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Lol told you bro. Glad to see.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 04:57 PM
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Wtf happened to this sub, so many Berniebro faggots in our midst.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:59 AM
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Hahahaha Berniebros are in the denial stage. How did SC go for you? Gtfo of TRP, you guys are ruining it.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:58 AM
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Watch "the untruth about Trump" and make up your mind for yourself. Don't fall for the spoonfed lies the media peddles. How can you claim to be TRP aware and yet say all the bullshit you just said is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:55 AM
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We're outnumbered, so many faggots who support Bernie Panders and yet consider themselves TRP aware. Two completely mutually exclusive concepts.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:52 AM
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Fitting name faggot. How are you subscribed to TRP if you support an actual cuck like Bernie (raising another man's children with a used up whale) and he writes about his woman fantasizing about gang rape during sex.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:50 AM
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To the spergs in this post calling Trump a whiny woman. You are morons and are too stupid to see the forest for the trees. You like to outlogic and nitpick on his individual behavior without seeing the broader objectives and genius moves. You are morons precisely because you (willfully or not) fail to see the forest for the trees, either because you are unable to or choose not to. He is leading a citizen's revolt and has revolutionized the election cycle. You see the "low-grade vocabulary" and "…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:38 AM
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Yeah like some of the mods and ECs, total bluepills. A lot of the mods and ECs for TRP are also mods on the_donald sub. Rollo Tomassi is a Trump supporter. Chateau Heartiste is obviously pro Trump. You've learned nothing from TRP if you honestly think this way.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:28 AM
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So many cucks here. How could you subscribe to TRP doctrine and not support Trump? He has opened a dialog on so much shit that the SJWs and regressive liberals push that none of the other hacks, who are bought and paid for, dare mention. I understand the apprehensiveness to the cult of personality but he is speaking to the electorate on multiple levels when he addresses a crowd or the media.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:22 AM
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Naw Mika likes the Trumps. Melania knew the questions were coming beforehand and Mika has to pander to not look like shes favoring them. If you watch Morning Joe they predicted Trump's success months before while everyone was still laughing.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:54 AM
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I wonder what kind of relationship he has with his mother. We give girls shit for having daddy issues but I bet you dollars to donuts that this guy has mommy issues. Most guys who let girls walk all over them do.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 03:59 PM
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http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/due-process-neil-macdonald-1.3446739 Enjoy
/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:03 PM
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Just don't be Ghomeshi though.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 04:49 PM
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It's impossible if she hates your guts deep down.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 04:48 PM
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Ouch, lesson learned though.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 04:34 AM
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I've whipped out porn on my cell and started jerking in the middle of a heated argument. Good times, we ended up porking when she came over to see what girl I was checking out hahaha.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 04:33 AM
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He was most likely doing it for the same reason the other bitch boys do it, to get some pussy. They eat their own though. As a Canadian I remember hearing him on the radio and always thinking that he was a pretentious faggot with his liberal and progressive thinking. Still after hearing about the alleged rapes it all seemed fishy to me. When I said that the women should be charged with lying to the cops and prosecutors, not to mention that Ghomeshi can possibly sue after the fact, women in my so…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:23 PM
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He didn't say it during the race but he wrote it in an essay: "A woman enjoys intercourse with her man — as she fantasizes being raped by 3 men simultaneously." google that and you'll see what I mean. Join us at the_donald subreddit and make america great again. Some TRP mods are also mods there. Don't support this cuck Bernie.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 03:11 PM
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Helped raise 3 kids that arent his from his wife's previous marraige and talked about how his woman would fantasize about getting gang raped while having sex with him. Literally a cuck.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 02:25 PM
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Calling an actual cuck redpill, didn't know we endorsed that lifestyle now.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 12:49 PM
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Welcome to Canada where you have payroll deductions, income tax, and sales tax. Not to mention currency devaluation. Currently on a salary so have very little to deduct. Working on setting up my own business and minimizing taxes as much as legally possible.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 12:46 AM
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Expanding on what you said.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 09:27 PM
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Hahaha almost dropped out because I partied too much and fucked around. Turned it around though and persevered and finished my degree one year late. I know about it because I lived it. I wasn't stupid enough to study a useless degree however and finished engineering physics and have a high paying job in the energy industry. I also graduated with low debt which I quickly paid off. Unfortunately I lived the debauchery but I see it now for what it really was, social engineering, a case of arrested …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 08:24 PM
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A university "education" outside of STEM is brainwashing. It has become so co-opted and I know people who finished their degrees and have come out of it brainwashed. Not to mention the parties, sex, drugs and debauchery of the college experience. You do not need to go to university to be educated especially in this day and age where you have access to all kinds of information. I graduated physics and even that I could have learned on my own. The real benefit I had from going to college was acces…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 08:00 PM
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But he's redpill I swear, he's alfalfa and is actually very machiavellian.... Can't believe some of the shit being said here.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:53 PM
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Complaining and angry that I only get to keep 40k out of my 80k due to all the taxes? Of course I'm angry, why is that a bad thing? So my money can pay for inefficient government programs, foreign wars, single moms and the interest on the debt? So I should worry that I'm in the anger phase and that I'm complaining like a woman? Wtf are you on, you really don't know TRP at all when you use ad-hominem attacks saying I'm name calling, that I'm only in the anger phase. Love the "hate filled" respons…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:47 PM
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Bernie cucks have infiltrated TRP and are actually arguing for a socialist government. Never thought I'd see the day.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:19 PM
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He is saying that if a lot of TRP members are actually saying Sanders is redpill or supporting him then this sub has degraded. If these members support a literal cuck like Bernie then what else do they believe in? That means the signal to noise ratio is getting too low and that too many faggots now consider themselves redpill when they are the opposite. It compromises the message. Look at the downvotes and upvotes on some of these comments in this thread. Absolutely pathetic, here's to hoping th…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:17 PM
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Not selling shit, democrats want immigration and females to vote because it gives them more political power. Listen, I identified as liberal before but seeing what is happening it is clear that their agenda is anti-white. Look at the BLM movement, divide and conquer is their approach and Democrats love using race to push their agenda. Most people are ignorant and both parties use this fact to their advantage, including Sanders. He appeals to the liberal college student aged kids and the minoriti…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:09 PM
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No idea what your quote means Google it. personally would never raise another man's child I'm glad there are some positive male role models that would and do. You're trolling man, no way are you serious. Listen single moms that are widows are understandable. Most single moms are not widows however and are pieces of shit. This society enables them. It is not up to men to fix a woman's life mistakes. When men enable these women it is not a good or positive thing for society, it is in fact a negati…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:24 PM
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"A woman enjoys intercourse with her man — as she fantasizes being raped by 3 men simultaneously." I use the word cuck because it is accurately describes Bernie. He wrote that and is raising children who are not his. He is a CUCK. Cuck,cuck,cuck. Colonel Sanders is a cuck. You do not belong in TRP. I wish you could wake up and I hope one day you do. But I honestly doubt your ability to if you are worried about me using the word cuck. And if you did not know these facts about Sanders then I can f…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:59 PM
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You cannot have open borders and unregulated commerce and have a welfare state. We do not have capitalism in the west. The government and corporations are in bed together pushing agendas that benefit themselves. They stifle competition and introduce regulations that they are either exempt from or allow for self regulation. My father runs a succesful medium sized business and the government is always taking and taking while other big business in his industry are benefitting from government intrus…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:53 PM
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Trumps strongest point is enforcing the border and sending back illegal immigrants. Something no on else is willing to enforce. Furthermore his comments on the Muslim immigration ban are excellent as well. Bernie attacked him on it and supports amnesty and bringing back migrants who were deported before. I agree that both candidates have a lot in common. But on some things they are diametrically opposed. Bernie was also too weak to call out the establishment including the criminal Clinton. Trump…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:04 PM
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They take their orders from Soros and their globalist/zionist financiers.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 03:42 PM
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Democrat base is a group of rejects, defectives and lames. Courting and getting their vote means your platform is based in shit. Nietzche said that the weak will always look to tear down the strong. He was right.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 03:41 PM
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Pandering is machiavellian, but he is trying to court the vote of these group of rejects and defectives on his platform by promising more free shit stolen from the rich. He talks about the 1% but it truly is a much smaller minority that are running the show. They are not bound to any nationality and are pushing the globalist/zionist agenda. Trump ia advocating for nationalism which is in the best interests of the American people.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 03:39 PM
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Very surprised to see Sanders support.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 03:31 PM
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GTFO if you think Sanders will fix any of that. https://heartiste.files.wordpress.com/2016/02/visualshiv.jpeg?w=720&h=520
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 03:10 PM
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I did not know we had so many Bernie cucks in this sub!? Wtf is going on here. Do you ever wonder why Bernie cucks come to disrupt Trump rallies while the opposite isn't true? Why Colonel Sanders supporters get triggered so hard at the mention of Trump? He is a madman and can't be stopped. He's ripping open the overton window and is a fuckin winner in life. This is why you see all the cockroaches coming out of the woodwork to badmouth him and shame those who support what he represents. They want…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:50 PM
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Trump is the only answer, Sanders wants more government. Works if you are weak and need government intrusion to give you free shit. If you are a capable man government only gets in your way and you can succeed despite their interference.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:44 PM
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Im surprised you got that many upvotes or that any man considering himself redpill aware would prefer Sanders over Trump. Really sad state of affairs that any TRP man would support Sanders, especially with Trump as an alternative option. Like the poster below said it isn't because he is a cuck but because he believes more government is the answer. Trump has been saying the same thing for years, there's videos of him saying these things 30+ years ago. He has accomplished so much more in life comp…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:37 PM
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I live here and dated here (currently in an LTR). You are seeing a small and vocal minority, even though the city as a demographic is more and more pussified. If you are a high value man and have high quality people around you, you will always have access to attractive women who think more traditionally. It is a big city and even if there are only a minority of acceptable women around that means there is plenty of opportunity. Usually the better and more feminine looking women as a general rule …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 01:13 AM
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Mentally deranged and with severe arrested development. Literally thinks on a lower level of thought, as a child would. The people pushing this agenda and profiting off of it are just their enablers, and this is for me the most troubling thought.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:59 AM
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A lot of factors, but this phase will end as it is not sustainable. It is a degenerate society and things will change by people waking up or having reality punch them in the face (as in Europe).
