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Around your life. Live it and they will be there.
/r/seduction13/02/16 04:01 PM
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Tricking yourself longterm is not the best. Respond and deal with your emotions when you need to.
/r/seduction12/02/16 02:24 PM
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I like to drink so I drink. My mate doesn't like to drink so he doesn't drink.
/r/seduction12/02/16 02:19 PM
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I tell people that I'm an introvert but they don't believe me. I've worked a lot on social skills, reading people and knowing how to turn it on when I have to. The energy thing doesn't feel true anymore. I feel like I get energy from both, just in different ways. I'm living a semi isolated lifestyle now. Living in Japan but my Japanese is not conversational yet. I have a few friends who I would see maybe 1 every couple of weeks. The best part of this is that ideas can form and solidify independe…
/r/seduction11/02/16 02:41 PM
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Girls don't care about our looks as much as we care about theirs.
/r/seduction09/02/16 12:44 PM
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I did over 3 months of nofap. I was angry and frustrated. At the start my libido dropped and I literally couldn't get it up. Now I fap but know when to say no. Maybe once or twice is all I need. Everything in moderation.
/r/seduction08/02/16 02:42 PM
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Never really liked V sauce. There is something just off about him. Rising above social norms is best. Knowing what they are, acknowledging them and ignoring them when you need. Sometimes I'm in a rush and need to eat and walk at the same time. Other times I just forget that wiping or touching my nose is not good. The worst that will happen is some grumpy おばあさん will try to shame stare me. My response is to smile back.
/r/seduction07/02/16 10:55 PM
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Context is key and every one is different. It's about standing up and living by your values. There is no concrete answer.
/r/seduction07/02/16 02:23 AM
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Context is nice. Something trivial, nah don't bother. Something that threatens you and the people you love, yes stand up for yourself. Don't go looking for confrontation but if it comes your way deal with it. From 'The Red Queen': Girls look for strong character. The main traits the like are: Poise Self assurance Efficiency Perseverance Courage Decisiveness Intelligence Ambition If you strongly challenged in any of these areas it's more attractive for you to fight. But that's very much context b…
/r/seduction06/02/16 05:23 PM
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You are giving off good vibes and she likes that. Don't worry about the number too much. If you are bound to see her again then it works in your favor. Work in number closes as part of your goodbye. Practice until it's second nature.
/r/seduction06/02/16 05:12 PM
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Keep working on yourself and asking. You will get better and better. The cruise sounds fun! Try to bring those emotions to the present. How relaxed and carefree you were then. Car? Really? My happiest moment was getting rid of mine. Never used it much anyway. Now I ride and take the train. Having less stuff feels amazing. Get your license, not a car. Clubs aren't for me either. I much prefer small gigs and art galleries. Occasionally music festivals and language exchanges. Find what suits you be…
/r/seduction01/02/16 08:04 AM
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You're not talking to the right girls.
/r/seduction01/02/16 07:58 AM
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What pictures?
/r/seduction31/01/16 08:55 PM
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Hey I'm the same. Unfollowed all but the best friends on Facebook and barely go on there anymore. I use it for messaging and that's it. All of my tinder pics I've been Facebook tagged in. Mostly from events I've attend, gigs I've played, art galleries and so on. Some are getting old but still reflect who I am well. My next aim is to become the king of events in the new school year (English teacher in Japan). Everyone in town will know me by the end of the year. How's your game off tinder?
/r/seduction31/01/16 01:46 PM
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I'm the opposite. I was getting lots of matches in Melbourne. Now I'm living in Japan and only get 1 or 2 matches a week. Most just looking for language exchange.
/r/seduction31/01/16 10:41 AM
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If I'm brutal I'm sorry but it's easier this way. You're not ugly but you are not incredibly handsome though. Don't worry, there are lots of things you can do to improve that. Start with the basics fashion, health, grooming, hobbies and social skills. Selfies are for people with no friends. It says "I have no friends that will take my picture". Gym selfies are a big no though I don't think that's a problem for you. Life! What do you do? Calligraphy yeah? Awesome! Get an arty picture of you doing…
/r/seduction31/01/16 08:07 AM
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What do you like to do? Do that.
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:59 PM
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First of all, well done for posting this and asking for help. It shows that you care about getting better and are willing to be vulnerable. Have you tried CBT? Cognitive behavioral therapy can adjust your perceptions and reactions. There are many apps, I won't suggest but just search. I've been working through 'Mind over mood'. Doing the exercises is very important to break destructive thought patterns.
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:51 PM
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Drink orange juice. Explain to her why you don't drink if she asks.
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:04 PM
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I didn't say anything about dinner. Drinks and transportation still cost money. Plus my time is precious too.
/r/seduction26/01/16 07:27 AM
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Love the name thing. It's the easiest way to get started. Just name and exclamation mark. My follow up question is "how was your day?", I use this to find the conversationalists and weed out the bad ones. In Melbourne I went on a ton of tinder dates. Had multiple girls going at the same time. It's not to brag but show mindset. I started like you, pushing for the first date, but it was expensive and took time. Slowly I began to talk longer online to get a feel if she was going to be a fun date. N…
/r/seduction25/01/16 09:18 PM
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Cut to Tyler 'calling girls sluts compilation'.
