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This is obviously written by someone too young to have dated prior to smartphones and social media
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 02:32 AM
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This is it. This comment right here. It ain't about missing intimate male bonds and needing support groups... I've tried that shit and it feels gay because it is. Men are pining for women because they aren't getting women. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 05:54 PM
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Especially true when she says she was in an "emotionally abusive" relationship. I've heard so many girls say this. What the hell does that even mean I ask... Did he injure you? Well no she says, but he made me feel bad.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 09:48 PM
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Can confirm. I used to keep clean shaven for my office job before covid. Now I don't give a shit, grew a thick ass beard and cut my hair high and tight like a marine for easy maintenance. Got so much more female attention now it's crazy.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 09:03 PM
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Finally a decent post. Nothing new, but a good reminder of what I have experienced as well. You must escalate or get a number on the first encounter. Sometimes you'll get a second chance when you meet again, but never a third... Unless she's desperate, fat, or ugly.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 07:46 PM
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Lol, yeah that's exactly the strategy I had arrived upon. I decided I would do whatever dumb shit busy work they wanted for an hour or two per day, being very agreeable. I was quickly promoted in less than a year, making serious bank, and am one of their favorite employees. Meanwhile I actually fuck around on the internet and trade stocks 6 out if the 8 hours per day. Other dudes who never learned the game would work their asses off all day doing way more work than me. But they were defiant and …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 04:42 PM
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Yeah man, no joke. They said forms must follow a standard format to be consistent across all departments. I obviously asked why and the only answer I got was because that's the standard. Used to drive me crazy, but now I just laugh inside at how retarded everything is. I make good money for playing their silly games and pretending to conform, so I can't complain. Eye opening for sure though.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 07:45 AM
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I work for a Japanese company and holy shit that is spot-on. I wasn't allowed to change the column width on a spreadsheet to make it wider and fit the text better, even though the whole rest of the fucking page was blank with plenty of extra room for it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 07:15 AM
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Exactly. I know of a huge fat girl in her late thirties with gray hair that just landed a man and got married. Granted he is a bit chubby and dorky himself, but the dude is successful. I'm amazed that there is always a desperate guy for any woman out there, provided she is willing to just accept an average guy, rather than holding out for their fantasy top tier man.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 07:29 PM
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Yeah that's why horoscopes are like crack for women They eat that stuff up.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 07:18 PM
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Texting can definitely build attraction if done right. But it's a skill that takes time to cultivate.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 06:59 PM
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Ahh ok, so you're saying testosterone has dropped but it is due to lifestyle factors and not genetics... Shit man I think most people would agree with that. I don't see the controversy here
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 03:05 PM
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Wtf is this post... You say testosterone is not dropping, but then you give the reasons why testosterone has dropped.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 04:44 AM
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Holy shit dude, get out of your head. Way too much thinking and over analyzing. Stop thinking you need to "approach". It's just a chick. Say hello or any damn thing instead of being weird and building it up into something monumental and then posting about it here later.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 03:38 AM
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Bro you are just slightly off... It's not about making a woman feel special, but making her feel desired. Women love to feel desired, lusted after, etc
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 06:04 PM
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Solid post. Nothing new or revolutionary, but a good refresher on basic psychology and personal boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/20 05:56 PM
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Agreed. Only because I was like your friend, only a few inches shorter. Growing up I had tons of female attention, but was a socially retarded beta. I almost married a chubby average annoying girl in my 20's just because she was relentless and I couldn't break up with her despite trying a few times. Luckily she grew tired of me eventually. I have since found the red pill in my 30s and have been learning frame. It's a totally different world. I just wish I had learned sooner. Frame is king. Looks…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 05:08 PM
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Exactly. I dated a bi girl once and she was submissive with me, but would also be on the hunt trying to seduce women.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 04:52 PM
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Ahh, good catch. I figured some do that. Also when they talk about experiences with past boyfriends... Many were not boyfriends, but randos and fwbs that they were hooking up with at the time.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 06:50 PM
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Exactly! I had this one girl tell me 4... But then after a few dates we exchanged stories and my mental tally was way higher than 4. Haha
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 06:17 AM
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Right on man. Over the years I've learned what certain things a woman has been through equates to in terms of partners. Also depends on the woman personality. There's no surefire way to vet her perfectly, just need to use your judgement.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 06:11 AM
