notastupid_question Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
95	How to cope with the feeling that my life so far (M26) has been boring and uninteresting?		notastupid_question	/r/askTRP	06/03/19 06:25 PM

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1	What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going? What you are saying is something I find interesting, you are right, there is always the posibility to find something valuable from everybody. I would like to know how though not only HOW to get all of these interesting bits of information and passion from people, but also where? Bars in my country are not socializing places, people already go there with their friends and stuff and form circles or sit at tables with loud speakers so conversation is impossible. The same is true for clubs. I mean I…	/r/seduction	25/03/22 03:48 PM
5	What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going? I just suck at socializing. I am 30 yo, like where do I make friends? at work? I am at a book club, but I just dont care about other people. I work out but, the same, I dont care about people so I dont talk to others. I know I am "people", but jeez how do I change this.	/r/seduction	25/03/22 01:01 PM
1	Philosophy and Hypergamy You are onto something here. Being "Alpha" is nothing more than the result of power plays between individuals in a given setting based off their skills, confidence and ability to turn the crowd onto a certain direction. You can be a "Beta" in a Basketball court and an Alpha in your classroom. Yet, there is something important here at The Red Pill that everyone seems to forget, your value as a human being is not tied to this. If you are an Alpha or not is not YOU, it is something you have rather …	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/22 04:13 PM
8	Philosophy and Hypergamy I have been thinking this as of late. The fact that love and formal relationships are transactional in nature is something that very few people are willing to admit. You never love someone you are with in a relationshp (in a romantic way of course) by their own sake, you love them because they, as you beautifully put it, play their part we expect them to play in fulfilling our needs as individuals, "when they tick certain boxes". This work both ways and most of the time at a subconscious level. …	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/22 10:49 PM
1	Living in your own reality is the key I also love the gym and have been training for more than years at different gyms and stuff. I have never been able to make a friend there, like wtf. lol	/r/seduction	05/03/22 11:38 PM
1	Living in your own reality is the key I dont know, I find it hard to make friends and have a vert inactive social life. So I am afraid I will become even more isolated if I leave my appartment that I currently share with two more people that make up for most of my social interactions. It does not help that socializing for me is not done by default. I mean I am just afraid of becomming a hermit and that talking to others become harder.	/r/seduction	05/03/22 12:16 AM
3	Living in your own reality is the key BRO. I want to move to my own place but I am afraid of being alone, how are you handling that?	/r/seduction	04/03/22 09:10 PM
1	Single Guys in their 40s+ and Early Retirement I live in a very poor coutry. I am a 30 yo male that currently works in the finance service industry making a 12 K per year. I have a master degree in Economics and bachelor in economics so I have put in the effort. I mean retiring early for me is just not even realistic, salaries here are very low and unless you have connections you are very unlikely to get a got job position. Also it doesnt help that the government can suddenly go rogue and expropiate shit nor the fact that I cannot get out of…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/22 02:28 AM
9	I went on date with this girl couple times, she suddenly said we better just to be friends? I mean, this is also true if the genders were reversed IMO.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 06:30 PM
2	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid I would never know if she put an act, because of the way I behaved in that relationship, I can say it is my fault not putting boundaries since the beginning. I was way too much of a "nice guy" saying yes to everything. She became accustomed to me being nice all the time until I said stop. The relationshio didnt last because we were way too different people. I was more introverted, she was way too extroverted, I liked my me time, she needed me constantly all the time. I became suffocated of the r…	/r/seduction	11/01/22 08:38 PM
2	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid I mean, I get out of my confort zone, I can do it, I can talk to people and sustain a conversation, I have social skills. What grinds my groins is that it is a lot of effort, because it is not my natural and default way of being, it requires a lot of time, mental effort and many many times I just dont care about others because they dont care about me neither. I have to pretend all the time that I am having a great time just for being with others. I envy those other people that all of this comes …	/r/seduction	11/01/22 04:41 PM
2	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid I remember once, I had my gf and she would make me carry her stupid purse around, I mean I could do it once, twice but not all the godamn time, I felt like a tool. So I said No once in a joking way, "your turn baby". She was so fucking pissed damn. Needless to say that relationship didnt last long lol.	/r/seduction	11/01/22 02:37 PM
1	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid I know this is in on a google search but can you please give me examples of shit test women make to a male figure?	/r/seduction	10/01/22 06:00 PM
–	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid I am introvert, I have tried to become social my whole fucking life. Fuck that. You either got it or you dont. I still get laid but it takes a tremendous amount of time and energy. Fuck people	/r/seduction	10/01/22 05:35 PM
1	Following the advice of 99% of people will get you the same mediocre results as the 99%. Lift LIGHT weights, if you want to look good. Hey one very common question here, is when are you no longer a beginner?	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/21 03:12 PM
