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Discussionnot_mr_nice/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:52 AM
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I've just checked, FnF at least have their own sub, can't the FnF cultists and haters, go argue in there or something. Then we could get back to the supposed purpose of THIS sub. PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to r/TheBluePill and r/TheRedPill. Total false adverstising. u/ppd_FrameEnforcer u/alreadyredschool u/dakru u/LeaneGenova u/PPDMods u/SpaceWhiskey u/AutoModerator u/GridReXX u/PPD-Angel u/BiggerDthanYou u/DesignerDeba…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:16 AM
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Yep I see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:30 AM
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Out of interest why is your flair purple pill. This sounds more like a blue pill rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:10 AM
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I don't doubt they are saying it. It makes you mad, you post about them and spread the news, then more people watch them. It's how you advertise without advertising. Whether they are official RedPill Content creators is a trickier discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:04 AM
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As much as I want to start citing The Rational Male. Why bother, it's just a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:58 AM
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What the hell ate you babbling on about Have you even read the RP sidebar. Let's take the wall and being over 35. All it says is "A woman's sexual power will diminish however it will still be higher than that of even an Alpha male". Seriously what the fuck. These RP strawman attacks were funny at first but now it's getting boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:52 AM
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Do not engage with logic. Attraction, arousal, connection are emotional processes not logical ones. Just ask her how she feels when she is really attracted to someone and let her put herself through the emotions. But do not engage with logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:40 AM
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If she is a virgin, she isn't sleeping around. Do you understand what a virgin is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:34 AM
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Yeah when I need a shit I just go hey why be a slave to my biology. When I need sleep I just don't sleep. Hunger, nah eating is just being a slave to biology Same as staying warm when it's cold and cool when it's hot. We are all slaves to our biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:26 AM
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7 hours now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:23 AM
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I was wondering that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:22 AM
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Men need to stop simping and start ignoring unattractive women. Then women will need to start putting in an effort to get male validation or just any attention. This mess is the fault of male thirst. If fat women were treated like short guys, the world would be a different place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:09 AM
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Men are not a monolith or a brotherhood. You see... they are individuals. So there is not one underlying view. You see forest... but reality is lots of individual trees. Please seek therapy, it might help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:01 AM
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learn cold approach and next time take action.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:20 AM
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No, a problem was given, I presented a possible solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:16 AM
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OK, I am not bothered if they are average or not. Why does that matter, news flash, average men can get dates, I know you inkwells don't believe that. I was giving gloomette a way to manufacture a breakup so her tik tok crush comes back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:13 AM
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And the non "lets just blame women" responses were probably more helpful to the guy, than the normal inkwell rhetoric https://preview.redd.it/11n88dx1jf6d1.png?width=647&format=png&auto=webp&s=c5630bdc5da25ee3fac4fff8b43cb31c8ce22e32
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:11 AM
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Just dug this out from a private fb group I am in. You do NOT use your self-improvement efforts as a way to impress women. 'You do it for you and STFU about it. Exhibit A 5.5 ft Indian virgin trying to seek validation using his until then successful self improvement: His self improvement got him to this point. For the looks are all that matter crowd, he couldn't even speak to a woman previously, despite his looks. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:07 AM
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He got laser eye treatment, I cannot be arsed re-reading "The Game" to see if there was a particular reason he didn't get contacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:43 PM
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{ole dancing, pole dancing and pole dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:37 PM
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Cant you find a "are we datng the same guy" group. Even better, say you have syphilis as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:35 PM
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Its the redpill, not the rainbow pill. Why does other men having baggage affect a hetro man looking for women? This keeps being bought up, and its just weird,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:22 PM
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Yeah I have been friendzoned and I stayed in the friendzone because I believed if I did x, y, z I would get a relationship. If I hadn'r of believed that contract i made with no-one but myself I would of had no reason to be angry. Rejection is just rejection. It was the contract that I made with myself that made me angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:03 PM
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Look even as a RP leaning guy, I believe that women are free to reject men and should not be forced into relationships with men they don't want to be. Please seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:39 PM
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I'm sure your inauthentic self oozes with Charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:37 PM
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I honestly don't know. All I know is I felt doomed in life, I read "The Game" and realised I could change. Yeah at the minute I am still single. But I have been with more women since reading "The Game" than before, I am much happier, I have a better job, am in better physical shape and am not so socially awakward at all. That is all I really have to say on "The Game" and "Neil Strauss".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:19 PM
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Can we make PPD topics a live interview stream. We can select some of the craziest comments and have two people battle it out live. Trust me, people will watch this circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:12 PM
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Women here are unable to talk about male positivity or men acting as protectors either and frequently dismiss the legitimacy of it. I think its the word "Protector". I may be wrong here, and women feel free to correct me. But I honestly do not believe a woman wants a man, whom she does not feel safe around, and also at the same time feel confident that if some shit were to happen he could deal with it. To me that is masculinity. As far as relationships go, I do not look for exactly the same thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:06 PM
