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notbonjovie/r/seduction07/05/13 03:45 AM
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notbonjovie/r/seduction28/01/17 10:11 AM
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the only person that's going to know if there's anything you can do about your acne scarring is a dermatologist. Having gone through accutane and all that jazz i can't recommend seeing a doctor enough. And the only way for you to gain confidence is to start within, learn innergame. tl;dr: go see a dr, and inner game is more important than appearance.
/r/seduction01/12/16 04:11 AM
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It's a great idea but here's the thing, BE ORIGINAL when approaching. You've mentioned that there's only a few degrees of separation between everyone there so chance are you might know someone they know. This is not the place for canned lines and lines you've heard on reddit. I recently was speaking to a girl I know that got cold approached outside one of our libraries (unknowingly), the girl was talking on the phone so the guy got her attention and interrupted her and insisted for her to hang u…
/r/seduction08/12/14 08:49 AM
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It only affects your game if you allow it to! I'm personally not bald, but if you've read The Game you would know that the main character/author is bald and he pulled loads. It's all about confidence man.
/r/seduction19/08/14 05:19 AM
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I'm going to agree with this reply. It was exactly what I thought when I read your post. Now he probably has girls opening him, and they have an excuse if things go south/ can use it as an ASD (ex. "I was just wondering about your tattoo.")
/r/seduction16/06/14 04:25 AM
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Nice story but you didn't really include any of your tactics or anything like that which is usually much appreciated on this sub. I wouldn't say your buddies totally ruined it for you, but they definitely could have helped by building conversation/escalating/having fun with the other girls or just keeping them better occupied.
/r/seduction13/06/14 05:32 PM
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always. be. escalating. it seems like with at least the one example you provided all you did along the walk home was have a "fun conversation". She doesn't want to fuck a conversation. Stop briefly and make out with her on the way, keep heating her up. In the very least keep the overly flirty vibe going. You can't go from hot and sexual to cold and fun, and expect her to immediately want to jump in the sack.
/r/seduction11/06/14 05:05 AM
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Check out the local newspaper to see of there are any interesting events going on around town, there's bound to be one without alcohol. Or even check one of your school's publications. I was recently reading an article about 'secret gems' around campus that no one really knew about. Make a day out of it and go exploring!
/r/seduction13/03/14 01:40 PM
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If you act differently once you meet up she will too. Be the leader of the interaction and immediately keep the same mind frame that you did when texting. Assume that the way she was texting you is the way the meet up will go. Don't gauge her interests when seeing meeting up with her and wait to see what frame she wants to take the interaction. I've had many mistakes where I've done just that, and in most cases the interactions feel awkward because no one has taken the lead of what kind of inter…
/r/seduction03/03/14 08:31 PM
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there are many threads about this. search for text game within the subreddit and filter by 'top'. There are tons, please do not clog the r/seduction up with repeated topics.
/r/seduction20/01/14 04:24 AM
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A cold read is just an assumption about the girls character without having anything tangible to base it off. It can be completely off the wall, insulting (back handed compliments-esque), or even a statement that you think may base off of her character . Off the wall ones usually get the better responses, because they're usually light hearted and shouldn't be taken seriously. Some general examples could be: you look like a party girl; something about you screams "crazy cat lady". You don't have t…
/r/seduction20/01/14 04:16 AM
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I dealt with the same thing recently, but instead of continuing on a dull conversation by texting, I decided to invite her over to hang out. It's almost painful trying to continue a conversation like the on you showed. However, if you would rather add a bit more to the conversation before inviting her out you can always throw a cold read at her and see where that takes you.
/r/seduction19/01/14 10:03 PM
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Might see her at a party tomorrow, should I bother approaching her? I just feel it will be awkward as fuck. On the "up side" I'm leaving the city we're at in about 2 weeks and won't be returning to face her at school ever again.
/r/seduction17/01/14 05:32 AM
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As noted, if you build too much comfort without arousing the girl (for whatever reason) you will, on top of friendzoning yourself, end up confusing her and sending her mixed signals (especially if you've isolated her). Therefore, I feel that it's important to remember to use the more intimate forms of kino to send the vibe that you are still interested in her sexually even while comfort building.
/r/seduction04/01/14 07:28 AM
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if i was to meet her up at her camp where she could currently be, about 2.5 hours. The area where she lives during the year is about 2 hours. And finally, the place where she's going to go to school? Other side of the country. Is it worth meeting up?
/r/seduction12/08/13 03:04 AM
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Prelude: I had a thing with this girl for a while, we liked each other, blah, blah, blah then she had to leave for 9 weeks, I told her I didn't want to continue things because it wouldn't be fair for either of us. Of course right after saying this and leaving her I start getting hit with the "feels" and miss her, she texts me telling me she kindamisses me the same day . Just Short of 1 month ago: She likes a picture on my instagram, i snapchat her, we drunk txts me, i respond ---> she wants me t…
/r/seduction10/08/13 05:21 AM
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damn, looks like i gotta buy a cowboy hat.
/r/seduction08/08/13 05:31 PM
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This would sort of be the opposite of seduction. I don't really know how to get rid of a girl. Her and I didn't really hit it off romantically but she's a nice enough person to maybe be friends. I didn't text her or anything after we went out and she recently texted me "did I scare you off? some emoticon " I don't know how to quite handle it. I have close ties to her family and saying "I think we should just be friends" sounds so cliche.
/r/seduction16/07/13 02:13 AM
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that's the problem with my mindset (what you mentioned you had). I don't want to go about it like I would with just any girl, because you never know what exactly is too much kino etc. I wouldn't ever want to make a girl feel like she was in any way in the situation she may have been in before. Also, thanks for your words of knowledge. Helps to hear from someone on my side of the fence!
/r/seduction07/05/13 12:01 PM
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No worries mate, I'm not that type of asshole. Fucking with emotions is a childish teenager thing.
/r/seduction07/05/13 11:55 AM
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Just a quick note, although I agree with everything you said about traveling abroad since it's very true. That being said, T.O. residents or even those from Southern Ontario area (in general) won't really be considering an American's novelty factor unless the American is from the deep south. Toronto is very Americanized, so we don't really see the difference between most Americans and us unless they're accent is ridiculously different from ours. But all of the things you said can definitely be u…
/r/seduction14/03/13 04:32 PM
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