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And do your kegels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:36 PM
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When I was younger (13) it was to look older and when I was older (40) it was to look younger. Beyond that (now almost 60), it’s to look better. I’ve always enjoyed everything about makeup. Buying, applying... it’s a fun form of self expression that’s completely temporary. Why do people get tattoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 06:19 PM
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Eyebrows.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:53 AM
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My husband and I are your parents' ages. This scenario is ridiculous, no wonder your wife resents you. I have a "liberal profession" (teacher) that doesn't pay as much as I could earn with my credentials, yet I wouldn't dream of ever asking my own child for a single cent and my husband certainly wouldn't let me if I did. Your parents are fuck-ups and you are enabling them. In answer to your original question, when I was a SAHM with no income at all, I considered my husband's earnings to be our m…
/r/askMRP26/10/19 05:15 PM
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How often would you have sex, if you didn't care about meeting your husband's needs? 2/3 times a week How often do you actually have sex? 2/3 times a week Is your husband still hot? He's hot enough for me. He makes me feel hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 11:21 PM
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Entertained.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 01:16 AM
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I disagree with your definition of oneitis. Since we became serious, I've never had a particular guy in mind that I would want to date if my husband and I broke up. But I don't think I have oneitis. To me, that means believing that your partner is the only person out there with whom you would be happy in a relationship. I love my husband. He loves me. But if something were to happen to break us apart we would each seek companionship elsewhere. We are LTR types.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 01:09 AM
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Eh, I don't know. When I worked in a male dominated field and the only women I saw most days were the receptionist and the department secretary, both 30 years older than me, I still wanted to look pretty at work. I did not date (or fuck) guys at work. Looking nice is important to me. I credit my mom, who is still dying her hair and watching her weight in her late 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 11:28 PM
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Hey, that was my first boyfriend. Did he leave me for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 11:20 PM
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I had more education than every guy I ever dated and, finally, the guy I married. Worked out fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 11:15 PM
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So "older men" = 35+ ? Yikes!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:35 AM
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3) make sure how annoying you are (and you are trust me) isn't too far past your skills with points 1 and 2. This made me LOL. I honestly wasn't trying to be annoying just now when I started to water plants, putting myself in the direct line of vision between my husband and the hockey game on TV. The plants were wilting! The game didn't seem that exciting! He's so annoyed. At least I'm not fat anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:14 AM
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I met my husband at the gym. The gym had a bar right outside of the aerobics room. After their workouts, members would hang out at the bar. I’m sure the view of women doing Jane Fonda type exercises was a perk for the guys. Occasionally there were parties with the aerobics room used as the dance floor. Lots of people coupled up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 01:29 AM
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There is no amount of money that would convince me to voluntarily become a man. I love everything about being a woman and could never identify with being anything else. In fact, this thought problem helps me better understand transgenderism. If this magical transformation were possible, I would feel like a woman trapped in a man's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:23 PM
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Sounds like the baby has an amazing father though. I have the exact opposite impression. I think the father is an attention seeking asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:12 AM
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TIL I'm a masculine brained woman. No way I would die to save my unborn baby. I'm amazed that any woman would! It seems tragically ridiculous to me. What if it wasn't a first child? Would women who are willing to die for a baby to live feel the same if it caused existing children who already know, love, and need their mother to become motherless?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:10 AM
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Even I know what Rule Zero is- and that ain’t it.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 02:41 AM
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I care deeply that my husband is attracted to me because if he wasn't it wouldn't be the same kind of love and also because it validates my femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 10:24 PM
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I don't think my husband has "abundance mentality" if what that means is that at any given time you know a few women who would absolutely have sex with you. What he has instead is a level of self-esteem that is high enough to not put up with bullshit even if it means not getting sex from a particular woman. He ends relationships that do not "spark joy" whether they be romantic, friend or work relationships. He has oneitis for me - he loves me more than anyone else in this world right now, includ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 10:21 PM
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Oops I meant “steps.” Well what do you think it takes for her to look like that? She’s got a naturally nice figure but she’s not particularly toned. Women her age, shape, and weight that go to my gym regularly have more defined muscles. I don’t know what wanting to fuck her has to do with what I wrote; I wouldn’t want to fuck the guy pictured either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:37 PM
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I wouldn’t call that woman skinny; she’s normal weight. She’s got a nice figure naturally that some women might need surgery (breast implants) to have, but that particular woman need only eat a balanced diet and get her a 10k streps a day to look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 11:26 AM
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Avoiding pregnancy is damned easy until it's not. I lost my virginity at 18 and managed to prevent pregnancy until age 31. The birth control method that I had been using for over 10 years failed. It happens. edited to add: There was no Plan B pill back then. Maybe there is no excuse today...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:42 AM
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If you change the phrase "sexual partners" to "sexual intercourse partners" in your 2nd paragraph, then I have always felt the same way. But why not other kinds of sex? My husband and I dated for 4 months before having intercourse, yet managed to get each other off in other ways from the 3rd date on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:39 AM
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wut? Is this the British version of The Onion? Click on "next story," quite funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 11:44 PM
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You are in your prime now. Why is this an either/or thing? The only reason I can think of is because you want to settle down and have kids - so if not with this one, then best start looking for someone else. I repeat, you are in your prime now. Why waste it on a woman you can't possibly truly want to marry? If you did, you wouldn't be asking this question on this sub.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 06:21 PM
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There is nothing inappropriate about the kind of porn you like to watch as long as the masturbating males are not children or adolescents. What's "inappropriate" is telling your boyfriend all this stuff. What on earth was this supposed to accomplish? Either tell your boyfriend no, not really into spicing things up in that way (watching porn together) or explore some porn that works for both of you. Or forget the porn and let your boyfriend know that you could get very turned on by watching him j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 11:27 PM
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My husband wouldn't need to do anything. If I'm sitting next to someone who attempts to engage with me against my wishes, my earbuds go in and book comes out. I totally ignore them. There would be no response to any of the inappropriate questions you've stated as I would pretend to not hear them. If someone nudged me while I was ignoring them I would sharply and loudly say Stop It the first time. The second time I would "accidentally" knock my coffee onto their lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 05:29 PM
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Same! I used to think that people thought they were offering you a big treat when they offered to let you hold their baby. Now I realize they are just tired of holding baby themselves and need some relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:26 PM
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I'm very surprised that the majority answer is face. The second girl still has a pretty face, just not stunning. Pretty to practically stunning can be achieved with makeup while flat chested with no waist to hourglass bombshell needs serious plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:21 PM
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I've hit all the milestones. AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 09:47 PM
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I find the fact that you and your friends discuss your sexuality so freely fascinating. I have only once had a conversation with a friend about masturbating and it went as far as "if you're not sure if you've ever reached orgasm then you haven't." I can assure you that a healthy sex drive can last well past middle age. It may not always be so spontaneous but it can be conjured up to whatever level you wish. It's easy to create your own reactive desire if you have a willing partner. You tease him…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 11:00 PM
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What exactly do you mean by daygaming? If it's striking up organic conversations then I've never minded and do it all the time myself, with both men and women. I enjoy talking to strangers. If either party shows signs that the conversation has run its course, being polite means ending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 01:27 AM
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~ 3 months; between boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 11:00 PM
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I started dressing more body con for date nights (AKA high end slutty) since meeting my H and noticing he likes that trashy hooker look. Good for you! I just found out in the last couple of years, after almost thirty years of marriage, that my husband enjoys me showing a good deal of cleavage when we go out. I always toned it DOWN (unless in private) because I believed he would be embarrassed to have me looking overtly sexual in public. Gee thanks hubby! I could have been showing off the girls w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 10:48 PM
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And with that FT has left the building! Fare thee well sir!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 12:56 AM
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I think it has more to do with vanity than narcissism. I want to look and feel pretty, so I am more attracted to someone who is more or less a looks-match for me than someone who is out of my league. Having the upper hand is actually a turn-off. Who wants to be with someone that couldn't do any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 12:54 AM
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Not the OP, but I also didn't like super hot guys, even when I was her age. Why? Because I wanted to be the hot(ish) one in the relationship. I wanted whatever guy I was with to be seen as a guy who could get a cute girl, not as a guy who was settling for some dumpy girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:58 PM
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I'm not a man but I think it means that when a man loves, he shows it through sex. When a man doesn't love, he still needs sex so he has "meaningless" or "validation" sex. Ha! How's that for a bullshit explanation? I'm amazed when I read posts by men where they deliberate on whether or not their partners are physically cheating when they acknowledge that the woman is definitely being emotionally intimate with another man. The fact that the physical line has to be crossed for them to consider it …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:44 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9v8hcAezkk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 01:19 AM
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This is fascinating. Do you actually believe that if you don't look older you won't get older? Are your mistakes really forgiven more easily even though you are in your 30s? (I'm wondering what kind of mistakes - do you mean your mom doesn't get overly mad when you bring the car back with no gas? I find it hard to believe that your boss is OK with you missing deadlines because you're so young and cute.) Do you really believe you are perceived as more fun and enthusiastic when you go Woooo and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 06:37 PM
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Idk why she calldd her dad. The same reason you said you recorded her, to escalate. You both acted like squabbling siblings.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 09:16 PM
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This is supposed to be a startling revelation? We know this innately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:43 PM
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Thank you for spelling loser correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:17 PM
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Raising kids and keeping a house reasonably presentable aren't nearly as hard or time consuming as SAHMs assert. Raising under school-age kids is actually quite the time suck. This is why people employed as child-care providers don't have side gigs going on at the same time that they are working. Would you drop your kid off at a day care where all the workers were also working side jobs at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 06:03 PM
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Any jewelry store will have plain gold wedding bands - no need to buy online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 08:03 PM
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Then you're probably not the type of guy who would feel emasculated if your fiancée bought her own engagement ring. But there are guys who on the one hand are hurt if their woman isn't thrilled about the ring he chose but on the other hand don't believe in spending a significant amount of money on something that's basically frivolous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 07:59 PM
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It is not. Even Amazon sells them. Also, plain gold bands do not have to be gender specific. Just pick a karat purity, mm width and ring size.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 05:33 PM
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The man having to pay for the engagement ring. There are women who make bank who want and can afford very expensive diamond engagement rings, but have fiancés that a) feel that diamonds are a huge waste of money and b) feel insulted if she contributes financially. Exacerbating this is c) diamond solitaire rings are always considered engagement rings. It's ridiculous that a well-off woman who wants a big honking diamond solitaire ring can't just go off and buy her own. Imagine if a man couldn't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 05:30 PM
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I am a woman between 55-60 and have been with my husband since mid to late 20s. He's a few years older than me. Hitting the wall at ~30: I was blissfully unaware. My level of attractiveness went up and down (inversely) with my weight. Losing weight and keeping my roots dyed (started greying early) were my main preoccupations with regard to looks. I did not give a second thought to eye wrinkles and nasolabial folds. Unlike the experiences of what I read from many young women today, I was not endl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:15 PM
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I'm terrible at flirting and get flustered and embarrassed if someone tries flirting with me. Embarrassed because I'm not sure if they are actually flirting or if I'm misreading their friendliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 02:13 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7sbq2l/how_to_divorce_your_wife/
/r/askMRP02/09/18 02:05 PM
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Wear sunscreen on your face, neck, chest and hands religiously. Major in pure mathematics. You like to think about abstractions. You are not "hands on." You're going to hate being an engineer. Keep on being you - you're all right kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 08:41 PM
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when she does decide it's time to terminate, she'll give him the ring. lol
/r/askMRP31/08/18 11:24 PM
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Go back and read this response whenever you feel yourself wavering: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/98jsip/crunch_time/e4ihmxe/ I am around single women this age all the time and the sentence in caps (YOU ARE WHAT THEY ARE ALL LOOKING FOR) could not be more true. I hope you celebrate her departure with your 16 year old son who she did not get along with (how dare she?). Be prepared for her return; she most surely will be back. IME, when someone gives a list of your supposed faults as th…
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:14 PM
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Congrats on the weight loss! Yes, you still have a way to go, but you are more than half way there. 150 pounds at your height with an hour-glass figure can be very, very attractive. Not all guys like super skinny women and 110 pounds at 5'6" is extremely thin. 150 pounds would put you at "normal" in terms of BMI which is far better for your health. Could part of the problem be that you are still 235 pounds in your head? It's only been 6 months. When I lost a substantial amount of weight the "fat…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 09:12 PM
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You poor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:50 PM
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So you think the way you live your life, and whether or not your sister knows all the details about it, is going to have any influence at all on her n-count? That's cute. You're giving yourself way too much importance. She's 15 and observing how the dating/sex world works, of which you are but one little part. What's so hard about answering truthfully? Is she your girlfriend? - She's "a" girlfriend. Do you date different girls at the same time? - Yes. Do you have sex with all of them? - None of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:45 PM
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Yeah, I'd go with this too. Pretty much describes my own daughter, except no engagement with the boyfriend yet. I hope it's "yet" but I don't lose sleep over it - it's her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:20 PM
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Where in this article does it state that married women are at the bottom of the “happiness hierarchy?” The article is all about men. Anecdotally, I am married and am very happy. Are you? I’ve got nothing to back it up, but I believe happy single people can become happily married whereas unhappy people cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 11:33 AM
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Source? I’ve never heard this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 11:27 AM
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Young(er) people waste too much time worrying about getting old(er).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 07:52 PM
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Your stretch from the sentence you bolded is false, in my opinion. Gal drags guy into bar bathroom not because this particular guy is so hot that she must have him now, but because she wants some slutty excitement. What's this got to do with feeling like being a stoner, etc.? Girl feels like being a stoner -> gets high. Girl feels like being a rock climber -> goes rock climbing. Girl feels like being a gym girl -> joins (and frequents) gym. You don't need a guy to be these things. But you do nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 07:48 PM
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No woman ever wants to admit this, but step kids are not real kids ?? Have you only known women who pretend to love all children? I can easily admit that I would never love a child that could call another woman "mom" as my own. I've known many woman who feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 03:39 AM
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When I was young and single, I would not date a man that had children - automatic deal breaker. I had no baggage - why go looking for some? I once went out on one date with a guy during which I found out that he had been previously married for a couple of years when he was younger. It wasn't the only thing that turned me off about him but it was definitely a mark in the negative column. A person that has already been married and divorced by 25 strikes me as a person who doesn't take marriage tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 03:31 AM
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No. A man that wouldn't mind me fucking other men is a complete turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 05:36 PM
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What the hell? What am I missing here? He looked fine before and he looks fine after, although quite different. If he feels better and more confident about himself with more muscle, what's wrong with that? What's so weird about his face? (other than the Zorro mask)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:45 PM
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Doesn't MRP espouse Owning Your Shit to the point of taking care of the entire household so well that the wife should eventually perceive that sex is pretty much all she's needed for? From what I've seen there, if a guy posts about getting nagged for leaving dishes in the sink, the members give him more crap about it than his wife does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 06:00 PM
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If eight is good, ten must be better!
/r/askMRP26/07/18 05:46 PM
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she's already wearing a 20k ring hmmm....now I'm wondering who she is on Pricescope!
/r/askMRP25/07/18 04:55 PM
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It appears you want someone to indulge you with discussion that supports your belief in "western rape culture." Good luck with that...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 07:11 PM
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Wow. I have students who came from countries where girls and women are not only routinely raped, tortured and killed but they and their families are shamed when it happens, as if the victims are at fault. I'll spare them your ridiculous notion of "western rape culture." They know that they are safe here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 12:33 PM
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Yes Edited to add: missed the part about your belief that rape culture is a problem in western society. If your husband indulges you with discussion that supports this s belief, then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 01:23 PM
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Women like to feel pretty and that the guy they are with is capable of being desired by an attractive woman. Walking down the street linking arms with Channing Tatum, I’m going to feel self-conscious, wondering if people are thinking “couldn’t he do any better than this old broad?” At least that’s what I think looking at kris Kardashian and her boytoy of the week. Even at matched ages, an ordinary looking woman looks homely next to a better looking guy. Pierce Brosnan and his wife are an example…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 02:10 PM
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Honey, I hope you’re a troll.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 07:01 AM
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woman... For men and women....Imagine you lose 40 lbs and gain some muscle and your crush who rejected you turns up again to ask you out. Up until here, I would say OF COURSE. It has actually happened to me, only it was about a 15 pound loss. But then you put in this qualifier: They are open and honest that you are now attractive and before you weren’t attractive. ewwww, NO. Who would do this? It's cruel. Even if you think this, you don't say it. Why does anyone (guy or girl) have to have some s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 09:05 PM
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heat gettin' to ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 02:11 AM
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The married women I have known who have confided to me their issues with lack of sexual desire do not blame their husband for being out of shape/out of style. What they say are things like: they are are exhausted by work/home demands, they feel unattractive because they've gained weight themselves, they have kids touching them all day (especially when breastfeeding) and crave solitude. These are women that claim to wish they had the desire they used to have. They don't think dishwashing in itsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 08:51 PM
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10/73 years is approximately 1.64 months I was referring to The Wall that RP believes women hit at around 28 years of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 06:39 PM
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27 and 10/73 years. Watch out!!! Wall ahead :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 10:59 PM
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I wanted a lifetime relationship and knew that he was someone I could make a go of it with. I had been in other LTRs with guys that I felt in love with at the time, but did not feel like I could commit to for the long term. I enjoyed living on my own. I never had roommates after college (and then only because I couldn't afford not to) and never wanted to live with a boyfriend. Marriage was the only way I was going to live with a guy. I was wildly attracted to my husband and would have been conte…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:55 AM
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SMV when I was still on the market = 6-7/10 current SMV = 0/10 (is there a market for women over 55?) RMV = 9.5/10 (I cook, clean, sew, stay in good health, am good with money, can do some maintenance stuff around the house, put out on the regular, and rarely nag; deducted -0.5 for penchant for collecting cats)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 05:30 PM
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And the loss of identity. That has been one of the worst for me over the year That was the toughest for me as well. It's not just loss of old identity, it's the gaining of a new but false perception of your identity from others. I found that people assumed that since I was a SAHM I had nothing of interest to discuss but instead enjoyed things like swapping recipes and attending those stupid house sales parties. Um, no...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 10:06 PM
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Being a SAHM is isolating. It depends where you live. I lived in a major city in a country with government paid maternity leave when my child was a newborn. The city's health department ran these 6 week "new mom/baby" courses at the rec centers. The purpose was for teaching new moms things like how to make your own baby food, baby CPR, etc. But the huge benefit was that you ended up meeting every new mom in a 6 block radius and they were all home on paid maternity leave. Instant new acquaintance…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:53 PM
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Presbyopia (farsightedness)! This causes my husband to still believe his wife is hot! Very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:12 PM
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Oh absolutely lucky to have a choice! It was a very difficult decision, because I felt guilty either way. I didn't then and don't now think that it was absolutely necessary for my child to have a SAH parent. I was doing it for me as much as I was doing it for the baby. I can't stand when women attack each other over the SAH vs working choice. As a teacher I see well-adjusted productive kids coming from both kinds of households. (And of course there are also kids who were neglected even though th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 05:02 PM
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Assuming a significant portion of these women desire to marry a patriarch, what does this mean for the SMP/RMP? I'm not sure what you're asking here. I'll share my experience as a woman who never aspired to be a SAHM, considers herself a feminist (old-school?), ultimately stayed home to raise my child for over a decade, and is very happily married. I have an engineering degree and an MBA. I had a great job that I loved but it involved a lot of travel. While still pregnant, my plan was to go back…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 10:13 PM
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Again, people can commit to lifelong partnershps without signing a paper and spend thousands into a wedding ceremony. Cost of civil service wedding: ~$50. Committing to a lifelong partnership is called "getting married." A marriage is not a guarantee that it will be a better relationship than a LTR. It's not a quality relationship for the woman if for her, a marriage is better than an LTR. Our conversation came about in response to a woman who has decided that the relationship she's in is not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:03 AM
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Your woman is not all women. How are the threesomes coming along? Hire any more hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:20 PM
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It precisely highlighted how for some women the marriage symbolism is more important than the quality of the relationship itself and the partner himself. Oh such BS! It's not the marriage symbolism. It's the ability to take the risk and commit. There are women out there that would rather be alone than with someone who isn't willing to commit to the decision to be a lifelong partner. It's not a quality relationship for the woman, and the partner himself is not a quality partner, if he cannot do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:18 PM
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There are not going to be enough super attractive women at the activity to go around. That gives us moderately attractive women (i.e. HB4-5 try hards who can primp themselves up to HB6-7 when they need to) a fighting chance! Gone are the days of going to church (or to any public place for that matter) and a man finding you beautiful and asking you on a date. When were these days? I doubt my now husband asked me out because he found me beautiful. More like "attractive enough" and available. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 09:30 PM
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But, seeing as how I want the act that I do reciprocated on me as well, I’m going to break up and find a partner that’s more suitable for me. She should go find someone that is fine without getting head, while I should find someone hat is fine with giving me head. That’s the point I was trying to make. What you're saying here makes perfect sense. What I didn't understand is why it matters whether or not she's done it with someone else before. It sounded like it wouldn't be a deal breaker if she …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 09:20 PM
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What if she did this thing a few times in the past and hated it. What if the dislike of this thing factored into why she and that guy broke up? Does that change things? What if she never did it with anyone else to begin with; does that mean you would be willing to stay with her and go without it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 01:37 AM
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Who are these people discussing past sexual exploits with a new relationship??? Some of these posts make it sound like women carry a sex act punch-card. Check it to see what she's done already - and if she won't do it again is there at least something she hasn't tried yet that a guy can check off?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 01:30 AM
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No, I don’t think 3 is a lot at all. My opinion is that it doesn’t take a lot of partners for someone to become sexually experienced and adventurous. For me, the longer I’m with and better I know a guy, the more comfortable and safe I feel to explore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 07:09 PM
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That was fun to watch! Makes me want to take hip hop dance classes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:51 PM
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My husband hates to dance and I love to, so obviously it's not a big deal for me. I get my fix in group aerobics classes. I love slow dancing with hubby but the occasions for this are so rare. I have no idea if talented dancers are better in bed. Those guys in the video look gay to me. (I am being literal.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:49 PM
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I was sexually adventurous with my very first boyfriend. We were a couple for almost 6 years, with "adventure" increasing as time went on. Between him and my husband I had sexual relationships with two other guys. I don't think of "3" as being quite a few past sexual partners, but maybe you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:41 PM
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0h wait, did I say 4? Are we supposed to double that and add 30? Or is that converting Celsius to Fahrenheit.... ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:59 PM
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No fucking way. And I stopped after “explicitly would not marry you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:52 PM
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Woman, 50's, 4, never had the opportunity to lie about it because no one was asking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:21 AM
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They just play the game harder than the younger women. you got that right!
/r/askMRP11/05/18 10:26 PM
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You would not believe how sheltered 16 year olds are today. In order to go to a dance, a freakin' school sanctioned activity, our kids have to buy tickets in advance for an eligibility check. If they want to bring a guest that is not one of our students, they have to request a week in advance so that our principal can contact the guest's principal for approval. At the dance all bags are checked and a breathalyzer is on stand-bye. In my day, we showed up at the dance drunk and/or stoned, paid $2 …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 10:14 PM
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I'm assuming a polite approach - When I was single and attracted to the guy? Excited but very nervous. Single and not attracted? Awkward and empathetic. Thinking about how to have a pleasant but very quick conversation. Old and married? (me today) What, this guy is approaching me? No way, is he actually interested in me? Hahahaha, what a great day! Then thinking about how to have a pleasant but very quick conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 09:44 PM
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Really now! I have a daughter around that age and I assure you I would never tell her my 44 year old guy friend was waiting in bed naked for her. And if my husband said that?! Well I guess that would mean my husband was Donald Trump, my daughter was Ivanka and the naked guy was Howard stern LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 02:54 AM
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My pregnancy worry days pre-date the morning after pill so my Plan B was abortion. I did not have PIV sex with anyone without a discussion as to what my plan would be should I get pregnant. IMO, this is the only responsible way to go about it. If you can't have this discussion then don't fuck, do something else. It stands to reason that women who use very reliable birth control (like yourself and /u/SheltathaLore) would also have a plan for birth control failure. I would imagine your partners kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 12:28 PM
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Does no one else find it creepy that mommy is trying to help her 26 year old son get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 12:02 PM
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And modern abortion isn’t “natural”, it’s new too. So why are women expected to do this if we are basing this on what’s “natural”? Why should women be expected to take responsibility and do “non-natural” things here but not men? Why the assumption that the woman should be expected to have an abortion if the sperm donor chooses not to financially support a child? She could support the child on her own or with help from family if she has any willing members. She could put the child up for adoption…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:10 PM
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hahahaha, upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 12:05 AM
2

