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| 2 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?Yes. I could never date someone who didn’t agree with me on the big social/political issues. LGBTQ rights, abortion rights, those kind of things. I’m left leaning. I could date someone centrist or left, but definitely not someone on the right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 04:44 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Being attractive as a woman is the easiest thing in the world: just don't be fatIf a guy can have a standard of don’t be fat, women can have a standard of “just be taller than me.” Like, I’m 5’4. 90% of adult men are taller than me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Should a man worry about his GF's exes if they all ended the relationship with herIf there’s 10 guys who broke up with her sure. If there’s 2 then not necessarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 02:51 PM |
| 9 | Just like men must create value in the world otherwise they are worthless, are women worthless if they don't have children?Women aren’t vacuum cleaners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 09:04 PM |
| 15 | Just like men must create value in the world otherwise they are worthless, are women worthless if they don't have children?I personally don’t think so. Everyone who exists has value in my mind. But I’m also a woman who doesn’t want kids and idgaf if someone calls me “worthless” because of it. Oh well. Their opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] We should regard women's ageing and pregnancy as women's fitness test.There’s so many reasons not to have kids I agree. I’m in the same boat. I want to travel, build my career, do so many other things without kids tying me down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 03:32 PM |
| 14 | is it possible that hypergamy itself plays a role in the drastic drop in birthrate in the developed world?Better than not being allowed to work, being forced to rely on a man and have his babies. Now I have much more control over my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 01:46 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] We should regard women's ageing and pregnancy as women's fitness test.All I'm saying is a woman's body will never be the same after pregnancy, even if she gets back to her pre-pregnant weight. If that upsets a man, he should not have kids with her. There's plenty of reasons I do not want kids - this is just one of many. I already am a mediocre person anyways lol, I'm just okay with myself now and don't feel the need to force myself to give birth to kids for a man who may not even appreciate what that does to a woman's body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 11:07 PM |
| 8 | [CMV] We should regard women's ageing and pregnancy as women's fitness test.It's no wonder the childfree movement is growing amongst Millennials and Gen Z. What exactly would incentive me to get pregnant if my husband will no longer be attracted to me? There's things pregnancy and childbirth does to you that you can and can't control (stretch marks, loose skin). I know women who lost all the pregnancy weight and went back to their size before kids yet their bodies still looked different. Yeah. No kids for me if my husband might leave me for not looking the same after I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | A successful man wanting a woman to be a housewife is like a successful woman wanting a man to be an Elevator Operator - both jobs are obsolete in 2021I don’t mind kids. I dislike taking care of babies. Older kids (6+) I can handle. That’s not how I view relationships. If I love someone I’m not making excuses to leave. I won’t have one foot out the door. I’ll just have a safety net if something goes wrong. I want a partner in life. But I won’t settle for a man who just wants me to be a housewife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | A successful man wanting a woman to be a housewife is like a successful woman wanting a man to be an Elevator Operator - both jobs are obsolete in 2021There are men who don't want kids. They are out there. Or I can marry later in life to a man who already has kids. I have options. What I will not do is force myself through 9 excruciating months of pregnancy 2-3x just to please a man who wants kids when I can find one who doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | A successful man wanting a woman to be a housewife is like a successful woman wanting a man to be an Elevator Operator - both jobs are obsolete in 2021It doesn’t make sense to you. It makes sense to me. I don’t want to need anyone. I want to make my own money so I can support myself. It’s not about being an appealing mate for me. It’s about survival. I would not marry a man who expected me to be a housewife or stay at home mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | A successful man wanting a woman to be a housewife is like a successful woman wanting a man to be an Elevator Operator - both jobs are obsolete in 2021There are difficult classes. Statistics, Finance, Accounting, whatever I got through it. I guess it's just not as difficult as an engineering degree (whatever) but more difficult than gender studies, history, communications, etc. My point is I worked hard for my degree, and I don't want children, so I have 0 desire to be a housewife. Fuck even if I did want kids, I wouldn't stay home. That is not what I want out of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | A successful man wanting a woman to be a housewife is like a successful woman wanting a man to be an Elevator Operator - both jobs are obsolete in 2021I busted my ass to get a difficult degree so I could take care of myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.It's fucked up, honestly. Being wanted is so much better than being needed. It's being able to leave, but choosing not to because you're in love, not because you're financially tied to someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | A successful man wanting a woman to be a housewife is like a successful woman wanting a man to be an Elevator Operator - both jobs are obsolete in 2021Because I don't ever want to be pregnant and raise kids. I don't like kids. I would ask the same of you - why did you get a degree? Why don't you want to stay home and raise kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | A successful man wanting a woman to be a housewife is like a successful woman wanting a man to be an Elevator Operator - both jobs are obsolete in 2021Business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:17 PM |
| 10 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.All because they perceive dating and life to be 'too easy' for us. SMH. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | A successful man wanting a woman to be a housewife is like a successful woman wanting a man to be an Elevator Operator - both jobs are obsolete in 2021I didn't go to school for 4 years to get a degree to clean up shit all day. If men don't like it, they can stay home and raise the kids. Motherhood is not important to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 03:37 PM |
| 12 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.I'd literally rather do anything else rather than have to depend on a man for survival again. Why are we regressing to 1950s and before shit? Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market?Increase in sex means an increase in the risk of pregnancy though. Besides, when I actually have a partner, I’m pretty on for them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market?I’d still have the worry of pregnancy and prefer to limit my partners to men I’m in monogamous relationships with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 01:00 AM |
| 9 | [CMV] It’s unwise for women to invest in romantic relationships with men if they aren’t valuable to men past age 30.I agree with this. Men who want a partner in life, not just a girlfriend, would not ever say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | As females are far more selective with their dating preferences, is their tolerance to flaws in a relationship partner far less also...Flaws in looks that come up after years of dating is nothing. But if he doesn’t do any work around the house and I’m doing all the chores, that’s a dealbreaker for me. I don’t mind doing slightly more chores than him, especially because I genuinely enjoy cooking for example, but I’m not doing like 95% to his 5%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 03:44 PM |
| 3 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"I don’t get the child support thing. Men want to be able to opt out of parenthood but someone has to pay for the kids. It’s either the father and the mother, or the mother with government aid if she needs it... you take a way both and you just put single mothers further into poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD,who are against more than 5 years of age-gap in relationships in general, are they willing to have enthusiastic relationship with men less than 5 inches, or better still less than 5 cm, taller?The average man in my country is 5'10. The average woman is 5'4. That's a 6 inch height difference, it's not going to be very common to find a woman who's 5'8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention?I don’t do online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 05:56 PM |
| 0 | [Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention?Meh I actually don’t get a lot of attention at all and I’m average looking. Granted I might have a resting bitch so maybe I’m unapproachable 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 03:15 PM |
| 2 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Hard agree. I would encourage SAHMs to have at least a side hustle or part time job or something that means they have some of their own income should something happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 03:10 PM |
| 5 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?I agree with that too. I'm still on the fence with children, but even if I had them, I would not want to stay home with them all day everyday for the rest of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 7 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Same. I need to have my own money and not only rely on a mans money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 07:37 PM |
| 15 | Women don’t like men that look YOUNGER than themThey’re not but a 28 year old women doesn’t want to be with someone she thinks is still in HS or just out of HS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 05:01 PM |
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