleep with every other young healthy man that they see? Or are women more selective? In comparison a lot of men have the desire to sleep with a lot of young healthy women that we see. And a lot of us like old… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?I had saved 2 posts in particular from r/relationship advice but they are not there anymore it seems they were deleted. I will try to find some others, shouldnt be too hard actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)Thats about animals though. Not about humans. Animals whose children are developed already at birth can afford to be more promiscuous. Mammals generally have litter/babies that are less indeoendent and need more protection and care so usually the mother sticks around much longer and sometimes the father too (in some animals). With humans we have some of the least developed babies and we need to care after them for a long time. Thats why we naturally have more parental involvement with our kids. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 12:44 PM |
| -2 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?No they are not. And its not just that they are more likely to cheat. They are also bad mothers. I can link some reddit posts here for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 12:24 PM |
| 5 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?Lol. Amazing how people want to change statistical proof to fit in with the "post-sexual liberation" narrative. Glad people are waking up to the bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 12:23 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)First of all, being a first world civilization has nothing to do with gender dynamics. It has more to do with politics and economics than anything else. You are making a fool of yourselves for even going there. Exposing a lot of lowkey racism dude. There were a lot of cultures where powerful men had more women compared to average men. In fact in the past it was more so of a norm. And btw , european civilization practiced polygamy as well just lowkey. Thats why european kings had concubines. That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)What happens to the women who try to have more than one man? Oh that's right, they get stoned to death. Depends on where you live and in what time period. There were societies which were more matriarchial and allowed women more than one man. Its just not nearly as common and doesnt work out. The structure doesnt hold as well and they just dont work out as often. And the reason is because womam cannot love more than one man at a time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)Ugh, typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)How so? People practice it. Muslims for example are allowed to marry up to 4 women, if they can provide for them. There are many throughout the world that do this. There are cultures in africa (not muslims) who also allow men multiple wives. It clearly works. There are just different rules to it than traditional monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.Oh wow. Thanks, i will check them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | "Can't wife a hoe" but, why not?That you shouldn't marry a woman who isn't a virgin? or has had multiple sex partners? Or just a woman who thoroughly enjoys sex? Could mean all/any of that. Depends on the guy. Anyway i will give my opinion. I dont think a hoe is just a girl who had a few partners. I think a hoe is seen as a girl/woman who has had many partners like more than 10 or 20 partners depending on her age. A lot more than her peers and is usually easier than your average girl to get into bed. I wholeheartedly agree tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.Oh damn. I dont really like vlad as an interviewer but people do go on there and tell a lot of stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.r kelly himself was sexually assulted as a kid. Oh wow. I didnt know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Myers Briggs and MRA'sHehe 😁 | /r/MensRights | 08/08/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Myers Briggs and MRA'sIm also INFJ. I dont remember specifically if its INFJ a or the other. Male 26 INFJ | /r/MensRights | 08/08/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.Well i cant really speak for them but they seemed very convincing. For reference, i grew up with some of these guys and i can tell when they are usually bullshytting. It seemed genuine to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 07:45 PM |
| 3 | What is everyone's opinions on "No More Mr. Nice Guy!" (the book)?The problem comes when it goes nowhere over and over again. And my argument is that that will happen less often when you act more masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Sexual peakHer not wanting to have sex with her bf as much doesn't mean she doesn't desire sex, it just means she doesn't want to fuck THAT person. This is exactly what i said to start with, wth 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)So do women with children chose a favourite they love more too or is it just with men? Hmm, i hope not 😅. I think its just with romantic partners. When it come to your blood, your family its different. So what are your thoughts on polyamorous women Idk maybe women can do that if they have been with a lot of people and get used to that? Im not sure. But even then i would say there could be a time limit. After a while she may end up choosing one. Or at least have a favourite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | What is everyone's opinions on "No More Mr. Nice Guy!" (the book)?Well the thing is you still get what you want. If it goes nowhere you can move on. Its that if you act that way, you will still have overall more success. Of course you wont have perfect results, but no one does anyway. The point is that you do better in comparison to being nice and soft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Sexual peakNo i already know. If you are hot you get more sex from your gf. Its common sense. If you dont know that you need to meet more women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 06:00 PM |
