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How about stop worrying about being masculine vs feminine and instead start worrying about being cringe vs based
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:10 AM
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There are polls and actual research on this subject and they always conclude that anti-immigration is the #1 motivator with gender war stuff only being a marginal motivator: "Indeed, the far-right figureheads in the Netherlands, Germany, Italy and Austria aren’t exactly spring chickens, yet they too appeal to youth voters with a similar formula of anti-EU, anti-immigrant and anti-elite doomerism which paints the leaders of their country as being corrupt and detached." https://www.politico.eu/art…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:51 PM
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The right shift is not about gender war stuff, it's about immigration and economic shakeup, same reasons right wing parties gained power all over Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:14 PM
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See, 'white people are wonderful' is actually justified because white people make more money, do less crime and score higher on intelligence tests!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:43 AM
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Who is Emmanuel Macron
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:41 AM
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They get propped up by female only scholarship and mentorship and networking programs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:12 AM
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Maybe you should read the book then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:25 PM
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Because you need to prod women into getting educaiton and jobs by offering them scholarships, special mentoring programs, networking paid for by the government etc. Boys and men will do all that without getting a paycheck by the government as evidenced by the existance of fraternities and similiar organizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:16 PM
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"I live in a third world country therefore I know what everyone in all third world coutnries thinks all the time" okay, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:15 PM
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"He was from a working class neighborhood that leaned poor." So working class but not craftsmen? "Are you classist? " No but it sounds like you are given you seem to think poor working class men are losers. "The trends show males are having less and less friends and IRL community compared to females." Same goes for females and women report equal feelings of loneliness despite having bigger friend groups, so whats ur point. Btw just because theres a trend now doesn't mean that's how males general…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:54 PM
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A tiresome and cliched respones and somebody wrote an entire book to disprove it: https://www.amazon.com/Seeking-Western-Men-Email-Order-Globalization/dp/150363373X
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:42 PM
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"The typical guy in his neighborhood wasn’t a craftsman nor organizer." Your grandpa lived in a neighbourhood full of unemployed people? "You should see how they rebel against fraternities or team sports of even marching band!" so they aren't the typical guy. "Girls and women seem to be more collectivist by nature and don’t need to be mentored into linking up" The sheer of amount of scholarships and mentoring programs thrown towards women to get them to participate in higher education says other…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:41 PM
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The centuries old male organizations like the Freemasons and other male fraternities say otherwise, its just that feminists shit their pants and throw a hissy fit at their existance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:33 PM
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It's not popular culture, it's just a few weirdos who hate their own mothers for being 'pick mes'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:18 PM
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It's funny because the feminist literature on the subject finds that the women dating these men are actively seeking them, are happy with them, and are not seeking to exploit them. Even fighting against the notion that these women are poor exploited and uneducated. There's a huge market of highly educated women in countries like China or Russia seeking to date western men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:09 PM
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A generation raised by single moms turned out to be losers, what a shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:51 AM
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Pig Woman Experiment says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:04 PM
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This is just Idiocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:37 PM
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I'm not attracted to men so I'd just be a lesbian and probably be one of those tomboyish sporty ones
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:47 PM
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Consider this: humans aren't peacocks, they are overgrown monkeys with car keys, and we have evolved culture and consciousness and shit like that so there's a bit more to our mating process than just flaunting our feathers. Also rape and devouring your own children is common in nature so maybe not the best to look to it for inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:02 PM
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A mans sperm created you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:59 PM
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I find it easier to get sex and romance than to get friendship. Most friendships are shallow and easily go nowhere, at least in a relationship people keep coming back for sex and companionship and actually wanna make plans together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:15 PM
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Before feminism schizophrenia was called 'dementia praecox'. The earliest researchers to describe schizophrenia were some German guys in the 19th and early 20th century and they did it pretty independently from feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:59 PM
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It's over
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:35 AM
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Be funny and be good at sex, there you go
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:38 PM
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"I'm uncomfortable" Okay? See a therapist I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:13 PM
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Well pack it up boys. OP has dated all the men and found no suitable fathers. Civilization is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:17 PM
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I think traditional gender norms are just a prescription for a healthy life. If you are a man, and you are not masculine, your life will be exponentially harder. In my personal experience nobody wants a feminine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:28 AM
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> Using Reddit benefits them. But using Reddit supports a power structure (male CEO) that harms them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:24 PM
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But they continue to spend time and effort on things like Reddit which drives profit towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:19 PM
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So you are telling me these women are simply too lazy to do a 10 second google search and figure out that the CEO of Reddit is a man..? > It’s a no-effort approach. If 'no-effort' is the point these people sure do talk about men all the time still
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:18 PM
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Does dating men make men the center of your life? Because that's what these people are argueing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:15 PM
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"Well damn better take away my CPA" You say the average height is 178 cm? That's nonsense, I'm 185!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:01 PM
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> LOL. Good one. Proof? Just talk to the average woman. Math and programming are pretty low on their lists of interests. I mean right above you is a presumably female poster saying that women in tech are actually trans women and getting a tech degree means you're terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:57 PM
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Because men are more likely to be entrepreneurs and be into tech... it's not rocket science. Men get told to git gut in life or fuck off, that's why they make the effort to get rich and succesful. Btw, you don't need to be a CEO or even have a tech degree to make a website. > There is a reason why every lesbian subreddit forbids talk against trans women Uh... what... > Tech degree = terminally online. Terminally online + male often results in Trans Woman. Are you trying to tell me that all the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:56 PM
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There's already multiple women defending this in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:42 PM
