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5

She’s 21, she has time to bet on an exciting dude who may have a bright future. She can always get an off the shelf beta at 28 if it doesn’t work out. Low risk, high reward.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:12 AM
1

Go to a mental health professional. Your experience is probably caused by some undiagnosed mental illness, at the very least depression but I wouldn't rule out ADHD or similar either. There's medication that can fix the chemical imbalance in your brain.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:51 PM
11

Thank you for this post. It’s easy to follow a grueling schedule when you enjoy it and take pride it in. Becoming your own personal Soviet dictator and forcing yourself to slave through the day in a constant grind never works in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 07:08 AM
7

Just remember that even high quality women aren’t unicorns.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:04 AM
5

Musicians are either broke, taxpayer funded, or household names. If he starts acting up you break his frame by pointing out that he’s just another old, broke, washed out wannabe who never amounted to anything. He’s been in the game for years but he needs you to get people to his shows? He’s a failure and deep down he knows it. These musician types often have strong narcissistic personalities that weak men and women treat with adoration because they don’t realize that the narcissist is actually a…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 06:13 PM
2

Does he bring anything at all to your life?
/r/askTRP28/11/20 05:57 PM
10

Doesn’t matter how you spin it, overweight is overweight. No woman with a BMI above 25 looks better than she would have under 25.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:36 PM
1

Looks like that law is mostly about colleges? Consent laws are very hard to enforce and most countries have a hard time putting actual rapists behind bars due to evidence standards. The danger in a false rape accusation is 99% in its ability to demolish your reputation because most Western courts still care about evidence, but you don’t even need to tell the girls you’re meeting your real name.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:32 PM
12

Any country or city where you don’t live is great because no matter how much you fuck up it’s unlikely to follow you home. False accusations aren’t as much of an issue with strangers because they don’t know your circle and so can’t harm your reputation, and no court is going to sentence you for talking to a woman. Southeast Asia is the standard place recommended to people looking to travel for sex, I think. Your Western wealth makes you a catch even if you’re a loser back home.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:27 PM
3

Then report the post and let the mods handle it. Mini-modding is a waste of time for everyone.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:42 AM
5

The more you invest, the less she feels she needs to invest.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:48 PM
4

It’s backed up by anonymous studies as well. Gen Z doesn’t drink, fuck or smoke as much as previous generations. How anyone can be surprised when they get depressed is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/20 08:53 AM
2

Yeah, a fuckboy is literally a word for an attractive man who goes for what he wants. You can never make a word for a high status person be derogatory.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/20 08:52 AM
4

Exactly. There are countless reasons why these particular girls didn’t work out. Maybe they had boyfriends nearby, maybe they were lesbians.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 07:34 AM
4

They are two different things. Beta lovebombing is overinvestment. With abusive lovebombing there is already attraction and the variable reinforcement of her value through variable amounts of attention is addictive like any variable reinforcement.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 07:31 AM
6

This is the way to go, why spend the effort of going beyond the honeymoon period unless you want kids
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:54 PM
7

The problem is that their programming makes them consume rather than invest. That is where their programming goes wrong in modern society... she values her own pointless consumption over investments that could set her kid up for life.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:53 PM
1

So don’t marry them. Or move to a country where divorce courts are better. You can have kids with a long term girlfriend if you vet well.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:50 PM
18

Eventually you internalize RP enough that you enjoy it while it lasts and then move on. Then you can have an LTR without being needy or risking your emotional wellbeing.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:49 PM
1

No one is.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 04:09 PM
13

She wants you to reject yourself so she doesn't have to be the bad guy. It's a textbook shit test. Strong men will ignore it and continue going for what they want while weaker men disqualify themselves. If you can't handle that, how is she supposed to feel safe with you? You break easy.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:20 AM
9

Most importantly she has natural abundance because she has nothing to lose from flaking.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:05 AM
0

You're a daughter who would rather be a sigma than a beta?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:26 AM
36