Pull me in for a kiss as I walk by, with a tight hold. Cop a feel. Tell me what he wants to do with/to me. Murmur some detail of a recent sexy interlude in my ear. My husband isn't at all romantic. It's like he thinks it's silly, so he can't pull it off. I accept this about him. One time when my daughter was an infant and I guess I wasn't "attending to his needs," he actually took me by the hand and led me to the bedroom while saying "c'mon, it's been a week." How much more unromantic can a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:08 AM
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wait, he meant the wife? I thought he was being a sarcastic asshole and meant the MIL.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 12:54 AM
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1) No, never pills or topical creams. However, I highly recommend the use of marijuana or alcohol. (But not at the same time; sleepiness is not sexy.) 2) mostly reactive 3) No longer have a fertility cycle, can't accurately remember what my pre-menopausal horniness was like. 4) I would never watch porn to get aroused. I've watched very little and what I have seen makes me laugh. I have read erotica before masturbating. 5) Depends on the context. Is he just walking out of the shower and about to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 08:09 PM
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My husband doesn't naturally mate guard at all, to the point where a stranger (to us) at a social gathering might not know for sure that we are even together. I am very comfortable meeting and talking to new people. My husband always liked that he could take me anywhere and not have to hold my hand. Early on in our dating relationship I was OK with his inattention but after a while it bothered me. I had to point blank tell him that I was tired of being the one to come around to him every now and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:19 PM
3

