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"Suffering" the same problem. Might just be the environment, but out of observation, my female friends are either rather socially inept and introverted or total party girls. I know that I may not be considered far more mature than them but the contrast is quite large. So to remedy this, I started doing stuff I enjoy and seemingly naturally I meet people, most of whom possessed similar interests with me albeit with less interest and admiration.
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:05 AM
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It sounded like she was really drunk or just wanted some attention.
/r/seduction07/11/15 05:43 PM
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If I remember correctly when you send pics/vids on snapchat it can either be private or "public". Sorry for my ignorance, not into this social media stuff. Were the pics sent directly to you? If so she might really want to fuck you too, so try to get her to go out with you.
/r/seduction07/11/15 06:56 AM
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Thanks. Every bit of advice is crucial, especially for a formerly awkward and socially inept person such as myself. I will do that, give her a call and try to get the two of us to go out. Only problem is the timing and location since I'm quite busy and she lives in the neighbouring city I believe. If she keeps flaking or declines, there are thousands of other girls, just need to meet them and initiate contact. What matter is that I took the opportunity when it was presented to me. By the way, li…
/r/seduction01/11/15 10:59 AM
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Try going to parties with a close friend who really social as well. All I did was tag along with him, maintained a confident and friendly stance and I've been meeting a lot of people recently.
/r/seduction01/11/15 08:40 AM
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I would not say that all "nice" guys and girls lack confidence, a more proper description in my opinion would be genuine and courteous. To say they are unconfident could be misleading.
/r/seduction12/07/15 09:49 PM
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Here is when a man's common sense and dignity comes in. If a person takes advantage of an intoxicated person, regardless of the location, then the person is a douchebag who should have his balls chopped off. But it should be duly noted that the intoxicated person should be more wary and controlled themselves when drinking as well. Edit: Downvotes? Curious but why?
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:20 AM
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Suits are not about corporation or work. Suits, the real bespoke ones, are pieces of art that the affluent or men with successful wears. The reason why older men wear suits more often is because you can't just buy it off the street, it takes money. It doesn't show that he is a corporate slave or what ever bullshit, that would be his personality or career position.
/r/seduction12/07/15 12:47 AM
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Nice man. Conversations will nearly always run smoothly if approach and break the ice properly and charmingly. I share the same problem dude, I'm your age as well and it is hard to spot the difference between a 15 year old and a 19 year old. Doesn't help that these age groups dresses the same way.
/r/seduction12/07/15 12:23 AM
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Because girls usually go to pubs, bars and especially night clubs for the same reason why many guys go there too, to get laid. They just hide the reason better than most men.
/r/seduction12/07/15 12:18 AM
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You have an awesome brother.
/r/seduction11/07/15 04:40 AM
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My objective is not to sleep with strangers. Its to charm people, in particular, women. This subreddit features lots of good advice, which is why I spend my time here otherwise I'd be at the psychology subreddit and just be reading books more.
/r/seduction22/04/15 05:07 PM
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Not looks. Its your sudden surge of confidence and maybe courtesy/manners which made them suddenly fall you. Or they've always thought you were handsome, just had the courage to say it.
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:16 PM
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Nice work bro. Your success, no matter how small you think it is, brought a smile on my face. Try to set up a date/hangout this weekend, but get some crucial infor out her too by texting. Ask where she likes to hangout, what she like to do and so on. Use this info to your advantage for the date. Good luck mate!
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:10 PM
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I think it's their taste, also based on your other comment, they seem like the stereotypical blonde girl who's superficial as fuck and date rich good looking guys only.
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:04 PM
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She sounds lonely and still not over her last relationship. I guess she wanted to but her she can't get over him so she backs off. She also seems a little awkward from your description.
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:00 PM
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Ok, forgetting about her. But not going back to tinder, I rarely get matched and if I do usually no response. Time to go out then.
