notanewbiedude Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Where in the US is there a decent scene but low obesity rates Wherever you are, OP need not look.	/r/seduction	13/05/26 09:45 PM
3	Not giving a fuck, is the biggest form of seduction. 90% falls for it. It's a little more nuanced than that. I think that women find it attractive when you don't interact with them in a way that suggests that you need something from them.	/r/seduction	06/05/26 12:27 PM
1	how to have interesting convos with women I grew up homeschooled and only really got to have substantial interactions with the opposite sex once I was in high school. This was a big hurdle for me! What helped me was to interact with them the exact same as if they were a guy friend. Don't think of them as "options" or even as female primarily, especially if you don't know them. Chat it up and do the same small talk you do with the bros.	/r/seduction	21/04/26 06:19 PM
0	Are guys men supposed to have common sense or instinctively naturally know how to never be weird or creepy around women? Or is that part of the learning improvement process? Yeah the question is an interesting one, but bro is clearly yapping	/r/seduction	01/04/26 04:23 PM
3	What do you usually do on first or second dates that actually lead to a second date? 3 things have worked for me so far: Relax. Hard to do, especially on command, but think about it like this: you probably won't see this person again, but she is here before you. Have a good time, enjoy the moment. Keep the conversation light. I like dating seriously, but asking heavy dealbreaker questions sours the mood and can make it difficult to measure compatibility, too. Physical escalation. I'm a Christian, so I try not to go too far with this, but at least either hold her hand during the …	/r/seduction	31/03/26 06:16 PM
2	How do you proceed when the girls want a relationship, but you don’t? I know I have a different mindset from most of the people here (traditional, Christian), but honestly, if I was a player and someone wanted to settle down with me, I'd definitely take her up on that, especially if she wanted to have kids with me. It has never been more rare to find a woman who wants to have children.	/r/seduction	24/03/26 02:10 PM
5	Women become assholes when I pursue their friend after they rejected me Yeah. They don't like that.	/r/seduction	27/02/26 12:22 AM
1	It's easy as fuck "Easy" isn't the word I'd use, more like "simple". Not sure I'd escalate things physically quite so quickly, but I agree with the spirit of what you're saying.	/r/seduction	28/01/26 07:35 PM
5	Building a Rotation: Being a Player is the only realistic way men can find Love I ain't reading all that. Also, you're wrong.	/r/seduction	25/01/26 08:38 PM
5	minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did. How am I racist?	/r/seduction	21/01/26 03:03 AM
12	minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did. I'm a Christian, so my standard of "success" is probably different than y'all's. That said, here are the two things I did last year that helped me a lot: For a week, on the apps, swipe left on everyone not of your ethnicity. Most people, especially white people, prefer to only date within their ethnicity, so this will recalibrate the apps to show you more people who look like you, therefore increasing your chances of a match. If you're part of a subculture, hone in on finding people in that subc…	/r/seduction	20/01/26 10:48 PM
2	How I went from being a virgin to having meetings and sex. It sounds like you want to be promiscuous. Why? Isn't your girlfriend enough?	/r/seduction	31/12/25 03:02 PM
1	Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025? I went to a club earlier this music purely for the music and enjoyed it. There were some odd people there and someone offered me drugs at one point, but most people were nice and polite and left me alone. Would definitely go again, although maybe to something a lil more lowkey.	/r/seduction	22/12/25 02:50 PM
3	Why all these alpha males on YouTube still unmarried or still figuring it out Usually they: a) give good advice but don't practice what they preach b) give bad advice and practice what they preach c) don't want what they claim to help their audience get (for example, they don't want a high value woman, they want to sleep with prostitutes forever, so they do) d) they're gay, so they can't get married cuz that'd hurt their brand	/r/seduction	24/11/25 07:50 AM
26	If after a few dates she says she's dating other people, should you stop spending money on dates with her? No. If you want exclusivity, ask for it. In this current climate, people ghost all the time so it makes sense to keep your options open (although personally I'll say that juggling multiple dates is a chore and isn't for me.)	/r/seduction	22/11/25 03:39 AM