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:57 AM
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Tell me about it, going to a Ramen place yesterday and it's hipsters, ugly chicks with short hair, and fags everywhere. When did this happen and how did it progress so quickly? I feel like the character in They Live.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:54 AM
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He'll have certain women lining up for him. He's going to have to be more careful with who he sleeps and associates with though.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:52 AM
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For the continued prosperity of the country you are right
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 04:26 PM
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There's so many more examples of this. When the day of the rope comes the women who were traitors will need to be made an example of as well. Let's see if white Christian Europe rises up to the task. What is happening all around the world is that they are pushing an anti-white agenda. Women's suffrage was a terrible mistake, one that we didn't bother to learn from.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 12:47 PM
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He is a madman and can't be stopped. He's ripping open the overton window and is a fuckin winner in life. This is why you see all the cockroaches coming out of the woodwork to badmouth him and shame those who support what he represents. They want to close that window as much as possible. They subconsciously understand that he represents the opposite of their feelz over realz ideology which is why they have such a hateful reaction to him. It really is a good test to see who is a bitch and who get…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 01:57 AM
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This is the real redpill. These modern women and their bitchboys are useful idiots. They must be shown what the right way is, and the right wing backlash needs to happen. This sub and other movements are a part of the pendelum swinging back.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 01:51 AM
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There's that "19"year old Mediterrenian boyfriend hahahahaha http://m.imgur.com/SPnLc77
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 01:45 AM
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Eyes Wide Shut Starship Troopers Lord of War Pervert's Guide to Cinema They Live The Matrix (obviously) Century of the Self Those are a few I can think of off the top of my head.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:42 PM
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We keep hearing it but women's suffrage was a huge mistake and was very clearly used as a means of destroying the social fabric of society. Much easier to push a world government by giving women an equal political voice.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:56 PM
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It's an anti-white agenda, looking at their behavior through this lense explains the hipocrisy.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:22 PM
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The entire campaign of Bernie Sanders in a nutshell: Vote for me and I'll give you free shit. http://www.thegatewaypundit.com/conservative-artist-crashes-bernie-sanders-art-exhibit-with-free-sht-signs/ It's funny how the conservative opinion now is the radical one.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 09:26 PM
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A LOT of articles that are anti-white or have that sentiment are written by Jews. There are plenty of examples. Pro-tip, a lot of them do not consider themselves white but Jewish, and I agree. They push for open borders and race mixing but Israel has the most strict border controls and they are the least likely to breed outside of their ethnic group. Israel just condemned Trump for his xenophobic stance of not letting in Muslim migrants. People can't name the Jew in the mainstream for fear of be…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 09:13 PM
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http://m.imdb.com/title/tt3596178/ There are aspects of it that are most definitely coordinated, look at the above as an example. Warlock is right that the redpill is more than just opening your eyes to the nature of women. It is about pulling back the curtain and seeing how far down the rabbit hole really goes.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 09:01 PM
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Replace the word Jew that is being used in all of this with Zionists and it is all applicable. These Zionists don't give a fuck about Jews, they use them just like everyone else. Look at Nazi collaborator Soros as an example. Anti-semitism is real and is around for a reason but a lot of it is misdirected towards all Jews. No, a specific group can be pointed to as the source for a lot of the degredation we see around us. Read about the family history of how the Rothschilds manipulated the currenc…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:56 PM
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Sounds like what Rome did during its collapse. Haha let's see how well this goes for them. They want to push B&H into the broken EU. This coming from a guy who was born there before the war.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:44 PM
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This is what I like about TRP, it is not a "democracy". There is a clear direction and focus for this sub that is not drowned down by subscriber's opinions on what it should be. It helps to keep the signal strong, we need more of this in our society. Pandering to the masses leads to degradation, this is quite clear when, as an aware man, you see what pandering has wrought upon western culture. Now it is a commonly held ideology that everyone has an equal say and everyone's opinion matters, even …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:25 PM
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She cheated on you and your mother said that you should work it out!? First of all she cheated so the relationship is over, why stay committed if she isn't capable of doing so? Second of all, ask yourself why your mother does not have your back? I would bet money that you have deep seated issues in your relationship with your mother if you are still with this cheater. It is a huge red flag that your mom is not warning you and is instead pushing for this marriage. Finally thank your coworker for …
/r/askTRP25/01/16 10:11 PM
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Naw the next generation won't learn. They all got big daddy government to fund their mistakes. Makes the population easier to control.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 11:45 PM
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People lack any kind of morals and ethics of their own. Instead they are told what to think and follow. It's actually impressive the strides that have been made in brainwashing and entire population.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 11:38 PM
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If this bothers the OP enough that he makes it a point to post then he is completely justified in not tolerating it. What he wants in a relationship should be fulfilled. By definition this girl is not worth committing to if she doesn't think so. If it is asking too much of her then she is not the girl for him and there should be no hard feelings they can both move on. There are compromises in every relationship but there are certain non-negotiables for everyone. What those non-negotiables are va…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 01:42 AM
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Agreed, however I imagine that the OP came here looking for advice on how to resolve this issue within the context of his ltr. It is self-evident that there is always the option to leave. Personally if an issue escalated to the point where I would consider issuing an ultimatum then it is over anyway (ie. foreign trips without me, etc.)
/r/askTRP24/01/16 01:32 AM
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Only if you are willing to execute and walk away. Otherwise they are a bluff.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:17 AM
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First of all: ultimatums don't work. If you don't like her social media activities, particularly her fishing for attention, then evaluate if that is something you want in a relationship. Listen, every girl likes attention because they crave the feeling of being desired. You will have to accept that that is the case with every girl you will meet (awalt). You can learn to use that to your advantage in your relationship by making her look to you for validation and approval. The other thing to consi…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:04 AM
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Working now, must have been very temporary.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:33 PM
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Well Sex and the City and all these songs tell her it's okay to act like a man and have a roster of sex partners. But she's still entitled to someone commiting to her. I mean popular culture and her friends tells her this is the case so it must be true. Good thing the guys she's sleeping with haven't fallen for it. We need more men like this for women to fall back in line.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:29 PM
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Link is broken. Not sure if it's been moved.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:20 PM
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It's part of making redpill ideas more palatable. Saying we are superior to women is not palatable in these modern times, so it has to be redefined through that equalist filter you mention. Needless to say, as an enlightened man it is clear that high value men are superior to women and that is exactly the way women want it. Glad you called out the post, it really goes to show how important the role of senior members is in unplugging the men who come here. It does no good to tip toe around the ug…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 10:57 PM
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All we need to do is listen to our ancestors for all we need to know about handling women. Society is now ignoring it at it's own peril (ie. women voting).
