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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I am so desperate Nah thats just bs.	/r/seduction	26/05/26 10:30 PM
1	Need advice Did you even read what I wrote?	/r/seduction	09/02/26 12:51 PM
1	Need advice Take off the pressure of being a virgin at the end of semester, it is like a label you will carry in your forehead and women do smell that and will be even worse. Focus on being social, learn social skills dude, follow a good youtube channel and start doing your social push ups. Sex and getting laid will come as a consequence but first do the baby steps. You cannot run if you don't even know how to walk. Learn about social dynamics and how to raise your status as a male. Learn how to increase ch…	/r/seduction	09/02/26 09:44 AM
2	Dating advice for submissive guys First dating advice: take dating advice from men who are succesful.	/r/seduction	07/02/26 11:51 PM
1	How many of you have herpes? I used to tell them in advance but now I think it is really not necessary when I wear condom, because it is 100% safe afaik. At least in my case the breakouts happens on the tip of my d*ck, so a condom covers everything. I have been with multiple partners and never spread it to any of them. I did tell my last girlfriend though that I had herpes because I wanted to have safe unprotected blowjobs from her, she accepted to do it when I don't have the breakouts. She never got infected this way. It d…	/r/seduction	07/02/26 11:40 PM
12	Finally approached my gym crush No need to rush for her number because in these kind of setup you get to see the girl regularly. You can build up momentum the next times you see her, but you need to make your interactions longer.	/r/seduction	07/02/26 11:28 PM
1	How many of you have herpes? I have hsv2 down there from unprotected sex, I was young and stupid. I get like 2 breakouts per year, they hurt but it's manageable. I have never spread it to any of my partners, I wear condom btw and they gimme a blow when the virus is remissive cause it is safe.	/r/seduction	07/02/26 03:03 PM
-4	How to respond when someone tells you “You’re way out of my league?” R: I don't think so	/r/seduction	05/02/26 10:25 PM
1	field report: how do you decide between closing now or letting tension build? Do you speak the local language or use english? Btw nice stories. May I ask why your ex and u didnt work out?	/r/seduction	05/02/26 05:21 PM
3	My city is famous for it's hookup culture and I am 24yo virgin You have the mindset that because of your looks you should get sex. That works for women, not for men. Women don't want only a good looking guy, they want a man. Stop whining and read: No more mr. Nice guy.	/r/seduction	04/02/26 08:57 AM
47	I am 24M met 18F online. Should I go for it? (Concerned about age gap) Go meet her on a coffee and check if she is mentally a grown woman or not. If she is, then proceed, if not, then just goodbye.	/r/seduction	03/02/26 03:50 PM
1	I have deep voice (not attractive one. But scary one). One time a girl gasped when she heard my voice. Should've asked her out then. Dude has a terrific weapon and doesn't know how to use it. Your voice is perfect for initiating casual talks in those situations.	/r/seduction	03/02/26 11:51 AM
1	Girls giving me dirty looks at parties, is it my fault? A) Other said already shit test. I agree. I'd like to add: how was your body language at the moment of introductions. Relaxed? Eye contant? Standing tall and shoulders back? Open frame? Low voice tone? Did you feel in a rush?	/r/seduction	30/01/26 11:13 AM
2	Am I in friendzone I've been in similar situation man. I think you still have a chance, probably the last one. The way you described the whole situation gives me the vibes you did good but are being a bit too nice/tender/friendly. Which is good on a right amount. I think what she would like to feel know is how much of leader you can be. How "manly". Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you have to be an asshole now, but do some negging, teasing, pulling away stuff, or show extrem ownership in a specific moment. Do n…	/r/seduction	29/01/26 09:24 PM
1	Have I lost her for good I think that's good enough. Maybe she is just shy, or she has a bf.	/r/seduction	29/01/26 09:16 PM
1	Have I lost her for good Sometimes girls will think about their status and how would they be seen by others if they sit with you, only the 2 of you, on a table. What is your status in the course, are you the loudest? The smartest? The funniest? Edit: typo	/r/seduction	29/01/26 08:59 PM
7	How do I get this guy to want me long term? Do not ever send nudes to someone you want something serious. Nudes are for hookups. They are ok once you are already bf and gf.	/r/seduction	29/01/26 09:16 AM
2	Someone please teach me what true love actually is You are correct. Love I'd say feels quiet, is a bliss and brings peace. Admiration is also very important imo, orherwise it can turn into caregiving, which happened to me. I didnt admire my partner, although we had good intimacy and communication. I think I turned into her caregiver and emotional support instead of being equals, she couldnt provide to me the stability I wanted, which lead to our rupture.	/r/seduction	29/01/26 08:04 AM
1	Is she playing games or just not interested enough? Take it as a lesson learned. There are ways to escalate and make a smooth transition to the kiss, takes practice. Keep on the way.	/r/seduction	28/01/26 08:11 PM
1	Is she playing games or just not interested enough? Should've closed with a kiss the second meeting, if she had rejected you then you would've already known your answer and would be investing time on the next one.	/r/seduction	28/01/26 07:49 PM
6	Date was going very well until I said one sentence You lost your frame dude. When she said "you are not supposed to ask that!" you should've stayed chill because you did nothing wrong. I woukd've asked, "why not" not in a defensive but playful way.	/r/seduction	27/01/26 08:26 PM
