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1	Feeling uncomfortable around women i find pretty it shows you have experience in this type of pickup (young girls on the town street). i love the calm voice and the slow pace of speaking. maybe a bit more inflection on the voice for faster / deeper rapport? i feel like there could be a bit more connection? i don't know. it seems to be working so i don't think any feedback is needed actually. i find that phil heitlinger character's style to be very yucky, i like your style a lot better. plus his target audience is yucky as well, your girls have…	/r/seduction	30/12/24 02:28 PM
1	Feeling uncomfortable around women i find pretty makes sense, i'm familiar with this point of view since 20 years ago. for me it's important to try to be accurate in my thinking and to be honest with myself. there are some things i would point out in your logic: - for me GF means exclusivity, it's a deal between people who both want this, an equitable deal, the same for both of us, equal partners. i don't think wanting this _automatically_ puts them above you. why automatically above? another point of view is that when someone is giving someth…	/r/seduction	29/12/24 10:50 AM
2	How to deal with going from unattractive to attractive? you're welcome! i think it's normal to care and think about what others think of us. we live in a society and our brains learned to be a part of the tribe in order to survive and reproduce. it's a good thing :) however, there is something to be said for the lone wolf who lives by their own rules, isn't the soul of the parties and doesn't follow the pack. anyway.. for me, when i feel like i'm spiralling in this type of thoughts, it helps to figure out what exactly is my role in those relationship…	/r/seduction	28/12/24 10:41 PM
1	Feeling uncomfortable around women i find pretty you can want someone to be your friend or GF and not put them above you. you know, be equal. there are many reasons why you would want someone to be closer, not just to be dominated or whatever. is it that bad to want to be close to someone? actually we can't help it. it's beautiful to feel like you need someone to be close to you, it's a beautiful feeling, even the disappointment if they don't feel the same way, that's beautiful as well. you don't want anything FROM the person, it's not that th…	/r/seduction	28/12/24 10:31 PM
1	Feeling uncomfortable around women i find pretty imho "good" eye contact is overrated. it's normal to shy away from pretty girls. there could be many explanations, not necessarily your self confidence. for example, pretty girls usually know they are pretty and expect to dominate guys using all the weapons they have. they need this in order to overcompensate for certain lacks. you can see it in some of them's eyes, they play some pretty arrogant games and they stink of expectations and preconceived ideas. i'm 100% confident there are some reall…	/r/seduction	28/12/24 10:20 PM
2	How to deal with going from unattractive to attractive? it takes time. you said "After inevitably being broken up with". although i get where you're coming from, why inevitably? you know, not all women find muscles, haircut, clothes and cologne attractive. i think one way to help is to become more accurate in your self-talk. i believe what you mean is you weren't _mainstream_ attractive, and now that you tweaked your appearance you became mainstream attractive. the question is, do you like the kind of girls that come to you and take it upon themselve…	/r/seduction	28/12/24 09:59 PM
1	Should I accept girls as friends? this may sound a bit counterintuitive, but maybe you could raise your standards a bit, approach girls that you feel like you have something in common with. you can tell a lot about someone even before you talk to them. how they are dressed, make-up, hair, nails, phone case, how they move, their voice and gestures if they are in a group, etc. this is what i meant by finding your niche. maybe for a while you could look at all the girls around you without approaching and start to see patterns. girl…	/r/seduction	28/12/24 03:55 PM
1	Should I accept girls as friends? it sounds to me like you're coming on too strong, both in approach and friendship, maybe you expect too much friendship from random girl you approached and rejected you - but agreed to exchange information for some reason... interesting how you mentioned the preponderent reasons she might reject you only in the "whatever" section (tall / muscular / status / money / whatever). if you're not tall, muscular, status, money, etc, you can have many other aspects on your side if you work on them a bit.…	/r/seduction	27/12/24 03:30 PM
2	Opportunities that initiate physical touch? we look different under different light conditions, angle of the light source, shadows, skin tone, even our expression changes. enjoy these details :)	/r/seduction	27/12/24 11:15 AM