You go girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:31 PM
1

It does suck! Both of us are in very good health (knock on wood) but I find myself thinking about how/when we're going to decline and the fact that we're going to die some day. A really pointless and depressing exercise. I guess the upside is that I don't have enough present-day stuff to worry about! Aleve isn't enough to make me feel 18 though - so good for you! But a few tokes of weed can bring me back to 27 :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 04:24 PM
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8 Female, 55-60 range, married, Red-Violet in the Crayola box What keeps me from being '10' -as I age, have become increasingly preoccupied with thoughts of my own and my husband's mortality -waste too much time on the internet -wish certain family members lived closer, but not willing to move myself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:28 AM
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Groceries for two adults, 3 children, toiletries (including diapers?), gas, "things for the house + discretionary." Groceries according to USDA site would be ~$315 (food only). Another $60 for a tank of gas and you're at $375 for the rest. I assumed discretionary meant clothing for the kids & wife, household supplies and normal expenditures that go along with having children (lessons, outings, b-day gifts for their friends, etc.) I never spent that much but I was a SAHM of one. If I had had 3 ki…
/r/askMRP10/02/18 08:07 PM
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The CC$ are not the bills but they are things like groceries, gas, and things for the house + discretionary. But if I am travelling or home late she gets almost every meal for her and the kids from a drive through or carry out. I cook healthy meals for all if home at dinner time. Where I live, $3000 for what you describe for a family your size sounds reasonable. With a $100K salary, I imagine your wife has a fairly demanding job. Is it unreasonable for a working mother of three whose husband is …
/r/askMRP10/02/18 12:03 AM
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Told me she wouldn't care if I hung out with a female friend as she trusts me... It could be that young women today are much different (I'm older) but the only time I ever felt comfortable about a guy I was seeing hanging out with another woman was when I didn't care that much about losing him.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 05:54 PM
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It is reinforcing that you are a sexual man that wants sex with his wife. OP should note that his actual behavior reinforced the opposite! If my husband gave me a one hour full body oil massage (I can only imagine this, it has never happened) and not only did I not once feel his hard-on pressing against me but when it was over he acted completely uninterested in my overtures, lame though they might be, I would think he either has no sexual desires at all or is completely repulsed by me or both.
/r/askMRP30/01/18 01:35 AM
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THIS. If I had a son, this would be my advice to him. Especially the 2nd sentence.
/r/askMRP20/01/18 12:34 AM
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I have no idea if Ansari enjoyed his blowjob or found it "sad" and I don't really care. He's not the one complaining about it, she is. She didn't get roped in to anything. Her dream date with a celebrity turned out to be a crappy time because the quality of artful seduction was not included in his sum (as her fantasy wished it to be). Shyness is not an excuse to do something you are uncomfortable with and complain anonymously about it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 05:25 PM
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A win? I honestly don't know what you're talking about. Here is my point: Ansari had some sex, "sad" or not, with this woman because he is a celebrity. I am contending that she would not have given the time of day, much less a blow job, to an ordinary guy who looked just like him pulling the same awkwardly unattractive moves. Perhaps your contention is that shy women are different; they are more comfortable sucking dick than saying "I need to leave." I would find that alarming if I believed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:50 PM
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Obviously she dates people that aren't celebrities; she was at an event with another guy when she met Ansari and gave him her phone number. She didn't like Ansari's moves but she let him keep doing them, going as far as giving him a blowjob just because he pointed to his dick. Why on earth? Are you contending that if he was some random non-famous guy with no looks, moves, money or fame, she would still go along with sexual overtures she didn't like? Ha! And to think that ordinary men spend so mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:24 PM
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The wedding and ring are nothing, really. Please explain how the man can confirm that he is dedicated to "life long monogamy" without the contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:12 PM
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I would argue that she gave him a blow job because he is Aziz Ansari. This is an unattractive man who (apparently) lacks seduction skills. Would she have even given him her phone number if she had met him at a party (that she was at with a date) if he hadn't been a celebrity? It pisses me off that she behaved in a way that proves Trump right: "When you're a star you can do anything...grab 'em by the pussy."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:05 PM
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For guys being a forver-boyfriend sounds awesome. Really? I've never met a man who claimed to want to be a forever-boyfriend. This doesn't make any sense to me. Why would a guy not want to marry but yet want to be a "forever-boyfriend" to one woman? I'm wondering if what you actually mean is that guys would find it awesome if their LTR partners would be satisfied with never marrying, and thereby never giving any marriage pressure. But that's not the same thing at all as wanting to be one woman's…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 07:29 PM
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The OP gave an age of "over 30 some years." The comment I responded to didn't mention a specific age at all. I'm not sure what you are going on about, but it doesn't actually address my comment at all. Happy new year hon!
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 06:13 PM
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So you consider a 35 year old woman to be hot and young? Good for you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 03:11 AM
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You say "no longer benefits." I'm curious as to what you thought the benefits used to be. What were men who didn't want children getting out of marriage before? I think if two people are enjoying an LTR relationship without the benefit of marriage, great. I also think that any woman who agrees to this set-up and then goes ahead and has a child with the guy is making a huge mistake and should pm me immediately so I can talk some sense into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 10:29 PM
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We dated for about 4 months of progressively seeing each more and more often before he let me know that he was not seeing others. I wasn't either, but didn't give him any expectations; I knew that wouldn't have gone over well. After we had dated exclusively for a year and a half the subject of living together came up. I wanted to be married, not living together. If by "did I have other options" you mean did I have other guys lined up ready and willing to LTR with me (without cohabiting)? No. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 10:19 PM
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When I got married, we weren't sure we would want children so I can safely say that having them wasn't the reason I wanted to be married. Never did I think about access to his resources should the relationship end. In fact, when we met I was earning more than he was. Yet I was adamant about being married, not just living together (which I know is the relationship you have). The reason was not to ensure his commitment (which can't really be ensured) but to force, for lack of a better word, the de…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 06:15 PM
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Yes, when I first saw him and yes, still find him physically sexy today although objectively he was sexier then (because youth is sexier). My husband doesn't need to put more effort into grooming or styling; he's great at both. I wish he would be more consistent about working out. He enjoys sports a great deal but is on and off about strength training. Especially at our age, consistency is important to avoid injuries. No, I've never wanted to ravish any partner. I'm not that kind of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 03:59 PM
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Good for you for taking care of yourself! :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 05:48 PM
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That's not the only reason. Women like to feel young and attractive. The same 35 year old woman can feel youthful with a guy ten years her senior, yet feel like "the older woman" with a guy ten years younger.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 05:46 PM
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You are not actually in the process of separating from your wife and yet your children will be spending the holidays without their father. Why is this? You know about your wife's betrayal but she doesn't know that you know so it's safe to assume your kids have no idea at all. Look at it from their perspective: for no good enough reason Dad is not going to be with us. Instead of regretting that you "could have been involved more with the kids" you can change that starting right now.
/r/askMRP24/12/17 04:31 PM
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Oh dear god no. I've never even wanted to live with my close female friends as roommates. The only time I ever have was as an undergrad and I didn't like sharing food staples and cleaning supplies, never mind a husband. Female companionship and camaraderie? I love that in small, manageable doses. As in, let's meet for coffee and get caught up. Not as in let's verbally analyze everything that goes on in every one of our lives each day. Economies of scale in childrearing? I had one and that was pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:14 PM
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What are you talking about? What am I using my supposed flabbiness as an excuse for, Sports Illustrated not calling me to pose for their swimsuit edition? hahaha - thanks for breaking the harsh truth to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:28 AM
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She was also mad at me because I started an anti feminist group for traditional housewives on Facebook. I'm curious, what is the viewpoint of an anti-feminist group of "traditional" housewives in this context (meaning housewife only, not mother and housewife). Are you against women having jobs/careers once they are married, even if there are no children? Just wondering what the "anti" is all about.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/17 07:45 PM
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I'm enjoying this exchange you're having, but please, what good does it do to be right? Can't we just let this guy, and all guys, think that any slim woman has "the perfect figure." In the 1980s, a guy and girl that I worked with and I were looking at a magazine photo shoot of Christy Brinkley in various bikinis. She said, "Is this even possible?" referring to Brinkley's figure. I said, "No, it's genetic." He said, "what are you two talking about? You both look like that; you're women." We said,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 04:53 PM
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This made me smile. I hope you are able to somehow share these sentiments with her, even if it's anonymously. It would mean the world to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:59 PM
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First off, I'll admit that my perspective is only me theorizing and not based on practice. I've been married to the same person for most of my adult life and therefore haven't experienced the dating scene past my mid-twenties. It's the word "rescind" I have trouble with. Do you really mean to say that you would explicitly offer exclusivity if the guy you are dating (and are in love with) is explicitly letting you know that he's seeing other people? Is that even expected (by men) these days? That…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 05:54 AM
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By rescinding your exclusivity when he hasn't offered his, it sounds like you mean you would agree to be exclusive in the first place even though he would not. Why do this? Otherwise, I agree with you but I would just call it (dignified) dating. I wouldn't let a guy think that I wasn't open to or actually dating other guys if he did not agree to be exclusive with me. And yes, if a guy you want is balking at commitment, shake things up by being less available to him and letting him know in no unc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 07:00 PM
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I think one chooses to have a ONS rather than "allowing themselves" to become one. I didn't do ONS's but it's hard to imagine that people who do have them go into it thinking that it is the start of a relationship, only to find out that their partner ONS-ed them. OTOH, I did unwittingly allow myself to become a plate. I dated a guy that had a lot of ex-girlfriends that he still spent time with on occasion. "Just as friends," he said. At the time I just thought he was a really crappy boyfriend. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 05:40 PM
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not the feminists in the crab bucket like you who shame them into protecting the Feminine Imperative around marriage. Nope, not the case at all. I couldn't give a shit whether people marry or not. I know what I want and I have it. When I've been asked for relationship advice from women who are whining that their guy won't agree to marry, my response is: you're wasting your time (which is precious and finite) on him, move on. That's not shaming, that's advising people to have agency over their ow…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 02:04 AM
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If your girl is so incredibly happy with your relationship, why is she complaining to you about what her friends think and say? I have counseled many women (who asked for my advice) to end relationships because their guy did not want to marry and it was important to the woman. I know plenty of women who are perfectly content in an LTR without the commitment of legal marriage. But for those who aren't, the answer is to move on. It's not a question of "married is better than not frame" for women i…
/r/askMRP06/11/17 09:41 PM
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I'm pretty frugal and never wanted to spend money on babysitters or help unless it was absolutely necessary. Here's what I used to do. I would imagine that my infant was the third of three children instead of my only. Would I be able to respond to her every cry and whimper if there were other children who needed attention? Nope. So I would let her fuss in her carrier while I took a shower or made dinner. I eased my guilt by thinking to myself - if there were an 8 year old with a bloody knee I'd …
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 07:24 PM
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Yes, woohoo for hubby goggles! Mr. N's are so strong it's ridiculous. Or he's a good actor - either way I'll take it. Compared to other women my age in my area (55+ in a non-cosmopolitan location) I'm probably a 7.5 because I'm not fat, wear makeup well and religiously dye my roots. Compared to adult women in general I'm HB-I for invisible. I have this superpower where I can be in a room full of women and men won't even notice me!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 11:32 PM
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Two that I know that cheated during marriage had relationships that could have been case studies for RP theory. The first, M, rarely had sex with her husband because of her "low libido." He was developing a successful business and she took care of everything else in the home, including a part-time job and two small children. Prior to marriage, they had dated for years and broke up because M found him too boring - always work focused, didn't want to do anything else. Then he got into a serious bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 05:26 PM
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No argument from me here. When does an exceptionally attractive women get accused? Probably only if she's harassing a minor. And then many men will still say - where was she when I was 15?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 04:42 PM
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Change women to man and her to him/his and I feel exactly the same. AHALT? (humans)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 04:28 PM
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Hi there! I removed the first line of that post, but then I think I deleted the whole thing by accident. Oh well... Anyway, I’m curious as to why you felt that this was offensive. I meant that the person responding to me was being kind since I was commenting on an article that I had been too lazy to read. Did it look like I was calling my responder lazy? That was not my intent.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 12:24 AM
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I still don't understand it though. Why do they have to leave their marriages to focus energies on flourishing careers if the kids are now out of the house? I was a SAHM until my daughter was in middle school and now that she's a self-supporting adult I can do whatever I want and stay married. The grandparents-as-babysitters is what I meant by other familial support. But as someone who is now old enough to be a grandparent I have to say it isn't only living near the grandparents that you need, y…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 09:50 PM
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most women who are driven to succeed also want a man who is just as driven to succeed Yep! That is the conundrum, isn't it. The easiest solution is to not have children. if you're wanting to be a career woman with children, then don't expect to have an equally successful husband. Or, redefine your idea of "successful husband." I know of a few families where mom has the big bucks career while dad doesn't - but he's doing something interesting and "respectable." Some examples of people I know are …
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 09:44 PM
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I'll have to read the article but there's something in this snippet that doesn't make sense to me. How can men be blaming the wives' frustrations on menopause if the women are leaving their jobs to fill a parenting vacuum? Did they start having children at 40? The idea that anyone, man or woman, can "have it all" (high pressure career, marriage and family) without significant support is, in my opinion, false. I believe that women who think that since men have been able to "have it all," they sho…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 08:41 PM
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The Smithsonian article you cite makes it sound as though this programming that mostly women were doing in the 60's was of the same caliber as what would be required today. What were they actually doing that was so uncomplicated that it didn't require knowledge of advanced math? Oh the big boys came in and changed the rules to "only math geeks need apply" when all along it should have been "transform your genius dinner planning skills into a career in computer programming!" And companies went al…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 02:34 AM
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This woman is not a feminist. Feminists don't need to always be in a relationship. Feminists don't move across the country for a guy and then expect him to be her whole world (thereby failing to make friends). Feminists don't try to make men jealous by dangling other men at them - they try to make them jealous by out-earning them. Feminists don't worry about whether or not a man is confident in his career, they've got their own careers to obsess over. I see an impulsive woman that is adept at se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 10:40 PM
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I love my husband's shapely butt and am so glad my child took after him (in that area) and not me!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 05:05 PM
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You wanted her to find out. Not necessarily about this particular one, but to (finally) find out. Any guy who responds to his wife not liking his beard with "my GF likes it" when he actually does have a girlfriend who actually does like it wants his wife to know. You thought she suspected because you wanted her to suspect. Why? Not to consciously hurt her, I don't think. But to somehow alleviate your own pain. Her affair (emotional? physical? does it matter?) was a long time ago and yet you only…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 02:35 AM
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Maybe the tall guys looked better when they first met their good looking women and then let themselves go? I'm surprised you saw enough men with a build close to the guy on the right, or enough attractive women, to draw conclusions. Your work picnics must be far more aesthetically pleasing than mine!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 11:11 PM
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Impressive transformation, congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 11:07 PM
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Interesting question. To me it's analogous to wondering if a young white man born into wealth and privilege feels uncomfortable with all the benefits that go with that. IMO, being young and lovely by itself doesn't equate to being able to "present yourself well." You would need intelligence, just the right amount of warmth, and some eloquence to go along with it. So good for you /u/Meadowfly!
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 11:59 PM
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You know what’s not fair? No matter how much I work out, eat right, maintain ideal weight and stay hydrated, any drag queen has better looking, cellulite-free legs than I do! There oughtta be a law....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 06:57 PM
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I think I was her first. Or maybe she was my first?
/r/askMRP23/09/17 04:54 PM
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" I'd never want to be anyone's first." That present tense jumped out at me. I'd = I would. That's conditional tense, not present. You are too jumpy.
/r/askMRP23/09/17 11:42 AM
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I don't think a man should be required to pay child support unless he is married to the woman. I also believe that a woman who agrees to have a child out wedlock is a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 10:27 PM
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If he isn't confident enough to approach me, then he can't provide the feelz I need to be attracted. It wouldn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 10:21 PM
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Does she know that you think it would be perfectly reasonable? In a different comment you said "But I'm not sure I want to be married to someone who considers having my baby to be such a disaster." Maybe she wants to have the pill handy but is lying to you about buying it because she knows, or senses, that you would be affronted by her not wanting to become pregnant. You were married for 6 years before she bought it. At that point couples usually have either had a child, are trying to have one, …
/r/askMRP18/09/17 10:24 PM
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If you did have a contraception oops, would you want her to take the morning after pill or do you have something against it? (I know more than a few people who confuse the "Plan B" pill with the abortion pill and are therefore against it.) The only charitable explanation I can think of for the entire scenario is that your wife wanted to have it on hand for herself or any other fertile females in your household and thought that you would not agree to keeping it around. Maybe she feels that if con…
/r/askMRP18/09/17 01:02 AM
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Really? I've worn both my wedding band and engagement ring on my left hand ring finger for my entire marriage (over two decades) and so have all my married friends. Is this a newish thing that women put their engagement rings away? Maybe they have fancy engagement rings that are not meant for every day wear?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 04:35 PM
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If for some reason either I or my husband became incapable of having and enjoying sex, I would want a divorce. We could become friends without benefits. Marital relations include sex, period. Without sex it's not marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 06:40 PM
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I work out to be more attractive than I would be if I didn't, sure. But I have a man, the same one that I've had for 30 years. I got fat in the middle of that and didn't lose him; fear of losing him was not my motivation for losing weight and becoming more attractive again. I just like being as attractive as I can possibly be. Maybe it's not to get or keep a man, it's just vanity? I question why it must be analyzed - what's wrong with just wanting to be pretty, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 03:36 PM
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Yeah, well, that comes with age you know ;)
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 06:50 PM
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NAOWALT (the O stands for Older) I'm in my 50s. I don't see pretty 25 year olds and sigh. I appreciate their beauty like one appreciates a rose in full bloom. The 25 year olds I sigh at are the fat ones - I want to grab them by the shoulders, shake them hard and say: lose weight now, while your skin can still bounce back! (ask me how I know) Earning gray hair? Uh, no thanks, I'll keep coloring mine!
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 06:11 PM
2

