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| 3 | How would you flirt with a nurse while donating blood?Highly specific point of contention but I can agree with that. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How would you flirt with a nurse while donating blood?I don’t think hitting on nurses taking your blood is a good idea, considering that I have known some cases where nurses try their best to make it deliberately painful if you come off as an inconsiderate/rude person. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?Other than intrinsic biological differences, ironically our community is the one that’s shooting ourselves in the feet. It’s because talking about self-grooming and self-improvement can be seen as “gay” among most male crowd. Talks about hygiene, fashion, self-care started as soon as a girl hits puberty. You try to talk about these with the boys, and you’d be shot down as gay. Funnily enough, this aversion from self-care doesn’t become better with age, but simply becomes worse. Male crowds just … | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 12:23 PM |
| -1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?Pretty sure if I was a fentanyl addict whore I’d rather sleep in a confident fentanyl addict’s cardboard box than an unconfident one. | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 11:55 AM |
| 4 | Anyone here a loser who turned it around?That’s what I meant. And man, after a long time time feeling out of place as an “introvert” I realized that I have actually been an extrovert. Nothing beats that feeling when you really feel like you are in your own skin, your thoughts aligning with your body. | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 06:41 AM |
| 14 | Anyone here a loser who turned it around?Had a generally existential-type depression. Made me have low self-esteem because essentially I had “no rights/license to live,” and even if I do, what is there to live for? Essentially grew out of it thanks to heavy involvement with philosophy and self-reflection. I turned from a total introvert to a total extrovert. Turns out I have been a chad this whole time. My depression just held me back from being the true me, that’s all. I turned out to be a real natural at impressing girls. Confident, … | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 05:06 AM |
| 12 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Didn’t sexual harassment issue increase over there and that’s why the women there are less approachable in the streets? | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girlsBeing balanced between confident and entitled is where it’s hard. I am a good-looking guy who DID have entitlement issues. Made me do some cringy shit. I took a good long-look at myself and decided to self-regulate. If these girls wants to go with another guy, go ahead I guess. I did what I can and while I can improve, no amount of extra effort can change a “change of heart.” And I guess I’m done letting a woman’s “change of heart” indicate anything about my self-worth. Sometimes it’s just not y… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Stop playing video games, get out into the real world.I think it needs to be said that video games are a perfectly valid way of finding a common ground with fellow geeks who you want to be in bed with. Really depends on the typa girl you want to pull. But as much as you can find “common ground” on a game, I’d say it borderlines to addiction when you do the following, and self correction is necessary: Buying in-game items with REAL MONEY Not keeping contact with friends and family Skipping responsibilities and self-care Becoming genuinely heated/ang… | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Better to avoid women like that to be in a relationship with. Those kinds of women are better suited for one night stands, because they’d probably need a lot more perspective and life experience before being in a real relationship. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Which celebrities applied sh*t tests?I’ve seen my friends personally be insulted by their partner when they feel sad over dead pets and family. That’s the type of shit test you should not put up with | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Which celebrities applied sh*t tests?Depends. Some women’s definition of shit tests are just straight up criminal and nuclear. Some other women’s definition are just good-natured ribbing no different than bros. Really a spectrum. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Body language really gets women attentionI think it’s safe to say that the journey to become confident is way too different for you and me for us to meet halfway, so let’s agree to disagree. I genuinely believe both ways are just as valid, and what’s needed for someone to become more confident is different for different folks. I think we should just celebrate that both you and me made it out of our journey finding what we wanted out of it, even if it’s different. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Body language really gets women attentionI’d disagree. I think many people when starting out have confidence issues socially. When I first started out, I am highly confident of my technical abilities etc., but not socially. If I was too true to my authentic self back then, my gloominess and self-deprecation is gonna make me face more rejections that ultimately makes me reaffirm my lack of self-confidence. You say there is a problem with faking it, because it is not sustainable. I agree, but I argue the door opening, even if momentarily… | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Body language really gets women attentionTbh you kinda need to fake it initially. Apparent lack of confidence can make you be more rejected, and for someone starting out, Pygmallion effect will make them feel like they are truly worthless. I think faking it is crucial for many people starting out | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 08:04 AM |