| 6 | What is everyone's opinions on "No More Mr. Nice Guy!" (the book)?Well here is the thing. Lots of people agree that being more masculine gets you good results. But i have never met anyone say that being softer and nicer got them better results. Thats a disney move myth, that doesnt happen irl. So we know what to do. People who try and fail say it doesnt work because they couldnt really pull it off. Its not easy to change your personality, that takes a lot of time and conscious effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Sexual peak🤣🤣 what?? You have a lot to learn dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Polyamory Confusion (Men vs Women)Well a lot of it self serving but here is the truth. A man can be fair to and love more than one woman. What i mean is he can treat more than one woman equally, with equal commitment. This is why a lot of cultures allow multiple wives for men who have the means to take care of them. The other way is not as common because women cannot love multiple men at the same time. A woman can only surrender/submit to one man at a time. That man will have the majority of her devotion and commitment. Any othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 5 | FDS in mainstream media (The Guardian article)Typical of them to promote stuff like FDS while not taking RP seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:48 PM |
| 8 | FDS in mainstream media (The Guardian article)I agree. The simps made their own bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | What is everyone's opinions on "No More Mr. Nice Guy!" (the book)?I havent read it but i hear that its nice RP type material without being quite RP. Thats sounds good for starters. Personally i read RP material so its not really necessary for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:32 PM |
| 10 | What is everyone's opinions on "No More Mr. Nice Guy!" (the book)?As a former nice guy, i highly disagree. Being assertive, selfish and dominant is the best thing you can do as a man and will make the biggest difference with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Sexual peakYes it is. 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.I agree with that i think they just move on. But when they talked about it, some of my friends genuinely seemed like they just found it funny now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Sexual peakI think a woman sexual peak is when she meets and gets with the hottest man that she can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.I dont think its the culture that made it that way, i think its the way us guys react to it that kinda set the culture. I know 3 guys who were "touched" by older girls/women as kids. None of them knew what was going on then realized it later as teens and pretty much say "why tf doesnt that happen now when i can enjoy it" and laugh. At that point you can just laugh with them. If they dont see themselves as victims , how can you call them that? Men refuse to be seen as weak or powerless, regardles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 03:06 AM |
| 7 | Is bi/les flirting really that easy?Watched the video. Definitely fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 12:23 AM |
| 9 | Is bi/les flirting really that easy?I think women being less physically intimidating and also the fact that you are not going to get penetrated (well not with a penis) makes things a lot less intense and more chill/calm. But this video could just be staged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Does this figure appear plausible to you: “The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce.”You'd lose more money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sidesMiss me with that bs man. I dont do hookups or casual sex, i dont really like the type of woman who does that. But i have plenty of friends who hookup a lot and they all love it. I have never met a guy who hooks up a lot who doesnt like it. If you didnt like it, you wouldnt have done it, so im calling you out too. Its not like it just falls into your lap, you actively pursue them. Maybe you are in a relationship now and want to put the old habits behind. But you know exactly what im saying. Let … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?Yeah i dont usually bother with those, unless i can make a joke on them :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Does this figure appear plausible to you: “The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce.”Its good that you bet low then :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Does this figure appear plausible to you: “The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce.”Tbf, i dont know any guy who would marry a woman that had 16 partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Does this figure appear plausible to you: “The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce.”Well in this case, it shows that their pair-bonding capacity gets damaged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Does this figure appear plausible to you: “The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce.”Its not about culture , its about biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable?No. If you are a man and stay masculine and your woman stays feminine, it wont happen. At least in theory. But usually we soften up, and women often get comfortable and act less feminine over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 09:34 PM |
| 4 | Results from a new speed dating studyMore hypergamy proof for the non-believers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Your 30s are the most ideal time to get married.No i agree that you should vet for more than that, when looking for a partner. But im saying that the youthful sex appeal is very strong, especially for men. As guys get older its less important though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Your 30s are the most ideal time to get married.I would argue that for women ages 18-25 are more ideal, as they are the most physically appealing, at that part of their life. The husband should get to be with his wife during those years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 11:09 PM |
| 18 | The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sidesHaving no strings attached sex with someone is the ultimate W for men. Its just an L to women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 07:04 PM |