You guys are hilarious! Please derive the formula for Cuntological Constant. I want to calculate mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 12:19 PM
2

I'm not sure I want to get married under these circumstances. I'd probably feel like he only did it out of obligation, not because he loves me. Do men ever marry out of anything but a sense of obligation? Seriously, why do men marry? From what I've seen in my lifetime, it's reasons like the woman won't continue the relationship without marriage, or families/society expect it, or the woman gets pregnant. In my case it was because I wouldn't move to a different country where I wouldn't have been a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 03:51 PM
1

Only because you've mentioned where you live do I know what RCN means! Have you considered AA (Acronyms Anonymous)? It's a great group of women there, I do plan to participate.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 06:29 PM
3

I don't know what SEO means. OK, I looked it up. Search Engine Optimization. You like initials a lot. Thanks, it's been fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 06:10 PM
3

I'm not sure what the "intended effect" is, but I wish you had chosen to call it something else - words instead of initials. It doesn't come up for the terms a woman would search on. How are women supposed to find out about it? Is it for women that post here a few times and then are told MRPW is for you? That's not going to grow membership; the sub will likely die.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 05:52 PM
1

Wrong on so many levels. I couldn't care less how much attention strippers get to begin with. I agree they are hot (at least the ones I see in movies, never been to a strip bar) but not so sure about feminine. I guess it depends on the stripper/act. I do not want to be treated like a stripper. I would not be excited by a guy salivating to my preening around and then paying for me to do more. I would find him pathetic. Which brings us to "high confidence." Uh, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 10:32 PM
3

Not only are you a troll, you are probably a woman. Men don't describe women by their dress/pants size. Only other women might be impressed by "size 4." Most men wouldn't even know what that means, unless they are the type of guy that not only goes clothes shopping with his woman, but hangs around the dressing room fetching items for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/17 10:04 PM
2

She is? It says man is sideways, woman remains on her back. Reads like directions for sexy Twister; needs diagrams.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/17 08:59 PM
1

It doesn't do much for me either. Yes, I'd let my husband do it if he really wanted to. It's the psychological aspect for me - tonguing is soft and feminine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 06:08 PM
2

Do you direct this star plate or do you get to let her take the lead while you enjoy her expertise? I'm wondering if maybe your "direction" with your wife doesn't come across as sexy and dominating but at the same time safe and validating of her worth (which isn't easy to do, especially for someone who doesn't believe in love). If you don't need to direct your plates at all, you aren't getting practice at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/17 02:11 PM
2

She has a bit of fat on her ass and stomach, but not much. Her core is extremely strong. Her arms are a bit lacking, but nothing that a bit of training wouldn't tone up. She has a few sun wrinkles, but nothing major. Beautiful smile, perfect posture, lovely legs. Looks killer in a dress. Ah, to be 47 again! You probably realize that in 10 years there will be physical flaws that no amount of training will fix. Will it matter? As a woman who is there now, I'd like to think that when a guy really l…
/r/askMRP24/07/17 01:44 PM
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Although I've seen it often, I have never understood why couples in a flawed marriage will go out of their way to have a child. Having children is an irreversible step that can be a major stressor in even the best marriages. Yours is fragile. "Found someone to be the mother of my children"? Actually, you didn't. You found someone who is fulfilled spending her days tanning, lunching and getting her nails done. SAHM, done well, is a full-time job that can be awfully rough on your nails. You are yo…
/r/askMRP21/07/17 11:28 PM
2

But you are saying that romantic attraction is nonsexual and that people could want to "nest and make a family" with someone they are not sexually attracted to? That's what I can't imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 02:31 AM
2

Romantic attractiveness inspires nonsexual physical attention and "love", a desire to nest with and make a family with, all of the nonsexual aspects of mating Really? I can't imagine the desire to "nest" with someone I didn't feel sexual towards. For me (a woman), romantic attraction is most definitely sexual. I would characterize it as a desire for acts that lead up to and include lovemaking (holding hands, kissing, nuzzling, sex). Romantic sex is sensual, as opposed to lustful fucking. As exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 02:24 AM
1

A Non-Invasive Prenatal Paternity test can be done as early as 8 weeks into pregnancy. All that's required are a blood sample from the woman and a cheek swab from the possible father. It won't "prove" who the potential father is, but it can rule out who is not. http://americanpregnancy.org/prenatal-testing/non-invasive-prenatal-paternity-test-nipp/ If either of you balks at doing this, then you (both) have to admit that you want to keep the marriage going (for now) regardless of the paternity of…
/r/askMRP15/07/17 09:00 AM
3

I regret that I have only one upvote to give! They know how to conjure attraction. When I was in my 20s and single, an aerobics instructor in her mid-forties (and hot!) would sometimes hang out with her younger group of devotees and give us all kinds of advice. One piece I took to heart was that women have the power to "keep the romantic fires burning." I hadn't even met my future husband at the time but always remembered that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 12:00 PM
1

Wow - haven't heard/seen that in a million years! I didn't know it was still a thing. The lyrics I knew were different though. Right after "Sweet sweet baby, I'll never let you go" was the line "Just because I kissed you once, doesn't mean I love you so." So, see? Even at a young age girls don't love like boys hahaha....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 10:08 AM
2

particularly when what you're saying is exaggerated and hyperbolized to the point of literal absurdity When TRPers do it, it's called "Agree & Amplify" - and highly recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:48 PM
2

Yes, all forms of contraceptive should be covered. Why would premiums go up? Childbirth and abortion are more costly covered expenses than contraceptives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 01:52 PM
3

First: No. I am no longer oppressed by my female sex. I was young before Title IX was passed and blame this for the fact that I was not an athletic child/teen (unless you count mad jump-roping skills as athleticism) but other than that have been afforded the same opportunities given to males. Second: The older I get the more chivalry I encounter. It won't be long before a boy scout offers to help me cross the street! I like friendly politeness. If I get to a door first I open it for those behind…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 01:45 PM
1

What's FOB?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:26 PM
2

I saw your thread in ppd and did not contribute. You are looking at it from the point of view of how things "should" be theoretically. I'm a pragmatic sort of person, I look at how things are. Men do not get to decide whether or not a pregnancy will go to term. Women do. This is completely correct in my opinion. What is also true is that men are on the hook for child support if the woman decides to go to term. I do not agree with this. It is not fair that the woman gets to choose and the man has…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 02:37 PM
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Oh boo hoo. Yes, this is what I offer. Do you guys really not understand that PIV leads to pregnancy and no birth control method is 100% effective? AND THAT you have no control over what a woman chooses to do with her body? You don't get to "drive her ass" against her wishes. So yes, THINK long and hard about what a desirable outcome for unplanned pregnancy is for you, and make those intentions known, BEFORE you stick it in. Unless they were planning to marry if she got pregnant but then she cha…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 02:21 PM
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How long has she been your LTR? Had you two ever had a discussion about what you would do in case of a pregnancy? What type of birth control were you using? Was the Plan B pill not an option? If you were using reliable birth control, it may help to understand that for many people abortion is simply the back-up plan for when reliable birth control fails AND Plan B could not have been used because the time of conception wasn't known. (I just want to emphasize that Plan B is NOT abortion.) The only…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 02:00 PM
1

You feel that she is showing signs of depression because she is coming to terms with the end of her child-bearing years. Is it possible that cause and effect are inverted? Maybe she is clinically depressed and thinks having another baby will fix it.
/r/askMRP03/07/17 07:32 PM
1

Your GF is creating drama for herself. Drama -> tingles. She was even more upset the next day because A cold and sexless night. You could have shown her that she is the one you want, that you weren't "saving it" for random groupies. All that drama went unrewarded. sigh
/r/askMRP30/06/17 12:15 PM
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My hope for you is that you put aside your concerns about what she does and what attitude she has doing it and instead focus completely on your children. I gather that they are with her, living with in-laws. I hope that you go there every single day and take them out for those "adventures" you talked about last week. All three of them, even the baby. If your wife wants to come, let her. Not for her sake, but for the sake of your children so that they don't have to witness "daddy being mean to mo…
/r/askMRP27/06/17 01:57 PM
1

I've heard this, but I don't believe the women who say it. Neither do I. They say they "fell in love" but it's more like "learned to love" over time. I was responding to whether the relationship can last. I've seen plenty of proof that it can. It's not the kind of relationship I'd want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 11:10 PM
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It seems like it matters a great deal to You!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 10:56 PM
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huh? What the heck does "defy human psychology" even mean? It's not the laws of physics here. I feel neutral about my sexual history even though it's very different than smurf..'s. I've never had sex outside of a relationship and I've only had a few relationships. I have neither regrets nor pride about it, it just is. And I'm actually full of regrets and pride about other things in my past! For example, regret not always wearing sunscreen proud of earning a degree. But my sexual history? It's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 10:28 PM
1

Third.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:38 PM
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before marriage though, a guy can do whatever and say whatever that looks like commitment and still bail Yep - like The Doors song "Touch Me" - "I'm gonna love you Till the stars fall from the sky for you and I" Is that love you forever or until tomorrow morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:37 PM
1

I know many women in long term marriages who say that they weren't initially all that attracted to their husbands but fell in love over time. So yes, a relationship that starts out this way can last. The lack of initial attraction wasn't necessarily due to looks - "he was so immature when we started dating," "he was such a slob," "can you believe he used to wear socks with sandals??" etc. The "growing attraction" was built on the women making it their mission to change the guy. Aka nagging. I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:28 PM
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Body Pump type classes involve lifting weights, but not anywhere near the level of a man looking to get ripped. I am older than you. I wouldn't say I'm the strongest I've ever been but I'm definitely stronger than I was 10 years ago. Unfortunately, this doesn't equate to looking better than I did in my late 40's - exercise will not cure aging. But at least I'm staving off osteoporosis!
/r/askMRP13/06/17 03:59 AM
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Because it keeps me in good shape at my age.
/r/askMRP13/06/17 03:18 AM
2

OK then, if you are ever trying to help a woman lose weight, go ahead and focus on the number on the scale, not the process. Be sure to compare how much weight you've been able to lose in a week with how much she can. I'm sure this will motivate her to try harder and compete with you because that's the way women work. Or you could just dump her and watch her get thin for the next guy. No need to get jealous about this - she'll blow up again.
/r/askMRP13/06/17 12:38 AM
1

Yes - I do Body Pump classes. Girly, I know.
/r/askMRP13/06/17 12:23 AM
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From my own personal experience with weight loss, I think many women don't just "figure it out" because it takes so damn long to see any results. It seems like a guy can give up donuts for a week and lose 8 pounds. A women's weight naturally fluctuates with her hormonal cycle. She can be doing everything right but water retention shows the scale going up 3 pounds in one day. Ravenous hunger at certain times of month can make it hard to "do everything right" in the first place, and then it's espe…
/r/askMRP12/06/17 09:18 PM
2

I think at 33 Fualaau has surpassed the level of mental maturity possessed by MKL. A woman who would lust after a twelve year old boy, abandoning her own children to act on that lust, had to have a case of seriously impaired maturity development. He has probably had enough of being with a woman-child. And yes, that fucking younger/hotter/tighter thing too. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:53 AM
1

So it's not a lame hobby because if you're "somewhat in shape" you can pick up DTF chicks. What kind of shape is your wife's friend in?
/r/askMRP07/06/17 01:51 PM
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A year and a half is plenty of time for adults to know if the partner they are with is someone with whom they can commit to marriage. he tells me time and time again he wants to give me a good life, to him that's part of his worth as a man. What about to you? Does "giving you a good life" equate as "worth" to you? The impression I get from your words is that this guy is stereotypical marriage material to you: a good provider that adores you. But how do you feel about him? Does he excite you? Do …
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 01:30 AM
1

No, please don't cut it!! I'm close to your age and would kill for hair you describe! My hair is unruly and needs to be beaten into submission with the high heat setting of a blow dryer followed by a flat iron. Oh, and the silvery roots require touching up every three weeks. I am jealous of your hair and I don't even know you. There is nothing inappropriate about a beautiful head of long hair on a woman, regardless of age. Enjoy your long hair for as long as you want!
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 12:57 AM
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Light afternoon Yeah, the two older kids and the baby won't be needing anything from you...good time to write about your pick up lines. In 8 years maybe there'll be a subreddit to talk about how to use "withdrawal of attention" methods to get closer to your children.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/17 04:12 PM
2

I am amazed that someone with three young children, one under the age of one, has time for a full-time career, working out religiously, and number-chasing women several nights a week. Does your wife take care of everything else in the home or do you not sleep? I wonder if at any point you reflect on how you got here. You didn't just wake up one morning embroiled in a 3 kid dead bedroom marriage. You stuck with a woman who, according to your words, wasn't really into you. Instead of bailing early…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/17 04:07 PM
1

We old folks must understand each other :)
/r/askMRP30/05/17 08:52 PM
2

I wasn't unhappy to begin with, just looking for some fine-tuning. I stumbled in here after googling something along the likes of "how to get husband to be more aggressive in bed." I never came out and asked, but through reading learned that I should just tell him what I wanted. It worked, so in that sense - yes, I'm happier. As for my husband - he should be happier! I've been inspired here to OYS and have lost 7 pounds and firmed up a bit in the last year, so I definitely look and feel better. …
/r/askMRP30/05/17 08:43 PM
2

Yes, I am 28 - if you take that number and multiply by the same factor used for converting stated to actual n-count, lol. I really don't act too much like a silly girl, never have. But I admit to often thinking like one!
/r/askMRP27/05/17 04:47 PM
1

you're a silly girl haha, I wish! I'm an old broad...
/r/askMRP27/05/17 03:56 PM
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staring down the barrel of a marriage like this I wouldn't do it (get married), prenup or not, if I felt like this. At 3 weeks to go you should both be excited about tying the knot. All the money you and your 90 guests have already spent is a sunk cost. It's gone whether you live happily ever after or are divorced in 5 years.
/r/askMRP27/05/17 03:12 PM
2

