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It’s true. As a truecel, I cannot attract any woman due to inborn traits and high levels of anxiety and depression. My only hope would be going overseas but that is depressing and pathetic and I’d probably accused of preying on someone, so I have just decided to die quietly in peace like society wants me to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:51 PM
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No affection between the two and my dad constantly spoke negatively of my mom. My dad made significantly more money although my mom does Ok. They are divorced. I was fully aware of all problems and my mom was not faithful. I wouldn’t want a relationship like theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:27 PM
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I mean it’s safe to assume that if someone has cheated they would probably do it again? I don’t have exact statistics here because that’s impossible to obtain. Also the longer a relationship goes on, the more likely cheating will occur and with advent of online dating certain people can cheat with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:00 PM
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Those are the ones who admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:40 PM
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Infidelity rates vary widely based on the demographic being surveyed. According to estimates based on married couples, approximately 25% of men admit to cheating on their spouse at some point, while around 15% of women admit to the same. Another study found that up to 4% of married individuals had cheated on their spouse in the past year. Cheating statistics generally increase when marriage is taken out of the equation, though. According to a study published in 1999, researchers found that 75% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:29 PM
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Whoops sorry forgot to bring my entire thesis. Maybe try a search engine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:05 PM
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Surveys plus adding on a buffer for those that lie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:47 PM
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Most long term relationships involve cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:39 PM
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Not very close and I would see a normal amount of menial labor. I guess I am more inclined to share issues with my dad because I wouldn’t expect women to understand male issues. It was honestly a pretty normal unremarkable relationship growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:09 PM
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I would bet most women even fantasize about these misogynistic men because of their looks and charisma. They just project the negative qualities onto unattractive men. When they are mistreated by Chad, they mentally blame and project the qualities onto guys they aren’t attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:04 PM
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A truecel would never get a date in the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:38 AM
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Were you by yourself? I think some people may see this as a red flag. I was by myself and this is sort of a sketchy cheap dive bar where shit goes down (police, overdoses, people freaking out and standing on the bar counter). I have gone there many times though and know a few of the regulars
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:37 AM
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Yeah it’s shit how you can just mind your own business and people just assume you want to do x y and z without any evidence just because you don’t display preprogrammed facial expressions and voice tonality at exactly the right times
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:36 PM
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I must be very ugly I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:13 PM
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What specifically did you notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:02 PM
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You think people walk around being “misogynists” all day because they post their thoughts online? Or do you think you can actually read people’s minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:14 PM
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Wow I never saw this comment coming. Well that is the story. Some woman claimed I was staring at her (middle aged). I didn’t say a word to them and was talking to the guy next to me. I can 100% confirm I was not staring at a middle aged woman. Of course you aren’t going to believe. She reported it to the bartender who just kind of looked at me. I was not kicked out but I left. Another time I was actually kicked out I simply told a girl who was going outside that I would follow her outside. I app…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:11 PM
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I’ve been kicked out of bars just for standing around talking to people. If you go to sketchier places women are much harsher and become hostile out of nowhere. The fruitcakes on here probably spend all their time in the suburbs though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:37 PM
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Wow congrats. I’m sure you can spot “misogynists” before they even open their mouth. It’s just something about them that you can’t put a finger on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:13 PM
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Ugly and awkward with low levels of dating experience means misogynistic though which is why they can “spot it” from a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:45 PM
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I wouldn’t say addiction but I do look at porn roughly every other day although sometimes when I actually have a sex drive two or three times a day. I definitely lost a lot of enjoyment for it though
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/23 10:41 PM
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Yes probably social anxiety is contributing to it. It also may be genetic as you suggested
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/23 10:23 PM
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I suspect I am hyposexual resulting from autism and low penile sensitivity
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/23 05:09 PM
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Yes you are fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:48 PM
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This post seriously creeps me out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:53 PM
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Completely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:05 AM
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I had a foreign student girlfriend years ago but that was a special case. I’m about your age and have resigned myself to pornography and whatever hobbies I want to dabble in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:57 AM
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The best thing for a sub 5: just giving up on women entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:19 AM
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They didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:08 PM
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They want rich gangster risk takers like something out of the movies. The average engineer or executive is probably a low risk nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:11 AM
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Yea social conformity is negatively correlated with romantic success I would think. Ultra conformists do well in school and end up in white collar jobs but do not necessarily succeed romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:08 AM
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Because I have social anxiety, maybe autism and I am short which doesn’t affect me as much at work but definitely with attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:05 AM
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As a man, you’re not allowed to complain either. They just want you to rot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:06 PM
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I’m 26, make almost $100k a year with a degree but because I have social anxiety and have incel tier looks, I’m perpetually single
