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3	"Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective? I dont think 18.3% of all people have died in a car crash though while that’s the percentage of women who have been sexually abused. And that’s just the number that doesn’t include domestic violence, femicide and sexual harrassment, however. Idiotic comment tbh Edit: and, it just takes one of these instances to have your life feel ruined. The number would also likely be EVEN HIGHER if women didn’t take so many steps to stay safe (not that it’s their fault regardless).	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/21 09:21 AM
2	Why don't high value men marry virginal women? What do you mean “used up”? Women aren’t objects and are more than their sex life. Quit being sexist	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 09:02 PM
3	Do women consider themselves to be "high value" even if they themselves aren't loyal? It’s not necessarily out of selfishness. It could just be because of ingrained gender roles. As a woman, it just feels wrong to pursue men and to propose to them. I’m not the one with testosterone, you know? Women do usually put in lots of money and effort to look good for dates though, and most people have kids (having kids can boost a man’s income while having kids tends to affect a woman’s career more negatively) which sort of explains why women may get alimony. Usually a woman ends up doing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 12:22 PM
6	Do women consider themselves to be "high value" even if they themselves aren't loyal? Most people try to appear their best on social media. Confident, successful, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 10:47 AM
3	Do women consider themselves to be "high value" even if they themselves aren't loyal? Narcissism is at least as common in men, if not more. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/03/150304104040.htm It’s not just a woman-exclusive thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 10:46 AM
1	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? Oh sure, it doesn’t really have to be entitled if you have something in return to offer. I agree. However when I see women get criticized online for their standards (not that there aren’t people doing that to men too), with none of us usually knowing what they offer in exchange, it does get a bit annoying. I’ve just seen red pilled generalizing and calling women entitled, shallow, and all of that while often having standards themselves. But my examples will not apply to everyone of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 02:00 PM
1	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? I never said entitled women don’t exist, my point is just that I see some entitlement from some men too here as well. I was just giving examples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 02:23 PM
3	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? ”Women are entitled” yet some here want a virgin homemaker, below 25 years old and with a low n-count, good body, who will not have a career like they might but must still pay 50/50. Edit: Oh and staying 25 forever, and having sex within three dates with them but never with anyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:41 AM
5	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? Good point. Take some accountability. I really do struggle to understand why some of the men here say they don’t care about career when they also say they mind that she has an income. And that women are entitled yet those specific men want a woman who will be more of a homemaker, for free, without having to support them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:37 AM
8	Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship. Women are socialized to be emotionally supportive, I know of many who have been giving and supportive to their male friends. I have done that too for all of my friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 02:15 PM
1	Mainstream deeming men with limited earning prospects "ineligible for marriage" or "unmarriageable" demonstrates that women seek to cast aside their own traditional gender roles while continuing to impose them on men. "Unilateral imprisonment". I edited my comment now. I meant that someone else might accuse me of being ”a shallow gold-digger”, even though I don’t care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 12:16 AM
2	Mainstream deeming men with limited earning prospects "ineligible for marriage" or "unmarriageable" demonstrates that women seek to cast aside their own traditional gender roles while continuing to impose them on men. "Unilateral imprisonment". Just like many women might prefer men with higher salaries, many men prefer good looks. It’s dating up financially vs dating up attraction-wise. But most people do marry within their socioeconomic bracket. (Before I get attacked: I don’t really care about it.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 12:11 AM
6	I always wondered why women move on so quickly. I think the answer is simply OPTIONS This is accurate. If you’re truly in love, then you don’t care for any options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/20 01:24 AM
2	Is there a difference between having a height preference and having a weight preference? Most women write off men under 6 foot? The vast majority of men are below 6 foot and still get married or get into relationships. Women can have a preference but you have to also look at how it translates into reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/20 08:20 AM
1	Q4Women: What would your feelings be about a guy who ignored you until you lost weight? While saying there’s nothing wrong with being overweight (it’s not healthy) probably isn’t the way to go, I thought shaming could actually lead to more overeating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/20 07:44 PM