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Nah he no longer teaches game. Mystery still does, at stupid rip off prices. I'm actually a fan of MM, but the book was enough, and a set of mates where we could push each other. For me it made a difference. But I don't think its a one size fits all. And the "Coaching" is just a rip off. I have mixed views on the whole thing. Partly due to knowing a few guys who did pay for "Coaching" and I would partly argue that although they did better with women, they were more fucked up than before. It wasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:51 PM
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Yeah.... thats why it helps to build a positive vibe and give off positive energy. People like that shit, so they want you to stick around for more. Then you make them work for it, so they feel invested. Then you reward an IOI with an IOI and an IOD with an IOD. And so the game goes on..... Anyway, this is basic game stuff, I am sure most people on here know how game works, given its a large part of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:45 PM
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And he is only 5ft 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:40 PM
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True. If a person does not care about themselves, its amazing they think other people will give a rats ass about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:38 PM
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I know, the first thing people need to do IMO is learn to be happy by themselves. Then when women want to come along for the ride, you can decide if they are worth your time. Being a needy desperate guy not only leads to sending women running for the hills, but also bad judgement calls on who you let into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:36 PM
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I think the bigger issue here, is doing things to get women, what happens once you get a woman. Metaphorically, you could say the man leaves the cave to get a woman, once he gets a woman he goes back to the cave, then he wonders why the woman leaves him. The purpose of leaving the cave is to stay outside the cave. Damn RSDTyler, for this stupid metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:32 PM
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Probably wrong age group, but the best transformation I have seen. A bit of gym, eye surgery and tanning. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:26 PM
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Like I say I do agree with what you say. But some people, well video games seems to be their only focus. I'm not sure if its addiction or escapism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:59 PM
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Going to play devils advocate here. If all you want to do is play video games, how does new hobbies, socialising, advancing in career above being able to pay for life style, actually help play video games? I do agree with you. But still, when I was younger, I had different views.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:10 PM
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Of course, redpill morons can’t explain it properly and redpill learner morons can’t understand the nuances of anything that isn’t explicitly aimed at getting women. OG RedPill moron here. I actually agree with you. I did not understand why a lot of the self help stuff mattered, until it came to women. Now I do it for its own sake, I guess I needed a reason to start. Like when I do my daily meditation now, it is just for me so I have a clear mind. Not so that I have better awareness when talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:07 PM
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Same, I used to be in my head a lot and anxious about what other people thought of me. Meditation and practicing self love has improved my life so much, Its nice to look in a mirror and like what I see, instead of wishing I was dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:04 PM
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Eckart Tolle did not write "The Power of Now" to help guys get laid. Yes being present in the moment helps when speaking to people, but that was not the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:02 PM
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As annoying as your typing is, I do agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:01 PM
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There is no "solution". You either work on yourself, then put yourself out there again, you don't work on yourself, you put yourself out there again. Or you quit putting yourself out there, or you just whine like an inkwell. There is no "Solution", "No Garuntee", "No Magic Bullet".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:00 PM
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I found otherwise but thats just me. I used to be in my head a lot. Imagine that, actually thinking before I spoke and analysing shit. Now I have done meditation, the monkey mind has shut up. So I am more like a normie that a freak. Its good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:56 PM
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So don't do it then. If you don't want to become a better you, don't. Why is this challenging for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:53 PM
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Someone gets it. But it sounds like your in it for yourself, not looking for some magic bullet to get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:41 PM
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There is no garuntee for self improvement. What flavour crayons have you been chewing today. Meditation, shuts off the monkey mind.... maybe. There is no guarantee. No one ever said there was. What the hell are you yakking on about,. NOTHING IS GARUNTEED IN LIFE. EXCEPT DEATH
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:40 PM
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You either do nothing or do something. Or you can just cry about how unfair your existence is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:29 PM
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Nothing in life is guaranteed. Wrong, death is garunteeed, but yeah thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:25 PM
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This is the issue with women treating relationships like video games though. Like god forbid you just date someone because you enjoy their company. Instead its all about speedrunning to the final boss (marraige).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:24 PM
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That's why I have the purple flair not the red flair. Red flair on ppd seems to be more blackpill inkwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:19 PM
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Saying someone is unattractive is about me and my preferences, not about them. If a woman wants to be masculine, cool, good for her. I will still find her repulsive however. That again is about me and my feelings, not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:17 PM
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You stand out because your too normal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:59 PM
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The path of most resistance is what builds our character. Its like muscles, resistance makes them better. As for the gym, there is never an ideal time for the gym, but that is why it builds discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:54 PM
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Why does an intern have so much access to prod without Change Control in place? Get some JIT authentication setup. Let me guess you give everyone global admin as default.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:50 PM
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I wish I had a Yacht. But shit happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:48 PM
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Yes there probably are, however this thread is about situationships. I do not have the mental energy to discuss needy men, scarcity, abundance and how they are cockblocking themselves. Nor will I articulate it well. What was your point in relation to situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:38 PM