Nah, it doesn't suck at all. The times when you've got everything in tune are so much more rewarding. As Steinbeck said: "What good is the warmth of summer, without the cold of winter to give it sweetness." I love being a woman - and a teacher (did I mention I get the summer off?)
/r/askMRP22/05/17 03:31 PM
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For me, I think the hardest part would be "WHO DID I MARRY?" Yes, definitely - and you've been married for only a couple of weeks. Imagine you've been married for decades thinking that your guy would never cheat on you. It's not that I think my husband is incapable of being attracted to another woman and acting on it - but I do believe he does not lie to me, implicitly or explicitly. To find out I'd been wrong about a key character trait of his that I treasured would be devastating.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 06:36 PM
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Best wishes for a long and happy marriage! No, I could not get past infidelity. I wouldn't even try to work things out if was a full-blown affair. I feel like the marriage was already dead if it got to that point. If it was a ONS I'm sure I would try but I know it wouldn't work. I have a long memory and an active imagination. I would want to know all the details. There would be no winning way for my husband to handle this. If he gave me any information I would use it against him forever. If he d…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 06:32 PM
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Yes.. I realize it wasn't about the kid. It was about her perceiving that I didn't have things handled But it's still a gross overreaction, even if you were mishandling things. I see everything through the lens of my own experience (yes, AWALT and proud of it) and as a teacher and mom here's what might have been going on in my head. Hubby is done with his job for the week and gets to enjoy Friday night with the kids. I have to work on a Friday night for fucking parent/teacher conferences (about …
/r/askMRP20/05/17 03:13 PM
2

Melania would fuck another dude in a second. She does not respect the man. She just respects the money. Let's hope she is. It would be a shame if a woman who keeps herself looking that hot was not enjoying a great sex life! Life is short.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 10:12 PM
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Your definition of a male "orbiter" is different from the one I've learned from the RP forums. Here, the term orbiter is used for a guy that hangs around a woman and acts as a good friend, but who actually yearns to have a sexual relationship with her. He acts as an emotional tampon when she complains that other men are treating her wrong. He steps up to do "manly" things (like move furniture, fix stuff) when she doesn't have a guy she's actually fucking available. You do not have orbiters. You …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 04:26 PM
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I had so many thoughts reading your report! It is incredibly difficult to parent an infant and work outside the home. Even if you have the kind of job that allows a ton of flexibility, it is still exhausting if you're doing both well. I wouldn't know from personal experience, because I didn't do it! I couldn't get my act together to work outside the home after having a baby. So huge props to you for pulling this off. -No one understands baby's needs/schedules like mom does. No One Else. Whether …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 02:11 PM
1

A degenerate hyperbola?
/r/askMRP12/05/17 12:08 PM
1

No, no, no, you've got it all wrong. You don't readjust your body while you are asleep. You are awakened and then readjust. I have never been penetrated while asleep. It's impossible because I am not in a position to be penetrated. There's some bumping and prodding and then I wake up before actual penetration takes place. I imply my consent with body movements that allow the penetration. I don't know what exactly happened with the OP and her ONS. Neither do you. I'm describing what has happened …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:07 AM
1

Whether or not they had sex before determines if signals and intentions may have gotten crossed for two young people who didn't really know each other and ended up in this situation. BTW, do you know for a fact that his dick was actually "inside her sleeping body" without her implied consent? Have you (if you are a woman) ever been awakened by someone attempting to fuck you? I have. Because I don't sleep with my legs spread wide open (I'm pretty sure just about everyone doesn't), when my husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 06:21 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:36 PM
2

None of my business who a guy who is not my partner has sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 12:51 AM
1

I don't consider a guy waking up a woman with whom he was having consensual intercourse a few hours prior by continuing the intercourse in the morning and then stopping when she did indeed wake up and ask him to stop to be the crime of sexual assault. (I think I was clear on that in my first post.) I don't know what most women would be OK with. It is difficult for me, a woman, to imagine being comfortable with having sex and falling asleep next to someone I barely know. I have never had that exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 12:47 AM
1

You want to switch from discussing an actual occurrence to hypotheticals. I don't. Sleeping ≠ unconscious. If you are trying to wake someone up by getting sexual with them, you wouldn't keep going if they didn't wake up. Because then they wouldn't have been sleeping, they'd be passed out. Different scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 04:02 PM
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For me, not worrying about getting pregnant and not having to deal with birth control at all made everything about sex better. We had been using condoms again, since the diaphragm & jelly combo failed. I insisted on using spermicide foam with the condom if I thought I was near ovulation and wasn't into PIV at all if at ovulation. Nothing sexy about condoms & foam. At least with a diaphragm, it can be inserted well in advance and doesn't interfere with sensation for the guy. It worked well for ye…
/r/askMRP30/04/17 03:39 PM
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ahhh, maybe not always lol My point was that I'm not aware of behaving any "hotter" during ovulation than at other times. As memory serves anyway. My husband had a vasectomy when I was in my early 40s so that was the end of my pregnancy worries.
/r/askMRP29/04/17 06:25 PM
1

Yes - but I always swallow.
/r/askMRP29/04/17 06:10 PM
1

My opinion: What he did was wrong, but I wouldn't call it sexual assault. You asked him to stop and he did. Let's play out a different scenario. Same events as the night before but you wake up first in the morning. You like the guy and those people you would have woken up the night before have all gone out for breakfast. You notice that he's got morning wood so you start fondling and then sucking his cock. He wakes up and asks you stop. You do. Was it sexual assault? I say it wasn't. Anything yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:46 PM
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The night before, your wife turned down sex. The next night she says "well, I don't know what you're doing, but I like it." This is her initiating. That's how we do it. This is how we say, "sorry about last night, please try again."
/r/askMRP29/04/17 02:55 PM
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Before I was married, I avoided PIV around ovulation because I did NOT want to get pregnant. My partners used condoms which are not 100% effective. Plan B birth control wasn't a thing back in those days. After I got married, I was even more careful around those days because not only was I not ready to become pregnant, once married I wouldn't have had an abortion if it had happened accidentally. We did other things during that interval. I find it odd that men here are tracking their partner's cyc…
/r/askMRP29/04/17 02:49 PM
1

wants AF with nice side of BB . . . every day Perfect. I'd buy a T-shirt with this emblazoned on it. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 10:36 PM
2

When I first saw the video I thought that maybe she got that much attention because her behavior/vibe is unusual for the setting. She appears completely affectless. She doesn't make eye contact or in any way encourage interaction but she makes no attempt to shut it down either. She's walking alone at a steady pace without any apparent aim. She's not carrying anything, she doesn't pause to window shop, check her phone, read a sign. Her bearing and stride look more suited to hiking in the woods th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:36 PM
2

None for me in my middle class, suburban nice neighborhood. Might have more to do with middle age than middle class. I'll admit it, I miss catcalls!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:15 PM
1

I enjoy having conversations with my husband. But he would never have the kinds of long conversations that can go on all afternoon that I have with my female friends. He's just not that chatty and I like him just the way he is.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 12:02 AM
1

Do you feel that it's normal for women to require all life situations to be on even keel in order to have a healthy libido? Maybe that's a separate discussion topic. I've been through all the stresses you mention except health issues and in over 25 years of marriage have never not wanted sex with my husband for any significant length of time. Even post partum I looked forward to my doctor giving me the green light for intercourse. I don't believe that having a wife that enjoys sex with him will …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 04:54 PM
1

A man that would have a woman for a best friend wouldn't be "manly" enough for me to be attracted to him. What's he doing with this female best friend? Likely not playing hockey, fishing, mountain biking and other things my husband enjoys doing with his friends before they kick back and have some beers. When I think of a guy whose best friend is a woman, he's the type of guy that likes to go shopping, have lunch, into long conversations- not my type.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 10:16 PM
2

This post sets off my spidey senses as a troll post. There are those here that say a man should never marry, not necessary, even if he wants kids. So OP is testing that- what will the response be when the woman is just wonderful, hot, a great mom, and oh yeah thanks to a recent RP sprinkling, now DTF on the regular? Not buying it. I agree with the general sentiment that these two should not get married, but for different reasons.
/r/askMRP22/04/17 12:33 AM
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Basically, her strategy is just to remain quiet and hope for the best. I am an intelligent and assertive person yet this is basically how I approached these kinds of tests in my pregnancy. Why? Because even though I am pro-choice, I knew I personally would not have an abortion unless there was definitive proof that going to term would have dire consequences. So what would I have done with the information that the fetus I was carrying was at risk for Down's Syndrome or some other abnormality? The…
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:23 PM
1

Believing this statement (son don't marry, daughter do marry) That wasn't the statement. This was the statement (emphasis mine). "You can live together, HAVE KIDS, joint income, be monogamous (or not) all while not being married." I would advise a woman AGAINST this. So far, no one here has come forth and said that this was a good idea for a woman - having kids without being married. A high quality woman who agrees to all of the above INCLUDING THE HAVING KIDS PART is a fool. (The only qualifier…
/r/askMRP14/04/17 02:19 PM
2

Yep! This is me. It probably helps that I wasn't smoking hot at 22 to begin with. I was naturally "average" but cared enough (was vain enough?) about my looks to always put in the work to present my best physical self. So a gal who woke up a 5-6 but didn't walk out the door until she looked like a 7. Since I've always had to work at it, it's second nature now in my 50s. My mindset for looking "amazing for her age" is not striving to look younger (would be nice, but it's a lost cause), but strivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:35 PM
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Who is discussing equality? I maintain that any woman who would agree to bear a man's children without the benefit of marriage is either foolish or low quality. Based on how you would counsel your own daughter it seems you agree. The rest of your comment here is just your hamster trying to spin some sense into the the illogical notion that men should have children without marrying while women should only have children if they marry. Good job throwing in AWALT and Brad Pitt to try and make it sou…
/r/askMRP14/04/17 03:43 AM
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And how high quality do you think that's going to be if all sons followed your own counsel? "You can live together, have kids, joint income, be monogamous (or not) all while not being married." Believing this statement is true for a son but not for a daughter is the kind of illogic RP accuses women of.
/r/askMRP14/04/17 03:08 AM
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Indeed, would he? My wish for my own daughter is that she marry the same kind of guy as her father (my husband). A man that is capable of and willing to commit to leading a wife and family. A man that would support her decision, both financially and emotionally, to stay home with their children before they reach school age. A man with his own hobbies and interests that is supportive of hers. A man that she is head over heels in love with. A man that is deserving of the quality woman that she is.
/r/askMRP14/04/17 02:46 AM
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I'm not disagreeing with you, but I stand by: If his needs include having children and he doesn't want to marry, he's got to do it with a low quality woman or a fool. I wouldn't counsel my own daughter to have children out of wedlock, would you?
/r/askMRP14/04/17 12:36 AM
2

While it's true that you can have kids together without it, any woman that would bear a man's children without the benefit of marriage is either low quality or a fool.
/r/askMRP13/04/17 10:26 PM
2

Discussing female sexual strategy from a non-feminist viewpoint and posting little vignettes of crappy marriages for the sole purpose of bashing feminism are two distinctly different things. The first can lead to rich discussion of the power of women to leverage their femininity to achieve their longterm relationship goals. For women that want the traditional life of a long marriage with children it’s really a life goal. The discussion becomes self-improvement, self-awareness, femininity, person…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 04:11 AM
2

That's a good one! I'll be sure to tell my husband's 87 year old aunt that she can blame modern feminism for the crappy marriage she entered into in 1952. It was a lot like Lucy's - hubby brought home the paycheck and did fuck all else, leaving it all up to Aunt Pauline. No need to apologize, I am enjoying this discussion quite a bit. I am truly amazed that this sub attracts people that eschew personal responsibility, preferring to blame personal shortcomings/failures on ill-defined concepts lik…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 02:50 AM
1

No where did I say that all women should go to college. I am far from an elitist, I am a pragmatist. You call "feminism" a ridiculous identifier but yet you chose to use it as the title of your post. So if your friend called herself a devout Christian, would the title of your post be "A Modern Devout Christian Marriage?" The point of your post is lost on me. It starts off with "The majority of my friends are not traditionalists" and then you go on to describe a "traditional" marriage. If it make…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 11:37 PM
2

But you keep referring to Lucy as a feminist. Why? Because she says so? She's not a feminist, she's the polar opposite of a real feminist. A real feminist has a life plan and takes responsibility for it. If things don't go according to plan she adjusts and takes responsibility for that too. Lucy got pregnant by accident. Boo fucking hoo. She should have either had an abortion and continued with her life plan or embraced being a SAHM if it didn't make sense to pay for child care. Lucy didn't have…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 08:46 PM
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I don't understand the title of your post. What is modern feminism? I'm a feminist and I'm not Lucy. I would never be a mother to my husband. In her situation, I would not be drinking, smoking and taking antidepressants. I would be leveraging the education I completed by age 22 into a job that would pay enough to support me and my two children after I kicked my slob of a video game addicted no-value-added husband to the curb. That is what a feminist would do.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 05:43 PM
1

I'm not a man, but if I were one I would not enter into a relationship with this woman. I can say this with confidence because in my younger days I wouldn't ever consider dating a man who had kids. No matter how they came about or how great and good looking the guy was or how much money he had, kids were a deal breaker for even dating, much less a relationship. So I guess the condition of "getting on like a house on fire" could not have been met since there would be no getting together in the fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 11:37 PM
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UPDATE: She called me back. The rude attitude was removed from her voice. Said she can reschedule the meeting for tomorrow at 10am and asked if I was available. I said I was available. New meeting set for tomorrow at 10am. Why did your wife reschedule for a time that would require you to leave work and help out? Why not reschedule for when your child is feeling better and is back in school?
/r/askMRP22/03/17 09:09 PM
2

Me: Do these pants make my ass look fat? Him: (lying) No, you look fine, let's go already. Me: (knowing he's lying) Ok.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 06:21 PM
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What a bunch of B.S. Sorry, I stopped watching after about 4 minutes. It was taking him too long to make a point (I actually don't care what the waiting room was for, or how pretty the girl was, and don't need to be told more than one way about how this girl was trying to study). He is too unattractive to watch ramble on and on for 15 minutes. I got an education in my 20s. Because of it I have always been able to support myself in a manner that suits me. I did end up getting married, having a ch…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 06:18 PM
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H: I wouldn't join you if my life depended on it after the things you've said and done. When I first read that, I thought what could he possibly have done? Must've been pretty bad because I can't imagine having someone go off on me like that. And this not even blurted out in the heat of an argument, but texted - she must have some valid pent up anger. And then I realized I've received texts exactly like that. Often. From my daughter from ages 15-17. Holy shit, the caricature became real.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 12:49 AM
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Your boss had to give a verbal warning because company protocol requires it. If he doesn't follow this protocol, the company could be held liable for not promptly and properly responding to an allegation of sexual harassment. While this is the official policy, unofficially the woman who reported you did herself NO favors. When HR gets these kinds of complaints (minor allegations that could easily be discredited), it's the complainer who is regarded as a trouble maker. She just stamped herself as…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 05:30 PM
1

