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This is great! The only part that I don't agree is with the women doing the approach. Most guys will have to grind.
/r/seduction05/05/20 09:46 PM
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It probably says more about you then the women. You probably got something to work on men. Women are very good at reading red signs. Instead of trying to get a long term relationship work on yourself and invest on your goals and aspirations! You're probably lacking confidence or you're probably giving out bad traits that don't work in a long term relationship. Also it could be the women you are talking to. If your picking up bar chicks or druggies/single mothers that could be an issue. Am not sa…
/r/seduction02/04/20 10:23 PM
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Be more physical. And what I mean more physical I mean be more touchy in a positive way. Check out videos of Chris Hemsworth how he touches he's costars and how he hugs them. He's not creepy he's just a physical guy. And also never be the guy to hide under the pretense of being friends to only later tell her your interested. This is betrayal in your part and makes you a creep who has ulterior motives. Always show your motives tell a girl your interest in her and if she wants to be friends tell h…
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:41 PM
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It's not that pickup artistry is trash but that the people who say are "gurus" or PUA masters are trash. RDS guys fucked it up by going around the world and starting choking foreign women and acting like misogynistic idiots. Guys need to understand that other men will shame you whenever you are trying to get better with women and so will women. There's this psychological thing that automatically guys will call you a loser or a manipulator for leaning how to be social. Funny things is that women …
/r/seduction01/04/20 07:00 PM
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Exactly. And even if you do get out of the friend zone he will question why the fuck was he stuck with one chick when he could be piping multiple ones. Wish Reddit was a thing 12 years ago so I could have gotten this massage! So many girls I lost cause I got invested on one undecisive girl.
/r/seduction31/03/20 12:21 PM
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Just date an older women. Jesus stop bragging lol.
/r/seduction31/03/20 08:40 AM
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You wanna know the solution? The solution is getting her a competition. She already knows you like her, fancy her, hell you even probably compliment her non stop. But what has she done for you? Has she given you a blow job? Back massage? Nah. Go talk to other women. You gave her validation without her qualifying herself to you. (Keyword) you were too easy mate. Let her go! You heard me! Let her go! Stop talking to her. You have oneitis. You gave this women too much emotional investment. You need…
/r/seduction31/03/20 08:37 AM
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I still stick with the old school mystery ideology mixed in with Richard la ruina natural and cajun style. RSD guys dropped the ball when they started fucking around in foreign countries and doing stupid shit like chocking asian chicks and getting into the crazy white feminist's radar. Instead of putting the community in a good light they made the whole pickup, seduction, and self help community look like slime misogynist idiots.
/r/seduction30/03/20 01:15 AM
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For women is a bit different because they don't pursue. But I've noticed that most women don't understand the dynamic of attracting men. What you can do as a women is set up the interaction and then letting him think he picked you instead you picking him. Many women have lost the art of seduction because feminists discouraged women being feminine and using soft power and to rely on masculine power. Lock eyes with a men you fancy and smile. This tells a men that you are available to talk to him. …
/r/seduction28/03/20 10:40 AM
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Why are you trying to validate yourself to me? If you know the truth then take action and seize glory.
/r/seduction25/03/20 06:02 AM
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You can. And the best way to treat them normally is to deflect their bullshit tests and qualify them. You're in the right direction then most guys who give women compliments without getting anything in return. Just remember when a girl is being bratty like that she's probably wet and wants you to fuck her 😉 don't get mad lol. Be witty and throw it right back in a playful mood.
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:22 PM
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Am not saying you did. You gotta understand that most women today are entitled/ damaged and you must not indulge them on their drama. The best way to negate it, isn't for you to stoop to their level. Women aren't creatures of reason. See, you were trying to reason with her on her bad behavior. Women are emotional creatures and don't give a fuck about facts. Like I've said the best way to handle women like this is to hold masculine frame and treat her like your little sister and tease her. Trust …
/r/seduction24/03/20 07:37 PM
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She's probably is busy. But the reality is that she isn't invested in you that much or really wants play hard to get. Best option is to start talking to other women and keep her on the side as you keep doing.