The rules of communication apply to texts too, giving her too much attention over text shows that you are over-invested. She should be over-invested in you.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 09:06 AM
2

Didn’t know that, impressive.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:48 AM
1

A lot. But you can’t help someone who won’t help himself.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:07 AM
1

Cute post. Learning TRP when you’re young is great. Kino is all important if you want to be more than friends, and touching her shoulder is not so scary. When you have done that her arm will be less intimidating, and so on until you get to the important parts. She knows what you are doing and if she lets you continue it’s because she wants you to. You will see it in her facial expressions if she doesn’t.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:03 AM
2

Go to Indonesia. Shortest people in the world.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:00 AM
4

Leveraged investing in safe companies is a great way to get high returns without the volatility of a hype stock.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/20 07:58 AM
1

This is a good one. I used to try to dominate myself, force myself to do things. Results were so-so. Now I negotiate, if I do this self-improvement I can do X or Y as a reward. Works much better when you don’t have a reservoir of self-loathing to fuel you anymore.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:54 AM
2

Never self deprecate. You’re above that. If someone disrespects you, you don’t pile on, you treat them like the socially awkward person that they are. Ignore or call him out on it. Make him look like the tool that he is, he only got away with being disrespectful because you let him.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:52 AM
10

You said it yourself. This wouldn’t be an issue if you had multiple plates.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:47 AM
1

Then don’t be a dorky looking Asian guy if you are RP aware. Get ripped, get rich.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:44 AM
8

Your height puts you in the top 10% of men, which is a good start but you need muscles and a masculine face. Pectus excavatum won’t stop you from living a fulfilling life unless you let it.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:40 AM
3

Nothing stops you from "landing" a girlfriend in your 20s today either.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:33 PM
3

Silent demote to plate is asking for her to trash talk you to everyone she knows. Don't burn bridges, people take infidelity seriously and it will harm your reputation.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:27 PM
3

A lot of people spend money on the dumbest shit, and $10 isn't a lot for someone will a full-time job. Some of them probably have deluded fantasies of fucking them, others are deep enough in their porn addiction that regular tits and ass doesn't cut it anymore. Exclusivity and interactivity make OnlyFans 'different' from regular porn and therefore apparently worth it to people with more money than sense. It's just a virtual strip club.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:03 AM
1

Don't stick to Stronglifts, you will end up with an underdeveloped upper body. Work out your arms too.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:48 PM
3

Meet more people. There is no secret club of high quality people. Try to get to know people a bit before you decide how valuable they are, sometimes your initial assessment is wrong.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:41 AM
1

Add barbell row and overhead press to the compound lifts. Close-grip bench for bigger arms and some kind of curl for biceps. They don't call 5x5 T-rex mode for nothing.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:37 AM
14

Don't worry about offending them. They like the attention, that's why they have cleavage and pushup bras in the first place. Don't stare or turn your head, keep your dignity.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:10 AM
4

If she's complimenting you she's either interested and trying to game your ego, or she sees you as a completely non-sexual person. In this case it's number 2. Maybe you're too old to be alternative and people around you are too nice to tell you. If they had actually gotten to know me a little before hand and our personalities weren’t a match I could see that but this isn’t the case. Girls know from the first look if they want to fuck you. You're failing the test hard so take a look at yourself a…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 07:14 AM
9

He would be if he put some effort into his body and style.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 06:38 PM
3

First off, don't be overweight. People everywhere are getting fatter and it is one of the easiest ways to tank your testosterone. Before you start worrying about hormones in meat, which is not a well-studied phenomenon, worry about the very real test-lowering effect of your flab.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:02 AM
14

The best exercise is the one you actually do.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:18 PM
4

What one girl thinks of you has nothing to do with your masculinity. She does not matter, focus on the future.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 11:43 AM
6

Everyone lives life at their own pace. I'm sure most people wish they righted their ship a few years earlier.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 06:02 AM
2

