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Funny shit, kind of lame tho - haven’t taken her on that date yet. We’ve both been pretty fucking busy. Aside from that though we hang out plenty and we fell asleep cuddling last night with her doing that finger trace along your chest deal so that should give you an idea of where we’re at haha.
/r/seduction22/10/18 05:25 AM
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You stopped reading but left a comment? Interesting approach. Sorry I couldn’t inspire ya.
/r/seduction14/10/18 04:31 PM
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You got it bro. You can’t validate yourself off of the opinions of other people. ESPECIALLY if those opinions are fucking imaginary which is EXACTLY what your brain does when you have a crush. You can never really know unless you ask man.
/r/seduction14/10/18 04:26 PM
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Well of course it’s subjective, I’m just saying I find her highly attractive which obviously is going to impact my approach slightly just based on that merit
/r/seduction14/10/18 04:19 PM
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I mean - fair point - but look at it in a different light. I had oneitis blinders on before last night meaning all of the opportunities that would of helped me to reassure my confidence and social value to myself and others were not on the agenda. Once I took em’ off the confidence I was able to extract from the life I was leading was what lead me to reinitiate successfully with her. This wasn’t a story about me seducing some chick. It was more so a story about how when we put people up on pedes…
/r/seduction14/10/18 08:48 AM
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Lots of people been saying this, feelsbadman. We cuddled but that’s as far as we went
/r/seduction14/10/18 08:42 AM
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True. But I think this post (to me at least) was about how I recognized my “social value”, and realized that my crush wasn’t truly out of my league - which eventually resulted in the confidence to ask her instead of staying silent.
/r/seduction14/10/18 08:41 AM
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Wdym? Our residence threw a party and we just both happened to be there, ended up back in her room for the later half of it. I also left and came back a lot so I feel like it was just two people casually vibing if anything - but hey, I’ll call it a date if that’s what it was
/r/seduction13/10/18 10:21 PM
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Lemme be frank though bro. Getting rejected proves you had enough balls to leave no stone unturned and had the integrity to be honest with not only her, but yourself. That’s a win my dude.
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:21 PM
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Hah that’s awesome bro. Probably had something to do with me being drunk since I wrote this at 6 am for some emotional catharsis
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:19 PM
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Yeah I feel like that’s important lol. Will try
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:18 PM
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Cheers!
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:17 PM
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I mean you shit on my post but also basically called me a popular dude who appeals to women so I’m not mad Hahahaha.
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:12 PM
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Haaah. Pretty sure she might be a virgin. She was telling me some deep dark secrets and that’s the vibe I got. Better to take it slow w/ this one I think. You get out what you put in, yknow?
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:09 PM
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Cheers man!
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:07 PM
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You’re lookin at a newbie here too buddy. Idrk but I felt like she appreciated that I didn’t do anything too intense. We cuddled a lot, and hugged a bit but that was a pretty organic development and seemed right for the moment so I didn’t want to do anything more. I could of left with a kiss now that I’m thinking about it - but it’ll just make the first date more eventful I guess :]
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:07 PM
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Hahaha congrats bro. Hopefully our good vibes keep growin’
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:04 PM
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Yeah, probably should of haha. It WAS 6 am though, so I felt like it was better to close it off there. Could of been a good way to leave though, hindsight is 20/20 yknow.
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:03 PM
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Amen brother, literally my entire vibe hahaha.
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:02 PM
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Date isn’t until a couple of days because we both have midterms and I told her I didn’t want to deal with two things at once. I can give some updates for sure tho
/r/seduction13/10/18 02:04 PM
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Will do! Date isn’t until a couple of days though haha. I told her I didn’t want to go until midterms were off both of her plates. She seemed to like that so I hope that isn’t a rookie mistake or something hahahah.
/r/seduction13/10/18 02:03 PM
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Interesting take, haha. I think my overall reason for posting isn’t because “seduction” was what got me here. It was more so me recognizing a theme that this sub resonated very heavily with.
/r/seduction13/10/18 02:02 PM
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I think I’ve been very gradually becoming the best self I can be, in terms of my appearance though - I really haven’t done anything, especially within the confines of that night. I think it was just a mindset thing. I honestly just think it’s a byproduct of growing up. Second year at uni now for clarification.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:57 PM
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The only thing I’ve ever really been insecure about is my size (kind of tall and lanky), but I’ve been going to the gym recently and knowing the fact I’m getting better every day has been pretty good for my confidence; I’d honestly say I was better off before thinking about her all the time.
/r/seduction06/10/18 11:16 PM
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How should I go about doing that? Kind of inept in that category. All the chicks I’ve interacted with sexually just advance on me. (Don’t get me wrong, it doesn’t happen often - like 1-2 times a year) but I always pull away nonetheless because for some reason I’m scared of any real connection with a girl deep down. (I think at least). Probably because I don’t want my inexperience to show.
/r/seduction02/10/18 05:07 PM
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We’ve done plenty of things as a group if that counts? In those situations she always seems to focus in on me - for example our two friends groups ended up going to a quarry in the forest to have a bonfire for shits and giggles one night and the entire time we were “bush whacking” she held onto me, kind of relied on me to catch her when she fell etc. After we got there she also kind of stuck by my side and even when she didn’t she either watched me to dumb drunk forest stuff like climbing rocks …
/r/seduction02/10/18 05:02 PM
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I haven’t. I feel like that’s my major malfunction here. It’s not like I’m some social recluse or anything - I don’t have isshes generating interest. I’m just a fucking pussy when it comes to actually sealing the deal; in that every experience I’ve had with a chick is them coming on to me HARD and then me pulling away because I find that unattractive - or alternatively - because I’m too scared to say yes because I don’t want my inexperience to show. This is some Yungian Pyschology shit right her…
/r/seduction02/10/18 04:55 PM
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Now that you say that, it feels like I’ve been kind of ignoring all the other chicks that are showing interest in me just because of her. Idk don’t get me wrong just because I haven’t dated etc, I’m not really that awkward around chicks - I’m just kind of a fucking pussy when it comes to escalating shit when something ACTUALLY happens. I guess I can kinda take solace in that worst case scenario. What I’m worried about is becoming TOO familiar with her. I feel like if I don’t make a move soon her…
/r/seduction02/10/18 04:53 PM
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