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>Because men have this fun habit of taking over trades/career paths, and then viciously attacking women who want to enter those fields. Tech is one of them. Ah yes, and now no women who know tech or could learn tech exist. Women are incapable of figuring out how to make a website or how to make a Mastodon instance because men are hogging all the computers. The thousands of women graduating with CS degrees every year? All men in disguise. >Tech actually started out as a female-run field, but in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:41 PM
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By that logic, the women who say they've sworn off dating with men (4B etc) are centering their lives around men by specifically avoiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:36 PM
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I think these men are quite pleased that women continue to funnel money into their pockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:34 PM
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For some school is a horrible experience that comes with plenty of bullying and humiliations, the forced public schooling is how they become withdrawn and asocial in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:01 AM
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These man have a cuckolding obsession and this is just a way for them to covertly talk about their fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:34 PM
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Hey, I'm glad that stuff works for you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:29 PM
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It has worked for me. You never sperged out with someone else about some book that you read? You never sent a song that you recorded to someone? Because in my experience that absolutely does work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:20 PM
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Yes, if they are overweight to begin with... like I said. "of course that's only the physical part that helps open the door, but if one's personality and all is dull than the door never stays open" That's right. And this is where many struggle even after doing the old 'hit the gym'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:11 PM
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That link doesn't work. So that confirms it doesn't work for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:57 PM
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Then you're not the one who needs that advice don't ya? "Again, I am not sure why you are acting like fitness doesn’t boost confidence?" Because it doesn't for many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:45 PM
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Then you could easily achieve a confidence boost by choosing to do something that's useful and interesting to others. I'm not saying that achieving a basic level of fitness is useless, but personally it hasn't done as much for me as reading, learning an instrument, learning another language, you know, things that actually make you interesting to other people and give conversational fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:42 PM
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Never understood how going to the gym is supposed to give one confidence, unless they had an insanely abnormal body to begin with. Nobody in the real world cares how much weight one can push around, besides a few gay men with a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:24 PM
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CJ Walker and Annie Turnbo started their own companies and became millionaires while being black women born in the the mid 19th century, it was also not uncommon for women to just get a job and remain unmarried, even living together with other women as lesbians was okay and just called a 'dutch marriage'. Most women were simply okay with patriarchy and still are as evidenced by their preference for benevolent sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:16 AM
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This dude is really making the general public participate in his cuck fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:51 AM
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None of my partners have ever nagged me about cleanliness. But I've read a lot of stories on Reddit about women who are dating men that don't even wash their ass. Why do they not just date a man that isn't a slob?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:34 PM
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Can't imagine a bigger loser than someone who bases his idea of what 'cool' is around what other people think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:30 AM
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"I had boys lie about having sex with me in like middle school before I'd ever even held hands with someone romantically, did I screech and cry over it? Nope" You should have. That is not okay, criminal even
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:35 AM
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These people seem to think swipe apps are all you can do on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:20 PM
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See, another way the internet has improved dating: it makes men eliminate themselves from the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:17 PM
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And thanks to the internet it's easier than ever to actually score with pretty girls and get your dick wet > But the internet has ruined us for chasing in our league. Again, skill issue on your part, you could re-train your brain to be attracted to people in your league but you have no need or want to. Like I said, plenty of mid people are still fine dating each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:16 PM
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> i sure as hell don't remember hearing anything about that in the early 2000s Bowling Alone came out in 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:58 PM
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Cool, but I am talking about people who are interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:44 PM
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Anti social shut ins can vibe pretty well with other anti social shutins. I am speaking from experience here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:36 PM
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Imagine some 19th century dude going "I will NEVER be Franz Liszt! It's over!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:35 PM
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Dunno, seems to work pretty well for plenty of guys considering many couples meet online nowadays. > Yeah sure a introvert sitting at home now has a comfortable way to enter the dating-world. And previously he had pretty much none. That sounds like an improvement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:25 PM
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"Yet your neckbeard friends, in their own group, in their own element - still failed to pull. " Some of them did. I was just saying that to illustrate that the competition isn't as brutal as you might imagine. " In your post you said you can be w.e. conventionally unattractive" I said 'if youre a nerdy, feminine, or otherwise slightly unconventional guy.' Basic standards, like shaving your pube-neckbeard should still apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:24 PM
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You mean the 80% who are currently dating or fucking someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:19 PM
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You are saying that women can meet men online but somehow men are not benefiting from this. Who are these women picking, if not men? Aliens?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:17 PM
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> . If you were already unsuccessful with women, having more access to women doesn’t change anything There are plenty of examples of people who were unsuccesful IRL but found a match online > And while we have more access to more people, culturally we’re a lot more isolated now. More to do with socioeconomic factors than anything else tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:15 PM
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> now ladies are being flown out for weekends and then discarded This doesn't really happen for the average woman lmao. > Men have become simps to OF models or sugar babies. So the internet has eliminated a big chunk of the competition, sounds pretty good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:13 PM
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> The overweight middle aged dude I ride the elevator has a lot in common with me, but neither of us finds the other attractive so we just remain polite to each other and stay single That sounds like a personal skill issue to me and not an issue with dating in general. Source: there's plenty mid people still getting into relationships just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:12 PM
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I don't think the competition online is as fierce as people say it is. Like, I joined a Discord server one time. Most of the men in it were really immature and/or neckbeards. I just posted a couple selfies, some videos of me playing guitar, and just vibed in the general chat. Had women DMing me in no time. It's kinda ridiculous how easy it is when you bring even a little bit to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:10 PM
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I'm not seeing people should sign on to an MMORPG to meet a wife. However, just the fact that happened (and happens quite a bit) proofs that the internet has opened avenues that weren't previously there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:07 PM
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But you got dates, you don't get those by approaching in a bar right? " too bad that makes 99% of woman not worth by time by itself." And thanks to the internet you have a much better chance of finding that 1% because of your much larger dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:06 PM