/r/seduction24/03/20 03:23 PM
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It's a numbers game men. I had shit ton of women ghost me. 1. Either because I was too forward. 2. Came as too needy 3. Didn't escalate into being sexual 4. Or she probably has better options 5. She wasn't looking for dates but validation 6. She wants to be wanted without intimacy or being physical Women are fickle men, and it's even worse when it comes to dating apps because they always chase the 5% percent. When it comes to dating apps you have to look at yourself as an entrepreneur and try to…
/r/seduction23/03/20 09:43 PM
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Am talking from my experience. Honestly if it doesn't apply to you why are so defensive? I would say the same thing about men when women are being abused by them emotionally. Cut your ties with toxic people. But this thread is for men who don't know how to traverse this toxic behavior women have. Men by nature want to protect women be it physically or emotionally. The sad reality is that damaged women will never thank them or care for it. And whenever a women is on the right path will most likel…
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:01 PM
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Trust me they all do. It hunts them lol. All this dude's constantly fighting for her attention and it's always negative traits like just liking her for her body and want nothing to do with her personality or her ambitions, her goals in life. Check out more on how this women look whenever they are live on Instagram just trying to cook or not wanting to do anything sexual. They look souless and low key depressed because every guys just fetishizer her as a sexual object and everyone that's on the l…
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:10 PM
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You're too stupid to realize that the thread was about how to handle toxic women that want nothing to with you but are only fishing for compliments or validation. You don't have to be a "pick up" artist to notice that some women do abuse men mentally and only use them for validation. If you don't wanna hear the advice that's fine but don't label or be negative to people actually trying to help others because you're an idiot who thinks everyone is a pickup artist.
/r/seduction22/03/20 08:54 PM
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He was talking about the manipulative women that only wants to tease you. Damaged women.
/r/seduction22/03/20 08:50 PM
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That was the point of the thread how to avoid or interact with toxic/damaged women. The sad reality is that the majority of women are damaged and that subconsciously do try to drain men out of their time and emotional investment without giving back. This men are called orbiters that she always has who she fishes for attention and validation without the risk of having to deal with him physically or emotionally. This is why I tell men whenever a women starts complaining about her ex or traumas to …
/r/seduction22/03/20 08:49 PM
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The reason why they put you in the friendzone is because you never touched them made sexual cues to them. at least that was my mistake, and then out of the blue tell them am attracted to them. Imagine someone just randomly talking to you and then saying they are attracted to you? That's what guys do whenever they get friendzone And stay away from damaged women. I've noticed that it's harder say then done because the majority of women are damaged. The best advice I can give you is knowing you wil…
/r/seduction22/03/20 08:44 PM
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Yeah you might have to talk to your doctor men.
/r/seduction22/03/20 05:06 AM
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I don't know men. I used to be border line autistic and didn't know a lick of english. All am hearing is excuses why you don't wanna change your life for the better. I can't help you if you can't help yourself.
/r/seduction22/03/20 04:55 AM
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Dude you gotta change your lifestyle and the way you see life. You gotta be more positive, go to the gym. Even if you are gay you're still gonna have to talk to people. You're just making excuses for not changing your bad habits.
/r/seduction22/03/20 04:48 AM
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Dude no one is naturally gifted. Stop bitching and actually do it. You gave more excuses then actually being positive. Honestly if you were a girl, would you date yourself? If the answer is no! Then fucking change! You think am so fucking suave Don Juan who's swimming in pussy and knew how to talk to women in the beginning??? Fuck no! I literally had to try and fail! Am still failing! Stop making excuses. Stop putting yourself down and saying you're gonna freeze and be a all feminine and shit. A…
/r/seduction22/03/20 04:29 AM
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Also you're gonna have to realize that your first time will suck. Just tell her the truth, she will respect you if she ain't a bitch and always communicate when having sex on how she likes to be touched. You gotta break some eggs in order to make omelettes.