/r/seduction15/04/15 10:02 PM
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Respect your bros. If one your bro has set an eye on a girl, don't go for her without his permission. Still just don't, find another girl. Never, never flirt or God forbid fuck your bro's girlfriend. Be it an ex or still in relationship. Most importantly, bros, before hoes. These three simple codes are to be respected and obeyed by all bros. They also mark the premise of the other less important rules.
/r/seduction09/04/15 11:52 AM
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Bros before hoes, its in the code.
/r/seduction08/04/15 09:02 AM
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Well, they're not ugly and I'm pretty sure you can seduce a woman the same way anywhere as long as the culture is similar. I think he's saying something else.
/r/seduction06/04/15 11:31 AM
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Awesome story bro! Real smooth and professional. I think the brunette has a thing for you too, which makes this way easier.
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:57 AM
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It all depends on the situation. Most of the time a cold approach is better since if you don't do shit and wait, you'll lose an opportunity and will never know if the approach could have escalated into something else. A natural approach is more suited in an enviroment where you and the others, who are strangers at this point, share something in common, like a class, workplace et cetera. Eitherway cold approaches are only forced and awkward when one of the individual is uncomfortable and trying t…
/r/seduction31/03/15 09:20 PM
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By being myself, and I'm very random and spontaneous. The chance of her finding me weird as fuck is much higher than being funny though, but I just don't give a fuck. :D
/r/seduction31/03/15 09:08 PM
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Dude, you don't even know me or how many girls I've approached and how I do it... that being said I approach quite a lot but getting her pants down as fast as possible isn't my objective. No I'm no "nice guy" too. Its still the same methods...
/r/seduction31/03/15 05:10 PM
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I think OP confused confidence and douchebagginess...
/r/seduction31/03/15 09:08 AM
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I don't know man, I don't think the boyfriend is that lucky. For sure as hell I wouldn't want to be called lucky if my girlfriend is doing that. But anyways kudos to you!
/r/seduction30/03/15 11:07 AM
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You grew balls in a matter of a few seconds. You have accomplished what 7/10 men can't even do, although something as simple as this can fix it. Cheers mate!
/r/seduction30/03/15 11:02 AM
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Nah I'm not. I'm just bored.
/r/seduction29/03/15 02:58 PM
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That's the problem, her pics are group pics and low quality as shit. Doesn't matter I've asked her out, she said yes. Guess it will be a surprise then.
/r/seduction29/03/15 01:45 PM
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Just out of curiousity, where are you from?
/r/seduction27/03/15 10:16 PM
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It fine mate. All good
/r/seduction27/03/15 10:11 PM
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Note to self: If I ever go to NYC, find a residence in Brooklyn. Whatever the price.
/r/seduction27/03/15 09:41 PM
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Funny, Carnegie actually said that. He also said the other thing besides sex and food which people crave is pure and honest appreciation.
/r/seduction27/03/15 09:36 PM
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You me misunderstood when I said sure as fuck there's no one behind me, it meant that she wasn't smiling at friend or someone on those lines who happen to be behind me. Furthermore, I'm already well versed in approaching mate. Also I'm really normal looking but its the confidence that matters therefore looks are irrelevant, and if I'm a saleman, I wouldn't be sleazy...
/r/seduction27/03/15 09:32 PM
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Its called How to Win Friends and Influence People. The author is obviously Dale Carnegie. Here's a link to a torrent download of a pdf version of it: https://thepiratebay.se/torrent/6605681/How_To_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People . I suggest buying the actual book though, far easier to keep track and write notes, which is extremely important. Its only around $15 too.
/r/seduction27/03/15 09:51 AM
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Hmm, I see. Is there a way to alert the moderators about this bot? Hate shit like this.
/r/seduction27/03/15 08:58 AM
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Same problem mate. I get confused unless they smile when I smile or give a smirk and I'm sure as fuck there is no one behind me then I'll make a move, usually a simple conversation with some complimenting on style or features. But they might just be a friendly person as well, still I make a move though, don't mind having more friends. Damn its hard living on hardcore mode.
