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I see your point but the picture is very black and white. If a woman is interesting to talk to and hang out with in a non-sexual, non-romantic way then why would it be weird to develop romantic feelings for that person. You say it as if thats a bad thing. You are basically saying its only ok if the man either suppresses such feelings or disqualifies the woman for other things like looks or whatever. Not saying it can't work but if theres such a good match it just seems natural that there will be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:48 AM
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delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:03 PM
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But thats a completely different thing. Where are the stories "I married my escort"? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:32 AM
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Dunno even with matches the conversion rate is abysmal. IRL you can have instant chemistry so you are already two steps further along right from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:30 AM
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It definitely possible. Sometimes you can see people bouncing from group to group cracking the ice with even the most closed off groups. They just have fun and usually do not expect anything in return, are not discouraged by the occasional cold shoulder. They just give good vibes to everyone. Aspire to become such a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:28 AM
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Its hard for most of us. I know I can do it but most nights I am not in the right mental state for it to click. Its less objective optics but more mindset which translates into how you carry yourself and how you interact with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:24 AM
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I highly doubt anyone regardless of gender whos not an alcoholic goes to bars strictly 'to have fun within their group'. Maybe if its a mixed group but then they would also be open for outsiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:20 PM
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lol if you read the "papers" the early feminists wrote its pure unscientific man-hate nothing more. Its infuriating to have to read as a young male student. The critical discussions about it in my course were fair though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:39 PM
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As a dude whose first gf was very much into anal: also find it meh I think its a scarcity thing. Humans seek stuff thats hard to get for some reason. I am pretty sure its the same mechanic with sex in general for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:31 AM
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amen brother. current society in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:25 PM
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I can only guess that one aspect of this is likely that most men cater to women quite a lot. Now someone that doesn't give a shit who is a self centered prick might be a novel challenge in that light.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:23 PM
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I have seen this first hand. Her boyfriend, an Adonis with a PhD that would cook for her several days of the week and she was in her own words 'bored' cause he 'is too nice'. lol wtf he deserves better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:20 PM
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Its always nice to have options and theres definitely a barrier to commiting to one option and thus reject all others. Not only in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:12 PM
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I would even go so far as to say those rules of behaviour are universal. They just express differently in different roles and circumstances. In the same shoes most people will act the same. Its really eye opening when you do realize this in such a situation where you act exactly like what you observed before and didn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:09 PM
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Women are unsure themselves of what they want and imho it oscillates (not talking about top 20% attraction, most men would also bang any supermodel). For men its clear: I want her, lets go! For women its more ambivalent. They also sort of want it but also have some parts in them that block them from just going for it. Because they know (from experience) that as soon as they let down the guard its on and hard to stop. This uncertainty/ambivalence is clearly visible and it also has nothing to do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:07 AM
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This, also the reference experiences, like the first crush etc. are going to be crushingly frustrating whereas the attractive guys will have good first experiences which will motivate them further. The others will question themselves because in pop culture the first crush is depicted as being awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:48 AM
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Imho its even worse that boys are fed a giant heap of misinformation instead. It similar for girls though they also get sold on a 'the one' fantasy and whatnot. But I guess for girls it easier to live with these wrong concepts since they are in the position of pacing and selecting advances which doesn't require them to be active much themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:35 AM
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Why do you have to insult innocent birds?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/20 10:16 PM
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Thats not true. I totally see where you are coming from and in parts I am inclined to agree but I think its wrong never the less. Women are surprisingly similar, if you ever were to switch roles you would realize that you automatically behave in a similar fashion as the women you describe. The rest is down to character. When women act in a certain infuriating way its because we let them and also all the men before let them, accepted it and even supported their behaviour. You cannot change a woma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 07:50 AM
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Its toxic for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:10 PM
