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| 3 | 2 years unplugged.. I'm so damn tired.There is a post about self acceptance at about 25th on the red pill all time list. But to be honest its not very helpful. Kind of 'just be yourself' advice. Its not easy to explain self acceptance, especially to someone like yourself. But I can hopefully explain why its hard to explain to you, and from there you can figure out some more. Start with the words. 'Self', and 'Acceptance'. We throw these around a lot but if really pushed you'd be surprised how hard it is to give a meaninful, non-circ… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 04:04 AM |
| 3 | 2 years unplugged.. I'm so damn tired.Self acceptance. A lot of high acheivers like yourself work so hard because they feel they need to earn acceptance. Their/your dufault position is that you're unworthy. So you have to 'fix' yourself. To prove yourself. Before other people will accept you. And enpecially before you can accept yourself. I'm fat. Don't give a shit about it. Poor. No degree. Your opposite in many ways. There are other things I care about and I know what they are atd that they matter to me. I can walk up to an atract… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Intimidation can lead to attraction?If a women says "I find you intimidating" on a date or any any potentially romantic context she's practically saying she's attracted to you. If she says you are nice, she is also saying the does not find you sexually attractive. Its not complicated. Its just completely counterintuitive. For most guys we associate nice and friendly with attraction. There is a saying that women's sexual attraction begins in the defensive crouch. Weird, but you see it al the time once you open your eyes to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/16 10:55 PM |
| 12 | Ask Whisper: ParentsI sometimes think its the nature of most mothers to keep owtership of her children until they fight back. And I do mean fight. They'll simply never respect you as a person until you stomp on the boundaries. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 02:17 AM |
| 2 | 1000 migrants in Germany sexually assault, rob and rape women at one train station on New Year's eve. Feminists actively are trying to cover it up.Haven't you got any analysis? Some sort of understanding of what's going on? You've given links to a bunch of things everyone knows, and cartoons. I get so sick of guys like you. People that think simply pointing out whats wrong with the world is actually doing something. You've got way more in common with the TwoX crowd than you'll ever realise. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 09:28 AM |
| 26 | Askmen feels a splinter in their mindWomen only understand a strong relationship with another person, where you genuinely care about the other person, rather than just using them, in the sexual sense. For them, the only comprehensible reason to really care about another person is romantic. So they understand your friendship as gay. Its the only way it makes sense to them. They literally can't comprehend a friendship that strong. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Askmen feels a splinter in their mindYou need other things in your life. Just because women can't give you unconditional acceptance doesn't mean nothing else can. If you feel rike you belong somewhere then women can come and go and you'll be happy either way. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 05:37 AM |
| 12 | Askmen feels a splinter in their mindOnce you're old enough to know better than to seek unconditional love from women | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 04:52 AM |
| 118 | Askmen feels a splinter in their mindI hate how everyone relates unconditional love back to a guys mother. Like every single guy in the world grows up with some fucked up sexual Freudian complex. Guys don't want a woman who loves them like their mother. They just want a woman who loves them back. Period. Guys want a woman who loves back the way a guy loves them. We resort to saying the 'way his mother loves him' because after you understand it all, you realise that's the only type of unconditional love by a woman that anyone can th… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 04:35 AM |
| 45 | 1000 migrants in Germany sexually assault, rob and rape women at one train station on New Year's eve. Feminists actively are trying to cover it up.I don't want to turn this into a politics post but German/European business elites: a) When the Turkish ecenomy picked up their large pool of German/Turk low cost labour started shrinking as German Turks moved to Turkey. They need an alternative to keep wages down. A million or Syrian refugees who don't even have citizenship wourd be great. b) They hope to implement more austerity policies which are wildly unpopular in Europe. By dividing the public on the issue of refugees they can play the rig… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 12:59 AM |
| 95 | 1000 migrants in Germany sexually assault, rob and rape women at one train station on New Year's eve. Feminists actively are trying to cover it up.assumedly muslim users I'd bet good money its paid shills. The refugee crisis into europe has been incredibly heavily PR managed. There is no way muslim users would be floating around every sub on reddit and working this particular story so heavily it does not slip through their net anywhere. Only an organised, well resourced, pre-emptive approach could do that. There are multiple powerful groups that want high levels of muslim refugees in Europe. People keep blaming feminist/muslims/lefties. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 10:55 PM |
| 7 | Human Condition as Narrative, How The New Star Wars is Written for WomenStar Wars is mature popular culture. The time for new Star Wars movies has passed. The original movies are timeless and don't lose any power for being 40 years old or for having prequels and sequels made. Like anything, once it becomes popular it has to maintain a broad appeal which means making it all things to everyone (ie into nothing at all). Be thankful the OT exists and move on with your life. Look for new fresh culture to influence you, or seek out classics from the past. Complaining abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 10:17 AM |
| 15 | Watching movies with TRP lenseGuys have moved to video games. Movies are no longer made with guys in mind. Even Star Wars TFA was designed around creating a female audience to keep the franchise as big as possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 11:45 AM |
