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I’m a black guy above 6’0. Girls clearly expect me to have some big dick energy. So I guess to each his own.
/r/seduction04/05/24 06:23 PM
1

You should read Alan Roger Currie’s Mode One. By the way, I’m not white. I’m a black guy. So girls usually expect me to make bold moves, especially the kind of girl who is into black guys.
/r/seduction04/05/24 05:53 PM
1

Why are you being passive aggressive? Yes, I’ve done it many times. And it works.
/r/seduction04/05/24 04:47 PM
1

Money and confidence
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:14 PM
3

If you’re so bad at game then you can just directly tell her that you want to kiss her and make out. Sometimes it can be that easy.
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:48 PM
1

Escalate early on every date and then definitely sex will happen. I wouldn’t follow the other comments telling you to be explicit about your intentions, I think you’ve already crossed that line. If she’s letting you suck her boobs, there’s no need to discuss anything. It should be a very natural transition from sucking her boobs to licking her pussy and then fucking her.
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:12 AM
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You should start touching her erogenous zones to show her that you want to have sex. Grabbing her ass is funny but it’s not really a turn on for most girls. Try to see how she responds to you kissing her neck, her ears, and especially how she reacts to you touching her boobs. If you manage to lift her shirt and suck her boobs then usually sex will be a natural consequence. If she says “not yet” then just back off and try again later or on the next date.
/r/seduction26/04/24 12:18 AM
3

At the end of the meeting, you should explicitly say that you’d like to meet her outside of work and ask for her number. Indirect game can easily make you look like a creep in this kind of situation.
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:59 AM
5

The right answer here is actually quite simple, you meet them while performing expensive activities. If you’re truly a high income man, then you won’t mind going to expensive parties, or meeting women through expensive hobbies.
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:43 AM
2