2	FDS women more likely to give advice to avoid imperfect men, rather than helping him mold into one. Okay that makes sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 12:52 PM
2	FDS women more likely to give advice to avoid imperfect men, rather than helping him mold into one. Many women who lose weight (or make minor changes to their appearance) say they receive far more attention and chances later on. Those guys not even asking if she’s willing to lose weight. Why would that be the case if this was generally true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 11:37 AM
2	FDS women more likely to give advice to avoid imperfect men, rather than helping him mold into one. Good point. Besides, what’s saying he won’t upgrde you later or cheat on you? Bad idea	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 11:34 AM
1	FDS women more likely to give advice to avoid imperfect men, rather than helping him mold into one. Because it’s no one’s job or responsibility to invest their time and energy into doing so. They’re not free coaches. Why should someone to do only to be at risk of getting dumped or cheated on? You shouldn’t date someone while expecting them to change either. People can be defensive about changing. Not feeling accepted can be a cause of hurt too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 10:15 AM
2	Do men value women who "invest early"? Labia size has nothing to do with number of sexual partners. Don’t spread misinformation	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 10:06 AM
1	Does the idea of OnlyFans feel kind of unsettling to anyone else, especially in the context of growing male sexlessness? For some, it’s basically paying to get the attention of attractive women, and I’ve heard that some of these women have to put up with a lot of creepy messages. I’m sure that many of those guys could find someone else to talk to who might not be as attractive, but is good company.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/20 01:19 PM
1	Women get custody because they’re seen as caregivers by most of society. I think what they’re claiming is that while it’s not ideal, the outcomes are still better for children growing up with a single mom vs single dad	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/20 10:55 AM
1	Why do some men feel like they need society's moral approval to pump and dump? What a trashy way to talk about women. You seem to have a lack of respect for others, and think it’s fine to use them. It’s wrong no matter how cool you think you are	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/20 08:09 AM
3	CMV: A woman should sleep quickly with her serious LTR In my experience, guys don’t want to have to worry that what you’re doing quickly with them is what you’d quickly do with another guy (who they fear might be many). I just don’t think sleeping with someone straight away is a good idea if you’re looking for your dream guy at that time. Guys here are wrong when they say it’s still a good idea; women aren’t mindreaders and need time to figure out what a guy is like, what he truly wants and so on. You wouldn’t spend 500 dollars on a random girl out …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/20 07:12 AM
7	Women are the gate keepers of both access to sex and relationships. Only attractive HVM are gate keeping commitment with themselves. What do you consider “ugly”? Sometimes I see decent looking girls get called that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/20 02:20 PM
1	Objectification and gendered media Not all women do this, or want to be objectified literally all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/20 04:08 AM
1	Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates? It’s not necessarily that they’re shallow. It’s that society forces women to care about their looks. This can look like shallowness but really, it’s fear of being judged or treated as less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/20 04:02 AM
31	Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates? Yes, despite women having a lot more chances to cheat (on Tinder, etc) women actually cheat a bit less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 02:28 PM
2	What's the bare minimum for you in a boyfriend? No history of cheating and wants a monogamous relationship Means what he says Not a big drinker/drug user, or smoker. No serious behavior or viewpoint issues (anger, objectifying women, racist etc) Is able to make some time for me Edit: Has a secure or anxious attachment style. I don’t like guys who are too distant or unpredictable in terms of affection Is caring Has at least one interest in common and easy to talk to Wants to have kids in the future	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/20 03:40 AM
2	The single mom contradiction Biology isn’t fair. Many men are a lot stronger than women for example. Women are the ones who have to give birth and in the same way, should have the right to abort. Legalizing financial abortions is just going to be a burden on the taxpayer that could potentially lead to even more single motherhood (which isn’t preferrable) and then how can a woman trust that a guy would stay after she becomes pregnant? How would it work? Edit: To clarify my last questions, like by what week should a guy have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/20 01:46 AM
8	The single mom contradiction Since when did a man risk dying from paying child support? Or have to push out a watermelon? Pregnancy is a very physically taxing process. Even emotionally too as some develop PPD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/20 11:19 PM
