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I think the men who do not stand a chance no matter what they do are closer to the 1% buuuut at the same time, a majority of "unfuckable right now but can get good results with improvement" is either too lazy to make an effort or the effort they have to make is too much for them to feel enough motivation. I mean, if you go to the gym, become a millionaire through your unique talents that revolutionize the world in some way, and also develop huge charisma, you have to be veeeeery ugly to not get …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 03:06 AM
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What if the real problem is the whole playing hard to get instead of practicing regular communication skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:34 PM
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I have an issue regarding this and It is that there are relatevely few women who make me horny enough to chase. I envy men who get horny at almost everything with a skirt. My only options are self improvement to improve my chances with the few women I want to chase, chasing women I am not that interested just for practice and socializing to interact with women more passively. Of course the pandemic isnt helping my plans so I am just focusing on my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 06:12 PM
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Well there are other reasons and I did mention that social pressures are only ONE of the reasons but my point is that attractive women CAN have the luxury of being selective and still have a high N count, they rarely do that but they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 06:20 PM
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I know that I am not talking about what they usually do but what they CAN do. An average girl can have a high number but not be selective at the same time. a very hot girl CAN have a high number and be selective at the same time. One important reason why they don't do that is because of social pressures, but on the rare occasion that an attractive woman decides not to give a fuck about those pressures and assuming she is interested in exploring she certainly will use the power her attractiveness…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 03:57 PM
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I think the mistake is to only take into account n-count as the only criteria, context is needed. There are many factors: For example, if you have two people with similar sociosexual orientation but one is more attractive than the other, the more attractive one is likely to have a bigger n-count. Is the person selective? If the person is attractive enough, they can have a relatively high n-count while being relatively selective. For example, I have an attractive female friend that had near 10 se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 01:24 PM
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Well, I am a short dude so online dating is not very viable. So, with offline dating mostly dead due to covid I am not likely to get any pre-vaccine. The timing was awful btw, I was feeling very social at the beginning of the year before covid arrived to my country
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 06:30 PM
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Yes, and the experiences has been great. My closest friends are 2 men and 2 women. My best friend is a woman, her boyfriend would be my second closest friend(I hope they dont break up, that would suck in ways) "Has this friendship benefited you in a way that same sex friendship haven't?" Yes, it has to describe but opposite sex friendships have a different flavor to them and allow a me to explore a different side of me. Although I think most of the uniuqe benefits come from her personality rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 04:40 PM
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Well, the answers on this thread points toward the contrary. But is understand able if it isnt of your preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 04:28 PM
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What I would like is for people to be clear and sincero about what they want. That would make things easier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 01:30 PM
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Maybe the type of women who participate in polyamory are more likely to break other social convensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 03:47 PM
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I think the reason is that women have easire time finding interested men. Men have a harder time ripping the benefits of polyamory, so the woman gets new mates faster
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 03:26 PM
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Different people need different things. I think some me would do better on a polyamorous or polifidelity relationship rather than a monogamous relationship, but other men do pretty well in a monogamy. Now, if there is something we all universally need is honesty and clear relationship rules and respect for those rules. Add to that healthy communication and we have the whole recipe for happy relstionships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:44 PM
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The thing is that you have to consider that the whole redpill blue pill applied to dating thing was invented by redpillers and as result blue pill tends to be sort of the absence of redpill. Redpill is an ideology, Blue pill isnt so much and so people joining the Blue pill su reddit are mainly people that disagree with some off the redpill concepts and sometimes is not that they disagree with a lot of rp ideas but rather they disagree with the general tone and trend. Personally I don't consider …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:40 PM
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Well, considering how the population is pretty high right now, it will take a while before we are in urgent need of growing the population. Maybe by then we will have advanced enough that we have robots and Machines doing enough work that they produce enough economic surplus to fund childcare(paying couplesnfor having kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:40 PM
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Depends on the woman. Show your emotions naturally, any woman who consider it a deal breaker is not worth it. Note: one thing is being emotional and Another being too emotional. Be emotional but be mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:04 PM
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Given how a psychopath brain works, you wont find a shy psychopath or an Insecure psychopath. They don't have their emotions going crazy sabotaging them. Narcissist need for attention forces them to learn how to manipulate early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 12:57 PM
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Warm approaching is the way to go if you are average or below average. Even if it doesn't work or it takes time to work, it will be less of a grind since you will be enjoying your time while building a social circle. Now, if you see a random woman you dont know in a safe setting and you find her attractive, and she is for example wearing a tshirt of your favourite band or there is any situation that could help you cold approach her then cold approach her. You dont have anything to lose and is lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:36 AM
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I think I used the wrong term. I meant more the youtubers and bloggees that specialize in dating that have a youtube channel, a blog about dating or a podcasts. I dont have access to dating coaches where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:30 PM
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I don´t know, I have seen many non-rich and non-attractive musicians doing pretty well with women. I don´t think passion in itself is enough, not all passions are valued the same, but at least some passions have a tendency to give the man significantadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:24 PM
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Yeah, I am a short guy and every dating coach recommend short guys focus on offline dating rather than online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:21 PM
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As a 5 foot 0 Latino that gives me a bit of hope for the future. Although I personally avoid online since online people tend to care more about looks than offline. Or at least offline you have a chance to show your personality which is not that viable online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:18 PM
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Yes, I think a cheater can reforma, I might even date someone who cheated in the past. But if a person cheats on me I will breakup because otherwise I would be rewarding bad behaviour. For your sake and even the cheater sake you should breakuo with a person who cheats you. Maybe a breakup is the wakeup call that person needs to reform, and if not... Well... Good riddance anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:10 PM