What you are doing WILL turn you into your father. The resentment will build up until you explode, if you don't confront the things that suck. You're a man now, not a crying 3 year old. If you confront another man and it turns into a fight you're both going to suffer some serious damage. Internalize that. The other guy should be just as wary of you as you are of him, so stand up for yourself.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 12:17 PM
54

This. They don't want to hear your suggestions for improvement. If it ain't broke don't fix it.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 12:07 PM
78

She's just another thot but your oneitis won't let you see that. I'm pretty sure this is what's going on here. He's had a better-than-average girl (our grandfathers would have considered his list of unicorn traits basic requirements) and now he thinks he'll never get another.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:35 AM
20

Then don't think like that. It's not doing you any favors. If you really want to meet a high quality woman, you can always make that a priority in your life. Go to other towns if you're scraping the barrel at home. If this is important to you, you will not let location limit you. It was always going to end between you and your ex. You might have hastened it by acting beta but there was always going to be something. A recession where you lose your job, she leaves you after 20 years of marriage an…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:33 AM
11

Having a high SMV doesn't mean you get the dating experience women have. Nor would you want it, the lack of agency would drive you insane as a man. High SMV will give you your pick of low SMV girls but you will still have to be the male when dealing with high SMV women.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:21 AM
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Her rarity does not justify oneitis. There are 3.5 billion women in the world and even if she's one in a million, which I doubt, there are still thousands like her out there. Work on yourself. Quality women with good upbringing and values don't go for lazy men. Become the guy your ex would have left you for. Meet more women, I guarantee you'll find others who are higher quality than your ex. When you find someone you like, don't go beta. You don't get a fairytale romance, no relationship lasts f…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:18 AM
1

If you want kids, make sure to have a look at the men in her family, too. If they're small and weak chances are your sons will inherit at least some of that from them.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 08:09 AM
1

2 pounds of chicken is definitely enough protein, no need to count.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:56 PM
2

Skinny drug dealer will always lose out to buff drug dealer, other factors being equal. No women truly prefers skinny over strong on the biological level, no matter what she says or convinces herself.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 08:19 AM
0

The comment doesn't apply to you (it shouldn't anyway), so no reason to assume it was addressed at you. Yet another reason why having a strong frame is important.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:25 AM
3

Of course it is. In a group setting you ignore the guys who can't read the room and crack awkward jokes. If you reply you validate him as if it was a normal social interaction, it's not, normal people don't talk to bathroom strangers.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:22 AM
3

Catching shit early with a monthly test also makes it easier to treat before it gets out of hand.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 01:52 PM
3

Understanding women actually makes it easier to love them. You love them for what they are, not for what you wish they would be. Having realistic expectations makes it easier to appreciate the thoughtful, caring qualities of a good woman.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:24 AM
-2

Nothing funny about dying from a treatable condition because all the doctors are either sick or passed out from overwork.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:44 PM
2

Luckily most guys have dogshit Tinder profiles. Many who are top 10% in real life disqualify themselves with a shitty picture taken with a 10 year old phone, or some other dumb mistake.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:07 PM
2

It sounds like you want to do this, so do it and push your limits. Try it. Your body will tell you when it's not getting enough recovery. You'll get under the bar and the weight will feel like a mountain. Then you'll know how much you can push yourself before you start seeing diminishing returns.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:05 PM
1

This is it. She doesn't even care enough to do that.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 02:47 PM
1

Eat more calories and more protein. You might think you're taking care of your diet but if you were you wouldn't look like this.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 02:46 PM
5

You suffer from paranoid delusions and you need professional help.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 12:31 PM
1

How long did you spend at each job before hopping to the next?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:19 PM
1

Strength is the most important. Height and leanness come a distant second. https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/10.1098/rspb.2017.1819
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:56 AM
3

Soyboys aren't as threatening as the hot, built athletes they're unconsciously pining for, who would reject them. So they rationalize.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:41 AM
3