19	The single mom contradiction Women also have to deal with the burden of childbirth, and hormonal birth control, so I feel like the least a man can do is wear a condom + maybe do the withdrawal method on top of it. That’s if he’s worried. Hopefully, there will be more male birth control methods soon and this won’t be an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/20 11:10 PM
10	Why is /r/adultery predominantly filled with women on a male-dominated sub? Are more women cheating on their spouses than men, and are just less likely to admit to it on surveys? Women have way more options to cheat than men do, yet statistically men tend to cheat a bit more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/20 09:39 AM
3	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy I didn’t mean to talk about myself but was just trying to give an example. Chill edit: also what a mean woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/20 09:13 AM
1	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/20 09:10 AM
3	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy Question, would you have called me too sensitive if I was a guy who was told to get a penis enlargement procedure by my girlfriend?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 06:25 PM
2	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy I wonder if he would have called me too sensitive if I was a guy who was told to get some kind of penis enlargement procedure by my girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 06:23 PM
8	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy The way these women are described is certainly not as sexy. So I doubt the sex was even good, for example I doubt these guys went down on these girls or even looked at them, or called them back. So casual sex doesn’t always boost a woman’s self esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 03:44 PM
4	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy Maybe they want to feel attractive enough for an LTR. https://i.redd.it/krgu6oha10211.png https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/193338/do_men_really_sleep_with_women_they_dont_find/	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 03:35 PM
1	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy Thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 03:19 PM
2	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy I didn’t say I’m still insecure, and this was more than just person. I care less now, just explaining that people’s comments can make women insecure and it can stick with you for a while. Not sure why I got downvoted for that. I also don’t care about Tinder, I want to be attractive enough for an LTR. I’ve read posts on Reddit where guys joke about sex with unattractive women. So someone wanting to have sex with me isn’t something I necessarily take as me being that attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 03:17 PM
21	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy I’ve had a guy tell me I need to look more like Instagram girls by working out and ask me if I’m considering plastic surgery (for my boobs). Also told me to lose weight and then complained when my butt got smaller. That ruins your self esteem and this is just one person, not even going into society and the media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 02:55 PM
2	One reason for the amout of sexlessness in men is due to woman not feeling sexy It doesn’t always seem that way when you see how women get judged for their looks. Like the whole rating system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 02:52 PM
3	Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRs And women get bashed too if they want a guy who provides for them. Gold digger comes to mind. People don’t want to feel used for what they can bring. I think one reason people take issue with it is that it can sound demanding and unreasonable (to them). What does the woman get in return for being a saint who takes care of the kids, works (?), cleans, cooks while showing a good mood? Women are often shamed and called superficial for wanting a somewhat high income guy in return. I assume she’s als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 02:12 PM
2	Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRs Copied from above: They tend to say that women generally have better support networks. But that men tend to lack this especially after they get divorced. Loneliness can be very unhealthy. Women also tend to encourage men to see doctors which can benefit their health. If women really brought nothing to the table then I fail to see why the percentage of men who initiate divorce, is lower, why men tend to remarry after a divorce, and why men even marry in the first place. When a man is seriously il…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 07:48 AM
16	Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRs They tend to say that women generally have better support networks. But that men tend to lack this especially after they get divorced. Loneliness can be very unhealthy. Women also tend to encourage men to see doctors which can benefit their health. If women really brought nothing to the table then I fail to see why the percentage of men who initiate divorce, is lower, why men tend to remarry after a divorce, and why men even marry in the first place. When a man is seriously ill, the marriage is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 07:38 AM
26	Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRs Married men are usually healthier and happier. Women nowadays tend to work and also do unpaid labor, doing more of the cleaning and taking care of children. I don’t know where you’re getting it from that women generally don’t bring anything to the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/20 11:52 PM