tl;dr: “stop being poor”
/r/seduction22/04/24 11:12 PM
0

There’s a small chance that she’s not actually promiscuous but she’s just trying to imitate what she has seen on her favorite porn videos. If you’re curious about her body count you should inquire about her past sexual experiences in a non-judgmental way. However if you have already given her judgmental vibes about her past, chances are that she has already decided not to disclose it to you. So this approach works better if you do it the right way from day one.
/r/seduction17/04/24 06:13 AM
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I understand my opinion is taboo on Reddit since most people here are American. I would argue that most of humanity doesn’t see this age gap as a problem. In fact Americans seem to be the most intolerant to age gaps in relationships, probably because you’re not really an adult in America until you’re 21, whereas in most places you’re already considered an adult at age 18.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:42 AM
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If you’re not breaking any laws then age is just a number. Some 17 year olds are more mature than the average 24 year old, and some 24 year olds still act like they’re 17.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:09 AM
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I was also at the losing end in college, and in fact, I figured out that it was easier to get laid looking for women elsewhere ( day game, external hobbies ) than in college, because these environments had more flexible power hierarchies.
/r/seduction15/04/24 01:00 PM
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This strategy can be quite frustrating in college if your friends don’t see you as a high value male. Then hanging out with them will have the opposite effect: it will make women see you as someone who is below them rather than as a potential mate. The bar in college environments is quite high, so this can happen even with guys who would otherwise be considered attractive in other social contexts. I agree that it’s a number game and that it works to be more social, but you should also pay attent…
/r/seduction15/04/24 11:46 AM
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Colleges are typically the worst places to look for hookups because it’s the kind of environment where few guys get all the social status and the rest is basically ignored by women. On the other hand, if you’re at the top of the hierarchy, these are probably going to be the most sexually active years of your life.
/r/seduction15/04/24 07:44 AM
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The best place to meet women is a place where you have status. Women chase power and status and tend to flock around the males with the highest status wherever they go. How do you measure your status? It can measured by how much attention the people around you are giving you. If you’re not struggling to fit in, if you’re not being ignored, if people are actively looking for your company, then you have achieved some degree of social status in that particular environment.
/r/seduction14/04/24 11:33 AM
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The reason why there’s so much propaganda for body positivity targeted at women is because they have a strong tendency to suffer from body dysmorphia. I would first go to a psychologist and make sure you’re not suffering from a mental health condition. If you’re not overweight and hit the gym regularly then it’s very likely that you are attractive and it’s all in your head.
/r/seduction01/11/22 12:15 AM
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I agree that this subreddit is corny but you’re watching too much blackpill. Height is not a death sentence.
/r/seduction31/10/22 09:18 AM
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He’s short but he has a muscular body and an attractive face. Women don’t take height that seriously. I think being an Asian guy in the Southern US is a far bigger issue. Moving to NYC would greatly increase his chances.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:15 AM
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NYC is the US city with the highest population of Asian girls, they should be your main targets. It’s also an easier place to make money and play the numbers game. As an Asian-American, you would definitely have an edge over local guys in Southeast Asia and Latin America.
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:48 AM
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Apparently there’s nothing really wrong with you. I think you could move to New York City, as it would make it easier to have an active social life. You could also leave America. You would be in a great position in the dating market basically anywhere else in the world. Maybe you just need to move around and travel more. It seems that for some reason you’re dealing with social circles where you’re not given much attention. The best way around this problem is to simply move and meet new people.
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:10 AM
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Are you American? How short are you? What is your height? For how long have you been lifting? How much weight do you lift on the bench press? Have you ever been to a therapist?
/r/seduction31/10/22 06:42 AM
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Then you’re not the kind of guy that is making these threads anyway. I’m just saying that lifting is the quickest way to get girls if you currently get none. If you don’t have problems getting girls, then we’re not talking about you.
/r/seduction30/10/22 07:21 AM
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Girls don’t care about your pull ups. Can you lift 1.2 times your body weight on the bench press? That’s what I’m talking about.
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:16 AM
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You need three pictures. 1) One picture overseas. If you live in America, it’s a picture in Europe or elsewhere, if you’re in Europe, it’s a picture in America or elsewhere. It’s best if it’s an immediately recognizable landmark ( Eiffel Tower, Mount Fuji, Times Square, and so on ). 2) One picture where you flex your six pack abs. It shouldn’t look like you’re flexing it. You should be in the beach, or doing some sport activity like surfing. 3) One picture where you’re riding an expensive vehicl…
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:11 AM
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You should be serious about the gym, don’t take it casually like most guys do. Do your research on training and diet, and get a personal trainer if possible. Then you’ll have no problems getting women. There are issues with your face but most women will just ignore them if you have a muscular body. You’re underestimating how much women care about muscles. Don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do. Muscular guys hardly ever stay single.
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:37 AM
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Forget about making six figures, most of these threads wouldn’t exist if all these guys lifted at least their own body weight on the bench press. They all say “I go to the gym” but we all know it’s bullshit
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:39 AM
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Looks matter and can be improved if you grow muscle. Look at my other comments on this thread, I have already said that. You seem to assume I’m blackpilled, but I’m not. It’s ok to call people on their bullshit but you jump to conclusions too fast for your own good.
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:34 PM
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I never said I’m lacking in the looks apartment. You also seem to assume that I don’t lift, however I hit the gym six days a week. Again, you need to calm down dude. You’re projecting your own insecurities at random people on the internet.
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:20 PM
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That escalated quickly. Read my comments again. Did I say I’m “beyond repair” at any moment? It seems someone is projecting himself on me.
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:06 PM
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Sure, game can take you a long way if you’re already good-looking in the first place, and that’s exactly what happened to you. However not everybody is starting from the same point as you did, so telling all men out there that looks don’t matter will do more harm than good. I believe it’s much more honest to tell men that, if your facial features and your height aren’t attractive to women, then you should seriously grow your muscles before you stand a chance in the dating market. Then we can tal…
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:25 PM
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I have just seen your profile picture. You’re white, tall, and you have facial features that indicate exposure to high levels of testosterone during your teen years, most importantly narrow eyes, a strong jawline and facial hair. Listen, I’m not saying that looks are everything. They aren’t. But you’re not in a position to tell other men that looks don’t matter if you’re a good-looking person. Does that make any sense? It’s just like when rich people say that money doesn’t matter. It’s true that…
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:45 PM
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Honestly speaking you’ll get over it only after you get shredded. The solution is to build muscle. And by the way Japan is a bad pick if you’re looking for hook ups, you should hop on a plane for Thailand.
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:38 AM
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Are you among the bottom 20% earners for your age range? In other words, do you look broke? Depending on your age, women will expect you to dress well and have your own place. In some countries, they will also expect you to own a car. If you don’t meet these requirements, this would explain why they see you as a fuckboy rather than relationship material.
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:50 AM
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You’re getting upvoted or downvoted by the countries and U.S. states that are the most active at the time of your posts. East vs. West Coast will have different hiveminds as well as USA vs. Europe.
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:45 AM
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Engineering students are a privileged subset of the population. Most of them are white and come from middle or upper class backgrounds. We’re clearly talking about the top 20% of men here, at least in terms of (potential) income. I’m not saying that you’re not giving useful advice, I’m just saying that it won’t be useful for men who are not living in the same reality as you do. “Be clean and groomed” won’t be enough for a guy who’s ugly and short, belongs to an ethnic minority and is flipping bu…
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:34 AM
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You may be suffering from selection bias as most guys who have female friends are at least moderately successful in the dating market. Your male friends are not representative of the male population. There is a large portion of the male population that is totally invisible to women. Most of these guys don’t have any female friends at all. Advice like “just be fit and take a bath” is totally different from “get absolutely shredded”. The first will work for guys with good looking faces who are alr…
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:11 AM
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I believe advice like this does more harm than good. A man’s dating success is largely determined by a single genetic factor: how good looking is his face. If a man is born with an ugly or average face, he will have to make up for that through non-trivial effort in other domains ( achieving a high income, becoming popular or famous, getting shredded, or learning game ). It’s normal for women to underestimate what it takes to succeed as a man. I hear this kind of advice mostly from women and men …
/r/seduction19/10/22 01:14 AM
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It’s a numbers game. You won’t get laid with some girls unless you have your own place. Others will have sex with you in the woods or in an empty beach. Having your own place just gives you access to a section of the female population that won’t have casual sex with a guy unless he has his own place.
/r/seduction18/10/22 08:19 AM
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Unless you’re extraordinarily good-looking, your chances on dating apps are close to zero without the help of a professional photographer or at least a friend who actually knows how to take good pictures
/r/seduction16/10/22 01:15 PM
13