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:07 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:54 PM
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I apologize as well. Probably the “fuck my ass” comment got me. I’d like to fuck a nice lady’s ass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:16 AM
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The few times I matched on OLD I got ghosted or one word replies. I am not good looking though and I’ve pretty much swiped on everybody in 60 mi radius
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:49 PM
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Ok thanks for letting me know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:35 PM
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Well you obviously agreed with it and made the assumption that people aren’t as lonely as they make it seem. Pretty presumptuous. That guy was just relaying his experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:15 PM
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Thank you. I mean you would know all about my situation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:13 PM
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And you’re an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:03 PM
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Why do people make statements matter of fact like this as if they know about everyone’s situation? Pretty idiotic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:01 PM
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I make almost exactly that and feel like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:59 PM
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College is the best time to do this. I’m actually trying to go back to school to have more opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:56 PM
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At least you’re truth telling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:55 PM
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I have a security clearance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:12 PM
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I guess I should take hostile comments from people. Oh wait then you’re a boring doormat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:11 PM
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Yes I am being pushed out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:10 PM
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You’re probably right. Right now I’m working a high paying career that requires a lot of effort. At this point, I realize that’s a waste of time and I’m probably going to focus on making my life as easy as possible, since no one is coming after me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:08 PM
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I did have friends that came and went but never developed a constant circle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:07 PM
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You get what you give
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:07 PM
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You can lose weight relying on no one but yourself. I exercise regularly. I never blamed anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:49 AM
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Yes it is EXACTLY like that. Even if employers can smell you are a loner they won’t hire you for an entry level job. I’ve had that experience as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:45 AM
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Yeah not to mention even if you do, what happens is within those groups cliques form and then you’re right back to where you started. When I volunteered I didn’t fit in at all. Don’t get me wrong I’m glad I did it because I met a male friend who was cool but the general atmosphere just didn’t mesh for me and eventually I rubbed people the wrong way without meaning to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:42 AM
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I like in a city of maybe 90k in the northeastern US
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:37 AM
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I noticed you’re a woman. Yeah it doesn’t work this way for guys. You have almost a cemented spot in the hierarchy and at the bottom no one wants to be around you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:36 AM
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Yeah I’m relatively fit but people instantly hate me because I look like a dumb ass nerd and sound like I’m about to cry when I talk because my voice is strangled due to anxiety. No one wants to befriend that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:34 AM
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I don’t care honestly I gotta “self improve” endlessly so here we go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:32 AM
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You can be a nice awkward guy and while people will be polite they won’t want to befriend you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:32 AM
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Even if you’re only working 40 it’s tough to find coed hobbies like this. I’ve volunteered and worked second jobs before. I go out regularly. It’s hard. People on here giving bs advice just imagine that you sit around playing video games all day because they don’t know what this is like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:31 AM
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No seriously. That’s my next step
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:12 AM
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I’m going on zoloft tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:48 AM
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So you just assumed we never tried. That I’m pretty sick of
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:24 AM
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You sound like the typical angry woman on this sub. Are you so bored of Chad you gotta come in here and dunk on some low tier hopeless guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:51 AM
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I can do this fine in bars if I’m drunk but sober I cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:37 AM
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No not really. People will be polite but if you’re an outcast that’s what you are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:35 AM
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Not true unless you mean escortd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:07 AM
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Not sure what obesity and fitness have to do with it. These don’t require other people’s cooperation. People are responsible for their own bodies but not other people’s minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:05 AM
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Yeah you aren’t being funny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:04 AM
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I’ve done it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:03 AM
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I’m an incel and I consider myself “left wing” because I never believed the commonly held myths about “communism”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:46 PM
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Well I don’t care man. It’s either that or die alone having no one remember you. People can perceive whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:56 PM
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Sorry bro it gets way worse as you age
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:27 PM
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That’s true but in some places you find people by themselves as well or the groups disperse. Try to go when there’s a sports game on so you can have that in the background to fill time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:21 PM
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Thank you! I won’t get many opportunities like that but I gotta take em when I can
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:57 AM
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I am awkward as hell and also older (26M). I’ve been going to bars by myself and putting myself in awkward scenarios and it is actually improving my situation a lot. In fact last time a group of people bought me a shot and a lot of women actually talked to me first. This was a massive party event though so it’s not usually like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:41 PM
