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| 1 | Should I offer to pay in this situation? The birthday of this guy I’ve been seeing for a month is coming up. He treats me like a HVW—always plans dates, pays for everything, and asked me to be his GF (I haven’t said yes yet). | noodlepoodle123 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:49 AM |
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| 8 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.Same when men say “EverY DAy is VALentInES dAy bAbe” to avoid doing anything special / spending money on you that day. They’re the ones who will spend thousands of dollars on their gaming setup but all of a sudden become anti consumerism when it’s your birthday. “I don’t even spend that much on myself!” They say. If they can’t even treat you on Valentine’s Day, they’re not gonna treat you to an engagement ring either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:53 AM |
| 9 | Refusing to have sex in a relationshipFor a long time I felt uncomfortable having sex with guys I’m seeing unless he makes me feel very reassured that he sees us as a long term thing. But when the right guy came along, I realize the reason I felt that way was because the previous dudes were all LVM. The right guy should make you feel comfortable and wait for you while continuing to take you on nice dates etc, but like other me have commented, every relationship has some risk. I would try withholding sex until you feel completely com… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020Thank you! I plan on treating him to dinner. He can plan the rest of the night / weekend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:20 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020Should I offer to pay in this situation? The birthday of this guy I’ve been seeing for a month is coming up. He treats me like a HVW—always plans dates, pays for everything, and asked me to be his GF (I haven’t said yes yet). Not to mention, this guy lives in a different city and takes the train for several hours almost every weekend to see me, and this weekend will be no different. We haven’t made any solid plans for his birthday yet, but I’m wondering if I should take the lead on planning this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:04 AM |
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