You either have it or you don’t. There’s no way to fake it
/r/seduction16/10/22 01:11 PM
1

Are you in India? People in the comments will just assume you’re in America. You should ask r/india instead.
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:45 AM
1

You should definitely consider visiting India and Southeast Asia, especially Thailand. Although you’re not white, you’re a British citizen, and that gives you a tremendous advantage in the dating market at these locations. If for some reason you can’t move from London, just keep working on your physique and keep approaching women.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:19 PM
1

Have you considered to just go back to India? I believe your chances would be much higher in your home country. Anyway, chase excellence, not women. You’re not in great shape yet. Although you’re not fat, you’re not shredded either. You just look slim. I think your physique is still not up to the standards of most women, especially in a highly competitive city such as London.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:02 PM
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If you even have to ask this question then it means it won’t work for you
/r/seduction10/10/22 09:02 PM
2

Who is gonna stop me?
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:19 PM
1

As in every shit test the right course of action is to give a vague answer and change the subject as if it’s no big deal
/r/seduction06/10/22 05:45 PM
1

Get a wing
/r/seduction04/10/22 07:18 PM
2

If you’ve been through a five-year dry spell and you’re also not on the spectrum, then most likely you don’t meet the minimum looks threshold required to pick up girls in your current environment. In other words, you don’t have muscle. I think game advice will be useless to you until you seriously improve on your looks. Just my two cents.
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:37 AM
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So you already have your answer. There isn’t a secret sauce. It’s all about looks, status, money and game. No game in the world can save you if you didn’t get the looks and the money.
/r/seduction04/10/22 04:36 AM
1

Do you have six pack abs? Are you making six figures? Fix these things first before you worry about your race
/r/seduction04/10/22 03:54 AM
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How isn’t it helpful? You presented the problem, he gave you the solution
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:27 AM
1