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Women age 30-50 are the hottest in my opinion. They don’t like me though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:22 PM
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I seriously regret being a sad loser and never playing sports. It’s all the anxiety that was pumped into my head as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:36 PM
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Yeah haha I’m thinking of Tim Pool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:59 PM
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Yeah I’ve never experienced smiling or invitations
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:09 PM
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What would be amazing if someone could compile a large data pool of interactions that are rates as normal vs abnormal and we could get this list. Dead serious. I genuinely can’t tell if I’m being creepy or funny but I usually err on the side of assuming I’m creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:42 PM
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I go to bars by myself to meet people and it’s better when there’s a game on. However sometimes it’s clear that people don’t want to talk or just want to stay in their group. Awkwardly inserting yourself into someone else’s group doesn’t work and sometimes you just run out of people. I don’t know I would say I probably spend 5-10% of the time talking to people and the other % just hanging out. If someone starts a conversation with me I’ll certainly do my best to continue it. It’s usually other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:28 PM
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I love the fact that pulling yourself up by the bootstraps is physically impossible to do. Usually when people say things like this it’s out of arrogance or moral superiority. If you picked that person’s life apart they would have issues as well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:20 PM
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Wow people really find something wrong with everything. Someone sitting at a bar watching a sports game and maybe exchanging a few words isn’t the Ghost of Christmas past. Oftentimes in a bar setting people come in groups so it is difficult to always be talking to someone. In certain circumstances it’s easier. For example the other day I was at a bar that was having a halloween party so it was slam packed with young people my age and younger. Because it was so crowded people were forced to be ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:49 PM
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Normal amounts of social vary from person to person. In a bar setting, it may be perceived as strange to converse a lot with people you don’t know. I do this frequently though and with enough alcohol I can be pretty decent at conversing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:06 PM
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And spewing vapid nonsense or endlessly talking about yourself isn’t selfish? No one is obligated to be the life of the party all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:37 PM
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I’m just joking sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:54 PM
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Wow do you follow them around all day to observe? It literally just happened to me today
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:25 PM
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I’m still trying but the way people make it sound reeks of privileged people who have never had to deal with endless rejection and anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:51 PM
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I’ve worked second jobs, volunteered, etc. I’m trying to go back and get my masters to expand my circle that way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:45 PM
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That’d be nice in theory. Believe it or not some of us are treated like shit by people no matter what we do. We have to force our way into “friendships” just to get rejected or insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:44 PM
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My therapist said (literally) that people can sense low confidence through pictures. I guess pics of me playing guitar and rowing a kayak are toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:39 PM
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Just today I said hello to a female coworker and she rolled her eyes at me and gave me the rudest response. That’s what we get for giving toxic “hellos” I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:36 PM
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Wow you need to check your privilege. Did you try cutting off your weiner and shoving it up your own ass to prove yourself worthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:35 PM
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Sounds like a long drawn out process that doesn’t work unless you built your network from 15-22 years old. It’s also problematic because forming friendships with women before asking them out is dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:34 PM
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Of course. Women are not romantic - they only look for what you can give and the second you stop giving, they stop pretending to love you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:28 PM
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Try going out and having women constantly roll their eyes at you just for saying hello
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:22 PM
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Joining a class just to meet women? That’s creepy and problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah exactly- I’ve been rejected hundreds of times on online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:19 PM
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What reward? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:59 PM
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Because they noticed that “trying” gets them in trouble so what’s the point? It’s better just to check out of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:50 PM
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Lmao! I’m dead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:22 PM
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? Who said anything about legal rights. They want to be seen as equal in ability until it becomes inconvenient
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:13 PM
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They are equal when it’s convenient but unequal when it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:11 PM
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What does this have to do with LGBT? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:10 PM
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The truth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:09 PM
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Sorry I just need to vent someone because energy has to be displaced. This is the perfect place to be anonymous without disturbing people in real life who obviously wouldn’t understand or care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:53 PM
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Thou must not think bad thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:54 PM
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Wow I feel so much better. I can’t wait to endure a lifetime of meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:22 AM
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I gave up whining in person when I was a child. A lifetime of loneliness and hatred by authority and society made me displace it online. People are different online than they are on here. Welcome to life 101
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:21 AM
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I never claimed to have high IQ. I am mentally and socially retarded and at 26 there is nothing I can do thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:08 AM
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You’re a mental midget. You’re assuming everybody with relationship issues is logging 100 hours a week in games. I’m an incel and I don’t play games at all.. women just hate me because I am short and ugly. You’d probably be the first person to call someone a sexist for approching someone in real life but shame them for online dating as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:41 AM