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Am I the only one who finds the term body count disgusting, or am I just a boomer? Body count sounds like you been fucking dead people or burying them in the backyard. I much prefer notch count or N count
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 06:07 AM
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Lol, same experience here. Years ago I don't remember women being so into verbal degradation.... Nothing is off limits for some girls. Whatever dirty, nasty words or names you can call them during sex is encouraged. They can't get enough.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 06:18 PM
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Wow nicely put. I couldn't have summarized it better. There's definitely no anger for me, but I sometimes do wish I had a culture to return to after making my money in the circus that is America. I'm third generation American, so my roots are here and I'm staying due to a sense of loyalty to family.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 03:58 AM
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Exactly. That guy who is bad in bed would be amazing to her if she didn't know anything else. I once dated a virgin who would crave just my touch. The simple act of my strong hands on her skin left her daydreaming, craving more. A stark contrast to the sluts out there that need to be choked, slapped, called dirty names or pounded hard to feel anything.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 06:10 PM
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Naw man this post doesn't sit right with me. You are doing something wrong if your LTRs are putting on a mask and not giving you true intimacy. Have you ever had an girl in a relationship that worships the ground you walk on... Will do any dirty nasty thing you can think of, willingly submit to you whenever and wherever you want just for the chance to pleasure you? That there is true intimacy. casual flings can't reach that level of understanding to know exactly what you want and how best to ple…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:33 AM
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I agree, simply because OP describes my experiences from like 10 years ago when I had just learned about the game. Once you reach a certain level, there is no more mask
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:18 AM
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Industry girls are hyper aware of unspoken communication and subtle energies from interacting with men all day. They are pros at body language and nonverbal communication, so you can't fool them with basic player game. If you are intimidated by her looks even in the slightest, game over. You are the same as the other losers. You need to have a genuine chill vibe about you that sets you apart from the hordes of thirsty beta men. It can't really be faked, so consequently I've only pulled it off a …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 10:23 PM
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You're right about the conditioning. Growing up I thought all women were soft, caring, and full of sympathy just because they are women. Then it takes years for us to unwire that false fantasy. However I disagree, or at least have different tastes in regards to the strong independent woman. That's actually a turnoff for me. I don't mind the challenge of an emotional woman with childish outbursts because there is usually a correlation... The hotter the woman, the less rational they are. Feels dom…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 02:17 PM
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Lol right! Hence the zero sympathy. "Babe I just got run over, but don't worry I'm ok. It was just a Prius."
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 12:55 PM
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Naw man it wasn't like that. She was upset that she almost lost me, because I'm always doing risky shit. Was actually kind of cute. Gotta read between the lines with women. Her being pissed showed that she cared in a weird way. But again, zero sympathy in the sense like what your mom would give. No asking how I feel or any of that shit. They don't care. If you are badass enough in her eyes, she thinks you're always good. Actually turned her on that I didn't need or want any fucking sympathy and …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 12:51 PM
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One time I was on the way home from a mountain bike ride and I got run over by a car... Literally a fucking Prius ran over my arm and leg. By sheer luck I somehow didn't break any bones, just bruised and banged up a bit. My girl at the time had zero sympathy. She even tried to make me feel bad for upsetting her. lol
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 08:42 PM
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Good post. That's exactly how I run my text game with younger chicks. Everything is an innuendo, joke, or meme tier comment. Basically a barrage of shit to keep them guessing and their emotions all over the place. They eat it up like candy. Wholesome jokes like, OMG look how random I am type comments usually get ignored with super hot girls. Dudes gotta be coming up with hilarious shit that would have got him a Comedy Central special years ago.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 05:52 PM
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This post sucks ass. You are basically saying don't be perceptive or observant... Dating a tatted up hooker is going to turn out exactly the same as dating a virgin... Yeah, sure buddy.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 05:31 PM
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You're exactly right... Men and women are in competition, if not enemies of one another in this current culture. It's a shame so few recognize we are being played like this.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:16 PM
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Everyone has already told you not to give in... but I'll give you some real motivation. Don't think you can fuck around and just lie to your future boyfriend or husband about the number of partners you've had. If he's a quality man, intelligent and perceptive, he will know. I just kicked a girl to the curb for pretending to be a good church girl, when I gathered enough clues to put the pieces together and determine she's been passed around like the town bicycle. If you try it... There are only t…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 05:51 PM
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Good shit man... If you think of the traditional gender roles, this can be applied quite literally. If, and that's a big if... I enter into a marriage, the woman will be home raising kids while I make the money to support her and the family. Therefore in a sense, she is quite literally an employee.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 05:38 PM