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If someone says they are in a situationship, it just seems like mental gymnastics so they don't need to accept the fact they were just dating or seeing someone. It is a construct created entirely by the person who complains about it. It is an emotional process.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:34 PM
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Like I say I am only talking from my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:32 PM
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I'm waiting for some Bluepilled White knight to respond to you. This is PPD after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:29 PM
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Not who you replied to. I don't class dating as a "situationship", its just dating. If we have not had an exclusitivity chat, its just dating. I don't need to add wierd labels when I can just say I am dating. If other peple want to create some magical imaginary not relationship relationship from going on dates, thats on them However its not a term I will use myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:59 PM
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As someone with a Purple Pill flair, what does right to vote, having sex have to do with my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:51 PM
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I can only talk for myself, if I am in that situation a spark is extinguished, it is not ignited. Granted if she went out her way to attract me, then maybe it would be different. But generally mentally there will not be attraction there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:07 PM
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Then go ask out other women, if your friend wants more with you she will get jelous and let you know. Jelousy == IOI.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:06 PM
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Why is that the only woman you are attracted to? Let her make it known if she wants more, she will do so if its the case. Otherwise, congrats you have a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:59 PM
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Christ, be friends with women. Something may come out of it, something may not. Just let the women make it clear she is attracted first. And like just be friends otherwise. But as a strategy in itself, it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:58 PM
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The "Friendzone" is being a friend with the intent of getting a relationship and suppressing your true intent. Otherwise your just friends and there is no zone. Someone being in "The Friendzone" is not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:42 PM
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I'm just going by Tik-Tok women complaining about "Situationships" and how they deserve more, then comparing the compaints to those of guys crying about the "Friendzone". To me dating is dating, be it exclusive or non exclusive. But everyone seems to want to overcomplicate everything by chucking in loads of terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:37 PM
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Oh we do. Some guy you passed in the street earlier may have added you to the wank bank. Maybe your dad has a friend who is jerking off to you. You never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:27 PM
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If you are assertive, you can find out where you stand, then if you have boundries, you can walk away if you feel they are not being respected. This will result in less resentment than carrying out a covert contract. However, it does mean facing the fact you may be rejected, so I guess its easier to make believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:55 PM
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That sounds like a covert contract. Do you live your life by assuming relationships instead of being assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:52 PM
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Really, so you go for 2 or 3 dates and your exclusive. Or are you exclusive after the first date? What if you have just agreed to a first date, are you exclusive then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:22 PM
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You are too sane for this place. Please get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:43 AM
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Then why do guys get annoyed at being "in the friendzone". They obviously have some sort of covert contract in their head, otherwise they wouldn't feel they were owed more than they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:42 AM
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Fair, I would of just called that dating. Until the exclusivity chat happens, its just casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:41 AM
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I'd of just called that dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:40 AM
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Do you understand what a covert contract is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:59 AM
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Not advice, just excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:49 AM
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Why you should never be friends with someone you’re physically attracted to Why. As long as you don't fixate on them, there should be no issues. And as long as your not trying orbiter game or friendzone game. I've seen many women comment on how some men befriend them, and then after a while (months, years), the guy confesses his feelings. When they reject him, he suddenly stops talking to them and ghosts them. I can imagine that for any gender, this would be hurtful (although it's more common am…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:41 AM
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There may be some truth there. Lockdown was what got me reading "The Rationale Male". If life had been going on like normal, I would never of gone down that rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:20 AM
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I'm more interested in what women actually do and what they respond to than what they say online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:59 AM
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Have you seen what happens to a finger when a ring gets ripped off by a machine?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:22 AM
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I T I S A N N O Y I N G R E A D I N G Y O U R P O S T S
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:14 AM
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Did you send her a message without using proper paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:09 AM
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Is that not one of the perks of lifting. The attentionn of those women. Was this meant to be some weird gotcha for the guy your responding too. I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:48 PM
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Yeah but no need to be so vindictive. Just end it there and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:11 PM
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He needs something...... As for Jesus, I'm sure even Jesus has his limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:00 PM
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Second option.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:58 PM
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Life is nothing but work in progress
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:57 PM
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She cheated on her ex boyfriend with his father?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:54 PM
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You found this shit attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:53 PM
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No shit sherlock. It's a homing beacon for this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:52 PM
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Straight for the jugular.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:51 PM
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Just not my scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:49 PM