I’ll give you some no bullshit advice: Travel. Preferably get your ass out of the United States and go to some country where you can be placed at the top of the dating market just by being American ( Thailand, Latin America ). Stay at the gym. You probably don’t have any real gains to show yet. If you keep at it, women will notice, trust me. Finally, ignore bad career advice and find a way to actually make bank. It’s not a sin to be rich.
/r/seduction27/09/22 06:46 AM
2

If they come off as try hard they’re not professional enough
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:47 PM
1

There’s more to life than dating. It’s perfectly fine to spend your time on other pursuits if you have absolutely no chance on the dating market. Some people just quit the game and go monk mode, not everyone at the bottom is complaining all the time.
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:48 AM
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We’re not talking about most dudes, we’re talking about the bottom 20%. You can’t judge someone in that position for giving up on dating.
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:33 PM
1

It depends on where you sit on the scale. Sure, if you’re already top 30%, then it won’t take you a lot to reach the top 20%. However if you’re bottom 20%, it’s basically over for you.
/r/seduction20/09/22 06:54 PM
5

Sorry, but it is a zero sum game. If the top 20% of guys are getting laid with multiple girls every week, there will be very few girls left for the guys at the bottom. That’s the mathematical definition of a zero sum game.
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:53 PM
2

He’s annoying but the videos are related to the question so I think it’s ok
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:50 AM
1

Women very commonly mistake the top 20% of men at anything for being the average, because they have very limited exposure to average guys. This is true for all the areas of life, not just the top 20% muscular men.
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:32 PM
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You have some odds stacked against you. You’re ethnic, short, and your face is probably average. I’m not saying you should ditch dating apps, but bear in mind you’re not their target public, especially in the country you’re probably living in ( the United States ). That said, there’s no short-term solution to your problem. You could start making 6 figures and subtly flex it through travel pics. You could also get a 6 pack and flex that too, while being careful to not come across as too try-hard.…
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:54 PM
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You’re looking for a relationship in all the wrong places. Almost all guys on Tinder, college, or clubs just want to hook up. You need to be more social in a way that makes sense to you. Do you have any hobbies? Meet up groups? Maybe a religion? Try to find a social group that isn’t just random people who get drunk together.
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:10 AM
1

Another question: do you engage in age play in the bedroom? Does she call you “daddy”? Is it a more aggressive or dominant experience than having sex with older women?
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:03 AM
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Did you lose any friends after you “came out of the closet” as a guy who likes to date barely legal girls? Did anyone ever freak out about it? Just tell me about the reaction of people in your social circles.
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:01 AM
0

We could go on and on with this, what’s your point? That most women don’t care about money? Your links aren’t saying what you claim they’re saying.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:29 AM
0

There’s data out there on the internet, I’m not gonna hold your hand. I’m not on a trial, this is supposed to be a normal conversation between human beings.
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:06 AM
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Facts don’t care about your opinion. Most women will swipe right on a guy with a fancy vehicle, there’s nothing you can do about that. You’re so desperate to prove your point that you went through my post history. You already know you’re trying to fool yourself.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:59 AM
0

I guarantee you that you’re in the minority. And on dating apps it’s the majority that matters.
/r/seduction15/09/22 02:04 AM
1

Listen to u/Professional-Bit3280. Probably you’re afraid not just of woman but also of people in general ( job interviews, speaking in public, meeting a girls’ relatives, and so on ).
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:23 PM
2

Coming over to watch a TV show together is just a bullshit excuse to have an one night stand and girls know that. They know you’re basically asking them if they want to come to your place and get fucked. Most girls aren’t up for that unless you’re extremely wealthy or attractive.
/r/seduction14/09/22 01:07 PM
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If you’re actually making six figures, it seems to me you’re just not flexing hard enough. Do you live in the U.S.? Post a picture in Paris. Do you live in Paris? Post a picture in Japan. Women don’t care if you can afford to travel to your backyard, they want to know if you can take her to see the world. Also, who cares about your cat? Where is your Lambo? Women will like to see your cat in your Lambo. Or at least rent a boat for a weekend and take pictures on it, or buy a badass motorcycle.
/r/seduction14/09/22 09:53 AM
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Not an e bike, get a real motorcycle
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:34 AM
1

