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Not at all. If she sent you that, playfully flirting back is pretty much mandatory.
/r/seduction18/04/16 07:12 PM
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If you have already kissed her, you always kiss her hello. A hug only would be a step back and a bad move. Other than that, have fun, be yourself and go with the flow of things. Assert your dominance as a man and do what you want. She is just along for the ride.
/r/seduction18/04/16 06:45 PM
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Work on your inner game. If your true confidence isn't matching your projected confidence you will get stuck with these feelings for every woman who shows interest in you. Exercise, diet, stop masturbating, get laid.
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:26 AM
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I think the moral of the story was you shouldn't have hesitated when you first saw her. Assuming that would have been enough time to bring her home.
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:24 AM
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Should have kissed her or made out a little. She was interested but probably really was tired since everyone else crashed. You can't close every girl every night.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:31 PM
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Be more interesting or build more attraction. Them telling you they thought you were busy could be legit but I'm betting it's bullshit. Girls that like me text me whether I initiate or not. They could also be shy. I don't read shy people that well.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:25 PM
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I got rejected asking for a girl's number by saying, "We can talk about our favorite serial killing techniques." (We had both been talking about Dexter when it was really popular). After declining, she said, "That's a great pick up line, creepy but awesome." She said she declined because we didn't know each other that well. Of course, my response was that is why I was asking for her number. I even gave her a second chance and counted down from 5. Then excused myself. Back then, I have no game. N…
/r/seduction09/08/14 10:55 PM
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I hate to admit it but I have the same problem. Girls used to just outright tell me I'm creepy but I was more socially retarded then. Even after self-improvement, not many say it to my face but I can see it in their eyes or overhear them tell someone else. I'm guessing it's a internal belief I'm still holding on to and projecting. Creepy is basically just acting differently from your intentions which is hard when I know I want this girl and am trying to restrain myself from being an outright per…
/r/seduction09/08/14 08:02 PM
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So seduce him.
/r/seduction16/07/14 01:36 AM
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If she is actually facing your way use Hand of God. Otherwise, she is gone. You do not want to chase her unless you want her to automatically assume you are creepy. A desperation move I just thought of would be to chase her down and tell her she dropped a piece of clothing. Pull out a pair of you socks and just say you dropped these. Have your phone number inside of the socks. She will immediately fall in love with your romanticism or, you know, spray you with mace. /s
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:12 PM
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Two things could be happening here: She really is a 'lady' (read: prude) and wants to talk it slow. She's been played before and is just being cautious until she thinks she can trust you. She's dating around and doesn't want to fuck everyone. This happens a lot from people on dating sites. They're fishing with dynamite and have too many fish to fit in the boat. But, man, never complain about not getting laid. It's so unattractive and kills any chance of getting laid. As /u/DerpVonGroove said, ou…
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:03 PM
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Sticking points, bro. You had to get involved in the group convo. She subconsciously wants to see you are compatible with her friends and interacting in groups. When you didn't do this well and actually started talking to a stranger instead either she lost interest or her feelings were hurt. She took that as an excuse to talk to that charming guy to compensate for your actions.
/r/seduction13/07/14 03:56 PM
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Gym's are far from an ideal place to pick up women. Gym's just aren't a social place. However, I would just approach her group when they come in and are talking to each other. Approaching while she is working out is hard to do correctly without coming off as creepy or hitting on her.
/r/seduction13/07/14 03:51 PM
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True. I find myself outright neglecting self improvement in the way of finances when I'm involved in game. Being lonely doesn't help. Being desperate for sex doesn't help. All you want is to hook up and satiate your lust so you can concentrate on money but, in many ways, you need to have your money issues sorted out before you can hook up. It's a vicious circle.
/r/seduction13/07/14 03:44 PM
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She's drunk. He's average looking and forward. This is a prime example of how the human race repopulates so successfully. Seriously, "tell him I'm your gay friend" could work. It could be genius in some aspects. Now you can escalate physically in front of the boyfriend and only you and girl know otherwise. You can isolate her much easier too.
/r/seduction13/07/14 03:41 PM
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I don't know whether to upvote you because of the first half of your comment or downvote you because of the last half. Yes, a well-placed light neg is good but only in a teasing way like described in another comment. Don't assume just because a girl is a 9 or above that she is dumb or you are going to have a bad time. The REAL 9s and 10s that I encounter are almost always intelligent and, if I talk to a 9 or 10 and I find out they aren't intelligent, they get downgraded to a 7 tops.
/r/seduction13/07/14 03:30 PM
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You said it yourself. You are remembering the negative parts. Some of them might only seem negative in your memory. You have to stop caring about what others think. If you only care what you think about your actions and you are still unhappy then change your game.