All women love muscle. If you're natty you'll hit your natural limits long before you get too big. Generally higher-class women will have other expectations beyond just physical attractiveness, but of course that goes out the window if it's only a short-term thing.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:38 AM
2

Wolf of Wall Street isn't a documentary on finance. Most likely you'd be an analyst churning 80 hour weeks making spreadsheets and presentations for six figures. Not much difference to churning out code and presenting the product for six figures. They're both jobs that require you to be both analytical and socially competent to succeed.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:12 AM
1

winnemucca Population: 7,763 (2018) I'd pass on that. Do something in a city.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:04 AM
3

Depends on your frame. You want her to talk about herself enough that you can judge whether she has a shot at a spot on the roster or not. But yeah, eject in time before your attention becomes a commodity.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 08:46 AM
1

Which order you do things in doesn't matter. Personally I would cut until you don't feel fat and then lean bulk, lean with little muscle is better than overweight with little muscle. If you have a small frame you might want to do it the other way around to not feel small.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 01:13 PM
3

Actual attractive men don't need to do anything, just like how normal-looking women don't have to do anything Normal-looking women spend thousands of dollars and countless hours on makeup and clothes to compete with other normal-looking women for an above-average man. Well-dressed, rich, built men spend countless hours on maintaining their value. The women who throw themselves at them aren't as interesting as those who don't, because they have more value to offer. As a man you have to work if yo…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 01:00 PM
4

Not really, if women weren't constantly trying to weed out the weak from the gene pool we'd be a lot less evolved. 80% of women have passed on their genes but only 40% of men.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:52 PM
7

When they cross the line, smirk as you mentally demote them from potential plate to spoiled child, and switch your attention to other prospects.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 01:50 PM
2

If you're smart, go for computer science. You make bank in the US, have better odds of migrating to a first-world country, and you can start your own company either freelancing or selling a product. Go to the gym and eat a high protein diet. You're not going to lose 10kg in a month, but if you're new to the gym you can make some gains while losing weight. Working out will also ensure that you lose fat instead of muscle, and you'll hit the ground running when you are ready to start bulking.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 08:23 AM
7

Sounds like you're nowhere near ready for marriage. Get out while you can.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:17 PM
2

Not everyone has what it takes to get a degree, cost is just one factor. STEM degrees require a certain IQ and work ethic but a lot of people can't even pass high school math.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:12 PM
2

Thank you for the reminder, this is key to keep in mind.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 08:59 AM
4

It's a mix of actual high-value behaviors and wishful thinking on their part. Most women dream of an alpha who treats them like a queen but in reality they quickly lose respect for a man who does not respect his own time.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 08:52 AM
4

It will help you get more physically attractive men, if that is what you want, but it will say nothing of their character. From the same post (rant). They don't include physical attractiveness in their definition of a high-value man. Hilarious. I am just testing the comment function! It’s so cool we have this app to use once our Reddit sub is taken away. I am so incredibly grateful I found this community and all of you ladies! It's like looking in a mirror.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 08:46 AM
8

Chinese censors don't care about the feminist social order in the West, unlike most social media platforms which are co-opted by identity politics.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:37 AM
16

Nothing wrong with eating cholesterol, it's important in testosterone production. It's the simple carbs and lack of training that ruin their potential.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:31 AM
7

Most men probably don't want to understand it either, because that would mean realizing how unimportant their attention is to women.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:27 PM
2

If you're high value you can pull it off, no problem. That said booze isn't that great for you, messes with your game.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:46 PM
1

So do it on a weekend. And get a job that doesn't consume your life for peanuts.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:36 PM
1

You can read a couple hundred pages in a day if you're motivated. And if you can't now is a good time to learn.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 02:22 PM
26

It's crazy, so many simps and weak dads in this generation, most girls never experienced boundaries. Probably turned her on. Sets a good example for others tho, thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:13 PM
71