/r/seduction22/03/20 03:19 AM
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Don't watch porn. All male oriented porn is just guys satisfying their ego and imagination. If you must, look at porn tutorial on how to eat pussy and look at lesbian porn (real lesbian porn) the way they kiss, it's very soft and passionate. And the way they touch each other and how they escalate into full blown sex. For once stop jacking off and study! Every guy knows what to do on intimate situation bro. You look at her eyes (pupils dilated) and start touching and go for the kiss and start mak…
/r/seduction22/03/20 03:17 AM
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You should take some time to heal men. If you said you were engaged then it's not a very good idea to fuck around since it will only satisfied your sexual urges. The way you make it sound, it feels like you feel empty without someone there to give you affection and be there to support you. I know this might sound cliche but take 3 months to let your heal wounds and try new hobbies or workout. And then try to jump back in getting someone. Unless you wanna fuck around then do it but just letting y…
/r/seduction22/03/20 03:09 AM
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It's not that complicated. You're only describing what you're gonna do to her if she was there with you. Watch Don Juan by Johnny Depp and check out in one of the scenes he's talking to a women sitting with her on table, and how he turn her on. Like I've said the way women get turn on is a very slow and ritualistic process that begins by touching and slowly escalating. Enjoy the process! I don't understand why men wanna just fuck like jack rabbits and be done in 20 second! Most men don't care if…
/r/seduction22/03/20 01:31 AM
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I got you homie! When you're in any dating app it's a numbers game. But I usually start with 1."you got a beautiful smile that radiates and gives me good vibes" and I wanna get to know you. 2. hey I think you're cute and I want you to be my favorite mistake! (Cocky and funny) Or check out their bio and build your starting convo around that. I Usually start the convo with how they have this aura of calmness or that they have this very infectious smile that radiates! Be descriptive with words! I u…
/r/seduction21/03/20 09:17 PM
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Yes and no. It depends on the style of the individual. While it's true you can make a girl lose interest you can also build comfort and security with her. Especially with this damn virus running a mock.
/r/seduction21/03/20 06:32 PM
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In order to be a master one must never forget to self deprecate. Les you become corrupted by your ego!
/r/seduction20/03/20 10:07 PM
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It was natural because you didn't know you were doing it. Either way good luck bro.
/r/seduction20/03/20 09:41 PM
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You're not building tension my guy. You're building comfort and security. Stop thinking with your balls and actually make yourself to be a cool dude.
/r/seduction20/03/20 09:34 PM
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Have a phone date. Be creative and Skype each other. Don't look at it as a negative. Look at it as a time to build comfort for her and make her feel safe around you. Am dealing with the same situation, Haven't asked her out yet cause of this stupid virus but I been thinking of talking to her on the phone and listening to her voice and telling her what I would do to her if was there 😈
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:55 PM
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You are absolutely right. But that's like the 5% percent of men. Am taking about the men who think they are ugly yet haven't worked on themselves. You just have to look masculine and it's bonus if you have scars. What we want from women is totally different then what they want from us.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:52 PM
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Looks do matter. A guy that's attractive can get away with saying corny shit or be cringey and be considered cute. While a regular joe would be considered creepy. The ideal thing to have is a mixture of both. To say confidence trumps good looks is debatable. And to be confident you have to have positive affirmation/reinforcement. Many attractive men had positive reinforcement when growing up by compliments by women, good father figure, stable family, and income. I would argue that being looking …
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:39 PM
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It's all about grinding and bettering yourself. PUA tactics are good but they are only placebo pills to calibrate your brain to think more positive and in the moment. Too many man have trauma or never had a father figure, the only way you're gonna get better with women is by bettering your life.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:26 PM
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You're just nitpicking. By approaching you have already shown interest, and besides women aren't stupid. It depends on how you approach them if you're too needy or have the abundance mentality. And being social doesn't make you attractive but it helps when talking to the girl that you're interested( how the fuck are you gonna talk to a girl you fancy if you never have experience talking to people) think before you speak retard. And being in shape does make you fuckable, and how do you get in sha…
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:18 PM