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Exactly, at least you understand it's all in your head... In fact that's what this girl told me about guys in their twenties. I straight-up asked her why is she into me, a guy 20 years older... She told me dudes in their twenties are usually too insecure to deal with an age difference. She said much older guys reach a point where they just don't give a fuck anymore and have no problem with the girl half their age. Turns her on.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 06:16 PM
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Bro, don't be a pussy. I'm 39 and dating an 18 year old. if you are ripped and attractive there's no such thing as creepy
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 02:51 PM
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As stated... Having kids to contribute to the next generation. That's the one and only reason remotely noble enough to enter into such a bad deal with all of society fighting against you.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 07:07 PM
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Spot on man. A marriage, especially one with kids will be SIGNIFICANTLY more difficult than just spinning plates. You must have your game on point, even a skill level above what's needed just to bed random women. Definitely not for the faint of heart.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 06:08 PM
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I am open to getting married to satisfy my desire to have children. However, I have MANY more requirements than just the 3 outlined... So chances of it actually happening are very low.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 05:50 PM
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Ok yeah I agree. Maybe I skimmed the article too quick and didn't get your point. I was referring to wall impact where significant decay has occurred. If you want to get technical about the start... I have actually seen girls start hitting the wall even before 20. I'd say technically 18 to 20 is the range.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 05:25 PM
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I agree. Some dude could binge on Red Pill articles all night and be at stage 5 that evening. Then after a weekend with his chode friends, maybe he is back at stage 1 because of weak psychological resilience and conformity.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 05:21 PM
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One caveat is that you need to be careful when leveraging the wall. If your SMV is high enough above theirs, there are some crazy bitches who will do anything to get pregnant by you. This is when "accidents" happen by desparate women. Also, the wall is at a different age for every woman. I have met sluts that have deteriorated signigicantly already in their early 20's through hard partying and endless carousel riding and have hit the wall HARD. Then again I have seen women at 30 that have preser…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 05:10 PM
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I second the emphasis on The Manipulated Man. That shit got me through some dark times with some crazy bitches. I found it on my own at the beginning of my journey, even before discovering The Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:45 PM
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Bonus tip: Pick up girls during sex. They absolutely love it! One of my standard moves while transitioning from the girl on top, is to stand up while lifting The girl with me, turn around, and throw her onto the bed without skipping a beat... Staying inside her the whole time. The girl will go wild.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 06:43 AM
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Glad to hear my man. I'm a tad older and luckily just missed being indoctrinated with the fairy tale. That mentality is ass backwards. You don't find a job you love... you go for whatever job or business venture makes you the most money, then you love that venture if it makes you bank.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 04:07 PM
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Exactly. It's not a coincidence that millennials are by far the poorest generation, and socialism is on the rise.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 03:37 PM
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Seeking happiness from external sources such as your job is a childish mentality. The real “alpha” move is to make as much money as you can, given your current circumstances and resources available to you. If you have a shitty job, but make a ton of money, keep making the money but fix your perspective about your shitty job. Learn frame control and continue to extract as much money as you can, while exerting the least amount of effort. Laugh your way to the bank while you practice your Machiavel…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 03:31 PM
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Update Turns out the bitch ain't no virgin. She just strongly alluded to it and put up a front to appear as a good girl trying to lock down a guy. I finally broke down her resistance, and found out she likes to be pounded HARD, while screaming fuck me daddy by a much older man. I guess we all have moments of retardation. Not sure why I painted such a blue pilled picture of her in my mind. I think it was my ego getting in the way. Thanks guys for keeping me in check. One-itis officially shattered…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 03:06 AM
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Yeah you're probably right... There's something going on here. I'm glad I posted to knock some sense into myself.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:50 PM
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Thanks man, best advice so far.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:58 PM
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Point taken. I didn't LTR her yet. what I meant to convey is that she could be LTR worthy. I am jumping the gun though. Thanks for the reminder
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:31 PM
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Bring it. Roast me if you want, that's why I'm posting
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:17 PM
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Not yet. She has strong convictions about no sex till marriage. We'll see about that though
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:05 PM
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I actually thought she was like 27, ages just didn't come out till later. But to answer your question... I look young, have been in the bodybuilding game for 20 years. Physically I'm in the top 1%.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:21 PM
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Yeah, I'm pretty self-aware so I recognize where I may be getting off track of it. Exactly the point of this post. Hoping you guys would reinforce the truths and knock some sense into me before I get too enthralled with a "unicorn."