2	Opportunities that initiate physical touch? thx, you're welcome! :D	/r/seduction	27/12/24 11:09 AM
2	How to Connect with Women on the Dance Floor Without Talking? just be yourself :) and take dance classes in the specific situation you mentioned, maybe you could engage their friend who is facing your general direction, then when they're into it look for invitation to join the group.	/r/seduction	26/12/24 09:55 PM
1	Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot? there are always signs of disloyalty. instead of orchestrating tests like a weirdo, better to read the signs. for example, do their eyes light up at the notion of open relationships? sometimes people who are happy in their relationships cheat, but most of the time the ones that do aren't happy. do you talk about what makes them happy? are their needs met? are your needs met? you proposed only two options: loyalty test or trust and hope for the best. these are not the only options. keep your eyes…	/r/seduction	26/12/24 09:25 PM
3	Any tips for women on seducing men? just be yourself! :D	/r/seduction	26/12/24 07:50 PM
1	How to appear to be an object of desire? i agree that bragging is not ok, but these little hints at your value as well... for a woman who in turn has higher value they're also considered bragging. you don't have to worry about DHV, your value is displayed automatically whether you want it to or not :)	/r/seduction	26/12/24 12:04 PM
1	How to appear to be an object of desire? haha or do weird things consistently because that's who you are and you're ok with embracing your inner weird :)	/r/seduction	26/12/24 12:00 PM
0	Opportunities that initiate physical touch? you just described creepy behaviour. of course you're doing stuff, but not really doing them intentionally. a way to look at this is that you're losing yourself for a moment looking at her. you're communicating nonverbally with your eyes, your face, your head, your hands maybe, your whole body. your mind even, because you think how lucky you are to be alive... NOT your usual PUA horse dung what should i say / do next, how do i escalate and all that crap. just be in the moment looking at a beauti…	/r/seduction	26/12/24 11:54 AM
8	Opportunities that initiate physical touch? not if your deepness is chill lol joking aside, it's perfectly ok to look at something impressive for 20 seconds, like a painting or the way the light catches her face.. it's cool to have silence for 20 seconds dude	/r/seduction	26/12/24 07:38 AM
5	Opportunities that initiate physical touch? when any of you is saying something significant / emotional / emphatic / funny / etc. make a point of watching other people talk irl or movies and see when they touch. another point of view would be that there is something called breaking the touch barrier. you don't touch anyone, but people you get closer to, it's ok to touch basically whenever. not everyone is a touchy feely kind of person and people have boundaries (including you, why not?). you may have noticed that when some people touch yo…	/r/seduction	26/12/24 07:37 AM
1	How do I ask a girl out when she is in a group of friends ? agreed, typical "PUA" club act type energy is weird in the day. imho it's weird in the club as well, kinda makes me feel like paying so they would go away. what bugs me is people don't teach that there are a million types of vibes that work in the club AND in the day. instead of getting better at PU, maybe get better at yourself :) like all girls say, just be yourself :) in time, this yourself becomes plenty	/r/seduction	25/12/24 03:38 PM
1	How do I ask a girl out when she is in a group of friends ? maybe the chubby friend has more experience with seduction due to the fact that she has statistically more work to do in order to seduce.. thus she can recognise a player / your superficial intentions. an idea is to keep an open heart and in your mind have the "happily ever after" option on the table. in my experience this increases your chances quite a bit anyway.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 07:10 PM
2	How do I ask a girl out when she is in a group of friends ? i feel like in order to get the rizz/banter/confidence there could be an element of trial and error involved, experience, learning from mistakes, putting yourself out there, etc	/r/seduction	24/12/24 06:54 PM
0	Guys who propose within 3 months of knowing a girl room for both?	/r/seduction	24/12/24 06:37 PM
6	Bars/clubs are a waste of time to game, here are my reasons “Bro“, paul janka doesn’t understand chick logic, he’s kind of a douche. aholes get girls too, but what type of girl do they get?.. maybe they get the type of girl that makes them despise women even more, it’s a vicious cycle. Just like the girls complain that they get hit on in bars, paul janka complains about the girls complaining... don’t believe everything you read :) maybe it‘s time you expanded your library, try maniac high for night game, for example.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 10:41 AM
