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| 0 | All women being bisexual contributes to men's dating woes.Idk, I think many (non-religious) women are totally cool with gay men. And bi men, even if it's a turn-off relationship-sense they won't shame men for having same-sex attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 05:33 AM |
| 10 | Fuuuuck single mothers!At least someone is taking care of the baby. I find it insane that the responsible parent is the one you blame. Though, if the mom is poor and it's not too late to do it, abortion might be the most responsible choise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 02:02 AM |
| 0 | PerfectionBecause what men see as ideal woman is some poor sexy housewife-maid with six kids (all sons) who spends her life pleasing her huspand. Women don't want that and critisize that "ideal". What women see as an ideal woman is closer to what men see as an ideal man (independence, mental strength, education and wisdom...) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:53 AM |
| 6 | What do women mean when they say they want a "Man written by a woman?"This is such a good post on this topic. A male ideal guy (a guy they want to project into) could be an action hero: muscley, independent, stoic. A female ideal guy (a guy made to please female gaze) is different, romantic, has an emotional side in him. In the same way, men don't necessarily feel the most attracted on the female mcs (independent, opinionated, beautiful but not just in blatantly sexy way) in movies that are made for women. It's the male/female gaze difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 10:06 AM |
| 3 | What do women mean when they say they want a "Man written by a woman?"It'd be a romantic guy who gets girls. I think the architype guy from romantic fan fiction (that's what I read) is honest, kind, more or less good looking, takes care of his loved ones, never a misogynist - you know, an "ideal guy" from a woman's perspective. The characters usually have some emotional issues or insecurities too, but eventually they can overcome them with help. And there's a lot of variation in the romance lit, it's not just Twilight. It's a type of fantasy that I call porn for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 09:46 AM |
| 5 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.so rape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women should be encouraged to be critical/self aware of their own sexuality?Sure, you should be critical of all your behaviour and different aspects of your life. That protects you from abuse and protects other people as well, if we e.g. teach everyone the importance of consent. Depends however, what type of criticism you mean (e.g. "women have to marry men they are not attracted to", is not a good message imo). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?I'm a straight woman, so I'd be a gay guy then. I think my change would confuse my social circles too much, but if I don't think about that aspect, it might be cool. I'd like to become a lot stronger, plus I'd probably get more respect at work. Where I live in, physical violence as a woman isn't a big threat. Dating pool would be a lot smaller, but I'm not interested in ons anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: If dating apps largely favour women, why is it disproportionately men who are on them?They don't favour (most) men, as men don't usually succeed there. And they don't favour (most) women, as women don't usually want what the apps give: one night stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?You can easily make an all-male hobby group or friend group. But if it's an open group like a library board game club, don't be surprised if some day women will also join. Can't really talk about the scouts as I'm not from the US, but I guess I can understand how a large, kids hobby organization should be open for everyone; imagine having a scouts group that wouldn't allow certain races to join.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Maybe girls go to the clubs with their gay guy friends who also want to invite them? Also a much safer place to dance and have fun as a woman. It is sad though if gays become a minority and they have to even hear shit from straight ppl there. Reminds me a little how trans women (males) have infiltrated all the lesbian spaces, also online (like in Reddit) and then redefine what lesbianism means... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagementPerhaps men and women just use the app different ways... you want to look at hot chicks, girls use it to contact friends/talk about hobbies etc (but they could still be into guys). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:26 AM |
| 22 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.??? I think Acaci took the burn very well and laughed at it. You were the one who couldn't take her comment about america-centrism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?Meanwhile the dad isn't even seeing the kid and pays the bare minimum child support lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 11:23 PM |
| 12 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?But you wouldn't pay for those things though. You'd pay for your kids needs, don't you understand that there is a sum that goes to the kid and dads pay half of that? If the mom does her nails, she does that with her own money. The child support isn't enough to use for anything else than (a fraction of) the kid's costs. And if you had 50/50 custody (which you'd probably take as you want to be a dad), you'd pay for the kids food etc. directly when they were visiting you, so no child support. But a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 08:58 PM |
| 9 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?What resources are actually given to single moms but not dads? I think people are very warm towards single dads usually, they are seen very heroic for not leaving the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 08:28 PM |