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Well duh. It makes you not care about the outcome. Stop thinking that there's some magic pill or some kinda of ancient secret to getting women. The only way is to fail and keep hammering and become more social. And know when a girl is attracted to you.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:01 PM
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Honestly I was a virgin when it happened. I told her the truth and I did my best. Not amount of PUA or tactics will help you when you're inexperienced. Looking back at it she was very vanilla and made me do all the work. Her head game was wack and the most kinky shit she liked, was getting choked (basic white girl shit). And the only position she knew was missionary. The only thing that bothered me was that she ghosted me lol. It could have been fine if she told me I sucked or that I was just a …
/r/seduction20/03/20 09:57 AM
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Look at her eyes, pupils dilated. Plays with her hair. Licks her lips. Her feet are pointing towards you. Mimics your posture. Keeps long eye contact. Laughs at your unfunny jokes. Likes to touch you/ very touchy. What you can do: Have strong eye contact and smile Look at her lips Be physical with her Be a men and ask her if she wants to hangout.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:59 AM
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Even if you do give her a compliment she won't receive it. She's not looking for one, she's looking for a pity party. Red flag bro.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:55 AM
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Shit I got ghosted after I had sex with this girl. Weird thing is that she stills follow me on Instagram and sees my Snapchat like story on Instagram. It was really weird cause I thought I connected with her and she even told me "if I found her attractive"? and I said yes. Honestly I wasn't great in bed, but I was transparent and tried to do my best. Maybe she thought I didn't live to the hype in bed? and ghosted me cause of that. It kinda low key hurt me.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:52 AM
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Also you said that you have self esteem issues. You gonna have to work that out men. Women want confident men not emotional little boys and I mean that in a nice way dude. Go out men, go out and socialize with people you aren't attracted. Go join a dancing club, or a gym, something makes you work with other people and be part of a team. Bonus if it's physical to build muscle. Get out of your ego! Get out of your brain! Experience life in the moment. Even if you were ugly it wouldn't matter. Ugly…
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:40 AM
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Oh boy. What's wrong with you is that you have heavy trauma! Something happened when you were a kid and now you can't socialize with anyone. And what's worse is that you want to meet potential mates but you give signs that you aren't emotional stable probably dude. Women are good readers of social cues then guys, and of girls find you attractive but as soon as you open your mouth, they get scared then that means you ain't ugly 😂 congrats! First of all don't bother meeting women right now. You're…
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:30 AM
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It's called the abundance mentality bro. Every men should be on this level where you don't give a fuck if you score or not and just have fun in the moment. But the dillema is that many guys who are starting don't know about this and think that confidence is the key. Confidence can be taken away but the abundance mentality is different is like you're cruising in autopilot and just sightseeing. Living in the moment like Bruce Lee said, be water. You pretty much tricked your brain into having this …
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:21 AM
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Yeah it's called being thirsty. Too many guys are way too desperate, I feel bad thought. If only they could stop thinking with their dicks and actually socialize they would learn that it's not that hard being social.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:15 AM
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The PUA guru didn't brainwashed you bro. Stop making the coaches be the crutches for the reason why you didn't get pussy in the beginning. And you're question is redundant because in order to meet the girls you are now friends with you had to do cold approach. Cold approach pretty much means approaching someone without any rapport! And yes you got better at approaching people because you actually went out there and became social and actually interacted with people and made friends. Guys stop put…
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:12 AM
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You escalate by asking questions. What's her hobbies, what kinda of music, what's her passion. And slowly qualify her with witty banter and ask her what type of men she's into? And then what's her fav body part of a men (which you could use to platform pillow talk) and then slowly escalate that into what you might do with her if she gets lucky. Be descriptive and don't say you're just gonna suck on her nipples and eat her out and just bang, don't be that vanilla guy. Tell her how you're gonna un…
/r/seduction19/03/20 07:22 AM
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Yes! You must work on yourself! The PUA tactics are only placebo pills that work if you're shy to talk to them. It's not a cure to all. Work on yourself!