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> the only strategies you can apply are messaging random women and messaging women after you participated in a post or discussion Or you can just vibe with them and see if there's chemistry > This is the same as using a dating app. I think it's pretty different actually since ads don't require you to flash your face card upfront an you are likely to find people with an interest in your personality foremost
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:04 PM
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So the internet has enabled people now to find a partner that they are actually attracted to instead of settling for whoever they could get? That sounds like it has made dating better to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:53 PM
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You got dates, so you got further than you would have without the internet, proving my point. Besides, if you are smart enough to get dates then you should also be smart enough to know that a woman who can't see past your height isn't worth your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:49 PM
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Even if they are male dominated, they are still an option where there previously was none. See: the case of the guy who meets his wife playing an MMORPG.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:46 PM
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https://www.cosmo.ph/relationships/your-parents-probably-had-more-sex-than-you-did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:45 PM
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I'm not talking purely about dating apps. There are other was to socialize online that will inevitably yield social contacts and female interest if you know what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:43 PM
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I'm not talking about dating apps, although some of the more niche dating apps DO work if you are willing to wade through some garbage. I'm talking about using the internet as a tool in general. Like, there are apps for local activities that you can use to meet women. You can socialize online through social media, discord etc. Reddit has a bunch of dating subreddits that will almost always yield some female interests if you can write an ad that doesn't sound like it was written by a drooling goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:42 PM
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Women a 100 years ago slept around more than the women now, I'm afraid your paranoia would've still existed then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:37 PM
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"Ouch that's not true. Online dating isn't adapted to how women fall in love." And yet people fall in love with people they met online all the time... "standards skyrocketed because internet make visible IG model" If you want the IG model, then sure you gotta be the IG model. If you're the homely type you can also find the homely type online, they use the internet too. "So the most attractive person in your school/workplace is average for most." I'm sure proximity bias will save the Mr. Handsome…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:36 PM
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'the demand of general guys is as at an all time low' bro most straight women are still dating or looking to date. And you can find them pretty easily on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:33 PM
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No ragebait this is just the cold hard truth. I call it the e-pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:32 PM
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> Do you think I’m sticking out to these women with zero effort? It’s not possible. I dunno I find it pretty easy. It's a matter of verbal intelligence. A well written profile or ad always sticks out head and shoulders above others because so many dudes put in negative effort into their writing. > When I am talking to a woman in real life, I am at max one of 5 men she has talked to that day. I am also a real entity, will be less of a dangerous option because anonymous men are psychopaths, no cam…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:32 PM
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> I'm sure those guys are just flooded with matches daily.. I can tell you from experience, it's definitely a hell of a lot easier to get female attention online than from normie beckies and stacies irl. > Don't know how you reached the conclusion of 'online dating profile' = 'less shallow' Less shallow as in how many people you could potentially get into contact with. But, you can avoid having a shallow dating profile by not making a shallow dating profile. > Which meant guys only had to comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:30 PM
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The internet is pretty democratic. No physical strength required or anything, what you do on it is purely a matter of intelligence. In case of dating that is very much a matter of empathy, verbal intelligence and so on. So if you fail at dating on the internet there's not much you can blame except your intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:17 PM
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Is this the reason for all the guys going 'the juice isn't worth the squeeze' and checking out of dating when seeing all these beautiful women online?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:16 PM
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Uhm they are always conducting field studies on boomer couples they see at Walmart though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:37 AM
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Same reason French and Jewish women kept sleeping with Nazis, oppressors are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:39 PM
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Why do the women on this sub have such an obsession with being cucked by younger, skinnier women and porn actresses
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:59 AM
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Both are true IMO, a lot of men really have nothing to offer except money and a lot of women really have nothing to offer except sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:56 PM
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I hate everyone equally, don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:23 PM
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Growing up, my older brother was a gigachad and a serial cheater. He'd have a new girlfriend every other week and he cheated on all of them and played with their feelings. He was completely indifferent to womens feelings but women didn't seem to care. My stepfather was also a horrible man. Yet he was married before, and he had no problem dating my mom even though he was an abusive asshat and nobody respected him. Growing up around horrible men who had no problem getting women really does a numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:56 PM
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I mean, true? Thanks to the internet you get to meet hotter and more interesting women than ever before. Way better than beig stuck with your small town dating pool. The people who complain about dating now wouldn't have made it in the past either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:11 AM
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Do you really need a woman to explain to you how to enjoy life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:50 PM
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Some of these posts are really fascinating because this is how I imagine aliens trying to pass as humans would talk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:08 PM
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Some of these dudes have never felt the feral attraction of a woman and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:03 AM
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Escorts don't really provide crazy caveman sex from what I heard, for the sake of their safety they are pretty strict and the sex is usually boring and mechanical. If you want crazy caveman sex get a girlfriend with BPD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:03 PM
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Just join a BJJ class
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:01 PM
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'an app that focuses on womens safety' the app owner claimed the verification pictures would be deleted but instead they kept them and uploaded them to a public cloud where they could be found by anyone, and in the process all the app users pictures were leaked including their drivers licenses so they all got doxxed. That app had anything except peoples safety in mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:33 PM
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"Women are not a monolith" "Women would never find a bearded Michael Cera attractive!" lol. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:30 PM
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Now its been around since like 2023 it only mysteriously rose to popularity the last couple days before it got hacked and all the users were leaked and doxxed. Probably a honey pot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:29 PM
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It got hacked the other day with all the user data leaked, I'd be amazed if anyone would still sign up for it but then human stupidity knows no bounds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:28 PM
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The app only allowed female users and you had to verify with an ID and face pic (lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:27 PM
