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FOREVER GF TALESnostradamusapologist/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:19 PM
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idk. I have this book 1700: Scenes from London Life that talks about the popularity of sex manuals in the 18th century, including the clit and its function.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:37 AM
3

Ukrainian men are prevented from leaving due to their draft, I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:07 AM
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the idea that a female guest would be like oh, perfect, a mystery dildo since i forgot mine at home! the reality is that this guy is expecting to use that hepatitis vehicle some unprepared woman. god help her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:22 PM
15

I think she means make up sex. Though Lundy Bancroft specifically said it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:41 PM
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Not to mention, you're a drunk. Talk about insult to injury.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:52 AM
8

Well, it isn't a crime to have the female romantic interest not dress feminine. And i don't think that leveling up in fds parlance = performing femininity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:52 PM
38

Literally sister-wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:33 AM
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I'm not sure there's a direct translation there about who should approach who for wlw but if I waited around for someone to approach me I would be waiting a long time lol. I think of it like this: a high-value person has intentions and actions that line up, so if you're interested in someone, ask them out. If they reject you, don't ask again. But then I'm usually the one asking so maybe someone who usually is asked can chime in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:10 PM
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Like he's heard "women's" "pockets" in the same sentence multiple times but never paid attention to the rest of the sentence lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:55 AM
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Literally!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:38 PM
11

Never really understood that show. They don't win money or anything? They just stay in a McMansion together and argue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:30 PM
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The first woman has written about her experience extensively on just no SO. I think it's one of the top posts there. If you're interested in the process of reporting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:58 PM
18

Holy fucking shit. Talk about poe's law
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:56 AM
77

Dying to know what he was writing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 06:43 PM
10

That's awful. I'm angry for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:55 PM
2

Someone grabbed his head and broke his teeth? Were his teeth made of sugar? I cannot imagine this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:11 PM
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Useful! Wish I had some daughters to show this to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 01:23 PM
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I never had back or neck pain either, but I had one because my breasts were very long and pulled on the front of my chest, especially when I had my period. And I had to wear a bra because I couldn't stand the underside of my boobs pressed against my stomach, but bras didn't fit me either because my boobs were fundamentally not bra-shaped. I went out and bought pricey bras that seemed to fit correctly, or as good as possible, multiple times but within a week they wouldn't fit bc i swear my boobs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:29 PM
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Congrats on your breast reduction! Since mine I cut bras out of my life and I've never been happier (boob wise)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:21 PM
12