6	One piece of advice from a woman I agree with the desperation part, but also some of your recommendations will lead myself into being friendzoned. I think you missed the flirting and teasing.	/r/seduction	27/01/26 09:01 AM
1	How do you keep busy? Go out to social events, meetups, ...	/r/seduction	26/01/26 12:38 PM
2	I am so desperate One girl can get you get her entire circle of friends. You need a circle of friends to get an ongoing flow of meeting new girls that is sustainable.	/r/seduction	25/01/26 05:04 PM
8	You cant survive the modern dating market unless you are good in bed We are animals after all, you just need to accept it.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 02:31 PM
19	"GRA" - the only 3 abilities you (unfortunately) need to get women in 2025 (longer post) Maybe it was an interview without teasing.	/r/seduction	20/04/25 02:26 PM
37	Why do some men ghost when everything is going well? This happened to me as well. 1 month of dating, staying over and stuff, and then she vanished without word.	/r/seduction	18/04/25 08:35 AM
0	Why do some men ghost when everything is going well? I do that when I am talking to someone else which has more priority. Women do the same.	/r/seduction	18/04/25 08:34 AM
9	How do I seduce women in their 50s and above when I'm in my 20s? Same. Older women are kind of easier because they get less attention. Use your prime wisely and go for the mid twenies.	/r/seduction	14/04/25 07:30 PM
1	Would you rather be good looking with game but poor, or wealthy with no game? I agree with you. I think making money with game is so much easier than learning game with a lot of money. Leaning soft skills is much more difficult imo, you need to rewire the brain, and a lot of people will fail at that.	/r/seduction	07/04/25 05:34 PM
1	Would you rather be good looking with game but poor, or wealthy with no game? Game for sure. Game can bring wealth in no time if used correctly.	/r/seduction	07/04/25 05:32 PM
1	If she wanted someone with a good personality, she'd have dated someone with a good personality. True	/r/seduction	10/01/25 09:11 AM
1	Bad kisser or she didn't want it to go too far on the first date? First, you need to lead interactions. Women like that. I think the same principle applies to when to end a date. You don't wait her to get bored and tell you "hey, it's kinda getting late, I got to go". Instead, once you notice the date went good and the peak of her emotions already passed, it is a good time for you to lead and finish the date mannerly. With kissing is the same, you end it before she gets too much of it, she must feel a bit like it wasnt enough of kissing you, so she wants you t…	/r/seduction	16/11/24 07:01 PM
1	Bad kisser or she didn't want it to go too far on the first date? You should be the one ending the kiss, do not wait until she stops unless you really notice she is very into it. The first kiss was to long imo.	/r/seduction	16/11/24 05:34 PM
3	Most couples you see are together because of circumstances. Cold approach is not meant to find your wife imo, but to expand your social circle and improve your confidence, so when the right one appears under circumstances you are already that high value man.	/r/seduction	20/10/24 08:23 AM
34	How do you escalate and stay out of the friendzone. But it's not as easy as it sounds. Saying this out of the blue can work out as needy/seeking validation/cringe/over complementing them and actually can turn them off for good. You need to build up tension before and wait for the right moment, and deliver it in a moment where you have the upper hand. If you say this in a way of seeking approval and respect from her then it will work the opposite. As i said, build tension first, or make her laugh, escalate body language, I dont know, grab her from…	/r/seduction	23/04/24 11:28 AM
0	Texting after first date after having sex? This is too soon to be that cheesy imo, I'd text in a teasing way and or wishing a good day, maybe a funny gif also or a meme.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 10:50 PM
9	Texting after first date after having sex? This can come out as needy the next day, I'd just do what op did and ask for plans next week	/r/seduction	19/04/24 10:47 PM
5	Feeling dumpy after work shift and really hot coworker This is the modern version of the lumberjack who went for some woods and returns with the planks and a sweaty shirt. They like that.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 03:52 PM
2	How should I go about escalating in my Situation? You seriously need to create some tension there or else you will get friendzoned in a blink. Next time you chill in the car find the moment to build tension, I dont know, put some lofi music, do some palm reading, touch her arms, get closer, talk slow and deep, I dunno whatever feels more natural.	/r/seduction	16/04/24 09:26 PM
1	An unanswerable question from a woman: I would've said: Distance is relative, there are couples that are next to each other and feeling like two worlds apart, and then there's this couple which is 100 miles apart but they feel each other closely.	/r/seduction	15/04/24 10:24 PM
6	Is it okay tell a girl you have been having trouble with errections? Learn to use hands and tongue	/r/seduction	15/04/24 10:16 PM
2	A walk as a first date Well it's not like just that honestly, at least this is how I did it. I was listening to her actively but at some point I told her something like: it's all cool what you are saying but I am here for a reason, there's something I wanted to tell you a while ago. So you build like a bit of suspense, she's going to get curious somehow and then you have a better position to build up tension. At this point I stopped walking, I faced her completely, looked at her eyes with a playful smille and waited f…	/r/seduction	14/04/24 03:01 PM