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In this study 48% of those who admitted to having sexually coerced someone were women: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/ Just because you can't imagine it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Here's a quote from a male rape victim: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-018-1232-5 "Once inside [my apartment] she told me that if I didn’t have sex with her then she’d call the police and claim that I was trying to ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:24 PM
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https://www.verywellmind.com/gender-differences-in-suicide-methods-1067508 >Compared to men, women show higher rates of suicidal thinking, non-fatal suicidal behavior, and suicide attempts.2 Suicide statistics reveal that women are roughly three times more likely to attempt suicide,3 > It's important to note that among women, an attempted (but failed) suicide attempt is the most significant risk factor for suicide in the future, and all suicide attempts, whether in men or women, need to be taken…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:30 PM
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You provided no argument, with none of your replies, so I'm just stooping to your level
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:28 PM
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In the US, more men are raped than women: https://www.amren.com/news/2013/10/more-men-are-raped-in-the-us-than-women-figures-on-prison-assaults-reveal/ If you exclude prison rape, the statistic is still about equal, it's just that raping men, especially female-on-male rape is simply not criminalized: https://eu.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2014/09/22/rape-cdc-numbers-misleading-definition-date-forced-sexual-assault-column/16007089/ And women can get away scot free with rape even if the victim is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:22 PM
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Then you don't know much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:15 PM
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They did an appeal to authority so I pointed out why that authority is questionable since they just persecute women less which the data shows
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:14 PM
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So a person can attempt suicide without being actually suicidal? Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:13 PM
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https://www.verywellmind.com/gender-differences-in-suicide-methods-1067508 > Compared to men, women show higher rates of suicidal thinking, non-fatal suicidal behavior, and suicide attempts.2 Suicide statistics reveal that women are roughly three times more likely to attempt suicide,3 > Vijayakumar L. Suicide in women. Indian J Psychiatry. 2015;57(Suppl 2):S233-8. doi:10.4103/0019-5545.161484 They are more suicidal. Either that, or you wanna tell me that the women who have MORE suicidal thoughts…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:26 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide > Suicide attempts are between two and four times more frequent among females.\10])\11])\12])
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:18 PM
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That women are more suicidal than men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:14 PM
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Women are notoriously under the radar to the criminal justice system to the point where adult women won't even go to prison for raping children. This sentencing gap is widely known to researchers who have found that women get 60% shorter sentences for the same crimes. In short, women being violent, criminal etc is simply not seen as bad as when men do the same things, and often, it's not even seen as violent at all, and the same goes for their violent rethoric. Especially spicy when you consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:11 PM
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Do you know what 'attempt' means?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:56 PM
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The attempt suicide like 3 times as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:55 PM
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The page you linked doesn't even work. > Women aren’t making her loneliness and bad feelings other people’s problems via harming others or expressing violent rhetoric the way that men do I see a lot of women encouraging men to commit suicide more, loudly declaring their disdain for struggling men and the 'male loneliness' epidemic, joining gossip apps in mass (even with questionable security) to shit-talk men online... it seems there's many women who still have a lot to work through.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:46 PM
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Noticed that women on Reddit seem to be on average a lot more autistic and trans than the general population
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:33 PM
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So why do women have greater depression and suicide attempt rate than men? Why is the difference in loneliness nearly equal and ~10% at most in studies if women are that much better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:30 PM
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So, women have more depression, almost the same loneliness as men, attempt suicide more often... but they are just so great at making social connections and managing their feelings. Ain't women wonderful?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:29 PM
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Good. Total gooner death
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:09 PM
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Finally someone talks about the real problems
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:51 PM
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It's not misogyny. But it's extremely gay. Which is kind of misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:11 PM
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Yet another problem that doesn't affect EU citizens. Americans, why is your country such a hellhole?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:24 AM
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"the chain of lustful slavery" You make being a man sound way hotter than it is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:23 PM
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Probably in the same way that single men are told to give fat women and single mothers a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:23 PM
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Psssh you're not supposed to use common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:43 PM
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Isn't this just the equivalent of male neckbeards wanting to marry their anime waifu
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:04 PM
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These comments are a shitshow. "Well as long as women don't KILL and RAPE men.." so it's fine to verbally abuse someone as long as you don't rape or kill them? This is textbook the logic of abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:17 AM
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A lot of these guys don't seem to understand how social interactions work at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:21 PM
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Tbh this is just the end result of the "men bad women good propaganda" that is drilled into everyones heads. Reminds me of that video where they tested what would happen if a woman started beating her male partner in public and the bystanders said they didn't interfere to help him because "he must've done something to deserve it". Same with cheating, we always hear "women only cheat because their man is neglecting them in the relationship". To be honest it sounds like if you didn't have a crush …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:18 PM
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When the nazis took disabled people to be murdered that was eugenics. When a hot woman doesn't wanna reproduce with you, that's not eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:19 PM
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"You don't understand the psychological definition of "coping". A cope is a less distressing belief used to avoid a harsh truth." That's not what a cope is. "Coping refers to conscious or unconscious strategies used to reduce and manage unpleasant emotions. Coping strategies can be cognitions or behaviors and can be individual or social. To cope is to deal with struggles and difficulties in life.\1]) It is a way for people to maintain their mental and emotional well-being.\2]) Everybody has ways…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:05 AM
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"They either learned how to deal with it or they didn't. Why is that bad?" Because many struggle on their own and need help to deal with it, duh. Do you also think cancer patients should just heal themselves or die? Because depression is also a pretty big killer to name just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:44 AM
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> Recognizing your situation and deciding to just live with it is the opposite of coping. It IS coping. If you say it's not then you don't really know what coping means. > You're just assuming that struggling men who refuse therapy will turn to vice instead. There's no reason to assume this. I am not assuming everyone who struggles will do that. I was just giving an example story. However, it is quite common for people with unchecked mental health issues to fall into vices like drugs and general…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:25 AM
