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#JustLVMThingsnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:54 PM
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#JustLVMThingsnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:56 PM
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RANTnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:15 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:23 PM
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#JustLVMThingsnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:20 PM
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REMINDER 👑not_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:07 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:58 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:23 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:40 PM
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SCROTES MADnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:11 PM
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SCROTES MADnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:14 PM
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SCROTES MADnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:17 PM
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PICKME CULTUREnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:20 PM
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FDS HUMORnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:00 AM
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FDS HUMORnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:58 PM
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REMINDER 👑not_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:58 PM
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REMINDER 👑not_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:31 PM
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REMINDER 👑not_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:14 PM
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FDS HUMORnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:26 PM
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SCROTES MADnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:26 AM
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REMINDER 👑not_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:45 PM
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PICKME CULTUREnot_a_femme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:42 PM
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I honestly think it's weird to drool and obsess over famous people. Even weirder if you already are dating someone.... BUT It's definitely way way way weirder and awful to jerk of to other women in abuse videos. And then gaslight your girlfriend into thinking she has to have no opinion or else she is abusive. Most men legit can't have the audacity to nag about their girlfriend obsessing over a male celebrity when they're doing something way worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:35 PM
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They always think they're so special that they can influence anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:12 AM
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LOL maybe yeah but they always blame labia for not being able to find the clit. Sir, it's always in the exact same spot as in the biology books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:01 PM
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Omg that's even worse I didn't know it can even get numb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:10 PM
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Oh no please. Why would you let yourself be cut in your labia for a partner? I'm sorry but you should never do that. Look if your labia are hanging till your kneecaps I get that you'd get surgery because I can imagine that being uncomfortable for yourself....but don't change your perfectly fine labia for some person :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:52 PM
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I've actually never felt awful about mine but I do feel awful about how labia are being treated constantly. Everywhere. Can't even look at normal videos on social media without any crusty ass talking about "roasties". I don't get why people, usualy men, always have to make it about labia in some way. They're all good in the way they are. They're freaking labia. Its just sad something like labiaplasty is a thing. It's funny how so many men are so focussed on what labia look like. Lol, maybe focus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:51 PM
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Omg I didn't compare it lmfao. It was an example of how many jobs are shit and bad. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:46 PM
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I literally have no clue. I messaged the mods and never got a reply....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:25 PM
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That is really sad. I feel so sad for them because I'm so sure they'll feel freaked out when they're older. For example when I was 17 I would think it's okay to date someone who's 20+. But now at 24 I feel completely disturbed by it. So I can only imagine how they will feel once that sinks in :((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:16 AM
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Damn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:13 AM
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I can see where the escorts come from but I just still wonder how they can love it while they also have to preform sexual acts on gross dudes :((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:09 AM
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Yeah I just wanted to give some examples of jobs that often suck for the people doing it cause others shit on them. So even if it's a job it's still shitty or bad in some way. And I'm not trying to shit on anyone in retail or cleaning. I've done those jobs myself and I can say it was absolutely awful. Just because it's a job doesn't mean it was good for me. Cleaning gave me a nice amount of money but it honestly wasn't worth the body ache and shit people would give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:47 AM
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I feel so confused.... Why would anyone that has an education and no past of abuse/trauma do this?? How can someone completely healthy and educated be interested in being used by others. I...I don't get the fun of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:41 AM
