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Read Models my Mark Manson. He really outlines all of the reasons guys fail to attract women and how to improve them. It helped me a lot in figuring out how I needed to change.
/r/seduction23/03/19 03:13 PM
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A lot of the advice I've gotten has said if you're attracted to a girl you should be true to your intentions and not try to hide it. If I'm attracted to someone my intentions will go beyond friendly banter pretty quickly and it seems like bad idea to hide it cause it can make you come off as insecure. Seems contradictory, or maybe I'm misunderstanding you?
/r/seduction23/03/19 02:59 PM
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Yes, because there's more to life than simply being alive.
/r/seduction09/07/18 11:41 PM
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Pain is weakness leaving the body.
/r/seduction04/07/18 11:43 AM
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I think he was implying something subconscious which definitely has some truth to it. But I do agree that his response is a bit exaggerated. I've been totally normal for 90% of our interactions.
/r/seduction04/07/18 02:53 AM
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It works for J Cole
/r/seduction04/07/18 02:49 AM
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I know I do, but what you're saying also makes sense. I'm conflicted. I'll just play it by ear. If I'm getting signals, I'll go for it. If not, she's pretty cool I'd be her friend. She clearly at least wants to be my friend.
/r/seduction04/07/18 01:40 AM
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"What's up girl? Don't mean to interrupt, but in the city i done met a lot of women, but you from my dreams. And will you come true?" Works every time.
/r/seduction04/07/18 01:34 AM
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Thanks bro.
/r/seduction04/07/18 01:29 AM
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I'm not giving myself excuses. I recognize I messed up a little and I'm ok with that. Live and learn. I'm also totally ok with getting a no. I just wanna be sure it's actually a no before I move on. She was the first one to come over and talk to me after I asked her out. That seems counterintuitive to me. If she was trying to keep me from asking her out, wouldn't she distance herself for a while? That's what I would do.
/r/seduction04/07/18 01:23 AM
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Find out in a more round about way? Do you have an example?
/r/seduction04/07/18 01:12 AM
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How can you be sure of that though? I have no doubt that some girls would be put that label on me. But that seems a bit ruthless to be a universal rule.
/r/seduction04/07/18 01:12 AM
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Thanks that makes sense. We still talk, I'll give it another try if I get the right vibes. I still don't understand why a girl would decline if she was interested.
/r/seduction03/07/18 11:40 PM
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She's a coworker that I don't work with. I thought she was cute so I introduced myself. We spoke a few times, she initiated one of the times, I flirted a little, she seemed receptive so I invited her for a drink after work one day. Aside from being awkward as fuck when I asked her, I think I handled the situation ok.
/r/seduction03/07/18 09:06 PM
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¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/seduction03/07/18 08:53 PM
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I mean I cared about the answer, but not THAT much. I'm not broken up about it or anything. It's just when I go skydiving out of my comfort zone. There's a bit of an adrenaline rush and a loss for words.
/r/seduction03/07/18 08:11 PM
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Thanks. All helpful advice up until... Don't be nervous either As if anyone chooses to be nervous lol
/r/seduction03/07/18 08:01 PM
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So you're saying she said no because I got nervous when I asked? How do you know? Also you're saying she has the mindset of "I was interested but the way you asked wasn't good enough." That's absurd to me, if she was at all interested wouldn't she have just said yes? It was a very low pressure date. Just a drink. Edit: You said I took the easy way out. What's the hard way?
/r/seduction03/07/18 07:57 PM
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I cold approached her when I first met her. I just didn't ask her out then.
/r/seduction03/07/18 07:52 PM
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Well it wasn't a cold approach. I had spoken to her before already. Still scary as hell though.
/r/seduction03/07/18 07:13 PM
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21 I asked her if she wanted to get a drink. Just very awkwardly because I was nervous.
/r/seduction03/07/18 05:11 PM
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I am... I'm just missing something I guess.
/r/seduction03/07/18 04:03 PM
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Right now it's more about me than any girl. It's not the answer that matters, just the fact that I had the balls to ask. Because that means I can make other opportunities with girls who actually reciprocate interest.
/r/seduction03/07/18 04:02 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction03/07/18 03:43 PM
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Thanks bro. Baby steps!
/r/seduction03/07/18 02:33 PM
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