4	A walk as a first date I had a first date where we walked, she talked probably 70% of the time and we ended up kissing. The trick was to tease her in between, escalate (put the arm on her shoulders) and making her laugh. And I didnt wait until the end to kiss her, I just built tension at some point of the walk by looking at her into the eyes and saying something to compliment her. If she responds timidly positive, then its a good sign to come closer and see how she reacts. That was my case. If she doesnt respond when …	/r/seduction	14/04/24 02:35 PM
2	Im a 21 year old male. I am going out on my 21st w/ my squad to a party. I am ready to become a confident man. What’s a “seductive” look that will turn women on? I wear a lot of drip fits and it’s hard to tell if it is a turn on or a turn off. Also, what’s the most seductive hairstyle for men? This. I feel like my body language improves when I level up my dressing game too.	/r/seduction	14/04/24 01:21 PM
2	Why do I have more success if I’m playing a role? Feel like a psychopath.. You are all the roles you play, it is not being a different person, it is still you being another version of you, and probably a better one. Nothing wrong in that.	/r/seduction	14/04/24 01:19 PM
8	How could I’ve met this woman? You are beautiful	/r/seduction	13/04/24 11:34 AM
25	why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigma Last one is swapped.	/r/seduction	12/04/24 01:34 PM
17	Potential to end friendzone If I were one of the soccer guys and I knew you turned down her invitation to show up, I'd send you again to her place and cover up your position with someone else. You did progress, had your first kiss. Next time you'll feel more relaxed and secure about what are you doing. Plus, if after the first kiss she invited you to her place, she definitely liked it.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 09:59 AM
-1	Why I don’t date career oriented women Depends on the guy I guess. If you put me two women in front of me, equally attractive, but one is carrier oriented and the other not, I go for the carrier oriented one. It"s probably going to be more challenging and fun.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 11:08 PM
6	Why I don’t date career oriented women I think there's nothing wrong in a carrier oriented woman. But I think they reduce the pool of men wanting to date them. I mean, for the average men, it is not going to be easy to impress/seduce/feel confident with a woman that earns more money, has more degrees and whatsoever. There are men that will have the balls to date you and will have enough ambition to match yours and enough male energy to make you feel secure and chill, but you'll probably have to look for the places where they gather.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 10:24 PM
9	Why I don’t date career oriented women Exactly. If things become too logical then just put more effort and be more creative.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 10:17 PM
3	Been on 3 first dates this week that went really well, and as a 29 yo man who lives with his folks - how do I navigate Date #2/ getting laid? "we can go wherever u want" That could be read as a lack of initiative and too pleasing. Imo it works better if you plan ahead and share your plans with her.	/r/seduction	31/03/24 02:47 PM
1	What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriend I learned this one from a sensei: "I think you are so beautiful/smart/else that you deserve 2 boyfriends"	/r/seduction	24/03/24 12:55 PM
5	The shit test: “Do you do this with other girls?” has different type of responses depending on the context. Contextual answering, thanks.	/r/seduction	28/02/24 02:03 PM
4	R seduction is the best reddit and heres why? Otherwise, would be being a womanizer.	/r/seduction	22/02/24 10:57 PM
3	I’m 26 she’s 46….want to pursue her but I’m stumped. Dude, just act. Else someone will do.	/r/seduction	21/02/24 05:10 PM
3	Hitting on women feels exactly as if I was asking a random person for $1000 It should be the opposite, you are the $1000 bill and you got to find the woman that's worth it.	/r/seduction	19/02/24 09:36 AM
2	so you're on a date and she doesn't talk (HOW TO DEAL WITH THAT) I felt like I have so much to learn. Thanks.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 11:04 PM
17	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? Respects.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 03:29 PM
12	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? I think people tend to project a lot their morals on others in this topic. I'd never judge someone in his 40 or even 50's approaching girls over 20+. I've seen 21 year old girls thinking like real adults and other 30+ girls being real teenagers. I've seen happy functional couples with around 25 years of gap. If you feel like doing it, do it, be confident, get what you want, you deserve it. Of course, respect boundaries, don't be creepy, be aware of body language and signals, and so on... My pers…	/r/seduction	17/02/24 03:25 PM
39	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? For a 40 hot woman is pretty common to be approached by men, regardless the age.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 03:21 PM
5	How to dance together with a girl twerking? This. Don't ever copy her movements. The guy should just enjoy her movement holding her butt against you. Obviously dont do that without previous kino scaling, else you can get a slap. Pretty similar logic with Reggaeton, you can find some videos in youtube if you look for "perreo reggaeton". Edit: example https://youtube.com/shorts/seI4qrcLi44?si=OKMBr8NO3U7z8FVI	/r/seduction	15/02/24 10:45 PM
2	Girl only texts me when she wants but got pissed when I did the same? Man, if you really liked her you shouldn't have ignored the message for Valentine. Anyways, just continue your path, and don't look back.	/r/seduction	15/02/24 10:07 PM