1	Most women don’t marry or date men they are not attracted to. I believe there are studies saying that generally women do tend to lose some of their libido in a relationship, not after long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/20 09:41 PM
0	Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim? Not true. You can be at a healthy weight without being highly attractive, you can be skinny but unattractive. Attractiveness depends on your facial features, body type, etc. Lots of these highly attractive girls aren’t just blessed with great genes but spend a lot of time and money on every little thing. The beauty ideals are pretty strict.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 09:12 PM
3	Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim? They did make an argument though, it just didn’t fit your bias.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 06:57 PM
18	Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim? A lot of these points only apply to highly attractive women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 06:56 PM
1	Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim? So you take this person seriously despite not having sources but you didn’t take another person on this thread seriously when their sources weren’t up to your standards?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 06:51 PM
7	Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim? Exactly and women are also more likely to sacrifice their career and do more childrearing/domestic work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 06:34 PM
1	Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been women What? Not that it matters but guys in relationships tend to get laid more often than most single guys. And guys that are in relationships usually don’t sleep with anyone except for their partner thus a lower number. Nothing to shame him for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/20 02:45 AM
2	Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been women I think op’s example is a bisexual woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/20 01:20 AM
3	Never simp for women. They simp for Chad (Part 5) I really hope she got over him quickly, I could never forgive someone who did that to me. Would be very turned off if someone’s that passive, just ignoring instead of talking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 03:48 PM
1	I miss him 😭😭😭 Women do the housework unpaid, that minority of men working with this earned money thanks to their inventions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 02:01 PM
1	I miss him 😭😭😭 More women do more of the housework and childcare than the number of male inventors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 01:57 PM
3	I miss him 😭😭😭 Women have the reproductive rights because childbirth itself is that responsibility, should a pregnancy naturally go to full term. A fetus grows inside a woman’s body. Also, this doesn’t change the fact that women sacrifice more (of their time and energy), rather than men generally speaking on these things. Whether we use the word sacrifice or not, women do give up a lot for their families. Source for the claim that women quit work because they’re bad at it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 11:00 AM
4	I miss him 😭😭😭 Is that why women tend to do more childcare, unpaid domestic work and are more likely to sacrifice their career to take care of their family (as well as being more likely to be a caretaker if their spouse becomes seriously ill)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 09:24 AM
1	People who sincerely HATE the opposite gender, what do your real-life interactions with them look like? Because lots of women have been victims of crime and can easily be overpowered by the average man. There’s many women carrying around trauma or who are friends of someone who’s been raped. If we don’t protect ourselves, we’re blamed. But if we do protect ourselves, we’re apparently ”ridiculous”? It might be frustrating to hear about but like, be glad you don’t have to worry as much? Where I live, you’re not even allowed to carry anything for self defense. I’m not saying the majority of men are l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 11:23 PM
1	People who sincerely HATE the opposite gender, what do your real-life interactions with them look like? Sure, but not as scared of what women would do. And I never meant to say all women are scared and instead clarified, don’t take out your frustration on me. No need to be condescending. I meant we as in WOMEN, this happens to women. It should be obvious I don’t mean every woman gets raped, but I don’t think it’s wrong to say that we’re (generally) more physically vulnerable. What I said is it happens to many women. Edit: I also never said you shouldn’t avoid drinks from women regardless, damn it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 11:07 PM
2	People who sincerely HATE the opposite gender, what do your real-life interactions with them look like? I meant to say most of the women that are scared of men wouldn’t be if we never got sexually assaulted or killed. And I don’t think most avoid drinks from strangers because they think a woman will do something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 09:54 PM
3	People who sincerely HATE the opposite gender, what do your real-life interactions with them look like? A lot of women get raped or abused, and most never see justice for it. The majority of rapists never get sentenced, while women on the other hand might be doubted constantly or told they wanted something this traumatizing to happen. Many rapists are “normal” appearing, they can be the well-liked friend of a friend at a party. As a woman, you never know who could be the one to hurt you. Lots of women have been attacked while they’re on their way home and murdered. Or taken advantage of, or being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 05:25 PM