The whole "menopause" thing had me spinning for a few years Which thing - worrying about what menopause would bring or actually living through your wife's menopause? Is she officially through it? (one year from last period) I'm finding a big uptick in libido as I go through it. I'm worried it won't last.
/r/askMRP14/03/17 04:33 PM
1

Julianne Moore. We're around the same age, height, body type. I love her style. She's contemporary yet classic with an understated sexiness. She doesn't try to look younger; she owns her age. I wish I could pull off that long red hair, but it would clash with my complexion.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 05:31 AM
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Interesting...I'm a woman and that's exactly what I want when I get home - moments of peaceful and quiet companionship with space to unwind without engaging. And I like cats.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 05:05 AM
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The truth is that she's likely much less shouty and moody when you're not around. And you can't stand that she's horrible so you use the kids as excuse and do a dramatic captain saver act in front of her AND the kids I hope OP listens carefully to this. This dynamic is so harmful for the kids. They won't see it as the "sane" parent making them feel safe as he tries to fix mom's craziness. They'll see it as when dad's around, mommy hurts...things are calmer when dad's not here. Or at least it's e…
/r/askMRP11/03/17 01:25 AM
2

Can you clarify: "She even remarks that I like it when she doesn't " You like it when she doesn't, what?...give you a blowjob? Did you always prefer PIV or is it more so now that oral is more frequent? Enquiring minds want to know.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 03:50 AM
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thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 10:48 PM
1

What does BB stand for? My mind is veering to "big busted" but I know that can't be right! :) edit: Further down this thread there is CC - and we all know where the mind will veer to with that one.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 02:56 AM
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I'm wondering if you are actually attracted to your wife. I don't expect an answer. I'm fairly certain that I wouldn't be attracted to her if I were you, but I'm not a man and I don't know how it works for guys. Your situation has me wondering if you really desire her or if you are going through the motions of what a husband who wants to have sex with his wife should do, because he should want to have sex with her, even though she doesn't "deserve" his desire. Then it becomes a laboratory experi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 04:15 PM
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My guess is that they read a bit first and then lie down with the child while he falls asleep. And then mom falls asleep too.
/r/askMRP25/02/17 11:30 PM
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I do the finances in my family for the same reasons you are giving: I'm the one with the passion for it and am therefore better at it. My husband's leadership role in this is to delegate the work to me, LOL. "We should do x and here is why" is EXACTLY how I come at it. My husband's manhood isn't threatened by this. I couldn't be with a guy who expected me to act like a child.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 07:33 PM
1

I don't think this data point of one proves anything about women in high status careers! I know plenty of high-earning women that are very happy with their lesser-earning s.o.'s and and with their lives in general.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 07:28 PM
2

But I feel like that was her way of being "submissive" - again, can you imagine a female career woman being submissive? Yes. I am assertive, competent and highly qualified at work. This was true before I quit a successful career to be a SAHM and after I went back to work. My husband has always supported my goals and yes, I am submissive to him.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 07:23 PM
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I'm having a hard time with a woman who agrees to be a SAHM just because her husband wants her to. She sounds like one of those people who can never be happy. She had the high status job, but that wasn't enough for her - had to have a guy with one too. Does she find one? No, she finds the "lowly" general manager (wow, what what snob) and works on molding him. Does she want to be a SAHM? Apparently not, but thinks it makes her husband, and in turn her, look more "high status." I know plenty of wo…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 07:09 PM
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She quit her job so that he could be the successful one or so that she could stay home with the kid? Huge difference there. She had a nice little life plan for herself and she led her husband into it: I'll support us while you increase your earning potential, then you will a lucrative but stressful career so that I can enjoy being a SAHM. Quality men don't need their wives to quit their jobs so that they can look like the successful one. They don't need women to "advise them in economic growth" …
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 07:00 PM
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I'm calling BS on the notion that a woman can make her "boyfriend/husband into the man that he is now." If these women wanted to become CEOs (or whatever level of achievement/status they feel they deserve) they should have put the effort into themselves instead of their men. Why didn't they? There are plenty of female CEOs out there, why aren't they one of them? They need to face the reality that while they (maybe) had the smarts, they didn't have the ambition and drive that their men did. The f…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 06:47 PM
1

Can you provide any links to studies that suggest this? Someone in RPW alluded to a CDC report along these lines but when I asked him for a link he deleted his comment. I searched but haven't been able to find anything definitive. I did find an article that cited a study that said women with 0 or 1 prior partner were least likely to divorce but then women with 2 prior partners were more likely than those with 3 - 9.
/r/askMRP19/02/17 03:02 AM
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Mrs has no interest in trying MMF as she was a virgin when we met. I'm curious as to why having once been a virgin is the explanation for why a woman would have no interest in a MMF threesome.
/r/askMRP19/02/17 02:45 AM
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A guy I train with at the gym (who is really attractive) used to be just a friend to me (I didn't want anything else)..but yesterday I was joking around with him kind of physically after training and I had to lock myself in my room with my vibrator for an hour after. That was honestly when I started debating whether waiting is still good for my mental and physical health - what I did wasn't normal. I am really worried. Jeez, I feel old. When I was in my 20s and felt like this about a guy, I did …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 03:10 PM
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Thank you Willow-girl! I started to write what would have been a long response to the OP, and found I was just getting irritated and snarky. I thought - there's 30+ responses, let's see if someone else said what I feel in a more diplomatic way. Yep, here it is!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 03:22 PM
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She half-heartedly came just before I did. Translation: she faked that orgasm so that you would finish up. Is it possible that she was almost there and then the change in positions caused her to "lose" that orgasm. For me, if I'm just about to come, whatever is going on right then needs to keep going on. It's possible that the switch in positions killed the physiological momentum needed to get over the edge and then after the fact she attributed it to your words.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 04:26 PM
1

A man shouldn't stand out like a sexily dressed woman. Playing up your beauty and sexiness is a feminine trait. Liev Shreiber always looks good. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2051703/Naomi-Watts-reunites-Liev-Schreiber-romantic-dinner-date.html
/r/askMRP09/02/17 04:03 PM
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the strange = alternate pussy
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 03:46 PM
12

hahahaha, "blow jobs" made me laugh out loud. Obviously you take it as a given that regular ol' PIV sex is happening. I had no idea how important blow jobs were to men before I stumbled onto these RP sites. I mean sure, I figured guys obviously like them, but I didn't realize how much it validates their worth as a man. It's always been a part of our repertoire. When we were first married, my husband was doing the laundry shirtless with a pair of jeans that made him look particularly sexy. I unzi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 03:00 PM
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It's hard for me to figure out if the vibe here is actually "anti-feminist" because I'm not sure what being a feminist even means today. I always considered myself to be one. There are others who post here that are certainly what I'd call feminists. To me, the polar opposite of an RP woman is not a feminist, it's a "damsel-in-distress" faker that puts on a helpless act in an attempt to get some guy to take care of her. Having a career, even a high powered one in a male dominated field, need not …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 02:53 PM
1

This! My response was going to be that the best way to make the transition is to live independently for a while. I believe every person, male or female, should live as an independent adult before partnering up with a significant other or spouse.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 06:06 PM
2

I was gonna ask too, but I've got a couple of decades on deadsandsushi and I think her program would kill me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 01:10 AM
2

I have no idea when I peaked, but I can tell you what to expect as you age. If you're the type of woman that gets all offended when a guy notices your looks before anything else, you are going to LOVE getting older, LOL.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 01:08 AM
1

Pssshhh... Peak at 46? With your regimen and dedication, I think not!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 01:05 AM
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I'm not allowed to give advice here so I'm just offering my perspective as an older person with some life experience. Not being on the same page regarding having children is a deal breaker, full stop. Even if you aren't absolutely sure about not wanting kids - since she is adamant about having them - deal breaker. It's possible for a guy to not want to have kids when he is younger and later change his mind. It could be that he changes internally or it could be that he finds himself in a differen…
/r/askMRP30/01/17 11:16 PM
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i'm more articulate and philosophical and can word things for womens brains Wow, and you are calling her the pseudo intellectual? Hilarious. She doesn't want you to use your tongue to articulate words for her brain. She'd like to get some tongue action on her clit without having to commit to an LTR with you. You're fooling yourself if you think she's getting attached to you. If she was, the blowjobs would be getting better and better, not disappearing.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 07:07 PM
1

How do you know the estrogen levels of the women in the pictures you linked to? And are you saying that the "very high estrogen" woman is fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 06:49 PM
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hahaha, is this your standard reply when you have no source?
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 01:56 AM
4

Only about 30% of women actually enjoy masturbation. Your statement isn't clear as it can be taken two ways. One is that out of all the women who masturbate, only about 30% actually enjoy it. The other is that only 30% of all women masturbate. Either way is total b.s. Women who don't actually enjoy masturbation don't masturbate at all and studies show that 92% of all women masturbate. Also, a lot of women don't like the idea of putting their fingers up there. It's a wet smelly hole just like you…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 01:54 AM
1

Is it though? I think we want both. The intimate lake paddle reminiscing AND the excitement generated when your husband treats you the way he did when you first met.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 02:13 AM
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Ha, I thought the "men are the true romantics" line I see here from time to time was total bullshit but if this is the way you really feel I guess there could be some truth to it! I don't know what is the norm for my friends' sex lives, we don't talk about it. I feel like a lot of women my age, and even younger actually, give up on being sexual and feminine. They gain weight, dress frumpy, stop coloring their hair. Or worse, color it only for special occasions so that the rest of the time there'…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 01:54 AM
1

OK, so now I'm curious again - when you said it was "desire and attraction" that made the fling worth it I assumed that was missing at home. Is it then the excitement of strange more so than being desired? I don't expect an answer, I'm just intrigued for a couple of reasons. The first is that as an older woman myself I wonder how long my husband will really be attracted to me. The second is that any woman that's ever confided to me about a little fling has sounded exactly like you do. Women and …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 03:03 AM
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While it is possible that your wife changed as a reflection of your own performance, in which case your wife MAY once again come to reflect your new level, it is also possible she changed because she wants to be someone different or simply is different (menopause?). It is interesting (hopeful?) to me that when you're considering the change in OP's wife you don't mention the one irrevocable aspect that she has absolutely no control over. Even if she follows his lead and comes back around, or isn'…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 02:50 AM
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Would this have "just happened" if, with your wife, things weren't "increasingly dead bedroom?" Just curious. edit: OK, nevermind - I see you have basically answered this later; I should have read further.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 04:37 PM
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Is the Google location in a country where if you were married she'd be able to immediately work without needing residency? If it is, and since you are "super happy and in love," marry her and take the job. Did that last sentence send shivers up your spine and make you want to puke? Then there is no point to her jumping through hoops to find a job/move to a new country. If you don't want her enough to commit, you will either: -eventually resent having passed up this job offer to stay with her, or…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 01:09 AM
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Maybe the problem is your Stage One. I've only had four relationships in my life, the last and current one being with my husband of a long long time. NONE of them started with your stage one! Not my best friend, no vulnerability shown at all in early stages, and massive gender differentiation - as in "I hope this guy wants to get into my pants enough to have a relationship with me because he sure as hell is turning me on!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 10:45 PM
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My background: I got married at 27 and have been happily married for over 25 years. I had 3 relationships varying from 3 months to 5+ years in duration before meeting my husband. I had a few dates here and there that didn't lead to relationships. No "cock carousel," no one-night stands, no living together (even with my husband before marriage.) What I believe is important for a happy marriage: above all else, sexual chemistry. If he doesn't turn you on from the very beginning, find someone who d…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 06:03 PM
2

On one hand, she gave up her virginity to me and at first we couldn't keep our hands off each other. On the other, the sex has been vanilla ever since You married a virgin. If the sex has been vanilla, whose fault is that? Women get better at sex if they have practice with a good instructor ;).
/r/askMRP07/01/17 04:48 PM
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Are the no's really hard no's and when she's bringing it up the next day is it belittling or is it whiny? Because to me it reads like she was needing you to push a bit harder in those instances. Especially in the first one: "kinda receptive," then next day looking for comfort. Maybe since there are times when she responds easily or initiates herself, you feel that there isn't/shouldn't be a need for you to be more aggressive. For me there are times when I'm not really in the mood but with more p…
/r/askMRP06/01/17 11:09 PM
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about 10 couples were over. Some, our swinger friends, some regular friends. She is only supposed to be with men we both meet and agree on. Not take three strangers on the side of my house and let them violate her pussy. Yes she did break a rule, but she may bot think that because we "know the guy". Which is it, do you know these men or are they complete strangers? Your story is inconsistent. Are you making up shit?
/r/askMRP02/01/17 10:35 PM
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What do you mean "get to see my son every week since...in same town"? Who is your son's father? Is it the guy you moved 750 miles away from? Why do you only see your son every week and not live with him? As far as having to "go to college, get degree & work too," ALL adults should have the education and/or skills to be able to support themselves and any children they have. Even if one doesn't actually need to work (because their partner is the breadwinner), they should be able to support themsel…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 09:55 PM
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Why did you ask her for her tablet on the first night, if not to initiate sex? When my husband takes the book that I'm reading in bed out of my hands it only means one thing. Looks like you are intent on setting "do not disturb my sleep" boundaries while your poor wife is hoping to get laid. Protip: fuck first and you'll both sleep better!
/r/askMRP29/12/16 01:31 PM
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You strike me as being a "high-maintenance" type of person. It's possible that your boyfriend wanted to enjoy the movie and was having a hard time doing so because of all the talking going on. And then you started up too. He (erroneously, it turns out) thought that since the two of you are a team, he could prevent the two of you from adding to the chatter by getting you to focus on the movie. He tried to lead you to do that but instead of following his lead you tried to make a big deal out of a …
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/16 08:37 PM
3

However, the therapy is decidedly BP Can you elaborate on what this means? It sounds like you may need a different therapist.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/16 04:53 PM
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At best, your gf is a drama queen. If a drunk friend tried to kiss me I would just push him aside and avoid him. I would not feel the need for even one shower or to text my husband about it. But I'm an old broad who doesn't live in a "rape culture" world. Looks like you've already figured out what's most likely: she is flirting with them for fun and they are thinking its real. At worst, she's outright lying. She actually did get it on with the guy and, rather than keep it a secret, is giving you…
/r/askTRP26/12/16 03:27 PM
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It's hard to notice, but she has told me. By telling you, she is looking for you to say something like, "you can't even notice, you're still hot (to me)." Best not to say anything remotely resembling that when what you are actually thinking is what you wrote in your second paragraph. The Healthy At Every Size movement would have us believe that weight gain is inevitable and it's OK, even sexy. Think "All About That Bass" (Meghan Trainor song) and the fuss about Ashley Graham. Yes, it gets harder…
/r/askMRP17/12/16 10:14 PM
1