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 07:21 PM
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They can't be aware of this contradiction consciously for obvious reasons because they might sabotage their biological imperative.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 07:20 PM
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You know how someone truly is when they think they have power over you. Their true colors come out.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 06:59 PM
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Can you blame her for wanting commitment, family and marraige? That's normal for a chick. If you don't want that for yourself just be honest with her. If you're in a commited relationship with this chick then make your expectations clear. That way you give her some options, if she doesn't want it she is always free to leave. If she stays she can't blame anyone else but herself, even though she will try to (accountability is not a strong suit of women). The only thing that matters is what you wan…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 07:21 PM
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If you're not plowing your fertile field, another man will. Move on from her. When she comes back you can always plate her but keep it at that level. If she really wanted to stay with you she wouldn't be travelling. Don't take it personally. I had the same thing happen with my first LTR, we amicably broke up when she went on her foreign exchange in uni. When she came back we hooked up a couple more times but I never considered her for commitment again. I wasn't even mad since I was getting poon …
/r/askTRP16/01/16 07:15 PM
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Your mistake was caring about her. The other guys she fucked treated her as a set of wet holes, and she loved it. You pedastilized her instead, and she wasn't "ready for a relationship". Learn from this, a girl is only a set of wet holes unless she proves otherwise to you. Keep in mind that I do not say this from any kind of bitter perspective. Become the kind of man that if a girl leaves or cheats on you it doesn't matter. Always be vigilant though and don't make the mistake of pedastilizing ag…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 07:08 PM
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Excellent write-up. Is it really surprising that women would try to co-opt this mens movement for their own ends? As always it is imperative to be your own man. This doesn't mean that you should pretend as if you only do things for yourself (lifting, career, etc.) but that your goals and aspirations for your own life take precedence.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:46 PM
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These politicians aren't dumb. They know what they are doing and it is a plan. Usually I would say do not attribute to malice what can be explained by ignorance. But in this case they are actively working to cover up these incidents which means they are not ignorant, this is being done on purpose.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:18 PM
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It's a cry for attention usually.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:35 PM
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This would prevent 80% of tantrums. They get hangry, feed them to calm them down.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:18 PM
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You're a cuck. Empathy and compassion is not a virtue when the other person will exploit it. Wake up and take back your country: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0jD6CN6uGZs https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=r1ohcGIi-y4
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:23 AM
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Extremely relevant article: http://www.americanthinker.com/articles/2016/01/the_lefts_endgame_hits_the_wall.html I'd also really recommend watching Children of Men, prescient movie released in 2006 with Clive Owen.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 07:41 PM
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Let's hope so for your own survival. They plan on bringing in 10 million more. I guess border security isn't a national concern, who would have thought I'd see the day where that could be the case.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 04:14 AM
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More concern trolling. If you don't like it downvote and move on. Better yet keep your concern to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 04:12 AM
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Useful idiots, feminism is pushed and elevated to such a high status in our society in order to break apart the family and divide and conquer. When men and women are fighting against each other and women turn to the state for their bux, then it is much easier to exert control over the populace. Instead of men and women working together to build a better society by having stable families we are bickering and getting wrapped up in these made up transgressions. Meanwhile when you look at Europe the…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:10 PM
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Aka all of them, they're not just good at avoiding logic but also avoiding all accountability. OP did a good thing by making that impossible for them in this case. Doing God's work.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:03 PM
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fuck off with your concern trolling.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 03:47 PM
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I recently wrote a post called Sexual Terrorists detailing the motivation of the left (especially women) for wanting to let the invaders in. I also talked about the rape and pillaging of the dying European empires that we are seeing now. Even though some of my post was political in nature it discussed sexual strategy and the changing sexual marketplace. I was glad to see the lively discussion and that it was not censored. I have been looking around the other more mainstream subs and it is clear …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 03:16 PM
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Civilization is necessary, this is why we have so much we take for granted. The collapse of Rome was a milti-centuries long setback. This is a chance to make things better and not repeat the mistakes of history.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:20 AM
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I agree with everything you said. This immigration problem is a symptom and not the cause.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:19 AM
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There is still hope for Euro
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 06:31 AM
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People are forever chasing their next dopamine highs. This is the good feelz you talk about. Whether or not their actions actually produce any tangible good is irrelevant. All that matters is it makes them feel good with morality status whoring. This is what is behind the phrase the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Feminized men are enablers for our degeneracy
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 03:56 AM
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As for racism/ethnonationalism. I think the redpill has an important message about selfimprovenment and the sexual market place. Racism just dilutes it, and puts people off. I wish "Rule Zero" was enforced. Being against Islam is not being racist. It is against a backwards ass shithole culture. All of the middle-eastern people I know (work with a lot) tell me how shit the culture is and how stupid people are back there and why they fled to live here in the west. I can attest to the same as me an…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 03:40 AM
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I still don't understand how this video could not be a parody. This is kafkaesque.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 03:16 AM
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The misandry bubble is a great read (if you haven't already). It has been a while, would be good to re-read it. What change do you propose? Why are these discussions only happening on this TRP forum on reddit? I have seen more of it spilling over but if you look at the front page and even the front page of TRP there are only a few whispers of discontent. A lot of internet channels have been infiltrated where these talks are shut down. The agenda of breaking apart the family and isolating people …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 03:08 AM
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There is no point in fighting it. The best thing to do is to focus on yourself and get whatever you want. Screw everything else. Eat, drink and fuck. Keep some money ready so you can bail out the moment shit hits the fan. Do not go try to save the world. Do not be an idealist. Be a ruthless selfish pragmatist. Go work in an animal shelter if you want to better the world. Every animal you help will make you feel better. Don't bother with humans. Defeatist attitude, history repeats in cycles and t…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 02:55 AM
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I'd imagine most of this sub including myself is just on "enjoy the decline" mode for now. People living the ideals of TRP are the exact kind of people needed to turn back the decline. This nihilism is pathetic to me and utterly unproductive. What's the point of having the washboard abs and all the filtered instagram selfies in the world just like a bitch if we allow ourselves to be so easily conquered. Absolutely pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 02:49 AM
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Did the men before us have to lift just to be considered bare minimum attractive? Did they have to read about how to game? Did they have to neg? Did they have to worry about whether to hold a door open or not? Did they have to worry about having the perfect tinder profile? No, because they kept their society in order. This is exactly the point I am trying to make. These invaders do not need to cultivate the perfect tinder profile, they run their women's and society's shit. Hypergamy is so strict…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 02:44 AM
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Little known fact, the Democrats started the KKK. The government is no one's friend.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 01:18 AM
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Both valid points. Welfare and feminism has done more to break apart the black family than anything else. It's a toxic culture and I'm surprised more blacks dont speak out against it. But I guess it's a politically incorrect thing to even mention which is why we don't hear critiques a lot in popular media.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 01:06 AM
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Excellent interview that even uses the coined term sexual terrorists.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:59 AM
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Agree, he speaks in generals and all of these conflicts (race, religion, ideology) are classic divide and conquer to consolidate power. We'd be a much stronger and succesful group if we unified. This is why I like groups like TRP where the only thing that matterd are results.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:58 AM
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They did when they invaded Paris and slept with French women.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 10:23 PM
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And TRP and other communities are growing more and more around the world. The task certainly does appear impossible, but that should never stop men from trying. Looking back in history so many great things were accomplished that would have appeared impossible before. The pendulum will swing back, and unfortunately for many innocents and women, it will swing back very hard.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:31 PM
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The greatest marketplace of all is the sexual one. It is a huge factor in all of this. Nietzsche even talks about how Germany the masculine would rape France the feminine.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:30 PM
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I in no way endorse this as it is ultimately a self-defeating and unsustainable model And that is why you fail. No civilization has ever survived the female franchise. These violent tribes are the future proto-civilizations. Few will ascend to its allowed halls, but one thing is for certain: none of the current incumbents will survive. A society run by women will always fall to ruin. I completely agree with you. Women do need to be put back in their place but it is our responsibility to do so. I…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:24 PM
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How would I even fit the insular alternative sexual market place dynamics on anything less than a series of posts? Let alone 1 comment. Providing links to sources or titles of books/essays/historical sources would be useful. I do not expect a fucking dissertation from you, but in the time you spent waving your dick around you could have put into something more productive like helping to enlighten us on what you know. I'm actually open to other points of reference, but you are not even offering t…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:18 PM
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The only way to defeat the Game of the Blue Pill being played on the masses of the world is to rise up in Game awareness on our own so as to increase the number of wise men. All it would take is 5% of the world to become wise and know Game (on it's deep Machiavellian level) and the Blue Pill nightmare could be pushed back. So Red Pill is the "antidote" to the Blue Pill. This is exactly the answer. We need to win the war of ideas in order to mobilize and push back against this.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:15 PM
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Use this Balkan man to help you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9TOdMzOH1U
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:12 PM
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End female franchise. It is your only hope. It will end by force of circumstance and war time. I wish there was a peaceful way to prevent this from happening but we have to deal with reality and people will only truly act once things have gone too far, which is what we are seeing now.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:09 PM
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Not all hope is lost, there are uprisings happening that the media is actively trying to censor: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hakb6S0IpgY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRZiTreKcCk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awuYTSM6ZyY Look at the cucks in the last video. The ones against the people looking to deport the invaders. The stark contrast falls in line exactly with redpill theory. I am surprised this invasion is not discussed more just because it's ""political"".