1	Men (I think) get slightly jealous when an attractive woman is taken by someone else. Do women get jealous when rich men are taken by women? No, there’s lots of great guys out there. I lose all interest in guys that are taken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 01:23 AM
1	Men who are bothered by the fact that women can’t truly love them for who they are: isn’t that hypocritical? That’s more like loving him because he pleases your eyes. It’s just a part of who he is, not loving the person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 01:08 AM
2	Men who are bothered by the fact that women can’t truly love them for who they are: isn’t that hypocritical? Loving a guy for his abs is loving him for who he is then, by your reasoning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 01:05 AM
1	Men who are bothered by the fact that women can’t truly love them for who they are: isn’t that hypocritical? On top of that, more women than men tend to stay with their partners in the event of a serious illness (that can ruin a man’s looks).	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 07:36 PM
2	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? You don’t even know me so who are you to make those claims? My current boyfriend is a virgin. Edit: The focus of the OP is why women are judged for sleeping around. Just because I didn’t mention men being shamed for being virgins doesn’t mean I shame them myself, or agree with the shaming, or that I’ve just ignored when it happens. Or that I have to be promiscuous myself to dislike double standards. I personally believe that hookups potentially can be harmful regardless of gender. I was just foc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 08:54 AM
2	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? I’ve never shamed a guy for being a virgin so don’t say this to me. I also don’t need to be promiscuous in order to defend the women who sleep around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 08:43 AM
-1	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? I haven’t said men aren’t shamed for certain things, only that women are shamed or disliked for being promiscuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 07:56 PM
0	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? It’s mostly only promiscuous women that are spoken of that way though, so you can say it’s misogyny. And even if a woman isn’t promiscuous, she can still be judged to be a ”slut” and assumed to be unfaithful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 07:45 PM
-1	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? Hahaha. You clearly are choosing to ignore how only women are shamed for it, being called sluts, judged as untrustworthy and unfaithful, and ”loose”, called ”roastbeef vagina”. Even women who merely appear promiscuous by the way they dress are treated badly and called sluts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 07:24 PM
2	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? It’s a bit different. The sex industry exploits and commidifies women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 06:20 PM
0	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? Well, don’t hate on women if you mostly prioritize looks and end up with someone who is a horrible partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 06:11 PM
9	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? Just because doing X is easy for someone but not for me doesn’t mean they deserve to be hated for it, similarly to a promiscuous woman. It’s like me dreaming of being a pro basketball player but because I’m short, hating a tall person for being good at it while I struggle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 05:50 PM
1	Women have better lives because they get sex easily... but getting sex as a woman means nothing? Women don’t even orgasm at nearly the same rate as men and more often suffer from pain during intercourse. Women are also judged for how many partners they’ve been with, or can even be socially punished merely because their appearance is deemed promiscuous. On top of that, casual sex is a lot riskier to women with regards to physical vulnerability (if the guy becomes violent) and STDs, as well as pregnancy. IIRC plenty of women are also more likely to release bonding chemicals during sex, which …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/20 09:12 PM
2	To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done? There would be less competition if less guys were thirsty. And that seems false, women contribute a lot in relationships rather than just using men. Women tend to spend more time taking care of children, doing chores, cooking, and also bear children as well as organizing. This is on top of working.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/20 08:02 PM
2	CMV: Being a woman's beta bux is worse than being with a young golddigger? There’s both men and women that want to mess around when they’re young. Young people tend to be shallow. Many people that are here complaining about it would likely have done the same thing would they have had the option, yet women get most of the hate for it. I’m sure there’s plenty of average looking women with good personalities that they have overlooked themselves. These guys that were overlooked in their youth may just not have taken care of their looks, were insecure or didn’t go out much,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/20 07:15 PM
14	Most of the time when a guy pumps and dumps a girl it's not something he's planned and premeditated but a side effect of post nut clarity. It’s not, I totally agree with you. Being used sexually is way worse imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/20 12:24 AM