| 0 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?No. Yes. I dont think you have much experience in any of these communities. You are just going by a white-washed version of the actual truth. Societies where women don’t date before marriage are just silenced by the men who rape them who are supposedly the men who ‘protect’ them. Assuming most men are rapists automatically annuls this argument. Most men are not rapists. That was a weak counter. Statistically women in rigidly patriarchal communities are more likely to be victims of domestic viole… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?Yeah but i thought op was a guy. Anyway idk if it was worth the effort in hindsight, but i do like sharing my opinions here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?I disagree, and so will many others. You can disagree, but its still true. When it comes to first relationships and later on, people learn a lot from them. What they can do, what they have to do and what makes them happy and satisfied. That requires a level of self awareness most young people do not have. And by the time they develop that, the damage done outweighs any benefits. It seems the most happy relationships are the egalitarian ones, not the traditional ones. Here both are equal in power… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 05:10 PM |
| -1 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?Very one sided and inaccurate of the whole truth. I will tell you the other side. Societies where women dont date before marriage have men protecting women from bad men. Unlike modern western society where a father or brother cant really do much except say an opinion when the girl decides to date an obvious asshole who she thinks is hot and who WILL hurt her for sure, in traditional societies that guy would be beaten within an inch of his life and chased away. And tbh not a lot of guys like that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 03:50 PM |
| 0 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?Thats too much logic for the average redditor to comprehend 😁. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 03:33 PM |
| 0 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?Well technically it is. You dont get better with more partners. Just more baggage , more hangups, more issues etc. Also for a relationship to succeed, the man needs to have power. It is what it is, dont get mad at me for saying the truth. Women get bored and resentful when they are the ones in charge. They may find you cute if you are good looking or they may find it sweet if you are nice but if she is the one with the power, eventually it will grow old. Eventually she will resent you. Its a fac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.Oh for sure. Never date CC riders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 11:57 PM |
| 6 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.Do you really think that most men abuse their wives? I think thats just a certain type of guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 07:43 PM |
| 9 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.LOL a guy would treat his wife better than Margot Robbie? 100%. I think there is a lot of projection going on here. Or you may be looking at husbands portrayed or tv or simps that you know. But there is a reason we call those type of guys simps. What you need to understand is that most men who are mentally strong, are not submissive to status or beauty. We may respect status and we may like beauty, but we arent controlled by it. Thats weak men. I cant say for certain but i think guys who are wea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 07:29 PM |
| 7 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.Men do not treat their LTR better. I watch what men do, not what men say. Lol you just copied what RP guys say. The only men who treat beautiful women better are SIMPS. To be fair to you, there are a lot of those out there nowadays. But personally idk any guy who treats his wife worse than some random hot chick. We make jokes about these type of girls or objectify them if its just the guys (not with ill intent though, just guy talk) but no one is allowed to talk that way about anothers wife. Wiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.I think this also has to do with women losing their ability to pair bond after multiple partners. So of course the first few guys she gets with are gonna get the king treatment but then eventually the guy she ends up with (way down the line) will not get treated as good. Of course this isnt always the case, especially if women are aware of it but most people arent aware of it. The pair bonding thing is rarely ever discussed mainstream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 06:12 PM |
| 17 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.No thats actually wrong. A guy would treat his wife as good or better than any actress. And thats what OP is saying. We treat our partners better but (SOME) women treat other men than their ltr/marriage guy better. Not the case with all women but i get the sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 6 | Are ALL LTR's doomed to failIf it has been done by a person before it can be done again. And this is something that has been done by millions of people. So no, a monogamous LTR is not doomed to fail. The big problem imo is that nowadays a lot of men arent being very masculine for a variety of reasons and women are often keeping their options open, even in relationships. Those 2 might be related. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)"When the age difference as small as 2 years exists between a male and younger female partner, investigators have found links to risky sexual partners (i.e., recent jail time, concurrent partner, recent sexually transmitted infection [STI], or intravenous drug use)" This sample of 150 people ismt exactly a fair representation of people in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)An 18 year old still living at home and an 18 year old living on their own and paying their own bills are in completely different situations. This is true. There is too much variation at the individual level to make broad generalizations imo. And tbh all relationships are unequal. Every relationship has a bit of a power imbalance. I dont think 100% equal relationships exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieMy biggest issue is the brain isnt fully developed until 25 argument. As if a whole 5% more development makes a big difference. And this is not taking into considerstion all the individual differences. At