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:05 PM
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Good point, I should have been clearer and specified European men.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 05:17 PM
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I never said this is the only dynamic at play here. Instead of just dismissing this and saying it is only the outer layer you could contribute to the discussion and flesh out what you think is going on. It's clear that the trend of denegrating white male patriarchy while embracing this culture is counterintuitive on the surface. Women have never enjoyed so many freedoms under the ""white patriarchy"" and yet are working to actively undermine it and bring in foreign men and muslim culture. Unders…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 03:58 PM
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I initially thought that way as well especially when reading Chateau. But imagine if it was your country and your sister/mother/gf/daughter this was happening to. The aspects about what happens when women have too much say in the direction of society is relevant. The rape and pillage sexual strategy is one that is uncomfortable for most civilized people to comprehend. That's what I like about TRP, the fact that we deal with uncomfortable truths as opposed to what we'd like it to be. This is rele…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 03:44 PM
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They're children. Some people argue that this is what they deserve and the people who were pro immigration deserve what's coming. I can see the point, however most of these people are/were useful idiots and children who are/were following what was trendy and cool. Those of us who are awake and strong need to do the right thing as the dissillusioned masses will turn to us for answers. We have the chance now to make society right again and as men it is our responsibility to lead. The traitors (cuc…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 02:15 PM
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Based balkan bro. We slavs have dealt with the scourge of Islam before in the yugoslav war and most of us have no delusions about what needs to be done to end this.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 02:14 PM
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History does repeat itself: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assemblywomen
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 02:04 PM
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I am discussing the sexual strategy employed by the hordes invading Europe. They understand sexual strategy is amoral and follow this to the extreme. This discussion is relevant for this sub. While us men in the developed world are worried about how we will dance like monkeys for a taste of that sweet sorority pussy these men just take their wives (some as young as single digit age) by force and rule their families unequivocally. There is no such thing as divorce rape and alimony just old fashio…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 09:12 AM
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It makes perfect sense to men who are aware. This sentiment is the typical reaction we see of people asking how could feminists be rape apologists. On the surface it's contradictory but by understanding female nature it makes perfect sense. This is what I attempt to outline in my post.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 09:02 AM
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Fitting title: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assemblywomen
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:15 AM
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Hahaha the girl he took instead already had a boyfriend who was "not too pleased" that she went with another man. She insists it was strictly platonic like brother and sister hahahahahaha. I can't believe this shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 01:09 PM
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Your update is stupid. Talking it out with her will change NOTHING! You cannot negotiate desire god damnit. Either she is viscerally attracted to you or not. And her comments make it absolutely clear she sees you as BB. You should break it off for your own good and move on. Read up on the rational male for topics on negotiating desire and bringing up beta. They are must reads for you. Your update makes it clear that you don't realize what the situation is. People and women will tell you everythi…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 01:05 PM
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http://ww2.nationalpost.com/m/wp/news/blog.html?b=news.nationalpost.com/full-comment/ujjal-dosanjh-by-silencing-white-men-canada-cant-have-an-honest-debate-about-equality-race-and-culture&pubdate=2016-01-05 relevant article P.S. He's sikh so he's bro tier
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:55 PM
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Excellent response particularly about the part of it being an indecent act.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 02:15 AM
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Mine thought it was so wierd that I strike up random conversations when we go out. She says she never met a guy or girl who did that.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:33 AM
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You're asking them "where is this going". You sound like a chick and that is probably not the only mistake your making especially since youre getting these results. Read and live the 16 commandments of poon and you'll be off to a good start.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 06:06 AM
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Very good points, but if your female boss is attracted to you how could you use that to your advantage?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 07:10 PM
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What about if your boss is female? Wouldn't there be a benefit for the guy then?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 02:19 AM
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you are a statistical minority for your demographic, what does your family think?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 03:13 AM
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Calm your tits is also a good one that I use all the time. You have to keep in mind that almost all of their bitching is basically asking you to demonstrate that it doesn't phase you and that you are capable of calming them down with your presence. This is what women look for in men. Just as we look for femininity in our women (yin to our yang). There are women out there that are worthy of commitment. They are looking a man to show them the way. It is your decision to pick this kind of woman (as…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:23 PM
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Trust but verify should be the working motto
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:01 PM
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Wait and observe from the shadows. Is she trying to get rid of him or really enjoying it, are they exchanging numbers? Excellent advice right there. You need to have the presence of mind to observe these moments without her knowing you are watching. Perfect opportunity to see her true colors. Don't know why guys don't do this more often and feel the need to step in. These moments let you know if she is worth keeping around or dumping.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:48 AM
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Why is she still talking to her ex? No contact with exes. This should have been established before you upgraded her to LTR status. This may just be a ploy to get you jealous and talk to her though. She is trying to dread you, don't allow her to manipulate you.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 07:20 PM
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She ain't his gf, he should see it as commitment free sex and spin plates.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 04:27 PM
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A job is something a woman does when she is not working.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:28 PM
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If you are not a troll then the answer is obvious. You are not ready for an LTR and she is not a girl you should remain committed to. I hope you take the advice here and dump her. This thing with other guys is not acceptable since you are presumably in a monogamous relationship with her. Her indifference and resentment towards you speak volumes. She is probably already cheating or working to cheat on you and you should get out as soon as possible for your own good.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 02:12 PM
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If what she is telling you about her LDR is true, why would you have feelings for a cheating hoe? She is clearly not relationship material and it would not be surprising if she did the same thing to you in your old relationship. As for being a plate as a guy it just doesn't make sense. As long as you are getting commitment free sex from her you are winning since you are free to have multiple women. Frame it this way, her LDR should be the one giving her the validation and attention that she want…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 08:02 PM
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Last note man, I don't know how you found 3 girls in a row that all confessed to having herpes. Find some less shady cunts if you don't want to deal with that. Actually I'm surprised they did tell him, I know of some girls who are aware they have it but do not tell their sexual partners. At least if they tell him he knows what he's getting into, besides this LTR of his. I would be more concerned with why she should took a Herpes test. That isn't a standard STD panel because it's so inaccurate. T…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:52 PM
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It makes sense that women would sexually mature sooner than men for their own safety as they are the selective sex.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 12:29 PM
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They would not have to emphasize the fact that they should walk away from this type of guy if it was easy for them to do so. It's why you always read dating advice from women's blogs or magazines on how avoid jerks. If it were easy for them to do so then you wouldn't have all these articles and women talking about it. It's really out in the open if you can read between the lines and have the presence of mind to understand what is implied here. Better to be the man that you want to be and to purs…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 02:05 AM
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Excellent breakdown. You need to actively work on developing yourself in order to attract high value men who are willing to commit to you and lock you down. Try and see it from a man's point of view. If these men could have their pick of any women why should they pick you? You've had a really bad start at it, but it doesn't mean you should give up. However you need to be as realistic about this as possible. It is very difficult to change who you are but it is definitely doable.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:59 PM
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I remember back in my beta days, I had gotten sick and she was suppose to come over. After telling her that I was sick and asking her if she could pick me up some medicine on her way over; she decided that it was best that she doesn't come over because she couldn't get sick. And that is why she is still a plate. And as you know plates always drop one way or another so you should always be prepared for this moment anyway. Seems like this girl had too many red flags to consider as anything more th…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:49 PM
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Sounds a lot like the "that's why I only have guy friends, girls are too much drama" women that we talk about in TRP.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 02:22 AM
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I've never had that. A girl I would be dating would never ask for commitment prior to having sex with me. I can imagine if that ever happened that my response would be to laugh in their face. There is nothing to commit to and there is no relationship without sex. It helps that when dating I am always seeing multiple girls at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 01:32 PM
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Actually sex can help with cramps. My LTR did not believe me but you can look it up. Orgasms can help with period pains. I always frame it in a funny way as doctor's orders and that my intention is only just to help her and not just to have sex. This is all said with a devilish grin, implying that it is actually to just have sex. Try it next time, now whenever she has her period and is cramping really bad she always wants to do it since it actually does help. win win.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 12:16 PM
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These are only guidelins and not absolute rules, as abdada says it depends on your situation and the context of your relationship. As long as you're not coming from a scarcity mentality the number of dates is irrelevant; don't allow yourself to be usef without some benefit. Always escalate further with each date and if you are doing it correctly you can be in the position of deciding when to first have sex.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 11:52 PM
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Look at past societies where you see artwork depicting a mother and child (like Mary and Jesus). Those societies elevated the status of the woman as a mother to divinity. These cultures prospered as the role of the mother nurturing her children was the highest status for a woman. That is the opposite of what we see in the western culture today where promiscuity and feminism reign supreme. Social degredation is all around and men are waking up. This is a part of the backlash, it will get even wor…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 09:01 PM
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In your relationship, your validation went from being earned to being assumed. This one line would help so many people in their relationships. Never let her think she is entitled to anything from you unless she earns it. A woman earns it by submitting and giving you her body, along with other things an LTR would do (clean, cook, buy you shit, take you on dates, etc.).
/r/askTRP16/09/15 07:43 PM
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That's because he's lying to us and himself that she is only just a friend. She is just a friend that he wouldn't mind fucking, hence the post.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 07:38 PM
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This is the perfect analogy to explain why this guy is bothered as much as he is. But when it comes to sex and women in marriage, boy, do those rules change for the guys and their expectations. That's because we live in a society that takes the women's point of view as primary and correct. It is also a perfect example of solipsism as the man's point of view and desires are not even considered and are actively vilified as something to be shamed and ridiculed (you are an insecure and jealous jerk)…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 07:21 PM
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My experience with horse riding bitches and Tiffany's is in line with what everyone else is saying here. Isn't it nice to be able to compare notes on women with thousands of other guys online. We truly are living the dream here.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 07:13 PM
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The following quote is apt for your situation, forgive me as I am paraphrasing: I am so lucky to have married a slut that fucks like a prude. Unfortunately for you, negotiating your desire for these sexual acts with your wife will get you nowhere. TRP does a great job of ramming it into your skull that you should never explicate what can be demonstrated. Instead what is most productive is to work on increasing your sexual value (game, muscles, hobbies, social status, finances, etc.) to the point…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 06:56 PM