2	Bars/clubs are a waste of time to game, here are my reasons Why do you keep pushing this angle? It’s just one point of view, not absolute truth.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 10:35 AM
1	Bars/clubs are a waste of time to game, here are my reasons many people aren’t that drunk, they just have a beer or two. Another thing, that’s why we’re thinking about these things, to become good and get the girls that didn‘t go out specifically to go to bed with someone. they’re there to have a good time, you go to have a good time, you get to talking and you have a good time together. One thing leads to another or you just exchange contacts and meet up in a few days. maybe you have a group of friends or more groups of friends that you go out with to h…	/r/seduction	24/12/24 10:32 AM
1	Bars/clubs are a waste of time to game, here are my reasons Why do you defend this position so much? Accept that bars and clubs work for some people.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 10:24 AM
4	Guys who propose within 3 months of knowing a girl marriage changes things, it’s a frame you put the relationship in. more serious, more commited, instead of saying my boyfriend you say my husband, huge difference in perception. And perception is important. Plus the division of assets If you get divorced. Plus now that you‘re married, next step in society is children. children….	/r/seduction	24/12/24 10:14 AM
1	Guys who propose within 3 months of knowing a girl But is it such a huge decision? You don’t HAVE to spend your whole life together, you can just divorce after another 3 months or 3 years :) people also get married on a whim, you know, nothing wrong with that	/r/seduction	24/12/24 10:11 AM
6	Guys who propose within 3 months of knowing a girl Love makes you do crazy things :)	/r/seduction	24/12/24 10:05 AM
1	What are the best conversation topics to talk about with women/ womens attraction to physical strength? I would say a good thing regarding conversations would be to make connections between this topic and that topic. Something reminds you of something else, you say it, bam, the conversation is flowing. Then you can return to the previous topic in light of the new perspective gained with the new topic. And observing out loud the things around you, what makes an impression. All. Not almost all, all. Even men would like to be carried around like babies, but it doesn’t fit the accepted notion of mascu…	/r/seduction	22/12/24 03:18 PM
6	What are the subtle yet impactful things that a woman does that are very seductive to a man? Just be yourself ;) i mean it. And spend some of your spare time discovering who you are, reading, writing, cultivating your interests, dancing (good for keeping in shape too, but also for getting to know yourself), etc.	/r/seduction	22/12/24 12:28 PM
9	What Does Mean To Flirt? How To Become A Good Flirt. - The Fundementals Of Emotional Variance And Verbal Skills. I have a different definition to flirting: anything that indicates your interest in being more than friends. What you describe is only one way, it’s definitely not the only way. the thing where you don’t take anything seriously, that can put you in a “fun clown” box, someone people can’t really open up to, or have deep meaningful conversations with. There is an argument for not being too serious, but not all the time. If being yourself and authentic and congruent involves a more serious / dramat…	/r/seduction	22/12/24 12:24 PM
1	Entering a room full with people you could make it so you pass them on your way to someone or somewhere else, then as you're passing you could say just a small thing, some snippet of conversation to break the ice. they'll reply, you share a small laugh and you move on to where you were going. then after a while you can revisit her and have a longer conversation. you can do this with mostly everyone, including guys, then it's like everyone is your wingman, ready to talk whenever and get included in conversations with other peopl…	/r/seduction	21/12/24 11:17 AM
5	Best response to her “I had an amazing time tonight” text best by far imho	/r/seduction	21/12/24 11:09 AM
3	Insecurity !!! ( Reply from both men and women will be great ) i would postulate that physical features are only a small part of the information contributing to initial attraction. i've seen guys having success who are pretty unappealing from a physical standpoint. there is A LOT of other type of information passing between the two. the subconscious is flooded with stuff. there is almost like an open line of communication between the two minds that we're not aware of. things like confidence, insecurities, money, experience, balanced life, intensity, presenc…	/r/seduction	21/12/24 10:40 AM