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Spot on. I have a friend whos attractive and well off and has many of these hard principles and he likes to talk about them. Always creates a tense vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:56 PM
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Thats already it. Just state out of the blue (your innocent flirting) "youre hot" then go back to what you did and watch her reaction. Just put yourself out there, if shes not interested she'll let you know otherwise push further (a light touch here and there etc. pp.). Takes some balls but in my experience even if shes not interested/available she'll appreciate it and it made for a better connection. IMHO apart from being totally out of touch with the situation and attraction levels, being cree…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:53 PM
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I had my fair share of exposure to feminism, I did gender studies at university and reading some "science" papers of feminists was really eye opening. Any man who preclaims himself a feminist must have a completely different understanding of feminism than what those papers represent otherwise he would resent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 01:35 PM
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Real(tm) feminists would never be my friends because I am a privileged, white, male pig. But luckily I know a few to know how they think. The self-delusion is real, they think thjey are helping men but when you look at the actions and outcome.... no, no they don't at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 10:57 AM
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I think you are spot on with the validation seeking and root cause of it but I'd like to object. PUA/TRP is not just aimed at getting validation. Most guys I know that engaged in this stuff just desperately wanted a girlfriend, a connection, and be loved and yes of course sex. The problem standing in between that is that they doubt themselves and are insecure, which is not attractive. They weren't assured of unconditional love as kids and tried to mold themselves into anything that made their pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 12:09 AM
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yeah, feminism is by definition sexist and only concerned about women. Feminists on top of that try to make it somehow wrong to oppose it by pretending to include men. Just read the wikipedia pages on feminism and masculinism (which would be the proper counterpart). Its sadly so bad and so much accepted by society that men just have formed other outlets, like redpill or MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 11:33 PM
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IMHO you are right. Never understood why theres a redpill branch for women? Isn't the whole idea of red pill to rip men out of the fantasy society (and women) is selling them? In this world view women are already on top, as soon as the men wake up it will even out on its own fpr them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 11:22 PM
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Here's a thought: What if that is still natural selection at work and it is still perfectly on course? Maybe the optimal human IQ for survival isn't a high one when its so prone to neuroses and insecurities. The whole idea is based on the assumption that a higher IQ is always better. Say there is a major disruption in society, the insecure nerds may not be able to provide stability by ruthlessly taking control. Dunno, we always think we are above nature..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 01:34 PM
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lol +-~5kg is normal fluctuation just from water and shit digesting material in your body
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 06:52 PM
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Babe.... you gotten fat.... jus sayin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 06:49 PM
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Yeah its true and really sad. A SJW feminist associate of mine is actively policing speech and considers equality of outcome a good idea, is pro gendering, the full package and then at the same time shes super anxious and says she feels like talking to people at work is like walking on eggshells. No shit sherlock because behind every word, every little action, every pronoun hides someone who might be offended or some random gender theory that deems it inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:56 PM
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What if I want to go down on her and then fuck her right and proper afterwards? Animals sniff the genitals first as well to check for genetic matching and if shes ready to conceive. I consider myself an animal :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:40 PM
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Just stop caring about women for a while and try to be happy on your own! Your grammar is fine, never put yourself down or broadcast your weaknesses. You are good enough the way you are, even already in your current constitution, good enough as a human, good enough as a working man, good enough as a mate. Remember that. Everybody else is faking it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:27 PM
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Nah, had a dad but similar problems. My parents are part of the problem tho but its not as easy as missing dad => nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:17 PM
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99% of men I know and 80% of women I know think that the current form of feminism is stupid. I know three hardcore social-justice feminists, two are women and one is a nerdy guy that clearly is pushing through a lot of issues with socializing and women.BUT this shit is coming on strong within society and I fear for the coming generations. Example: At our university since some year its policy to leave doors open if theres a female student and a male teacher/professor in the room because the uni h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 08:39 PM
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Attraction, they are willing (subconsciously) look paast certain red flags when a nice genetic meal is on the table. With most guys imho woman are more or less indifferent (yeah its maybe not bad but its also not a one in a million deal), that triggers a lot more rationalization. Its also a way of saying no, sometimes its just BS so they are not burdened by the responsibility of initiating mating with a mediocre partner. It also shows certain attractive qualities if the man is not discourage by …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 08:11 PM
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