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It's surprisingly true. I ended up nexting a plate because I couldn't stand the way her dog behaved. When I would stay over at her place, it was clear her dog would sleep with her when I wasn't there because he would try to crawl into the bed at night. She also needed to put diapers on her dog since it could not control it's bladder. Overall it was a huge turn off as the dog was not trained well at all and the pussy was not worth putting up with that annoying ass dog and her babying of it. If sh…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 06:48 PM
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Good advice in this video. Sometimes I have issues with my shoulders when benching, good tips to ensure proper form and reduce risk of injury. It really is a full body exercise.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 06:43 PM
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I am not denying that it isn't good for a man to have mistresses, of course it is. What I did was beta however because I had to lie to my LTR about cheating. What would have been better is if I straight up told her and she could leave or stay with me, or just dump her and fuck multiple women without any guilt. Eventually I did just that and dumped her, I was not planning on marrying her and did not want her wasting her prime years on me when she could lock down someone who would be willing to ma…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 06:25 PM
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Men live for sluts like these. I don't see anything wrong with it, just don't be a fool and commit to her. User her for what she is and move on if she tries to push for more. As for society in general this is part of the overall degradation we see all around us. If only loser guys wouldn't wife up sluts like these they would be left miserable and single into old age. A cautionary tale for the young women looking to ride the CC. Unfortunately they usually find their BB, if more men wise up though…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 02:39 PM
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Why the need to cheat and lie about it? I was a massive cheater at one point throughout an old LTR. I justified it by the fact that I still treated her well and it was just side pussy. However cheating involves lying which is cowardly. Eventually I had to just break it off with her so I could sleep with other women without the need to hide it. The blackdragonblog would be a good resource to check out for how to have multiple LTRs or FWBs without the need to lie or be a cheater.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:55 AM
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You raise a good point. My current LTR had a guy friend in her social group who she hooked up with before (made out at a club). She eventually confessed it to me before meeting him (for a new years party with mutual friends) as she did not want me to look like an idiot going in without knowing. I was genuinely appreciative of her telling me this as her intentions were good, she wasn't trying to make me jealous or initiate a shit-test. Instead she told me so I knew everything before going to the …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:28 PM
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Almost exclusively I use the methods I described since you should never explicate what can be demonstrated. However she will often tell me about this or that friend that is single and relay the stories about the date or the guy her friend met or how miserable her friend is with dating around and being single. Oftentimes I will use these stories as opportunities to explain the dynamics at play and some RP concepts. A lot of the time I help her understand from the point of view of a man and she ga…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 07:44 PM
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Girls trying to betatize you is adversarial and is something to be resisted. The enemy statement is an analogy, of course I do not think that all women are my enemy, but modelling some of the dynamic in that way can be useful.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:58 PM
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The question is from the perspective of the guy in the relationship, not from the former fling. I doubt you would be okay with your girl, who you are in a committed relationship with, talking and hanging out with her ex-flings.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:23 PM
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This is why the modern world of dating is against men. Previously this would not have been socially acceptable. But now if the guy says that keeping in touch with ex-flings is unacceptable he is labelled a controlling and insecure jerk. But by keeping them around she is essentially getting the female equivalent of side pussy; since what girls truly want is validation, attention, and time with sex as a bonus. She is perfectly fine with getting the sex-free attention. So she gets to do this and he…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:20 PM
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Kenjataimu Rubbing one out would help with this, don't understand why thirsty guys don't just use this time-honored tradition to help think clearly and assess if the girl is even worth anything more than that. I find that when I fantasize about a girl and rub one out, if afterwards I feel ambivalent or grossed out then it is clear she is not a girl worth more than just dumping a fuck into.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:08 PM
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A lot of people call the bible and other religious texts old fashioned and out of date. The teachings in religious books are always relevant because they help to explain human nature. Mythology is a kind of story telling that explains such complex ideas that the stories require the use of symbols in order for our brains to understand it. On an added note movie watching in theaters nowadays is very similar to religious experiences but are not called as such in our "progressive" times.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 09:04 PM
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Being a high value man (physically, mentally, socially, etc.) will keep even the bitchiest of harpies on their best behavior. Shit that they would usually get away with when it comes to other guys would not even be considered or thought of when it comes to you. Admittedly punishing for bad behavior when it invariably occurs does require manipulation and involves you being okay with punishing your girl and depriving them of all the benefits of being with a high value man such as yourself. The var…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 09:02 PM
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I don't need to think like a girl to understand how they think. Maybe you do, so feel free to waste your time in an empathetic attempt at understanding something that will elude you forever. The ability to think like your enemy and empathize is very useful. I have often used my ability to empathize with my enemies to my advantage. Unless you're a female attempting to appear as a male, in this sub- then your "you must empathize with teh femalez" interjection makes sense. You are confusing empathi…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 06:42 PM
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Men provide, girls are equivalent to parasites that take resources the man earns/creates and gives up pussy in exchange. That is always important to keep in mind, it is a parasitic relationship. However in the past there were incentives for men to agree to this arrangement (no such thing as marital rape, status as a Father, no faultless divorce, social shaming for adulterous women). Unfortunately the useful idiots, feminists and their male lapdogs (traitors), pushed for women's entitlement and h…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 05:51 PM
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It has been easy for me to categorize women as just FWBs or potential LTRs. They all start as FWBs and have to prove they are capable of more than that with their actions, personality, and behaviors beyond just sex (they have to earn that status, and I am very picky/strict). I have even hooked up with ex's knowing they were fucking other guys and it did not bother me as they were now permanently in the category of FWBs. The girl who made that comment to me had other red flags and throughout her …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 05:26 PM
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The onus is on her to prove she is worthy of me as I know I am a great catch and there are plenty of girls out there who have and would try to lock me down. Shortly I will moving into my own place in the downtown core of my city for a new job and she has expressed the desire to move in with me. I told her that she is free to stay over but that the lease is and will be under my name and I am solely responsible for rent. This is a good arrangement for me as it keeps the ball in my court and gives …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 04:28 PM
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instead go to the gym and get a clear head Sometimes it helps to just rub one out. The post-orgasm clarity helps with preventing you from making stupid decisions. There are a lot of stupid situations that can be avoided by keeping your horniness in check.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 03:26 PM
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And because of the inherent guilt she felt over that sexual past now that she is in a relationship she appreciates more. "You know, there haven't really been that many besides you, right? I'm not one of those other girls. I really do appreciate you (sticking with me)." Astute observations. It is precisely due to my high value and future potential that she is so appreciative and is always working to earn my commitment. Unfortunately she wasn't a virgin, and in this society it is unrealistic to ex…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 03:22 PM
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Something a commentor said rang true to me. A girl with a low or zero partner count will gladly show off her lack of experience as she knows that makes her a valuable commodity. A girl with a sordid past will attempt to hide/obfuscate/mislead/etc. Ultimately if she is anything but forthcoming about her sexual past it is at least reason enough for suspicion. This made me realize that this was the case with my current LTR. She kept pushing and telling me her previous number count when we were in t…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:42 PM
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Nothing is wrong with fucking a girl with a high partner count as long as you use precautions to avoid STDs. However LTRing one is a different story. Why the fuck would I want to commit to a girl who gave her pussy away commitment-free to another guy before me (ONS, FWB, etc.). You are a chump if you pay more (with your time, energy, and commitment) to have access to the same pussy that other guys got with no strings attached. My working philosophy is that if a girl had FWBs or ONSs before me th…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 09:39 PM
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Nothing is wrong with fucking a girl with a high partner count as long as you use precautions to avoid STDs. However LTRing one is a different story. Why the fuck would I want to commit to a girl who gave her pussy away commitment-free to another guy before me (ONS, FWB, etc.). You are a chump if you pay more (with your time, energy, and commitment) to have access to the same pussy that other guys got with no strings attached. My working philosophy is that if a girl had FWBs or ONSs before me th…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 06:44 PM
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A lot of game is getting in touch with your inner boy and treating girls like annoying little sisters but in a playful fun way.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:56 PM
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You sound desperate, I would be highly surprised if you take the advice here and don't try to smash. If you are okay with the possibility of other people finding out then pursue. You should have learned from the first time you "just had something to eat" with that other work friend. Everyone asked because you probably ooze that vibe of creeping on her no matter how hard you try to tell them and yourself it was nothing. If you think the questions about the dinner with that girl were too much, ima…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 09:27 PM
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The biggest predictor of who will initiate the divorce is custody. Whoever is more likely to get primary custody of the children is the one more likely to initiate the divorce. That is not to discount the other factors, but it is the most significant one.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 05:14 PM
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That happened to my ex. Her mother in her mid-40s wanted to experience that party world again. The biggest influence was her circle of single girl friends. She saw them divorcing their husbands and enjoying that single life and wanted to join them. She ended up getting a boob job, going on trips with her single friends to exotic places. It was fun for a time, but now she's living in a shitty apartment with no prospects for a relationship and is bitter. I don't understand how she could have been …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 05:06 PM
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This video really shows how a lot of the redpill is just as much about unlearning as it is learning.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 06:43 PM
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Oftentimes it is just as useful knowing what not to do or say as it is knowing what to do.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 06:39 PM
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Why care? It is a slippery slope to play the victim when we highlight that people personally attack users who subscribe to TRP. If the people attacking me are of a different calibre than I (low life, out of shape, etc.) I would take that as a good sign that I am progressing. I saw the same thing happen to me in my own social circle. Now I am in much better company and am better off for it and importantly do not dwell on all the haters I cut out of my life. Edit: This isn't meant to discount the …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 06:14 PM
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Don't forget the Bernie Sanders support, it's almost like her account is one big caricature
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:27 PM
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Embrace the suck. Realize there will be unhappy parts of your life and there will be nothing you or anyone can do to avoid them. Instead of trying to avoid it, embrace it and see it for what it is. A necessary part of life.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 12:17 PM
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It was literally spelled out for you in the previous thread.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 04:16 AM
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Excellent distinction and one very relevant for me as I am an immigrant and my family was very poor when we first came. My father established his own successful business that I eventually plan on taking over after I gain more experience (engineering firm). Why do you think that native poor have a harder time of marraige?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:46 AM
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It's not about the dicking that girls want, it's the feelings and commitment (time and energy). Your statement is how a man thinks, it's the same thing when we complain women don't bother to learn what men want and think. It's because they fail to think like a man, just as you are failing to think like a girl, so you fail to see why an ugly girl getting dicked isn't really getting what she wants (security).
