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| 2 | Why act like you want a relationship, spend $, get to know someone to ghost after sex?Idk. There’s two sides to every story. I strongly encourage you to move on with your life as best you can. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Why act like you want a relationship, spend $, get to know someone to ghost after sex?I sympathize that you might have been played or at least believe you did. Sometimes it’s after sex we realize this person is right for us. Sometimes it’s the sex, sometimes it’s the snoring or loud breathing, or the farting, or other characters or mannerisms that come after. I broke things off with someone because she changed after we had sex. She forgot she was still a guest in my home and became presumptuous. She believed the dynamic of our relationship had now drastically changed and had righ… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 09:53 PM |
| 19 | Why act like you want a relationship, spend $, get to know someone to ghost after sex?Maybe he met someone else. Maybe the chemistry wasn’t great. Maybe he saw a red flag. Maybe he just wanted to hit it. Maybe he was the victim of ransomeware and lost your number. Maybe he just didn’t want to pursue anything with you and he didn’t know how to say it. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 09:06 PM |
| 8 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?More people in their 30s want to fuck. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 05:37 AM |
| 14 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?I lost my virginity 2 months after turning 18 and one month after graduating high school. Would I have like to have lost it earlier? Sure. Does it matter now or affect me in the slightest? Not really. 20s are fun, 30s are better. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:02 AM |
| 8 | Best country to visit for sex tourism for asiansIt’s not picking up if you’re paying them. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 05:19 PM |
| 21 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?Oh it totally was emotional cheating on both parts. We made plans to meet up for “just a drink” but it never materialized. We just vibed real hard from the start. I was actually upset at the time my current partner wasn’t more like her and we ended up breaking up 3 months later. We exchanged social media and after years of occasional DMs and story replies we eventually went out. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 02:38 AM |
| 230 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?I matched with a girl on tinder in April 2021 went out and had a great time but she said I sucked at texting and we stopped talking. A few months later after some DMs on insta we went out again and fucked for the first time. Hooked up with a chick I met on tinder. She ghosted me the next day. We match on tinder again several months later and she apologies and hook up a few more times and she half-ghosts me this time. I met a girl 4 years ago who confessed feelings for me but we were both seeing … | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 43 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.This. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl (coworker) I'm interested in pulled her phone out and went on tinder in front of me. Is this some shit test or just a sign she isn't interested?She isn’t interested | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:44 PM |
| 14 | I am attracted to tall womenYes. But not with your current attitude. You display zero self-confidence. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 08:32 AM |
| 9 | How to make a guy understand I’m interested in himGive them an opening. Make yourself approachable. Hangout at spots where there are a lot of guys and they’ll usually come talk to you. If you’re drinking age. Having a drink alone at the bar will usually invite an approach. You can do this at the beach or park or sometimes even a coffee shop. Just make eye contact and smile. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Rejecting girls is key to maintaining a healthy self imageI understand what you’re suggesting and trying to accomplish, but it’s very short sighted and will do more hard than good. You fail to understand that men reject women all the time, more so than women. Men choose whom they approach. If I only approach one girl at a club, I have rejected every other girl. Yes, that girl has final say, but I have the first say and that’s more important. You’re suggesting to reject someone, after every rejection? That screams incel behavior or at the very least ins… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 10:57 PM |
| 20 | What are some good ways for a 20 year old guy who can’t legally drink yet to meet women his age?Coffee shops, art museum, yoga studios, parks, school (if you’re a student at the same school), conventions, etc | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 06:53 PM |
| 2 | How to handle this weird rejectionGoing forward with this girl in your post. Just continue to be a gentlemen. Acknowledge her, maintain eye contact and smile and do not pursue unless she comes to you. You might no longer have a chance with her, but her friends are still available and watching. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this weird rejectionYou come here seeking advice. Rather than stay defense about it, keep an open mind and take it with a grain of salt. I agree with the SunsetGal’s opinion, he’s likely more right than wrong. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I hate dating as a manMuch obliged. May the odds ever be in your favor. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I hate dating as a manSend me those stats please. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | I hate dating as a manAgreed OLD is harder than cold approaching. You do have 80% of one gender aiming for 20% of the other. I forgot if the OP was referring to dating in general or OLD. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I hate dating as a manNot true my friend. I’m a 7 maybe even a 5 in some books. I get by on my wit, charm and humor. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | I hate dating as a manIf you’re 6 feet, good looking, in shape and wealthy and you’re not slaying in post-quarantine/hot girl summer then they have other underlying qualities which are repelling women. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 10:36 PM |
| 4 | I hate dating as a manPeople keep saying it because it’s true. It’s a numbers game for both, most of the matches women get aren’t worth a damn. So while there is competition out there it’s not as big as people make it out to be. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:02 PM |
| 25 | I hate dating as a manIt works both ways. A lot of other guys talk themselves out of dates. While you do have to standout, I find the bar is still relatively low out there. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 07:36 PM |