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Anything that requires other’s cooperation is exponentially difficult. A person can easily do whatever BS in a game by themselves but expecting to randomly build a social circle of people is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:02 AM
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No we haven’t since I don’t spend my whole life on this subreddit dude. You’re dumb as hell and don’t know how the average person lives. “Social circle bro” is dumb as hell since there are very few ways to actually build a BS circle. We have shit to do to survive stupid. Wahmen are living in a whole other world where people can construct social circles out of their ass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:07 AM
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Well we don’t have any other option. Been out to bars lately? It’s not exactly single women looking for love
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:40 AM
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“Fake niceness” is just being polite to people when you’re in public. People with intelligence try to avoid unnecessary conflict when in public
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:15 PM
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So glad you wanted to introduce nuance as soon as the genders reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:11 PM
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Yeah like getting fired for having the “wrong” thoughts in your head as dictated by the people who own you at work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:11 PM
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Well what do you expect? We’re supposed to complain about our dating lives at work? Welcome to the real world where people put on a mask to get by.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:10 PM
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I’m surprised that in 2023 some people still grew up with parents that were together and can’t even fathom what a divorce is like. I figured at this point getting divorced is like brushing your teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:38 PM
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Explains why I am a drunkard
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:31 PM
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You think a woman in 2023 is going to cook and clean for you? That’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:28 PM
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Nothing that involves mass coordination ever works. If you increase your standards as an individual, you will just weed yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:13 PM
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I have accepted being single forever. It simply isn’t possible for any woman to be interested in me. It simply isn’t. I’ve already done the “research” in the form of dating apps. If you have to fly to another country just to be someone’s beta bux it is simply over. I can’t deal with constant narcissism and ever increasing standards of women. It’s like dealing with a spoiled child except you can’t discipline the child. I made sure every aspect of life (finances, career, etc) were in order but it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:03 PM
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Well that proves it wrong then! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:41 AM
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The truth. I can’t believe anyone would argue otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:06 AM
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Could you elaborate? I’m not sure I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:27 PM
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I’ve been told people can “sense” my personality through online photos on a dating profile. I don’t know it seems like BS to me. I simply added pictures of me playing guitar or on a kayak smiling and this is somehow offensive? I can’t see how people can read your mind through a screen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:23 PM
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I don’t feel like I am owed anything. At this point I have accepted that I am inadequate and will go to the grave having never been loved by anyone. In a perfect world we could all have “preferences” in a partner but a beggar can’t be a chooser in life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:18 PM
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Yeah but do you have a video recording as proof? (Just kidding)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:13 PM
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It’s true - society wants us to be weeded out of the gene pool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:48 PM
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No that’s “problematic” and “creepy”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:04 PM
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Yeah working is trash. I seriously miss college and I didn’t even have a social life. It was just nice having no pressure to “take initiative” or whatever BS vague corporate jargon
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:45 PM
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I don’t feel sorry for spoiled people who dump ridiculous amounts of money into altering their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:31 PM
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26 years old and still “looking for signals”. Something tells me I’m going to be looking for the rest of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:24 PM
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Have you seen the average person in a relationship? Not exactly the cream of the crop IQ wise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:06 PM
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I never understood this BS that people who are students have no time. You are literally only in class for a few hours a day and have the rest of the day to do whatever. I went to school with people who worked full time which is obviously different. I worked weekends while going to school for engineering and it wasn’t bad at all, but I’m someone who enjoys learning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:11 PM
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They also get more validation from those relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:03 PM
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Don’t bother. People cannot fathom having this experience unless they experience it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:56 PM
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And yet time and time again we see them in long term relationships with people with mediocre jobs and no “ambition” just because they give them the tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:05 PM
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People will say this comment isn’t true but it’s 100% on the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:32 AM
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I couldn’t give a shit about customer reviews when it comes to a human being because they aren’t the same as a smart phone (a lot of reviews are just paid fakes anyway). If I am attracted to someone I couldn’t care less what anyone else thinks. I would actually prefer if others disliked them so there would be less competition but I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:31 AM
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More state funded group activities like the GDR had
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:20 AM
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Good haha. Watch it burn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:26 AM
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No I don’t necessarily mean physically attractive I mean having social proof ie being accepted by the herd
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:43 PM
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Women get their opinions entirely from what the “herd” thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:35 PM
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Unattractive people aren’t even considered people. We are basically cannon fodder and laughing stocks for other people. It makes perfect sense that you’re friend wouldn’t understand her own hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:58 PM
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They ban everyone - I’ve been banned probably 5 times temporarily
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:44 PM
1

