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not_his_nibs/r/seduction02/08/15 04:25 PM
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Most rich guys I've seen get girls, would also get them if they were broke. Having hung around rich and broke, as far as getting laid the difference is minimal. It's usually they are rich and good looking. You don't really notice rich schlubby guys, because you don't envy them. Dating, LTR stuff it helps more because something, something provider. Whether she'll brag to her friends too. Also there is an encouraged humility in the middle class that I think can make it harder in some ways for midd…
/r/seduction06/08/15 02:11 AM
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You're not really an adult to you go through a period where life knocks the shit out of you. You realize the stakes of things.
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:42 PM
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My "true personality" has been very different at different parts of my life. Maybe I'm more empty inside than I'd like to think but I think most people's core is extremely sparse (it's a few values, and areas of aptitude potential), it's only a small amount of things that are really immutable. Outside of that it's mostly acquired habits. I think the Kurt Vonnegat quote "We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be." holds very true.
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:36 PM
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Fair enough, I'm newish to this sub so you probably have more experience here than me.
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:26 PM
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You can, but it takes time and throwing yourself into different environments. If you start acting different eventually you become that person. It can't easily be undone so anyone who is going to change some major facet about themselves should be confident it's who they really want to be.
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:25 PM
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Hang out with women who don't already know you. Be less goofy. If you're good at being funny, because funny in a more sarcastic way.
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:23 PM
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Alot of people claim guys disrespect women when it's more than don't want relationships and don't have female friends interpersonally. It's something that's become kind of a thought terminating cliche on many parts of the internet. What is it you mean by disrespecting women? I think this sub is probably more respectfull towards women than not.
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:18 PM
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Just wanting to get laid isn't disrespecting women. If some woman talked about me like that and I've heard how women can talk about guys, that's just human lust. Plenty of people don't want or care about the whole person and just want to get laid and not know or be involved with the rest. Not everyone wants caring or deep consideration.
/r/seduction05/08/15 09:24 PM
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What's been the reason for the turn away from one night stands, putting up numbers towards relationships. I'm not a redpiller, but I'm not looking for a partner either. I'm working on the other parts of my life, but it's not at all for women. As a guy who wants to get laid, but doesn't want any relationship this sub is sort of frustrating. I just want to be able to go to a bar on Friday, seduce a good looking girl, fuck her, never talk to her again. Spend the rest of my time either by myself, wi…
/r/seduction05/08/15 09:18 PM
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http://orthoinfo.aaos.org/PDFs/Rehab_Knee_6.pdf. Also try using an excersize bike. I found it helped me. I busted up my knew once and doing that helped me enough that squats are my best lift. If it was caused by a swelling injury, that could be more pain for senstive nerves than actual damage. If you spend a lot of time on your knees, it can numb that nerve permanently.
/r/seduction05/08/15 09:14 PM
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I've never done pick up lines. My body is not visibly good looking. I have man tits, lack a defined jaw line, have skinny wrists. Physcally I am not attractive. I could lie to myself about this but I choose not to. It doesn't define me, I don't see it as a measure of my worth, but I am aware visibly this is what people see at first glance. I don't have low self esteem. I have other talents that aren't immediately visible. I don't deserve some third tier average chick just because of my looks. I …
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:26 PM
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Why don't you explain it more directly then.
/r/seduction05/08/15 04:08 PM
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There is for getting it done successfully. I'm not a good looking guy and I don't generally go after average or below women so I have to continue to practice more, keep getting into better shape and dress better. They didn't succeed.
/r/seduction05/08/15 03:57 PM
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Thank you drill sergeant. I just have shit I need to get better at, and that's hitting on women. As a guy who specifically just wants one night stands, I have to get my technique down.
/r/seduction05/08/15 03:46 PM
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I'm sure. My biggest issue is I am horrible at reading them, don't know what to talk to them about a lot of the time too. I also have zero sense of style, and am not good looking enough to not have to have solid game technique wise.
/r/seduction04/08/15 01:46 PM
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The prostitutes advice might not be the worst. He could pad his numbers, if he does it three times so he's within an average partner count.
/r/seduction04/08/15 01:08 PM
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I have a dominant personality, I'm the leader in social situations, take risks, don't have much fear in me. Guy's guy sorts of things.
/r/seduction04/08/15 01:05 PM
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I'm pretty alpha but not great with women, lack the conversational skills when sober to close and drunk me isn't doing much. It's not something that means all your shit is in order. Also he should do real squats not air squats. Squats are fun.