/r/seduction27/03/15 08:00 AM
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That's illogical if they think like that, I have confidence but I'm nice to everyone be it the hottest supermodel or the average joe and to top it all off, I'll help anyone and everyone in need. They're the ones who sound like dicks if they think in such a way.
/r/seduction27/03/15 07:56 AM
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First I would like to apologize for the long ass comment. Fucking Carnegie, I've read two thirds of it and I'm currently memorizing the principles first before moving on to the last part of the book. Since then, honestly I've been coming here less and less because I fuck you not, that book is truly a life changer. I reckon you already have confidence and have understood the core ideas of the book, now all you need is pure charm and charisma. This takes observation as well as trial and error unfo…
/r/seduction27/03/15 07:46 AM
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Why did you give a link to one of those creepypasta sites? How is this even relevant to my comment, the post, subject matter or even r/seduction?
/r/seduction27/03/15 07:19 AM
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And I saved this in case I ever need some motivation and inspiration! u/thugswagyolo420 you are one awesome motherfucker!
/r/seduction27/03/15 07:10 AM
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Could have said that earlier. Hmm, ask her to join you at lunch break then or after work for dinner. Sometimes simplicity is the best option.
/r/seduction23/03/15 09:22 PM
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I don't think its you. Seriously, it doesn't makes any sense. Maybe they thought the dates are hanging out or a meet up. Are you sure you clarified that you are asking them to on a date? Might be a misunderstanding, but I must say its weird you have all these escalation yet they chicken out. Again, I don't think its you though mate.
/r/seduction23/03/15 09:15 PM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction23/03/15 09:10 PM
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Dude, she let you into her house. Her house. Ah, I don't know about you but I think that means she is comfortable around you and feels safe in fact. Just ask her out or escalate. Meaning at her house, get the wine out, get closer, start to cuddle and all that. Girls love that shit, not gonna lie, me too.
/r/seduction23/03/15 09:02 PM
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All in moderation. For example I can say "No, you're coming with me to get a drink" but if she genuinely seems uninterested and declined, back off, apologize for your behaviour in fact. Manners and respect are two things which differentiates a gentleman and an asshole. Manners makes a man, my dear boys. Take heed
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:59 PM
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Alright, I shall take heed. This sounds like the best piece of advice here. Thank you my good sir, I shit you not when I say I greatly appreciate it.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:53 PM
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Will do, thanks mate.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:07 PM
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Maybe. But I feel like I'm not making an effort. I just say some things I like about her, compliment on features and abilities and give praise when due. Is it that easy? I'm simply being honest and I'm not saying it in a really fancy way either.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:07 PM
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Depends on the situation. Usually its just touches, holding her hand, caress, touch her hair, talk closer and those things. I prefer to take it slow and my main objective is to get a date not hook up right away.
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:17 PM
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Combination of wit, humor, and suggestive mutual-context. When two people talking in a very familiar way, with one teasing the other about something and both are laughing. To excite the person you're with in a pleasant way, encouraging them to be interested in me, and making them want to continue hanging out. To play with them. I can do the wit and maybe even the humor but not the context.
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:01 PM
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I know but I've never flirted to a girl before, and surprisingly some girls have tried to flirt with me but it doesn't go good because I can't play along. Not only its an experience I never had but its a buzzkill for me and the girl sometimes.
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:54 PM
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Hey, OP, I have autism as well and many other "social" defects. I know exactly how you feel. I had to learn how to socialize from scratch and I'm still learning, kind of like what you are slowly doing as well. But honestly, it would be easier for you if the effort is put. Why? Its simple, well, you say you're an attractive girl, regardless, being a girl itself makes it easier. Men, the shy ones, awkward ones, gents and confident ones will naturally be polite and courteous, unless he is a fucking…
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:34 PM
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Of course it makes senses. Its pure logic, plus girls are still human no matter how weird they are.
