nosingaboutonreddit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Is caring about women seen as weakness (being a simp) or manipulation among men?	Discussion	nosingaboutonreddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 09:22 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to They're not exactly life goals that most women aspire to. They're goals you want women to have. Or goals forced on women in certain countries. So it's not the insult you think it is when you say women are never going to 'accomplish' the goals you appear to have written in stone, for all women to follow, to be deemed worthy of you. Most women I know have goals of a good career, travel, owning a house, having a dog or cat. You know, enjoy life and be independent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 09:26 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do No, I'm a woman and I disagree 🤷🏻 If I have an opinion I will say it. It's not scary to say "I prefer men like x,y,z".	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 01:00 PM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do You do know this trend was a joke? Also it was catchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 06:41 AM
17	Gender misconceptions That women are innately born with the knowledge of how to clean, iron, sew and cook. Oh, and we enjoy it and naturally all women in relationships are to blame for an untidy house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 04:17 PM
–	"more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single. I was happily single until 22, I wasn't desperate for a relationship - was just curious. This led to my current, happy, relationship with my partner, for 10 years now. If we broke up, I'd happily be single again. The reason the relationship with my partner works is that we both have our own independence and can look after ourselves. I'm not hindered by him as he cooks and manages his own stuff. We live together. We are best friends and enjoy each other's company. We're both introverts. If my par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 09:08 AM
–	If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laid A lot of men are gross: poor hygiene and bad breath etc. A lot of women take better care of themselves and their hygiene. Nothing worse than smelly people and observing poor hygiene (not washing hands after toileting etc.) Also, sex has more consequences for women and most birth control affects women's hormones and body. A random man can't usually be trusted to use a condom because they whine about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 02:45 PM
3	Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ? Personally I didn't see this as a 'man' subreddit. As it's talking about both genders. I like reading posts here as I find it interesting and oftentimes amusing because the ideals spouted don't align to my life or that of my family at all. I guess it's like reading the Bible when you're an atheist - some of the things it says are so ridiculous to you, and apparently you're going to hell for not following the rules. And the rules were written by a group of random men many, many years ago. When I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 08:27 AM
1	What Would Make A Couple Want to Divorce After 20+ Years? Actually, she is to have reportedly tried to break it up with him a few times and he begged for her back. They both seem decent people and I wish them both the best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 01:48 PM
3	For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both? Me (31F) He (37M) Together 9 years Sex every other day or 3/4 days a week The same frequency at the start of the relationship. 0 kids (we're both childfree) Mostly him but that's because he initiates first (when I plan to anyway) or I'm conscious he's getting up earlier for work and I don't like to initiate if I think he's tired. I think it's more frequent the happier we both are. Or the more we make each other laugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 01:02 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Is that globally? There's casual sex and rape that can cause pregnancy too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:38 PM
1	Non trad women, are you still expecting trad behavior from men? Ok I'll give you an example. Neither my partner or I want children or marriage. I'm a feminist. We have lived together 4 years, been together 9. I always pay half when I can. If I can't, I'll either pay next time or pay him back later. That's just because I don't like using people like that and I like to pay my own way as much as possible. My partner never puts pressure on me. He earns waaay more than me, this does mean he pays more for the house etc. I'm currently back at uni to improve my care…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 05:43 AM
2	Bullying women to lower their standards I think there's a difference when you ask who you find attractive (I can pick many different celebrities etc.) And who you would want to be with? A woman can definitely be attracted to someone they may not initially jump at. This is mostly due to his personality and then it can translate into physical attraction. I know I have found men attractive after getting to know them more. But this is the difficulty, what environments provide the chance to get to know someone who you may not swipe right o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 10:44 PM
17	Bullying women to lower their standards I think women can often actually enjoy being single and the freedom that comes with it. No extra chores or settling for someone you don't really like or have an interest in is bad in my opinion. In my view, there are a lot more interesting things to focus on than having a partner and worrying about being alone. Being alone can be truly exciting and freedom is so exhilarating. Most people end up alone in care homes. I'd rather have good memories than miserable ones and feeling trapped. This comes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 06:04 AM
2	"Does The Wall Exist?" Yes Lady, dating options change over time. I would think it's not necessarily age but having children. That definitely contributes to aging for a woman due to the impact it has on her body and hormones etc. It's crazy what it can do to a woman and the long term impact it can have in their health and wellbeing. Women need to be educated in this more tbh. The amount of women who are surprised and shocked about something that happened to them or changed in their body when have a kid, it's sad. One reason I'm not having any. Plus the child r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 06:16 AM
2	Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from? Women age better than men. Myself and all my sister's look 5-10 years younger than we are. Yet men my age mostly show all the aging signs. I'll find the study I read about this too. Women are beautiful for so much longer than most men. But that's just vanity and fortunately for men women like personality too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 04:22 PM