7	Most of the time when a guy pumps and dumps a girl it's not something he's planned and premeditated but a side effect of post nut clarity. It’s because these guys can often be pushy/forward when it comes to sex after making a girl think he’s really into them when he’s not. Like, acting like he’s considering that she could be more than a hookup when it’s all sweet talk. Often times it’s just opportunism rather than a genuine loss in interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/20 12:09 AM
7	Most of the time when a guy pumps and dumps a girl it's not something he's planned and premeditated but a side effect of post nut clarity. Often these guys do act like they want something more or act like they’re very into her and then stop the moment after they get sex. It’s manipulation. If you’re not into someone, don’t act like you are. That’s dickish. Each situation is different but there are cases where guys will say they want to be with a girl yet leave her afterwards. It happens to girls that say they’re looking for a boyfriend too. Ghosting someone you’ve dated a bit is also wrong in my opinion unless you fear for your saf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/20 11:10 PM
7	Most of the time when a guy pumps and dumps a girl it's not something he's planned and premeditated but a side effect of post nut clarity. If you know someone wants more and it could be leading them on then it can be wrong, just kind of messes with their emotions. No one likes to be used whether for money or sex. Casual sex if both are on the same page is fine, just not leading someone on or trying to have sex with someone by acting like you want something serious or that you like them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/20 11:04 PM
13	Most of the time when a guy pumps and dumps a girl it's not something he's planned and premeditated but a side effect of post nut clarity. Okay. Then I guess most of the time a woman dumps a guy after he’s spent money taking her out on expensive dates, it’s not her fault. She just couldn’t tell that they weren’t compatible. She was just temporarily attracted to his status and money and couldn’t help it. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/20 09:14 PM
7	Most of the time when a guy pumps and dumps a girl it's not something he's planned and premeditated but a side effect of post nut clarity. Because you’re dumping them literally straight after sex. You clearly didn’t like them enough then and only saw them as good for sex. If you know you don’t like someone all that much, don’t sleep with them. A LTR is more of a genuine attempt at a relationship but can end because of real dick moves too, like because of cheating or taking the other for granted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/20 09:07 PM
1	The double standard for male and female promiscuity is totally justified Forget my example, take just doing anything. Just because a task is naturally easier for some people doesn’t mean they deserve to be shamed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/20 06:06 PM
1	The double standard for male and female promiscuity is totally justified I don’t understand why the amount of effort is relevant. Some people are naturally athletic but you don’t see anyone shaming them for being good at soccer. Same with how women have an easier time finding sex partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/20 05:56 PM
9	Women see the real side of men wayyyyyyy younger than most men do The media can make some things seem more common than they are. It does happen, but predatory women are still relatively rare. Maybe the ones that exist tend to seek out certain jobs. According to studies of attraction, most women prefer guys that are close to their age. Most women feel a lot safer around other women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/20 05:47 AM
2	FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street Journal It’s not obvious to every woman. Some have gotten so used to poor behavior that they don’t know what standards they should set anymore, or what red flags they should look out for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 08:55 PM
2	Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology? Some guys like many girls are attractive, with girls throwing themselves at them without having to do much work. Yet you never see anyone imply these are low value, dirty men who become tainted and used up. These women might appear to have no reedemable quality if you choose to only judge them based on how easily they get sex. There’s way more to a person. What about other skills that a human can have? Yet you only judge based on how easy it is for her to get sex. Sex is the most natural thing e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 10:07 PM
5	Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology? Just because something takes little skill doesn’t mean it warrants disrespect. Some people are naturally talented at soccer while others need to work hard, but you don’t see good soccerplayers being disparaged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 08:22 PM
3	Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology? It takes zero effort for some people to be kind as they’re naturally kind people. That doesn’t mean you can’t be grateful. It takes little effort for the love of your life to smile at you, doesn’t mean you can’t feel happy about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 08:17 PM
3	Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology? This is why no one should sympathize with those guys that complain about lack of sex and the extra effort it takes for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 08:14 PM