Not to mention ... do pilots "do pilot things" before becoming pilots? No, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:23 PM
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I noticed that too. At the risk of being a cultural relativist (oh, their misogyny is fine because they simply don't know better!) I thought it sounded like english wasn't the first language here and so it's possible these lovebirds are coming from somewhere people couple up early and living with extended family is more common. To me this guy's biggest issues are "do wife things for me first, then become wife" and "by the way our goals are totally incompatible and all I've said so far is how I t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:21 PM
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Seriously. When I read r / niceguys it's post after post of some young girl engaging with human garbage, justifying herself. Like, why are you even talking? Even if you weren't quite "there yet" enough to full on block ... you still don't have to reapond. Doesn't make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:40 PM
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For real. The existence of the term demisexual is troubling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:50 PM
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To be honest I was a little skeptical about taking a vaccine fast-tracked by the most nakedly corrupt (american) administration, and also I thought vaccines took like ten years to properly test? But then I read about it and realized there were perfectly legit answers to my concerns, freely available, so I got vaxxed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:50 AM
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I'm a lesbian, but sometimes I feel like it's very easy to become divorced from straight women's problems and concerns if you're a lesbian without many men in your life. (Unfortunately I still have a few.) I read this sub because it's important to me to have class conciousness as a woman, with other women, and that includes being aware of the ways women are damaged by men that arent immediately apparent to me. Technically you can get that in r sex and r breakingmom and two x chromosomes but I ap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:45 PM
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I used to read r/mgtow for fun and one thing I noticed is that their views were extremely racialized. White men felt that women preferred "hyper-masculine, brutish" men of color (European MGTOWs mean refugees, Americans mean black men) and men of color felt that women preferred white men. Like in theory your ideologies don't mix, but they both agree that women are the problem, so they didn't bother interrogating each other. Honestly that much class solidarity is refreshing. I want that for women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:05 PM
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I'd love a thread on FDS members' moments of clarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:59 PM
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Echoing CaliforniaKed, you should do a post on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:36 PM
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Men and their fixation with being punched in the face. Might as well bring up the draft or giving lifeboats to women and children in terms of sheer hypothetical audacity. Do they really think we think they get into honest to god fistfights with their bros over politics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:15 PM
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🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:12 PM
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Absolutely. The other famous female serial killer, Elizabeth Bathory, didn't do that shit either. So 0 for 2, you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:30 AM
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Well, of course appendicitis is an illness where reproduction is your purpose as a woman, meaning it's by definition natural and easy. And to imply that pregnancy and birth are dangerous and complicated might also imply that a woman's purpose isn't to reproduce. Can't have that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:52 PM
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Definitely! I had a breast reduction this year, which is a relatively easy surgery and recovery time. This was my first ever surgery and it really impressed upon me that it is a very serious undertaking, not to be taken lightly, and I see evidence all the time that people don't seem to think of it that way ... like in our "modern" society a surgery is no big deal and that medical science is at its peak. Literally no. Girl had a C SECTION. Thats major abdominal surgery! You'd put her on the BUS??…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:34 AM
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lmao at "literally trained"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:03 PM
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Botox ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:09 AM
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At one point one of the top posts on r/ m g t o w was a similar "i love my life now that I don't have a wife!" and a photo of their new place. And it was a ground floor studio, I assume, because the bed was in the same room as the front door. Three things in this room: a bed with trash on it, a big-screen tv and a motorcycle he'd wheeled into the room. No lamps, so you can assume this guy spends a lot of time in the dark except for the glow of the tv. Could not be more obviously the living situa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:13 PM
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Aw that's nice :) high value behavior demonstrated in the home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:47 PM
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This is a good post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:28 PM
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"Conviction to do no harm." This guy thinks of abstaining from molesting his daughter's friends in superhero terms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:08 PM
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Wait WHAT post??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:16 PM
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So true about laughing. Not long ago a man driving recklessly ended up next to me at a red light and starting yelling at me about my bumper stickers (bernie sticker, etc). My wife and I were both in the car, laughing, and after not getting the reaction he wanted he rolled up his window and ignored US (still laughing) until the light changed and he sped off. Also take this as an indicator that scrotes only ever do exactly what they want to do at the moment they want to do it. Even if he wasn't ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:16 PM
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Um ... okay. Forget I said anything, homophobe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:34 PM
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Absolutely true. The risk that your casual sex partner will go nuts, be substantially stronger than you or give you some lasting medical issue is way lower hooking up with women. Like get some feminist conciousness ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:10 PM
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Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On is a netflix docu-series developed after Rashida Jones's Hot Girls Wanted movie. One of the episodes has a behind the scenes of a typical "professional" porn shoot and the fingers-in-mouth stuff comes up a lot. Fair warning though, the series is more ~sex-positive, "sex workers doing jobs they love," feminist porn, etc (obviously bc its netflix 🙄) but the content is so depressing that the anti-porn perspective comes out anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:01 PM
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To be fair, most pick mes are het and lesbians aren't more likely to be pick mes or automatically worse, I just happen to know several that are especially bad. The whole queer community is rife with libfems and low value behavior (nonexistent boundaries, no core self, peter pan syndrome and quite frankly rampant mental illness). That, plus an artificial scarcity mindet, will lead people to accept egregious behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:54 AM
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Some of the worst pick-mes i know are lesbians. You gotta take their advice with several grains of salt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:10 AM
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In my observation, friends in abusive relationships constantly need to talk about it with you because their relationship generates more stress than it relieves and that stress needs to go somewhere, so they give it to you. But then it's like you're part of the fucked up machine that is their relationship ... and why? Like, for what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:16 AM
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Good luck girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:05 PM
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Um ... a mid-sized city in the United States lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:07 PM
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I don't live in those places, so sincere question here: easily accessible at all hours? Because I don't see this character studiously mapping out a bus or subway route
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:19 PM
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Poly but doesnt drive? The girlfriend takes him to his dick appointments?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:02 PM
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Or the Lorena documentary on Amazon Prime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:59 PM
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not even a "BUT at the same time" homie took me on a journey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:53 PM
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Or a small chuckle and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:31 PM
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Wasn't he a chef? Don't chefs work crazy long hours? Seems like they would have been equally matched that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:09 PM
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My assumption is he wouldn't even come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:32 PM
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Biggest danger to kids is mom's boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:57 PM
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Even lambs that don't get eaten grow up exclusively to meet other people's needs. Can't imagine there's too many self-directed sheep out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:52 PM
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Same! My wife has celiacs. For a second date together (not fds standards but worked for us) I bought some gluten free brownie mix at the store for us to make together. I still don't think that's an amazing or thoughtful gesture really, bc you told me you have an allergy so if im going to get food I have to get the specific food you can eat, right? But my wife and my straight roommate were totally blown away by this move to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:17 AM