Don't see why you're posting here, you handled it like a king. She definitely got the message, your time and attention is valuable.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:01 PM
2

A couple of years is way too much. If you feel you have to go monk mode, a few months is fine while you lose weight/put on muscle/get your life in order. If I were you I would lose the virginity while in college. Almost everyone has at least some experience at that point.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:01 AM
9

War isn't what it used to be. The countries with the most powerful militaries have the smartest nerds to build the most lethal weapons and figure out the best strategies. Manpower is not nearly as important as it used to be, so if only 10% or 1% of the population is masculine enough to take part in war that's still enough. And if things go bad we still have nukes to bail us out. That said even a woman on birth control is going to want an alpha male over a beta. The pill has been around for decad…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:15 AM
15

"you're lucky I'm not dumping you over this, I can do better" I'm glad you listened to your gut. The relationship was already over, she just didn't have your replacement lined up yet.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:15 AM
3

Not everyone lives where you live. Prices vary by region. Sholdn't be a hard concept for you to grasp.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:22 PM
5

Probably depends where you live, some countries have dirt cheap sex workers and high fuel taxes and others are the other way around. That said the numbers don't matter, my point is driving 8 hours to get laid is not 'scoring with chicks'. If your dates are approaching the cost of an escort, that's just sad. If you're an extremely successful businessman whose time is very valuable, maybe that could be reasonable, but for everyone else it's just a cope for fear of rejection.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:06 PM
35

Driving 8 hours is a huge cost just to get laid. At that point the gas alone is more expensive than a prostitute. A decent-looking man with no game can get laid a lot if he talks to a lot of women and takes every opportunity to get laid. Still, BP is bad because a high SMV man with game, options and frame can get laid without driving 8 hours.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:13 PM
2

The fewer people, the more natural resources we can allocate to the well-being of each individual. This will be more and more relevant as automation will flourish under our lifetimes. Besides, the only civilizations that could ever challenge European civilization are the East Asian ones and their demographics are collapsing faster than ours. Countries like India, Nigeria, Ethiopia, Indonesia may have hundreds of millions of inhabitants but poverty and climate change will occupy their attention d…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 10:33 AM
1

Nothing wrong with prostitution either. Women and men will never be equal. Women start their adult lives at the top of their SMV and gradually lose it, men start at the bottom and grow into their SMV. There will always be men who want to trade resources for young pussy without dealing with dating and drama, and the sugar baby deal is more favorable to women than prostitution so of course they are going to fight to keep it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 10:21 AM
3

If you have the energy to work out more than once per day then you're not lifting hard enough.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:09 AM
3

Either learn to banter or smirk and ignore them until they get the message that picking on you is pointless.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:06 AM
1

"Someone special" is a fairytale. All women will be with you for as long as you are the best mate she can secure, and no longer. You're a man and the more experience you have, the better in the eyes of women. They like a man with experience and options.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:42 AM
2

Good points. If your facial skin isn't up to par it's absolutely worth it to explore the market and see what works.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:00 PM
2

It's a tradeoff. I still drink it.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:55 PM
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Don't tan too much, it'll damage your skin and make you look old. Don't stay inside too much either. Stay lean and strong. Keep your body fat ≤ 15%. Get enough sleep (7-9 hours), make sure you're counting sleep and not hours laying in bed because the latter will not do anything for you. Minimize caffeine Minimize stress. Stay fit, 2-3 hours of moderate-intensity cardio per week will increase blood flow to your brain to keep it young. Eat your greens, they're more important than you think Surroun…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:20 AM
1

How much experience do you have? It's fine to practice with someone you aren't that into (automatic abundance mentality).
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:13 AM
5

Young and inexperienced girls are great fun. Flirting and boundaries are completely new to them.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:11 AM
2

Find a girl to talk to (better yet, multiple), show her that you have options, too. Abundance mentality, confidence. That's the short term. For the long term, become higher SMV and it will happen less often. If you want it to never happen again, make that happen in the kitchen, gym and in your career.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:10 AM
13

