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But if the one texting is someone you're longing for and hope to get together with, you'd probably wouldn't forget. Forgetting to reply is showing that the sender is just not that important.
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:24 AM
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First you may or may not find someone who makes you equally happy. Every potential partner has something unique. Your new prospect may be prettier, better educated, classy. But she doesn't have that kind of humor that led to endless laughing and banter. Or she doesn't know how to touch you quite like your ex did. Second, please re-read on every person having their own baggage. It's true. You won't meet another human who doesn't have something to carry. And more important, as life gets in the way…
/r/seduction24/12/19 12:34 AM
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It's honest without being blunt. And take note, some of the lines you might actually use yourself someday.
/r/seduction21/11/19 03:31 PM
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At this point, she'd be probably surprised to learn that you have a romantic/seduction mindset. Sounds more like a "you've made a female acquaintance" scenario than a love interest tbh. Especially when she mentioned him repeatedly. Personally, I'd move on than stay in orbit. Your hope that she finds you more attractive and the better choice may never come.
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:14 PM
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"What's the leading cause of paedophilia in the world today? Sexy kids."
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:38 PM
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Yes. If you ever had a relationship with a girl with so many issues, you will come to regret that. She might have fallen for you and the butterflies are flying and everything. But if she's also riddled with 1000 insecurities that need constant reassurement, is incredibly jealous because she doesn't want to lose you and assumes the other woman in every absence, that shit gets old really fast. Don't let her showering you with attention cloud your better judgement. Some women you don't want a relat…
/r/seduction09/11/18 11:28 AM
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You can get away with a lot of things without people even blinking an eye. And even if they watch you get shot down horrendously, they will have forgotten minutes later. And unless you live in a small village, you won't see most people you see ever again.
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:13 AM
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It's certainly beneficial to work on some of the traits, for all men. Being more confident, having the courage to be outspoken and decisive helps,... not only with women. On the other hand, I feel that someone who is at the opposite side of the spectrum isn't well-advised to try to play the bad boy, nor that he should focus on developing in that direction.
/r/seduction20/08/18 07:39 AM
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What part of "wants to hookup with you" didn't you understand? Once she sends you a pic in bra and underwear, it's time to plan when and where you can help her get rid of that, not asking for nudes.
/r/seduction30/04/18 12:03 PM
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I always thought abundance mentality is about he availability of girls, not blogs.
/r/seduction24/06/17 10:11 AM
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"I thought 9" could have been a misunderstanding - still one hour wait - but why did you wait even longer? At 9.05 max I would have abandoned ship.
/r/seduction03/04/17 08:48 PM
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Bring enough money to the table and you will have a supply of hot women who are DTF. It's easier to have one customer than many.
/r/seduction16/03/17 06:53 PM
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If you're going for longer-term, it shows we're all humans. Perhaps she's almost obsessed about keeping everything tidy, or has an obnoxious family you can't stand to meet, or has fears and insecurities, or is unreasonably jealous, ... Everyone has their own baggage to carry, even "the One" you're infatuated with. (And on a related note, you probably have your downsides too.) You're not finding a fairy tale girl "and they lived happily ever-after", you're only picking your poison, so to speak. H…
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:22 AM
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That's a pretty good answer communicating so much without saying it. I like it.
/r/seduction21/01/17 12:57 PM
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You can't be rejected if you don't make the first move. On the other hand, you won't get anywhere if you don't. You may like it or not, it is just the way this thing works. Sorry. On the other hand, girls don't leave you completely oblivious whether they would like to be approached or not. Perhaps it would help you to be in a setting where you don't need to try "cold" approaches to total random strangers. Having a common interest like regular sports. Spending time together on a regular basis hel…
/r/seduction21/01/17 12:54 PM
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She has just established that she is in fact sexually attracted to you and wants to have sex with you, just "not tonight". It is as obvious "I'm a little wet already by the thought but I don't want to appear as that kind of girl" as it gets. Or, put more bluntly: I want you inside me so bad. Just give me a reason why I can.