/r/seduction25/01/16 02:10 PM
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I was with you until you started insulting me for no reason. There's no need for that.
/r/seduction13/01/16 08:03 AM
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It can work, really depends on the situation. I'm using tinder in Japan. Can speak basic Japanese but that's it. Also I'm in a low population density area (for Japan). This means many of my matches are 50+ kms away. This means that it's at great cost to me to go see a girl. Pay $30 round trip to meet someone uninteresting is a risk. So, I'm looking for quality matches and chemistry before investing in meeting. Life is busy so I'm not on tinder heaps. Sometimes I'll go a few days without messagin…
/r/seduction12/01/16 04:27 PM
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Is this askseddit?
/r/seduction10/01/16 04:09 PM
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Chill out mate. What are your hobbies? Go do that instead. Facebook can be hit and miss. Some people live on it, others check every now and then. I've only got mine to keep in contact with people. Check your priorities too. You are first always.
/r/seduction10/01/16 03:59 PM
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Joe Navarro touches on male vs female body language quite a bit in his book. Focus on nervousness and IOI's.
/r/seduction10/01/16 03:03 PM
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Look into Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, either through a psychologist, app or book. It's about noticing your thoughts and redirecting them though the help of different exercises. I'm currently reading Mind Over Mood. http://www.amazon.com/Mind-Over-Mood-Change-Changing/dp/0898621283 It's opened my eyes to the self sabotaging behaviors I engage in. Slowly working through the exercises. I think they are the best part because you see where you are truly at. I've had a psychologist before and she r…
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:26 PM
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Don't see how this is related to game but... Ed Mota has some great tunes.
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:04 PM
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Care to share a bad experience you've had?
/r/seduction07/01/16 01:56 PM
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Love hotel
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:02 PM
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I see what you mean but I don't think it's the best advice. Sure facing anxieties in other places can prove that anxieties can be beaten. It's better to just attack the source of the anxiety. Changing our thoughts and behavior with women is a better solution.
/r/seduction03/01/16 02:57 PM
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Thanks, really needed this. Been working on my business, fitness and mental state. Getting through the language barrier is tough but I will try tonight.
/r/seduction31/12/15 10:37 AM
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Selling my car was one of the best decisions I ever made. Don't ever want a new one. Now I just have a second hand bike. My ex would always give me shit for it but I never cared. Me believing it was awesome made the bike awesome.
/r/seduction31/12/15 10:35 AM
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What's my excuse? Not knowing the language mixed with self doubt.
/r/seduction29/12/15 02:52 PM
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Cheers mate, that's what I was getting at. I'm a little more blunt than you at explaining that.
/r/seduction29/12/15 02:19 AM
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I'm not you and don't know what you were doing. If you were out picking up girls I would have said so unapologetically. "You were out picking up girls yesterday". "Yeah so, it's working or I wouldn't have met a cutie like you".
/r/seduction28/12/15 03:50 PM
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Technically, I think you are hiding something.
/r/seduction28/12/15 03:36 PM
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What were you really doing? Where's the honesty?
/r/seduction28/12/15 03:05 PM
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You're more than a 7-8. This doesn't take away anything from your confidence, health, fashion sense or grooming. We all have to work at it. Some of us have to work harder. Edit: spelling
/r/seduction19/12/15 11:27 PM
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What would you rate your looks out of 10?
/r/seduction19/12/15 09:20 PM
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Is there a ELI5 of each?
/r/seduction15/12/15 02:29 PM
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I was learning Japanese for about a year so haven't had much speaking practice. Stopped 3 weeks ago when I decided that I won't live here much longer. Putting all my study time into learning code so I can get a job after teaching. The times I have sat down to study have been unproductive. I don't have the drive anymore. I'll be here for one more year before moving to Korea. Don't feel like I'll come back so yeah, it would be nice to speak Japanese but it's a skill that will be fairly useless aft…
/r/seduction12/12/15 12:38 AM
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Thank you so much for all the advice. I had posted a few times before about this but never got an answer. When going for the indirect approach, should I speak English or Japanese? +1 on line. I usually try Facebook first though. My line is filled with Kanji and pet profile pictures. When people contact me I usually ignore it because I don't know who it is. Whenever I'm asked "Why are you in Japan?" my typical response "Japanese girls". Guys look for dates for me, girls know I'm interested in the…
/r/seduction10/12/15 08:16 AM
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Can you help my mindset? Living in Japan and can't speak Japanese. Fine talking in groups and meeting new people. Just scared to go up to a stranger here and start talking. Feel like Japanese social norms and not being understood are holding me back.
/r/seduction09/12/15 02:25 PM
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Start small and the way you want to look. For the longest time my wardrobe was like yours. Ill fitting clothes and poor style. Wasn't too I did a dance elective in Uni that I changed. First I set some loose rules based on how I want to look. For example, no visible brand names, bright colours, no cargo pants etc.. Then I went shopping. I'm a tight arse so mainly op shopping. It's easy to quickly filter though clothes when you know how you want to look. When trying clothes on make sure they fit. …
/r/seduction04/12/15 02:28 PM
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There are rumors that jazz comes from Jasmine, a fragrance popular among the whores in the early jazz clubs.
/r/seduction29/11/15 02:46 PM
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