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 10:45 PM
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From what I see it's lower class women who still have a lot of beta provider options. Richer and more educated people have lower divorce rates, the social degradation has hit poorer people the hardest.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 10:40 PM
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Also, in before people start using alpha and beta as nouns. They're behavioral descriptors, not people. This definition is critical
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 10:37 PM
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She's genuinely pretty good to him - doesn't hurt he's the biggest natural I've ever seen. No doubt that being a valuable man will keep your LTR on her best behavior. As you said I would not immediately disqualify someone from an LTR just because I met them through Tinder. However in this day and age it is crucial to be well informed and be very aware of the subtle cues people can give you before committing to anyone.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:29 PM
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That being said, if I met her through Tinder, you better believe she's under the microscope for red flags. I'm in a 10 month LTR with a girl I met from Tinder. I was never closed off to the possibility of an LTR, but the girls I was fucking would constantly disqualify themselves (by seeing other guys while fucking me, keeping in contact with ex's, high partner counts, family issues, etc.). None of this bothered me as I was perfectly content to keep fucking them but would never consider them LTR …
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:00 PM
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Excellent breakdown of the mistakes made. OP, you can learn a lot from this experience and should use it as a lesson learned. Could her ex have been texting her to fuck? Oh yeah. Could he just be trying to see her? Maybe. The better approach would've been to stay in frame, and later root through her phone when she's asleep / in the shower to verify what's going on, and act from there. This right here, maintain frame. However always follow the trust but verify route. Oftentimes the best response …
/r/askTRP10/09/15 06:19 PM
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Her having male roommates is a problem no matter how much people say otherwise. Speaking from experience I've had roomates with bfs crawl into my bed late at night for a good fuck session. Ultimately being a valuable man is your best defense against infidelity but even then it may not be enough. However showing jealousy or being bothered by this will weaken your frame and you NEED to remain stoic and unaffected by this. If I were in your shoes it would be a dealbreaker for me and I would downgra…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:17 PM
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"Alpha is mindset, not a demographic" Courtesy of an article of his entitled "Alpha" where he mentions that infamous Corey kid. I'd suggest reading that article, Rollo explains well what he means by that statement and it is the thesis of his essay. You are free to disagree with it however.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 02:49 AM
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Alpha is a mindset, read The Rational Male, he does an excellent job of defining these concepts.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 06:15 PM
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I want more tho. Do not try to pursue revenge against her. You would be better served using that energy to help yourself (and you need to if you were having suicidal thoughts). And whatever you do, do not get back in contact with her under any circumstances. Don't give her any satisfaction and just go ghost. As is the usual advice, block her from being able to reach you in any way.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 05:04 PM
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secure heterosexual men who are friends have a level of implied respect within the most derogatory of statements. The kid then tries to imitate this and is told that it's incredibly offensive. It's probably the most basic social skill which isn't taught enough on here - finding the right mix between polite and kissing ass to start out and then allowing the relationship to progress. This point you make is very relevant for the Gronks! you mention. Context is critical and a lot of the time posters…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 02:57 PM
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Sometimes if I feel cheeky I would get myself a drink and them a cup of water. If she tries to give me shit I would say "what!? its good to stay hydrated" with a shit eating grin on my face. Usually playful banter follows and if not then no skin off my back.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 09:53 PM
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Trick question, they're all sluts. It just takes the right kind of man to bring it out in them.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:01 PM
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Fair enough, you saw it differently than I did. Make no mistake though that ex of mine was who I lost my virginity to. I loved her and at one point was convinced we were to be married. But after going through the breakup so we could avoid the LDR all she would ever be to me was a plate. And it didn't bother me that way as I was getting the good deal of commitment free sex. It was better that way, you could have done that as well if you didnt get "swept off your feet". That sounds like something …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:07 AM
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I had this with an ex who went to Germany for exchange. We agreed beforehand to break it off and that we could see other people but we could catch up when we were both in town. She found a boyfriend there but after she came back she broke it off with him. It did not bother me as I was hooking up with other girls at the time. Her and I still saw each other when she got back and remained as fuckbuddies. If it is a dealbreaker for her to fuck other guys theres no problem for you to break it off wit…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 11:00 PM
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He can accepther wish for exclusivity if he desires. However he should not be the one pushing for it.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:10 AM
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Women do not think logically, use her emotional thinking to your advantage. Read the 16 commandments of poon. These commandments are good guidelines for any kind of relationship.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 04:47 PM
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Why would you commit to a girl who stays in touch with ex's. That was your first mistake, make it right and leave her. Watch Tom Leykis' video, very relevant for your situation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CN6Z2JAwvtA
/r/askTRP28/08/15 02:18 PM
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Why did you make this chick your girlfriend? From the little you wrote she sounds like a super bitch. Did you not suspect she was like this before you committed to her? Even if she did apologize to you about her misbehavior you should next her regardless. Start pursuing other women ASAP and forget about her. If she tries to contact you again ignore her and move on. Learn from this and in the future do your best to screen for women with personalities like this. DO NOT COMMIT to anyone unless they…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:24 PM
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I would highly recommend Jordan Peterson's Maps of Meaning series. It is a course offered at UofT with the lectures posted online. It touches upon a lot of these topics and puts them in the context of our modern lives. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4tQOlQRp3gQ&list=PL22J3VaeABQByVcW4lXQ46glULC-ekhOp He also has good talks on The Agenda. He strikes me as prescient even though he is an academic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OeL-Fn0V8iU
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:42 PM
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It just highlights the importance of keeping these truths to yourself. I only ever talk about these kinds of things with people that I know I can. It can be easy to take for granted that TRP truths are well known. However, in other contexts (business, family, social circles) you can become a pariah if you vocalize or agree with these truths. It is best to always keep your REAL opinions to yourself. 38th law comes to mind: "Think as you like, but behave like others"
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 03:36 PM
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Bedding women has always been a huge source of validation for me That's definitely been the case for me. The biggest change from RP isn't the lay counts but rather the change in mentality. Learning to let go of the need for external validation has been the most beneficial aspect. However, that is not to discount the numerous other benefits (lifting, money, social life, pussy, etc.).
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:42 PM
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Looks like it was removed with the reason cited as: "no attempt at humor". It definitely qualifies as dark humor IMO but it seems that broaching this topic is unacceptable even though most people understand it on a basic level.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 08:57 PM
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I feel the exact same way, I don't even see it as competition since pussy can't even compete with dick. I wouldn't even be mad if a girl left me to be with another girl. Funny since one of my ex's started dating and moved in with a girl after I dumped her.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:41 PM
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I did the same thing with my LTR, encouraged her and her friend to make out in front of me. It only stopped once her friend's beta boyfriend stepped in and dragged her away. Too bad since I was enjoying the show.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:17 PM
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Excellent point about mate guarding which is why I never said anything to her. My reason for posting this is as a way to get out of my own head. As always working on my OI and abundance mentality is a top priority. Thanks for the solid advice.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:08 PM
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Not true, I've had girls literally spending minutes just sniffing me. It can work if done correctly and with everything else on point (style, physicality, looks)
/r/askTRP21/08/15 03:49 PM
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That is my perspective. Currently I'm in an LTR but spun plates for some time before this. What I wanted changed and I decided to enter an LTR. I used the pronoun "you" as a way of generalizing my thinking and mentality.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 03:21 PM
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Pursue whichever suits your wants and needs. As you change, improve, and age these wants and needs will change. Never allow yourself to be shamed (people will try to shame you, especially the more you improve yourself). Do not let others try to dictate your life for you (family, friends, women, etc.) and prevent you from living the way you desire. There is no shame in living the way you want and ultimately it is your decision to make if you want to pursue plates or LTRs. The most critical part i…
/r/askTRP21/08/15 02:53 PM
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Had to make my own reply. For those guys who think you should balance alpha/beta to keep or get girls the following is very important and critical for you to understand. There is no such thing as alpha with a side of beta or beta with a side of alpha. You should strive for your mental point of origin to be alpha. Read the rational male where he talks about this in-depth. It means always putting yourself first and not trying to be someone just to get or keep women. If you are trying to model your…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 02:44 PM
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No such thing as alpha with a side of beta or beta with a side of alpha. You should strive for your mental point of origin to be alpha. Read the rational male where he talks about this in-depth. It means always putting yourself first and not trying to be someone just to get or keep women. If you are trying to model your behavior as "balanced" because that is what women want you have already failed that shit test. Your want is always to be the top priority. EDIT: http://therationalmale.com/2012/1…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 01:02 PM
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How could this mentality be specifically applied in an LTR? Just recently I got a girls number while changing my oil for my car. I told her I would be travelling for business in the next month and would hit her up sometime. However the real reason is that I am committed to my LTR and just did this as for fun and as a backup. This is as far as I would pursue it unless I was single again. I practice abundance in other ways by having an active social life but I cannot practice the player mentality …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:34 PM
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Excellent point about speaking less about the future. I have a contact for a barrister here in Toronto and will talk to him before deciding. As for the downtown thing you make a very valid point, this is a very recent development and is something I have already accepted and made sure to never vocalize to her (it is better now but I plan on remaining vigilant as always).