A fun, absurd, nerdy joke like this is heaven compared to Netflix or TikTok references.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:04 AM
5

often the ideas they're discussing are complex enough that they actively need to speak simply to get the ideas across. One too hard word and you've lost them. You can see the light bulb shut off in their eyes when they give up on trying to understand the idea. Metaphor sometimes helps. Most people with hobbies have probably had this experience, it's why I leave explaining complex things to teachers and professors these days.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:03 AM
2

"To the level of female students" is a third-hand source from a book I read once, so take it with a grain of salt. There are likely more factors than insufficient exercise which negatively affect male performance in school. Here are some studies and reviews about this, see the "Similar articles" for some more relevant studies. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29175972/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29450903/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28917364/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30644991/ htt…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/20 08:46 AM
9

How are you going to build a body and a life if you lack even the discipline to keep a clean living space?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 10:36 AM
7

Exercise has been shown to drastically improve male performance in school, to the level of female students. An hour in the morning is plenty. But who profits from that? Exercise is free.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 09:30 AM
13

Boys naturally gravitate to masculine activities. My parents were 'progressive' and gave us both kinds of toys, luckily they were not insane so when it turned out we had typical boy interests like LEGOs, sports and Minecraft, they accepted that. Most boys will not need any suppression, they just need you to let them choose what their interests are, and they need you to teach them what society demands from a man to respect him. For the rest, accept the reality in front of you. Suppression is only…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 09:22 AM
3

FrankenChad is a concept as old as the red pill, it's the appropriate name that is new.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 09:00 AM
1

She's saying what she knows you want to hear to get what she wants. She'll branch swing if she can secure a higher value mate, AWALT.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:46 PM
2

TRP is a toolbox, and if you want to use it for monogamy that's up to you, it's your life. A high-value, redpilled man who commits is every woman's dream, just remember hypergamy and that she's yours until she can find a higher branch to swing to. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:10 AM
3

But you don't need them. Not really. If you're good at your job you can find someplace else to work, or use your smarts and work ethic to go into another career. You're not nearly as dependent on their approval as they want you to think.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:58 AM
1

Society doesn't care about hot older guys with younger women, and you're not even old. Be attractive, socially calibrated and confident and you won't be perceived as a creep, just like with any other woman.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:36 AM
4

Yes, and when you're an addict you see only one way to get rid of the urges: relapse. Realizing that healthy people don't have those urges and that the only way out is to not give in was a huge step for my own recovery. Since then I have gotten back on track in my self improvement journey, thanks to TRP and the PMO Hackbook.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:31 AM
22

Worked great. Realizing that the only way to actually get rid of the urges is to break free of the addiction helped a lot.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:35 PM
1

How well does a 72h fast work for weight loss? Do you feel reduced energy or excessive hunger? How does it compare to regular dieting?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:31 PM
2

Thin wrists and ankles generally implies that your natural muscular potential is a bit lower. But most good-looking guys are nowhere near their muscular potential, so why would that matter to you? Looking strong accounts for 70% of your physical attractiveness so there is no reason not to lift. It's the #1 thing you can do for yourself.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:28 PM
2

You don't need other plates to have a successful LTR. You need abundance. Your girl needs to know that if she doesn't behave, you will find someone else that will.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 07:22 PM
12

Which shows just how aggressive she is being, clumsily seizing upon any perceived opportunity to make him out to be wrong. If, in a debate, a party has to resort to "I didn't say that", it's a sure sign that the other party is just in it to score cheap points, not even bothering to take in the message being conveyed. This is the reality of debate in the 21st century - a drama show for the audience. Props to Peterson for blue-balling Newman's audience by not giving in to her frame.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 11:24 PM
4

It's normal. It's not exactly a shit test, but it's similar. Don't expect it, don't get too happy when it happens, just smile and know that these girls value you enough to spend money on you.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 10:40 PM
1