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Well, then technically they are just not explaining themselves correctly. I dont complain about pussy being hard, I complain about the pussy I want being hard. Now, the root of the problem I think is not doing something about it. I dont know if I will succeed but might as well be proactive about getting what I want. Either that or focus on something else. The three options for us picky guys are 1. Being proactive about getting what we want. 2. Focusing on some other area of interest 3. Attemptin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:58 PM
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Well, in my case I dont want to have kids and I dont care about society expectations pushing me to get a wife soon, so that influence my interedt in sleeping around before getting in a relationship. The other thing is that I am kind of picky but I am more picky regarding relationships than casual sex, in fact I am so picky that I dont think I am likely to get into a relationship if my pickyness stays as it is so my plan is to have casual sex with very attractive women until I stop caring about l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:47 PM
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Meh, if I want sex for the sake of sex I would get a prostitute. Yes, I am more picky that I "should" but having sex for the sake of it never interested me. Quantity is overrated, it increase risk of stds, drama and is energy and time that would be better spent on self-improvement. Now, wether lowering standard or not might be worth it if you have the kind of sex drive that demandas sex not matter what or with whom, then yes, lowering your standard might be worth it, but if not then it isnt wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:31 PM
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Yeah, I am counting on that. That is the silver lining.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 10:01 PM
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Well, lack of sexual activity can be a source of stress and unhappiness. Not caring about sex anymore if you are having a hard time getting it might improve that person quality of life. It would free those people in time and energy so they can instead focus on stuff they are good at. This would be especially helpful for those who suffer from conditions that make them excel at some stuff but make socializing harder. As a person who is 29 years old and hasn´t gotten any, I have a lot of experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:24 PM
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That is understandable, but that doesn´t mean they were not having sex before, many of those late parents have sex with condoms and other contraceptives. Others were doing other kinds of sexual activities that do not lead to pregnancy. Maybe I should change "sex" for "having sexual activity" Also, I used the age 30 as a placeholder number that came to my mind. The optimal number might be later. Something like 40 because many men are latebloomers. So I might fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:10 PM
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Huh? Are people who are unable to get sex before 30 prone to being the most mature and best able to care for and raise children?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:04 PM
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In most cases no, but there are some who do look a lot older. This become even more likely at 16 and 17. Not saying that justifies lowering age of con sent, we should not, but it is normal to feel attraction toward some 15 to 17 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 05:34 PM
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Many of our issues come from how we as a society change faster than biology and so many aspects of biology are kind of outdated. I would update our biology so that instead of caring so much about stuff that was important back in the stone ages we would be more attracted to stuff that helps us survive in our current environment. I would also make it so that we lose interest in sex and become asexual if we are still haven´t had enough sexual activity after 35/40 (what constitutes enough sexual act…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 05:29 PM
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Gee, I see some toxic people in the comments. It seems like some people took your examples too personally and decided to tear them down and fling poop at the OP. Not to mention those who go into a "we have it worse" competition But yes, I have though about this before. It is bizarre to think how a man will never understand how it is to have the period, and woman cannot understand how it is to get an erection not matter how much a man tries to describe it. We wont understand how it is to live und…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:34 PM
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In a way I might not have used the best analogy. It works better if we change lions with domestic cats. The cats are not going to eat the goat and neither are female friends going to pray on you (unless you have poor judgment when choosing friends) . They might not give you sex but they might help you in other ways, make other kind of sacrifices for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:59 AM
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The problem I see is that you are failing to see a fundamental difference between you and others. You are a hervibore and have no issues eating grass, even bad grass is ok. But to a lion that grass is disgusting. If you judge the lion from your personal experience you might conclude that the lion is stupid for not eating grass and instead chasing hard to catch pray. But if for one second you understood the lion perspective you would get that grass tastes awful to them and they cannot do anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 10:18 PM
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Well you might be kind of alone in this. Is not a big deal to you but genitals sharing is a big deal for most people. I would not even have pitty sex with a woman I find un attractive even though my sex life is not going well. That is not selfishness is just how most people are programmed, having sex with people you dont want to just feel umcomfortable to the core. In the case of women there is even a biological mechanism in play. The part that directos sexual attraction doesnt know that condoms…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 08:21 PM
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caring about someone is not enough to give sex to that person. Would you fuck a gay friend if that person isn't getting any? Not having sex with someone doesn't mean you don't care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:34 PM
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It depends on the average height of your región as well as expectations. But I feel some people overestimate their disadvantage. I am 5'0" and while my sex life sucks being shy and awkward and anxious havent helped me a lot, neither did being interrupted by a pandemic. With some effort my situation have gotten better yet I see guys at 5'6" and even 5'8" complaining, yeah you will have to make a bigger effort than the average man but you are surrendering too easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 03:45 PM
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I have very healthy non-sexual interactions with women. I truly love women outside of the sexual aspect. On the other hand I lack sexual interaction. That part sucks as much as the other part is great. While I dont entirely like my general situation I dont want the contrary case either. Healthy non sexual interactions and healthy sexual interactions are like carbs and proteína; you need both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 03:26 PM
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Not to mention that a guy can be horny and still keep it on his pants. I have a few attractive female friends, and if they are single but not interested I respecto that, if they are not single I respect that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 02:35 PM
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No. It would offer some advantages to me because from what I see gay men are more likely to date short men( I am 5'0"), also I would not have to take the lead always( I hate that as a straight man I have to always take the lead and be the active one), but I would have to de al with disceiminarion and a relatevely small dating pool because many gay men are in the closet and because gay people are a minority. So no... Also, is not like I can decide to change my orientation. Orientation is not a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 02:30 PM
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