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| 39 | How do I get over my fear of being "settled for"? | SEEKING ADVICE | nojaemit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:06 AM |
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| 47 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultVictims were aged 7 to 70. I'm speechless. That's so fucking vile. Only goes to show that women can never be too young, too old, too ugly, too modest for rapists not to rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 12 | Why is the bar so low for men in the states?Totally agree! I think most asian women have plenty of experience with being objectified for their race and we are not dumb, we can usually tell if someone has an asian fetish. And yeah those dudes are gross. I have dated white guys in the past (who didn't fetishize me) and so many white women were so quick to imply that he HAD to be fetishizing me because why else would a man pick an asian woman over a white one? It was insulting to the both of us and now I'm a bit sensitive when people judge A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:00 PM |
| 18 | It’s not worth it in the long runI think that as feminists we should encourage young girls to get a good education and work hard so they can get the good jobs that are currently taken by mostly men and become financially independent. With online sex work it's only the top few people who become rich, then there is a small minority who can make a living off of it but the majority will never be able to pay rent. We have seen screenshots of asshole men who try to blackmail women with the porn and nudes that can be found of them onl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 10:30 AM |
| 3 | How do I get over my fear of being "settled for"?Wow thanks everyone for the amazing and kind advice! <3 it really means a lot. I will think about everything you guys said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020How would you feel if your partner was against you getting plastic surgery? He tells me he will ultimately respect my decision but that he is against it and that I should rethink it in his opinion. I will admit that I probably have some kind of BDD and am extremely insecure about my appearance and every detail although people generally perceive me as pretty attractive. Idk some part of me is actually happy that he thinks I'm pretty enough the way I am but another is frustrated because he is not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:16 PM |
| 35 | It's odd that abuse kinks are always called "play" like choking becomes breath play. It infantalizes the torture and makes it sound innocent and fun. It's disgusting and makes me incredibly uncomfortable.Choking is so dangerous and people act like it's this fun sexy harmless thing. I'm not gonna risk my health for someone's gross abusive fetish. Nobody should | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 09:21 AM |
| 25 | Reasons why I am done with dating appsI met my current HV boyfriend on a dating app but it was sheer luck since every single other guy I interacted with on the app was as LV as it gets. I so 100% agree with the point of being just another picture in a catalogue. OLD gives even the lowest value man the impression that there are countless attractive single women out there. Unless the guy is ridiculously attractive they see it as a numbers game and will try to match/contact as many women as possible just so they can increase their chan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 12:46 PM |
| 134 | Why do people judge based on just clothingThis is such a toxic mindset. I feel bad just admitting this but when I was younger and really insecure I used to think those kinda thoughts a lot about other women. I was projecting my own insecurities on them - if I saw women with less conventionally attractive bodies in revealing clothing I thought "Ha, if I had your body I would never wear that" because I wasn't allowing myself to wear what I wanted since I thought my body wasn't "good" enough for those clothes. FUCK THAT. It's possible to u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 76 | I’m tired of this narrative that women live life on “easy mode.” Imagine being so narrow-minded that you think that women getting free drinks and movies means the patriarchy no longer existsScholarships? What is a "free" job? Y'all paying to get employed? Every show is made for us? Last time I checked TV is grossly oversexualized and filmed through the male gaze. Also so sick of the "every woman gets free stuff" rhetoric. Me and my friends are all attractive women and men only ever buy you drinks if they think they might have a chance to get in your pants. Maybe if you are a goddess you get showered with gifts but if you are average guys will straight up ignore you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 10:18 AM |
| 22 | some men need to learn thisYeah all the ugly guys always went for the prettiest girl as well. All the girls liked the pretty girls more. It's lonely being an ugly girl tbh. But the couple of friends I had back then were real friends and I'm thankful for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 09:35 AM |
| 821 | some men need to learn thisBeing a former ugly duckling, I'm so wary of men now. I wish I didn't have to live with the mental problems that being an ugly girl caused me but at least I have learned to be very cautious. I have always been outgoing and social and friendly to everyone. Not a single guy cared for my personality. They would flock around my pretty friends and scoff and roll their eyes every time I wanted to take part in the conversation. Like my presence was bothering them. Now that I'm somewhat pretty they floc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 06:34 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020How does he treat you? Does he act according to what he says he believes? I agree that it sounds a bit much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:04 PM |
| 32 | Why SHOULDN’T we kink shame? When did we all decide people’s sexual preferences were separate from their actual values?Right? Why do people think that just because something happens during sex, it cannot be criticized at all? Sex doesn't happen in a vacuum! Take the sex away and you have men verbally abusing, hitting, choking women. But because it makes their dick happy that's suddenly okay? If anything that makes it WORSE in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 10:53 AM |
| 113 | Leonardo DiCaprio is creepy tbh.Also, all attractive middle-aged men were already hot when they were young. Those losers are not even attractive in their 20s/30s and they will not magically become hot just because they get old lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:38 PM |
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