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| 0 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsI doubt this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 12:08 PM |
| 3 | I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hardThis is the worst take I’ve ever seen. If women don’t desire sex, no man would be having sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Age gap only matters if you’re not her first optionThe issue is this has nothing to do with age, it’s about status. Yes, if Brad Pitt started asking younger women out, they’d say yes due to his social status as a celeb. Not because he’s an older guy. If a 20 year old with some super celebrity status asks a girl his age out, again it’s due to that high status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 04:40 AM |
| 16 | Hypergamy mean most men will forever be undesirable.In terms of attracting you either pass or fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 04:33 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is true and it's a rational strategy for womenBecause typically what happens is these girls reject you in your youth and come crawling back into your life when they see you’re successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:08 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is true and it's a rational strategy for womenYes actually. I wish I was a multi millionaire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:06 AM |
| 2 | AF/BB is true and it's a rational strategy for womenIt’s very simple. Once marriage happens, women have 0 incentive to “look good”. They don’t need to attract a male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:03 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is true and it's a rational strategy for womenThey’ll stay single to the grave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Women pretend to dislike men more than they do, Men pretend to like women more than they doTitles based but the post is a word salad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Being engaged (thus not pursuing other women) has me unsure of my attractiveness. Is this a common issue for married men who aren't actively cheating?You shouldn’t be getting married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Those who have/had trouble relating to the opposite sex, what do you think caused this? Were you able to fix it?I can rarely relate to women They receive unlimited attention, positive or not they have a social life. No one gives a shit about me besides me not being a complete homeless bum. That’s the difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanYeah guy has to take all the risk. Reaps small benefits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 12:19 AM |
| 2 | CMV : Older women (30+ so called cougars) chase young college aged boys more than 30+ men chasing college aged girlsI think the difference is that 30 yr old is going after a 20 year old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:46 PM |
| -4 | If women in their early 20s go through 304 phases, and are not interested in commitment, then how do you explain where all the single ones are?Keep in mind that’s more than your NBA starting lineup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:23 PM |
| 3 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.I just stopped caring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 11:46 AM |
| 0 | Can't even blame em.Yep. It’s brutal, BUT THE QUALITYYYYY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Do young single girls 18 - 24 mostly hookup with guys aged 23 - 26 who have high paying jobs or careers and luxury appartments with no roommates?Yep. True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 08:32 PM |
| – | Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage?Just go to public places for dates. Coffee shops, arcades, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Do young single girls 18 - 24 mostly hookup with guys aged 23 - 26 who have high paying jobs or careers and luxury appartments with no roommates?It does. Why would you think it doesn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Do young single girls 18 - 24 mostly hookup with guys aged 23 - 26 who have high paying jobs or careers and luxury appartments with no roommates?It’s a lot harder to get a gf when you live with your parents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menAgreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:30 PM |
| – | Would you treat a female partner differently if she was a hard working breadwinner that wanted YOU to live comfortably?It’s because these women are extremely career invested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:03 PM |
| – | Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexuallyHe’s trying to understand why this happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:57 PM |
| – | Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexuallyThis is why I don’t even try to make friends with women anymore. All the friendships are super temporary because they’re bf thinks I’ll steal their girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:57 PM |
| 0 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceNo man will be sympathetic for your quality issue. It’s completely on you to vet men and men have a quantity issue meaning very little opportunity. Would you rather be the homeless person on the street begging or a woman in a restaurant looking at a menu deciding what to get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceBecause I guarantee you that they have been unsympathetic to him for years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:45 PM |
| 3 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceYeah this is true. RP men all think they’re aging like a god. It’s hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:41 PM |
| 14 | Explain the wolf of wall streetNo one idolizes him in the RP space. He’s more idolized in the finance and sales space for being a “good salesman” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?Travel probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Do young single girls 18 - 24 mostly hookup with guys aged 23 - 26 who have high paying jobs or careers and luxury appartments with no roommates?I’m in a HCOL area too that’s the problem. In a MCOL I could get a luxury apartment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 05:45 AM |
| 8 | Do young single girls 18 - 24 mostly hookup with guys aged 23 - 26 who have high paying jobs or careers and luxury appartments with no roommates?I’m 23 and still live with my parents. I wish I had a luxury apartment 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 01:54 AM |
| – | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?Because all men are bad creepy predators, don’t you know that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:21 PM |
| – | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?lol “chill out”. No. You’re being called out for saying something completely fucked up. Maybe think before you speak. Your mindset is all sorts of fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:37 PM |
| – | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?Are you a man or are you just talking out of your ass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:29 PM |
| – | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?Suicide isn’t exactly something people just “talk about” you apathetic fuck. Is the dude just supposed to stay nonchalant when a friend dies? The fuck is wrong with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:28 PM |
| 2 | How are men expected to meet women in today’s world?The only time I’d be willing to approach a woman in a coffee shop is if I knew her already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:25 PM |
| 4 | How are men expected to meet women in today’s world?Right? I truly wonder if any of these people have been to a true coffee shop. It’s not a place you just walk around approaching women. In some the waitress seats you and you order food/coffee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:09 PM |
| 4 | How are men expected to meet women in today’s world?That’s because for women, leaving your house and going to the store probably got them laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:06 PM |
| 0 | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?I think the funniest part is the average woman these days has a way better life than the average man. But we’re supposed to believe we live in a patriarchal society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?Very true. There’s no coherent thinking behind the term. It’s just a victimization of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:50 PM |
| 6 | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?Women enforce the patriarchy more than men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"So it’s rec sports or nothing. lol. Nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:52 AM |
| 4 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"This isn’t about you. The point is, you’re asking people who probably aren’t going to be the types of guys to play sports in the first place to go get embarrassed in a rec league. You are completely out of touch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyIf women are happier single why are they the ones who want marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:08 AM |
| 4 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"lol. You realize most guys with these issues probably weren’t on the football team in high school, and probably won’t be seeking out “rec sports” leagues as recreation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"A lot of self projecting there bud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:53 PM |
| 5 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"College buddies moved across the country for a job. Work buddies are 40 with 2 kids and a wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:52 PM |
| 10 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"The inability for you to even actually consider what is needed to do this is beyond me. 1: you need to be in a city or high populated area. This could involve moving. 2: you need to be around people your age with similar interests and not married couples who do married things 3: you need money to do things 4: you need for an existing social circle to basically accept you. If you think this is just “easy” for someone already done with school, you’re out of your mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:17 PM |
| 3 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Why did they give him a link to fucking Indeed? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:11 PM |
| 7 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Yes but the point is you’re not just going to get some big social circle. It’s almost harder than just getting some woman to fuck you once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Population collapse: The worldwide Hell that is comingYep. They have no idea what’s coming. This is decades down the line though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Population collapse: The worldwide Hell that is comingIt doesn’t just “cancel out” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Population collapse: The worldwide Hell that is comingIt’s not the fact that humans have been fine, it’s that capitalism relies on youth and a growing population to drive growth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Population collapse: The worldwide Hell that is comingThis will be the collapse of society If you read the governments census page, they’re basically saying that immigration will solve the population issues. Do you think they’re letting these migrants in because they want to? No, it’s due to the population collapse. They know damn well what’s coming. Sadly like you said immigration won’t save America. The MOAC (mother of all crashes) is coming and it will be worse than anything we’ve ever seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV : personality is just as shallow a reason to be with somebody as looksI never said I agree or disagree with you. I’m just telling you why people think it’s not shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV : personality is just as shallow a reason to be with somebody as looksBecause you “build” your personality while you don’t necessarily have as much control over your looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeI’m a young man. Went through hs basically a loser. Never had a gf there. College was during a sudden pandemic. Basically got to graduate on Zoom. Now I’ve been in the working world for a year, living at home because the economy is too fucked for a single person just starting out. No one gives a shit. If I was a woman I’d have a bf to move in with and start my life. That’s just reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeWhat is the “one metric”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeNo matter how much women complain about the quality of the attention they receive it’s still better than none. You rather eat fast food than starve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessHe’s right. Japan works their men tirelessly without break . No time to worry about women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexThey chose those guys though. There’s a big difference between choosing the wrong item on the menu, and not being allowed in the restaurant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexThe issue is women can easily get a meaningful relationship. Men cannot easily get sex or a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?So you think most are NPC? Holy red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?You