/r/seduction19/03/20 04:40 AM
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That's such a horrible advice.
/r/seduction19/03/20 04:34 AM
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Don't feel bad men. It happens to everyone but I will tell you this from experience. And I hope you take it in a positive way and changes your perspective on women. No you got aggressive. 😂 you never insult her back. Insulting her only proves her point that you are weak and that you're like a women. Think of having a small sister and she's always trying to get what she wants. Would you be aggressive? Would you hit her? No! You would make fun of her and tease her! For being a brat! Women wanna fe…
/r/seduction19/03/20 04:32 AM
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Nicknames shouldn't be hard. When you're building rapport ask her about her hobbies, job, food, mood, nationality, ect. ect. For example am talking to Hispanic girl right now and she seems kinda of emo, so I called her my canela deprimida (my little depressing cinnamon) note to self am Hispanic and bilingual and so is she. Or just be goofy and tell her she reminds you of a character 😂 I always go for stitch (from Lilo and stitch) when she's a short and thick girl. It teases her a bit and she wil…
/r/seduction19/03/20 04:12 AM
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You don't get it. And you never will. Peace.
/r/seduction17/03/20 10:00 PM
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How do you expect to better yourself if you don't want to avoid the pitfalls of damaged women. Again you're using incel in it's wrong meaning. And everyone here wants to attract women but the question is which type of women you wanna attract! If you just wanna fuck then by all means you're ideology works best. But am looking for something long term with substance.
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:27 PM
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The ever long sought out abundance mentality. Confidence can be crippled by a bad day. But abundance is a whole different ball game.
/r/seduction17/03/20 08:45 PM
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Will this work with ghosting one night stands?
/r/seduction17/03/20 08:43 PM
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This is when you're texting game should be immaculate.
/r/seduction17/03/20 08:40 PM
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Why do people keep using the word "incel" like a male shaming tactic? Incel is a men who's frustrated with women and doesn't want to better himself. Listen women and men have always used psychological warfare to get what they want. Like I've said am not sexist nor do I hate women. But neither will I act like a simp and be manipulated by women especially the damaged ones. There's many men who never had a male role model to help them steer clear of damaged women and they easily give this type of w…
/r/seduction17/03/20 08:38 PM
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Well Facebook now has dating on the app. And Instagram you could do it if you go indirect but there's too much competition with simps constantly giving women free validation. I would build rapport on what she uses Instagram and study what she uses in a non sexual way. For example an Instagram thot who's constantly getting told she's beautiful for spreading cheeks. What I did is ask if her feet were clean when she was posing on a white sofa that looks luxurious or ask her what she prefers? Blue c…
/r/seduction17/03/20 10:28 AM
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Build rapport(give her a nickname for anchoring), make her validate herself to you(cocky funny way), ask questions of preference, get to know her hobbies/passion, ask preference on a male's body part and escalate the convo slowly into the sexual category. Be descriptive when pillow talk (how you are gonna foreplay) women are descriptive creatures. Every now and then let her validate herself to you so you won't look too thirsty. Given a nickname anchors her psychologically and will associate that…
/r/seduction17/03/20 10:22 AM
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You're not the only one. It's just a road block, it gets better men. Use this moment to do what you have to do. Let the seduction shmuck in the afterburner and better your value at this moment. Just keep socializing and get better with people and be safe from that virus.
