nothavingagoodthyme Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next?	Outer Game	nothavingagoodthyme	/r/seduction	17/07/25 05:13 PM
0	I think I came on a little too strong. You tell me. How do I recover?	Fundamentals	nothavingagoodthyme	/r/seduction	06/07/25 09:53 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Getting a girl back Stop talking to her and move on. Some cognitive dissonance but that’s the only way.	/r/seduction	02/08/25 07:24 PM
0	Premature ejaculation SSRIs and Kratom both will fix it 100% but have downsides I wouldn’t recommend	/r/seduction	31/07/25 05:21 PM
2	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? 100% coping in unhealthy ways	/r/seduction	17/07/25 08:42 PM
1	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? She’s 24 I’m 28	/r/seduction	17/07/25 07:08 PM
1	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? I kinda let on and so did she. But worried that ship has sailed	/r/seduction	17/07/25 06:57 PM
2	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? I’ve replayed that moment constantly kicking myself. It really was just word vomit “I’m hanging out with a girlfriends friend that’s in town” because I didn’t know what else to say. I panic easily.	/r/seduction	17/07/25 05:58 PM
2	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? That was what my thought was. Kind of sick of the games. I’ve had no problem attracting women and it’s fucking boring banging people you know you’d never work with and simply feel some base line connection. I might just say fuck the game and ask her if she wants something serious or not.	/r/seduction	17/07/25 05:51 PM
1	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? I think we’ve established some intent. We both at different points have said “hey sex is great but I’m also here to hang out with you” her first and me 2nd. It wasn’t directly indicated it was a girl I just kind of word vomited.	/r/seduction	17/07/25 05:46 PM
1	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? I think the messaging from me is wrong. This is the only one I want a relationship with. And I don’t really do a lot of casual sex at least I’ve never had a 1 night stand I prefer to connect emotionally.	/r/seduction	17/07/25 05:45 PM
1	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? It was really just some word vomit I panicked about. The thing is I DO want something serious with this gal. The seeing other people is really just a safety net because that feels like the day in age we live in.	/r/seduction	17/07/25 05:42 PM
1	I think I came on a little too strong. You tell me. How do I recover? It felt like she said that just to appease me and get me out of there	/r/seduction	07/07/25 07:15 PM
2	I think I came on a little too strong. You tell me. How do I recover? This is great advice. I was thinking about the just friends text because she does have a lot of social clout and would be a good friends. My confusion is that my last text about a 2nd date she said "sounds good, can't wait to kick your ass at pool" since we're going to a bar to play pool. I assume I should still text her something but keep expectations low and expect a pass? This is my first few dates been out of the game with a 5yr relationships followed by a FWB followed by a 1yr relationship.…	/r/seduction	07/07/25 04:53 AM
1	I think I came on a little too strong. You tell me. How do I recover? 100%. Realizing now i need to take a calmer approach - I am naturally high strung and fit the more 'golden retriever' guy mode which isn't particularly successful with a gal like this (a 8.5 or 9 / 10). Taking the more aloof approach for our (hopefully) 2nd date.	/r/seduction	07/07/25 12:47 AM