| 24 | What a rape fantasy looks like: Woman writes about intentionally getting raped 28 times.When I read this statistic a while back it was one of the most disturbing things I ever learnt. You'll almost never hear it mentioned, anywhere, for obvious reasons. You should also be aware that arousal during rape can happen to men too. Its my suspicion that a significant part of the mental anguish in some portion of rape cases is reconciling being violated with also being sexually aroused . In some sense the violation they feel is not the physical one, but the mental one whereby someone took … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:20 AM |
| 2 | What does the word "submission" really mean?You're obviously intelligent enough to address the point directly rather than respond with this deflection crap. Its not a big observation to state men are more overt and explicit in going after what they want while women are often covert about it. Especially strong willed, dominant 'alpha' men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/15 06:53 AM |
| 1 | What does the word "submission" really mean?Accepting another person's perspective on X, ahead of your own. Where X is the context of the submission. A soldier submits to his superior officer's perspective in the context of being a soldier. The commander feels his soldier should march 30 miles today and communicates it with an order. The soldier internalises that perspective/feeling and will march the 30 miles. He does not think. He accepts. The commander may not even need to communicate it. If the soldiers and commander are in sync, then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Why Nelson Mandela never forgave ex wife Winnie Mandelahad no choice to be in jail Towards the end of apartheid the white south african government tried to make deals with Mandela offering him freedom in return for various political deals. He turned them down of course. ie Mandela decided to stay in jail. He had the choice to luawe and didn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/15 10:05 AM |
| 44 | Mary Sue Awakens *Spoiler Alert*Women don't see male development. They think all alpha's were made by perfect the day they were born. The suffering and effort it takes to develop into a great man is something they never see. Its because a developing beta is invisible, just like every other beta. So when they look to replicate the capabilities of male role models/alpha's into a female character, they completely skip development. The idea of suffering, growth and improvement in a real man in incomprehensible. He was born that wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/15 09:58 AM |
| 4 | For Redpillers, what is your "secret" finally?There isn't a single simple secret. Its a change in perspective. It takes a while for that to happen. Once you're looking at the world from a different place you understand it better. But its not one thing which is different. Its a process of learning and understanding. There is no shortcut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/15 03:42 AM |
| 5 | Question to redpillers. If you could have sex whenever you wanted (which pretty much is the market for girls out there), would you still think that less than one per month was a very high number? E.g. female age 20 - 36 partnersNo. But I would think anyone looking for a mongamous relationship with me is an idiot. Its not that a number is 'high'. Its whether its high for what the person is looking for. 36 partners is not high for someone looking for lots of casual sex (as I would be), but it is high for someone who is not looking for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 02:09 PM |
| 2 | The Rational Male – StorytellingThis is the explanation for much 'feminism' in society. Its just a way to try and double sales. If you can take something that you know guys are going to watch anyway, and find a way to get women watching it too then you make more money. Women don't like Star Wars. There's a small number of femase geeks who truly love it, but mostly they hate it. The whole genre is driven by things they don't care about. You can talk about feminist influence all you want but this was driven by trying to get wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 01:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The "ugly guy" who gets laid left and right with attractive women is a mythI have not met an ugly who gets laid. But I completely believe it. Mainly because I've seen plenty of attractive guys who don't get laid. And its obviously because they're not red pill. They're confident and social. And girls are initally interested, but always lose interest in them 'for some reason'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | What is the opposite of the red pill?The traditional Christian view of marriage. No sex outside of marriage. Lifelong mongamy. No divorce. The thing which makes it opposite is the belief that this will make everyone happy. That we are biologically a mongamous, and only mongamous species that only wants this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Question for All Pills: Why do people care so much about being virgins?One of man's best hopes for guaranteed paternity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/15 04:25 AM |
| 32 | France Bans "Excessively Thin" ModelsThere are additional reasons for models being super thin. They're there to sell the clothes. They're basically walking coat hangers. A thin coat hanger makes it easy to shape the clothes any way you want. You can always add bulk to a piece of clothing, but you can't have any shape you want if the girls body is in the way. The models can't be threatening to women or they won't buy the clothes. So they choose lifeless, androgynous, sexless women. Its easire for potential buyers no project themself… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Do you think the world is sustainable with lower status men getting little sex?Surprisingly, quite possibly yes. It would not have been possible in the past, but today things are different due to technology. Society has depended on enormous amounts of grunt work being done. Everything from cleaning the streets to making cars. While it also required women to be at home making the next generation of people. Today we mave machines to do much of that. And the amount of grunt work they can do is increasing all whe time. So you only need a relativeli small number of more intelli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 08:00 PM |