/r/seduction17/03/20 06:22 AM
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I don't like it. Maybe because i became too attached with her on a emotional level. And also because people this day ghost anyone they lose interest. As a young age I was thought respect of others, and if I don't think it's gonna work I tell the other person and leave the situation amicably. Instead I feel people are either too afraid of confrontation or failure especially women. Maybe am reading too much into it but there's definitely a power struggle from insecurity when someone ghosts you. So…
/r/seduction17/03/20 06:17 AM
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What you're saying is an oxymoron. Women only choose when you're a low tier valued male because you get what you can get such as low tier women. Honestly it's men who chose who they want to share value! The more I talked to and interact with women the more I've noticed that they bring nothing to the table besides sex. They have no personality besides those stolen by previous males they interacted be it music taste, ideology, or comedy ect. This is why high value men cheat or have multiple option…
/r/seduction17/03/20 06:07 AM
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Love your shoes, you're nails are nice, I like your bag. Or just tell them the truth and say you saw them and didn't wanna miss an opportunity to tell them that they are cute and wanna get her # if she says she has a boyfriend. Then say tell him he's lucky and move on. This makes her day by complimenting her and also it makes you look smooth with confidence (when she's rejecting you)
/r/seduction16/03/20 12:08 AM
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Don't bother wasting money on bootcamps. Do that shit when you're experience because it's a waste of money, they literally throw you to the wolves and if you're super shy you ain't gonna suck the knowledge. Read the mystery method for an anthropology lesson and classic pickup moves and get inside his style and the backbone of how he started. Read Richard la ruina for a more natural approach, he cuts the bullshit and doesn't masturbate on ideology or philosophy he goes in and tells you how to sta…
/r/seduction15/03/20 05:00 PM
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Listen I don't wanna buy books. I just want legit people to hang out with and game.
/r/seduction15/03/20 05:26 AM
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Don't waste your time in spending money. Just go solo and be a fucking tiger. You're a predator bro act like one.
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:34 AM
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Honestly Robert Greene is a bad choice for seduction. He will just teach you basic manipulation through history but won't give you advice to why? How? Or when? He's just a copy cat of Makaveli the Prince. There's better advice out there that helps women. Remember women and guys advice is totally different dynamics.
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:30 AM
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Well yeah understanding of women is holding me back that's why am here and so are you dumbass. If you were such a chad you wouldn't be in this Reddit 😂
/r/seduction14/03/20 05:04 AM
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That's not cringey it's true women resent that shit. This shouldn't be an argument, I agreed with you. But you wanna hear you're fucking ego talk and wanna prove yourself right to a complete stranger. Bro you're the cringey one arguing and shit.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:58 AM
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You're way too aggressive over a convo. See ya later dude 😎
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:51 AM
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That's literally what I said my dude.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:50 AM
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What are you talking about bro lol
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:49 AM
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It's always good to have a break men. Wish you luck and hopefully you find the right headspace to start dating again in the future. Am in the same boat, I don't like the manipulation or the ghosting women do to me but it's a numbers game unfortunately and how the fuck am I gonna be a good boyfriend or have any experience if I don't play this depressing game. I just wish I didn't have to play cat and mouse but women lose interest due to having so many dude's simping or overly complimenting them t…
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:47 AM
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It was never about equal pay. It was a subtle jab at a bigger problem.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:38 AM
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I had several instances where women locked eyes with me for more then 30 sec. Shit feels weird cause it feels like an playing a staring contest 😂 I get what you're saying bro.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:35 AM
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Yeah men for some reason chicks resent you for it when you vocalize your feelings. And tell them how you feel, maybe it's the power dynamic? You literally give her all the power when you tell them that you have feelings for them. I've learn the best thing is to just be physical and slowly escalate to holding hands and see how long she lasts holding yours.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:32 AM
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It ain't that simple. If he does vocalize what he feels she will resent him and will ruin the whole dynamic of the friendship. She will feel betrayed (I don't know why but women do this dumb shit) he has to be slick when doing it while making it a natural progression between both parties. Outright saying he likes her gives all the power to her and women hate having consequences.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:30 AM
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Nah on asking her on the relationship status. If he does say anything about relationship that will qualify him as a date material and would jeopardize the friendship and would disqualify him automatically. If he's friends with her he probably knows she's single and doesn't need to ask.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:25 AM
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There's no wrong way because no one knows the favorable outcome, the best thing to do is be transparent. I don't think spilling your guts out is the best thing to do, it is better to show with action. I know this might sound corny but one of this days check out her nails and compliment them on it and grab her hands and tell her she has soft hands and you never thought of how soft they were (hold her hand for a bit and see if she lets go or not) and look at her eyes and hold contact for a hot min…
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:22 AM
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That book isn't gonna help you with that shit bro. I got the book and it's just Makaveli type shit nothing to do with women's psychology or how to handle the hurdles. You have oneitis! And really bad one! 1.Your first mistake was putting all your eggs in one basket and telling the girl you love her without initiating anything sexual! Also you can't be friends with a women and be attracted to her! You literally betrayed her trust because she never saw you In a romantic way and wanted a friend and…
/r/seduction14/03/20 12:59 AM
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Take back power and make her validate herself to you. Am dealing with the same issue myself dude. I am too straight forward and in texting it sounds like am super thirsty which am not. Also make her chase you.