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If a company dosnt celebrate it though it will look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:48 PM
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Thanks, hadn't noticed spell checking messing that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:36 PM
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Are you a woman who complains on tik-tok about situationships. Do you feel a man should commit to you. Are you fed up of being strung along? If you answered yes to any of these questions. Well here is a redpill fir you. The cock coursal does not stop on your whims and desires. The cock coursal does not care what you want. It's just keeps going on and on and on. Please lookout for my next best seller "Stop the fucking coursal, I want off"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:29 PM
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What exactly are you going to ask about previous relationships? Sorry, just intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:44 PM
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What does it matter, it pays the bills, I have a decent work life balance, I can afford two holidays a year, etc. Why are you so obsessed with peoples jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:04 PM
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Then I would say something is not right in the relationship, maybe she is trying to make him jelous because she feels she is not getting any attention. Maybe he did some shit she did not like, so this is passive aggressive revenge. Who knows, this is hypothetical and stuff has been embilished so it is nothing like the original OP that was quoted. So none of this is real, so its hard to read into.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:01 PM
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I have no reason to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:58 PM
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I've had a few dates, where the other person went on and on and on about their job. Sometimes I just don't the energy to even try and lead the conversation elsewhere. Its just a "It was nice meeting you, but I feel we don't mesh" text message followed by block number and then life goes on. Same if someone fixates on my job and nothing else. I spend 8 hours a day on average at work, so once I have finished the last thing I really want to talk about is work tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:57 PM
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guy stays at home and she says that she is going to nightclubs exclusively to dance and twerk without him. Should the guy object or not? We don't know if he is invited. We don't know if he is not allowed to go clubbing with his own friends. We don't even know if he has friends. We don't know if he even wants to go clubbing. There are a lot of unasked and unanswered questions here. So we can only assume he is a socially anxious, reclusive, friendless guy, who freaks out at the thought of "The Clu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:49 PM
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I only read it a few weeks ago, my experience from reading it was "Cool, some guy has written a book and some of the chapters seem based on me". I think I needed it though, despite it feeling quite personal. I'm currently working through Psycho-Cybernetics but that is slow going (chapter 2 exercise is to re-read the chapter 3 times a week over 3 weeks). But yeah, some people on here, should read NMMNG, it would solve a lot of issues if they are open to change. Its also quite funny being on here …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:46 PM
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Not sure what you mean by that. Unless you mean NMMNG??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:41 PM
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Nah he dosn't "want to blow up a relationship". He will yack and yack about "would" "should" and "could". But by the sounds of it, he will bend over backwards to accomodate whilst being angry his covert contract isn't being fulfilled. Its typical Nice Guy behaviour, except it isn't that nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:32 PM
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Yep I did find that bit confusing, but this is Reddit and its PPD. So its like an Acid Trip without the Acid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:16 PM
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I'm just confused because the linked post is by a different poster. So I don't think its the same person unless its an alt account.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:07 PM
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What does that have to do with the OP not letting his missus twerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:58 PM
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Oh OK, I am in agreement based on my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:52 PM
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Never been to those places. Most of my nights in Belfast were at Apartments, Thompsons Garage or The Bot. Then mostly "The Point" in Lisburn. But this is going back quite a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:38 PM
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You sound triggered my friend. Does female sexuality worry you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:35 PM
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What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:32 PM
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If your in Northern Ireland, is Thompsons Garage still a place in Belfast?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:29 PM
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Maybe he dosn't let her twerk at home?? Maybe thats the real issue here, not the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:27 PM
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What sort of simp goes to a club and buys women drinks when he is in a relationship. Like, why are you buying drinks for women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:26 PM
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Men can monkey branch too. Its not female exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:25 PM
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Maybe the guys on here should leave the apps behind and just goto a club if its so easy to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:25 PM
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Have you never been in a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:24 PM
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Why do you feel sorry for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:20 PM
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Fair. One of my old managers was married to a dancer. We had a lot of evenings after work in the strip club. I started seeing them in a different light as well after talking to some of the dancers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:15 PM
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Insecurities. Its kind of obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:12 PM
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My theory is OP has never stepped foot in a club and views them as cattle markets where people have mad orgies on the dance floor. Some peeps really do need to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:11 PM
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Good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:09 PM
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For me, it is "looks" that initially gravitates me towards a woman and gets me to notice them from amongst the other women. However it is personality that decides if I want to stick around or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:05 PM
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It depends on how the conversation goes after. Does the rest of the convo revolve around work or something else. Someone talking for hours about their job on a date, makes me hear white noise. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMfPqeZjc2c
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:03 PM