Look at how other men are treated and compare their demeanor with yours. What guy is happy and outgoing, and gets treated like you want to be treated, and what does he do that you don't?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:03 PM
5

You need to fix your inner game not your body. Sure your body can be causing anxiety but being thin isn't a problem if you have inner game to handle it - which you don't.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:01 PM
10

Enjoy the ride. The "I like you" will naturally solve itself over time, let her take the initiative, what you have is a monk mode with less frustration and the opportunity to practice game very often. Cherish it but see the signs and end it when it needs to end.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:00 PM
3

Women will get together with a man she likes and try to change him until he changes into something she doesn't like. If you attracted her, that means that what you're doing is working.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:52 PM
2

She's not worthy of commitment. My LTR says dump her, use her for sex. She's stuck on her ex, did she invite him? Too much contact. Icky. Don't text her something like that, it's bad. Just ignore her, maybe hit her up for a night if you feel like fucking her. Otherwise focus on new girls. It seems she wanted your commitment but it seems it didn't stick.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:39 PM
1

No need to have abundance, fake it till you make it. Men can also hamster, use it if you must to deflect harmful reactions to setbacks.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 11:57 AM
2

Abundance mentality my friend. You are the price. You can't lock her down, she has to lock you down. She has to prove herself worthy of being in a relationship with you. You're a valuable man with valuable time, not all girls are worth your commitment. Sure, you can probably make a relationship happen if you talk to her about it but the more she has to work for it, the more she is going to value your commitment. Adding to that, locking her down isn't going to stop her from hanging out with other…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 11:54 AM
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Wrong. Don't be defeatist. Dating is not deterministic, you can't say "I got bad genes, I'll never get laid." Whatever disadvantages you may have you can either overcome or compensate for. Girls want a high SMV, they don't care about the details. Ugly face? Be tough, they'll eat it up. Short? Lift. Do what you can, but remember looks aren't everything. Not at all. You're a man. Men aren't admired for beauty. They're admired for power. Be a leader, have fun, don't take shit. Values first. Women d…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 10:20 PM
1

Recently I have resolved that when life is over, it's over and it won't be scary. There is so much I have to do before then, I have my mission and I will complete it - but when the journey ends I'll be done and I'll be able to hand over the reins to the next generation.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 09:30 PM
3

God, reading this makes me painfully aware how weak I've become these last two months. I'm gonna get back to the cold showers.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 01:05 AM
6

This, just like the male pill, is going to be caught in a development hell.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:01 PM
15

Yeah - it's not hard on the ones that are being catcalled, it's hard for their friends who are in their vicinity and are not being catcalled.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 08:00 PM
1

False confidence can work for a short time, giving you some of the benfits of confidence. But if your confidence is built on a shaky foundation (lack of merit justifying your confidence) it's likely that you'll lose it sooner or later. TL;DR; Unless you want to fall flat confidence-wise one day, improve yourself.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 10:06 PM
9

get some alpha cock Must be a thirsty alpha who fucks a 40-year old he's not married to. More like she'll be alone and miserable and hop on any above-average status male who'll give her attention.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:49 PM
1

The US has been as bad as the Soviets since the start of the Cold War, they were just richer and better at hiding it, until now.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 10:24 PM
-1

Hell, let them doom themselves to a life of poverty. Life for most laborers is about competition to sell your labor for the highest price you can get - the more who chose unattractive specializations means less competition for me. And with less competition comes more benefits.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 06:55 PM
9

And what a hambeast, she's too fat to use the face-only trick when taking pictures. Her best luck would be a surprise illness that'll use up her fat reserves, or a drastic decline in men's standards.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 06:52 PM
3

This is an aspect to amused mastery that I hadn't considered before. Thank you for posting this.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 12:08 AM
1