But at least they were tall and handsome bad boys who gave her the tingles!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:43 PM
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Don’t bother. You’re talking to a pinhead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:42 PM
8

Spot on haha. And there’s also the added narcissism of expecting the man to read their mind and approach only when there’s mutual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:24 PM
8

The scumbags and losers have traits blackpill people don’t (social dominance, charisma, social circle, height, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:49 PM
1

That’s true. I used to volunteer at an animal shelter which was cool but the people there were ultra sensitive about certain issues. They were cool though. They actually have coed sports at my work (didn’t know they did it at all). That honestly seems like the best opportunity although I am awkward asfk with sports
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:12 PM
1

Nah you are actually just trying to put words in my mouth and thoughts in my head while disguising it as being helpful. I never said anything about a competition for pity but like most people responding to this post you just make a bunch of assumptions about a person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:39 AM
1

Ofc lmao. I had goals which I already achieved - making a good stable income and graduating college
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:54 AM
2

It doesn’t but usually you can’t get one without the other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:49 AM
1

Yeah religion is a virus that needs to be eradicated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:04 PM
1

Wow I did not know that. I need to move there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:03 PM
8

You simply have no value as a man in 2023. If you are in the bottom 20% don’t even bother with society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:34 PM
1

Please list all the “successes” you had an exactly how these were accomplished
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:30 PM
7

So sick of these inspirational idiots. Look it’s hard enough to meet people as a normal person nevermind being male (a disability in 2023) on top of dealing with this BS. Women in 2023 don’t even want to be approached anywhere. Where TF are you supposed to meet people?? You can’t just walk into a bar full of 70 year old construction workers and build a social circle. Fuck people are so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:30 PM
1

I wasn’t born with mind reading capability so I didn’t know all these details. You probably think this is a “gotcha” but it isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:20 PM
1