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A lot of people have jobs where they get exploited, forced or abused. People who work in retail or cleaning get shit on and 0 respect too. Same for many other jobs. It's still a job. Just because it's a job doesn't mean it's nice or good. Honestly I wonder if there's a woman who's doing it for fun for real. No history of abuse, no pressure in some way, like really just for fun. Cause all the women I see doing it are either pushed, have been abused, have no self esteem, are dealing with trauma, e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:05 AM
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Doubt it since he replied with "a mouth full" he could've said it's sarcasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:52 AM
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"Love is all about appearance" "Mouth full" Excuse me how gross and porn sick is this man? Who says a mouth full that is so gross and degrading. Why do idiots like this exist. I wish overdosing on porn was an actual thing. That would take the trash out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:51 AM
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I'm so proud of you! Especially because you're so young but already are so good at having your boundaries and enforcing them. Having self love and respect. Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:51 AM
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Omg I completely looked over that. lol How does that even happen?!?! Bless us women for we are slutty single virgin moms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:20 PM
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Which is funny cause men are literally the ones obsessed with women being virgins....But now they're trying to use it as an "insult" by insinuating we've never been near a man. What?! 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:49 PM
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Nope men say they don't care about the woman. They don't think about whether she's being raped or abused on camera. Or if it's child porn or not. But it's funny how they find it weird to masturbate to their imagination. ???????????. Nah, they just care about themselves and their dick and that's it. The other people don't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:14 AM
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Women aren't sensitive. Guys are just oblivious to any empathy, sympathy, compassion and feelings of themselves and other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:06 AM
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Alright this is proof that men are psycho paedophiles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:14 AM
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Exactly!!! They often only talk about the ex in a way that's really useless and stupid. Like Kyle, no one cares your ex used to wear this certain type of perfume.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:54 PM
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Yesss! Or it's only acceptable if there's no way to exclude her from a story cause then the story sounds vague/weird/made up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:33 PM
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The only acceptable reason why anyone would be friends/communicate with an ex is if they have children together. Otherwise there is not need to be friends or talk imo. Move on and find other friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:09 PM
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They missed one The Violent Bitch high standards and self esteem cause she literally is a man hater she's a prude wants the man to pay for the date because she's a glorified prostitute she is actually pretty hot and gets a shit ton of attention because she's a slut probably has never fucked a guy men wouldn't want her anyway cause she's ugly and fat anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:18 PM
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OmG i'M nOt iN tHeRe i'M nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrrLls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:07 PM
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😭😭😭😭😭 I choked on my own spit when I read this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:06 PM
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I'm not even in this situation but I can already feel the despair of hearing "Then why don't you take care of the child? Aren't you the mom? The father is so busy working!! He is doing all he can already"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:01 PM
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Exactly and you're completely normal, fine and allowed to grow. That's what we all do! It's freaking normal. Those pedos contradict themself all the time. They want you cause you're mature, next thing is they want you cause you're so young and pure and then it's because your humour is immature. Sir, you're a nonce who justifies his nonciness by saying the girl is mature for her age. (Sorry I used girl now because woman would've looked a bit strange in this sentence hehe I hope you don't mind!) I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:55 PM
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"Mommy, can i please get breast fed later. NO YOU CANT REFUSE ME MOMMY THIS IS HATE AND VIOLENCE."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:47 PM
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What are you testing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:46 PM
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👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:44 PM
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I don't care how often I will have to say this but men dating teenagers are fucking degenerates and disgusting. There's millions of women their own age. There is NO excuse for dating a child. If you're 21 you have nothing to do with a 17 year old. When I was 20 I was a whole different person than I was at 21. Even between 21 and 22 and then 23. The brain develops till 25 if I'm not mistaken. It's so fucking gross anyone above 25 would date a fucking teenager. It disgusts me to my core. Heck I am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:42 PM
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Probably yeah ☠😭 that was just me trying to be positive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:36 PM
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Awh well I'm sure his mommy would date him since that's probably the only woman that cares for him because she has to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:34 PM