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The situation for people with mental health problems was pretty bleak throughout human history. Many were just locked away in asylums in horrific conditions. The situation now is a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:21 AM
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Again: How is your doctor supposed to know which medicine to prescribe you if you don't want to talk about your problems? > How running one's mouth about an issue does not magically solve problems? Talking about problems can help you gain insight into why you are having these problems, how to deal with them, how to solve them etc. That's why many people report feeling better after talking and people who have no one to talk to often fall into depression and harmful behaviours. > Do you know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:25 AM
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Oh men do size each other up constantly. Like, could I get my arms around his chest? How kissable are his lips? Does he have thighs that could crush a walnut? Are his eyes beautiful dreamy lakes that I could fall adrift in? What if we both had to wrestle each other? These are the thoughts that occupy men constantly, women just cant understand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:19 AM
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Medication does happen but also therapy. Why do you think talking about your problems and getting advice on how to fix them is psychobabble ju-ju? How is the doctor supposed to know which medicine to prescribe if you don't wanna talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:09 AM
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So, joining the military or a sports club will fix manic depression, schizophrenia, narcisstic personality etc..?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:59 AM
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> there’s some circular logic in there that the men are struggling with dating because of those feelings and the feelings are coming from struggling with dating That's not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:58 AM
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What exactly do you think happens in a psych ward?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:56 AM
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Uhm, it exists, it's a type of rehab for people who struggle to integrate into the job market due to mental health problems. I know it exists because I've been in it. Maybe it's only a thing in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:02 PM
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I agree that improving the economy would help. However, it's not really a gendered issue, everyone would benefit if more jobs paid a wage that can afford a better life. Also, men currently in general don't really face the same kind of discrimination that black men at that time did, so the comparison is nil. If you want a high paying job, you gotta have some skill. Doesn't need to be mathematician-level, even a plumber can make good bank because he's in demand. But the default is still: if you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:49 PM
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But you are coping, in fact pretty much everyone is constantly coping. You telling yourself that therapy will just teach you to cope is your cope for not going to therapy. The guy who gives up and resigns himself to unhealthy copes like video games, drugs, and porn is coping just as much as the guy who goes to therapy to gain a new perspective and not lose energy despite his struggles. The difference is one has developed unhealthy coping methods that will nerf his life in the long run while the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:39 PM
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Which barriers, regulations and red tape?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:32 PM
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A lot of these posters talk about feelings of depression, hopelessness, inadequacy, demotivation etc especially after trying to use dating apps, all things that therapy can help with. While I think that therapists are not dating coaches I believe men who struggle in dating could definitely benefit from some counseling at least to maintain their self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:32 PM
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What exactly is hypergamy here? Do you men we should shame women if they are dating a man who earns 10% more? In what way would this benefit men suffering from anxiety, depression, schizophrenia etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:30 PM
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My mental health would definitely improve if I was made king and received a bunch of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:28 PM
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"Basically, I want even unmotivated, exhausted, depressed people to be able to participate so it’s that low-common-denominator I’m thinking of when I envision my revision." There's something for that - it's called rehab. And it usually involves therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:27 PM
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"and you would never say "Teach customers of grocery stores who got poisoned with mercury-laced cookies to carry and use a heavy metal detector." It's a grocery store. Why is it selling slow-acting poisons that selectively kill men." Bro. A sugary sweet is not a mercury-laced cookie. You can eat sweets once in a while and be fine. It also doesn't 'selectively kill men' wtf, women are just as likely to get problems if they overeat that stuff. I'd be curious to know what your list of banned foods …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:26 PM
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I'm a man and I've never been checked for "do you have a partner" when attending any kind of gathering social or not. Not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:14 PM
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So, take peoples freedom of speech away? I don't think you would like how this will turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:14 PM
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Oh I absolutely think we could make a few systemic changes. I would love to have a general 5 hour work day instead of 8 for example. However, I'm not really any great arguments or suggestions in the top comments. Right now, the top comments (for me) are: - top comment says there is no solution and peoples life just suck. No change is suggested. - 2nd top comment says we need more healthy food, single sex education and that men can't deal with waiting in line or making appointments, which I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:50 PM
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A therapist can give you advice on how to deal with your real, concrete problems. They can also help you dealing with the effects those problems are having on your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:35 PM
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I have bipolar friends and they say therapy helps them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:35 PM
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I don't think I've ever attended a single social gathering where anyone asked or cared if I was partnered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:16 PM
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There's different kinds of therapy. Yes, some of that is "think about something nice" which can actually help some. There's also the kind of therapy where you unlock and resolve really traumatic shit that has nerfed your brain for your entire life and come out a much more chill focussed and less anxious person. Idk there are a few things therapists can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:03 PM
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These things come down to personal responsibility, though. Yes, services like that along with things like Netflix and videogames existing make it enticing to just stay home and never interact with another human. However, doing so is still a personal choice. There's nothing stopping you from knocking on your neighbours door and asking to borrow that pinch of salt. And, I wonder how society could interfer with that. Do we need a mommy state that collectively restricts our screen time, restricts ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:55 AM
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In what way is society not providing community already?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:29 AM
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> There is no solution for severely mentally ill people There are severly mentally ill people who got to therapy and started doing better. That sounds better to me than being left behind to rot. > There is no help for unmotivated people who don’t actually want discipline and structure. Yes, but for those who actually want to get better but find themselves unable to, therapy is still a better option than being left behind to rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:29 AM
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All things that people suffering from depression, anxiety, CPTSD, schizotypal disorder etc find extremely hard to impossble to do. > People fail to take care of their fitness because they lack discipline, not because they’re poor. If only you could get help from some kind of health professional to help get more discipline and structure into your life when you are unable to do it on your own..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:19 AM
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Getting mad over a Gillette ad is not the same thing as having depression or schizophrenia lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:17 AM
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Dealing with negative messaging is not the same as having a mental health condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:41 AM
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Really? Which part of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:40 AM
