notagain909 Archive

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4	[FR] Girl says: "I'm not gonna have sex", end up having sex... The explanation for why women do this is not usually not be seen as a slut but as a safety check. A woman is in an extremely vulnerable position if she goes off somewhere alone with you; if you decide to overpower her there's nothing she can do. So by asking the question she's creating a situation that will throw up red flags if you're a person she shouldn't be alone with. Red flags such as not being able to take no for an answer or reacting emotionally with sulking or even anger. That's why say…	/r/seduction	14/04/17 07:32 AM
3	Seddit, I'm a stutterer and need some advice! Don't worry, I've seen the King's Speech, I've got this. Just sing all your introductions!	/r/seduction	19/03/12 10:10 AM
11	Update: Got advice not long ago asking how to stay just friends with a girl Well for a start, making out in a bed with her is probably sending out the wrong signals!	/r/seduction	19/03/12 10:06 AM
3	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors I don't see the problem.. Nice guys get upset when they see assholes doing well and they assume it's because the guy is being an asshole when really it's the confidence/dominance that's doing it for him.	/r/seduction	17/02/11 11:58 PM
2	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors The term 'nice guy' is misleading, it's not that these guys are nice it's that they come across as weak, submissive and insecure which is really unattractive. Girls think they should like the guy because he's nice but obviously they aren't attracted to him because he's in 'nice guy' mode. It can be confusing for girls that don't know about pickup especially when the nice guy tendencies are more subtle.	/r/seduction	17/02/11 11:44 PM
1	virgins of seddit, as of last night I am no longer one of you That was my favourite bit!	/r/seduction	01/11/10 05:29 PM
1	DeAngelo's "Deep Inner Game" or Durden's "The Blueprint"? I thought the blueprint was excellent for inner game, but that's just me..	/r/seduction	29/10/10 01:54 PM
1	DeAngelo's "Deep Inner Game" or Durden's "The Blueprint"? Don't know about Deep inner game but I've watched about 16 hours of the blueprint so far and everything out of that guys mouth is pure fucking gold. Nearly everything he says can be applied to all social situations as well which is nice.	/r/seduction	29/10/10 01:53 PM
1	Girl saying she has a big ass. I will give you a girl's perspective, Maybe she genuinely believes this and it's not that she wants reassurance or a compliment. You know the way if you know something's wrong with you you often feel the need to point out that you do in fact know it's a problem. This is the most likely scenario, regardless of what she actually looks like. Obviously given the context she could just be looking for a compliment but don't rule out the fact that she genuinely thinks this. If she thinks she has a big …	/r/seduction	27/10/10 11:41 PM
3	Determining self value I think your problem is you perceive your value as coming from external things. Confidence doesn't come from anything external, a lot of people go the, 'I can allow myself to be confident because.." route which is flawed. I think confidence and self value come from getting rid of limiting/negative beliefs rather than trying to cover those up with positive beliefs.	/r/seduction	27/10/10 09:45 PM
1	Can you describe what makes a man attractive without using the word "confidence"? I did put in paragraphs! I don't know why they disappeared:/	/r/seduction	27/10/10 09:07 PM
4	Can you describe what makes a man attractive without using the word "confidence"? Socially conditioning I guess, people wrongly think they have to have certain things/be a certain way when they don't. No one could ever be everything that is apparently expected of guys, no wonder a lot of guys lose confidence. Also a few bad experiences like getting rejected, being shouted at etc. probably plays some role.	/r/seduction	27/10/10 09:00 PM
68	Can you describe what makes a man attractive without using the word "confidence"? Ok, (I'm a girl) I think what's confusing for a lot of guys is the fact that women dislike 'nice guys'. Women do not dislike these guys because they are nice, they dislike them because they are not assertive and can come across as weak, needy and often times a little desperate. For example guys that never have opinions on what to do 'I don't know, what do you want to do?' and the like or just always being overly nice and always agreeing with the girl or never having their own opinion or not disa…	/r/seduction	27/10/10 08:28 PM
4	Each time you fail to act, you lose something Very true. There's a novel called the solitude of prime numbers and while it wasn't really my kind of book it showed me the consequences of not acting in a big way. Definitely one of those books that you remember forever. Most people make the mistake of thinking not acting means avoiding negative consequences but obviously that's totally flawed. Easy to say but thanks for the reminder, it's easy to forget day to day.	/r/seduction	27/10/10 05:52 PM
3	How to start a conversation in a class? Terrible advice! Some girls will be fine with that but some will think you are a total dick if you do that. I was in a tutorial the other week and the TA had just spent some time explaining something to the guy beside me. Now this particular ta is a bit unusual looking, very pale, wears all black, odd foreign accent, shaved head, odd facial hair etc. So the guy beside me (I'm a girl) was trying to get stuck in with some girls behind us and started insulting him, I called him out on it because th…	/r/seduction	27/10/10 05:33 PM