OK well amazingly enough I don’t know your life story through the internet. Like I’ve already explained I can’f force other people to like me. I know this is mind blowing to you but I can’t force someone to want to be my friend it requires someone else’s cooperation to do it. I can’f force someone to be my wife. I can’t force someone to be my girlfriend. Do you finally understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:19 PM
2

You forgot bad genes which is the ultimate driver in your physique. That being said I’ve definitely made gains in the arms/chest department. I’m 5 foot 8 131 lbs so obviously a lot of work to do. I don’t have any social hobbies although I’ve tried to turn my hobbies into social ones there just aren’t a lot of young people in their 20s actually doing this. The people giving this advice never actually put this stuff into practice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:09 PM
1

?? No? I can’t force someone to date me or love me for me. That requires cooperation from another discrete person that I can’t get
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:05 PM
1

Just the odds are against me. I have some kind of undiagnosed mental BS that has led me to this point and the older you get the less likely you are to achieve this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:06 PM
2

So glad Einstein decided to show up. Ok here we go - I work full time making close to a six figure salary. I go to the gym regularly (3-5 times a week on average) and engage in an eclectic array of hobbies. As for the “haircut” meme I sport a buzzcut because the shape of my skull is fucked up (completely flat in the back and extends outward on the sides).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:21 PM
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Was talking more about the “grossssss” comment but yeah you’re probably right. Not much I can do at this point though lmao. My life is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:26 AM
0

You sound like a 16 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:09 AM
2

Yeah I’m very well off.. work in engineering. I’ll give that a try thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:59 AM
1

Good for you I guess. Different strokes for different folks. I’d like someone who treats me well as well. That’s a pipe dream though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:35 AM
0

Exactly. All of society wants us eliminated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:31 AM
1

Thanks for the condescension. I’ve obviously socialized and have worked for many years. That’s not the same as being in a circle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:12 AM
1

Wow life must be so simple for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:04 AM
1

Nah it’s great if you can be part of one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:38 PM
1

Yeah pretty much the “social circle” bs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:29 PM
1

Exactly you must be attractive to even bother but even then it’s low success. I literally never see people doing this in public. Tinder is a literal circus for ugly people. Facebook dating is a little better but mostly a joke if you’re ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:07 PM
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Nope lmao. Wouldn’t even know how to go there and I would probably be laughed out anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:55 PM
1

I dunno - most people I talk to have a negative view of it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:34 PM
3

There just aren’t any socially acceptable ways to do it. I do socialize with coworkers but that’s it. I talk to randos in bars sometimes but that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:32 PM
2

Well I’m not 100% loving the fakeness but it’s still nicer than nothing. I’m not jumping up and joy for it but if a homeless guy is thirsty he’ll drink anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:38 PM
0

I care what people think because if I didn’t, then almost anything would be acceptable or permissible as long as it’s legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:37 PM
2

No issues from me - and femcels exist. I just don’t personally know any
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:36 PM
1

The point I was trying to make was I understand that it’s all for show and I’m ok with it. Hopefully that was super clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:33 PM
1

No woman would pay us to have sex and we are also not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:40 PM
1

Well the law is stopping you from seeing an escort and societal shame stops some people from going to strip clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:31 PM
0

In my experience strippers sell you the experience of feeling like you are actually a funny and a high value man when ofc you are not. It’s just the facade that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:30 PM
6

If only I could
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:33 PM
2

It could possibly be solved but not by me. I’ve tried even paying people to be my friend which also backfires. Ultimately I can’t force other people to like me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:51 PM
2

I’ve been to strip clubs before and also read the news on the rare occasions that they are actually busted for it. Plus I have know many people who have been strippers and also escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:50 PM
1

Not sure exactly. I get randomly told I am weird by people I meet. Like for example I will say hello to a person and they will turn around and say to someone “that dude is weird” or people will directly say it to my face
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:49 PM
1