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I did think it was interesting that he said "women" and "gay or bi men." Like being sexually available to men is simply part of that sex class no matter how you feel about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:29 PM
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Not unheard of for them to wear it for fetish purposes either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:20 PM
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Saying that all rapists are black and all victims are white isnt racist now apparently. Thanks oxfam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:33 PM
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Me reading this post: :) Me thinking of Andrea Dworkin's piece in Right Wing Women where she talks about concern for pregnancy being the only minor reason a man might ever consider as a possible reason to decline sex and that leftist men consider abortion rights to mean they should be able to have consequence-free sex with women at large even though women most definitely experience consequences regardless of if abortion is accessible or not: :/ Me remembering that men will interpret anything to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:47 PM
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Honestly it's not any worse than what you deal with daily as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:14 AM
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SOAP as LUBE??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:02 PM
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Not to mention that plastic surgery is not a do-over, it's an additional procedure that requires recovery and may have complications. I had a breast reduction and I'm happy with it, but every day I'm aware that it was A Surgery. So if you don't want kids (but your boyfriend "might?" Better firm up that answer buddy) you're better off ... not giving birth to children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:14 PM
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That was my read too L M A O
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:04 PM
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Well, personally my wife and I had a conversation about getting married and we bought each other rings off etsy (mine was a gold band with scroll detail that cost about $500-$600, which felt a little expensive for me but it was the only one I liked). But my wife is a high-value woman amd we couldn't afford any nicer at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:19 PM
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More like, we just source our articles from random independent contractors so we don't have to pay them much. Everyone thinks they're a fucking writer now but nobody has anything to say. Drives me fucking crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:29 AM
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Three months of dating and he's "bonded" with your nine-gear-old daughter? That's like a semester. Fuck outta here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:26 AM
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What I don't understand (being a lez) is how they can't tell. Even if you did some kegals there's a distinct texture and pressure change that can't be faked. Their penis doesn't have that kind of sensation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:11 AM
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For some reason the biggest battle among my peers appears to be other people viewing you the way you view yourself. Obviously thats a losing battle so why people have committed to such an unwinnable fight is beyond me. I want it to blow over soon but it probably won't :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:38 PM
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Red pill types can also get fixated on the idea of men raising other men's children. They think that like 75% of kids or some other crazy high amount of children are fathered but someone other than the man listed. So keep an eye on any fixations about having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:32 PM
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Oh yeah, regular misogyny has fallen way out of vogue. No surprise there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:45 AM
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How anyone can be expected to have sex the night of their wedding is beyond me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:27 PM
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Funny that two of them used the word "frumpy." I never feel sexier than when I'm wearing comfortable clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:19 PM
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Lol, solving a love triange with a CHILD BRIDE. I think this is when people realized that twilight was "mormon," not merely "conservative."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:21 PM
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What really kills me is when people say that criticizing hypersexuality in music is slut-shaming or not allowing a woman to express her sexuality. Sorry, you think Beyonce working in a recording studio or practicing choreography is a sexual act for her? You think she's getting off performing the same routine every night on a tour? Fuck outta here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:28 PM
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"Millennial men have the least traditional notions about gender roles of any generation or time period, according to the most recent installment of a continuing study from the Families and Work Institute. Only 35 percent of employed millennial men without children said they thought men should be breadwinners and women should be caregivers." Is it just me or ... 35% isn't really that low?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:32 PM
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I always think this. It's not like playing the piano. You need the QUALITIES, not independent skills, of being a good listener who likes their partner. Of course that assumes that you keep having sex with the same person instead of hopping around, which men seem to expect they should be able to do. They like evolutionary biology so much you'd think they would have noticed that good sex is a way to bond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:24 PM
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It's so funny that people say this group is homophobic by virtue of discussing heterosexual dating. Like ... that's the topic. And I personally have never seen anything homophobic here so ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:28 AM
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There are plenty of women who haven't thought very deeply about the role patriarchy and heterosexuality plays in their goals, expectations, sense of self, etc. I know some people might take offense to this but I've always been a little skeptical of women who sit perfectly still and wait for you to do the work of courting them--that's a fine strategy to take with men, but I'm not a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:44 PM
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Agreed. Also: you don't have to have children to continue a "line" or any horseshit like that (though I think that's more of a male perspective anyway). Your female ancestors would be way more blown away by your ability to decline having children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:33 PM
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FETISH EDUCATOR!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:39 PM
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You don't have to walk in dick swinging. In most of those spaces, that would be a little off. You just have to be friendly. And people want new people to show up, so odds are good that they'll be friendly to you, including approaching you if you're new. It's scary to consider but honestly Not a big deal at all. Best of luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:45 PM
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I've had good results with this as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:35 PM
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Oh, it's the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:30 PM
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Honestly? Facebook groups to figure out what events people attend. You might have to set it to the nearest midsize city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:29 PM
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A pencil?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:13 PM
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Additionally very strange that women can be described as girls through their thirties ... but actual girls are women ... 🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:09 AM
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How horrible for this woman. My god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:43 PM
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I haven't shaved in like 6 years and I never even notice my own body hair or whether people have a reaction to me, regardless of what I wear. You will get there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:31 PM
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He was planning on taking the oregon trail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:45 AM
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The radium girls live rent free in my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:01 PM
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And walking the dog!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:08 AM
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He said "dress shirts," which is worse imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:52 PM
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Pour one out for this homie right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:28 PM
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We should all be so lucky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:01 PM
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I LOVE when men try to act like their bullshit observations have scientific backing. Fuckin philosopher king over here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:28 PM
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"Your marriage is still monogamous… if you define cheating narrowly. I happen to think everyone should define cheating narrowly, INCEST, because the more narrowly a couple defines cheating, i.e. the fewer things that “count” as cheating, the likelier that couple is to remain successfully monogamous as the decades grind on. Conversely, the more things a couple defines as cheating, INCEST, the less likely it becomes that their marriage." Hmm. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:20 PM
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"Still, to an extent, is" "female cohort" "snowflake." Male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:06 PM
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Every time someone mentions Armie Hammer, I'm like, who?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:15 AM
7