/r/seduction27/10/16 05:32 PM
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A vegan doing Crossfit and using an iPhone.
/r/seduction07/10/16 06:52 PM
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Don't agree with 2. Directly asking is putting her on the spot to define and decide right now. She could be in all kinds of relationship scenarios. Ideally, she should sense where this is going and telegraph her availability (or lack of) to you.
/r/seduction07/10/16 10:02 AM
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This isn't accomplished in one day, but you want a "welcome to my world" attitude. Find out what you're passionate about, and live an interesting life. You're not inferior or less cool than the other dudes. You just have something different to offer what may be appealing to some and less so to others.
/r/seduction19/09/16 08:07 AM
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Keep it mind that she possibly never knew you saw her this way. Personally, I would turn up the playful banter and the ambiguity a notch or two and see if she reciprocates. The magic happens in the wiggle room, in that space where nothing is explicitly stated or defined but both feel that something is there.
/r/seduction19/09/16 07:53 AM
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Discovering that someone takes astrology serious enough to ask for my sign to find out if we're compatible would be a deal breaker for me.
/r/seduction19/09/16 07:43 AM
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Doesn't sound too promising tbh, but sometimes it is better getting a resolve than nurturing a faint hope. "Bust a move" hopefully doesn't employ an overwhelming urge to "confess feelings"?
/r/seduction19/09/16 07:38 AM
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It's only weird if you were watching her silently for the entire semester. Besides that, you only know what's in a bag if you look into it. Try to be open for anything you find. If you're not compatible for any reason, that's also a result.
/r/seduction22/04/16 10:02 AM
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Seems like her pussy pass is retroactively denied: "A. R., a fourth-year neurology resident employed by J. Health System, has been placed on administrative leave, effective immediately, and removed from all clinical duties. J. has launched an internal investigation. The outcome of the investigation will determine if any disciplinary action will be taken, up to and including termination." Five minutes of drunken rage and some years of education and a promising career are wrecked beyond recognitio…
/r/PussyPass22/01/16 10:57 AM
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The comment section of Youtube will fulfill every wish you might have.
/r/PussyPass21/01/16 02:02 PM
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Her full name... her work place... Facebook... LinkedIn... Instagram... Nudes on Imgur... doxxing all over the place... Hope you dreamed well, because your wake-up call today will be kinda rough.
/r/PussyPass21/01/16 12:12 PM
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Do you really want to sit beside your girl for 90+ minutes just to have something to talk about later on? Both movies and dinner dates aren't the best choices. If you ask for recommendations, I'd rather choose an activitiy you can experience together.
/r/seduction26/11/15 04:55 PM
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Finally someone who treats it as actual advice - which it is. More commonly, people prefer to wallow in self-pity. Life playing its cruel jokes on them and dealt them some bad cards. While not everything is fixable, there's a lot of room for improvement. Do and be your fucking best before you complain.
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:50 PM
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Your response is golden. That's the kind of playful banter going on when there's chemistry. Only problem is that you must be quick-witted in the situation. It doesn't help to have the perfect response two hours later.
/r/seduction29/11/14 06:48 AM
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Wow, that's a quite detailed list of observations. And solid too.
/r/seduction02/10/14 06:46 AM
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The article caters to the AFC approach "now that I paid for the whole evening I'm sooo anxious whether it happens or if have to go home unkissed". If seduction does just one thing for guys, it should be freeing them from that awkward "I'm a provider, her me roar" dance.
/r/seduction16/08/14 07:47 AM
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Can take the form of light play-fighting with words, teasing back and forth, or pretended roleplay, double meanings, a "what-if" lingering in the air, playing with possibilities without being too blunt about it...it isn't something you would (or could) define exactly.