| 24 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?But the mom has to still pay the kids food, clothes, education, medical bills etc. More than half of that money comes from the mom, rest from the dad and if the mom makes enough, she might be able to spend some on her nails (but this isn't the dad's money, she'll need to spend something to her kid ALWAYS and so the kids needs is where the dad's money goes to). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 08:24 PM |
| 3 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?You wouldn't have to pay child support, but remember that why men pay it is because the moms need the money to raise the kids (it's not some "party money" for the mom). So that sum and more would go to your kids needs (food, clothes, furniture, childcare, school..). You don't save there! Also why would you need a nanny more than other single moms and dads? Or is it just something luxury you'd like to have? Anyway, good luck! Hopefully you'll find a willing, American woman to have a child with yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | What exactly makes women horny?Maybe check what type of porn (erotica) women consume? Though, porn does not equate real life desires fully; someone might write about stuff that irl would be sexual assaul. But perhaps there's something in there that help you understand better, if you compare the porn to that what men produce and consume. I'd say emotions and the relationship with the partner are indeed important, just a visual stimulus doesn't do much :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenI use AO3 to find the stuff I like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenI only read written porn made by and for women, there's tons of it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenPerhaps women who consume porn made for men (which often looks like a simulated rape and indeed has uncannily beautiful/sexy actors) feel worse and women who consume porn made by and for women (e.g. erotica) feel better? Just a guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenDidn't read the links but I wonder if the type of porn affects the results? Women consume more written, often quite romantic erotica, which is very different than men's porn videos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?Idk, I see average and below average (looks- and behavior-wise) dudes with girls all the time. You make it seem like it's impossible. Most men and women can and will date and have sex. I also think it's good that women will have a bit higher standards and want someone who treats them well, and aren't just some cattle to sell from father to husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: How would you view a man who is vocal about men's rights and struggles as a dating prospect?I have never heard a feminist say that women should not care about men's problems. Never. I would date a man like that, unless they'd be the bro-type who doesn't actually care about homeless men, or men's circumcision or any other actual issue but actually just wanted to spread some sort of misogynistic ideas ("women shouldn't have this or that human right because it makes men's dating life harder/men aren't attracted to women who do xyz"...). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:42 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: How does women being able to"smell misoginy" line up with women who end up being in abusive relationships?I don't understand the point of making a whole post about these type of things. Some women can sometimes easily spot misogynist asshats. Some can't. Some men (narcissists etc.) are manipulative and can hide their assholeness well. Some women have better social skills than other and can read men more easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Can you explain to me why women stop replying/block numbers so often, and how I should feel about it?So ghosting. Very rude for the friend to do that without explanation, I have to say. If your dates ghost you, it just means they don't want to see you again, but indeed MUCH better would be to communicate that kindly through text and then block if the guy doesn't stop calling/texting. Perhaps these women have met weirdos who wouldn't listen to them or leave them alone, or got angry when rejected, and now ghosting feels safer and easier? Idk. I wouldn't try to contact a person who ghosted me, try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 07:56 AM |
| 18 | Women boasting about their boyfriend to their friends as it's an achievement.Sounds like something mostly teenagers do. Or people that are simply very much in love and happy and therefore want to talk about their significant other a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 05:22 AM |
| 4 | What is it about erotica that makes you gravitate towards it vs other kinds of porn?I don't watch porn at all, it's gross to me. It's also clearly made by men for men so no surprise that it doesn't fit my taste. Erotica I do read, I already enjoy reading and creative writing and erotica (at least the type I consume) has a big romance plot there, smut is just part of it. And I only read male/male stuff, never been really interested in hetero romance literature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?You could technically sit on your ass and be a millionaire twitch entertainer but somehow we all aren't doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Bro, nothing is stopping you for wearing some pantyhose and taking some naughty e-boy bussy photos for a bi-curious audience, there's a market for everything when it comes to sex. It actually seems like futas and other gay-ish stuff is more popular now than ever. And answer for your second question, no, sex-work is not for me. I'll keep grinding my normal job (surprise, women do that too). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:49 AM |