A man who looks for an equal partner before he is ready to have children is fooling himself. Give women their ride on the carousel instead. When he wants children, he should have them with the woman with the highest SMV that he can reasonably count on won't leave or cuckold him.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 12:07 AM
2

Yes! Diversity will do a great deal to improve that profession! I can't tell you why if you ask but I'm certain it will! ^^^^^/s
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:23 PM
3

Yeah, that too - like being trans gives them some sort of insight that permanently puts them apart intellectually from normal people.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 06:00 PM
3

If trans people weren't loudly offended by calling them abnormal, I'd be perfectly fine with naming the two categories normal and trans. But knowing the fucking shitstorm it would cause, I'll happily settle for cis to keep them quiet.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 05:30 PM
1

Looks like a dinosaur... or a pokemon.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 01:31 PM
8

It's principle. We're taking spots that were earned and giving them to those who haven't the capacity to earn them. Also, kudos for not bowing to group pressure.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 10:38 PM
1

Where I come from, there's no such thing in the compulsory education system (~7-16).
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 09:22 PM
16

Oh, I can see myself hating it, but I can also see myself adapting and eventually excelling - would've been way better than gliding along giving minimal effort.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 09:15 PM
4

On the other hand, for those ~10% of students who can actually manage it, it's a great choice. The problem is that we as a society are so enamored with the idea that there's one size to fit all children, from IQs of 75 to 125 in one room. And that just isn't possible. However, I do agree with the basic spirit of Montessori, which is that children are motivated to learn. I remember the wonders of 1st grade when I learned to read and write, after that the schoolwork piled on and I learned that sch…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 08:34 PM
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I'd like to talk with whomever came up with the idea that diversity is a useful attribute in the world of hard sciences. And the idea that, for some reason, we should sacrifice true capacity in exchange for less-qualified "diversity".
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 08:08 PM
5

No, it doesn't. Pointless homework instills the idea that school is boring and pointless - and believe me, students tend to realize when their homework is pointless at a certain age. Homework as a tool for learning isn't even very effective - lots of parents have to force their children, who would rather spend the free time they have being kids, to sit down and repeat material they've already worked with during the day. Besides, if you have to repeat material, there's no reason you can't do it a…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 07:56 PM
1

It sounds good in theory, but in reality wherever schools have tried this, they've been forced to regress back to where they were. The reason for this is because of unmotivated kids who won't do their work unless they are hounded into doing it by their teachers. And of course, since school is supposed to be an egalitarian, fair place, all it takes is one little shit who can't handle independence to fuck it for the rest of the kids. Because if one kid loses his freedom, it's not fair unless all k…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 07:54 PM
35

Fuck, what wouldn't I have done to have gone to a school like that.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 07:26 PM
1

But your career and physique will improve faster if you feel like a man doing it. You don't those things to be alpha, an unemployed land whale of a man can still be dominant with the right personality. So improve your personality, build confidence with what you have already instead of waiting to get to some imaginary point in your life when you feel that you are justified in becoming alpha.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:46 AM
2

You're making excuses for not being as dominant and socially powerful as you could be. Don't; improve your personality instead.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:44 PM
3

The economy tanking should lead to food becoming more expensive, hopefully some of the women can lose weight.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 08:05 PM
0

Maybe the reason they retained it to this day is because of the low IQ. Or maybe retaining it to this day lowered their IQ.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 07:54 PM
4

He does, however, share the biological makeup of those who built that, and the mindset. He has the same potential to do those things as the men before him did, and if there are bridges to build in the future, they too will be built by men. So a man who is perhaps not independent today has the ability to become independent in that he has the same potential to achieve it as any other man, whereas a woman does not. Therefore a woman has no choice but to stay dependent on the welfare given by men.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 07:43 PM
1

Smoking's not quite the same; not only does it smell awful, it's also harmful to some degree. And it's not a fringe opinion given a disproportionate amount of weight by betas, it's a pretty common opinion.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 07:31 PM
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He might not have the SMV to get something better than that though.
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