/r/seduction03/08/14 10:18 PM
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Basically I see two nearby approaches: Telling her that it is now her turn to come up with a suggestion. I'd tell her that I'm thrilled what she will come up with and we're going to have a blast. (Build anticipation and a positive mood.) Since she's feeling guilty and in the need to "make it up to you", it's tempting to capitalize on this and try to get something she wouldn't normally give at this point. "A blowjob will suffice" might be too blunt. ;) However, that's not my style.
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:54 PM
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Here I am, looking at 1027 matches, and still have no clue what "this is how" actually means.
/r/seduction04/05/14 08:31 PM
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"You don't need to stand on a pedestal to be on eye level. I would never look down to you."
/r/seduction26/03/14 07:31 AM
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Totally agree. Been there. Of course, there are so many plausible explanations why she didn't find the opportunity to call back/write a short SMS/reply mail in several hours. While the real reason is so simple: Anything else in her life is more important than you.
/r/seduction11/02/14 08:22 AM
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Feels too self-manipulative for my taste. I'd rather go with "I'm open for whatever this experience may have to offer. Let's see what she's like."
/r/seduction10/02/14 01:47 PM
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In addition to the other valuable comments in here, those two "middle aged" guys had just 10+ years more experience than you. They knew what they wanted (her), while you failed to make this any more than a "lets grab some beers and have a nice talk" date. I doubt your acquaintance would have ranged them as "old" or "creepy" based on their age. She leaves for solid 20 minutes with the guy and mentions how you really should go home afterwards? Ouch. Let me put it this way: That's good because you …
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:31 AM
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For me, it's basically "would" or "wouldn't".
/r/seduction17/01/14 10:09 AM
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Perhaps you misread her intentions and you were just a new acquaintance to her. Or you blew it somehow and she suddenly lost attraction. Or she got self-conscious and decided against cheating.
/r/seduction08/11/13 06:07 PM
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On the other hand, never forget that she can make you unhappy. Don't settle for a relationship just because you can have it. Being with the wrong woman can open you to a world of drama and emotional drain that makes you miserable and costs you way more than you will ever receive. Yes, sex included. It simply isn't worth it.
/r/seduction26/10/13 09:48 PM
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Perhaps it's just me, but why do so many writers feel the need to illustrate their articles with Mr Handsome Guy and some beauty shots? It's off-putting because I automatically think "if I'd look that good, game would change to easy mode".
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:13 AM
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No, you can't. You can make awesome changes to your life and get farther than most people - and even yourself - ever expected. But don't program yourself to "anything". That's being delusional. Work with your limitations instead of denying them.
/r/seduction11/10/13 03:05 PM
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Being tremendously handsome and well-groomed, fit, with a sense of style in clothing, surely helps. It'd be safe to assume that the most of us can't pull this off. There are always plenty of guys who simple vanish in the crowd and are never noticed. Let's not make them delusional that by "working on their inner game", with some months practice, they get the man of mysteries women want to crack. It is not going to happen.
/r/seduction18/06/13 06:58 AM
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As I understand it, "let's just be friends" is a desperate attempt to stop unwanted romantic advances without being too blunt. No, it isn't "you're soo cool, I totally want to be best friends with you". It's "even if we were the last two people on earth, I don't see anything happen between us". You don't need to care about them, they are pretty good at caring for themselves. Let them.
/r/seduction31/05/13 06:28 PM
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Don't know if /r/seduction is the right target audience, but there are so many people on Reddit that could profit from reading this article. The illustrations alone are as hilarious as true.
/r/seduction31/05/13 06:21 PM
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Article has too much atmosphere and to little actual wisdom from psychopaths. Almost nothing more than some generic traits to work with.
/r/seduction08/01/13 07:14 AM
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I don't know what qualifies as much in your book, but it is from first-hand experience with women.