1	Q4 Men who independently decided on these deal breakers: (1) If they have to wait longer for sex than any of her exes, or (2) She has stopped performing a sex act That’s silly. First of all, the assumption that someone in their 20’s or so is still a virgin when the majority aren’t. If it’s important to you, you need to ask. Second, plenty of people try to avoid bringing up their past because they feel that it genuinely doesn’t matter, or because they feel like that’s personal. They could also be avoiding mentioning exes out of respect. And since when is dressing conservatively only for virgins?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/20 05:27 PM
2	Q4W Do women tend to value stealing men from each other? Me too. I’d worry he’s not very loyal. Loyalty is huge for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/20 05:20 PM
1	Do you believe that there is "someone out there for everyone"? I see this advice brought up a lot in the context of “don’t worry, they will come into your life when you’re not trying”. I don’t think passivity always works out. Actively dating by putting yourself out there can teach you a lot about yourself and how to become a better partner. If you want a specific type of person, I think it’s really a numbers game. The more people you meet, the higher likelihood of meeting someone who fits your criteria. In some places, there can be a lack of compatible, po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/20 05:15 PM
1	When people ask "What do you find attractive", you need to specify if we're talking about what we find DATEABLE or what we find FUCKABLE Any proof for your second claim?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 03:46 PM
1	Should men feel guilty for being attracted to teenage girls? In response to the title: yes. Attraction can lead to action and there’s a power imbalance. Attraction to teenagers shouldn’t be encouraged or considered acceptable. Adult women are already at high risk for sexual abuse and harrassment (and abuse in general), and teenagers are even more vulnerable to these risks. I think it’s been proven already that the world is a dangerous place for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 10:06 AM
2	FDS don't hate men, they hate men who behave unattractively There could have been steps in between, maybe the guy didn’t directly say, ”be ready at 8”. The point being that one just messes around, while the other takes action? That’s how I interpret it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 09:57 AM
8	Is misogyny just nature? Sex for many women has an emotional component to it. I wonder how many of these men whose wives lost interest in sex simply just stopped putting in effort (in eating well and maintaining a healthy weight, in doing chores, and making the woman feel special). Lack of libido can occur for so many reasons. Stress and hormonal changes. Lackluster sex, and the orgasm gap. Not always will someone know why they lost their libido, or what to do in order to get it back. You will have a hard time having a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 09:39 AM
1	Plate Spinning means playing the field. So ladies, why do you take offense to this term? Because it’s talking about women like they’re an object for sex. For comparison, it’s like a golddigger who keeps multiple (wo)men around just to get money from them. Obviously that’s offensive. Most people don’t like to be thought of like that, being reduced to what they can offer. What’s even worse is if this is without their knowledge. Always be upfront about your intentions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 02:23 PM
1	Men: do you lose respect for women after sleeping with them? Are you sure you’re not accidentally hurting nice women by this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 11:52 AM
1	Men: do you lose respect for women after sleeping with them? How well do you know the women this applies to? How would you feel about some women not treating you as well after they got what they wanted (for example, being spent money on)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 09:34 AM
2	Would a girl lose out on high quality guys if she makes him wait three months for sex? Just because you’ve slashed one tire doesn’t mean you should go and slash the others. For example, if having sex early has only hurt you, which can happen if you get pumped and dumped. Then, it’s understandable someone would try to wait instead. I wouldn’t be upset if someone I dated needed some time to trust me in general (just like some may wait out of fear of being ”pumped and dumped”) because of past experiences like being cheated on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/20 05:40 AM
2	Would a girl lose out on high quality guys if she makes him wait three months for sex? How is it ridiculous? It can feel like a good idea to wait until you have a bond. Maybe the woman doesn’t want to be vulnerable with someone she doesn’t know (again). She might want to make sure there’s a solid connection between you two. It would be silly to expect someone to repeat the same mistake if they had casual sex once and regretted it because it harmed them. You’re supposed to try to avoid repeating mistakes, and casual sex can be a mistake for some women who risk falling for the wrong…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/20 05:27 AM
2	CMV: Men being seen as a ''Safe option'' as a partner is an issue. I thought married men tend to be happier than their female counterparts. A relationship also tends to come with sex. Women do have a lot to offer in a relationship, but I feel like that’s being taken for granted by some bitter people who post on here. Women tend to do the majority of the housework according to statistics, for one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/20 01:43 AM