Well I wasn’t pursuing you so what does it matter. You don’t speak for all or even most women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:44 PM
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I mean the false advertising is that the woman pretends to be interested when in reality she is disgusted by you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:44 PM
1

Yes I don’t. I didn’t say anything about “womens lizard brain” or anything. My life experience has taught me certain things that’s what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:43 PM
1

Oh no I’m “mansplaining” so sorry. I’ll let you explain my life experiences to me instead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:40 PM
2

Oh my god thank you for not inserting some NPC preprogrammed “morality” into it. People seriously cannot fathom someone paying for sex and treating the worker fairly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:39 PM
1

Not not really but this happens beneath a surface level. Even the hookers I’ve been with sensed my lack of experienced and treated me accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:37 PM
1

You are an exception to the rule assuming you’re being truthful. Most people see lack of sexual experience as negative. It’s less exciting and you are less of a “leader”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:32 PM
2

Imagine you are a woman who is 26. You have already had two long term relationships and slept with a few other guys in college. You just met a guy whose life experience was sleeping with two hookers. Would you be interested? No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:27 PM
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It’s true that someone somewhere may be interested on some level but the odds are I will never meet this person. It’s statistically unlikely that I’d be able to generate a “social circle” and force people to like me in a short span of time necessary to gain the experience necessary to be with any person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:21 PM
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26 and I don’t think your view is inherently wrong but it’s not “objective” in any way either. I view it as intimacy because I disagree that true love exists - it is always under conditions and is always some form of exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:19 PM
3

That’s a herculean task. I suppose I could shell out $70k for height surgery, work out every day and approach strangers on the street all day. The “self improvment” is never enough when you are going up against factors against your control. I go to the gym regularly, make $100k a year (almost). Of course someone will shame me for this and say “So what you’re saying is a woman will only want you for those things? Ok (I word I can’t say online)”. Even when you self improve you will be consistently…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:18 PM
1

You’re right man. Women hate us low value men and we will never get acceptance in this society no matter how much “therapy” or whatever we do. I’ve lived long enough as a low value man to understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:12 PM
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You’re right they don’t. Men’s needs are seen as inherently predatory but the same exact need in a woman is seen as ok. I’m pretty much used to being shamed just for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:09 PM
6

Excellent points - you’re right that sex work gets much tougher as you age and because it’s considered unskilled it becomes hard to pivot out of it making it exploitative
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:02 PM
3

True but that’s unsolvable issue for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:00 PM
5

Love the phraseology you used. “Manlets” and “incels” - as if that’s our fault
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:53 PM
0

That’s most of them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:25 PM
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Most sex workers today operate online independently and without pimps looming over them. I do agree there are lots of judgmental people who wouldn’t marry a sex worker - I absolutely would no problem. I’ve had nothing but good experiences so far
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:23 PM
0

I saw your edit. Men absolutely have less value as people which is why we are the ones “self improving”, etc to meet someone. We don’t have the “equipment” to produce children and therefore have less value
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:21 PM
3

To experience intimacy and contact with the opposite sex which I cannot get with anyone else not for lack of trying. It’s also to build experience so that if and when the day comes I won’t be fighting an uphill battle experience wise. Despite what some people may say most women don’t want a guy with little sex experience. It would be like “training” somebody which would be a waste of their time. The sex workers don’t care though and may even offer valuable advice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:20 PM
0

I wasn’t suggesting B at all hence me advocating for sex work which isn’t the same as dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:16 PM
-4

A reasonable take. You’re right it’s baked into the culture. It’s honestly patriarchal viewing women as perpetual victims in this scenario although you’re right the sex workers usually aren’t raking in the dough. It’s true of any other field though where the so and so % rake it in and most people just do ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:15 PM
1

If you live in a world where women make all of the moves PLEASE invite me there. It sounds awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:11 PM
2

Right but what world do you live in where women are in charge of making moves on men. No we are the ones who must make the first move because society dictates it and also because we have less value as people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:10 PM
0

Yeah but honestly a long term relationship based on money is way more dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:09 PM
0