/r/seduction03/01/13 05:15 AM
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Sounds reasonable. Chances are that she isn't 100% comfortable with the developments that have led to the break-up, questioning her own role. Women have a tendency to be less confident and secure in their own decisions. If she's still attracted, she might end up contacting you again. Chasing her is the best way to kill that attraction fast.
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:30 PM
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I have this as an ongoing project. Don't ask "what could I use someday?" but "what will probable never hurt me if I throw it away right now?" I try to make an ad-hoc decision with everything I lay my hands on. Because if I put it somewhere else, it will show up again.
/r/seduction06/12/12 08:38 PM
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That's all fine and dandy, but most women also ignore the fuck out of me. There must be more to it. Does the ugly 1 Be attractive 2 Don't be unattractive rear its head?
/r/seduction27/11/12 04:43 PM
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Was reluctant to click on the link because of the boring title, but I'm glad I did. Expected a simple rehash of nice guy syndrome and the same old phrases, but this passage is actually insightful. Never seen it that way, but when I recall my own past life experiences - yes, there is much truth to that.
/r/seduction02/11/12 09:49 PM
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That site is seriously impressive. Thank you for stealing some hours of my life time. ;) (I found the October Man and came to the same conclusion.)
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:50 PM
2

Challenge accepted. That's going to be hard. Even thinking about it I notice that porn is my cigarette - it belongs to my daily ritual and I open certain sites almost on autopilot.
/r/seduction04/10/12 04:45 PM
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Of course they have, my point was that less attractive girls aren't necessarily beginner's level or an easy target for practice.
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:32 PM
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The less attractive girls come with a different kind of baggage. Be ready to deal with a lot of self-consciousness issues. Some are not able to take a genuine compliment because they feel it doesn't apply to them.
/r/seduction04/10/12 06:53 AM
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Agree. Why did you say you're sorry? That you disturbed her listening to music? There's nothing to be sorry about. Don't seek approval where no approval will be found. She told you, without words, but quite clear, that she doesn't want to have contact to you. If I were you -- throw away that number, you won't need it anymore.
/r/seduction27/08/12 11:58 AM
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Third last point is way underrated. There's a whole person attached to that pussy, with her own emotions and personality. If she opens up enough to let you in her, it's probably not only about sex. She let's you into her life, and you might get more than you asked for.
/r/seduction20/08/12 06:31 AM
0

I'd agree that it plays an important role to believe yourself to be attractive to be perceived as attractive. But you are going overboard with that 500 pound, acne-ridden, unwashed guy. I feel that it encourages guys to not working at themselves at all and focus on you just have gotta belieeeve. And that would be plain wrong. Do both. Start believing you're attractive, but also start to be the best you possibly can. Life may have dealt you some bad cards, but there are a lot of points very easy …
/r/seduction20/08/12 04:14 AM
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Couldn't agree more. If you're already in a relationship, texting may be absolutely fine. But I would avoid it like the plague in a seduction scenario. It is easy as pie to send some text to a girl. But it is as easy for her to find excuses, see it as an option, or simply ignore it. If she isn't already really into you, I doubt texting her is the best choice. It doesn't make much of an impression. If possible, talk to her in real life, or at least call her. Also completelely avoids to put you in…
/r/seduction10/04/12 06:56 AM
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My success with hotter women is pretty limited, but I wouldn't knock it before I've tried it. Not-so-hot women are sometimes far from easy. Except you enjoy wading through a swamp of self-esteem issues.
/r/seduction09/03/12 07:06 AM
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I fail to get what's the big deal about that Rebecca Watson "incident". Inviting her for a late-night coffee may have sex in mind, but it isn't obvious enough to justify a complaint about being "sexualized". What's happened to a simple, good old-fashioned "no"? Why the need to make a big deal about it?
/r/seduction11/02/12 09:29 AM
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If she's too hot for you to last for a long time, I'd consider fapping beforehand. The second round is easier to control.
/r/seduction11/02/12 09:19 AM
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Get my hands on her ass, start making out heavily, proposing to change venue to a private place?