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Yes all fat, single mom and trashy hoes. The baddest and scummiest women. Yet they and want you. What does that say about you then?! (I don't feel like any of those women are bad but I know musty fucks feel that way)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:32 PM
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Yeah exactly. Which is understandable because WE KNOW what it feels like to be abused by men. However, men who say they don't want a daughter because they know how men are, are disgusting in my opinion. Maybe hold other men accountable and teach sons to do better instead of not wanting a daughter. But that's just my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:09 PM
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Men will cry when someone says "men are shit".....we CONSTANTLY hear "not all men" yet the exact same men who do this, say they do not want a daughter because "they know how men are" Thank you for exposing yourself and other men by confirming that men indeed are so shit for you to make a statement like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:17 PM
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Lot of words to say you're salty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:13 PM
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Not only that but he will cry about how she's cheating and doesn't love him!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:04 PM
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I love how some women love mentioning how cool they are and share women with their. Look at porn together 🤪🤪. Meanwhile they never talk about other men or look at other men being hot. No 3somes with an extra male. Its always another woman. Why? Oh because "he's not gay!!!" While the woman in the relationship is straight. It's just disgusting. Just say you have no self-esteem and accept being seen as less by the dude who's using you and move on. No man that respects his wife/girlfriend would do o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:03 PM
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This man is fucking sick and should be locked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:57 PM
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Thanks for your kindness. She sadly died years ago after being treated for 5 years. It was pretty sad cause she genuinely thought she'd be the small percentage that would make it. Doctors can be such clowns. She went in with a headache in her 5th year of having leukaemia and they wanted to send her home with some pain killers. After my mom yelled at them they asked MY MOM what she suggests. Like wtf you're the doctor??? So my mom said to make a scan and they did...that's when they found the canc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:14 PM
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Also i am very sure I have CFS but I'm afraid doctors will dismiss me even though I've got a very supportive female doctor. Just scared others are going to be dismissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:58 PM
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My aunt's (male) doctor told her it's in her head. Turns out it was acute leukaemia 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:57 PM
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Ugh that's just next level annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:40 PM
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I can tell you that many of the dudes even cheating will get mad when another guy checks out their girlfriend. Like....whaaaat?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:49 PM
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If you even have to ask this then yes you're crazy 😭 no offense ofcourse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:53 PM
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Exactly! For me all interest or attraction to anyone else turns just off completely. Sometimes I see a girl that has a really bomb outfit, nails or makeup and I do save those but only because I want to either do my nails or makeup in the same way or find the same outfit 🤣🤣 I see a lot of men and a few women do this on FB. They're always posting "hot people" and actively always talking about how hot someone is while they're in a relationship and I don't believe they truly love their partner if th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:46 PM
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Exactly they know. Some even cheat but get upset when OTHER MEN check out their SO. OTHER MEN. So the SO isn't even doing anything but they get mad because others look at her. It's wild. They damn well know it but don't care indeed. I think if you truly love someone you wouldn't feel the need to check anyone out in that way. I'm bisexual and I don't check out ANYONE. The only way/reason I "check" women out is by looking at their skin or hair and see it as a motivation because I want good hair an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:36 PM
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Honestly it doesn't even matter what you wear. I used to wear super childish clothes as a teenager and then I got told to dress up like a woman and wear tighter stuff. When I did they would make comments like "oh so you do have tits" or "oh I thought you dressed bad because your body is disgusting, but it's very nice." It seems like no matter what you'll be bothered in some way and they're gonna check you out 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:27 PM
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I feel like a lot of men and women always use the "talk about how you feel" when that shouldn't even be needed. It should be common sense to not do certain things. It's just lack of respect. I'm pretty sure these men looking and liking pics of Instagram models/porn actresses know what they're doing. I am sure they know it's hurtful or inappropriate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:17 PM
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Omfg that is just.....so sad LMFAO. He probably wanted you to say the words so when he shits on you he can say "well YOU wanted to get back together!!!" 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:14 PM
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Never feel bad for not being able to make a porn fried guy cum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:31 AM