Aw, he misses his cat he never photographed 💔 better fire up the ol' porn of your ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:22 PM
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So many posts where men say that girls didn't like them when they were younger, so they had to "work on themselves" and "go to the gym" and "become somebody that women would be interested in." And once they did that, they started dating one woman exclusively and didn't casually date or have friends with benefits. for some reason men think this is unusual and disappointing and not a completely ordinary and even common method of coming of age. I'm like ... why do men think it's so crazy to have fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:00 AM
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Yes! The 2019 Jordan Peele Twilight Zone reboot (season 2, episode 9) talked about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:54 AM
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"Your whole world is your mind" is such an accurate turn of phrase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:15 AM
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Thank you for this! I am a lesbian and married to my wife (who is a high value woman and I'm extremely lucky) and I find FDS principles excellent and would be very applicable to lesbian dating if I was in that stage. Actually I find this sub extremely refreshing because male-female dynamics are the core of the discussion--often straight women talking to lesbians feel the need to overcompensate lest they be, idk compromised or something--so the candidness here is great. Women are a class and we n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:57 PM
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What's this woman spending money on, anyway? outfits? makeup? no way this guy has "car" money and anything less is a bullshit trifle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:26 PM
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the young woman has all the power in the relationship, you see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:24 PM
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high value comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:18 PM
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Unrelated and sorry for hijacking this post but does anyone here have that tiktok where the guy in the green shirt and khaki pants is yelling at about how adults date? I was trying to prove a point earlier and I couldn't find it anywhere .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:11 AM
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I frankly find it disturbing when adult women refer to romantic partners as boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:37 PM
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Love the first image, top right, with the implication that a woman who wants to vote is like ... vain or privileged as if suffragettes weren't getting their asses beaten in prison. Same old song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:04 PM
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Curious about christianity????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:36 PM
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interestingly i like to like having sex. Like i like it when things are good instead of bad. Is that weird?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:53 AM
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Not a relevant or timely take at all but I recently rewatched 500 Days of Summer. The whole movie, Zooey Deschanel's appeal for Joseph Gordon Levitt's was to be a sounding board for his ideas. He becomes infatuated with her because she says she likes his music (the smiths LOL) and listens to him talk about his passions at length. When she talks about herself, his inner monologue drowns out her voice so the audience doesn't hear anything she says and it clearly doesn't impact the plot. Even when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:28 PM
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High value post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:16 PM
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High value post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:06 PM
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First time I've seen this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:26 PM
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Don't buy sex toys from amazon, their quality control is shit. I've gotten my best ones from wetforher which is geared towards lesbians (obviously) but they have good products and nothing is vulgar in the way they sometimes are on other sites. Idk if they have that exact product but they def have something similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:07 AM
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In what context? She was someone you knew or a stranger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:03 AM
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When i stumble on random "sex worker (not a phrase I'm crazy about) blogs they always seem to ve doing or trying to do findom. Which makes perfect sense to me. Its the same amount and type of work as camming but the specific fetish object if you being sent money? Obviously everyone is going to try for that if possible. but i dont get the impression that theres a huge market for it and that a lot of women are vying for few roles, realistically. First I've ever heard that the fetish community thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:30 PM
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lmao, does this guy think all baby boomers were raised to be well-mannered adults??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:11 AM
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How depressing. I love talking to my wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:52 AM
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This has happened to me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:10 PM
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I used to read MGTOW forums from time to time. I'll never forget some guy writing a long screed about how things "used to be" (goes without saying that they aint exactly historians either) and lovingly described this scenario where men stayed with their wives for easy sex and women stayed with their husbands because they knew that their husbands could legally beat them to death, even though "99% would never do that." Like hmm ... how'd they know then, friend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:09 PM
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"Life coach." Ok, sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:22 PM
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Couple of things going on in this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:12 PM
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ugh THANK YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 02:06 PM
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I love when older women wear dark lipstick. I always get the impression that it's something you're supposed to grow out of but I love the look and always have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:56 PM
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If you get a silicone dildo, make sure you get water-based lubricant. Using silicone lubricant with silicone tools (the word "toy" annoys me) will degrade them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:36 PM
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I agree tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:35 PM
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I love when men do their Big Mad performance. Women simply cannot know what it's like to experience Male Rage because of our smaller brayns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:05 AM
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I am ... unpleasantly surprised by what constitutes "frumpy" on tiktok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:42 PM
21