/r/seduction18/11/11 08:33 PM
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Because agreeing with her won't get you any? The unwritten subtext is "It is so obvious you want to fuck me. You're nearly drooling. And mildly amusing because you need it more than me."
/r/seduction15/11/11 09:10 AM
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Seems like I blew it then. Got the attention but made nothing of it. "He looks at me, I'm looking back...now what...now what...now what...oh, forget it."
/r/seduction27/10/11 04:03 AM
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I take your advice and heed your warning. :)
/r/seduction26/10/11 07:41 PM
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Thanks for this, I see myself experimenting with a more active role in the next time. Perhaps I will get some rolled eyes on the way, but that's good for learning to not give a fuck. ;)
/r/seduction26/10/11 07:38 PM
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Seems we have read the same theories. Some time ago, I read a text about eye contact that exactly made those suggestions - hold eye contact, don't look away, there's nothing you do first. Perhaps I'm bad at playing the man of mysteries, but it doesn't work for me that well. OTOH, perhaps I should stop overinterpreting human contacts. You're right, it doesn't have to mean much.
/r/seduction26/10/11 07:35 PM
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The awkward moment when you just had a heart-2-heart talk with an attractive woman, thought it would get you closer to her, and then realized that you just fucked up, big time.
/r/seduction19/10/11 03:41 PM
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Is it really better to remain in "perhaps" territory? While a "no" may hurt a lot, at least you know that you can move on and don't nurture secret dreams forever.
/r/seduction13/10/11 08:48 AM
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Besides from their primary use as a protection from bright sunlight, sunglasses appear to me as "mp3player/headphone for the eyes": A means to block out a path of communication. If I have to talk to someone and get no visual feedback by having eye contact, it is annoying to me.
/r/seduction07/09/11 04:09 AM
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If I had more than one upvote to give, I'd give them for this entry. Nobody should go out of their way for the hope to get just a little bit of attention. Been there, done that. If you allow to be treated as shit, you are feeling as shit. Don't allow your positive energy and feelings go down the drain and your thoughts revolve around the single question - how to please that special person.
/r/seduction26/07/11 01:18 PM
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Fitness has gone mainstream. Look at all the fitness studios everywhere! Look at the magazines, internet pages - everybody and his dog has got something to share about fitness. Obviously we will not longer be able to stand out. Soon the streets will be crowded with lean, muscular guys showing off the ripped abs. Wait. Why doesn't this happen? Same for seduction. That said, I see a potential danger of being ridiculed if one serves the "PUA stereotypes" ("who is lying more, men or women?") or is b…
/r/seduction22/07/11 11:20 PM
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Inevitably, some guys come to my mind that were really all touchy-feely with everybody, men or women. No, I don't think so. If you seriously overdo it, it can be seriously awkward.
/r/seduction22/07/11 10:06 AM
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Stop bothering yourself why she didn't answer yet if it would take her only that 30 seconds to do so. It clearly is more important to you texting her than it is for her answering you. She's got her own life and it isn't revolving around you. You start to sound clingy. Don't need to "move on", but step it down a little. If the fire has gone out it is your job to rekindle it, but you can only do so if you manage to get her attracted again.
/r/seduction21/07/11 07:23 AM
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My first thought. "If you don't see your post immediately on the front page, don't hesitate to pester the mods about it."
/r/seduction20/07/11 09:07 PM
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That's a problem a lot of guys would just love to have. Sex and dates with "no strings attached". Apparently some girls roll that way. If you trying to make it a relationship and be more exclusive with each other, you will possibly lose what you have with her. Unsure whether this would be a bad thing, because obviously you are secretly wishing for someone to be more consistent with...
/r/seduction20/07/11 04:14 PM
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In case you didn't get it, I just wanted to say thanks to the community, because I've learned something of value today.
/r/seduction19/07/11 01:02 PM
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