| 181 | Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly?You’re blowing it at some point. You need to reflect on that. If I had to guess you’re losing your cool, combination of escalating too fast or not handling the slight rejection well. Could be too much tongue, fast hands, dumb comment or a number of things which is a symptom of losing one’s cool. Remember that Sex is never the goal, Seduction is, Sex is the reward. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Married women checking me out while out with her Husband. What should I do?She might be willing to cheat on her husband, she might have never had that intention. Either way you won’t regret leaving her alone, you don’t want to be that guy. Maybe her marriage ends and you find each other a few years later. Either way, don’t pursue it now. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 05:54 PM |
| 6 | How to get a girl who has a boyfriend.Gotta go after the easiest and nastiest chicks, just like your mom. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 04:53 PM |
| 235 | How to drop a girl without being a dick?Hey Sarah, I think you’re a really cool person and I apologize if this comes off as abrupt but I don’t think is is going to work and I really don’t want to waste your time. I wish you the best. Or something like that. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Where them bitches at?Lol | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 5 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.Being a good listener and asking in-depth questions go a long way. Basically taking a genuine interest in getting to know others is all you need. Keep some jokes, interesting facts or unique questions in your back pocket for quiet moments can be very helpful. The internet might be your best friend here, there’s tons of people wanting to meet on reddit and tons of opportunities to chat with strangers…. Just need to be careful about being scammed. I encourage you travel outside where you live as o… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.That’s simply not true and if it were, restrictions are winding down. You can meet girls at the grocery store, art gallery, park, coffee shops, pretty much anywhere if you’re confident. Confidence totally counts in online dating. It dictates what pictures you post, what your bio is like and how your conversation goes. A man who is confident radiates success regardless in every platform. You can even tell the cars apart of a man with confidence and one without. You can tell from his music playlis… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.Same. It’s hard to force it. Reading and writing help but it really depends on your audience. Being cultured and well-read will help a lot by being able to pick up on cultural references. People love puns, innuendos, alliteration and rhymes, cultural (media) references and memes, banter also goes a long way when flirting but it’s a fine line between sarcasm. Watch some standup comedy, go to open mic nights, join an improv class and read and write some poetry if you really want to commit. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 128 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.It’s not looks as much as confidence. It seems you’re quite insecure about yourself so girls can pick up on that. So you’re kinda tall, fashionable, wealthy with good hygiene. How’s your posture? How’s your tone of voice? Do you make self-depreciating comments? Do you mumble or speak articulately? I was ugly af in high school and college. I compensated by being twice as funny, interesting, and quick-witted as the next guy. If I couldn’t be easy on the eyes, I could be at least enjoyable to inter… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 02:41 PM |
| 7 | Going from tinder to snapchatWhat’s the benefit of moving the conversation from Tinder to snapchat. I advise you to ask them on dates before you bother exchanging social media. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Learning to pull girls in clubsI also recommend The Book of Pook | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Learning to pull girls in clubsYour looks are fine but you’re lacking confidence and style. Go read ‘The Game’ and then ‘Models’, that should help you start. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 01:47 AM |
| 24 | [deleted by user]Respect. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:57 AM |
| 9 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?Long story short: practice. I got my teeth fixed, I focused on becoming my best self. I don’t think I’m that great looking but the more confident I was the better I interacted with women. Women also tend to date older guys so the odds also got more in my favor. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:26 AM |
| 24 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?I got my teeth fixed in my early 20s (braces for 3 years). That helped me become more confident. I started asking myself why should women be interested in me? My answer was I’m funny and intelligent/witty so by being flirty I got more dates and by being more forward with women and honest with my intentions I got laid more. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:24 AM |
| 103 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?I became more confident and forward with women and said women traditionally gravitate towards older men. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:22 AM |
| 111 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?It varies by year. 1-2 in my early 20s 3-4 in my late 20s 6+ in my 30s | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just make yourself available in the right places and it will happen. Play coy if you want but making enough innuendos and they’ll get the hint. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Tips for meeting girls in college?Make a habit of smiling frequently and just ask basic “how’s it going” or “hi” as often as you can. You can do more extravagant approaches if you want but I’m suggesting a shotgun approach. Ask girls if they’ve seen the latest comedy or whatever album, it doesn’t really matter just get out there. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Did she shoot her shot?She shot her shot | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 04:08 AM |
| 10 | How do I reply to this?Just roll with it, “yes, Tsunami” and then try and set a time. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 06:11 AM |
| -16 | Do's and don'ts in a first dateIn this case it’s better to need one and not have one than to have one and not need one. But it’s best to have one when you need one. | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 04:17 AM |
| 18 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseThis isn’t not the way. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 01:35 PM |
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