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That's exactly it! When they come back like that it usually is just an insult because it actually means "I think you're dumber and more entertaining than these other women." You deserve the best and I'm kinda pissed he thinks this low of you. Fuck him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:39 PM
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Men can be broken up for years with a woman and still not he over it in some way. If she's such a bitch, like you claim, then maybe move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:39 AM
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Ah yes because a decent guy tells you how other girls gobbled on his nasty cock and loved it. 🙄 dump his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:26 AM
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I cried when I saw the last pic 😭😂☠ Why does a 36yo want a 23yo?!?! I bet his crusty ass wants someone way younger and call her "kitten" 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:21 AM
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Right? Not unfriending people who did that to you is the same as accepting it. Why in the world would you want to keep someone like that in your friendlist or phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:11 AM
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They never come back with a really good and genuine apology. It's always this no effort bullshit. Like even if they genuinely apologised I wouldn't fall for it. They always text you that when they fucked up shit with other girls or slept around a bunch and didn't feel a connection. So they just come back to the stupid one to see if she's gonna take the bait. Idk but fuck you ken she can do better 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:08 AM
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WTF is she insane?? Even if she would have a child with him, he still has another child with another woman. She knew that when she started dating him. If you don't want a man to pay any attention to his child with another woman then maybe just date a child free man???????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:03 AM
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Wtf that's nothing compared to hard the work and the mom has to put in. He should be paying way more. Honestly fuck this chick? Like, how would she feel if he left her with a child and then his new gf decides he shouldn't pay even though he's already paying too little. That's just nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:01 AM
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I met him at 23. I just turned 17 when I had my first boyfriend so I guess it took 6 years to find someone special and who's genuinely a good person. Not only to me but everyone he knows. He is overall a good person who cares about his family, friends and co-workers. Everyone seems to also enjoy his company. He always treats me very good even when I am angry with him. He's always there for me and would do anything for me and I would do the same. He's so sweet and generous to me 😭 He's always so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:25 PM
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Being told to man up is so awful! I mean just imagine how fucking awful that is!!!!!!!! Thank God they're not being told to dress better so they won't get raped! Because that would just be waaaay too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:08 PM
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"Buddy" "Males are opressed" 🤣🤣🤣🤡🤣🤡🤮🤡🤣🤡🤣🤢😂😏😜🤪😭🤔🤪🤭☠🤣🤮☠ WHAT???? IN WHAT WORLD?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:04 PM
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Oh sorry I didn't mean to sound rude. I meant no one can say it's for the best since we don't know your story so it would be rude for anyone to just randomly say that it is!! But yeah it's hard when you want different things in life. I'm happy you're at least not feeling sad cause that would've made it even harder I guess. Feel free to DM if you ever need anything :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:03 PM
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I don't think anyone can comment that since we don't know the backstory of you and your ex. But anyways I'm free for a bit if you still need to talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:44 PM
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You can do so much better. It's even better to be alone than to be anyone's personal clown 🙏 You deserve all the love and I'm 10000% sure there will be a man for you that is sure about you. Even if there isn't you still always have yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:39 PM
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Excuse me but why do you have to be supportive for a guy that's not sure if he's over his ex or not....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:37 PM
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Excuse me but why do you have to be supportive for a guy that's not sure if he's over his ex or not....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:37 PM
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Yes 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:31 PM
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FRRRR I just checked it and it's just gross. I once had a dude DM me to have a nice day and give me some positivity because scrotes always DM us a pile of garbage. That made me curious, so I checked his comment history and it was horrifying. Even when they act nice they seem to be porn sick. Very disappointing :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:44 PM
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Sadly a lot of men are paedophiles that will try to sleep with kids or women way too young for them. I've heard many men say they would sleep with a 14 year old if she looked 20 🤢🤢🤢🤢 I also have had dudes hit on me when they thought I was 13-17 back when I was 20-22. Most of them are just fucking nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:40 PM
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Yes that's what I meant. We should take it as an inspiration and do it to honour them and ourselves. It's not the same but kind of like when parents weren't able to get an education so the kids do their best in school in honour for their parents who never got a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:57 PM
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Thank you so much. I would never mean any disrespect to any other women at all. But thank you so much this I really appreciate it. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:51 AM
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Thank you! That's exactly what I meant with this post 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:34 AM