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It was a somewhat tongue in cheek response due to the simplicity of 'society should create more paths for men to get rich'. Yes, we'd all like to have more opportunities to get rich, but at the end of the day, jobs that need ultra specific, difficult and rare skills (like math) will always pay better than flipping burgers at McDonalds. You could say that well we could improve our economy to the point where everyone is rich somehow but that's not really a gendered issue. Also, just getting rich d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:38 AM
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So what I get from this post is: 1-teach men how to cook and to not eat processed food. Okay. This is not really a gendered issue, I think. Unless you want to ban sugary processed foods entirely or something that stuff is up to personal responsibility. 2-I am pretty sure single sex schools and workplaces still exist. "But there are exceptions where the percent of single-sex schools exceeds 10 percent: Belgium, Chile, Singapore, the United Kingdom, Hong Kong, Israel, New Zealand, Australia, South…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:25 AM
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So, therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:17 AM
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I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:16 AM
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But there's an easy way to avoid being bomarded by negative messaging. Simply cut out the source of the negative messages. You yourself said that you simply consume something that you like instead of things that give you the negative messages. Personally, I don't get any of this negative messaging. I don't have a TV or TikTok. I have an Instagram to promote my business and that's it, no negative messaging from that. I've never seen a second of 'Adolescence' or that Gillette ad. What would you li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:16 AM
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If you live in a country with socialized healthcare you can usually at least get free therapy for 6 months or so. Even in countries without that there are often options. But yes, "it's not affordable" doesn't negate the benefits of going. That's like saying getting any kind of medical help is useless because you can't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:12 AM
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> I personaly fill this niche with manwha. So... you have the type of media that makes you happy? Then what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:17 AM
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> they shold give more job paths that can make you rich Mathematicians make pretty good bank, what's stopping men from just getting a maths degree? > remove porn all together While I agree the porn industry needs to be shut down countries like South Korea where porn is banned entirely don't seem to be doing well. > remove social media and dating apps Uhm... how exactly would this happen? You mean restrict peoples ability to make and download any apps of these kind? What about something like What…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:13 AM
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Therapy is quite literally the thing that society provides to help with mental health. Movies, sports, gym may exist, but improving mental health is not their primary purpose. > I think society can contribute by producing more positive infuencing media. Right now the content about men is chastising: like adolescence or gilette ad. God, the gillette ad was like 10 years ago wasn't it? Also, you are always free to watch the uplifting classics, like Taxi Driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:08 AM
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They could get help from a professional to improve their life and make it less sucky, and deal with the unchangeably sucky parts a little better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:05 AM
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"Individuals consuming high-THC cannabis daily are more prone to schizophrenia and early-onset psychosis, suggesting that there is a dose-response relationship between THC potency and adverse mental health outcomes. Additionally, the CDC notes that cannabis use can increase risks for psychosis or schizophrenia, especially in men and those starting use at an early age. Daily use of high-potency cannabis also contributes to an earlier onset of psychosis in users."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:04 AM
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So what are people with depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, bipolar, personality disorders etc supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:46 AM
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I think you greatly overestimate the mental health benefits of seeing a hooker lol. I live in a country where prostitution is quite normalized yet most men who I've talked to who have been to a brothel or hooker look back at the experience with shame and repulsion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:45 AM
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"I have schizophrenia" = the government drove me to schizophrenia
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:25 PM
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There's no such thing as the female gaze. The 'male gaze' is a concept of film language. It's completely wrapped up in the mechanics of film making and it's not possible for an actual human to exist under male gaze or female gaze outside of film.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:14 PM
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"Good Guys don't exist. Source: My Ex-Boyfriends." I think you should tell this to a mental health professional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:32 PM
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They probably haven't heard the other words. I haven't heard 'Average Frustrated Chump' since 2012 and I think it was only used in pick up forums. 'Incel' is everywhere now especially on Reddit, people accuse each other of being incels all the time so naturally more people identify with the word because they heard it. Alpha has been ridiculed to death so Beta is also out of favor now, besides A/B/O fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:29 PM
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Sorry men this isn't 1950 anymore, it's time for you to give birth to the baby and breastfeed it now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:06 PM
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You literally just took 1 example of bad therapy to discredit the entire concept. "Just do it" is not good advice for someone with ADHD, that therapist just sucks lol and the person is right to switch. What's someone with severe mental health problems like schizophrenia supposed to do, lift weights and touch grass until the head voices go quiet? That's not gonna do it. Yeah therapy is not flawless and it's not a magic solution for everything but to dismiss it entirely is regarded. Many people ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:17 AM
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Monumental trvthnvke
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:08 PM
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In your case, the question should not be by "why do I have to" but rather "why do I want to". I mean you can just choose to be single if you think women don't bring anything to the table. Not that I agree with OP in the sense that you 'have' to do all that. Chubby guys who drink beer and play video games get girlfriends all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:06 PM
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Women care so much less about this shit than you can imagine. It can even draw interest. Also if she says someone is a loser just because he hasn't had a girlfriend then she's a bitch and you can safely discard her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:05 PM
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I dunno I was jobless and I still got laid. It's not that hard. Most women would rather chose a broke guy who's good looking over a rich guy who looks like a bloated corpse like Elon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:56 PM
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"what is the incentive for a woman to stick with a jobless loser at the mercy of the rich versus being a part of the harem of the rich?" The jobless guy might be nicer + most women don't wanna share their man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:51 PM
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Going a little overboard with the cuck fantasies aren't we
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 12:59 PM
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What if the dude in the jumpsuit picking cotton comes home to his working class wive who loves him while the techbro making 300k a year has to engineer an AI girlfriend because he is loved by no one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 12:31 PM
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I like that Michel Foucault was just a literal pedophile sex tourist who voted in a petition to abolish the age of consent that was also signed by people like Simone de Beauvoir, Felix Guattari, Gilles Deleuze, Jaques Derrida etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:57 AM
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> higher abuse rates of elderly and children by women can be explained by access Men don't have children or elderly relatives? > Men commit the majority of violent crime Because it's not seen as violent when women do it. Especially in domestic situations e.g. there have been cases where a man was stabbed by his spouse and ended up arrested. If the man fights back at all even if the woman started it he will be seen as the abuser. Thus women get reported less, arrested less and so on. With guns th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:52 AM