1	RE: Why n count matters in women and the marriage analogy Yea, it is not that hard, I have a shitty/non existent day game/ night game and I have slept with 20 women more or less exclusively through dating apps lol.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/21 10:18 PM
1	Getting a Vasectomy That would be awesome af, main topics would revolve around focusing on specific deemed attractive body parts and disregarding shit you dont need.	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/21 08:17 PM
4	They don’t even love the alpha, they love themselves and what you do for them. I could be willing to settle for her. But why would I? that "love" is an illusion, I´d rather fuck her brains out, as I am already, than just getting into a LTR with a girl that will probably over time try to find another guy in the long run.	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/21 09:50 PM
3	They don’t even love the alpha, they love themselves and what you do for them. Needed to remember this shit today, I am smashing this hot chick that is all over heels for me. I need to remember that she just like my dick and thats it, I am not special, nor she is. Done. Thank you for this reality check man.	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/21 08:47 PM
1	I've been happily single most my life, but at age 25 being single suddenly feels lonely and unusual. Tell me about how your "main girl" thing works? are you into polyamory relationships? how does it work?	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 04:11 PM
13	Practical steps to deal and own my shit (Depression, not comparing with anybody), introduce humor and be a rock of my own life? I am at the porch right now, never felt this masculine before thanks mate.	/r/askTRP	23/02/21 11:35 PM
1	Make friends by being the initiator The "Old Man Vibe" lmao such a appropiate archetype mate. What a great post	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/21 10:11 PM
1	My gf hit me I had my ex hit me once. I was bluepilled af. I let it slip and continued in the relationship. I thought that she as anyone can have a bad day. I rationalized it enough so it did not bothered me. Do.not.rationalize.her.behaviour. Just get out ASAP! I stayed. She hit me again, harder, harder this time. It did not hurt at a physical level that much, but it hurt and teared appart my dignity. I nexted her. Never again. Value yourself do not ever admit this behaviour from anybody. Why would you even …	/r/askTRP	19/08/20 06:51 PM
3	The young man’s guide for a simplistic way to finding his purpose and fulfilling it More of these kind of posts. TRP needs more of these.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/20 03:27 PM
1	How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic. Do you have to necesarilly be an IT specialist or related careers? I am just a mediocre economist not working in my career.	/r/askTRP	15/04/20 02:33 PM
3	How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic. Lol this seems hard to attain once you are 30 years old, on your way to obtain your second master degree and living in a third world country while being average on your capabilities. Okay just ranting here and whinning like a little bitch.	/r/askTRP	15/04/20 02:39 AM
4	askTRP Megathread February 21 My main problem is social anxiety (I suppose) I am shy as shit and cannot talk to new people, besides I am introvert. I work a 8-5 job. Lift 5 times a week. I have 2 closest friends who are not redpill nor alpha. I dont usually go out to parties, social stuff go out with people to bars, I have nobody to do that. So wtf, how do I even talk?, I feel this barrier between and my coworkers (ugly, fat women in their 40-50s and old guys) what do i do? any help would be greatly appreciated.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/18 04:42 PM
1	Working on your looks is much more important than working on your game AWESOME, I just checked it out, I will read it right away. Thanks man	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 06:01 PM
1	Working on your looks is much more important than working on your game How to master game, what is game exactly. Yes I have read the sidebar, but what is the first thing to do practically to have "Game". ?	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 04:02 PM
7	Life is too short to be a chump. The 80/20 rule isn't a theory, it is law. Not every action yields an equal result. The key to personal success is finding the 20% of things that give you 80% of your results and to double down on those motherfuckers. Here is a guide. You forgot game. Game is the most important trait to develop if you are not natty. Everything else is basically the 20%	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 03:28 PM
1	askTRP Megathread February 14 It does not consume me, it just makes me feel unease, but at the same it fuels my ambitions and solidifies my objectives. However in my case the person I am envious of, is one of my frends, I has not affected our friendship but sometimes I really compare myself to him and it freaking hurts. I will take him as an example and try to be better myself.	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/18 03:23 PM
13	askTRP Megathread February 14 Do you ever feel envy towards people whom you have had the same lets say, "academic background", but somehow they are farther in professional life than what you have accomplished so far? if so.. how do you cope with it?	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/18 05:55 PM
3	What do YOU want? I am from a latin American Country Salsa/bachata clubs are full of hot chicks. Of course there are a lot of guys dancing, (it is Latin America) but if you know how to dance and go to ANY club, you have a high edge in approaching chicks as not a lot of men dance well despite many of them doing it. I know how to dance salsa and bachata and damn, it really helps.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/18 09:39 PM
8	What do YOU want? Lol bro I know that feeling, I thought I was crazy wanting to get rid of it all. I used to live with her, and like you, I got sick of netflix, watching movies, doing the same damn thing, I missed my friends, my freedom, my motorcycle, my books, videogames! my own decisions without reporting to another person. I also thought the same, she was hot af, and what not, but oh boy she was clingy, having a clean house and dishes, always stocked kitchen without having to think about it, I'm kind of sick …	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/18 09:32 PM