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Yeah that's what I meant. Had no idea it would be seen as downplaying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:32 AM
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That's because I'm western and if you wanna take it like I'm downplaying then go ahead sis. I never said laws shouldn't change but that's not happening over night and will take us a long time. I was simply talking about what we can do for ourselves immediately. You can view it as empty that's your opinion you're allowed to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:31 AM
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Not what I meant. I meant when we level up for ourselves we shouldn't just do it only for ourselves. We have to get extra motivation out of all the other women. Edit: changing laws and men will probably take much much longer. So meanwhile we should do for ourselves what we can. Which is levelling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:26 AM
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He's so condescending
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:33 AM
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Whoever said that is a bum. Why should you feel insecure about your height? Cause it won't attract a man? Most of them suck anyway 🙄 You've got a model height and it's elegant. Anyone shaming you is just rude and stupid. People always have to say something shit about your body. If you were short then they would make fun of your weight or face. It's never good enough. So I wouldn't listen to them. A man that will truly love you, won't care about your height. I'm 5'8 and my boyfriend is 5'4. We bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:21 AM
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I think this is the best comeback ive ever seen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:38 AM
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"wHy DoEs mY Ex NoT cArE wE'rE bRoKeN uP?" Because she broke up you dumb shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:17 AM
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I love how this scrote just decides she's nagging and that it's about unimportant things. You don't get to decide that scrote!! Just because you don't fucking care about anything doesn't mean everyone does!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:15 AM
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It is 🤭😭 and thank you that flair is way more fitting so I changed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:04 AM
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👏 amen 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:03 AM
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That's sitting on hands and knees and then getting eaten out from behind. So basically his nose epuod be hovering above the anus. Idk it's not an insult bit it's weird to do that with a stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:01 AM
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RIGHT?! Her burn was the best and so creative 🤣☠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:59 PM
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Most men I've met are 100000x more emotional than any woman. We tend to be more open about our feelings but that's not being emotional (those stunted clowns see it as emotional because they're unhealthy)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:56 PM
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Right? He was rude and disgusting, she just reacted to it and he acts like she slapped his mom or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:36 PM
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🤢🤢🤢🤢 imagine calling a woman a bitch because she doesn't accept your nasty porn sick ass comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:26 PM
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But what do you like about me??????? "Idk I just like you" Honestly to me it's a red flag if someone can't even name 1 thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:07 PM
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Reading this made me just sick. Dude probably wanted sex anyways and now he just got it without doing any effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:09 PM
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It's the same as being told you're pretty. Like okay thanks but what about who I am as a person? What do you like about me besides being pretty or different. And wtf does different even mean if you can't explain what's so different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:15 AM
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Exactly the same thing I've heard. They swipe on anyone. It really makes me cringe and want to vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:25 AM
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I sometimes think they can be very good at emotions if they care enough about something or someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:24 AM
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That's so offensive 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:23 AM
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Or they just say it again "well idk you're just different idk how to explain it" gee I sure as hell am able to explain the things I experience and the opinions I have. But okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:23 AM
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Nope! You can do much better! And even if there isn't anyone better than him, which I doubt, it's still better to be alone! Edit: never reach out to dudes like this. I've had the lowest of lows crawl back when they didn't get attention. Months after even years after. So no if anyone is reaching out it should be him and you should ignore it for your own sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:20 PM
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Vaginas don't have hair Daniel!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:02 PM
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Yeah fetishizing yourself is just so wrong. I do feel bad on one hand since a lot of people probably did that to him but on the other hand he's just a fucking pervert and I don't feel bad for any perv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:38 PM
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Sir making sexual comments isn't being upfront. Being upfront is informing this lovely lady you're a pervert and have some emotional challenges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:34 PM
13

