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Ur original statement that the first person responded to was u claiming men who do not have dating success do not put effort into their looks - just world fallacy again And the person pointed out there is only so much a man can do to improve their attractiveness , unless (EMPHASIS ON THIS PART SINCE ITS WHAT WE ARE ARGUING ) They were already significantly fat Once again, this has nothing to do with just world fallacy Does saying being fat has no bearing on attractiveness at all Have the same me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:35 AM
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You responded to me when I was talking to someone else about men being able to improve themselves. You don't get to complain about that being the topic when it was ALWAYS the starting topic. If you want to exclusively talk about whether losing fat makes you more attractive, then fine. Let me be clear, LOSING FAT MAKES YOU SIGNIFICANTLY MORE ATTRACTIVE. I have provided evidence to this claim, you have not. “The fact that fat men are capable of getting into a relationship is not proof that being f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:35 AM
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Okay, and if I go through the McDonald's drive thru the worker at the window might pull out a glock and shoot me in the face. That doesn't make it a relevant factor in whether I'm going to go to McDonald's.
/r/seduction25/07/25 01:15 AM
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If you think a gym is going to trespass a guy who occasionally tries to hit on girls there you are insanely paranoid. Especially when it's done the way OP did it.
/r/seduction25/07/25 01:08 AM
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I don't know what the fuck you're talking about with "moral fallacy". It has no relevance to this conversation whatsoever. My original claim was that men can improve their looks. You responded with something to do with "ugly skinny men being less attractive than handsome fat men" (which is just a form "begging the question" since you want to get into fallacies, but whatever). I naturally assumed that you were suggesting that being overweight did not significantly impact how attractive you are to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:55 AM
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Quote by a forest ranger at Yosemite National Park on why it is hard to design the perfect garbage bin to keep bears from breaking into it: "There is considerable overlap between the intelligence of the smartest bears and the dumbest tourists." Any fuckboy with shitty enough game will be spotted instantly, and and the good men with game are never going to end up with the average woman. The only men left are the fuckboys using women for sex who pass the test and the good men who aren't high enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:54 PM
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If women put high effort into 3/4 things they are still putting in more effort than average man who currently puts high effort into 0/4 things. If the average man was 15% body fat this would be a legitimate argument, but they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:06 PM
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You are just going in circles. My point was, still is, and always will be that men CAN IMPROVE THEIR LOOKS TO MAKE THEMSELVES SIGNIFICANTLY MORE ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN. You have repeatedly made the claim that they can not. Everything I've said has been directly relevant to that claim. No way in this thread did I say fat doesn’t decrease ur attractiveness good job on proving the obvious? ??? You literally said this. ur evidence is literally that the avg men is fat , no shit because being fat doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:46 PM
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Those obese women still generally wear decent clothes, groom themselves, and style themselves with makeup to make themselves more attractive, which is kind of the whole point. Those women are still pursued by men despite men generally being less forgiving about fat than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:27 PM
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This is exactly what I mean by poor reading comprehension. We already stated multiple times it would technically help but it is not a significant difference yet U kept changing ur argument to “well u said it doesn’t help at all” when nobody said so I never once changed my argument. Improving your appearance WILL significantly improve your chances with women. ur evidence is literally that the avg men is fat Nowhere did I imply that the average man being fat is "evidence" of anything. no shit beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:22 PM
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I haven't edited anything. You just have poor reading comprehension and don't even understand 90% of what I'm saying. Telling people to Improve themselves just to get a girlfriend is shit advice You should improve yourself just for the sake of improving yourself. But the idea that it won't help you with women is just wrong. I can tell you have an extremely shitty sense of self-worth, and that alone probably hurts your chances with women more than anything related to your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:33 AM
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Frankly mate I couldn’t give a fuck about ur anecdotal evidence about seeing ugly guys with girlfriends The blanket claim was that ugly guys can't get girlfriends. It only takes anecdotal evidence to debunk a blanket claim. If you say a there's no such thing as black cars and I say "well I've seen black cars before" you can't say it's invalid because it's "anecdotal evidence" The original statement was that men who do not have success dating no put effort into their looks which isn’t always true…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:03 AM
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I don't understand what YOUR point is. Yes, some people are naturally ugly. You originally made it seem like ugly guys trying to improve their appearance are doing it in vain. I pointed out that there are ugly men who get women so obviously that's not strictly true. I brought up weight because the original post was about the 50/50 gender ratio. Fat tends to hurt men more and the average man has an unattractive level of body fat. If you are already around 15% or lower BF that's great. It just mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:12 AM
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Are you on any of the dating apps? Sliding into DMs is like the 2025 dating equivalent of walking into a business and asking for a job. Can it still work if you're persistent enough? Yes. Are you going to waste a shitload of time versus just applying for jobs on job boards? Unquestionably. Tinder for hookups, Hinge/Bumble for more serious.