/r/seduction03/08/15 11:44 PM
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I'm older than you, back in school, not a home owner (personally I think home ownership at that young an age if single is a mistake and not probably the most mature decision). Your biggest issue is living at home but if she likes you, it means she's okay with it. Also you are moving towards a career, she is not more "advanced" you are on different paths. You both have your own unique life experiences and you are still at the point where you are trying to be something more than currently being wh…
/r/seduction03/08/15 01:03 PM
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If she spends any amount of time, knows he lives at home it won't work. If he had a decent studio he could probably get away with it. I'm not as anti-lying in all cases as most people here, but this isn't something that will help him.
/r/seduction03/08/15 11:30 AM
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Thanks. I've turned down girls who wanted something more than I wanted to or could give. That's the biggest thing I'm trying to get better at, attracting women looking for the same thing, being good at closing those deals. Sorry if I'm a bit touchy, it's something a lot of people have been judgemental about and this is who I am and I've always been this way about it.
/r/seduction03/08/15 10:34 AM
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Yep. Without game the guy with the looks will win, every time. If two guys have good game then it's not even looks who will decide the winner. With game, then the next big divider is how interesting/attractive is the rest of your life. Have you held different jobs, lived different places, are you funny (but not goofy), are you fit. If you were in a novel, are you a charchter I'd enjoy reading about.
/r/seduction03/08/15 10:06 AM
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Why is it so hard to believe that some people want to be promiscuous, the same way some people want monogamy? That's always been how my sex drive worked, it's not fair that I have to justify it. If someone just wanted a long term relationship, or didn't what to sleep around you wouldn't say, "no you really want to be promiscuous but are just afraid of the frequency of rejection you'll encounter in trying to do that". We have different wants for different reasons here, and there isn't anything wr…
/r/seduction03/08/15 09:52 AM
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I want to be promiscuous and I don't want relationships. The only reason I can imagine not wanting to be promiscuous is wanting a relationship, maybe that's on me. I have a very high libido, and novelty is my biggest turn on. It's not an emotional validation thing. I was addressing though the whole, food analogy and what I thought you were getting at. It's frustrating because as someone who just genuinely wants lots of sex with different women he doesn't want to see again seduction seems to frow…
/r/seduction03/08/15 09:24 AM
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I'm 5'8, but I'm not aware of my height, my dad is tall, my friends growing up were tall. I subconsciously think I'm taller than I am, so I think that's probably helped me because I have the energy of someone alot taller, react to women who maybe 5'10 like I'm taller than them.
/r/seduction03/08/15 02:07 AM
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I know I don't want a relationship. I'd rather have no sex and no relationship than sex and a relationship. For some people relationships within themselves are something they don't want in their life. While I get you're trying to be considerate I think it's important to understand people come to seduction for different reasons. Some people specifically are looking to fulfill their libido but also don't want much of what often comes with that.
/r/seduction03/08/15 01:46 AM
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What if you just what to be promiscuous for it's own sake, and want to avoid relationships? Models doesn't appeal to my goals. Some people are just looking for a fun time and want to avoid everything else.
/r/seduction02/08/15 11:25 PM
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True, I still think it's more fun when you know there is a definite end. It's like a book that never drags on past the point where it's no longer interesting. I always like remembering places I've been but I'll never return more than actually deciding to visit them again. Just a quirk with me. Plus if you happen to run into someone you haven't heard from in a while that's a special kind of joy. It's why I don't Facebook so I can actually catch up with people. So it's extra positive incentive to …
/r/seduction02/08/15 09:10 PM
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I know a guy who was 5'5 and had hot tall women hit on him. Hit the gym, dress well, have the rest of your life not just in order, but something that people want to hear about. Travel, get funny stories, even borrow funny stories.
/r/seduction02/08/15 08:03 PM
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I'm no pro, but I've had mostly good looking girls like me (which I've blown in magnificently stupid ways despite clear come ons). The part I did right: You have to be attracted to something other than their looks or at least seem like you are. Not in a "nice guy" way, but in it's the energy that is sexy. It's the fact they are wild, fun etc... Have a vice in common with them. Just don't do what I did, and when she's physcally rubbing you, sitting on your lap, texting you to go out with her over…
/r/seduction02/08/15 07:54 PM
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I think that'll be much easier because I know I won't see anyone I meet there in all likelihood afterwards. So that makes it much less anxiety inducing for me.
/r/seduction02/08/15 07:50 PM
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If he isn't attracted to you he'll be flattered anyway. One of the biggest differences between men and women flirting I've noticed is that we don't get offended or as uncomfortable when someone who isn't into us flirts with us. Give him your number.
/r/seduction02/08/15 04:54 PM
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