said you look at a dude and put him in one of 2 categories. The “my people” or the “not my people” That is a pass or fail meter. We can word it any way you like, I’m just calling it the pass or fail test. If anything, you’re just telling me that you look at a dude and determine which basket he goes into before even interacting which is interesting. When you say generic, I’m guessing you put them in the “pass” basket until they fail. Interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?Thank you for confirming you rate men on either a “pass or fail” scale. This was something I was trying to say earlier. u/sparkling_gourami take a look at what she said. Exactly what I told you. Women rate men on the pass or fail (my kind / unrelatable). Straight from the woman lol! She even said most women rate men like this :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?Because in a real life scenario you don’t get to choose between two 6ft perfect men looks wise but ones a guitar man and one’s a religious man. Average to unattractive men are truly invisible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What exactly should one change or improve upon if they're called "too nice" as a negative?I’d talk less and listen more. Don’t people please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Physical attractiveness is extremely important for choosing a romantic partner because our society expects monogamyIf anything our society pushes status to be the most important factor. If we were in a poly society it would be more looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?So you agree that men are taught to view this in a black and white scenario. Interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?I just don’t think they matter more than looks. Style is essentially just complimenting your looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?You know damn well who the average man is going to approach, but because it doesn’t fit your world view you have to “consider” if he’s into fat chicks lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?Do you read everything I say or only the stuff you disagree with? I said men fawn over celebrities. Most of relationships stuff is black/white, you either get rejected or you get the date. It’s a yes/no scenario. If it isn’t black and white, should I ask out a girl who rejected me more than once? You’ll tell a man no is no. So in this instance it’s black/white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?If a fat unattractive woman is graceful, and right next to her is an attractive graceful woman, who do you think the man will approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?A fat unattractive woman can be graceful but no man will care. Sorry to burst your bubble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?“I don’t like your opinion because there’s truth to it, go to therapy to get meds!” Lol dude. It’s okay to disagree. I believe the 3 main factors that attract women are status, looks, and personality. In a capitalist society, status trumps all. Especially in our attention driven economy you’re a golden nugget if you have high status. High status means you probably have money, and it means you are high value in our capitalist system. You can disagree all you want, but this is how it works in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?Most people aren’t carbon copies of each other looks wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?You assume the average woman wants the average man. In my opinion women rate men on a “pass or fail” scale while men rate the 1-10 scale. Men usually have lower standards. Unattractive celebrities get wives because of their status. That’s a completely different ball game. Status matters more than looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?I’m saying attraction determines how you see their presence. Think about an ugly but confident man. He’ll get called a creep for acting the same way a 10/10 does. Be realistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:33 PM |
| – | What was the original RP?A lot more gym and AF/BB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?“Style” = looks. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:31 PM |
| 8 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?So you’re gay. This doesn’t apply to you. I’m talking about how women perceive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stabilityJust look at a young women’s Instagram page and this is easily proven. Anyone disagreeing with OP has some serious issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?The way you see presence is defined by looks. You don’t care if the 5’2 man is standing up straight. When the 6’0 man is also standing up straight. That’s just facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexHe expects gen z men to essentially play a decade long role playing game of self improvement while normal women his age have had 4 boyfriends and the attractive men are fucking them. By the time he’s self improved there’s 0 Women left | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?Do you even understand what I’m saying ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?Because it’s all based on looks. Attractive man: Shy=mysterious, cute Unattractive man: Shy=awkward, weird The way you are perceived for your actions is directly related to your attractiveness. If you’re more attractive you’ll get away with more risky behaviors. Not sure how this concept is so foreign to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:21 PM |
| 7 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?It won’t matter. Both an attractive and unattractive man can act the same, but one gets good results and the other doesn’t. Not sure what you don’t understand here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if you had the ability to change your sexual orientation?You can change it if you really want to. You have free will. Nothing is stopping you from hoping on a gay dating app and doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think parents are mostly to blame for lack of success in dating?When 63% of men aged 18-29 are single it’s a societal issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?A good looking man: He’s shy= mysterious An ugly looking man: He’s shy: he’s quiet, weird, awkward Both an attractive and unattractive man can act the same way, but the way you perceive it is based on their looks and if you like their looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?The first thing you see in a man are looks. That’s it. That’s how you judge him. I’m not black pill btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:13 PM |
| 8 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?So looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: This Medium Article from a middle-aged female author asking 'Where are all the good men' perfectly explains men's dating complaintsBecause they’re using you for resources not fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:04 PM |