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Since when do I get triggered by this? I like going to bars with friends myself. This is going to blow you mind so hold on tight…but someone can see why someone else might not like doing something that themselves do. You keep ranting on about it, don't worry I find it quite amusing. Who said this is my personal example? Do you not understand what an hypothetical is? Yes I understand what a hypothetical is. You just seem quite adament everyone has to change for you because of your insecurities of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:59 PM
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I have commented somewhere else in this thread that I am more interested in what a person does with their free time. If work means so much to you, all I can see, is we will see the world very differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah but who wakes up in the morning and thinks "Damn, today I want to be average, I want to be mediocre". The bar is so low these days. Its easier than ever to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:45 PM
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I agree. The part you’re missing if you also on the other side of that need to understand that if you want to be trusted you should act in a way that’s trustworthy. Yes, I agree. However once I have acted in a way that is trustworthy, the rest is on them. I can only control me. I can only set boundries then choose to act on them or not. A lot of the people in this thread seem to magically think relationships are all about taking and not about give and take. Yes that is why dating for quite a whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:43 PM
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Or you find a partner that isn’t so sociopath like you that demands their way or the highway. Yes, which is why I would hope no woman who likes clubbing ever dates you. You do sound like an insane sociopath. No. See I’m what’s called a mature adult. Where I’m actually conscious about how my choices affect those around me and have the maturity to realize part of getting older and growing in a relationship is acting in a way to earn their trust without being asked. It sounds like you make covert c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:40 PM
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Nice strawman. Why is this argument always “club or you don’t want me to hang out with my friends at all.” Some people enjoy going to a club or a bar with their friends. It is their way of hanging out with friends and socialising. You obviously get triggered by this, so why get with these people? 100%. Because relationships aren’t just about me and my wants but hers as well. Then start going clubbing with your friends and having fun. Maybe revisit this topic if it makes her uncomfortable. If it …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:36 PM
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I fsomeone likes having a social life in venues where there are Men and Women, and you want then to quit their social life. Its better at that point, that one person takes the mature action and ends it. Or.... you can have a life full of anxiety and insecurity. I dunno, maybe the second option is your kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:31 PM
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No mate, if you communicate and are ignored, you walk out the door, or demonstrate you are a pushover and let someone walk all over you. You can only control you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:29 PM
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Interesting town you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:28 PM
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Please don't. This is an entertaining read. Your logic vs insane ramblings of a mad man. This should be published as a book or made into a netflix series or something,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:26 PM
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Why are getting with people who go clubbing if it triggers you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:25 PM
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So if you didn't like your partner going out with her friends and having fun and she told you that maybe you should go out and have fun with your friends as well, at the club. Would you adjust your behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:22 PM
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Maybe your not a good fit. Luckily there is a whole planet of women. The cup is always overflowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:20 PM
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I hope you take your lady every so often and buy her a dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:20 PM
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No not EVERY woman would be OK with that. Luckily as humans we have this thing called communication and assertiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:19 PM
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How often do you go clubbing yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:15 PM
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This seems more a question for men. Like, personally I wouldn't care. Why do I have to sit at home though, am I not allowed out with my friends, that is my only question on this scenario???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:08 PM
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Do rabbits fuck as much as they do, because of their cabbage intake? Once that estrogen is flushed out the system, all that remains is Testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:01 PM
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I think attraction matters initially. However, as much as I hate the word "Personality", being able to create a feeling of safety, creating a feeling of non-judgementalness, as well as creating that "connection" (basically people opening up to each other) is what holds people together. However without attraction nor the ability to escalate, you are just in the friend zone. This can be good or bad (social groups and pre-selection) depending on how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:58 PM
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Fair. On a personal note, I am more interested in what a person does with the 8 hours of free time a day. Lets say you spend 8 hours earning a wage, 8 hours sleeping, then 8 hours doing what? Do you sit on your ass watching Netflix all night? Do you have some sort of passion that you engage in? Be it artistic, creative, charitable cause, physical exericise, etc? Why are you so passionate about those things? How do you feel when you do them? Eating habits? Weekend activities, what do you get upto…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:54 PM
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Where the hell do you live. Do guys actually think that looking like that is a good thing. Like I don't do the mani/pedi care stuff but I make sure everything fits properly, chuck away clothes that are too baggy and everything colour matches (yes I have watched YouTube videos on that shit). But then again I don't base what "The average guy" does as a guide to life. Most guys I hang round with are similarly minded so thought it was normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:37 PM
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You can do what you want. I just lose all interest in a person if they fixate on it or have nothing else going fior them but their job. This is the joy of dating, if my job dosnt make enough. Only to your taste or I find you devoid of personality, we can just call it a day, settle the tab and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:03 PM
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It's the same question as what is your job It's just more direct
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:48 PM
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Given you didn't mention what you later add: I am in medical school, speak 5 languages and my family provides for me all I could ask for. I imagine, you actually are looking for a guy in the top 1%. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:07 PM
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Well maybe Elon Musk is open to dating or having a bit on the side. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:05 PM