I think what MRP espouses is for men to improve themselves both physically and mentally. Having their wives find them attractive again is a side effect, not the goal. The other side effect is (hopefully) that their wives will follow their lead and also improve. If not, the idea is that if the wife doesn't become the kind of woman that the new and improved RP man deserves, there's an abundance of women out there that will be happy to take her place. This is common sense to me, for both the goose …
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 12:39 AM
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I have been in a healthy, happy marriage for over two decades and I don't feel dread. BUT I've never thought for a minute that my husband couldn't/wouldn't walk (whether "step out" or actually divorce) if I became a harpy, nagging, obese, sloppy shrew. Never mind dead bedroom. (That actually boggles my mind - I had no idea it was so common for married or long term couples to stop fucking.) I've only come to this realization after discovering the whole RP concept and learning about terms like dre…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 10:14 PM
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hahaha, good one!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 04:04 AM
1

What is FFA?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 01:26 AM
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Yeah, I used to think that - then I got old, lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:07 AM
1

of course i would. Whether you would, wouldn't, should, shouldn't wasn't my point at all - just that the amoral aspect of the sub would likely give a woman pause whereas the rest of it - OYS, be strong!fun!attractive!lead!, etc is pretty easy for a wife to get behind. but the person who owns his shit would be forthright and the whole notion of being "caught" wouldn't even exist. You may personally feel this way but there are those here who would not only disagree with this but would advise a guy…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:06 AM
1

Because he is describing this sub for his wife. The concept of amorality in MRP is the only part of it that rubs me the wrong way and I imagine most wives/s.o.'s would feel the same. And by that I do not mean the "fuck me or fuck you" dread level, but the idea that you could be a great wife and your RP husband's RP internet buddies would still support his extra-marital sex adventures. Which is not to say that I think RP guy = greater risk of cheating. In every single friend's marriage I know of …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 01:53 AM
1

SHIT! Is this true? Damn, I'm having SUCH a good time right now! Are we really going to go out of business? Please tell me he's wrong..
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 12:09 AM
0

I teach high school math and of course regularly get kids this age to do their homework. If your daughter needs the drills for remediation, and is already getting her regular homework done, I would make it more enticing by making some sort of game out of it before I would start introducing restrictions and punishments. You can PM me for some ideas. If it's for enrichment (your daughter is advanced at math and is bored by a too easy math class) I would give her challenge problems to do and reward…
/r/askMRP04/12/16 08:15 PM
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That should do the trick!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 01:57 AM
0

It is also inspirational to our daughters to see their Mom learning, reading motivational books and leading a team. She has taught them a lot about being a happy person over that past few years. The main fallout would land on the kids. I want to avoid that if at all possible. What do you feel the fallout will be for your kids? They wouldn't miss out on much mom time because from what you say it doesn't sound like there's an abundance of that to begin with. Are you worried that they won't learn a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 01:54 AM
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Can you provide links to these studies?
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 03:24 AM
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Your men only RL clubs were Men Only. This sub has guidelines that allow for women posters. I'm fine with the sub itself, including the posting guidelines, and have no problem wading in here. Getting those guidelines changed to No Women Allowed would, imo, be more effective than continued whining about female intruders. Disclaimer: that last sentence is merely my opinion and not intended to be advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 05:57 PM
1

A traditional girl with solid values, low n-count, takes care of her looks, can delay gratification, pleasant company, submissive, that type of girl is praised. Maybe in theory, but in practice one doesn't see this praise. What I do see a ton of is AWALT, there are no unicorns, they are lazy, illogical, unsupportive, etc. While I get that this happens because men find their way to RP subs because they are having problems, it makes me wonder if going on and on about how crappy women are is going …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 01:23 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/5sdWVxV.jpg
/r/askMRP24/11/16 12:30 AM
2

Did you pay for your own ring? We split the cost for my engagement ring, our wedding rings and the honeymoon. Give him a refund Can it be in 1987 dollars or do I have go with current value? lol
/r/askMRP23/11/16 04:49 PM
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The thing people forget about Jewelry is that the idea is to give something that represents a thought, memory or idea. Guys get caught up in the expense, I agree. The reason I hate getting expensive jewelry as a gift is because for that kind of money I'd rather pick it out myself. If I get a $30 pair of earrings that aren't exactly what I would choose, so what - I'll happily wear them and be grateful. They are part of the rotation and even if they're not my favorite, it's the thought that counts…
/r/askMRP23/11/16 04:11 PM
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if a cute girl sees you with an ugly girl, she thinks you're not valuable. No! If an attractive man accepts the offer to dance with someone less attractive he looks like a magnanimous, confident and fun loving guy. He doesn't need to be validated by arm-candy, he is the prize.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 02:37 PM
1

ah, thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 01:55 PM
1

What are you referring to? (just curious)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 01:22 PM
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Hahahaha, that is freakin' hilarious! Seriously, the questions cracked me up. "Has she ever cheated on you?" "Has she ever caught you cheating on her?" How much more do you have to spend if you get caught cheating I wonder? Too funny. I am active in a forum that is specifically about diamonds and engagement rings, just because I really love diamonds (AWALT). But, as a real feminist (not SJW), I also believe in buying my own. If I shared this link there everyone would go nuts and I'd probably get…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 01:36 AM
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Feeling uneasy? Welcome to women's world! This is the way it is for us all.the.time. And we don't get to wonder how we compare to only the other women in our age group, it's ALL women. So right now your wife is 27 and the hottest babe in the group. In 10 years she'll be 37 and may still be the hottest of all her peers, but none of them will compare to the hot younger women in full bloom...
/r/askMRP19/11/16 05:35 PM
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I guess I thought all of that was just normal stuff that dads WANT TO DO. Not out of obligation, not because they think it might get them laid, but because they genuinely love their kids and enjoy being around them! I personally know many woman with severe control issues who, consciously or not, sabotage their husband's efforts to bond with his own children. It's not good for anyone - mom, dad and certainly not the kids. The men may WANT to be active dads, but it doesn't feel "normal" because th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 12:37 AM
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OK thanks guys, you may have finally chased me out of here. ಠ_ಠ
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 11:11 PM
1

she can so easily deprioritize sex because, by her own admission she "probably" had enough sex to last a lifetime before meeting me. That woulda been handy fucking information to have before I committed my life to her. I seriously doubt that it's possible for anyone to get enough sex to last a lifetime. This is just a different way for her to say "I don't want to have sex (with you)". Women can go a long time without physical sexual gratification. I think /u/bluepillprofessor has referred to us …
/r/askMRP06/11/16 10:58 PM
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If I'm ready for sex, I will flirt with my man, stand or walk suggestively, run my hand lightly over my breasts while talking to him, walk by naked, etc. Wait, I thought this was initiating!
/r/askMRP06/11/16 05:08 PM
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Wow, this is such an enlightening read for me! Because I was never incredibly hot at 18-19, in fact needed much effort to work up to an HB7 among that age group. I would never have found being compared to other women intoxicating, just severely anxiety producing, because there were plenty out there against whom I'd suffer in comparison. Reading your post gives me insight as to how it must have been for a species of woman that I was not: the incredibly beautiful type that had guys all over her. I…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 09:56 PM
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because her folks will accuse her of letting me walk all over her. You are her husband, making a decision that you know is right for your family. Your FIL doesn't make the decisions for your family, that is YOUR role. Not stepping up is shirking your responsibility and no good will come of it. A wife following her husband's lead is only being "walked on" if her husband is not a fit husband. Are you? Seriously, if at any time in my marriage any of my blood relatives dared accuse me of "letting my…
/r/askMRP05/11/16 08:42 PM
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"I just don't feel sexy or attractive at all right now". "Maybe if you just told me you think I'm pretty more often". Aside from getting more attractive myself, what do I do with this test from her? The old me would just commit to telling her I think she's pretty every day. How did you respond? Did you let her comment just hang in the air while thinking, hmm, I've got to make myself even more attractive? What would happen if your response to this kind of comment was to push through and let her k…
/r/askMRP05/11/16 04:40 PM
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I read them and my husband doesn't, he doesn't understand my fascination with reddit at all. (It's OK, I don't get his interest in professional sports either.) While I understand how women would be upset if their husbands adopted the TRP sub mentality, I don't see what they would have against MRP. Advising to men: own your shit, lead your family, get in and stay in shape, fix stuff around the house, help with the kids & housework, knock off the porn, create excitement & fun, be great in bed - wh…
/r/askMRP05/11/16 03:47 PM
1

Just leaving the house would have been a victory. Absolutely this. I was going to say don't even wait to wake up the next morning to start again. There is this classic "fat logic" thinking where people trying to lose weight will, having gone off their diet plan, proceed to completely blow it up by eating everything in sight with the promise that they'll start again tomorrow. Anything you do that's part of your plan is better than not doing anything at all or worse, doing something completely opp…
/r/askMRP05/11/16 03:35 PM
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(cheating I know) Nothing wrong with cheating!
/r/askMRP03/11/16 10:41 PM
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This is why you go to your captain with your problem, not your solution. Wait, a guy that a woman has been dating for 10 months is her captain? IMO (and maybe this goes against the whole idea of being a red pill woman, I don't know) accepting the captain role in relationship should be both an honor and a responsibility for a guy and a woman should vet, vet, vet before she agrees to let some guy be her captain. The whole captain/first officer relationship takes place in either a husband/wife or s…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 04:32 PM
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I've been married for over 25 years and my husband and I have a very active sex life. With each other, lol. In fact, sex quality/variety has increased over the last 5 years. Since I am a woman and AWALT, those studies must be bunk ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/16 03:15 AM
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OK, it's just that you write these detailed posts but don't seem to really listen to (or understand?) what these guys are telling you. It made me wonder if you were a troll.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 02:01 AM
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Are you for real? Honestly, I'm not sure. If you are, I hope she not only gives you a good one, but likes it so much she comes back for more. Enjoy.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 01:46 AM
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Yes and she should hurry the fuck up. Jesus christ, she had that kid, what, 10 weeks ago now? And she's still struggling with baby weight? Fucking slacker. There is no reason why she shouldn't be hitting Weight Watchers and the gym. She's got all the time in the world to do this, it's not like she has to attend to her husband much; he's busy going to afternoon football games with his buds when he's not hanging around jazz bars sipping whiskey. And please don't use those other 2 kids as an excuse…
/r/askMRP25/10/16 02:19 AM
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Great post, I printed it out!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 12:05 AM
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I took the sex description as shorthand for letting the guys know that yes, his wife is attracted to him, this isn't a question of not lifting, etc. I did not take it as him saying "I'm so alpha I don't need to provide this emotional stuff." His other posts reflect that he realizes this was lacking.
/r/askMRP22/10/16 07:55 PM
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I couldn't disagree more with this. Telling your spouse you won't stay in a marriage where s/he has private communication with a person they admit to being emotionally attracted to is not issuing an ultimatum. It's making clear your standards for marriage. I find your notion of the wife being forced to make a captain-like decision laughable. She screwed up, big time. Her husband now views her as a dishonest person. If my husband thought of me this way I would be upset to my core. Her only decisi…
/r/askMRP22/10/16 07:50 PM
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You are probably right, there is something she needs and isn't getting from you, but that doesn't excuse the behavior. To me it sounds as if she just doesn't get how big a deal this is. I think your plan is a good one because it will drive the point home. If you were to say - sure call your emotional lover one last time hon - it lets her go on believing that it was just an emotional affair, she didn't really fuck up. Good luck - I hope this wakes her up and she turns things around. Only then can…
/r/askMRP22/10/16 07:29 PM
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1.) The fact that a wife asks for the private conversation in the first place shows that she doesn't respect you enough and if you say yes, she'll value you even less. I think men view an emotional affair as not being as serious as a physical one, but for a woman (me anyway) they are pretty much equal. If my husband pulled this on me, it would be the same for me as if I found out my husband had been fucking another woman for the past three months and his plan to end it would be to fuck her one l…
/r/askMRP22/10/16 04:36 PM
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"Shhh... shhh... It's okay. You do not have to worry about this, I will carry this weight for you. It's going to be okay. I promise." I love this! Can be used in any situation where a person projects their own issues/insecurites on you and so much more polite than "mind your own business."
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/16 12:03 AM
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Happy Birthday Willow-girl!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 01:34 AM
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Do I have this right: you are planning to spend Thanksgiving with your family, and then, because not seeing them for Christmas as well wouldn't "be fair" to them, going up again the week before Christmas which happens to be three weeks after the first trip. This makes sense to you? Why do you need to see your family again 3 weeks later? Unless I'm missing something, the only one who's getting her needs met is your mother. This plan is a pain in the ass for you. For your wife it sucks whether she…
/r/askMRP17/10/16 10:04 PM
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Your weight and well-being are certainly 100% under your control. Good for you for taking care of yourself! I wish you the best.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 12:25 AM
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You have never had an orgasm? Did you mean with a partner or never ever. Have you ever masturbated? In answer to your question, I've never pretended to enjoy sex with my husband and we've been together a long time. I have many times gone along with having sex when not in the mood. I would say that nearly all of those times I ended up enjoying it even if I didn't necessarily orgasm. Maybe a few times in our entire relationship it was totally meh for me - but I didn't pretend otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/16 09:30 PM
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Looks to me he's doing the male version of what TRP says women do to beta males. Isn't the male complaint that women will put out like porn stars until the ring goes on and then the sex dries up? Your boyfriend courted you into a nice little spot for himself, you take care of him when he's in the mood for you and the rest of the time he's living exactly the life he wants without considering your needs. Which is fine, you're not married. I'm sorry, but I don't see the difference between what you'…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/16 09:08 PM
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You were in her frame from the beginning, as evidenced by the fact that you let your wife's idea be the plan for a night out with your buds. It's a bachelor party, nothing to do with her, but she felt comfortable giving her opinion and you felt comfortable going with it. When the plan changed, it was like mommy had a nice idea for a fun party but the boys misbehaved and now mom is mad. FWIW, my husband and I had a similar situation years ago. As best man, he was in charge of his friend's bachelo…
/r/askMRP15/10/16 06:37 PM
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If a man is going into marriage expecting to cheat, why get married at all? I use cheat because I can't think of a different word. I don't think you meant open on both sides, or even open in the sense that it's one-sided but the wife tacitly agrees, since you said "subversively." I am not trying to argue the point with you, I am genuinely curious. Why would a guy who knows he wants to continue to fuck other women, even saying that's what a guy should do, get married at all? Non-married LTRs are …
/r/askMRP14/10/16 10:52 PM
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Vehemently disagree with that one. No person needs to mold themselves to meet the specifications/desires of another. What if your SO only wanted to have sex once a month instead of once a day - would you conform to that? For longterm happiness it's better to find a good match, sexually and otherwise. If a woman finds herself not wanting to have sex with her boyfriend, instead of worrying about losing him to all those other women that will fulfill his needs she should let him go and find someone …
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 03:52 AM
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LOL I had to look up CICO. I thought it was going to be some dire feminist propaganda that would be dangerous to life as we know it. Turns out it's Calories In Calories Out! For the record, that's how I lost 30 pounds dear. And I like carbs too.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 11:57 PM
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Though I could be wrong, I seriously doubt a female could truly commit to a male unless she depends on him for survival. If she knows she can survive without you, then why wouldn't she pull some AWALT shit? I'll answer from my data point of one. I don't depend on my husband for survival. I stay married because I love my husband and enjoy married life with him. I have someone that loves me and comforts me. I can have all the sex I want without feeling cheap. As a woman long past the wall (heading…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/16 04:10 AM
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The purpose of a wedding is for a couple to state their marriage vows to one another in front of witnesses. Marriages and weddings are completely optional and totally unnecessary nowadays. Society accepts that couples will live together and gasp have sex and children out of wedlock. There is no longer a stigma attached to it. And yet, you had a wedding to subject your witnesses to, among other things, hearing your vow to always love yourself. Wow. You think such a ridiculous show of narcissism i…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/16 04:00 AM
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Amen sister! :) I'm even older than you...and see it exactly as you've written. Thanks for spelling it out!
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 02:38 AM
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You answered your own question. She has no respect because you lack self respect and boundaries. One line in particular really sticks out for me. "She says that she has told him that we are not in an open marriage, and then tells me the bit about him trying to fondle her and possibly start something to end in the bedroom." Let's assume that your wife is telling the absolute truth here. This is a really, really shitty truth! She's not telling the guy, no, not going there - I reject you. Or, no, n…
/r/askMRP03/10/16 02:33 AM
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I don't understand the point of this post. Is it to highlight your nifty wedding vows? As I watched the video, I was amazed that no one witnessing this "wedding" was rolling their eyes. Because that's what I would have been doing, if I wasn't actually laughing out loud. I would not be able to hold it together if I had to watch a man drone on and on, and even vowing to "always love himself," as he speaks to a woman pretending to be a bride at a fake wedding. What happened to acta non verba? Or is…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/16 01:01 AM
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I can't understand why you were downvoted. I know of many women in their 80s (some of them my aunts and aunts-in-law) who catered to men who didn't deserve it because women in those days had few choices but to get married and depend on a man. The "alpha male" that MRP encourages was NOT the kind of guy these women were married to. Cook a meal? That's why you got a wife. Help with the kids? Not on your life. Lift a finger cleaning the inside of the house? hahahahaha Yardwork? Only until a son gre…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 12:28 AM
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A woman's point of view: No, you are not overreacting, but I think your reactions are misguided. This isn't just about whether or not she is lying about cheating. Look what we have here: a married woman who works only part-time but has no time to fully parent her own child yet has time to be hanging out with a hobby group and engage in private chats with another man. Wtf? The above is bad enough without the public groping and the fact that she doesn't have sex with her own husband. Her behavior …
/r/askMRP03/10/16 12:13 AM
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Move on. Because if you don't, you're going to try to mold this guy into the type of guy you think you deserve to be married to. What makes you (or any woman) entitled to nag a guy into becoming what she wants? For a woman looking for future marriage, the point of dating is to find your ideal partner and test for compatibility. You haven't found your ideal, so there's little value in your compatibility. Which, by the way, isn't all that great if your sex life isn't very good. You are young but y…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 07:01 PM
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Same here, although my mother would never call herself a feminist. The word wasn't even part of the general public's vernacular until she had already been one for a couple of decades. One thing my mother instilled in me was that I should be able to financially support myself. Even if I wasn't always actually supporting myself (as in when I was a SAHM) I should have the education/skills to be able to be self-reliant. I raised my daughter the same way.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 06:23 PM
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IMO, not good: the fact that you asked him out (even though he's asked you out before) and that you are asking him about an LTR. When a quality guy wants to take things in the direction you are looking for, he does the asking. You are in complete control of whether or not to become a plate. You don't have to keep having sex with him just because you already did. It's not like once you give it up you owe it to him. He may decide that without the sex he doesn't want any kind of relationship but if…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 12:11 AM
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That's great, congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 10:43 PM
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My biggest regret in life is that I spent most of my thirties overweight. In my mid-forties I lost 30 pounds and have kept it off. What worked for me is eating the amount of calories that a person at my height/activity level would need to maintain an ideal weight. It was slow going, as it was a little over the 1200-1500/day recommendation. More like 1500-1700. But, eventually I was that weight and I didn't have to change anything to maintain it since I was already on the "maintenance" plan. So n…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 10:41 PM
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Breastfeeding a newborn infant is an experience like no other. I don't know what you mean when you say "things aren't easy" but I'm guessing you mean it's keeping her very busy. It is so much more than that. It's this constant physical contact that's releasing oxytocin all day long. The oxytocin produces feelings of maternal love and relaxation and on top of that there's the skin to skin contact. When the baby is going through a growth spurt, he'll want to nurse constantly in order to build up t…
/r/askMRP25/09/16 11:15 PM
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huh. I guessed the B stood for body, which I guess it could if H stands for hot. But either way, if H stands for hot it doesn't make any sense to me. HB1 = Hot Babe 1 ≠ Hot!
/r/askMRP25/09/16 11:03 PM
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Good luck!
/r/askMRP25/09/16 08:08 PM
1