We are constantly being “corrected” in the way we approach things making us doubt ourselves, hence having less courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:09 PM
2

No strip club operates within the law in reality.. most of the strippers double as sex workers as well. Is that shocking or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:06 PM
6

Thanks but I think masturbation fulfills an entirely different need
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:04 PM
1

It will be destigmatized when people stop viewing sex as “oppression” and start seeing it as engaging in an intimate act. People don’t want their property becoming sex workers because they have been conditioned to believe that it’s oppression instead of empowerment. It’s all just the way people view it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:04 PM
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No not really. It’s just the way YOU view sex that makes it seem this way. Sex work is someone paying for intimacy. I engage in this because I simply want someone to talk to and experience intimacy with even if it’s for an hour and even if it’s all an act. It’s better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:01 PM
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They are definitely expensive but the cost also goes up with the risk the sex workers take operating outside the law… plus if normalized more people would consider becoming sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:57 PM
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People only appear to be “good people” because they have overcome the attractiveness barrier already. If you are below the attractiveness barrier, it wouldn’t matter what character you have as you have no chance to prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:55 PM
-1

Not directly, but by creating a hostile environment which chastises males for having any sort of courage, this effectively eliminates the bottom so and so % of males from the gene pool which was the plan all along. When you label everything men do as “problematic” or “sexist” these rules will really only apply to unattractive people much like laws that only apply to working class people and wealthy well connected people seem to always get away with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:53 PM
3

Thank you - most people who oppose sex work have no experience with sex work. They just operate with assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:50 PM
6

Exactly we shouldn’t demonize sex workers. But we also shouldn’t demonize people who aren’t NT even though you don’t get any social justice points for that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:47 PM
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You are just making assumptions based on what you’ve been told. I’ve literally never done any of this stuff and have never treated a sex worker with anything but respect. It is true most people don’t do this and they tend to encounter lots of creepy psychopaths. Ironically the creepy psychopaths are usually married or in relationships already. Of course you don’t care though because you’re just going to continue believing what you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:45 PM
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Hmm yeah probably not, since most people view their children as property not people making their own decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:42 PM
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This is ridiculous. Normal people don’t walk up to random people on the street over and over. They don’t do it at bars either. This is just blaming people for ND and unattractive which is why we don’t have a “social circle” which is how the vast majority get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:26 PM
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Exactly. I am constantly told I am “weird” by all sorts of people just by conversing. If you don’t follow an NPC dialogue tree, especially if you are short and ugly as you mention, you essentially have no chance in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:21 PM
7

Because the second a below average man approaches, he’ll be chastised as being creepy or “problematic” or “chauvinist” or any other BS just for the crime of being short and unattractive. There just simply aren’t enough socially acceptable ways to do this in 2023 so we are relegated to apps where we are rejected based on their height and facial structure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:19 PM
7

People tend to be like their parents. My dad is a neurotic loser and so am I. I just lack the narcissism and complete lack of self awareness that he has
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:04 PM
1

I don’t know - I grew up with my dad and I am incel-tier. My parents didn’t care about me being successful so I didn’t learn much of anything from them. Plus I believe I have undiagnosed autism
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:03 PM
1

Yea I know. I’m an EE, make almost six figures in my mid twenties. It’s because I’m fucking ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:05 PM
7

I will be dead before that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:54 PM
2

The thing is women by nature are perpetually unsatisfied. If you increase the level of female choice, it will only increase their level of dissatisfaction and they will continue to reject 90% of guys. For these women, no place is appropriate to approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:51 PM
4

If more of these existed, people wouldn’t hate left wing people so much. A lot of cuckservatives think that leftism = annoying “woke” crybaby which a lot of these so called leftists I’ve come across are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:49 PM
1

Absolutely spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:47 PM
1

Of course they will say they don't care. Never listen to what a woman says since they never mean what they say. The results speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:11 AM
3

Height is literally everything. I matched with a woman today (probably 1% match rate as it is) and the first question was "What is your height?" Immediately unmatched me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:10 AM
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