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I thought this was to do with dating, not maintaining a marraige. But as far as dating goes, as long as a person can afford dating, and doing social activities, who really gives a f**k. Work is just a means to an end. I would actually rather listen to someone talk about their dreams. Like "Wow you goto work. Guess what the majority of population do, now tell me something that makes you unique". Ultimately, lifestyles cost X amount. As long as they can afford X. That is all that matters. The rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:40 PM
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Reddit is a forum. Not social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:35 PM
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Yes we know men do that. And a man can say men do that without having to use the word "People". We can actually say bad things about our gender. Shockin innit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:30 PM
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The average person also spends about 8 hours a day asleep. Shall we talk about that as well. Do you have nothing in your life other than making money for your boss. Yep, NEXT PLEASE Someone with passion and interests. Not a worker drone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:00 PM
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Developing a thick skin is essential for mens growth. If older women typing nasty thingz on the interwebz upsets them, they defo need thicker skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:45 PM
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OK, if you cannot site your OG RedPill source there is nothing left to say. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:25 PM
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Because women have let themselves go just as much as men have. OK mate, your looking for an excuse to sit on your ass and be average. Well you keep telling yourself "But women do this....", "And women do that........." Whatever makes you happy. I don't give a fuck about the stats or averages. I personally want to be in the best shape I can be in (without becoming a full on roid head). I don't care what the average man does. The fact that 50% of the population of both men and women are fat obese …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:56 PM
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PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to r/TheBluePill and r/TheRedPill. Guess what, Married Red Pill is a thing as well. Sadly, this seems to be a "woe is me" incel freak loser sub. If your that butt ugly, you can't get a date or you scare women off with your face. There is nothing to debate or discuss, except which plastic surgeon you should get,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:22 PM
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As a generalisation do women go for men who are younger/their own age/older. Yes there are younger guys than me, who are in better shape. But guess what, women actually seem to have some disgust at seeing a guy who is younger. Yes there are exceptions, but that seems to be a general theme. So that leaves guys my age or guys who are older as competition. If they have generally let themselves go, then that means less competition. Also a lot of guys have just given up or are in "happy" marriages. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:39 AM
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Its not a boast, its just my observations and personal opinion. I don't do dating apps. I just goto slightly more up market bars, that don't seem to be full of younger guys or are full of younger guys staring at their phones instead of paying attention to whats going around them. I just find it easier these days than when I was younger. And no I don't need to go full blue pill, why would you need to go full blue pill. No matter the age range, hypergamy still exists, solipsism still exists, havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:21 AM
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"Some" older women just seem like their passion in life has been drained out of them. Or maybe I am just not attractive to them. Regardless, they are undatable in my eyes. That said, I don't think all women who are older fall into this, just a larger majority than when younger. Some people can handle life better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:59 AM
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Have you kept yourself in shape over the last 15 years. I am similar age and it seems easier. A lot of guys have just let themselves go, some have just given up, some are full on stressed out workaholics. Just simply going to the gym and eating healthily, seems to be enough to be able to walk into a bar and have women show interest. The average guy at this age, is generally a fat mess, so it is easier to deal with competition. Where as when younger, bad life style choices have not yet become vis…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:37 AM
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Have you tries maxmaxxing for even more optimal results.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:12 AM
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This, the best dates I have had are the ones where I was going on them because I was bored. I was not invested at all, I was wondering why I was even going on them tbh. However, as I was not emotionally invested, the IDGAF was radiating from me like never before. Most relationships I have had, started with dates like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:13 AM
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What does that have to do with boring band and forgettable guys being forgotten if they were even noticed in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:06 AM
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OK Mr Player.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:04 AM
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Why do you care about this. You seem more focussed on controlling women than altering things you can control (ie, YOU). It is easier to wear slippers than to carpet the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:56 AM
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The only therapist I have seen is a hypnotherapist. Things like feeling attractive, feeling more positive, letting go of past events etc. I don't want a therapist where I just talk about it. I want my brain neurology rewired so these things are fixed, so for me hypnotherapy is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:41 AM
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I have never seen it preach that. Firstly, it generally promotes "High Beta" not Alpha Ripped - it just generally seems to say, do something physical. Even "Just Lift" does not necessarily mean lifting Own Business - It just says "Get a purpose". Look I used to view work as work, and couldn't give a f**k one way or another, I just lived for the weekend. Now I do giv e a f**k about my career life is much better. I guess that is misogynistic right as it came from reading TRP. makes over $100k+ - W…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:39 AM
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Most the "Red Pill" flairs on here are Blackpill guys. There alse seems to be an influx of tradcon. OG RedPill is quite rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:20 PM
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Would you say the average guy has confident body language around women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:18 PM
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As a 6ft guy I loved the Netherlands. Loads of women on "Girls holidays". Hahahaha I love it. I really do need another trip to The Dam.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:17 PM
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I've got a mate who just got a single mum preggers. However.... they were seeing each other before she dropped the other dudes kids. My mate had dumped her, then she rebounded with some guy that looked identical to my mate. And now they are back together again and her kids pass as his. When I say mate, its more of a Work Colleague to be fair. His life stories always brightens my mood. And the first thing he did when he found out she was preggers, was buy a boat to go fishing in. Wise guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:47 PM
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Yeah its free comedy. Those guys are hilarious once you have had a beer or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:43 PM