Well, I am invested Then my advice is to stop worrying and make a solid plan to get back to your marriage. I think the two of you need to discuss the timeline of how/when you'll be back together and then stick to it. Otherwise, you're headed to the 40-50% of all marriages fail category.
/r/askMRP25/09/16 07:13 PM
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My issue with leaving my very secure, top secret and potentially lucrative job is that if all else fails this could be my livelihood. My husband can be wise but I think he is shit at business--- as in, i'm worried be may get taken for a ride due to his being too trusting of people at times. I don't want to ever become a nagger. My mother has been a nagger all her life and it's a component to my parent's shit marriage. I know supporting him was emasculating to him and I try my best to never bring…
/r/askMRP25/09/16 06:36 PM
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Oh my goodness. If you were my daughter (and I've got one about your age) I'd ask: why are you more attracted to/comfortable with a guy that "needs work" than one that has his shit together? Are you Ms Fix-It? You weren't there to celebrate and he went out with his buddies. Why would this make you suddenly question his fidelity? You're 3000 miles away; if he wants to cheat, he's going to cheat with or without some cash to celebrate. You say you want to prove your worth to him. Right now it appea…
/r/askMRP25/09/16 03:04 PM
1

what would your wife do for Billy Bob Thorton... yuck! (not much)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/16 09:00 PM
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The suggestion had to do with a method of feeding the child. The details weren't important to the thrust of the question and story here. Hahahaha, the details weren't important? A woman with with a 6 week old child, her THIRD one, might know just a little bit more about feeding the kid than you do. A perfect wife wouldn't tell her husband he's a fucking idiot but a decent husband should know (much) better than to get into it with his post-partum wife about breast vs bottle feeding. Or maybe ther…
/r/askMRP19/09/16 09:52 PM
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Hmmm...I stumbled into this place after googling "How can I get my husband to more aggressive/dominant in bed." After months of reading I've learned a LOT about men, marriage, life in general and certainly myself, but still wonder about the answer to this question. It's hard to be direct about this with a guy you've been with, and doing things a certain way, for a long time. Your reaction is what I'm afraid of - that I'll turn my husband off. So I'm wondering - if you take the suggestions given …
/r/askMRP18/09/16 07:15 PM
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"All i see is blame woman, society." Are we reading the same subreddit? I may not agree with every tenet of MRP philosophy, but all I see is people taking ownership of their own lives/marriages, striving to reach their full potential and helping others in the process. Who can argue with that? In fact, if a guy DOES blame his wife, he gets called a beta-pussy or somesuch and is basically raked over the coals. I recommend you spend less time posting nonsense and use that time to sharpen your readi…
/r/askMRP18/09/16 06:56 PM
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I don't know what the official RP answer to this will be, but I can tell you that in 25+ years of marriage I have never had the opportunity to ask my husband to hold my purse while I go try on clothes at a store. And I know exactly why this is: my husband has never been standing idly by while I am clothes shopping. I used to go clothes shopping with girlfriends but I think that stopped at around age 22. Since then I've gone alone, managed my purse all by myself and waited at least until I got ho…
/r/askMRP11/09/16 10:33 PM
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Yep! The reply below says meyers-brigg isn't valid. I don't know if that's true or not, but I do know that I "test" out as an INTJ and I also don't care much about people and gossip! As for sexual expectations, I agree there too. I guess I'm lucky that my husband doesn't have a huge need to go down on me because I really am not into it. I associate it with lesbianism. If Brad Pitt offered it would make him effeminate in my eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 04:23 PM
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However, the more sex I have with my husband, the more I want it. Weird, eh? I don't think it's weird at all, that's the way I've always been. When my husband gets back from a long business trip and it's been over 2 weeks he's ready to bust but I'm like "meh"...gotta get in the mood. On the other hand, if we have a few hot sex days in a row I can't think about anything else.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 04:25 PM
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Passionate kiss and she's wet, so I need to manage her. Hmmm....I'm trying to get my husband to stop "managing" me like this! I'm in my 50s and he's a few years older. I don't know what happened to me in the last couple of years but I can get aroused so much more easily now than I could ten years ago. (I hope it's not just the hormone swings that come with menopause. I worry that like Cinderella's coach, my libido might suddenly turn into a pumpkin and I'll go back to needing a ridiculous amount…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 04:20 PM
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I was wondering the same thing...from the moment I read "is there anything you guys/gals suggest here?" Since I stumbled into this place I haven't noticed a man asking for a gal's opinion and what on earth could a woman possibly give for advice here anyway? It sounds like a troll baiting for a sermon on the madonna/whore complex. OP, in case you're for real, it looks to me like you are seeking validation that this is normal. In my opinion, no, it is not normal at all. Normal for initial attracti…
/r/askMRP01/09/16 12:10 AM
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What's the point in being open about your age? Do you tell everyone your height, weight, dress/shoe size and eyeglass prescription too? Online I will often mention that I'm "a woman in my fifties" to give my post some sort of perspective. But in person I feel no need to tell anyone this, it's pretty obvious.
/r/askMRP28/08/16 03:35 PM
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Lying about your age is a completely different thing than hiding it. I never lie about my age but I don't announce it on FB either. Two reasons - 1) birthdate is one piece of information that can be used toward identity theft and 2) I don't want everyone wishing me a happy birthday on FB because then I feel like I have to make sure and do the same and I just can't keep up. You say these women aren't lying about their age, just not announcing it. Why does this bother you?
/r/askMRP28/08/16 03:22 PM
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I (a woman) have had this same argument with other women for years. I was an engineer when I was younger. When I would point out that I knew for a fact I was getting paid the same as my male counterparts, they would come back with the unfairness of engineers (mostly male) getting paid more than something like social workers (mostly female). I'd ask them why, if they knew this, did they not major in an engineering discipline rather than whatever humanities major they did choose? No good answer to…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 03:11 PM
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My husband always takes me out to dinner some place special for my birthday and that is the gift. It's for both of us really but I enjoy it. We are at a stage of life where we can (and do) buy ourselves whatever we want - and we need to actually pare down all the crap that's accumulated in our home. So - physical gifts for Christmas and birthdays are pretty minimal. Did you feel that the dinner was the gift? Did you make all the plans yourself? Was it just the two of you or did your mom come to?…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 12:50 PM
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I am in my fifties and always considered myself a feminist. I preferred math and science in high school and went on to major in engineering in college. (This was at a time when there was still a "pink-collar" track in high schools - shorthand, typing and bookkeeping.) I worked in both engineering and business before having a child, then I was a SAHM for years. This is what feminism meant to me: I could choose! I took up sewing later in life and am great at it. It's really just textile engineerin…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/16 12:07 AM
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I've done this with my husband. The reason for needing a plan in her head could be because she wants to be ready for sex by feeling sexy - or at least not feeling unsexy. On the weekends, when I know we'll be having sex, my legs are shaved and moisturized, lingerie/underwear is nice, wearing a bit of perfume. During the week? Maybe I let the legs go one day...You guys talk about women's solipsism -- maybe sometimes when we don't feel like having sex it's all about us!
/r/askMRP19/08/16 09:55 PM
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24 hour "talk" bender. Part of her "rolling thunder mini-main event" I just have to say, this made me laugh out loud :)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 11:37 PM
1

This is very sad. My own daughter could be a total PITA at that age - and this is without the terrible family dynamics you're talking about. Now she's in her twenties and a lovely woman that both my husband and I are very proud of. If your ex-wife is as bad as you're saying, your daughter needs you even more than the average girl needs a good dad. I hope you don't give up on her. Obviously you are angry. She is angry too. She spewed her anger at you but who knows what she's really angry about? Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 06:48 PM
3

I became pregnant due to birth control failure (an accident) in my early 30s. This was in the early 90s. At the time I was totally freaked out. It wasn't planned! I wasn't ready! (My biological clock was broken, I never heard a tick.) Ultimately we had a baby and everything felt "meant to be." But at that time I had absolutely no inclination that I was extremely lucky to have that accident. Left to my own devices, I would have waited another 5 years, when I was "ready," because I thought I'd be …
/r/RedPillWives15/07/16 03:16 AM
5

Feeling that your partner wants you so bad that he's not going to take no for an answer is a huge turn on for women. I think you went wrong from from the beginning. Clothes are coming off and you are making out. Why does the dart game have to be finished? Forget the fucking dart game and move on. But if you insist on this game being played..."Dim the lights" Answer: no fucking way, I'm liking the view. "Put the plates away" Answer: That can wait, get over here (as you pull her toward you). See? …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 02:49 PM
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I've been married about twice as long as you and was a SAHM for years. I am working now but only make about a third what he does. While my husband is not like yours (always worrying about his job) he does vent his work frustrations to me. While I often respond the way you do (reassurance of positive qualities) I also flat out tell him that if worse came to worst, we'll survive. Even when I wasn't working I'd say - hey, life's short, our happiness/peace of mind is paramount and we as a family wil…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/16 09:04 PM
5

Perspective of a middle-aged (happily) married woman: This is the first mention I see of you wanting to start a family. How much thought have you put into this? How much discussion have you and your wife had about it? Based only on what you've shared here (we don't know your wife's point of view), she is NOT "mom-material" at this time. And at 34, time is not on her side. Instead of parsing the details of boundaries that were crossed, like "GNO vs. hanging out with family" or "drinking 'til 8 is…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 12:26 PM
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