that point they may as well advocate different dating brackets for peoppe of different IQ levels. I think people whould really use their own minds rsther than make generalizations and look at the individuals to see if there is something weird or not. And at the same time, unless you are close f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How important it's preselection (mate copying) as attribute for a men?That is true. Women will have more options with online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Its a fair estimate but not a rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Thats fair. Personally i wouldnt have a relationship where there is a 10 year age gap or higher. Most likely to be more so around 3-5 years. I respect the legal limit and think 18 is the most appropriate limit. But i dont really mind it if adults have relations with other adults consentually. I have more of an issue with hookup-culture than age-gap relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)At what point do you consider it an age gap? Not attacking you btw, just asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Men's unrealistic expectations of female sexuality is the problem, not women's "high standards" of physical attractiveness and the 80/20 rule.I wouldnt say its the sole problem but thats a good point and it definitley can contribute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Im 26, if i had a kid it would be a baby. An adult man liking young woman who is already an adult is completely normal. My worry would be about their personality, not their age. Im not going easy on a young man lusting after my daughter either. If its just lust, i wouldnt be okay. If its genuine love and they want to commit then its okay. Regardless of gender. You guys have it all wrong. Maybe, thats why all these young guys are out here messing up your daughters because you guys apparently dont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Well i see plenty of signs. Which is one of the reasons i think younger women dating older men is not an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Im pretty sure that you are aware that most men care about their partners history. Dont feign ignorance. There are barely any men who would date a woman that has been with a 100 men. And yes, I agree that younger people have their own set of predatory tactics, but that is much more easier to spot than a sinister old person willing to play the long game. Not necessarily. People have different IQ's man. Some young people do better than older ones. Also there are plenty of bad things that come with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"I wouldnt say the majority of men in relationships are beta. They are not. However , men who do not have proper male guidance or dont really understand intersexual dynamics are at risk of being a "beta" in the relationship. Usually, its guys who dont know how to stay on a womans mind and hold a masculine frame in a relationship that have trouble. Nowadays with an open sexual market, these guys are at risk of losing their gf's to guys who know how to get inside their head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Yeah, thats true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Nah americans just have weird hangups. And you guys are very anti-male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Legal status, plus social and emotional development are all more important than physical. 18 is legal pretty much everywhere. There are places where its lower but not many where its higher. Women are also socially and emotionally more developed than men anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Yeah i dont disagree 😅. My argument is just that its not always predatory. Just because a guy is a loser doesn't mean he is an abuser. Not defending actual abusers but i do have sympathy with some older guys who couldnt make it because at 26, girl my age often ignore me because i had a setback a few years ago due to which i dont have a job. And girls my age usually pick guys who are going steady with their job. There a bunch of guys like me and unless you can make up for it REALLY well in some o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Good points. I would say men marry usually at their same age or younger and women do the opposite. A bit of an age gap is quite common. I would say once you get past an age gap of 4 years or so, it becomes less and less common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)That is probably a localized study. Throughout the world marrying younger and having fewer partners is directly related to marital success. I will pull it up if i can find it. Its actually been posted to PPD multiole times i believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)I wanted to keep it open so more people could join the discussion. The reason i brought this up was because i saw that some people here found a 24 yo guy dating an 18 yo girl weird. Irl, i have never heard that. I thought maybe its an internet outrage thing or an american thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Men of all ages consider women from 18-25 attractive. I dont think it really matters if they missed out or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)If you think that everyone has a job at 26 you are mistaken. A good percentage of us dont. If at 26 you don’t have a job that should be your focus. You can focus on that and pursue relationships too. Those two things dont interfere with each other. You have to convince a younger woman who is more easily influenced, to accept you. I dont have to convince anyone. If they like me they like me. Its not different than approaching a woman my age. See this is your bias that you think mem are out here c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Im not saying that doesnt exist but thats not the case every time. And yeah at 10 + year gap there could be a power imbalance but if both people are younger then its less likely. At the same time young guys are more likely to pump amd dump tham have a relationship. I think that damages young girls just as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women like being valued for sex, as long as it is by a committed partnerHaha i just got into it but im hoping you are right on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)This is especially the case with the older guys