3	Types of seducers sounds pretty devious, at least don't promise them anything you don't plan on doing ;)	/r/seduction	20/12/24 01:37 PM
3	Please help me get closer to a woman I'm interested in for something stable. how did you come to be in contact with her? she has a boyfriend, maybe you could ask for help with something so it's not a date. or ask her if you can tell her about an interesting case at work, something to do with ethics or something, hospital politics, etc. something to which she could provide input. another idea could be to bring another woman, a date or a friend next time you see each other, later ask her about your friend / date. you said you don't spend much time together, but when you do…	/r/seduction	20/12/24 11:07 AM
2	How to become good at flirting? you are already flirting and don't know it. at some level people can sense from a mile away if someone is interested. the fact that they engage in deep conversation tells you they are interested as well. not everyone is a flirty kind of person, do you really want that? the fact that you find sexual topics inappropriate tells me you're not a sleazebag. that's good, that means you can attract good quality people. instead of flirting in the traditional superficial sense, you could be aware of oppor…	/r/seduction	20/12/24 08:31 AM
1	How do I seduce my barber? i only troll arrogance, the guy seemed pretty down to earth imo	/r/seduction	19/12/24 01:47 PM
1	How do I seduce my barber? i think i understand what you mean. but people can sense when you're putting them in boxes. of course they strive to make it out of your box, they try to prove to you that they're different, this generates attraction on some level but sooner or later they'll figure you out. you need/want to put people in boxes because of reasons reasons. then it's not attraction anymore, but some sort of.. sympathy? :) it's not them, it's you :) in my experience you can understand people, somehow sense their ess…	/r/seduction	19/12/24 01:42 PM
1	How do I seduce my barber? hearing her laugh, the way she moves, the way he feels when she is touching him while cutting the hair, her speech rhythms and voice - maybe these are all magical to him, is that wrong? maybe he hasn't projected all that stuff, maybe he just wants to get to know her and figure out if all the aspects that are important to him make him feel the same magic :D	/r/seduction	19/12/24 01:30 PM
1	How do I seduce my barber? why do you say worst advice ever, false hope? can you back your statements with reason? also, why do you assume he doesn't have the dinero for a few haircuts? that's weird :D	/r/seduction	19/12/24 11:17 AM
1	How do I seduce my barber? we're all unique. look deeper. you can be with 1000 women and feel they are all special, love each of them in a different way.	/r/seduction	19/12/24 11:14 AM
1	How do I seduce my barber? why is it so to blame to feel like people are special? do you think you enjoy the woman more if you think & feel & treat her exactly like you do every other woman, or if you find what makes her special and treat every woman different, let them inspire you? seeing people on a deeper level is not the same as being a wuss.	/r/seduction	19/12/24 11:13 AM
1	How do I seduce my barber? of course she is different, we're all different. don't listen to those who don't really see people around them on a deeper level. they just care about counting notches on their bedposts. even in sex people are radically different from each other, even if they have the same body parts, relatively speaking.	/r/seduction	19/12/24 11:10 AM
-1	How do I seduce my barber? keep it up, it seems to be working, the opportunity will present itself. maybe next time you go there ask her something about herself. many people go to the barber once a week, maybe it's time for a new haircut ;) i would not rush things	/r/seduction	19/12/24 07:44 AM
1	How not to cold approach from a woman’s perspective love the perspective, upvoted. i wonder why your reply didn't get more upvotes, it's kinda sensible. i'd be curious, though, do you also strike up conversations with guys who own interesting breeds? :) kidding the soup example kinda makes me think you spark lots of attraction without meaning to. maybe you could ease off the charm a bit? might get you further along, like if she has level 4 charisma and you go in with 9, the difference is a bit steep.	/r/seduction	18/12/24 09:47 PM
1	Do guys like woman asking for there numbers? i don't think it screams desperate. keep in mind that many guys want to feel like they're winning you, like the hunter :)	/r/seduction	18/12/24 09:33 PM