| 19 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?“His presence” = looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | I don’t see the appeal of marriageMarriage is only good if u want kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:58 PM |
| – | CMV: A 30 year old man dating a 19 year old girl is no different than a 30 year old woman dating a 30 year old man who's inexperienced.A 30 year old man who’s inexperienced is still a lot more experienced with life like wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:55 PM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.Right. The 90s and early 00’s didn’t see these issues we have today. It’s just social media and a country to world wide competition for relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 12:42 AM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.There was no technology back then. Simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | The misusage and misrepresentation of the word "confidence" has destroyed modern dating advice and competence/skill should be more heavily emphasized.I would say he’s arrogant but yeah I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 12:33 PM |
| 3 | The misusage and misrepresentation of the word "confidence" has destroyed modern dating advice and competence/skill should be more heavily emphasized.It’s a solid example… people will be butthurt due to their lack of taking things logically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 05:41 AM |
| 2 | The misusage and misrepresentation of the word "confidence" has destroyed modern dating advice and competence/skill should be more heavily emphasized.Trump is one of the most confident Americans I know. Doesn’t mean he’s right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 05:40 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedNice. Honeymoon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedYou made vows right? That’s a huge difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:54 PM |
| -4 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedWife not gf big difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:51 PM |
| -1 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedLose your job and have trouble finding a new one and watch how quickly your relationship falls apart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:39 PM |
| 0 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedYou marketed yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedFacts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:11 PM |
| -4 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedReciprocal is a nicer term for transactional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:10 PM |
| – | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedCompletely agree especially in a capitalist society that’s how it works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Are average guys really “struggling”?That’s simple advice, I may as well tell you take a shower and you’ll get a girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Are average guys really “struggling”?So you don’t give a shit about average, you just want your anecdotal average. Nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Are average guys really “struggling”?So you’re above average. I don’t think you know shit to be honest. Go look up how many people have college degrees. Simply having an education puts you above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Feminine isn’t just about being sexually attractive for man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Ask your grandfather what age he got married and how he met your grandma and then compare it today. Most of the older gens met in school or at bars. There was no internet so there was far less competing. Things were less decentralized | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Are average guys really “struggling”?He’s wrong. Your grandfather worked 50% less for his wife. This illusion that you need to somehow improve your life drastically just to put your cards in the game is laughable. Guys that are successful with women didn’t have to improve their whole life just to get a kiss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Forget his criminal record for a second and just look at his lifestyle. Fast cars, rich af, has success, hot women around him, etc. So then he goes online says go to the gym become a man get money be amazing. As for masculinity I think it just means the opposite of feminine right? Think of it that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Are average guys really “struggling”?It’s absurd because we’ve never had this issue before but it’s real. I don’t know who they’re holding out for. I’m a guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:16 PM |
| 6 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Because what he’s describing isn’t even average. Statistically less people have college degrees than not. Having one puts you above average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:13 PM |
| 4 | Are average guys really “struggling”?So above average. Having a college degree alone puts you above average. You have no idea what “average” is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Are average guys really “struggling”?It’s more the opposite, having all these single guys with no sense of masculinity caused his rise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Yes they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Are average guys really “struggling”?I’m not slaying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Are average guys really “struggling”?I’m a young guy and struggle. Post college I have a good job I just don’t have my own place yet cause I’m building myself a nice nest egg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?You really don’t understand how much money can buy. Women care way more about posting a lambo symbol on their story than some awkward broke wagie’s 6 pack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?You can be ugly or older but your status/money puts you above some broke dude with good looks. Look at Leo DiCaprio. In his 40s always dating women who are barely old enough to drink. You think they date him for his looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Biggest cause of divorce is finances. Money matters more than anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?20k a year 🤣 you sound dumb af😂 probably a hawks fan🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?She’d leave your normie ass in a heartbeat bro 🤣 you really don’t understand how you just proved my point 😂. If a super successful rich guy DM’d your girl she won’t give a fuck about losing you cause you’re just an average normie 🤣 you’re nothing special compared to the rich guy😂 money buys love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?I never said 100k nerdy wusses. You think your gf wouldn’t leave you for the first hot millionaire with a blue checkmark that dm’s her willing to fly her out to Miami, and give her an experience that would take you a decade to create? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?No, it’s just common sense. Men are valued at what they provide. Looks only get you so far and are subjective to a point. Girl A may think you’re 10/10 but girl B says you’re a 5/10. Status and money are fact based. You either have it or you don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Lol I’m sure you know so many millionaires that can’t get laid😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Status > Money > Looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Status, money, looks in that order | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls?Yes I struggle hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 08:42 PM |
| 8 | Do you guys even like women? Why?Just touch grass bro, just go outside <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:55 PM |
| – | How can women tell if a guy is 'inexperienced' or a virgin if he lies?They don’t detect the inexperienced, they usually tell her they haven’t had sex ever and learn the hard way🤣 just lie bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Do women typically not like the guys in her social circles?Interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Do women typically not like the guys in her social circles?What’s funny is once they get boyfriends they basically ghost you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:42 PM |
| -3 | 40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a dateUSA is a bigger country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Public/social life (what little there is) is totally hostile to single menI wasn’t huge into sports but I got into NBA and love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Public/social life (what little there is) is totally hostile to single menIdk man you wanted a third place to meet people that’s an easy option where talking is allowed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:57 PM |
| – | Public/social life (what little there is) is totally hostile to single menSports bar. If you’re a male looking to make male friends there’s nothing easier to talk to other guys about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:02 AM |
| 1 | If youre a normal guy, what is the "bare minimum" to be able to get laid, or have dates?Yep, then you’re clingy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:46 PM |
| 4 | Would you rather be a tall, good looking (high functioning) autistic guy or a short unattractive neurotypical guyI’m tall and get no women. Explain that one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:28 AM |
| 1 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?It’s pay to win. Status is part of your payment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:27 PM |
| 7 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?Women want the status too. If you have a nyc penthouse, they get the experience. Guys with status can give more luxury experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:42 PM |
| 0 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?The most useful. Status usually equals money. Let’s be real, this is pay to win for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDamn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s Friday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs it still purge week? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?You can easily lie buddy. You’re on a business golf. The topic probably isn’t sex anyway, it’s business with a few wife hating jokes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?No. They talk about how much they hate their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?Once you leave school there’s 0 pressure from anyone. If a “friend” bullied me I’d shut them the fuck up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Women should not get mad at their guy friends for ghosting them after they reject themI bet you’re the first person to say men aren’t owed relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?I’m not a virgin but again, that pressure is only internal. 0 pressure from society. No one gives a shit if I’m single or not besides me. And for me, I’ve stopped caring about a potential partner. Women have a lot more external pressure which turns into internal pressure as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?I’m a single young man. I face 0 pressure from society at large or small to find a girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:14 PM |
| 0 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.It all boils down to looks “Chemistry” is just looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:17 AM |
| 8 | Women should not get mad at their guy friends for ghosting them after they reject themThey want their male friend for all their emotional needs while they get fucked by their bf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:14 AM |
| 15 | Women should not get mad at their guy friends for ghosting them after they reject themYou aren’t owed friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:14 AM |
| 13 | Friendly reminder that there is no such thing as a femcel63% of young men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:52 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat the fuck is a CIA Astroturfer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Very fucking equalLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easier18-23 year old women are much more likely to date within their college | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sexNah op is right do nofap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?Brutal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easierAre you trying to imply high schoolers don’t want to date other high schoolers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easierThere aren’t that many millionaires but yeah people act like the average 30+ year old man isn’t bald, fat, and beer belly’d | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easierWait until gen z is over 30 to make these claims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:24 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easierReddit thinks any man over 30 is guaranteed a 21 year old model | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easierDamn I love Doritos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average manIntimacy is needed not sex then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:11 PM |
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