normanite5 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Female Entitlement on OKCupid And from guys who aren't looking for what she is. Oh wait, that supports the girl in this story. I just don't think getting unwanted messages from people who aren't considering your role in the relationship is a good thing. I can understand why they'd resent it instead of feeling grateful for it.	/r/MensRights	13/06/13 02:25 AM
0	Female Entitlement on OKCupid I can't understand this. Why is it entitled to think your wants should be considered in a relationship?	/r/MensRights	13/06/13 02:24 AM
1	Female Entitlement on OKCupid The problem is how stupid this whole thing is. You should consider what someone wants from a relationship. A relationship that's healthy is based on critically thinking about what both people want. Saying she should be grateful for her needs being different than his is stupid - you only messaged her because you weren't thinking about what she wanted. How is this an okay thing to defend?	/r/MensRights	13/06/13 02:23 AM
0	Female Entitlement on OKCupid Okay, but if a girl wants something long term and is hit on by a guy looking for something short term, why is she at fault?	/r/MensRights	13/06/13 02:21 AM
0	Female Entitlement on OKCupid It's not just show me your tits A girl says she wants a long term relationship and is a bitch for not respecting guys asking for casual relationships. She's supposed to be grateful they didn't consider what she's looking for. Why?	/r/MensRights	13/06/13 02:21 AM
1	Female Entitlement on OKCupid But they're being told "I don't care about what you want, now be grateful about it" That's not entitlement, that's decency	/r/MensRights	13/06/13 02:20 AM
1	Female Entitlement on OKCupid The "entitlement" is that she has to put up with something she doesn't want and still gets attention. But the attention is only caused because there's so many guys who don't consider "what does she want from me?" I would probably do the same thing if I were gay and on a website for dating, just as I would resent people not caring about what I'm looking for. This isn't an issue about men's rights, it's an issue about being selfish to a degree I find icky. I don't want to stand behind anybody who …	/r/MensRights	13/06/13 02:16 AM
1	Female Entitlement on OKCupid Because that's a productive stereotype. Again, I'm a short guy (5'7'') and I haven't had any problems with online dating. I realize there are women with these unrealistic expectations. Saying that all women are like this is silly. The best looking guys who get lots of messages are looking for women who are considerably more than average, too.	/r/MensRights	12/06/13 11:27 PM
-2	Female Entitlement on OKCupid I don't complain about it not because I don't like it, just because I think the guys who do complain about it aren't being realistic. I understand where you're coming from because I do agree with a lot behind it, but I think guys too commonly paint an unrealistic example of what's going on. I don't think women have that much entitlement in the online dating world because, although they receive more attention, it's mostly the attention they don't want. A lot of guys are looking for anything and w…	/r/MensRights	12/06/13 08:25 PM
0	Female Entitlement on OKCupid The women who are on OKC aren't looking for random sex or dates with anybody. I can understand that a man looking for any kind of attention feels upset. But the entitlement is for something they don't want. You want any attention, they want specific attention. You can complain that they've got it easy because they're entitled to what you want, but that doesn't change the fact that isn't what they want. You're not a starving man. Getting a date isn't going to determine whether you live or die. Th…	/r/MensRights	12/06/13 07:43 PM
-2	Female Entitlement on OKCupid I'm not saying you have no right to feel resentful, or any other guy. Here's the problem though: "Oh no, I registered on a dating site and I'm getting a lot of offers for dates! Poor me!" A lot of guys just want any dates / attention back. They see this stuff and are resentful. I understand. But the women who are saying this aren't looking for "any date" or "any offer". A lot of women who get these offers the most get what they want way less. Pretending they are entitled for having a different s…	/r/MensRights	12/06/13 06:46 PM
0	Female Entitlement on OKCupid It's not that every guy asks to bed her instantly, but most guys that message girls aren't what they want. You can read on the OKC blogs about how the most women with this "entitlement" reply the least, and see how many women on OKC have the "rarely replies". It doesn't matter if a guy who is "looking for casual sex" sends a not awful message to a girl out of his league saying something "perfectly friendly" (as, again, this is a lot of the exchanges on OKC and other dating sites). These women ar…	/r/MensRights	12/06/13 06:31 PM
-4	Female Entitlement on OKCupid But it's stupid entitlement. The women who get a lot of messages don't respond and don't want them. They're most entitled to average/below average guys (check the OKC blogs), when average guys don't get a shit ton of requests from women. This doesn't mean that all men are being oppressed, it means the dating game is a very complicated system where (whether we like it or not) there are a lot of gender roles. I'm not trying to say we need to reinforcement those roles, or attack women who try to br…	/r/MensRights	12/06/13 06:13 PM
1	Female Entitlement on OKCupid I think so! I haven't really blocked people, tbh. I'm not saying that getting these messages is the most horrible thing that can happen to a woman, etc. Just that complaining about more women not messaging you isn't going to make them want to. It's not a fair system in terms of who messages who first, and I love girls who take initiative and message first. But not being messaged all the time as an average dude doesn't equal out to "I'm being oppressed!"	/r/MensRights	12/06/13 06:09 PM
5	Female Entitlement on OKCupid Women do get a lot of unwanted messages. Research it more. Just because a guy wants to hear someone say "I'd love to have sex with you" doesn't mean his rights are being violated by women not forcing sex upon him. Sending those messages repeatedly to people not asking for it is pretty shitty. You use it as an excuse for why men are oppressed, but the truth is, most women don't want the messages they get "hi lol" "ur really hot" etc Although I don't get as much attention as a girl on OKC, I'm sti…	/r/MensRights	12/06/13 04:53 PM