/r/seduction22/03/15 09:12 PM
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Yes. Both a good business man and a casanova share the traits of being confident, charismatic, charming, willing and determined. The only difference is the goal, one is to gain maximum profit and incur no lost, the other to get laid or maintain a relationship, and more or less how you do it.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:53 PM
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Don't worry, most girls find it cute, honestly I do too. Next time on a first date with other girls, end it with a quick kiss on the lips and a hug, simple and romantic, plus its direct and shows that you would like to care for her and so on. But please, please put more sexual tension on the forthcoming date with the same girl.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:48 PM
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Tell him the statement on confidence first, then the mentality and lastly escalation. Confidence is and has been the most crucial factor.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:38 PM
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Wake up earlier than usual and do it quick. If she asks why you where you were say you were brushing your teeth, making coffee or tell the truth. Of course if you said you brushed your teeth, make sure you brush your teeth before coming out and same with the coffee or any other excuse.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:35 PM
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Even if they don't have a boyfriend, adding a girl you've just met on facebook is a little creepy. No, actually its just creepy. You can add them after you've met them a few more time, whether by chance or not but only after one meeting, no. Just stick with the girls who gave you their numbers. It actually means they're interested in you and would like to be in contact and even meet again.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:33 PM
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Man, I don't know man. This such a complicated situation. If you do get a date today somehow and there is a click, I think there will be, well you'll be leaving her for about a month and a half. That just seems wrong for the both of you. You still can keep in contact via facebook and skype, but these things usually don't work, are illogical and I'm not an advocate of it. Long distance that is. I suggest just keep chatting with her on fb, skype or whatever but postpone the date until you get back…
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:29 PM
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Baku? That's kind of weird though, I was there in 2013. Really moderate if you ask me. Didn't know things could change in 2 years.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:12 PM
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They are not offenses of public decency. Kisses are definitely accepted but you have to keep it short, simple and quite. No french kissing and et cetera besides that no one cares. Of course if you're in a private area, nobdoy gives a fuck if you host a cocaine enraged gay orgy, but outside in public you have to behave more decent. I live in the UAE btw.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:09 PM
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For me its more like, me seeing her more, going to dates, hanging out and imagining me cuddling with her in bed. Nothing more than that though. And yes I like all that romantic shit.
/r/seduction21/03/15 09:37 PM
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Ok, where do you live exactly? I live in the Middle East, no such reactions from the public at all. And frankly the people where I live just don't give a fuck about who I'm in a relationship with and et cetera. Only country here which I can think of is Saudi Arabia and IS occupied Iraq and Syria.
/r/seduction21/03/15 09:03 PM
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Still happens to me sometimes, usually to crushes and girls I just like, in terms of personality as well. Honestly I have no idea how stop it. Its nice though to think about things like that weirdly enough.
/r/seduction21/03/15 08:58 PM
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First thing, there's no such thing as out of your league. In fact there is no such thing as a league, of course you can rate person by her looks but this does not mean anything else. That's all in your head. Get that out of your system first. Good, you've made her interested in you, this might be a non-sexual attraction, meaning she genuinely just wants to be friends or she maybe attracted to you. Either way you it doesn't matter how she sees you cause if you're determined enough, you can change…
/r/seduction21/03/15 08:55 PM
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So you're telling me, she did what you're supposed to do? Damn. On an unrelated note I need to know where this club is...
/r/seduction21/03/15 12:13 AM
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Haha, yeah I believe for me its 1 and 3. I know I see some of them as the person I wouldn't mind being with till I die but I'm still too young so its irrelevant for atleast another 10 years. What you said about advice should differ from one person to another is true as well, nearly everyone's situation is never alike no matter how similar they are, how can it be, everyone is different.