| 5 | [DISCUSSION] is MGTOW a choice or a fate for most men?Its almost inevitable that the trend of more people being unmarried and single will continue upward. The cause of that seems to ultimately be technology. You're seeing the same trends in every advanced country, even those with little feminism like Japan. As material wealth increases due to technology the need for beta bucks disappears. Women simply don't need a man to provide income and support and protection when they can easily earn a living and very few jobs require the physical strength of a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 06:54 AM |
| 4 | 30 year old alpha bachelor in the real world vs 20 year old alpha in college, who is going to have an easier time having sex with tons of attractive women and why?20 year old. Assuming he's really good at game. More opportunity. Socialising gets harder as you get older. Stable social circles allowing him to have social proof with a bigger pool of women. For a variety of reasons younger women are much easier to game. Younger women are more 'single'. If they are in a relationship they are much less invested than order women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 08:19 AM |
| 3 | At whatever age you do decline relative to the year before despite doing everything right, how will you feel about that?I'm just hitting that point. What I have realised is that declining is not a problem at all. In a way its nice to have the pressure to succeed start to ease off. As you get older you just care about less stuff and its great. But what I do care about more and more are the wasted opportunities when I was younger. I regret all the times I was too clueless with a woman to get anywhere. Or when I was too much of a pussy. But I don't ever regret the times I went for it and did something cool. Somehow,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 03:47 AM |
| 11 | Recently diagnosed with Muscle Wasting disease which will cripple me eventually, here is my plan, need red pill perspective.Control frame on yourself You're in a unique position that eventually to do even basic tasks you will need assistance. If you are able to be financially independent and pay for your own care then You are not getting assistance. You are paying for a service. Just because someone is doing something for you does not put you in their debt. No one thinks that the staff at McDonalds are 'providing assistance'. They're providing something for somethitg. This entire society is built on the excharge of s… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Today's Women Have a Higher Average Partner Count than Men right?The maths of this is a little funny. The average partner count of men and women mathematically must be the same (talking just about heterosexual sex, and assuming threesomes and gangbangs etc are not a major thing) as every female partner has a corresponding male partner. What you're really getting at is the median. There can be a big difference in the median between genders. This is a result of the 80/20 rule (or 90/10) rule or the top 1% of guys rule or whatever you want to call it. Which mean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Topless equality would solve nothingThe female chest has sexual organs on it. That's why a man touching a women's chest is sexual assault. As it should be. Topless equality would mean I could go up to a women, touch her chest and it would be fine. You want to declare men and women's chests the same, then you have declare boobs a non-sexual organ. Its real fucking simple. The fact that this is something feminists get worked up about makes me lose respect for everything they stand for. The great challenge of the modern feminist is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 09:26 PM |
| 5 | The real reason women are discouraged from pursuing men first is because it spares them the pain of rejection, not because it makes them less attractiveI think you're misinterpreting my point. The risks may be different. That's separate to the point I am making. Even if the level of risk is the same, women will approach less. When faced with the same level of risk women are more likely to decide against action. That' what more risk averse means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 04:32 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on polygamy?I think its going to make a minor comeback in the west in ten years or so. Red Pill concepts are slowly but inexorably accepted by society. At some point some alpha's are going to want children and there will be women who happily embrace polygamy as the cost of having a proper alpha father. Its already happening with so many single mothers out there who decided to have a kid from a man who was never going to stick around. The kicker will be when marriage laws start changing in response to MRA co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/15 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Has feminism failed women?I don't think its failed women. But to an extent it was never about doing things for all women. Only the subset who were ambitious and wanted access to what used to be men only priveleges. It does not directly care about the plight of ordinary women, who don't have a great deal of ambition, and who perhaps want traditionally feminine things. Women who value motherhood etc. Feminism, especially 2nd wave, looks down on these women and practically has contempt for them. Its worth noting that a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 10:16 AM |
| 12 | Paradoxical apathy for betas/omegas and empathy for alphasOn one hand, red-sympathisers despise weak, low status, cowardly, overly sensitive and emotional, whiney and overly vulnerable men in general, arguing that it indicates they're incapable of handling responsibility. The idea is for guys to take responsibility for getting laid. To not blame other people or women for how they feel and instead do what you need to do. The rules of the game were created in biology. Not society. You can have generations of feminism, but that does not magically make wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 05:47 AM |
| 5 | What do you think is causing the Herbivore Men phenomenon in Japan? How can it be fixed?The male/female sex dynamic in Japan is similar in many ways to the west. Low marriage and birth rate. Lots of beta men with no relationship prospects. Younger generation having less sex than the previous ones. Despite vastly different cultures, and little in the way of feminism, the result is pretty similar to the West. It leads me to believe that the different behaviour by women (and men) that TRP is unhappy with is more a result of technology than culture. The influence of technology on both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/15 07:45 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP probably works more with confident women (contrary to orthodox bluepill claims)Its a funny thing about female thinking. They seem to be only interested in the born alpha. The idea that almost every man has to go through periods of failure, learning and development seems almost incomprehensible to them. When they see Chad, they don't realise that perhaps he's strong and muscular and walks winh swagger from years of boxing is because in grade school he was skinny and bullied. And if they found this out about Chad they'd immediately think he was an insecure fraud rather than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/15 02:19 AM |