You didn’t tell us anything about your financial status. How much money you have definitely matters for getting this type of girl, especially on dating apps.
/r/seduction13/09/22 09:54 AM
2

Get a motorcycle. It’s easier to get and more effective than a car if you just want to impress girls
/r/seduction13/09/22 09:19 AM
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Make more money. What else do you expect to hear?
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:36 AM
1

To be honest I’m not particularly active in this sub, I just randomly saw this thread while scrolling my feed.
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:17 PM
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I’m not complaining, just stating facts. Anyway, you seem to have missed the point. I’m not in the same age group as you btw, I have left the dating market a long time ago.
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:10 PM
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I don’t think that’s news to anyone. My point is that it used to be ten times easier in previous generations to get your shit together than it is in the current economy. Just telling everyone to “man the fuck up” won’t promote a deeper reflection on what is actually going on in society.
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:10 PM
1

You live in the U.S., there are many people in your country making six figures who have never been to college. Try to think out of the box.
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:37 PM
4

Nowadays the average man can’t afford basic things that impress women, like having your shit together and living at your own place. It’s not entirely their fault, it’s also because our economy is totally messed up.
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:29 PM
1

You’ll eventually find a way to move to a more favorable location if you try hard enough. Maybe it will require some drastic measures, like switching careers or moving to another country. After all, the U.S. is not exactly the best place in the world if you’re looking for marriage.
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:19 PM
5

tl;dr: your race doesn’t matter if you got money and status.
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:38 PM
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You won’t get positive feedback here on Reddit because of the demographics. Most users are liberal atheists or at least against conservative ideas. Your life choices won’t be a problem if you’re dating women who are strongly religious. This probably means you’ll have to find an active religious community that is full of young people like you. Depending on what exactly is your religion, some cities may be particularly bad for finding this kind of community, so maybe you’ll have to move. Just forg…
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:33 PM
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FYI, if you’re white and American you’re already at the top of the dating pool in most places in the world, you just need to go to a place which is not the U.S. or Western Europe.
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:54 AM
2

I find that this largely depends on your age. If you’re in your 20s people will think it’s normal. However if you’re a womanizer in your 40s you’re more likely to get a bad rap.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:33 PM
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She wants to have sex with you but she wants it to be “your fault”. It’s a stupid game and there are way easier girls out there, but if you really want to play it, you should focus on getting her inside your bedroom and then taking it from there. You shouldn’t get into the sex conversation until she’s literally in your bed. Just like men, women also dramatically change their minds when they’re horny.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:14 AM
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1st world if you’re rich, 3rd world if you’re poor
/r/seduction21/08/22 06:45 AM
2

If you live in a small college town in the middle of nowhere, that’s part of the problem. If you lived in London / LA / NYC you probably wouldn’t be here asking this question.
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:13 PM
1

Hand her your number. It’s not rocket science
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:54 AM
1

In my own experience, the “exotic” factor is massively overrated. Yes it’s true some girls will have a fetish on your ethnicity but they will be few and far in between. As a rule of thumb, ethnic guys in remote areas of developed countries will spend most of their time dealing with racism and disinterest from girls. Of course, your mileage may vary ( depending on your looks, your wealth, your personality, and so on ).
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:54 PM
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The truth is that it depends on your location. If you’re in a city where almost everyone is taller than you and you’re the only Asian or the only black guy, you’re screwed. However if you’re living a major urban area like London, Paris, NYC or LA, none of these things should be an issue.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:57 AM
1

I think the point is you shouldn’t dance if you don’t really enjoy it. I don’t like dancing so I don’t do it, it would be a waste of time to do it just because I want to get laid. There are better ways to spend your time if you don’t like dancing.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:55 AM
1

Why not NYC or LA. These are no-brainers.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:51 AM
1

It depends. If she introduces you to other girls in a good light then it’s worth it. But if she doesn’t introduce you to other girls or if she bad mouths you in front of them then you’re wasting your time.
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:33 AM
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So date outside college in places where height doesn’t matter. Problem solved
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:30 AM
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