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I was like that man. Hopping from one relationship to the next, hoping someone could treat me well enough to make me feel whole. The thing is, they can't fix how you feel about yourself. It's not their job to make you better, and the fact that you're writing this means you already know that. Getting over self-esteem issues are about more than hobbies. I had to get over the way I was treated in childhood before I could value myself, because that's where the core problem was. It stemmed from a rou…
/r/seduction06/02/20 04:45 AM
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Thank you! I have friends, guys and girls, who are totally into game and worked their asses off. I'm all for seduction technique and I joined to see what guys have to say about seducing women, but there's so much hate being spewed that it's actually frightening. Like yes a lot of women give bad advice about how to get women, but the one most women agree with is confidence plays a huge role.
/r/seduction06/02/20 04:31 AM
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Then the point you should focus on is finding interests to talk about. It sounds like a lot of your time is taken up by learning how to talk, but when it comes down to it you feel like you have nothing to talk about. So find things that interest you, gaming, a show, music, anything that can lead a friendly conversation. Having good looks and good psych skills does little if you yourself have nothing to say
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:53 AM
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This is great! OP I'm a super shy person too, not great at just approaching and starting a conversation, but I'm much better than I was because an old friend gave me the same advice. Dont just sit at the bar and drink, go with the intention of opening up just a tiny bit, because if your stand in the corner all night long will you really be having a good time and feeling good about going out?
/r/seduction07/12/19 09:09 PM
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Totally agree, the guys I remember are the ones that politely introduced themselves. It's classy, much more genuine than a compliment, and shows that you're interested in more than small talk, without being uncomfortable and forced
/r/seduction06/12/19 12:58 AM
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I think that's what half the problem is. I've been approached by guys everywhere and the most fun I've had were with guys who just struck up convos and were easy going. The hard part is having to tell someone "no" off the bat and have their insistence in your face after that. Game recognizes game, if you're getting no's, then it's time to improve your game, it's as simple as that 💁‍♂️ no doesnt bite
/r/seduction14/11/19 01:09 PM
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