| 5 | Body language really gets women attentionTbh you can “Act confident.” It’s just that the invested time and energy needed to hone this skill is REALLY big. This, coupled with the fact that fake confidence usually leads to arrogance/self-centredness instead, makes it so most of the time it’s not worth it. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | How many guys here actually approach?I did, before I was married. While advice here can be repetitive, it’s pretty much true. Be confident. Lots of my peers fumbled because they wanted to do something and then overthink “What if she thinks I’m a creep/weirdo/pervert/desperate/etc.?” Ends up they present themselves as just boring. I am gonna add another layer. You need to stop putting women on a pedestal. This is true too, but what does this mean? Well, it means that you need to stop feeling too scared of thinking “you’re toast if y… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 07:56 AM |
| 0 | How to handle a super shy womenSounds like you just need to understand that some people are not good texters. It’s because nothing feels as socially asinine and as mundane as texting. No matter how good or how bad the conversation went, or how funny or interesting it is, here is my genuine reaction to all text: 😐 It’s nothing alright? And I bet the girl is feeling the same way. Yapper yapper doo. I like action or going out A LOT more. If it’s not something you’d like, maybe just accept you’re not compatible. | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.Man, I’d love to apply this. But for some reason my friends’ certified baddies don’t exactly look like baddies to me. I have some fucked up and unconventional view of beauty I guess. | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Any tips for quiet girls with a crazy side?Got one as a wife in fact. Would not recommend, you can see why in my history. Thankfully, my wife is undergoing therapy and one day she’s like “Holy shit, I was acting so crazy, sorry for that,” but from time to time, her crazy side still acts up. And when they do, the gaslighting, abusive words etc. really act up. And then some time later, she’d be normal again and say “Sorry, I truly didn’t mean to say all that. I will try harder to control it next time.” It’s like I’m married to Jekyll and H… | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 01:18 PM |
| 7 | Girl with a boyfriend texting meI’m gonna right away tell you that this is a bad idea. Yes, you are immoral if you take her, as many have said. But, even if we discount all that, taken woman are a huge liability. Here’s a few things that can happen. Affair gets discovered and you will get your reputation soiled at social, professional and personal level. This is one of the biggest risk that you take if you continue with taken women. Depending on who is her partner, you might have bad folks looking for you. I’ve seen this unfol… | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Why do I have more success if I’m playing a role? Feel like a psychopath..Basically why I quit. But hey, have fun while you can though. Tiring but rewarding anyways. Just make sure to wrap your tool, you fool. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 05:33 AM |
| 8 | I went to a restaurant and bar, I swear I lowkey saw a 10/10 there no bs. Here’s the story…..I saw a 10/10 once on a rollercoaster while out with my friends once. She sat right next to me, because my friend group was a group of 7, and hers was a group of 3. We said hi to each other, but damn she looked so good and had such a shining aura that I felt my heart beat faster, my cheeks flush red and my head gets dizzy before the rollercoaster even started. I thought to myself, “After this ride, I’m definitely gonna try. Not even gonna be sad if I get rejected, I just know I’m gonna regret it… | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 04:41 AM |
| 3 | How do I get rid of my “Smart” lookI am not much of a reader, but I think “Surrounded by Idiots” by Thomas Erikson was what first made me realise my weaknesses and sent me on my journey. It’s a book containing personality theory explaining why sometimes it’s so frustrating to deal with people. Although I need to preface that as all personality theory goes, use the content to guide you through your journey rather than letting it dictate your view of the world. People’s personality is a spectrum, first and foremost, so do refrain f… | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 12:52 PM |
| 0 | How do I get rid of my “Smart” lookTrue. I’m glad to have the crowd that I’m in, even though at a glance, we don’t exactly fit each other at all. It helps keep things interesting since we walk such different path of life and see the world through different lenses. Helps makes us grow our body, soul and mind passively day by day. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 12:00 PM |
| 25 | How do I get rid of my “Smart” lookNah bro. Even if you change your looks to be the gruffiest, most thuggish person alive, all that falls apart anyways once you open your mouth. The problem isn’t with your looks. I’ve seen geekiest people pull by doing the right things. Consider two possibilities. Number one, your crowd is wrong. I mean, if they are the type to hate smart conversation, they are probably not your crowd. I know this sounds very cocky, but people who are good at deep conversations needs to stick with the smart crowd… | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Did I blow it?Can’t say. Just because you blushed didn’t mean you blew it. I’ve been there and sometimes it only made her got interested in me more. Something along the lines of it making me “look cuter” maybe. Being adorkable can sometimes work. Yes, coming across as someone in control might be your aim with girls, but I don’t think any reasonable woman would think you actually are in control all the time. Blushing might make them go “Oh this guy failed 😒” or “Oh I got him now 😏.” You just never know. Being … | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 06:51 AM |