/r/askTRP18/08/15 02:43 PM
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I never cared for sexting too much or naked pics. But thats usually because I'm already banging the girl or will do so very soon that there is no need for it. I can see how you can use texting to build attraction but I always found it more productive to keep it at a minimum. Face to face is a lot easier and more natural. Added bonus of them hamstering what I'm doing and why I am so busy (which you should be: work, gym, friends, hobbies, errands, etc.) It is good to keep it at a minimum and will …
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:35 PM
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I guess I just worry she's going to be upset with me and maybe be a little more flirty than usual Fair point, but if she was truly a girl committing to she would not try to get back at you. She would understand you made a promise before and respect your decision. You would be doing the right thing by sticking to your word and helping your friends and that is something a worthy woman would respect in you and not hold against you. It doesn't seem like there are any problems in your dynamic but it …
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:21 AM
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You got it, the problem is the feeling of being used. But I wouldn't see it as a problem since she is only using you for sex so you should do the same. Do not get your validation from a girl like this, see it for what it is, a booty call. If you can't handle that it is better to let her go otherwise use her for sex as well as long as you can. OP read this post as it is very applicable and explains the right mentality to have: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3h2r85/the_difference_bet…
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:15 AM
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Who cares if she upgrades him. I have a feeling she is his only plate because I doubt a free fuck thrown his way would bother him unless he cares about her actually liking him more than just fucking. It's simple: if you want to keep fucking her then do so, if you don't just next her. If her drinking bothers you that much and is a turn off then next her. Personally I've never encountered this but it doesn't sound so bad, if anything just use her as a booty call when you're bored. Unless you actua…
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:39 AM
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If you made a promise to your friends I wouldn't break it. Besides don't be worried about this specific party, they work with your girl everyday and would have plenty of time to try and pick up your girl. If she really is your LTR she must have already met your criteria of loyalty and would make it obvious to other guys that hitting on her won't work since she's taken. Besides if it goes any other way you know you made an error in judgement and can drop her anyway. These kinds of situations are …
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:33 AM
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/r/askTRP17/08/15 02:16 AM
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Funny I'm Croatian as well dating a Serbian/Bosnian girl and told her if I ever were to get married it would have to be in a Catholic church and ceremony.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:22 PM
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I've had a few LTRs where the girl was great...sweet, adored me, submissive, definitely wife material for somebody...but for me at least the chemistry just wasn't there. It's funny I've had that too and a lot of it had to do with my DGAF attitude and complete outcome independence. The more I was like that the more they tried to please me.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 06:52 PM
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Solid advice
/r/askTRP15/08/15 06:47 PM
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Work on becoming the type of man who doesn't have to consciously "pass shit-tests". That is mentally exhausting and not sustainable. By improving and working on yourself she will be grateful to even call you her boyfriend and will be just glad you are deciding to stick around. It is difficult to do but is the only long term solution especially in the context of an LTR.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 05:14 PM
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For themselves, not to keep a woman around. His reacting to her change in behavior is the wrong mindset. He should have been doing this anyway and not gotten complacent. You gave excellent advice but he should keep in mind that all of this isn't to keep her around but to make his life better and improve. Her going back to being a good girlfriend is just a byproduct of that. And even then it may be too late. EDIT: /u/DonDredper you may think it is a bitter reaction to next a girl over unacceptabl…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:50 PM
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You are all implying that he should actively be seeking to repair his relationship. I understand that the onus is all on the man but if she cannot even keep her basic end of the deal (loyalty, pleasant behavior, submissive) it is better to cut her out of your life. If you are constantly worried about your girl walking out on you or fucking you over behind your back it would be better to just drop her if only for your own peace of mind (especially since she is showing all the red flags). At the m…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:59 PM
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Tingles above all, especially for younger girls in their prime. The most important thing in a girl being faithful to you is YOU. You have to be her alpha and even then it may not be enough. Ultimately you control the commitment and can take it away if she is not holding up her end of the deal.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 08:04 PM
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It's important how you began your relationship as it sets the tone and expectations going forward. Expand on this if you want better advice, context needed.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 02:50 PM
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I cant really say ive had major red flags with her seems fine with her texting other guys ( branch swinging ) while in couple Stop being delusional. This IS a red flag if you intend on pursuing an LTR. Not to mention her mother and sister, just look to them for a good predictor of how this chick will turn out. Why not just plate her and keep her at that level?
/r/askTRP07/08/15 02:44 PM
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You're getting hung up on this guy throwing around money and looking like a "super alpha". You could actually look better in front of your GF by leveraging his lavish spending and accepting drinks from him/other guys, calling him a nice guy for buying you stuff, using him, etc. Check out the boyfriend destroyer techniques as well, it is a good list of things not to do as a boyfriend and a good way to subtly diminish value of other men (orbiters, etc.) in your GFs life should you need to. I sugge…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 02:28 PM
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Sound approach, however it comes off as weak when in the context of an LTR. It comes off as strong and speaks to a man's character if this is established as one of your rules for entering a committed monogamous LTR as it is implied you will walk away if she is not willing to accept your terms for an LTR. In this situation he has already given away some of his power by agreeing to commit to her and this isn't something to say once you have done this. Instead what he should do is take some of that…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 05:10 PM
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She told you this to see how you would react, do no take her actions/words/shit-tests personally. They will be easier to deal with if you approach it this way. In this scenario I would ignore it and move on with the conversation (not even acknowledging what she said about the lunch). However, keep in mind she is using this guy as a means of validation (one-on-one lunch). Orbiters who are sources of easy validation are the female equivalent to you having some side pussy. Furthermore, make no mist…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 05:08 PM
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I think she's absolutely beautiful and has no reason to have such low self esteem. TBH I have butterflies about her, can't stop thinking about her You've already begun pedestalizing her which is a sign of a lack of options/abundance mentality. You've caught feelings and you are showing white knight tendencies. Instead what you should be doing is pursuing girls that aren't your friends exe's (even if that friend is basically pushing her onto you). A good way to help remove her from the pedestal i…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 02:15 PM
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Croatian as well currently dating a serb chick, very interesting content here.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:01 PM
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Trust me I learned from experience. I fooled around with a chicks who had boyfriends/husbands and assumed they would keep quiet about it since it would tarnish their image. Instead they would blab to their friends, not be careful with messages, or confess and word always got out. Now I always go under the working assumption that word will get out and make my decision based on this.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 05:23 PM
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If you decide to go through with it just assume that word will get out. Now if that fact does not concern or worry you then proceed. If it does concern you then don't do it. Besides if all these ladies find you hot then I am sure other chicks that are not in your neighborhood will think so too. Weigh the risks/rewards and decide for yourself if it's worth it. Go under the working assumption that people will know about your wife fucking escapades.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 04:52 PM
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Funny you should say that we did something like that a couple of months ago with polaroids (like the ones you take in a booth) except it was pictures of doing cutsy shit and some of us doing sexual stuff together. I folded the polaroids and put them in my wallet. There is a good side and a naughty side which I flip over randomly depending on my mood. If I'm ever out on the town for the night I flip the polaroid film to the sexy side and get all kinds of stares from chicks when they see it at the…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 04:36 PM
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Wasn't looking for a specific idea or item. Instead I was polling to see general thoughts or examples that others have used. The advice to provide something of an experience and not a material gift was really good, hence why I decided to go for the hot air balloon ride which I know she will love (especially since she can show it off to her friends with pics and shit).
/r/askTRP04/08/15 04:28 PM
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My LTR found the rational male book and started trying to give me shit over it. I laughed at her for trying to tell me what I should or should not be reading. She has basically forgotten about it now and it was not a big deal nor did I treat it like one.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 01:22 PM
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Davidoff - Cool Water is great for the summer. Paco roban is great too I switch up my scents every now and then and my girl always goes wild for it sniffing me.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:54 PM
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Excellent explanation of frame and this sentence you quoted highlights the exact wrong mentality to have when deciding how to proceed. You need to understand that YOUR frame is the foundation upon which your relationship is built on.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 06:48 PM
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Somtimes after the fact it is useful to explain to her why she was wrong and how. Patrice talks about this as well and I use it with my LTR and when I do she eventually laughs and acknowledges why she was wrong.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 01:52 AM
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Why are you even writing a post about her and talking to her without your cousin around? You've been chewed out and you deserve it. Scarcity mentality, it's time and energy you could be using getting multiple other prospects.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:56 AM
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This concept physical neoteny is mentioned in "The Manipulated Man"
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:34 PM
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Unfortunately he is not holding frame. He genuinely believes what he says but just lacks the conviction to stand by it once the women become aggressive and hostile towards him and begin their shaming. Once you understand the shaming tactic women (and people) use and why they resort to this approach you can clearly see that it is because they have no means of addressing your ideas directly. Instead they must resort to shaming (intimidation and manipulation) as a means of putting you back in your …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 09:05 PM
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No he didn't he backpedaled the moment they called him out on it. Look at his face when the ladies try to call him out, he is fearful. And the other talking head manboob is just trying to appease them.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 03:51 PM
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Alternatively: "I don't want a girl other guys wouldn't hit on"
/r/askTRP12/07/15 08:38 PM
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Thank you all for the great advice, it's a tough position to be in but I've learned my lesson and will keep my interactions with her dad strictly cordial and nothing more. I have learned that your in-laws are not your friends and to keep them at arm's length. I will go to the reunion as I already accepted the invitation and it would look bad if I cancelled now (the timing would be suspect too and I don't want him to know I know anything about this and will continue to play dumb) By the way she h…
/r/askTRP11/07/15 05:17 PM
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Since I have you here, could you speak to my edit regarding her single friends? Is my thinking with regards to that topic in line with TRP? I have no cause for concern now and am thoroughly enjoying this LTR but we all know: you can plan a pretty picnic but can't predict the weather.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 12:08 AM
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Fair point. If he was to try and shit test or rattle my frame what is a good response? I'm inclined to either go the ignore or agree and amplify route. If it's something requiring a more forceful response I can insinuate he's trying to hit on me and tease him in front of everyone or go with intimidation as I am bigger than him. However like I said before it's a team effort so my approach is to have fun, keep it lighthearted and work as a team. I'll update if anything else progresses. By the way …
/r/askTRP04/06/15 11:52 PM
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Link to the video or article?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:44 PM
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Thank you, I welcome different views on these things and find it useful to take them into account when conceptualizing ideas and mentalities. Good luck to you too.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 04:51 AM