2	Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!! How can she be an f buddy if she isn't having sex with you? I'm Christian so my experience hasn't been the average experience I'd say, but from what I've observed of the secular scene, women want to avoid being one night stands so they'll wait for somewhere between the 2 to 4 dates to have sex with you. If she has sex with you early, she's probably promiscuous and her having sex with you isn't a sign of her having devotion or love for you at all, just mere attraction. And with that lack of serio…	/r/seduction	09/11/25 12:35 PM
1	I got rejected by a girl, but her friends still reach out. I'd guess they wanted her to date you and are trying to get y'all to hang out so you guys can spark something up again. But it doesn't matter, it was her choice not to be with you. Tell her friends that you are tired of making the girl you like uncomfortable and won't hang out with them anymore.	/r/seduction	04/11/25 01:59 AM
0	Women's brains have been FRIED by social media and OLD I mean...the same could be said for men. I get quite irritated when I see a post of men rating an incredibly beautiful woman a 5 or 6. It almost feels like they're competing to see who is the gayest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 09:47 PM
1	Angry and tired of don't having sex Where did you learn English?	/r/seduction	02/09/25 08:54 PM
1	Can you be the prize as a male? I think they are in South Korea	/r/seduction	08/08/25 05:00 PM
1	Is marriage worth it? How many marriages are actually happy and how many suck in your experience/circles? Why are most people pursuing this goal? It depends, who are you marrying? IIRC marrying a good woman has statistically more positive life outcomes for men than staying single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 01:36 AM
0	Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do? I feel like that's the type of toxicity women almost exclusively engage in	/r/seduction	01/07/24 09:04 PM
0	Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date? This. Most women wear makeup.	/r/seduction	18/06/24 02:57 AM
1	Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date? That's actually surprising to me as well (I took the quiz)	/r/seduction	18/06/24 02:56 AM
3	Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date? Please give us the results when you get them! I personally will give most people a chance even if I'm not super attracted to them. Being in love with someone always makes them hotter, so as long as there's some underlying hotness, I'm good. But also, there's a lot more to dating someone than looks. I'd rather date a 7 with a great personality then a 9 with a horrible one.	/r/seduction	18/06/24 02:56 AM
2	Have you ever regretted going for the kiss I only did this once. Failed, but wouldn't change a thing about how that night went. Best date of my life.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 05:10 AM
8	Approaching is normal and so many men are doing it I've recently heard it described that, in softer terms, women only want to be approached by men they like or find attractive; otherwise, they think it's creepy.	/r/seduction	31/05/23 06:35 PM
1	What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are? As a guy I realized that one sign is when you have a bunch of friends who are girls, more than your other male friends do. I was pretty popular at college but not the best at dating, as I would rarely ask people out, and plus I had no idea how to tell if a girl liked me or not, having been homeschooled prior to college. But I had tons of friends and knew a whole lot of girls. Come to find out after I stop going to college after a bit and my sister starts going there, most of the girls she knows …	/r/seduction	23/05/23 08:54 PM
1	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero No, you don't, but I'd argue that it's the move	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:57 AM
1	I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself? I would have said "you wanna get out of here already?"	/r/seduction	21/07/22 01:42 PM
2	Should I break up with my girlfriend? Why are you in a relationship if you wanna be promiscuous?	/r/seduction	21/07/22 01:41 PM
1	Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test? The big thing to remember after being mistreated by a woman, especially when they leave you or you leave them, is that at least you're not being mistreated anymore, and it leaves space for another women to enter your life and treat you better.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 04:55 PM
1	Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test? Stupid ones do, yes. Edit: Like, any decent man should respect the girl's wishes and not keep contacting the woman. So if the guy keeps pestering the girl after she says she wants to go "no contact", that's honestly pretty messed up.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 04:53 PM