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Women are easy to date. In fact, straight women are the demographic least likely to be single. Pretending that women have such high standards now that they are leaving men in the dust behind to be alone and miserable is a fantasy of both incels and misandrists online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:42 PM
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All my female friends treat me like a king. If you're not befriending women you're missing out IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:21 PM
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What if you just enjoy going down on a hot chick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:15 PM
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> Pretty much all available social science and data confirms women conform more than men in aggregate, and men engage in far higher rates of deviancy than women in aggregate And yet you haven't provided a single source yourself so I guess I can just dismiss everything you say now huh? > Women have every opportunity and ability to buy guns if they wanted to and use them for violence Again you don't understand proximity bias, men are just more likely to have a gun because of cultural norms. Also w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:11 PM
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Nothing to do with effort and everything to do with the fact everyone is now constantly glued to their computer/phone/gaming console etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:07 PM
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"Approximately 60-65% of elder abuse perpetrators in domestic settings are women, compared to 35-40% men. A 2017 study in the Journal of Elder Abuse & Neglect reported women as perpetrators in 62% of cases based on U.S. adult protective services data" "According to 2022 U.S. data from the National Child Abuse and Neglect Data System (NCANDS), women accounted for 213,876 perpetrators of child abuse and neglect, compared to 199,617 men, suggesting a roughly 52:48 female-to-male ratio" If you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:08 AM
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OP mentioned matches, not dates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:16 AM
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> I'd love a source for your thoughts Source: I've talked to women > Guns exist. Proximity bias, women are just less likely to have a gun, same reason men are more likely to shoot themselves when they commit suicide > Women can also be violent with other women as much as men are violent with other men. Explains the high rate of domestic abuse in lesbian relationships > I have never seen this data that women are more likely to abuse the elderly. "Studies, like those from the National Center on El…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:09 AM
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Love when my gf treats me like a princess, I would not settle for less than her. Breaking gender norms has its positive sides too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:04 PM
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I guess this means all those women who complain that they only get ghosters horndogs and low quality chatters are also merely getting what they are worth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:44 PM
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"you're still stuck in the provider role" Seems an awful lot of redpill dudes just wanna be dainty little malewives for a strong provider woman these days huh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:46 AM
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"95% male but no real profile. " I mean you're free to go argue with the experts lol "Women experience the same exact bullying, rejection and neglect but don't resort to this violence." No they don't, that stuff is very much gendered. " the claim that women are just less violent because they are physically weaker is wholly incorrect nonsense" No it's true. You didn't adress the proximity bias or any of the actual points in the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:44 AM
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Proximity bias + gender role differences i.e. girls are just less likely to experience that degree of alienation that would drive a young male to do a school shooting due to the way they are socialized. FYI gun violence and school shootings are both almost non-existant in my country tho there have been a few attacks at schools done by girls even here, like one case where a girl brought a sword to a school to stab her classmates or another where a girl brought a gun and grenades somehow. "We foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:32 AM
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And I don't care? My girlfriend is 27 years old, skinny and way hotter than you I guarantee it LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:24 AM
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And I don't want you either, why do you assume everyone does? That sounds like actual narcissism to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:18 AM
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That's exactly what a 40 year old groomer would say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:15 AM
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Those who did Free love back then were just the equivalent of the kinda people who do polyamory and harems now. It was not something that the average person did at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:51 AM
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Sounds like this post was made by an obese 40 year old woman trying to groom younger men into dating her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:48 AM
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I don't believe women are a hive mind but I think women and men are pretty close in deviancy but women are (largely) just more covert about it. Their lack of physical strength and size also prevents them from acting out on the more violent impulses e.g. it's simply quite hard for an average sized woman to find a man weak enough that she could beat up, or hold down and actually rape. That's why women are more likely to abuse the elderly and children. If women were equal to adult men in size and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:41 AM
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You said they can't consent, implying that they can't fully understand the consequences of their actions. So why should they vote? They don't have fully developed brains after all!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:35 PM
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If 18 year olds can't even consent to sex should 18 year olds even have the right to vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:58 PM
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"but most of us are pretty much boring & don't have really social hobbies, like team sports" Why do you say you're boring like its some unchangeable fact. You can literally just go out and do stuff. Even if it's something that you don't know much about or that you are not interested in at all. "Yeah but it will be awkward..." It always is. That's life kinda. It's cringe and embarassing and a hassle. But the alternative is to just stay in the cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:14 PM
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Since you provided no argument to the opposite I'm guessing you have been succesfully convinced then!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:32 PM
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'Rarely' most people out there are fucking and/or in a relationship at the moment lol. And it only makes sense that it happens through work or school because that's where they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:25 PM
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In my experience wherever a group of men and women spend signifcant time together - work, school, the psych ward - some of them will end up fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:58 PM
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Starting to think I am touching too much grass to partake in these discussions. I've never even played any of these games
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:56 PM
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And most people don't wanna shit where they eat yet coworkers end up fucking all the time, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:54 PM
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Nah getting women is easy. Just make her laugh, compliment something about her that isn't her body, talk to her like you don't wanna fuck her for a change. Then most women go feral. If 'making someone laugh' is too much work for you maybe it's time to do some reflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:33 PM
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You know I didn't suggest only eating fish at a date at all. Now that you suggest it that sounds really interesting to me though > Fishing is also one of those hobbies that often involves long trips away from their wife and kids so he can drink beer all day with dudes in an ice hut or whatever while she stays home alone with the kids. Fun. Skill issue. Any decent father would take the kids along and show them how to gut those fish. I know mine did
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:15 PM
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Clearly leftybros need to reclaim fishing for themselves then because that is unacceptable. "Don't leave anything to the MAGAs, not even the fish"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:13 PM
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Based and fishpilled Edit: this person edited their comment like a coward to make mine look absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:09 PM
2