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:17 PM
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Damn, you got me... Bad sign I need to think about that and get back to you. I've accomplished a lot so far... Traveled the world, lived abroad, made money, etc... Now I was thinking of just enjoying the fruits of my labor, kicking back, and yes building a "legacy." I can see the faulty logic though... Recipe for disaster without a higher mission.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:01 PM
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Ha, funny bro... But I will concede that maybe I am being fooled and taken for a ride. I'll tread carefully before promoting her to LTR or investing anything.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:30 PM
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It's all perspective... That's precisely why I'm interested. I want someone I can mold without previous baggage.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:06 PM
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Yeah, like I said I know the answer... Maybe I'm guilty of trying to bend the rules for my unicorn.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:00 PM
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Good point, exactly what I was looking for... I think she may have temporarily distracted me from my mission. Need to get back to kicking ass in other arenas as I usually do.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:54 PM
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Fact: Every girl I've dated with large or numerous tattoos was down to screw and or do some weird shit. I have yet to meet a tatted up girl who was even remotely conservative in the bedroom. Do your own research if you don't trust OP.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:11 AM
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Alright man, then you're not doing too bad. Yeah I thought you meant you went through this 4 times. We all get fooled once, maybe twice, but make sure it doesn't happen a third time.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 02:00 PM
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You should be thankful that you are lucky enough to experience this without losing half of your life savings, home, or children. If this is your fourth time going through this, there's a lesson somewhere that you are not learning. History will continue to repeat, until you learn it. Maybe it's the type of girl you are going after, not being perceptive enough, or not enforcing boundaries. I don't know what it is, but use this as motivation to improve. Strong men grow even stronger through adversi…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 04:46 AM
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That sounds about right. That's where I'm at... about 190lbs and sub 10%. And that's totally natural, no juicing. Enjoy the powerlifting. I fucked my back up over the years, so my body can't handle it anymore. I've come to terms with being skinny and ripped is good enough as my edge in life.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 07:24 PM
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Totally agree. I've done competitive bodybuilding as well. Back when I was bulking I didn't feel "big" until I was in the 210 or 220 range. I don't think many dudes on Reddit have a damn clue about elite level fitness. Just a bunch of bros talking shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 07:07 PM
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Yeah man I don't want to criticize the guy too much, but I thought I was a little too skinny and ripped these days at 6'1" 190lbs.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 06:56 PM
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Logical post, but this only accounts for physical attributes... Imagine the odds against us guys looking for a traditional, conservative, submissive woman.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 06:48 PM
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I agree that there is something immensely satisfying about fixing something with your own hands. Car repairs, home renovation, whatever... Shit, even doing yard work. I could pay some kid 25 bucks to cut grass and landscape my yard, but the feeling I get from maintaining my own domain is worth the time to me. I can accomplish stupid corporate bullshit goals all week at work, but all that pales in comparison to the pride I get from just one hour of working with my hands on my own projects.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:31 PM
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I agree with the other comments, this has nothing to do with SMV. Simply a botched lay, filled with flip flopping and a failed shit test. WTF happened to this sub. I haven't read anything of substance in a week or more. Just weak shitty stories.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:19 PM
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Bro, she's a stripper. What did you expect? Normally I'd say this is one gay ass story, but I'm assuming you are either young or inexperienced so I'll give you a break. Most women have some dark shit going on if you get them to open up... And most certainly 100% of strippers do.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:46 AM
