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ADVICEnotanempath/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 12:14 AM
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DISCUSSIONnotanempath/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 07:18 PM
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notanempath/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 01:59 AM
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This happens to you frequently?
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/19 06:00 PM
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I think a solid relationship requires a balance between attraction and companionship. Attraction, though important, is a feeling - and like all feelings it is fleeting. I don't think its reasonable to feel attracted to your partner 24/7. Despite finding him attractive to begin with, there's something about living and spending tons of time together that has an effect of bringing them down to Earth. Its this effect that causes many partners to take one another for granted. Attraction is not always…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 04:32 PM
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That’s it? I mean that’s really just traditional
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 02:26 AM
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I meant in the past. “He follows the Red Pill Philosophy” isn’t a very informative statement so I’m trying to figure out what you mean by it
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 02:25 AM
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Interesting. So he spun plates and cold approached?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 02:05 AM
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Not necessarily. I point out women to my man because I think the women are attractive. If he doesn’t think men are attractive, he doesn’t have to point them out. Him not wanting to join in on checking out attractive guys doesn’t speak to his comfortability with me checking them out.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 12:10 AM
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My man sprung this on me a few days ago: he has slept with both men and women in his past undergrad years when he used to party hard. This blew my mind. He’s so poised and composed, you’d never tell. I don’t really care about his pat - especially not that far back. I love him for who he is now
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 11:34 PM
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Why is this a huge red flag?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 11:06 PM
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Exactly! It’s only natural. We’re going to do it anyway so why not make it a bonding experience rather than hide it from one another
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 03:32 AM
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Dunno if this is RP advice or not but my bf and I sometimes check out other women together. Him or I would nudge the other and point out one we find attractive. I used to be jealous when I caught him doing it himself but now that we do it together I no longer feel that way (not to mention doing something naughty like this is a huge turn on). Also it’s more rare now that he checks out other women.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 09:02 PM
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Yes you have? If yes, wouldn’t that suggest that the boxes of “platonic” and “not platonic” aren’t completely solid?
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 02:51 AM
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Concurrently, if you aim to act out female behaviour, this is the place for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 10:35 PM
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I believe that too. It’s really just a matter of whether the feelings are one-sided or mutual
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 10:34 PM
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Would you mind sharing how you ended up fucking? PM me if you prefer, my lips are sealed. I’d really just like to learn so I can make sure I know what I’m up for if this happens to me (I’m also a virgin)
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 10:15 PM
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Would you change your mind if the guy friend wasn’t part of a friend group and just friends with you directly?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 09:43 PM
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Oh I’m not saying you can’t, it’s just that in my experience (mainly from watching others, mind you) the strongest relationships happen organically and end up budding from under one’s nose.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 08:42 PM
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Relationships can’t be a half-in half-out endeavour. When you find a man that you think is suitable, you should be ready to be all in and start building a life together as a team. Of course this is risky, which is why we encourage vetting throughly. At the end of the day, there is no way to completely mitigate the risk of investing in a relationship that will fail, but that’s just life. A healthy, solid relationship is a wonderful thing and thus warrants a great risk to pursue (just like anythin…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 08:38 PM
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Women naturally have abundance. If you dress up nicely and go out in a social setting, chances are you’ll be approached by some man/men. Dating multiple men is pointless in this regard, because as selectors it’s our job to be picky. We do nothing but waste time if we date a man unsuitable for us while we wait for the next best option
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 08:16 PM
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Have you never had a friend that you overtime started to become attracted to?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 08:05 PM
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I think if you keep a relationship flirty the there will always be something there, so I can’t see being friend zoned a big issue. I could be wrong though, this is just my experience
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 07:45 PM
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I’ve heard the “lose a good guy friend” bit before but honestly I have a tough time agreeing with it. First of all I think that the risk is worth it (as long as you honestly believe there’s a good shot). Secondly I don’t think I’d have many if any very good guy friends once I got married. I don’t care to be close to men besides my husband. What do you think?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 07:42 PM
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He calls me cat/kitten, which always makes me melt. I’m almost 6 feet tall and usually a bit of an ice queen as is required by my profession. Needless to say it’s been a turn off for most guys. My Captain has always been soft and playful with me from the get go and even though I found him a bit annoying at first, eventually I cracked. One day he told me that the way I make him feel is akin to the way you would feel if you had a little kitten on your shoulder that followed you around wherever you…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 07:38 PM
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You would think this is self-evident. The shitty empty feeling I got after sleeping around the first time was enough for me to know not to do it again
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/19 05:29 PM
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Wow sounds like you hit gold with your husband! Number 30 had me like “damnnnn” I’m not familiar with the correlation between TRP and RPW but I gotta say, I’ve been casually lurking the asktrp sub for a few days and it seems to me that a lot of these things that you listed are things that a guy would be berated for doing on that sub. Meanwhile I’d kill for a captain like this
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 06:39 PM
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I wonder what being “good” means and how important it really is. Being kind-hearted is a good thing but sometimes it’s hard to tell if it comes from a position of weakness or strength. For example, does he give money to the homeless out of a feeling of obligation, or just because he wants to do something nice? It seems like kindness is a fine line that can easily be turned into a weakness in today’s society, where there’s a sucker born every minute.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 03:56 PM
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You sound like a bit of a wreck. Learning from your mistakes so you don’t make them twice is the best thing you can do
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 03:50 PM
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Quality women are rare and far between. There’s no specific place you can go to find them. Better yourself mentally and physically so that when you run in to one, you’re prepared
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 03:43 PM
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My man loves la vie est belle from Lancôme
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/18 08:09 PM
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I’ve been having really bad nightmares for a while now that I’ve told my captain about. He started a job that works with indigenous people a week before and one of the elders made him a dream catcher as a thank you present for one of the projects he created. I had no idea about this until my birthday when he gave me the dream catcher as a present with a note that said “I hope this fends off dreams of your fears until you conquer them yourself”. Personally I don’t believe in spirits and stuff so …
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/18 01:36 PM
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Oh yeah, replacing the hymn seems like she’s missing the point
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 04:23 PM
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How would you recommend getting to know whether your bf is someone you can live with other than living with him? Also, the ‘slowing down’ of the relationship because of cohabitation... this seems inevitable unless you don’t live together after you get married no? If it was caused by living together
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 04:18 PM
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I might have misunderstood but did you say he will restore your virginity if you decide to get married with someone else? How does that work
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 09:03 PM
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This is pretty interesting. The way I understand it, attraction seems to come and go just like any other feeling. Just like you can’t stay happy/angry forever, I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect to feel attracted to your captain all the time. At the same time, I wouldn’t feel guilty about feeling attracted to other men, that’s just normal. Feelings themselves aren’t something you can control - they’re reflexive responses to stimulus. However what you can control is the way you respond to th…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 08:08 PM
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