/r/seduction21/03/15 12:10 AM
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I believe so since I usually feel not as sexually attracted to particular attractive female friends when compared to some girl I met a few days ago, but I enjoy their company, talking to them and would like to be by their side more than having sex. Of course in the end I'll date one of them or none of them entirely, I'm not a dick.
/r/seduction20/03/15 11:06 PM
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Hey, I have the same problem but only to girls whom I actually like. I can talk, compliment and flirt to any random pretty girl, but if I really like her sincerely due to personality and so on, I don't know how.
/r/seduction20/03/15 10:37 PM
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Haha, it'll be gone in a few months.
/r/seduction20/03/15 05:49 AM
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Haha, thanks man. This did help. I'm really surprised that you said I'm not that bad looking and could be even considered to be good looking. The slanting of the mouth isn't intentional, I have some birth defects. This also explains the hairstyle, which is either like this, a bun or untied, I'm trying to cover up some scars. Its nothing though as people stopped realizing and becoming frighten since I have long hair now. Regarding my skin, its slowly becoming better, it was way worse before but I…
/r/seduction19/03/15 09:06 PM
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I have confidence, I've been turned down a few times and I'm fine. I seriously just want to know if I'm average, ugly or maybe considered good looking in some aspects.
/r/seduction19/03/15 08:52 PM
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I recommend not other subreddits but Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. This book is fucking amazing. I'm only half way through and I fucking kid you not it has already made me far more charismatic and charming much faster than what I've expected. Read it well.
/r/seduction19/03/15 08:19 PM
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Like daygamecoach said, if she's just shy there a big chance of you two being in a healthy normal relationship but no point trying if anti-social, she'll just ignore you and make you feel bad even if you're giving the best.
/r/seduction18/03/15 12:55 PM
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So, details man. She might not be worth the time and effort regardless of looks though. Dealing with shy and anti-social people are a pain in the ass. Ask anyone here, most of us were like that. However it doesn't mean you shouldn't try to hook up.
/r/seduction17/03/15 09:55 PM
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What the absolute fuck did you say to her? Were you just deeply enganged in the conversation and interested in her dicussion which made her admire you or what? Also, I envy you already.
/r/seduction15/03/15 12:58 PM
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Damn, but let me guess either he's you, married/in a committed relationship or worst, dead? Which of the three is right?
/r/seduction15/03/15 12:55 PM
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You won't get friendzoned if you ask for a date quick enough and keep the sexual tension alive and strong.
/r/seduction15/03/15 12:53 PM
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Talk to her as a friend. See her as nothing but a friend for a few minutes. Lowers anxiety and broadens the topics to talk about. Just don't be too weird. Start with the simple hi and introductions. Exchange basic info yada yada yada. Then go ask some questions, do this a few times during the lessons or when you see her, just make sure she's not studying or busy, and you'll naturally become friends. From there, getting a number and date should be much easier. Also ask if she needs help with her …
/r/seduction14/03/15 09:48 PM
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He sounds like a fucking legend. Would love to see him in act and learn.
/r/seduction14/03/15 09:41 PM
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Out of of the 5 times I talked to girls and asked for their numbers, I've failed 5 times. I regularly talk to one of the girls though, goes to the same school, so I'm most probably bound to get her number and hopefully a date with her. My mistake was I was too passive and still lack charm. Still a rookie though but feel free to criticise.
/r/seduction14/03/15 09:39 PM
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Playing hard to get. Lose her or just be really aggressive with her if you really want her. Be aggressive in person not on texts or calls, its useless.
/r/seduction14/03/15 09:35 PM
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Sorry still learning the ropes and to be honest I'm really weird...