| 2 | An object lesson in masculinity: Soldiers of the 2/1 Royal New Zealand Infantry Regiment sending off a fallen comrade with a Maori haka.Its actually hard to know. The aborigines were wiped out by diseases like smallpox (90% fatality rate in many places) before Europeans arrived in most places. The dieases spread much faster than european settlement so most European first contact with aboriginal societies was with the recovering remnants of tribes that had been wiped out years or decades before. Imagine what our society would look like to aliens just after the zombie apocalypse ended and that's comparable to what early Europeans … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Nature vs Nuture - vague question for all50/50. And the evidence of this is pretty solid these days. We actually have some pretty good data on this now from seperated at birth twin studies. There are now a number of studies which have examined this question. This is basically a gold standard experiment for looking at this. By comparing the similarities of identical separated twins with fraternal seperated twins you can basically see this effect in action. http://www.livescience.com/47288-twin-study-importance-of-genetics.html The data … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/15 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Could a crash course in gender dimorphism and differing neurology between the genders in high school help curb the gender wars and the War Against Boys?You must now know much about feminism if you think any acknowledgement of gender dimorphism is even on the long term horizon for feminists. The entire foundation of feminism is blank slate and the fact that its scientifically questionable (to put it mildly) has little to no influence on their ideology. In some kind of utopian future it may be possible. But I doubt that's actually possible until society has fully debated and found a way to accept what we are slowly learning about inherent gender/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/15 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill often says women need men more than men need women. Where does this idea come from?Women need the sense of security that comes from a man's committment to them. Men don't need that. At least not from women. You may or may not agree that women greatly value that sense of security, and whether it comes from male committment. But that's the proposition. The converse about what men need from women is a little simpler. Everything that men need from women can be acheived easily if you are sufficiently attractive and/or wealthy. Men need sex and babies from women. Sex is a lot easier… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/15 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Waited for marriage, now issuesOne thing I found worked is to have her fight back. When she just lays there like a sex doll dominating her feels kind of pointless. She enjoys it, but you feel like its all an act, which it is. You don't need to hold her down or slap her up because she has already submitted. She's just laying there. What I did with a partner was change the rules. We made a game where we wrestled. She fought back as hard as she could and then I used my size and strength, and a bit of aggression to hold her down … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 09:24 AM |
| 23 | Red Pill Swallowers: would you let another swallower date your daughter? What if she were 17 and he 35+?The aim of raising a 'red pill daughter' is to help her be aware of how her own feelings of attraction work. With that knowledge she will hopefully be able to realise specifically what it is about a guy that is giving her the tingles and make a judgement on whether its something of value like maturity and success for example, or something meaningless like a guy working over her insecurities. Without that self awareness she is at the mercy of her feelings and will jump into romantic/sexual situat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/15 02:03 AM |
| 6 | Experiences of an Indian guy in the western world that took the pill - My success story and observations.White girls are on average a little taller than girls of most other races. That factors in to their expectations. What you say about shorter alpha indian guys rings true in my experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/15 02:02 AM |
| 22 | Experiences of an Indian guy in the western world that took the pill - My success story and observations.You're going to be some kind of role model for these guys, a big brother they never had... Very handy career wise with so much outsourcing to India and plenty of beta indian guys in under appreciated but difficult and important roles. You can easily network around and have an enormous amount of influence and knowledge of any corporation you work in. 2) You will get noticed more by people and stick out like a sore thumb because of it. You will get shit tested for it a lot from people compared to … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/15 01:16 AM |
| 18 | One out of five women don't have kids by 45 (up from 1/9 in 1940s) partially due to female hypergamy: "IT'S THE MAN'S FAULT"expect the same feminist left to suddenly grow very silent about the matter. Not a chance. Here's my predictions They will loudly scream that they have the 'right' to know if their partner is on vasalgel. Can't control reproduction if men can turn it off. Expect endless stories about women being 'lied to' by their partner because they never told them they were on vasalgel. A very public shaming campaign of vasalgel. They'll say that only desperate, mysoginistic MRA's who never get laid and fear … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 02:30 AM |
| 22 | Marriage destroys small businesses50% youth unemployment in many parts of Europe. Its not uncommon. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 02:21 AM |
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