who dont have a lot of options anymore and are desperate. Yeah she holds the cards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Exactly. Honestly i dont think a guy really cares about a difference between 18-25. I think for most of us it doesnt matter. Its usually when they are 30+ when we consider them older. Or if they are a few years older than us. And so.e guys are into that as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)I guess it depends on how much older. I know a lot of girls who like men a few years older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)And why do you care about what women do with their bodies? If im dating someone or thinking about it, thats important. Younger age doesnt guarantee fewer partners but as you go older the number only goes up not lower. Its 1 factor among many. I wouldn't want my daughter, sister or niece getting together with a man 10+ years their elder simply because it might be "positive" And i wouldnt want my daughter, sister or niece dating a young man , only because there is a chance its not "predatory". It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Thats no reason to assume that its predatory. This is just limiting male sexuality. Young men like young women. If she is physically developed then its not a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)When you get a 20 year age gap sure. I wouldnt say that as natural. But a small age gap is natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Thanks for all the comments guys and girls. It was interesting to see all who agreed and disagreed. I understand that a lot of age gap relationships CAN be predatory. I see how a lot of the female commenters had their own or their friends experiences to back that up. I stand by my statement that they arent inherently predatory. Personally, im 26, i like girls close to my age or a bit younger.mostly it would around 22 or 23ish. But if i met a 18 or 19 yo girl and we hit it off well, then i wouldn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)These are some good points. I have seen many relationships like this work. I think that maybe in europe age gaps less than 10 years dont really have as much of a stigma. So, its more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Study: Women like being valued for sex, as long as it is by a committed partnerFair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Thats a fair point. I dont think a lifelong relationship is primarily motivated by sexual fulfillment though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)A single critique is not. But when the majority of people say that a guy shouldnt be with a younger girl due to age gap, even though they have a good, positive relationship amd keep at it, then that becomes bullying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)I dont have it up right now but its easy to find the study that shows the fewer partners you have the more likely your marriage is to succeed. Which means if both partners are virgins then the marriage is most likely to last out of all cases. This is historically proven as well. By that logic marrying young and to tour first partner is the best way. Not waiting linger and dating around. Even if we could just stop the older people from taking advantage of the young is much better than nothing. My… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Tbh im getting to this conclusion as well i think 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)First of all there are many misunderstandings at first. One, My opinion is that age gaps are not inherently predatory. They can be but they dont have to be. Thats why i said, no its not. You say yes it is. Well whats your argument/proof that it is? That makes it predatory on the womans side. If she is taking advantage of the man. I didnt say that that is the case everytime. Thats not proving your point. You are generalizing to prove your point. So you mean YOU won't hold women accountable. I str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)LARGE age gaps have a higher potential to be predatory and terrible if one person is very young. I respect that sentiment. With all the answers i have gotten i have to concede that there is a potential for predatory behaviour. Its not always the case but it can be. Thank you for your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Very good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | When did you stop trusting men?Good to know that you got away safely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)1 is a good point. Although i think student dept is more of a U.S. thing. I dont hear about it as much in europe. For 2 and 3. People who marry younger asctually have longer lasting and more successful marriages. So i have to disagree. As for 4. I think like tou said earlier , families and friends should help prevent those things. Older people arent the only predators. This law wont save them from younger predators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Its also interesting that people who marry younger statistically tend last longer and are more likely to last lifelong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Thats a fair point. I dont talk bad about women my age. I would go for them if i had a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Going for a younger person is predatory. No it is not. It's sad how older guys delude themselves into thinking younger women like them and aren't just manipulating them for their money. These women like the power they have over older men. That makes it predatory on the womans side. This is what i mean by keeping women unaccountable. You actually said it straight up but kost wont say that it goes both ways . But you are shaming men for liking younger women. A 24 yo man should not be shamed for li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)No you dont believe that men can be victims. You think only women can be victims. Typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:53 AM |