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Who the fuck is romanticizing single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:39 PM
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In 100% agreement. It would be comical if it weren't for the fact they actually believed this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:35 PM
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Can you define what you mean "assholes". Do you mean men that don't bend over backwards, don't allow women to walk over them, men who are assertive and men who have confidence. Also, do not live by covert contracts. If you mean that, then yes, but although they may seem jerks to you, they are just normal people but you believe that because you are so "nice" you are owed what they have, as stated in your covert contract with yourself and no-one else. If you mean actually physically or verbally ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:18 PM
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Yes, and that way of viewing the world means that women are all hypergamous, cock-carousel riding, branch-swinging, beta-bucking "oldest teenagers in the house" who are only capable of loving what men do, not who they are. Would you love a lazy broke ass guy who did fuck all for who he was, even if he never lifted a finger and never got a job. Or would you look for someone who did more?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:13 PM
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Just enjoying the decline bro. Eventually the Apes will take over, Putin will nuke us, there will an all out civil war or the Incel revolt will happen. Until then, just enjoy the decline. Only when one iof the above happens, can we rebuild society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:57 PM
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Its a way of viewing the world. What you do with it.... well thats upto the reader. Want to go insane because you cannot find your virgin wife, cool go ahead. Want to use it as a reason to spin plates, cool go ahead. Want to use it as reason to drive yourself to suicide, cool go ahead. Unlike a hammer, it has no intended purpose. Nor are people who read it and believe it, some sort of organisation with set goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:33 PM
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Chucking money at a therapist is easier than learning to meditate. People want easy solutions and the more money you chuck at a thing, the more "value" it has. Meditation however, is not easy, and its free. Thus it has no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:10 PM
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I run a men-only support group (IRL, no online bs) for guys aged 15 to 30. Respect to you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:02 PM
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I love this phrase, it seems to be triggering people on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:00 PM
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Look mate, I actually don't really care about the Pareto Principle to be honest. Nor swipe rates. Nor a lot of things. All I can do in life, is take care of health, wealth and social skills. Then I put my best foot forward, approach, and get rejected or not. That is all there is to the game. Sure it would be nice to live a life where I could sit under a coconut tree all day and have hot women approach me. It would be nice to sit at a table in a cocktail bar and have hot women approach me. Hell i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:58 PM
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Look, I will speak my truth, speaking my truth is more important than getting in some womans pants. Imagine living a life where you pretended to be someone else, just because you "might" get in someones pants. That sounds a pathetic way to live, don't you think? Also, as commonly mentioned on this sub, jerk/asshole behavior is better than being a "nice" "virtuous" "morally correct" man. I am none of those things, so I will just speak my truth and be myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:52 PM
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And.... so what. Someone accuses me of "trolling" or "picking on people" for speaking my truth. Does that not say more about them than it does me. Do you need social validation on Reddit or something. Look whatever you do in life, people are going to hate you, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:21 PM
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I agree that there is a Pareto Principle. But not that its as set in stone as this sub makes out. At any social place, yeah probably only 20% of the guys at any one time, are attractive. But part of that is knowing where you stand out and asking yourself how you stand out. It is neither fair nor unfair, it is just the way it is. Most guys (80%) would rather do nothing than face ambiguity. Sure they swipe on apps, so they can tell themselves they are "making an effort", then they tell themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:15 PM
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Same. This whole sub is full of ego boosts. "OnLy ChAd CaN gEt WoMaNz". Cool I must be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:11 PM
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Again, you are speaking to me like I am stupid or naïve. I am now blocking you, can't be arsed with your immature bullshit. Social media and dating apps are nothing new, unless your blind or fucking stupid, its kind of easy to see guys validating women in hopes of attention. Anyway goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:36 PM
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Just google Chadfishing, or get a picture of a female hand and create a fake profile. Hell make a fake profile with no picture, saying your a woman. The likes and messages come flying in. Sorry sweetheart, we know the score. So stop with the lies and bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:27 PM
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If a woman complains about lack of options, its the easiest fix. Chadfishing exists, men know how many likes a woman gets on a dating app. So if there is "no one for her", either she is an extreme outlier, or too good for the majority of the population. If she is an extreme outlier and gets no one liking her what so ever, well there is no solution, it is what it is. If she can easily get 100's of guys messaging her a week, and cannot find someone, the solution is too stop being so picky. If a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:17 PM
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I dunno. I have been rejected plenty of times, but I would not say I was "socially shunned", life just went on. But I would rather make a move and be rejected than do nothing. Imagine doing nothing and expecting results. That sounds like insanity to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:52 PM
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As someone who used to put women on a pedestal in a stupidly large manner, all the RP did was get me to the point where I viewed women as just people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:18 PM
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Women can be as picky as they like. However.... if they complain about lack of relationships, men not meeting their standards, where are all the good menz gone, etc. Then the only thing that they can change is their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:12 PM
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Why do you care if women understand this or not. Just do what works, why does a woman's perscpective matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:07 PM
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True "Its your personality that matters", "Just be yourself", "You don't need to goto the gym, your fine the way you are". Start lifting, then its "Well of course your more attractive when your in shape".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:05 PM
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I was happy, because I earned the right to be treated as a human. To me that was a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:59 AM