All the ads i get for tiktok are like, wanna see a video of a guy skateboarding? What about snowboarding? What about playing beer pong? why even bother collecting my data if you arent gonna use it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:20 PM
12

Plus onlyfans takes a cut. If he was really helping out he'd give her cash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:17 PM
8

I can't get the powder to work :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:52 PM
19

I am a little curious though. The handle? The mopping part? What's the benefit of the mop over just holding it? What are the mechanics??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:08 AM
16

And the chair force 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:02 AM
1

Is that what happened to her? The article I read (on Friday) spent a lot of time on a confirmed heart attack death and then described the other two as medical emergencies ... not sure I would describe being crushed by a mob that way but yes, more information definitely will bear out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:03 PM
13

This is very scary. Someone like this could do a lot of damage to a woman. Though, not to downplay the danger this man poses, you could be a danger to him too. Three of the four rioter deaths at thr capitol were "medical emergencies," i.e., heart attacks from too much excitement, and I think those three were all actively writing crazy shit on social media about how they were going to take back democracy or whatever. When I read this I think about how I need to get a gun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:05 PM
17

Whenever men imply that "women" hold jobs that only a small subsection of beautiful young women can hold, I'm like, ah, so those are the only women you notice. And women who don't qualify, you don't even register their presence at all. Crazy. (fwiw I am one of these women who men treat with distant politeness/disinterest and otherwise don't acknowledge and can I say, it's wonderful.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:58 PM
6

$200 is always the amount in these jokes. My wife and I get dinner at Carabbas for top shelf night out (I know, I know) and it's like $50 for both of our meals, MAYBE $75 tops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:51 PM
31

Why do people want clout so bad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:49 PM
88

Ugh, girlfriends. Always washing their faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:47 PM
43

I think this all the time! It's strange to me that libby, left or leftish people often respond to anti-vaxxers with a "you need to trust your doctor completely, stupid bitch" when there's a very well-documented history of doctors minimizing and/or outright harming women, especially women of color. Not saying I am an anti-vaxxer but it seems like blatantly missing the forest for the trees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:44 PM
2

lol ok. Thank you for your service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:55 PM
6

Of a few months old baby, no less. Where'd he find the time? Oh, right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:56 PM
8

Yeah, I was gonna say. I understand the point being made here but at the same time there are definitely 3XL FDSers so perhaps consider that in the framing of this story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:51 PM
25

I don't think "financial abortion" is a widespread term, most people just call that being a deadbeat dad. Financial abortion is specifically a red pill / MGTOW term. OP dodged a huge bullet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:14 PM
6

