notgoingtodothat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Don’t do what I’ve done! Speaking from experience - the onslaught of pointless dramatic bullshit you’ll endure by being with a brain-damaged, PTSD-suffering war vet is so not worth it. Dump his ass yesterday, and go find a normal guy. There’s plenty of them out there who will treat you much better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/19 01:24 AM
1	How to get out of the little sister/ friend zone? Yeahhh.... untwist your panties. It was meant tongue-in-cheek. Most people, men and women, are not one-dimensional beings, and there is more than one aspect of attraction. But thanks for enlightening us. OP said they “seem” interested at first, and she gets called cute and nice. She probably comes off super desperate.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/19 08:05 AM
63	How to get out of the little sister/ friend zone? This is happening for the same reason we friendzone guys - they don’t want to have sex with you. For whatever reason they don’t find you attractive. Men are simple.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/19 05:32 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Is this how you are? “Blinded by beauty that is woman?” Hilarious. You sound like a massive douche. Please stop thinking you’re in any position to be giving advice.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:41 PM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated These dudes don’t know how to be real. The level of social ineptitude is staggering (but very entertaining).	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:27 PM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Obtuse much? “Girls always...” Ok bro. 😂 The “don’t text her” and “call instead” games you’re spouting off all over this thread. How about you chill out and act like a normal person instead of overanalyzing and strategizing dating/women. You seem really desperate.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:22 PM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated If a girl is into you, more texts will add to the attraction. Not detract from it. Unless you text stupid shit. Your last paragraph is common sense and I’m not sure why a woman’s level of interest corresponding to her response or likelihood to ghost is some epiphany here.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:13 PM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated I clicked on this sub out of curiosity and for entertainment purposes. I don’t have any trouble getting dates or wondering if someone is into me.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:59 PM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Of course... this is really not as complicated as you’re all making it out to be.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 04:58 PM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated I have never given my number to a random dude “in the street” or in a bar/club. That’s fucking weird. Most women do not do this. Which is why there’s all these creepy posts on here about failed approaches to women in public. 😂 Of course there’s already a level of rapport and/or I already know him if a guy has my number in the first place and we’re texting.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 04:38 PM
3	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Btw. If this “turned off most women” in your past attempts at dating, they simply weren’t into you to begin with.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 08:31 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Dude don’t be such a clown lol. We are human just like you and enjoy receiving texts from guys we like. Stop perpetuating pointless games. I can see why you’re on a board about dating problems.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:39 AM
4	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated No offense but... your advice is clearly not working. I just said all over this thread I like receiving texts and occasional memes from the guys I date. The other woman who started this topic 100% agrees. Dunno why you’d tell guys not to text at all. There is absolutely no detrimental effect toward feelings if two people are into each other. Sounds like you’re perpetuating pointless games.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:23 AM
3	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated I could have been interested at the time and lost interest (usually because other cute/interesting guys are talking to me). I may have been only slightly interested vs. extremely interested. The guy may have been hot but then barely texts and seems boring. There are various levels and it’s not black & white. Your hypothetical celebrity crush situation doesn’t apply here. Are you like 20? Here’s one example. I made plans to go to dinner Thursday with a guy who is cool, great sense of humor, and I…	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:00 AM
3	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Haha, so true!	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:33 AM
3	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated No need to overthink this. Of course I like receiving texts from a guy I’m interested in. Just as you probably like getting texts from a girl you’re interested in. Just don’t overdo it and get creepy. How old are you?	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:32 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated If I forgot about him I don’t text him about the date at all. Usually the guy who hasn’t talked to me in a week will suddenly pop up again and I’ve lost interest. I “forget about him” by not caring in the first place lol. He hasn’t talked to me very much so he’s pretty much a stranger. Why would I care about some random. Yes I do have celebrity crushes. Why? Haha. That’s an interesting question.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:14 AM
3	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated At the early stages of texting to set up dates, I’m not into any guy enough to care how often he texts me. So I wouldn’t use the phrase “dealbreaker,” more like I just don’t remember him anymore. Although, every guy I’ve been on a date with does end up texting me daily. So... I engage in conversation randomly throughout the day if I’m into him. If I’m not into him I do a slow fade. The guy in the OP is getting the slow fade, she’s not into him anymore and probably found someone she likes better.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:06 AM
3	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated You would think so huh? All the dudes on here are telling each other to wait 5+ days to make contact again. Haha no. Most girls will have other guys to talk to and make plans with during those 5 days.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 05:50 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Yes. If a guy says, hey let’s do something next week, and never bothers to text and strike up any sort of conversation in the meantime, I forget about him. There’s plenty of other dudes who actually text me and show interest to take his place. Other dude who never bothered to text or keep in contact moves to the bottom of my text list and I don’t care.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 05:42 AM
7	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated I think most of the guys here are in high school or college lol. The caveat is if the girl is actually into you. If the girl doesn’t respond to the texts at all, don’t keep sending them, she doesn’t want to go on the date. Pretty simple.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 05:35 AM
6	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated I’m a girl and agree with this. I always end up setting up dates with guys who text me daily. Good morning/goodnight texts are really cute if it’s from a guy I’m into.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 04:29 AM