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Hahahaha, I've seen this a lot. Meet a chick in her late 20's who has miraculously mustered up the discipline to lose 40 or 60 pounds. Thanks but no thanks. As soon as she gets a commitment, she's ballooning right back up.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 05:19 PM
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This guy games... I was going to comment the same thing. Going in extremely direct, or talking about random gay shit and then finally asking for a number are both cop-outs to a degree. The essence of true game is essentially talking or joking with her as a normal person would, but yet subcommunicating your sexual interest. This is what "game" is. The more effectively you can turn her on while talking about seemingly mundane topics, the better your game is.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 03:33 PM
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I've experienced the exact same thing. I can't explain it, but the only time I have women actively hitting one me is when I don't release for a while. There is a clear shift in their perception of me. If it's been a week or more, women are basically falling over me wherever I go. If I'm running on empty I can still get their attention, numbers, etc... but requires active game and a lot more effort.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 03:12 PM
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I thought the same thing. Those are major green lights. What else does a girl need to do to make it more obvious?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 07:21 PM
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Another thing worth noting is there is a fine line between fear and attraction in women. Sometimes they are one in the same. Took me a while to realize this. If you are truly masculine and jacked as shit, she may be afraid of you but yet incredibly attracted. However if she's attracted, there will be subtle cues in her demeanor and body language as well. Learn to recognize these and proceed when they are present. She'll smile and blush like a little school girl.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 05:17 PM
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I've done that with beef, but never thought of trying it with chicken. Thanks for the tip!
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 02:46 PM
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This is very true, but one key point is that you must make your leading and direction undetectable to her due to the feminist brainwashing women are subjected to. I dated a staunch feminist once that would melt into my frame like a little kitten, always delighted for me to lead her... But if I spoke directly and explained why she should listen to my wisdom, she would revolt and get visibly angry. That type of discourse activated her pseudo intellectualism and never ended well.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 02:38 PM
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25 minutes cook time with a little water and celery / onion / carrots thrown in for some flavor turns out great. Then quick release. A little on the soft side, but I'm going for max protein consumption with least amount of chewing required. Haha
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 05:38 PM
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Same here. No justification... Just reality. Defeat or weakness of any kind is unattractive, regardless of how you feel about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 04:39 PM
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Great post that serves as a reminder to never show weakness of any kind to your woman, regardless of how the culture tells you to share your feelings. Nothing good ever comes of it, only loss of attraction.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 04:35 PM
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Shit is spot on. I've been in the bodybuilding game for 20 years and have seen it all, supplements come and go. They're all just fads aimed at taking money from punk kids that don't want to put in the work of cooking and choking down a few chicken breasts every day.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 04:15 PM
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I'll second that. Got a knockoff Best buy version for $40. I'm throwing a half dozen chicken breasts in that thing every couple days. Even easier than the George Foreman and chicken so tender you can eat it with a spoon.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 04:09 PM
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Bottom line is that masculine men have no need or desire for female friends. No one is saying you cannot be friends with a woman. Rather it's typically just not a productive or enjoyable pursuit, as women are not going to possess the same ambition, interests, skill levels, or worldview as a truly masculine man will. This is the disconnect here... OP on the other hand sounds quite feminine with his artsy drifting lifestyle, hence his preference for female company.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 04:55 AM
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All you guys saying don't do this... Have you ever been with a woman??? I once dated a girl who told me that if a guy ever asks for anything sexually, the answer is ALWAYS no, no matter what it is even if she wants it bad herself. Only if he takes charge and goes for it, is she DTF.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 04:28 AM
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