What country/region is this? You don't have to answer obviously, just curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:19 PM
29

Ok but ... break up with him instead of doing whatever this is (on the off-chance this isn't staged).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:20 PM
3

571 subscribers L O L
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:51 PM
76

I was involved in a women's march offshoot organization in like 2017. Absolutely saturated with libfems. Some woman volunteered for LGBTQIA-whatever chair. She was bisexual and in a poly relationship with two men (and i think she was trying to make a point that the poly thing was her main qualifier because it was more fringe, barf). All this to say: she was always complaining about how neither boyfriend did the dishes and she had to clean up after them both and it was such a pain in the ass. She…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:56 PM
22

Talking during a movie is my god-given right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:45 PM
2

The fact that this is clearly fake makes it almost worse. Like this guy wishes he could out his cousin so bad. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:30 PM
11

You love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:09 PM
22

I know right? Physician, heal thyself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:50 PM
102

"Life coach" kind of reads like a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:29 PM
1

×1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:32 PM
1

Sounds like an AGP to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:56 PM
36

Howd you end up with a pickmeshia flair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:04 AM
10

This needs to be tattooed on women. I could live with men doing some more self-reflection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:19 PM
8

i do have a wife and i am kind of bad at shopping :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:28 AM
27

I think it was gay slang / ball culture originally actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:35 PM
1

Is that a black eye?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:28 PM
4

It drives me crazy when people (not the person in the tweet just in general) set up emotion and logic like they are natural opposites or that being logical is a moral quality. Logic is literally just a system if "if x, therefore y." A man acting like a lunatic bc he's being asked to clean is acting according to his internal system of logic. You can come to shitty conclusions with logic! It's in no way infalliable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:50 AM
2

Is there a cuckholding scenario not driven by the man being cuckolded? Take it up with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:42 PM
3

Fucked up that the porn joke is raping someone who cant move, even if the explanation for why they can't move is deliberately silly. Like. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:44 AM
6

Can i also just point out that she's actually in danger of losing her abortion rights, but she didnt mention that at all? We know why though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:44 PM
3

Suspicious word choice on "probably not the wisest of choices"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:42 PM
47

Honestly there appears to be "a thing" where bisexual/self-identified queer women partner with conservative men. Did his views come completely out of nowhere? Also frankly I have to chuckle at the suggestion that she's possibly losing her right to marry a hypothetical woman in the event that her husband dies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:12 PM
3

Huskies are such a red flag lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:00 PM
6

"Historical stigmata"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:35 PM
2

Anyone find the phrase "monogamous play" creepy? I read the phrase "paired play" awhile back (in stoya's advice column lol, it referred to sex with one's boyfriend only, as in not having a threesome) and i found that concept ridiculous. Like way to pathologize normal sexual behavior with your kink brainworms! Now that im seeing this im like, ugh, is this in the lexicon now and im behind the times?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:19 PM
2

This guy is like, I hardly game. I never game actually. Once a fortnight. However, I dropped $500 on this chair. Doesn't mesh. Either you actually do game that infrequently (and this chair was a stupid investment when you are HAVING A BABY) and your girlfriend should get to use it when it's free, including where would be convenient for her, or you're gaming all the time. Keep your stories straight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:15 PM
4

Was anyone going to tell me padma Lakshmi and Salman rushdie were married or was I supposed to read it on fds myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:52 AM
1

"Thereto" chefs kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:04 AM
-6

I watched this movie the other night and honestly I thought the moral panic about it has been wildly overblown. A lot of the defenses I was reading basically came down to "the director is a black Muslim woman," and I was a little hesitant to accept that because it felt like cultural relativism to me (I know a lot of ~woke people who, just as an example, won't acknowledge that fgm is fucked up or wrong because "it's not their culture to criticize" and/or turn their brains off about what "female" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:06 PM
1

Fwiw polyamory isn't some rosy picture in the ~~queer community either. I'm sure some gay men can make it work but my experience has been that the personality disorders associated with "queerness" and polyamory overlap and magnify each other tenfold (no sense of self, neurotic, immature, performative, self-centered, attention-seeking, lack of object permanence).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:00 PM
2

I read about this trend. Apparently the food restrictions in Islam mean you can request prison food that's better than average?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:37 PM
2

Wet-ass pussy. It's a cardi b / megan thee stallion song that came out recently and Ben shapiro did a whole radio show about this. People made fun of him for it, so he wrote the tweet above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:35 PM
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