/r/seduction12/07/14 11:00 PM
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Literally every time I see an attractive woman I will go and say hello. I walk up to her, tell her I saw her and I think she's cute and I wanted to see if she was interesting. Sure, a lot of women might just walk away at that point, but you'd be surprised how many stay! I'm worried if I approached everyone people would see my efforts or rejection and then, when I later approach them, they will just think I'm a player or whatever. This is a current sticking point of mine and I'm not sure how to g…
/r/seduction12/07/14 08:00 PM
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Eyes are the window to the soul. If you are breaking eye contact it is almost always a confidence issue so working on increasing your confidence will help. One trick that worked for me is to challenge your friends or family to staring contests like when you were a kid. Except don't really stare, look. Go back and forth between both eyes and smile.
/r/seduction11/07/14 08:14 PM
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Sidebar: text/phone game 1 text game 2 In general, make texts fun and interesting. Only use text and social media to set up times to meet, not to escalate.
/r/seduction11/07/14 08:01 PM
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Ii tend to forget about this. Awkward, nervous, and shy girls tend to come of as not interested to me. I need help here.
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:59 PM
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You are right. I really meant don't make it your life. If all you are doing is game then the other areas in your life will suffer and it only gets worse with time.
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:56 PM
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You can feel bad for the guy but don't feel bad about your actions. Girls lie about having boyfriends all the time for various reasons. That being said, NEVER become her boyfriend if it turns out she really did have a boyfriend at the time you initially hooked up. If she did it to him, she will do it to you.
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:51 PM
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I guarrantee the posters who think this is fake didn't have a good time at uni. It is so easy to get laid in college for so many reasons. I miss it.
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:47 PM
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Everyone needs R&R. If you don't balance work with play or take seduction too seriously, you will fail and fail hard.
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:23 PM
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Finally, FINALLY, we know who let the dogs out! It was the bike thief!
/r/seduction09/07/14 11:43 PM
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Still a hug is a better memory than a handshake. Live life with no regrets.
/r/seduction07/07/14 04:04 PM
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AA is so, so lame. You can literally say anything, and you'll probably forget what you started the conversation with by the time it's over. Or, you can just walk past, and always wonder what she could have been like... No more of that for me. A-fucking-men, brother.
/r/seduction01/07/14 04:29 PM
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Here's my opinion. First the age you appear to be to others can be manipulated by fashion and/or style. Clothes, hair, jewelry, tattoos, etc. Second, I'm 32 and regularly find myself pursuing women who turn out to be 21 - 26. Anyways, I find myself talking to that age group quite a bit and have not seen any issues.
/r/seduction29/06/14 11:48 PM
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Basically what he said before that about putting yourself out there. Opening yourself to possible rejection. Making a bold decision regardless of the consequences.
/r/seduction29/06/14 07:06 PM
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I'm still taking baby steps but here is my current method. Approach as many sets as you are interested in. If you see 3 groups you like, they make an initial rotation between them. You may immediately hit it off with one so you can decide how long you stay at this point. Opening other sets, builds value since you are demonstrating you can hang out with anyone you want and be happy. Under no circumstances should you make any set feel like they are responsible for you. After initial opens, go back…
/r/seduction29/06/14 06:32 PM
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Spot on, man. I didn't realize this for a long time. I was the most insecure guy out there. Couldn't look strangers in the eye. Had to know friends for awhile just to really open up. Confidence is attractive. When you are confident you make others feel more confident about themselves. Being confident around others will make them feel good about themselves. If you make people feel good when you are around, they will want to be around you.
/r/seduction29/06/14 06:06 PM
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Maybe I misunderstood you. You have set a date with one girl and another girl wants to see you tonight instead? If that's what's going on, then breaking a date to get with the other girl is showing neediness but you can go out with her anytime, not just when she suggests. EDIT: Yep, I failed reading comprehension on this one. You can but it could still come off as needy unless she asks you and then only if you are free.
/r/seduction27/06/14 07:52 PM
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Cancelling plans is lame and makes you look needy to the person you are breaking the plans for. Being unavailable increases attraction. Just wait until next weekend, new self.
/r/seduction27/06/14 06:11 PM
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She might be seeing someone else and feels guilty about being with you. Just a guess. Other than that, it's your turn to play hard to get!
/r/seduction26/06/14 01:30 PM
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Yes, make sure you yell and scream as loud as you can at her while steering toward her car. The one thing that might work would be to compliment her on her vehicle or say something funny about it. That's the only reason you would want to try to pick her up in a situation where you are both in cars. Except the first thing I said. Do that.
/r/seduction26/06/14 02:27 AM
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'Never buy a drink' is wrong just because there are times when you want to buy her a drink. If you are betting in a bar and you lose, guess what? You buy her a drink. What if you are talking about bourbon and want her to try some? Only a jerk would let her buy it in that case. You want to buy her a drink? Buy her a drink.