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Nah I just don't see them as the innocent perfect angels society and media portrays them as. I also don't believe that in a relationship, they won't cause shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:05 PM
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Again, why do I care if its popular. Why would I want or care if its popular if it works. Why would I want to be doing what everyone else does anyway, how would that make me stand out? If it works it works. Yeah dating apps maybe more popular, but I get no responses. Why would it make sense to stick at getting no responses, just because its more popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:11 AM
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It still works for me. So why do I care if its "Dead".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:51 AM
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There are no guarantees in anything other than death. However, repeatedly doing the same thing expecting different results is the very definition of "insanity".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:50 AM
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Nah, just double down on what dosn't work. Makes way more sense, And also argue its better than the alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:48 AM
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Oh no... I have to talk to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:47 AM
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Do you have anything to offer? If OP has nothing to offer and you do. Then your making yourself sound better. Answer this, do you have anything to offer people or are you a pointless loser freak?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:47 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:44 AM
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Being needy and outcome dependent is unattractive. Be Attractive. Don't be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:35 AM
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Speaking for myself, the only person I can speak for. One of these gets me results and the other one dosn't. I am not going to personally say "Dating Apps" are better, as they get me fuck all results. Warm approach is better than cold approach. But for me at least, I had to grind at cold approach a while, before I started getting approach invitations. I didn't get into Cold Approach solely to get laid or get with women. I knew my social skills were shit when I was outside of my friend group. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:33 AM
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I disagree, it would of been a pat on the back, a "You are fine the way you are" and then "Just be yourself". None of "Don't put up with female shit tests" = Don't put up with a mean person "Learn to apply pressure and escalate" = Learn basic flirting and social skills "Level up your body in the gym" = workout
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:49 PM
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It wasn't about "understanding" women. It was about understanding what they "responded too".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:42 PM
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Half of the complaints do seem like "I am such a nice guy, look at me I don't talk to women outside apps, why I am not given the relationship/sex I am now deserved". Classic Covert Contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:19 PM
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ReturnOfKings I used to enjoy reading SOME of the articles, regarding wealth, fitness, style, actually talking to women, meditation, etc. But every so often they posted a pure ragebait article (Tuthmosis springs to mind). Then there was the comment section that made this sub look quite Niceguy in comparison. These articles made the place popular for the wrong reasons. Before then, at least as I am aware, the scene was mostly PUA (until Elliot Rodger went on his PUAhate incited shooting spree) an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:10 AM
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Why are stating the obvious. Why the hell when people say "Get a social circle or friends" would you even assume it means surround yourself with bottom of the barrel scrapings. People generally become the average of the other people they surround themselves with. Like seriously, apply some common f**king sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:00 AM
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How the fuck would I know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:49 PM
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A therapist would probably drag this shit out for $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:37 PM
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Who gives a fuck about women's dTing preferences. You put your best self forward and get rejected or don't . It's quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:22 PM
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Maybe a relationship with no hidden agenda. Just two people connecting, thats it. Crazy to think that for most people connecting with someone physically, mentally and spiritually is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:52 PM
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Dates cost money, but so do most activities where you’re going to have fun and possibly meet a woman. I don’t see any major difference in cost. Yes I agree. I am talking about the dating app, you illiterate autistic fool. Walking outside = free. Subscribing t a dating app = not free. I am not on about the dates themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:13 PM
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Tell me about your ancestors experiences in WW1 and WW2? If you can't you prove my point. You remember Hitler, but don't care about your own flesh and blood lineage. Happy for you to prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:11 PM
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Its easier to point the finger and blame everyone else than accept personal responsibility then forget all the "Data" they look at and surrender yourself to the moment. Plus theres a lot of covert contracts going on, which probably leads to resentment and anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:52 AM
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I know, I know. I'm just being a twat. In all honestly, this place is toxic as fuck. It should be called INeedTherapyDebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:45 AM
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Its no different to Hitler being famous and some medic dude who probably saved lives in WW2... well no one gives a fuck about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:37 AM
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I tell women I am a dustbin man and I found my clothes in a bin, if they ask what I do too soon or mention anything related to money income.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:35 AM
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We deemed masculinity and "Toxic Masculinity" as bad, and besides at least men are now "Expressing Themselves". This is what everyone wanted. You should be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:33 AM
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How the fuck do you get a date on an app anyway. Firstly, they cost money, secondly I am not paying money for a professional photo. I would rather have a shower, iron some clothes and go somewhere where I have fun regardless of woman or no woman. Meeting a woman is just icing on the cake. Where as using an app is just a chore when we have an entire planet and a pair of legs. Touch grass you autistic loser freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:32 AM
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Maybe more people need to read up on "Covert Contracts" and setting boundries. What is this sub, a bunch of people who co-create dysfunctional relationships, carry toxic shame, carry sexual shame, are non assertive, are passive agressive or suppressed, all coming together to blame each other for the lives you all create, by not dealing with unfixed child hood trauma. Ya should all seek therapy and get help. What is this f**king pill crap, a way to cope with being a dysfunctional human or somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:15 AM
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