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The reason I did it was that by insisting on maintaining the lie you are implying you are smarter and more capable than even reality and others around you. As an example if a friend of mine did this I would call him out on his shit especially if he insisted on trying to maintain it (usually a guy would admit to it and laugh it off and you would both continue doing what you were doing). To be honest I am doing this because I care about the integrity of our relationship dynamic and honest communic…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 04:42 AM
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I wouldn't straight up lay it out how lying is bad as if she were a child. I actually understand that it is unreasonable to never expect her to lie since I know everyone lies (myself included). However, I did give her shit for it since she kept on insisting she was telling me truth while we both knew that wasn't the case. I withdrew positive attention and that sent the message better than any words could. She wanted to leave but left the window open for me to comfort her. I took that opportunity…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 04:31 AM
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Excellent response, particularly regarding the stoicism part and accepting that people lie (myself included obviously). I guess I just had the first real account of how she would go about lying to me and it bothered me. If instead I had already accepted that everyone necessarily lies all the time it could have just rolled off me and we could have kept the good times going. I appreciate the hilarious and batshit crazy comment and would do well to regale you with tales of my hustlin ways.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 04:11 AM
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Oddly enough it's exactly how my father would react to my mother (they've been married 27 years). He is the most RP man I have met in real life and I model a lot of his behavior even though I can see where he is weak and do my best to avoid it. I also told her if she ever says "I'm leaving" the next time that I wouldn't bother stopping her, I only called her bluff this time since it was obvious she wanted to take her time """"leaving""""" my place.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 04:02 AM
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Meant it in the sense that a pathological liar can recognize that behavior in another well (ie. a hustler can recognize when someone's hustlin' something). Disregard the terrible paraphrasing but you know what I'm getting at.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:52 AM
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Not a bad approach, would be good to keep that line of thinking in mind being light hearted and funny about something like this instead of grilling her.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:30 AM
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what got lost in focusing on that was the fact that her subconscious behaviors and tells during this confirmed case of lying to his face gave him insight into other, far more important times he's seen these behaviors in her. Exactly, I didn't really go into it too much in my post but what really bothered me was that she was using the exact same tactics, lines, and behavior that she used at other times when she insisted she wasn't lying (ie. only slept with 4 other guys before you). When she init…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:23 AM
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You have to set up your situation so that you're not able to be fucked . What in your situation is lacking that exposes you to risk? Essentially when in an LTR you can be fucked if the other person lies to you. Appreciate the encouragement to keep posting, hoping others can learn from this as well even if it's what not to do.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:19 AM
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Thats also the reason I kind of started it. Might sound strange and stupid but as I was doing it that thought crossed my mind
/r/askTRP21/05/15 09:54 PM
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Didnt mean to brag about if, its actually something Im not proud of and take it as a lesson to learn from since I hurt those close to me. I guess I use the fact that I can get women as a crutch to demonstrate Im not a chump. I realize now how stupid that is and is the exact opposite of non neediness. Thanks again for the advice as always its on point
/r/askTRP21/05/15 09:46 PM
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That was my point too, since she would do this about something so stupid she would do it all the time. She didn't like me calling her out on that. But I agree with the other posters, this was over something very stupid. Still, this is why I acted the way I did in the first place since I made that connection.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 09:14 PM
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I owned those mistakes from my past which is why I'm working hard not to repeat them again. Essentially it came down to my ex's gaining weight, not trying to look good for me by dressing down all the time, etc. It killed my attraction for them so instead of just breaking the LTR off I took attention from other women and justified that it was okay since I treated my exe's well otherwise. It was after this that I realized what I was doing was dead wrong and cowardly. It was around this time too th…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 09:09 PM
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YES you should have dropped it. But this incident is a good thing, because it highlights that you have some shit to deal with. You are right, it is clear that I do have shit to deal with that I should be more trusting and not suspecting the worst especially when she has given me no reason to suspect anything. It's really weird that you wanted to call her out on a non-point. It's more likely you just wanted to call her out in general, or start a fight. Why? To be honest, I guess I am going throug…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 09:04 PM
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Not proud of it, the reason I posted was to look for a different perspective and get out of my own head.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:37 PM
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Haha I guess it is because in previous relationships I would fool around with multiple women and maintain a mini-harem of girls on the side which is why I alluded to the hustler part. I have grown past that at this stage of my life since I saw how that dynamic can really poison a relationship. But your comment really puts it into perspective how stupid and trivial this is. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:35 PM
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Thank you all for the great feedback. Looking back on it and with your comments I see what a tool I was being and how stupid it was. I'm taking all criticism to heart and intend on doing my best to adopt the proper mindset and frame going forward. I really do appreciate askTRP for being a forum where I can gain perspective on things that I normally would not be able to on my own.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:33 PM
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Thank you for the sound advice. Looking back you are right that it is a non-event and that I am making a mountain of a molehill. I was being unfair about something that wasn't a big deal. I had the kind of thinking you said initially (not a big deal, non-issue, etc.), but when she kept insisting that she didn't know what I was talking about and denying what she did I kept pushing it (looking back on it I should have just dropped it at that point). However I did not act upset or angry while this …
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:26 PM
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Thank you. The funny thing is that I could have pursued that side action with the ex-plate among others. She is hotter than my gf (only slightly), but not nearly as ideal in almost every other aspect. I decided against it since it would involve lying. I figure cheating in this case would be cowardly since it would come from a place of being afraid of getting hurt so you hurt the other person first. And since I hold her to a high standard I have to hold myself at an even higher standard to exempl…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:47 PM
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I like the cut of your jib, I am a controlling tyrant but this is more my internal dialogue, I don't display this behavior with my girls since it is an obvious display of low-value. The only reason I would care if she talks to a guy is that this isn't just some rando but a jacked guy with an SMV comparable to mine (something I'm not used to). You are right though, he could be Chad McThundercockas but I should still internalize the mindset that it doesn't matter. Easy to write, but hard to implem…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:09 PM
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Thank you for the sound advice, you are right that the thinking behind the post is needy. So far I have not let my girl know this and haven't brought it up since and continued like normal. I just needed to vent my insecurities out on asktrp and see if I was missing something or thinking about it too much. It's clear now that I care too much and that I can only control my mindset. Some of it has to do with the horror stories I read about and know of in my own social circles about girls cheating w…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:02 PM
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Developing an abundance mentality is the hardest part. I had no problem with it when I was spinning plates (she was part of my rotation). But once I am committed even though I know I have other options for poosy it is difficult not to care. I am realizing now that an abundance mentality does not mean having options with other women but developing a mindset of outcome independence.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:53 PM
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Not gonna lie, I am jealous. Not used to it since most guys can't compare to my SMV. However I intend on using that energy to focus even harder on my fitness. I have made significant gains with even my gf trying to tell me not to get any bigger or work out as hard (classic shit test). Thanks for the response.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:41 PM
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Interesting analysis on the babytalk phenomena. I have a link to the CH blog where he mentions babytalk: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/03/21/found-useful-relationship-advice-from-a-woman/ A select quote from it: Baby talk is OK, as long as it is the woman feeling a compulsion to speak that way when in the private company of her man....The fact is, women regress to a vulnerable child-like state when all their sexual buttons are being pressed by a man they love. Baby talk is a natural exten…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 04:59 PM
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there are plenty of naive and ignorant guys that even getting married isn't a huge problem, provided they can conceal their past reasonably well. A woman can conceal her past reasonably well, but keep in mind that it is more difficult to do so now with the ubiquity of social media in people's lives and will become more difficult in the future. More importantly however, with the collective knowledge and field experience from the redpill and associated communities a man can better identify the beh…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 04:45 PM
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I agree with you that girls who know their way around a dick are fun to have sex with since they know how to get me off well. However, the topic becomes relevant in an LTR or marriage context. A woman with a higher count generally has a harder time pair bonding and will constantly compare you to her previous lovers in terms of performance and adequacy. If you are her best lay then this poses less of a problem. However, the more previous partners she has had the less likely that will be the case.…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 03:18 PM
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I call it jetpacking instead of being the little spoon; always makes my girls laugh when I re-frame it that way.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 07:53 PM
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Classic shit test. If this is an isolated or infrequent thing I would treat it as a tease and not take her words seriously (she is trying to incite jealousy). My gf tells me that guys hit on her sometimes and I don't let it phase me and treat it as a shit test (mostly ignore, sometimes tease). She volunteers this information as a way of telling me about her day with the subconscious purpose of gauging my response and trying to get emotions from me (jealousy, anger, seeing if I get butthurt etc.)…
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Every time I fucked a girl that was in a committed LTR or married, word got out every single fucking time (they felt guilt and confessed, told their friend and word got out, were not careful and hubby found out, etc.). After learning from this I went under the working assumption that eventually word will get out and made my decision to pursue based on this. Needless to say the number of taken women I screwed around with dropped dramatically. Of course there were those times when they would hide …
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She would be upset if I did the same thing with another girl as she told me so when I declined offers with other female coworkers I trained. I hold her to the same standards. This was established before I even considered entering an LTR with her. My meaning is similar to Tom Leykis where the rules are established before entering into a commitment. That is RP in my opinion.
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haha I like the snickers comment. And his advice is great, will do well to keep it in mind.
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Fair reply, it is best to take a hands off approach which was my original plan. However, this guy is not her senior and is someone who she is training to take over for her when she leaves. I do not care if she spends time with him working as it is a legitimate work responsibility. The only thing is that it is not acceptable for her to go to lunch alone with him to socialize as this was established long before. The reason I know is because I have been asked by other women before to join them for …
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She is more like an introverted type of girl and prefers games instead of going to clubs and doesn't have a lot of friends. She is also insecure and has daddy issues. She knows I have other options and always gets jealous even if an other girl looks at me. She also sent a picture to one of her gamer friend (beta orbiter) about herself asking how does she looks like So many things to go over: Don't make the mistake of thinking just because she is introverted and likes gaming instead of clubs that…
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The guy called you "Mr Perfect", is described by your wife as a beta and has shit tested you before? He did this since my gf has shown me off in the past and he got tired of her talking about me and made that sarcastic comment. I've read the boyfriend destroyer techniques and this is certainly NOT what he is trying to do (that approach would not dawn on him). Instead he gets butthurt when I am mentioned and complains that my LTR spends too much time with me. This is the man who organizes the eve…
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I've been with my wife for 10 years, married for 5, and I can tell you that I was never happier than before I was married. Shit is just never the same Do you think she could just as reasonably say the same thing about you?
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