/r/seduction14/03/20 12:17 AM
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Dude the whole thing is advance shit test. If you're not advance to handle that mess then you should had paid and left, never tolerate a women child especially when they have a tantrum. 1.women are afraid of failure and will never initiate the first step. It's your job as a men to set up the spot/ restaurant to meet. Don't expect them to do it. You must always be the captain. This is why she said "men don't give women what they want" because you gave her masculine power that should have been you…
/r/seduction14/03/20 12:12 AM
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Every fucking time I have to text. Fucking texting and keeping a girl entertain while getting to know her while try to make herself validate herself to you while trying to flirt while not being overly aggressive is too fucking much men. It's the fucking worst experience.
/r/seduction13/03/20 11:45 PM
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Girls will not initiate the first step dude. Women are afraid of failure lol they would rather go alone then be rejected no matter if the guy liked her. It's the same with the restaurant pick. They want you to decide everything because they don't want failure.
/r/seduction13/03/20 11:43 PM
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How long should you make eye contact? I've used it before and it's definitely the bread and butter but some girls keep looking like a psychopath 😂 and I usually break away. Would recommend looking like a weirdo until they break away or just stare into them 10-15 and then smile and go for it?
/r/seduction13/03/20 11:41 PM
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Sounds to me like you need to find your passion. Sounds to me like you're just living. Also try talking to people you're not attracted and slowly ease to women you're attracted.
/r/seduction13/03/20 08:32 AM
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No shit dude. But when you're on the lowest of the low you have to fake it untill you make it. That's why ask for advice instead of the stereotypical bullshit you've just said. You're rant just equates to "just be yourself" be yourself doesn't work especially when you're trying to work on yourself. You just vague shit without no substance. The other guy at least planted the idea and explain a bit on his style. I ask for advice not egos.
/r/seduction13/03/20 08:28 AM
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Oh! Am getting the gist brother. But what would you recommend as a hobby that has allot of women? How was your story? How did you do it?
/r/seduction13/03/20 08:19 AM
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Nomad mode is definitely better. From experience guys either cockblock you, scavenge your remains or the other friends don't like you. Go out by yourself and have fun.
/r/seduction13/03/20 08:16 AM
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But I am definitely interested if you give out a blue print to it just even a small one.
/r/seduction13/03/20 08:07 AM
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Damn bro you're asking me to find a unicorn 😂 not that am complaining. but women automatically lose interest or lose respect when they hear anything about bettering yourself on seduction. It's like they resent you. Anyways I will try to hang out alone and meet new friends.
/r/seduction13/03/20 08:07 AM
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Yeah I fully agree with what you said having women definitely is like having a rocket and coasting. The problem is how to befriend women and let them help you? Do this women know what you're doing? Using their looks to boost your value? Or are you just chilling with them natural. Sorry I ask too many questions bro but I always was looking for some kinda of blue print with getting women friends because am tired of hanging with dudes. Too much ego and they sabotage any game that doesn't get them g…
/r/seduction13/03/20 08:02 AM
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It kinda is a bit advance. But question is how did you do it? How did you convince women to be your wing women? It has happened to me in rare occasions but not to the extent of helping me per say just hanging out. Explain the blue print brother or to some extent the way to it.