/r/seduction26/06/14 02:13 AM
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Sounds like she had too much to drink. Otherwise, she just wasn't comfortable for some reason. Remember, it's not always your fault. She could have had trust issues that had nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:28 PM
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Are you seeing these girls more than once? It's challenging to build enough trust with a woman to f-close in the first few hours or days after you meet her depending on the type of woman she is. Lots of women are either afraid sex is all you want and terrified of slut shaming. In short, you need to make them more comfortable. LMR is real and conquerable if done right. Let her know you don't have to have sex tonight.
/r/seduction25/06/14 04:50 PM
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Why? If you haven't talked in months how have your opnions changed? Personally, I think this is a bitch move. If I missing something and this is a legit missed connection then you've got some good quotes in this thread. " hey did I just see you walking down... xyz?" "Hi. This is me reminding you that you miss me. "
/r/seduction25/06/14 04:29 PM
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Yeah, that would have rattled me too, bro. Lesson learned though. She just wanted to test you a lot more than a girl who wasn't a virgin to make sure she wouldn't have regrets later.
/r/seduction25/06/14 03:06 PM
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I struggle with this a lot myself. I usually: Act completely non-sexual which results in normal conversation but no attraction. or Try to build attraction while fumbling over myself and my words. Neither method works unless they like awkward guys. Apparently, dismissing her hotness in your head or treating her like an average chick (which all hot girls are) works but fuck if I have mastered that yet.
/r/seduction25/06/14 02:57 PM
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I'm pretty sure the classic "If I wasn't gay, you would totally be mine." is a given.
/r/seduction25/06/14 02:48 PM
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If you are stuck with bad teeth and can't change it, my best advice is to stop focusing on it. Sure, it is a flaw and nice teeth are attractive but if you can't change it don't obsess over it. Shift you outlook from negative to positive. Make a joke about it if you are self conscious and quickly move on. Do you really think guys with bad teeth can't get laid/ a girlfriend? If that was true entire populations of people would become extinct.
/r/seduction25/06/14 02:46 PM
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You comment is constructive rebuttal to the comment you replied to. Mine on the other hand...
/r/seduction24/06/14 09:49 PM
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"Best seat in the house." I feel like this is an advantage. You are already not afraid and the wheelchair makes you seem more approachable. Just keep putting time in.
/r/seduction24/06/14 09:37 PM
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WTF is wrong with my (our) eyes?
/r/seduction20/06/14 02:55 PM
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What does 'milked' mean in this context?
/r/seduction20/06/14 12:35 PM
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This has been said in different ways countless times. It still needs to be said though. You will always regret the thing you don't do more than the thing you did.
/r/seduction19/06/14 08:50 PM
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Tell her what you are doing: trying to meet new women (or people). Why would you lie? BUT it is a shit test. It's just disguised as genuine concern. Saw this in one of the "shit test" sidebar threads. "Picking up girls at bars to steal their inheritance." EDIT: Honestly, what is so 'weird' about sarging or trying to pick up women in general? It would be weirder if you were alone and didn't talk to anyone.
/r/seduction19/06/14 08:38 PM
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Own up and joke it off so you can casually dismiss it OR Tell your friends to fuck off. Go be awesome somewhere else.
/r/seduction19/06/14 08:22 PM
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I started keeping track of my approaches is today which I think will help. I think just writing it down and reflecting about it will help you a lot.
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:32 AM
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You may not be interested in the f-close and that's fine but if you did it her before you can always do it again.
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:25 AM
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I hate the "I think you're cute and I had to talk to you" line. I'm sure it's been used on millions of girls since SimplePickup started. It's also not a great way to make a first impression because some girls will think you're shallow and you'll only want to fuck them. Exactly. If you are a guy talking to a girl off a random approach. She knows you think she's cute. I'm all for displaying true intentions but you can do that after the introduction.
/r/seduction15/06/14 02:18 PM
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After approaching, do you run any routines or do you just let the conversation naturally evolve?
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:53 AM
3

It sounds like the group you went with was just there to check out girls and get laid but had no clue how to do that. Find some people who actively go to clubs and dance. I'm not a 'club person' so I have the same problem with motivation. Clubs are a strange environment compared to bars and everyday life. Music is deafening, the place is dark, and carrying on a conversation is almost impossible but women are drawn to these places.
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:02 AM
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Awesome job, bro. It takes a lot of ballsack just to put yourself out there and ask someone out. How long did the date last? I'm a firm believer that 'instant dates' shouldn't be as long as you are describing. You might be oblivious to her negative signs. I usually am too. Women are subtle and most guys just don't pick up on hints. That's not the way we are made. Again, awesome job. You got to do something fun and the next time you approach a girl you will be more confident.
/r/seduction14/06/14 11:55 PM
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You are dead on and I had this frame of mind for a long time but it's destructive and negative thinking. Once you get past caring whether people think you are creepy, you will naturally come off as "not creepy" anyways. And, even if you do, who cares?
/r/seduction13/06/14 07:11 PM
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