What? Don't be absurd now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:04 PM
3

The hunting women are clearly looking for a berry picking foraging man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:02 PM
2

Mark 1:17: “Come, follow Me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fishers of men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:00 PM
12

It's over for fishcels
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:57 PM
0

Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:36 PM
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Male-centered? Red pilled? Pick me? Jesse, what the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:22 PM
4

As a bisexual man I wouldn't mind at all. Now where is this supposed version of Hooters for straight women at?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:43 PM
1

Just wait and see, I'm catching up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:39 PM
2

Neither do I.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:52 PM
1

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/cancer/cervical-cancer/whats-hpv-test
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:37 PM
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"Men never change" says woman who made the same post like 500 times on the same forum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:21 PM
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People should just forget The Matrix entirely and watch Dark City instead - by far the better movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:20 PM
1

"Fortunately, tests can detect this virus very early on and prevent most cases of later complications."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:12 PM
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It's mainly a 'men are extremely horny and will message a hundred women thus creating an extreme inbalance in demand and supply' gap, IMO. You can appeal to women all you want you'll mostly be drowned out by all the other men with their low effort attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:45 AM
0

So that's why all these women who claim to like gender-nonconforming men flock here!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:57 AM
30

Vast majority of men now red pilled? Maybe it's time to go touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:56 AM
1

This is why we need to redefine masculinity. Let men be a neurotic, anxious crying mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:50 AM
1

Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:44 AM
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Women already sexualize men - it's just hot men, and not the average bloke.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:39 AM
1

Less than a year together = no relationship experience to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:03 PM
1

I'm fascinated so many are claiming they wouldn't mind a man having a bi phase because in my IRL experience that's a giga-ick to most women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:27 AM
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I'm sorry that happened, that had to really suck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:21 AM
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Because I believe women. Why would they lie? Would you have unprotected sex with a man that you don't trust when he says something? I also have a few safety policies. E.g. no sex with women I dont trust, no drug users etc. Has worked pretty well for me so far since I'm still bug-free
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:06 AM
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Why is this 'low inhibition' to you and why do you think he will stay like that for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:04 AM
1

She can be STD free ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:42 AM
1

You don't believe someone could experiment with kinks and then get past that phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:23 AM
0

You meet your dream guy but he tells you he's never dated for longer than a year, you'd reject him because of that? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:04 AM
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Yeah I do fuck with a condom. But is there something wrong with fucking a woman raw who's had a contraceptive implant? It's pretty fun too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:12 AM
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> how you know for certain a woman is taking them? You can ask them. So far I am STD free so it's worked perfectly fine for me. Do you demand STD tests from everyone you sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:53 AM
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> find discipline in a man extremely attractive, and a lack of sexual discipline is a huge turn-off for me Why is it a lack of discipline when someone has sex once a week? That's pretty normal. Would you think your partner lacks discipline if he wanted to have sex once a week with you? > He has no idea how many partners those women have had You can just ask them lol > which makes him more likely to contract an STD Save sex is a thing. There are literal pornstars who are STD free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:51 AM
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> my opinion about such men will not change > And yes I think the same about women who have different sex partners every week. Ah okay then, that's unusual
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:47 AM
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Uhm because hypersexual in my book = someone who needs to have sex all the time and has literal compulsive thoughts about sex and porn constantly invountarily. Not someone who has consensual sex once a week
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:44 AM
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> Because it means the guy in question has zero control over his own lust He has zero control over his own lust for engaging in consentual safe sex with enthusiastic women who also enjoy sex? > it is also riskful behaviour for the spread of stds and unwanted pregnancies Safe sex isn't hard to do lol > It also shows that such a guy only sees a woman as a fucktoy. Why? Do you also think women who sleep with a different guy every week only see men as a fucktoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:42 AM
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Why is sleeping with a different person once a week hypersexual but sleeping with one person every day is not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:39 AM
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Why is it worse if it's a different partner every week as long as both parties are consenting and safety measures are taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:38 AM
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There is birth control that is pretty much 99% effective, like a contraceptive implant is literally over 99% effective. Do you think only sex in wedlock is ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:37 AM
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Not a gotcha - I am asking because I am that man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:35 AM
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Most people have a sex drive of needing it 2-3 times a week. I've dated women who wanted to have sex twice a day lol. Once a week is mild IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:32 AM
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> The example you gave “banging a different woman every week” isn’t mild at all. I think most people would do more if they could lol > That’s not harmless fun Why not? Nobody got hurt as far as I can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:31 AM
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I'm not asexual so I wouldn't try dating someone who is asexual, but why do you think someone who had sex once a week at peak libido is hypersexual? That seems pretty mild to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:26 AM
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What makes you think a man who has sex once a week cannot control his lust? That seems pretty mild to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:25 AM
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