/r/seduction13/03/20 07:52 AM
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This is a phenomenal plan. But how do you end up there? This forms another problem by itself because most guys already have problems with interacting with women. Then how do you convince women to be a wingman? Women aren't so ready to be friends with men let alone convince them to be a "wing women" unless you have upstanding social value! This advice is awesome when you already have an edge and wanna take it to the next level. But unfortunately for most guys they have to go nomad mode and go out…
/r/seduction13/03/20 07:46 AM
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There shouldn't be anyone paying anything to the modern generation of PUA lol cause all the advice is free on the internet if you research well enough. And most PUA guys are just remarketing the same old things and are very misogynistic and sleazy. When PUA started with mystery it was goofy and wearing stupid things to stand out! It was literally placebo advice to get men out of their heads and start talking. If you want advice check out Mystery, Cajun, and Richard la ruina, study it try to some…
/r/seduction12/03/20 03:29 AM
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Nope! Dating apps should be used when you're already confident, fit and actually look like you have social status like women friends on pics. It dehumanizes you and makes you a product instead of a human being. You're still too green. Go out and date game bro. Dating apps are only there to feed women's egos and flings most of the time.
/r/seduction10/03/20 08:57 AM
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Dude has abandonment issues. It's not about him being special is that he some trauma that he has to work out to be healthy in a relationship later in life. White knuckling like a frat boy isn't gonna help him if he does get lucky because if let's say he breaks up. It's gonna hit him harder and will triggered that shit worse then oneitis.
/r/seduction10/03/20 08:47 AM
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Dude you're too much into your head. And if you have this issue then talk to someone to help with it who's a professional. Also sounds to me like you have abandonment trauma which build up cause of your mom so know you can't really built intimacy with women because you think they will leave you eventually or you find some form of negative behavior to justify your trauma. I have the same issue but not that extreme to the point of not talking to women, but it's still in the back of my head that th…
/r/seduction10/03/20 08:43 AM
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Dude! Porn is bad especially cause it fucks your dopamine levels and desensitize you of kinks and will constantly drag you into extreme shit where you are only getting hard on by women lactating or trany porn. Also you gotta understand that it's okey to be nervous and just go for it. You can either neg her (which is a dick move) by saying she has something in her nose or her upper lip smells in a cocky funny kinda of way or just go in there and say you're nervous but that you find her attractive…
/r/seduction10/03/20 08:25 AM
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You should also have the red queen by Matt Ridley
/r/seduction10/03/20 08:16 AM
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Realistically it will happen. It happened to me. I've lost my so called friends and I have no one to go out with and party but it's probably for the better men. be the nomad, be the solitary tiger going out and test the waters! Have fun! I know it's hard and I know trying to get friends is hard because you act and feel needy but sometimes you just have to do it yourself. Have fun alone! Enjoy the moment!
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:58 PM
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Bullshit men. It's because you decided to be the spectator instead of the lead actor. Remember! This is your fucking movie! I will not disagree that you would have gotten rejected or maybe not! You will never know but I know this. That guy at least went for it! Don't be the spectator! Be the lead! Fail, grow from it and let your tragic rom com flower!
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:54 PM
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Practice, practice, practice. The thing that helped me get less timid is actually going to random girls at the bars and asking for their numbers. Did they give their number? Nope but it have me this rush of adrenaline and it made me more confident! Also talk to people you aren't attracted! You gotta practice!
/r/seduction05/03/20 12:00 PM
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I don't understand why PUA guys get so much hate but this video might encapsulate what you are looking for. And it's also from a women's perspective. Believe me men I also have a hard time. https://youtu.be/2fV0NODJXqY
/r/seduction05/03/20 11:53 AM
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Is touching. It's a slang term for touching in a non sexual way to escalating into a sexual way. There's a YouTube video of Chris Hemsworth having an interview with his cast members and the way he is very open and casually touching them in the shoulder or hugging them. Just be friendly and open.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:46 AM
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