/r/seduction13/03/15 08:25 PM
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That's rather harder than getting a one night stand or even a short term gf. It takes a shit load of time though. Just meet pretty girls with little intent of taking their pants down first and genuinely be friends. After some time through your friendships, if you admire one of them enough, date her. Just don't forget what you've learnt here and get friendzoned instead. Throughout the span of your friendships with these girls, flirt with them from time to time. Not intensely and very playfully, j…
/r/seduction13/03/15 06:01 PM
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Think it like this, imagine that every girl you talk to is somehow sexually attracted to you, will be more attracted to you when you approach her with confidence and it could either you can get laid tonight, get a girlfriend or simply make a friend. Its a mouthful but make these three things your goals and achievements. Always keep it in your mindset when approaching a girl.
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:54 PM
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So you want to get married with a good friend who has above average looks coupled with a personality and traits that you like?
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:49 PM
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Simple, invite a couple of the other co-workers preferably those who are men and considerably close to you. Say its like a "party", dinner or just a casual hangout with colleagues to get to know each other better. Before she arrives, tell the others to leave at a specific time. Then get her a couple of glasses more to lengthen her stay.
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:44 PM
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Sexual Healing - Martin Gaye. Enough said.
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:34 PM
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Yup, to be charming and charismatic is the other two reasons besides gaining confidence and a girlfriend why I joined seddit. Its an art form really.
/r/seduction12/03/15 12:58 PM
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Hahaha, that's fucking awesome man!
/r/seduction12/03/15 09:03 AM
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What type of beard is it? A stubble or thin beard which is kept trimmed and clean suits most men and is said to make one even more attractive. This being said women may have decreased eye contact due to this, you may look more attractive. Its a may btw. Whereas a thicker one is meant for a select few. A big, long beard can make a man look like a terrorist, may need to trim it if it is to that extent. Also fuck the women who thinks a beard makes you look bad.
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:40 AM
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Haha, nice to see someone of a similar background. high five
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:29 AM
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Tell her you want to meet up some time. A "Hey, its brabaden, I'd love to meet you at insert public area here. You will love it". This should suffice, if she's interested she'd comply with little or better no doubts. You may need some convinving first, to gain trust if she's unsure. Also adding the "You will love it." is a psychological play used to persuade and convince others, just to increase your chances. Good luck.
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:28 AM
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To be smooth or the actual and better term charming, is simply to say what you want, even if they disagree, but how they want to hear it. So yes you, are right, you say what you want. Just an advise, charm is extremely essential not only for social life, it can help you at work as well, especially if you are a trader, politician or any type of work which needs a lot of convincing.
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:20 AM
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September 2014 but only in theory, only started applying it later in December. Going to be 18 this year. Got pass all pussying out when approaching already, just working on conversations, flirting and charm. Never gotten a number or a relationship yet, but I don't think I have to wait that long if I continue improving. Definitely way better around girls and people in general than before but still a rookie.
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:13 AM
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Sorry but I'm sincerely unsure whether you're being sarcastic or its encouragement/complimenting. Eitherway thanks if its the second.
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:50 PM
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I say isolate the particular girl you enjoy talking the most, since both 8.5s, then proceed as usual. The 2 problems you'll face are actually isolating this girl from her friend and once you isolate this girl, you can't take the other. Or you can ask for both their numbers, hangout with the both of them a few times and again set a date up with the one you fancy the most. The reason why you must meet the both of them a couple of times first, is due to their friendship. Their friendship may pose a…
/r/seduction11/03/15 11:44 AM
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She's young, 16-17, a little awkward at times but not oblivious. Maybe she was trying make sure we'd talk more occasionally but wouldn't give her number until later. Insecurity, trust and shit, hopefully. Still being hopeful cause for once in my life I can actually say I'm infatuated with a girl, and I made a move instead of pussy-ing out like before. If she truly did avoid giving her number to me because of the reasons you gave, well there are tons of others girls, so I actually don't care. I'l…
/r/seduction11/03/15 07:21 AM
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Haha, no. She said she likes to this and that, I replied saying something on the lines of "I bet you're good". Nothing fancy, could have done much more though. I admit I've done a silly and simple mistake, but for finally taking an effort and not being a pussy, its way better than before. Edit: added more info and spelling.