| 0 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Parents need to do a little bit more to prepare their children for such exploitative people, not throw them out in the lion's den and expect them to survive and stand on their own. This goes for both boys and girls. I agree with this completely. I however also completely reject the notion that 18 yo are helpless and will be taken advantage of compared to 25. If you were to say 35 then yeah. But at 25, no. So raising the legal age imo is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)I disagree. Some men truly believe that. Some men are gullible when it comes to love. Its also like western men who get a foreign wife and get her a visa, but then the wife leaves them after she gets the visa. Those guys also thought they would stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)He may not attract an 8 or a 9. But he can attract a girl who is on his level. It is possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)There are plenty of rich guys who used to be nerds or socially inept and therefore not good with women. These types just focus on themselves and become successful. Once they get successful, the golddiggers spot an easy target and make their move. Some women are very good at emotional manipulation. A lot of these guys believe that those girls really love them. Happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)It can still play out fairly often. A guy who hasnt had much play may start a new job somewhere or join a club somewhere, start doing better in life and meet a younger girl who picks an interest im him. It can happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)The last part is exaclty what i dont get. If women date attractive or rich older men, thats entirely on their choice. On the other hand, if a guy has a hard time attracting women his age, he has no choice but to go lower. Its not fair to criticize a guy like that. He wants the sane that everyone has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:31 AM |
| -1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Or do you really think that a 40y old rich dude is under the illusion that a 20y old hot woman wants him because it's love? Is that really hard to believe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)If its undeserved, then thats called bullying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)More opportunities doesn’t mean they are having more sex. True but it does mean that you have more options and more power. You have a good choice as to whom to date. Guys have to choose from the few women we have a chanve with. Some guys may not have many choices at all. And when you are in a relationship a young woman can replace her man much easier than the other way. So young women often have more power in the relationship. A lot of people use the argument that a 18 or 19 yo girl isnt mature.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:24 AM |
| 2 | What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't?True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:06 AM |
| 5 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Most of these arguments are based on what age gap is considered acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)People getting into relationships is also voluntary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)No im not trying to make specific scenarios to prove my point. My point is that you shouldnt generalize all age gap relationships as predatory because they are not. Age gap is only one factor. There are a million other factors. The only reason people have this idea is because of the "men are perps , women are victims" propaganda. People comment on reddit about predatory behaviour because they want answers, but in reality there are many more relationships with age gaps that have none of these iss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)I wont argue with you in that case, you have a better idea of demographics. I knew of a case where a guy payed for schooling, travelling etc. She wasnt an escort, she was officially his gf. But the relationship was clearly transactional. But the guy went through a divorce and illness before he met her. He was in a bad spot and she left him in a bad spot too. In this case i would say she was the one taking advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Hehe, as long as its only online, dont need to worry too much. Probably just desperate guys. But if its guys you know irl, protect yourself and make sure to be clear that you are not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?I would argue women who are virgins for a longer time are even more impressive. Being a virgin in your late teens or early 20s is not very uncommon. But being a virgin in your mid to late 20s as a woman nowadays is getting rare nowadays. If you choose to stay like that , that signals good sexual self control. Its definitely still a positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Thanks for the source and those numbers on emotional maturity. I had the argument that women are emotionally at a higher level than men (common knowledge) ,but i didnt really have any number to back it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)I can understand that in the sense that a 24 year old has a lot more experience than an 18 year old. Which makes it easier for them to manipulate an 18 year old. Another 24 year would be able to spot red flags that an 18 year old wouldn’t. This is entirely individual. A 24 yo doesnt necessarily have more experience than an 18 yo. Plenty of men in their 20s are still virgins or had very few experiences. Young women have a lot more options and therefore often have more experiences. So it can very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Thats not the reason why that law wont change. The reason is because its ridiculous to change it. You dont deny that 18 yo can drive. They can live on their own. They can work. And if you are going to argue that they should be off limits to 25 yo because at 25 yo you are a bit more developed, then you have no choice but to open up the discussion to the fact that people have vastly different IQ's, that women have higher emotional and mental capabilities than men (which gives them the advantage) a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Im not denying that most 40 yo men are more powerful than 18 yo girls by a margin. But im just talking about regular age gaps. A lot of people here on reddit take issue with a man in his mid 20s dating an 18 yo. A man in his mid 20s is very unlikely to have developed any real wealth, power or connections that puts him in a power position. Meanwhile women are playing dumb about how young women pretty much are at the time where they have the most options and power in the dating market. That is bes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)That depends on which old man you ask. And on which young man. I wouldnt call it a general rule. There is very little fitness difference between a 18 year old and a 25-year-old. Yeah. But you can still join in your 20s, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)You would actually be surprised. I saw a lot of people saying on other threads that they are uncomfortable with 18 and 24. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)9 year age gaps are not that common. But smaller age gaps are quite common around the globe. I understand that creepy dudes exist and i wont defend them. But thats also very individual. Not every person is a predator. Some older guys are nice people. And there are many young creeps and predators too. I would just say to trust your instincts always and watch out for whoever is making you uncomfortable and stay away from those types in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:24 AM |
| -1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)If there is a reason for a change in law, it will happen. Its not an outdated law. This idea that an 18 yo cannot make good decisions is stupid. And it is a matter of smarts. Im sorry but no matter of mental development will save a stupid 25 yo from being outsmarted and taken andvantage of by an intelligent 18 yo. Thats a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Thats not a reasonable rebuttal. Most armies in the world do not use 9 year old soldiers. Thats more likely with militans and terrorists who are short on options and use any means necessary. Legit armies want and have access to physically stronger and matured men. The army could get older men too but older me arent as physically fit as younger men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)True. My issue is with generalizations that it only goes one way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)Sugar baby arrangements are a business deal. For the most part thats it. It is what it is. But you cant deny that there are some cases where men are just lonely and starved for love and these type of girls take advantage of that. I agree with the rest of what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)I agree. And i think it should really be taken as a case by case account. Being curious or doubtful is normal. But just generalizing and using a large brush to label entire groups as bad is what i have an issue with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)As a 33 year old man, I know some women aged 18-23 who common sense, maturity, intelligence, "emotional" intelligence, social skills/social IQ mog the fuck out of me, such that power imbalance would be in her favor Exactly. A lot of people dont consider the fact that women on average have higher mental and emotional capacities than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)This is extremely overblown. An 18 yo is capable and able to serve in the military, drive cars, drink alcohol and live on their own. Its not like they are a little kid compared to a 25 yo. And that goes beyond individual differences. Some 18 yo will always be smarter and more mature than a 25 yo or even much older people. There are different levels to IQ. By that logic, smarter people should be banned from dating people in lower brackets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)I disagree. A 20 yo girl can also manipulate a 30 yo man. It depends on the individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Age gaps in relationships are normal and natural. They are not inherently "predatory" or weird. (CMV)I think it’s important to understand reactions though and that sometimes they’re emotional responses due to being fucked over in the past. We all need a little more empathy. Good point man. I try to consider this usually. I will try to come from a point of understanding if i get into one of these discussions again. It was just annoying/concerning to me that a large percentage of people believed this one-sided idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't?Look around reddit. Most people are extremely "bluepilled". Its obvious that guys who are already successful dont need redpill knowledge. But plenty do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:32 AM |
| 4 | What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't?A lot. Regular dating advice doesnt touch on hypergamy. RP created awareness on it and teaches us how to use it to our advantage. Regular dating advice doesnt touch on preselection. RP creates awareness of it. Regular dating advice doesnt offer much options for men to PROTECT ourselves from women. There is an underlying assumption that women dont hurt men or at least not that often. And if they do, we can just deal with it. There are other things as well, these are just off the top of my head. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:27 AM |
| 5 | When did you stop trusting men?Yeah we are not perfect. We have flaws just like women. However those guys at the restaurants were straight trash. Messed up that you had to be in that environment. I hope you got out of there soon after he said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:12 AM |
| 3 | How important it's preselection (mate copying) as attribute for a men?Damn, if you are an ugly man, its hard i guess. Although in that case your best bet is to go for a woman that matches your looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:08 AM |
| 28 | Study: Women like being valued for sex, as long as it is by a committed partnerI have said it on a redpill forum before, women dont intend to ride CC forever. They just get stuck there. They got there trying to get a guy who was above their level, but he pumped and dumped. Then they kept going for the same type of guy but kept getting the same treatment. At that point they get used to a man of that level and refuse to settle for lower. Basically punching above their weight class forever. This is why society should be a lot more realistic to women instead of prepping them u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 36 | Does RP/GTOW necessarily equals "misogynistic"?No its just that women (and simps) think women are above criticism. They hate it when they are held accountable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 11:27 PM |
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