Wow some filter?? I've only heard so far that they just swipe ANYONE and then if "she's too ugly, too fat" they unmatch. Also heard if a few that paid and did that in certain countries so they would get a shit ton of matches to boost their ego 🤦‍♀️🤮🤮🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:03 PM
10

That's so cool!! I wonder if that's possible in my country too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:54 PM
54

It's stupid There's a difference in titles for women but not for men. The miss and ms one really makes me want to barf. Why do they need to see on document if you lost your value or not (since so many scrotes say women lose their value after a certain age) it's pathetic. Can we just not all be Ms? Who gives a shit if you're married, young, middle-aged, old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:54 AM
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HAHAHAHAH bro stfu we all know men swipe right on every woman cause they're pussy starved. No YOU are lucky she even swiped on you and then you ruined it. Edit for lurkers: This is not me making it up. I've heard from MANY men they just swipe on anyone and then see if they get matches. And yes, these were regular men that look normal so you can't come with the "it was probably a neckbeard" argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:46 AM
122

"hE's a FuCkInG sImP" 🤡🤡🤡🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:24 AM
40

Exactly why I think FWB is always an awful deal for a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:12 AM
19

It shocks me how many gross guys do this. Even when they're supposed to be fully developed at 25+. They pretend it's normal but it's not. 🤢🤢🤢 I'm so happy my boyfriend doesn't do this💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:31 AM
9

The last part ☠ He knew why you're talking to him and he's just super not interested. Sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:28 PM
79

The daughter of my grandma's friend got a stroke and her husband left her for another woman in no time while she was still recovering. They were married and had kids. Fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:15 PM
4

For reaaaaal! People usually only do this to shut up other people. They don't even care about all lives. They only care about silencing others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:40 AM
1

Seems like that's happening now tho 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:12 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm sorry but this made me.laugh so hard. SLUTTY FOOT. 🤮🤣🤣😭🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😭🤣😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:10 AM
8

When I told my boyfriend stuff that happened to me he wanted to hurt those people and got really angry. He never has been disgusted with me 1 second or angry. A REAL man would never make someone else's abuse about themselves. Any decent person would feel enraged and not put this on their loved one. I feel sorry this NVM's mom ever gave birth to him. Imagine being the reason he exists and then he goes around saying this to other women. You clown, you exist because of a woman, you came from a woma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:35 AM
8

I can only imagine the fears and heartache you're feeling. It's sad cause I think we all know what it's like to be a woman and endure this abuse. Yet we can't do anything to protect our daughters. Another "fun" thing is when we snap and are angry because of the abuse that happened to our children or ourselves we get told to "forget and forgive" or that we're "caring a grudge and being hateful" 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:32 AM
3

....WTF?! If you say this you're legit fucking sick. It's funny how a lot of people (mostly women I've seen) go to therapy, meanwhile these sick ballsacks walk around acting like they're normal. They should be locked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:27 AM
15

It's a shame. When I was 17 I had an internship where men would say "oh so you can do more than just be pretty." Firstly wtf I'm a minor and second so you just assume I'm dumb and can do nothing because you think I'm pretty. Weird. I also had the head of the office show me a video of a comedian making fun of women and then said how I'm not actually stressed and given to many tasks. Literally all tasks and projects were given to me. I had to do 5 at the same time because "oh the boys are not doin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:18 AM
7

If it's so biologically wired then explain to me why enough boyfriends don't do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:56 AM
38

If it's not a big deal then he should ask his mommy to send him some.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:52 AM
20

Yes you literally can't 🤦‍♀️ If you truly understood you'd never DM a woman from this group to argue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:51 AM
10

They get away with it because other men and pickmes have their backs while they gaslight us to believe we're the issue. I'm sure you've been there too, you're not a "cool girl" if you speak up against this bullshit and they will call you a feminist like it's an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:48 AM
10

YES!!! I was about to comment the same until I saw you already did. Next time when it's their birthday we should just be like "What about my birthday?! Don't all birthdays matter???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:45 AM
21

He's too dumb to even understand that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:55 PM
54

Well according to a scrote who just messaged me men can't be raped! So I legit think they're challenged in their heads. But I'm sure they would already be upset when they get publicly rejected by a woman while her friends film it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:32 PM
45

HAHAH YES ME TOO. Like bro you're legit just making me laugh. Do you think you can trigger me when we legit live through enough shit? Elephants' skin baby 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:20 PM
7

It's locked or archived. I found it before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:56 PM
16

What's wrong with people doing this. Good enough to sleep with, not good enough to call you his girlfriend. Sure you could've left, but what's wrong with him to take advantage? Like there has to be something wrong with someone to do this to another person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:36 PM
266