| 0 | guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high statusOh wow so rare. Then approach with the same attitude I mentioned and just do your best. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 08:52 AM |
| 0 | guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high statusGo approach her with this mentality: that you might not even be happy with her, and that you’re trying things out. As a fellow cringe lord, I’ve tried pursuing someone “pure” and “high class” and man, is it fucking boring. Yes, they are attractive and all that jazz. At the end of the day, we aren’t compatible, and no amount of money or looks are gonna make that even. She’s all about activism, self-reflection, and wholesomeness. I’m all about sarcasm, swearing, grungy/rough/dark jokes and cringe … | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 05:46 AM |
| 7 | How to tell if she's relationship materialAgree on the “we all crave attention and validation” part. Not the polyamorous part though, but you do you. Having a healthy relationship with the opposite sex is a must. Someone who only have female friends will get easily swoon by a random guy trying to hit them up. So I think it really depends on how they act around their friends. | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Tips on what to say to her in bed/talk her through it?Moan, say you like her body, pull her hair and ask her “you like that you bitch?”, “you’re fucking tight” etc. I myself am very sadistic in nature so I like to degrade them via dirty talk. If you’re new to this whole thing, I suggest starting out small from saying how you like specific parts of her body, and then escalate as you get more and more comfortable and knowledgable about that part of you. Personally, I think it’s a good idea to try things out. Like most preferences, it differs from wom… | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 08:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I (22F) make a move on my uni professor (around 30M)I’m pretty sure I got a few unintended romantic interest from my female professors because I was such a good student. Never moved beyond anything because I essentially didn’t want to cause trouble. Pretty sure most professors also feel that way too, but I think the “good student” effect will make them less cautious as they become convinced that you have no ulterior motives. If you have him in your class, make sure to stand out by asking questions after class to show that you’ve been attentive. T… | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How do I (22F) make a move on my uni professor (around 30M)I’m pretty sure being involved sexually with a student is a risk on its own. Policies in our universities seems to revolve around the ability to remain professional. Having sex with a student brings reasonable doubt that professionalism is at stake/risk here, and thus gives a high likelihood that the professor will be in trouble. Tldr: The moment circumstances makes your professionalism become questionable is the moment you’ll get in trouble. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | What type of Girl do you actually want ?Nah bro, I’m a pharmacist and I get complaints by patients a lot about that issue. Some young women complain about it too, but I notice older women typically complained about it more often. Who would’ve thought old age comes with illnesses and deterioration of fitness? Edit: Among others that are also relevant to consider - painful sex, lack of sensation and loss of libido. All of these have higher incidence the older a person is. If any of y’all made it to marriage, and these happened, remember… | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 01:38 AM |
| 2 | What type of Girl do you actually want ?Strong, Hard-working, Honest, Knows what she wants and Smart enough to hold a conversation | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | What type of Girl do you actually want ?Intriguing… why bisexual though, can you explain or is it an arbitrary quality that makes your neurons go ooga booga? | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 01:17 AM |
| 2 | What type of Girl do you actually want ?I don’t think vaginal dryness is fun for either of the people involved, but go off bro | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 01:15 AM |
| 2 | What type of Girl do you actually want ?Block me too while you’re at it lmao | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Women Want You To Be MysteriousDude, sounds like a good tip for getting pussy, but not really for finding a partner. This sub is divergent on either of these two objectives. I get that it’s women’s nature to like mystery and danger, but man, it’s also men’s nature to like youthful looks on a woman (comparatively). If we only follow nature, practically all women aren’t allowed to age and sag. Not really a good idea to pander to nature too much. Knowing someone’s nature is an edge, but there’s more to people than just their nat… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 02:56 AM |
| 2 | After losing weight, some girls have been asking if I’m gay.Well maybe some people say you’re gay because you have the looks that most gay guys consider “their taste.” My face also has a strong jawline, raised and tilted eyebrows which makes me look angry all the time and small sharp eyes, with beard to boot. Many gay guys came to me saying “I’m gay but don’t know it yet” just because I have the looks they consider most gay guys would love to date, which is super toxic tbh. But don’t worry, large overlap between the looks gay guys like and women like | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 06:00 AM |
| 1 | After losing weight, some girls have been asking if I’m gay.Your face looks ambiguous sexually, that’s all. This might mean that your face looks more feminine. Personally I think it could be a strength. I’ve noticed that men with rugged face acting manly might swoon certain women, however for most, effeminate faces with masculine behaviours are more effective. | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 09:30 AM |
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