/r/seduction11/03/15 07:11 AM
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Maybe. Maybe there is a chance.
/r/seduction10/03/15 08:41 AM
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I think your drunk friend who may have startled her. She might feel embarassed or ashamed for some stupid insecure reason to be in an relationship with you with others knowing. I don't think its you in this case...
/r/seduction10/03/15 07:09 AM
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I'm in a similar situation, met a cute girl a few times but only the last time there was a good and long conversation. What I'm going to do is ask her for her number first, then in a week or two ask her out of course I'd do some texting and calls in between to keep contact and not make it weird and to gain information as well before asking her out. You might want to do the same. So go to the store when you're free, say that you like talking to her and ask for the number. Seems simple enough in t…
/r/seduction09/03/15 08:31 PM
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Hmm. I see, well this is entirely up to you. Getting a number will only soldify the friendship you have, however it can also lead it into a relationship as well. Therefore, it doesn't entirely mean you are guaranteed a date, it simply means you now have a way of contacting her. I say get the number and decide whether you want to start dating again, but do it quickly. Remember this: number doesn't = date.
/r/seduction09/03/15 05:10 PM
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In a club, most girls there just want to get laid, drunk or have a good time with her friends. The chance of you finding a partner, long term or short term in a club and similar enviroments are rare. If you want a proper relationship, I suggest going to libraries, parks or just public places. As for the flaking, it maybe that you seem too intimidating or the exact opposite, timid via the texts. Revise the texts that you have sent and try to evaluate what you need to change or improve.
/r/seduction09/03/15 04:50 PM
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Make the fucking move already. I assume you already have her number, please say yes, if not that's the first thing you need. Then simply ask her out on a date. You can take your time but not longer than a few weeks or else the attraction that she may have for you dies and you remain as a friend forever. Its almost impossible for you to fuck up in this case unless she has zero sexual and emotional attraction towards you. I doubt it though as she allowed you to drive her home, therefore she feels …
/r/seduction09/03/15 04:44 PM
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You can start with reading some books on conversations and communication. It will improve not only cold approaches but your life as well in many aspects with anyone and everyone. Once you understood the core concepts, I suggest practicing it. I practiced on social apps or what ever you call it. What I did was start chats with random users, regardless of age and gender. It all came naturally when I applied it in real life, a few seconds of anxiety but then I felt relaxed and engaged in the conver…
/r/seduction09/03/15 03:23 PM
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Call her a day before the date/hangout. Give her a miss call, if she doesn't respond either she busy, hopefully, or really doesn't want to go out with you. If she was really busy or had something to do, she'll tell you either before the time of the hangout/date or slightly after. It hurts but happens to everyone, just be strong, find another girl.
/r/seduction09/03/15 03:17 PM
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Hmm, I see. Maybe its the culture, relationships or to be precise sexual activity between couples takes more time when compared to the West or its just her. If its due to culture, you can't do much but if its her you can be a little more aggressive; just not at this moment of course.
/r/seduction08/03/15 07:31 PM
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I think you need to be a little more aggressive when approaching, seducing and making relationship decisions. Also you a good looking motherfucker, atleast you have that already. Right now its just attitude, social skills and as all ways confidence ie what you need to improve or change.
/r/seduction08/03/15 05:45 PM
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Morally and ethically its wrong, but if it cheers her up fucking go for it, don't think it will though. Just kidding, its a dick move to take advantage of someone who is emotional distress at a moment. So be the gentleman and don't, also kick the asses of the douches who try to do this too. As for the comforting, I suggest start by talking to her, ask how you could help, then taking her out to some dinner, do things which she enjoys and so on, when she in a far better state, do what you have to …
/r/seduction08/03/15 05:39 PM
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Thanks. Simple and sounds effective. :D
/r/seduction06/03/15 09:52 PM
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Would you mind sharing some of those learning questions?
/r/seduction06/03/15 09:51 PM
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