OMG HER EDIT IS INSANEEEE. GIRL PLEAAAASE. Imagine seeing a video of your girlfriend getting raped and the first thing you do is get upset cause mUh DiCk mUh EgO MUHmUhmUh. He should be furious they did this to herand furious towards which sick fuck sends that horrible video around. OMG IT IS BLACK AND WHITE!!! HE IS TRASH. Honestly poor girl is just hurting herself. I hope he ends up dumping her so she can maybe snap out of it and try to get better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:01 PM
37

Idk when exactly this happened but this reminds me of how a pregnant woman got shot and killed in my home country. I think she was seeing a married guy and she was going to expose him or something (sorry, don't know the exact details) So his logic is to kill her 🤦‍♀️ Bro..... why?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:51 PM
211

Another one thing I hate: dudes saying their female co-workers aren't experiencing sexism. Oh, how would you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:48 PM
97

It's honestly INSANE and sickening. The more I think about it the angrier and sadder I get for any woman born in a country less fortunate than me. Where she has even less options and more hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:46 PM
102

Yeah exactly. Not all men are this but all men are threats. Better safe than sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:41 PM
55

Sorry I saw your name and had to comment. The amount of people who said sansa deserved it all is 🤢🙄 Also sorry this happened to you ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:39 PM
38

Honestly I could take it a million ways. It could be a compliment but for example if you have pick me tendencies then I would take it as an insult. Because then it probably means you're not "nagging" or having any standards, which is calming to him. If you don't then he might just genuinely be at ease around you because you have a nice aura and great personality 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:36 PM
459

Women don't wait in dark corners to r*pe men, women don't record men in public bathrooms, women don't impregnate someone and then ditch them while talking mad shit about them. When a man leaves his child, the mom is a trashy single mom. When the woman leaves her child, the father is a hero who takes care and what kind of worthless woman is she for leaving her kid?? Women aren't voting to take away a men's right. Meanwhile men vote against abortions while many still participate in having (unsafe)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:28 PM
27

Pretty sure she licks it clean for him 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:43 PM
5

I'm happy even if it was a humblebrag! It's good to know your qualities! But I can definitely imagine people getting attached to you when they're maybe not used to someone actually listening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:55 PM
16

Oh yeah that's true. I've heard a guy once said he wanted a female friend so he could talk about feelings and stuff (basically dumping his shit on her) because his male friends would probably act weirded out. I always thought they wanted female friends for physical reasons, but honestly this is just as bad. Maybe find better male friends or try to actually be friends with a woman instead of using her as a therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:48 PM
7

Wow well said that's probably it indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:44 PM
41

Straight dudes will even fuck another dude for a few million
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:31 PM
10

That's interesting! So far I've only heard awful stories from some guys saying they had FWBs they totally disrespected and when they got called out they always try to make it sound less bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:29 PM
48

Why do so many dudes always say they want to be friends while they actually want way more. Like are those type of people only friends with women cause they want something? Are they only befriending women to see which one is going to take the bait??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:16 PM
47

Ugh you don't get it do you! They need pornography otherwise they get blueballs!!! They NEED to bust a nut every hour!!!1!11!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:12 PM
40

They don't even want that. They just want an ego boost no matter if they're using the other person or breaking their heart. This is why some type of guys have FWBs. Often the FWB wants a relationship with them but they don't and then she settles for being used. Like if you had 1 bit of empathy in you you wouldn't do this. Just break it off then and masturbate. Or idk pay someone but they don't want that 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:08 PM
66

I've heard many men say they don't want a prostitute because she's only in it for the money. Not him. I guess they'd rather just fuck a random woman they don't care about instead. As long as she cares about him and they don't have to put in effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:01 PM
45

Yeah also this. I think we go on dates to get to know someone else better while showing a form of romantic interest. It's also nice to see how much the other person is willing to put into it. And no, I'm not even talking about the money. Like if you have certain boundaries/wishes before you'd have sex with someone then dating is a good way to find out. At least that's why I think women date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:59 PM
63