/r/seduction24/07/25 12:41 AM
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I see ugly dudes with girlfriends all the time so I honestly don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:51 PM
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Completely false. The average man has a 26% body fat percentage. Even going from 20% to 15% is a pretty big difference. And that's without even getting into grooming, styling, and muscle growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:56 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:48 PM
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I say red pill doesn't make prescriptive claims. You respond saying that is inaccurate by using men who spin plates as an examples. I respond saying the men spinning plates aren't even red pillers. You respond saying red pillers don't make prescriptive claims. I'm so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:20 PM
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Sure, but that's a hypocritical position too. If you are against prostitution, you should be against OnlyFans too. Completely false and asinine. you have to present more arguments than "I don't agree with the way they selected the sample" You do not understand anything about sample populations if you see it this way. The NON-USERS, as in random people selected for a comparison, were more than 5 standard deviations above the expected number of married people relative to the general population. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:17 PM
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Historically Not sure why you're soapboxing but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:54 PM
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About 80% of them are in relationships/marriages according to the study. We've already established that the study is wrong so I'm not sure why you're referencing it again. The main point is that men will say they are against it in public, but will use outlets like OnlyFans or porn (which is a byproduct of sex work) which is hypocritical. Even if the average married OF user was against prostitution I find it unlikely they'd be against other forms of sex work like OF itself. A lot of people are ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:42 PM
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The majority of men who spin plates don't even know what the red pill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:34 PM
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Great counterpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:22 PM
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The mentality of red pill is that society is like this, not that society SHOULD be like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:20 PM
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Historically, men have only ever had to acquire women through resources. Now that we live in a world where women have equal access to resources, men have to impress women with other factors that the current generation of young men generally did not have stressed upon them by their more traditional parents. Also, women are still putting great effort into maintaining their appearances, while men who do not have success dating generally are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:15 PM
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First of all the article you cited does not support your original claim in any way. It literally just says that the majority of OF subscribers are married, then you randomly ascribed a bunch of other beliefs onto them in an attempt to support your argument. Second of all, the actual study indicates that 90% of the OF users surveyed were married. This is an absurd number for obvious reasons, enough to almost discredit the entire study without any further analysis. It becomes undeniable when you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:35 PM
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I mean just the fact that you are conflicted and unsure is a testament to all the virtue signaling about character and integrity being bullshit. Just because guy A is a rich slob doesn't mean he is a bad person, and just because guy B is broke and talented doesn't mean he is a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:39 PM
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I didn't suggest that, there is definitely an overlap, though Most of these guys are the same people who are subscribed to OnlyFans accounts because their wives don't even give them intimacy, so they are huge hypocrites anyway. Correct, you didn't suggest it, you outright said it. OK, and? Whether a man is low-value in their eyes or not depends on optics, not on the fact that they are visiting escorts. If Brad Pitt, out of convenience, visits an escort, these women aren't suddenly going to consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:36 PM
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Just started residency.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:24 PM
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If you suck at texting your two options are to keep practicing or to text as little as possible until you actually meet. >What are some good places to practice cold approach Personally I don't cold approach outside the club, but at the club I literally just point blank ask girls if they want to dance. It pretty much breaks through every psychological barrier for both of you, everything afterwards becomes so much easier.