1	Girl doesn't remember me after night, because she was too drunk what if she answers "I'm never drinking again!! :))"	/r/seduction	18/12/24 08:17 PM
4	How do you deal with girls/women that are younger than you? just be yourself :) if you adjust your approach i feel like you'd be betraying yourself, but that's just me, you do you. in terms of generalisations (younger women vs older women) i think it's a bunch of pappy pappy, each person is different and unique. it may help to see differences between people as well as alikes. now back to the adjusting approach thing, you don't treat everyone the same at all times, there are many factors and some flexibility is warranted.	/r/seduction	03/08/24 07:22 AM
11	Approached and got a GF, now how to get in state for benefits in other areas of life? i was thinking about the same idea with approaching randos for chit-chat, then you said it. i have a few addendums: one objective could be to achieve the "god mode" as you put it another objective could be to share good vibes with people around you, brightening up their day. it doesn't mean talk about positive stuff, just interacting with another can mean a lot, bounce off ideas, two heads are generally better than one, except if they're both morons lol devise some sort of project for yourself, …	/r/seduction	13/07/24 03:00 PM
1	Anyone remember this? Paul Janka (FUNNY) very good that you find inspiration :) i'm not familiar, but just by this video alone, is he really that special?	/r/seduction	05/07/24 07:36 AM
5	Do you ever meet a girl but you know you can’t afford her lifestyle so you just never shoot your shot? it's not important unless she decides it's important. feelings are always more important than money. well, not always :) but romance .. let's just say romance has a way ;)	/r/seduction	05/07/24 07:22 AM
10	How long should you wait before texting her after getting her number? several years ago the "rule" was to wait for 3 days. i think it's best to go with your gut, if you felt it was too early to text the same night based on your interaction and perception, you were _probably_ right :) then in time your gut will become more accurate	/r/seduction	09/06/24 12:39 PM
4	How to handle women scared by my approach body language is very important, tone of voice, but you can also say something like "sorry, i know i can come off as a bit intimidating but i really mean well" and smile maybe avoid making eye contact 100% of the time maybe blink more often physical distance between you and her is very important, how far are you? not too close, not too far, give her some territory there is a theory that you should talk to them like to the side, almost over the shoulder, but from what i've seen people tend to app…	/r/seduction	07/06/24 08:52 AM
0	How an endearing look is enough, then look at her face, then touch the face bonus: point at the bosom then point at yourself	/r/seduction	06/06/24 01:44 PM
0	Alpha male you can be an alpha male, of course. the key is to find your niche, what suits you the best, your personality, your dreams, your qualities, your own personal charm. you dig and learn until you progressively get to know yourself well. in the meantime you try to learn and become better at the things you're already good at naturally, and try to eliminate your weaknesses. surefire way to become alpha, not pretend and adopt, just work with yourself and your projects. when that girl said she wanted an…	/r/seduction	03/06/24 02:01 PM
2	Good Ways to End Dates on a High Note? the ideas you suggested are definitely worth trying, sounds good i had a reaction when you said you're playing it cool after the date with the texting. even the "i had a nice time" that you say at the end sounds a bit too cool. it seems like the date is pretty hot overall with her chasing you and the qualifying and the escalating and the rapport and stuff, but then at the end you're cool. maybe too cool? maybe show some excitement to know her, to see her again. it could make you out like such a …	/r/seduction	28/05/24 02:54 PM
4	Attracted to a divorced woman approach her directly? yes tell her how beautiful she is? maybe try a different compliment, something deeper about what it is about her that attracts you? the beautiful thing could work as well ask for her number? maybe ask to see her, then the number is just a consequence.	/r/seduction	21/05/24 06:33 AM
0	Short car ride for a first date? i think flowers first thing you could take her someplace that's familiar to you, somewhere you like, and show her stuff as you pass, tell her true short stories about different places. this way she can get to know you. meanwhile you get to know her. it's just a car ride so keep it chill but fun. tell her if things go well you might consider eloping with her to the seaside or Paris that very same day. also, try to drive as smooth as you can, no sharp turns or brakes. exception to this is you have…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 01:28 PM
