notetaking83 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What are your preferences that go against TRP theory? Some people are asexual. As Jordan Peterson mentions, some people will invent their own hierarchy and climb it and succeed. If one is getting more joy from haiku readings over sex, then life is grand and gender issues become as relevant as a litter box.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/20 02:17 PM
3	Premarital partner count effects on men - help ...some people here are spending 12 hours a day behind a screen. The best option is to limit internet use for an hour a day, and experience life out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/20 09:09 PM
42	Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRs The best thing to do is limit internet time for about an hour a day, and get on with life. People can easily brainwash themselves into any ideology if their situated in front of screen for the majority of their day. It's an unfortunate situation that so many young people are completely dissociated from life out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/20 10:41 PM
1	Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about women Here's the real issue. People without power, or authority, or some sense of accomplishment, are going online to find a sense of validation. 20-30 years ago, where if shit hit the fan... if you don't have a job, or you get dumped, ....you move on. You cope, and you find a solution. Maybe the solution is, "I need to invest more time in understanding these concepts, so I can do a better job at work." Maybe the solution is, "I should invest in friends and join in some sort of organization to have co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/20 10:11 PM
1	Being a 6 or a 7 on the decile scale as a male is worse than being 5 or under Honestly, this becomes less of an issue if you invest in yourself, invest in your friends, get some type of 5-year plan, and work toward your goals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/20 08:22 PM
1	Young men are sexless because they're inferior to women their age Right, but here's the issue with projecting reality from a poll,... a voluntary poll. Magazine polls first of all are only going to attract people who read that magazine (a skewed demographic). And secondly, the specific kind of magazine consumers taking these polls are typically those interested in the topic, and swing to the far side of an issue (either all in or all out). Why bother taking a poll on a moot issue. If I were to ask people the importance of God's role in their sex life ... and I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/20 04:39 AM
1	When you know a man really likes you? If a dude (that you hardly knew) approached you and said "you have beautiful eyes," imagine how quickly that would change the dynamic of future interactions, and how you would approach or avoid this individual. You might say that's an unfair example, as it's a guy. Yes, but's it's someone you're not necessarily attracted to, who just hit on you, out of nowhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/20 11:33 PM
0	Do women ever deny a man that they are sexually attracted to an ONS because they consider him an attractive LTR partner? Do these same women engage in ONS with men they are equally sexually attracted to but not romantically? My brother had a friend like this, and the guy seemed to have some self-esteem issues; something was very off. I imagine the women he was with similarly had self-esteem issues. This was a person engaged in this frequently, not like a one time thing. A grounded person will usually date someone they have known for a while-- via classes, same community, same church, friends of friends. They know each other's social circles and backgrounds; so, the whole scenario of a ONS is simply not attractive fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/20 11:09 PM
1	What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men? Get off OLD, invest in yourself, and go to a place where there's a higher ratio of women to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/20 08:04 PM
1	Women of ppd, what do you assume of a socially introverted male? Honestly, I think you'll find a bigger gap between extroverts and introverts, than introverted women and introverted men. Most people from my community growing up didn't approach strangers, they just knew people for a long time and hung out among the same social circles, and maybe after years or months asked someone out on a date. So would I approach someone I did not know.... no, probably not, unless they had some type of injury and needed assistance. In this sense, I'm simply a tribal person w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/20 03:08 AM
3	What is your sexual strategy advice to men? I can't tell you what the formula is, however looking at some of my peers who chose the marriage option (now in their late 30s), they definitely have common traits. All of the them, guy or girl, had a strong sense of identity by the time they were 18-22. By this, I mean, most of these people could tell you by 20 what they wanted to do with their life, and where they saw themselves in five years (and simultaneously they were working hard or studying to move toward that direction). They weren't wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/20 08:32 PM
2	My take on why OLD is not a good tool for serious relationships Yeah, I've never done the OLD. It was sketchy in the late 90s and that's where my mindset is to this day. There's a lot of interesting people out in the real world. I met my partner through my previous job, unintentionally. We we're both teacher trainers, and enjoy the minimalist lifestyle and living overseas. We are both western nerds who studied an Asian language, and have similar backgrounds. We laugh a lot. I get the impression that people are getting cult-like with aesthetics and gender on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/20 10:21 PM
1	I think social media and online dating is mentally ruining women I've never dated online via social media or through apps, so I'm not really aware of this situation. Seems better to just go out and meet people, and appreciate the friends you have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/20 06:39 PM
1	How would you deal with a son or close male family member who struggled with the opposite sex? Maybe have him shadow a Clint Eastwood-type neighbor or uncle or cousin. If the issue is social skills, maybe he might need an outlet for male bonding before navigating the world of dating. I would have to find out more specifics. Someone spending their life behind a screen is going to have a different set of challenges then someone who is an atheist in a town full of Christians.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/20 11:39 AM
2	[Q4W] What Do You Look for in a BF? someone with a great sense of humor	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 11:12 AM
1	I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do? I don't know what constitutes your version of ugly. For me, I enjoy getting to know people long-term in group situations before entering the realm of dating. Their essence, their behavior, their interaction with others, are going to be far more powerful assessment elements then gelled hair or a certain nose or whatever is hip these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/20 01:06 AM
1	I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do? Kids these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 09:46 PM
2	I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do? Social skills and a sense of humor. That's about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 10:14 AM
1	Why hasnt the fear of STDs and its untreatable mutations led to women treating high n count men and those who participate in casual sex as harshly as men treat high n count women? A lot of this can be avoided if people skip online and app dating, and get to know someone for several months before engaging intimately. I don't think I ever feared a guy for this new wave interest in "n count" .... honestly never heard of this until entering the sub. When I was in college and high school, it was simply common sense to avoid someone who was sleeping around-- most people knew who was sleeping around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 05:31 AM
1	Question for Women About Self-Confidence and Attraction Every guy I've dated, I've known for at least 3 to 6 months prior. I suspect it's a process of slowly getting to know these people in the context of a group. This was pretty much standard when I was in college. As humans in general are terrible predictors of causation, I can't identify the initial tipping point or foundation of attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 09:46 PM
1	Excerpts relating n-count, likelihood of infidelity, sociosexual orientation and divorce in women. Catholic school 101	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/20 03:05 AM
18	Do people underestimate how much society's lack of proper raising of boys leads to most of the problems that get brought up here, particularly in regards to the proper utilization of the male ego? I worked in a restaurant a couple years back (in my early 30s) and managed a bunch of high schoolers in dishwashing and serving. They really didn't seem that different from when I was a high schooler in the late 90s. The biggest difference however were their peers who didn't have an after-school activity, sport, or part-time job, and that can change the whole dynamic of socialization. If people hated school in the 90s to the point of outright rebellion, they dropped out and got a job, or just se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 04:50 AM