| 27 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Modern birth control has much, much less hormones that what they used to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problemsOh yeah when a guy cheats and beats up a woman it's the woman's fault for choosing a bad guy. Yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future.Of course single dads are better in these studies. Kids go almost always to mother and only rarely, when a dad is exceptionally willing and motivated (and has the resources) to raise kids, will he take them rather than the mom. The result is that most often women will make sacrifices and take care of their own children even if they have major struggles, and men take care of their kids only in special cases and great environment: then the men will look like statistically better parents, even thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future.Fertility clinics and PP go where they are needed. In low-income areas (which unfortunately correlates with race) abortions are much more needed since people have poorer knowledge of contraception nd have more free sex. In middle/upper class areas people have kids older and need fertility treatment more likely. Both are available to people of any race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future.“single parent households where there is a father produces stable kids that don't commit crimes/go to jail at a similar rate to 2 parent households, but single mothers seem to be creating these kids who go on to become criminals” Maybe this is because criminal jerk men leave their families and the sons have their father's criminal genes (+ this happens also in a low-income environment that promotes all kind of criminality). Single dad is alone most likely because his parner died, mothers rarely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:39 AM |
| -1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesIf women are so easily manipulated, why doesn't someone just manipulate their votes, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 2 | What exactly does ‘expressing one’s sexuality’ mean?If you want to see male thirst trap videos, check tiktok :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 02:41 PM |
| 8 | Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west?More homosexuality, when people begin to study that side in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 12:38 PM |
| 18 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?Based on this, I want a submissive man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man?Yeah, I'd rather be an attractive dude. Then I'd be gay but that would be cool. It would be cool to be stronger too, and it might help me career-wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?Japanese media doesn't idealize women, but shows them through male gaze: sexualised. Yippee, representation in form of tentacle hentai and l*lis, LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 09:42 PM |
| 8 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Sexual assault, if we stay in the topic of dating and sex and don't talk about e.g. women's rights in third world countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:47 AM |
| 6 | Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspectiveSo women should give men sex or else men won't/shouldn't support women's rights (btw, it's women, not "females")? Oh my. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:44 AM |
| 13 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?Perhaps, if life was only about sex and getting laid. But it isn't and most women don't value hookups like men do so if you're a woman and therefore get sex easier, it doesn't actually give you anything positive as it would for a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.So it just happens that the hot guys are the ones that also only want sex? And then there this seperate male phenotype not-as-hot-but-ready-for-serious-relationship? I think also the less hot guys would also fuck everyone if given a chance. So the only thing keeping the less hot guys from hookups is that they can't get women and prefer a relationship because it's the only option. Not a position where I'd criticise women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR, yet they are shamed for it by women who want to feel special creating a very frustrating situation for men.Nah women get men easily and can pick their favourites (chads) only. That's the premise of this sub. Every time a chad has sex with a new woman, the woman has sex with a new chad. Both are in each other's "harem". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR, yet they are shamed for it by women who want to feel special creating a very frustrating situation for men.But if a girl and chad have a fwb/sex only relationship, the chad is just as much part of the girls "harem" as the girl is chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Why is mate guarding, even in subtle ways, reviled in western society?How would mate guarding help people who are stuck in loveless relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveYeah and you could give me all your money and friends. Bro, what it women aren't just interested in entertaining some random men? If it doesn't give anything to the women? I know that you'd like any sexual connection with anyone but not all (esp. women) are like that. We have different needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 12:15 AM |
| -1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.Yes, on average, women have a lower libido than men. So what? Doesn't mean women have no "real sexualities" (???) or that there's anything wrong with having a lower libido, if you're hinting that. I have a low libido and I like that, this way I can be more productive. Also sex is just a one part of romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Pegging! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 01:45 AM |
| 11 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Lesbian sex is the solution! And gay sex for guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:40 AM |
| 83 | What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill?It's kind of funny how the mods of that sub don't even have two x chromosomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:50 PM |
| 14 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingSo are all hookups just unpaid prostitution or why just flight attendants having sex is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Is Love even fckin real?I guess I'll stick to my romance novels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 07:00 PM |
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