6	How do I approach this girl at my workplace? you could employ the use of imagination: make a fake memo of some sort and hand it to her personally, something funnyish send her flowers with a playful note for her boyfriend make a fake fun petition for the office and go to her first. tell her if she doesn't sign, the petition is doomed to fail because of course she is the ring-leader go to extensive lengths to invent a project where the two departments could work together, get it approved with management, and choose her as liaison make anothe…	/r/seduction	13/05/24 04:32 PM
4	The 5 Pillars of Seduction i was thinking also about the ability and willingness to really see someone and love them for who they are, in a deep way that makes every moment you spend with them special, bot for you and her. you mentioned showing her that you 'get' her. i think there could be more said on this topic, i feel like it's really important, everyone has a certain something about them, the way they move and think and look at things and people, how they approach stuff, the way music feels when you listen together, …	/r/seduction	10/05/24 03:41 PM
6	The 5 Pillars of Seduction oh, and also developing your weird side, being comfortable with your own quirks and what makes you different, then finding your niche when it comes to women. i feel like instead of being able to attract just about anyone, for me it's more rewarding to be able to especially attract the ones that really interest me.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 03:24 PM
18	The 5 Pillars of Seduction maybe you could also talk about raising your standards, both physically and especially intellectually. i feel like many successful PUAs don't really get the best women, the really unique and spectacular ones, they just mostly stick to 9s and 10s physically but when it comes to preoccupations and intellect, they target the medium range.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 03:15 PM
2	Was I too nice? the opposite of a classic nice guy isn't being a creep. what her ex was doing in high-school was very creepy, it's not wrong to think so or say so. it's ok to be nice as long as you don't sacrifice dignity. if someone asks you to do something and you don't want to, it's ok to say no. saying no doesn't make you not nice. it's also ok to not say everything you think. maybe you think she looks good in that dress or haircut but if you feel or think it's not the time for that compliment, it's ok to n…	/r/seduction	07/05/24 08:16 AM
2	'Heyy' it's really a thing that girls do :) don't some guys do it too? i guess it's that special kind of enthusiasm that comes over a person when they're initiating any kind of communication with someone they're into. it's normal. so you got the heyy down, now it's time for step 2: the what's up :) kidding, cool observation dude!	/r/seduction	06/05/24 04:42 PM
2	Good connection and genuine compliments but no hook? you don't know that there's no attraction from her. maybe that's how she is, needs more time or something. does she have a boyfriend? maybe she doesn't want much from you. my suggestion would be to treat her in a way so that you're ok with what you're getting out of this relationship. if you're not cool with her not reciprocating, give her less. and put her in a box in your head so that you're fine with your relationship as is. don't expect more. the thing that concerns me is the fact that she d…	/r/seduction	04/05/24 06:59 AM
4	Nurse at the hospital gave me her number because she wants to work in the same profession as me??? it seems a bit of a stretch to go from silly things like tattoo talk to switching careers, my guesstimate is that she's into you and wanted an excuse to talk to you some more. i have a hypothesis that in chick logic, what she really wanted to do was flatter you and get you to feel like a big man by talking about the ins and outs of the IT world, teaching her tips and tricks. i see a few tactics coming along going forward, just about this IT talk: disqualify her somehow in a teasing playful manne…	/r/seduction	02/05/24 07:30 PM
31	For the guys who had zero experience with women first, women are human beings. different from men, but still human. talk to them like you talk to yourself. improve the way you talk to yourself. try to be honest (this doesn't mean say EVERYTHING you think, just don't tell lies). don't try to manipulate women, it's very transparent if they have average IQ or more, especially long-term. also manipulating people damages your self esteem because it says you are not enough. don't take yourself too seriously and try to be humble. learn to support wo…	/r/seduction	02/05/24 10:11 AM