LMFAO THEY ARE FUCKING INSANE. So if a woman should pay then basically the man is a whore because he's being paid for the date. But....they probably wouldn't see it that way and just see the woman as someone even dumber, easier and grosser than a prostitute. (How they would see it anyways)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:57 PM
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Okay so this bum is saying we should let guys fuck us and having to pay for them or ourselves? That would then make us less than a prostitute. Also edit: prostitutes are not returning affection and interest in you when you pay them. They literally only preform the sex act. Unless you take an expensive escort but that would cost very, very much. And then they still don't genuinely like you. So saying women who want guys to pay for dates and then return affection, interest and sex is the same as p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:48 PM
2

Oh yeah they exist! Just pay them 50 and they'll sleep with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:29 AM
3

"We're only good a t being friends" bitch GTFO no one wants to be your friend you raggedy ass unwashed anus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:24 AM
4

Those are such manipulative and back handed compliments. Just SHUT THE FUCK UP. Why would you even say this? Just trying to make you feel insecure and when you do get insecure he'd hit you with the "what are you talking about I never said anything bad"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:06 AM
14

Literally any female can get fucked whenever she wants. Even if she's ugly, fat, dumb, whatever negative things men think about her. Because they don't care usually. They only care about finally being able to get laid. Us women don't have this issue cause there is so many options, that's why we're not sleeping with all men. That's why we can be picky. There's always going to be a different male who's eager. So no that's not being an incel that's saving yourself for a dude that's worthy and not j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:04 AM
25

I don't think it's a good move since it came from a bad place. It would've been a good move if he tried getting her out of it and helping her in different ways. Or trying to scare her by saying people might find out or expose her. He could've handled it so differently if he really cared but he seems like a sicko that's just obsessed. What decent person does what he did and wants to show her parents pictures of her naked body??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:12 AM
11

They would literally die cause they don't have a high pain tolerance??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:58 AM
68

Wtf is wrong with him? Why does he care so much What his cousin does to get money? She's legit only hurting herself. It's so gross he gets a membership to look at her naked body and screen capture it. Wtf and then he wants to out her? If you're so concerned then just try to help her or talk to her in a normal way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:43 AM
7

It's just sad how you can't just enjoy yourself without having to worry you're gonna end up ridiculed, dead or violated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:15 PM
17

Idk where I read it but some guy wrote something like "a bad date for me is if the girl was boring or not looking like her picture. A bad date for a woman could mean ending up dead or r*ped" Also I honestly doubt anyone would date someone just for a free meal? Too much trouble for just food??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:02 PM
17

Omg I'm not one to judge peoples clothes or shoes fast but wtf are those ☠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:39 PM
5

Ah right because that's exactly what we all want 😍😍 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:41 PM
3

I'm sorry those traumatic experiences have led you to do things you didn't agree with. I really hope you'll be free of pain some day you don't deserve to hurt And I'm sorry your adotpive mom says stuff like "Why did you let it happen". Like, yes the optimal thing to do is to leave but it's just not that easy after you've been abused and gaslit a bunch. Sorry to hear about your break up ❤ if you need to talk to someone you can always DM. I really hope the heartache of the break up will fade away …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:38 PM
61

Because they're disgusting. They don't want to pay a prostitute cause she's only fucking them for the money and not cause she's into them. Meanwhile they want to fuck women they're not even into. Like....WTF??????? Uhhh so many things wrong here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:32 PM
4

I'm sorry this happened to you ❤ and it's heart breaking to realize this has been exactly the same for a lot of women. Even if we didn't get taught by our parents we're a man's possession it still gets stomped in by society. Its almost as fate told you to clean up under the bed. I know it sounds super corny but I don't think it was much of a coincidence...I hope that made sense. I really hope you're in a better place nowadays and if you're not I hope you'll be soon ❤ Honestly I wish there was so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:29 PM
2

I don't understand it either but on the other hand I had years to learn and some people don't learn as fast. Insecure girls get brainwashed by losers and pickmes to think in order to be loved they have to be doormats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:11 PM
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