/r/seduction22/07/25 01:18 AM
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Presumable one was a guy with no degree, training, or ambition and got lucky and won the lottery or something, while the other guy just graduated medical school with 200k in student loan debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:07 PM
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I'm currently working with a dating coach and he told me to go to a club by myself once a week and just try to have fun I really hope you aren't paying this guy because it sounds like he is just giving the most generic advice possible that isn't tailored to your personality at all. I don't know why it's really hard for me the music is loud and it scares me a little and it's hard for me to relax This is a very abnormal, extreme reaction to the club, and it's starting to become more clear what you…
/r/seduction21/07/25 05:29 PM
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But it’s absolutely true that the exceptional man is better situated now than the exceptional men of the past. We’ve seen this with the wealth disparity between upper middle class / wealthy compared to lower middle class and poor. Do you think wealth disparity is growing because more middle class people are becoming rich???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:36 AM
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I guess if they want to be single forever they can do that but it isn't really relevant to the point of the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:13 AM
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At the end of the day you should be going to the club to enjoy the club. The types of guys who are successful at the club are either the types of guys who simply enjoy the environment itself, or guys who are attractive enough that they will get attention regardless of whether they seem to be enjoying themselves. And the way you describe it you don't seem to fit either of these camps Based on your profile I also assume all of this is happening in Bulgaria. I know nothing about the culture there, …
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:25 PM
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Sounds like they were just entertaining you then. The bright side is that girls generally don't entertain guys they don't have some amount of immediate attraction to, so you've got that going for you.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:40 PM
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How did your friend do? If the other girl was really into him, then her friend could have just been giving her space. Do you try to run a two-man with him a lot? If so, how does it usually go?
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:00 PM
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Both of your arguments are enormous strawmans. The overwhelming majority of men advocating against sex work are not purchasing OF content. It is also not common at all for women to be against sex work to preserve attention for themselves, and even if it was, it definitely isn't a "leftist feminist" position. If anything, the type of women who oppose OF and consider themselves feminists do so because they consider men who need to engage with sex work low-value. Which is why you have situations wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:33 PM
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I don't have a good time at the club. You are failing at step 1. Women go to the club to have a good time. They aren't going to show interest in a guy that doesn't look like a good time.
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:53 PM
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There is a reason to think that a partnered and supported 25 year old man would be though. There absolutely isn't. Partnered or not, those men are still competing with the women in the workforce today whom the 35 year old men didn't have to compete with to the same degree to get where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:33 PM
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None of this is the point. In the past the belief was that a typical young, promising man should expect to achieve the same level or more of success as the young, promising men of the past. Now, because of the equality of the labor force, the young promising men of today should not expect to separate themselves financially from women the way current 35 year old men already have. Yes, a woman can find an outlier that is already successful at a young age. But to find a young man who is an outlier …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:22 PM
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Except young men have fewer claims to the shares of opportunities than ever before in the history of western civilization. There's no reason to think the average 25 year old man today will be as successful at age 35 as the men who are currently 35. Ironically, the proverb works better now for men seeking younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:06 AM
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Even after going out consistently for a year and dancing with ~50 girls at the club what you just described STILL happens to me. Are some of those guys approaching just naturally super confident with no approach anxiety? Yes. But are some of them like me and had to spend time and effort pushing through that, and still struggle with it sometimes? Yes.
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:22 PM
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It shouldn't feel like work. Last year I went to the club alone every weekend and always had a good time. When I first started, it was a little bit intimidating. But if you have gone out this much and it feels like a chore, then it sounds like this isn't actually your kind of environment, and the way you interact with people probably reflects that in ways you likely don't even realize.
/r/seduction19/07/25 05:26 PM
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Okay, then who do you think has more options, an average man or an average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:52 PM
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What definition do you use? Because what you are saying makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:08 PM
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So basically you use a definition of picky that nobody else in the world uses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:42 PM
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You experience is "easily finds dozens if not hundreds of guys who will instantly have sex with me, then there's a 50% chance he loses interest afterwards" A guys experience is "through great effort find a girl who has maybe a 50% chance to even show up to a scheduled date with me, with almost no chance of hooking up, and probably 95% chance she loses interest afterwards." And you think men are equally as picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:06 PM
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I genuinely cannot fathom how you could have interpreted what I said that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:41 AM
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>you would never tell a man who got treated poorly by his partner that he should've gone for an uglier woman. Men don't have the luxury of dating up in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:51 PM
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You just ask them to dance lol
/r/seduction12/07/25 04:54 PM
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You ask them to dance lol
/r/seduction12/07/25 04:52 PM
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I don't know how to dance either. I just grab their waist and kinda rock with them, then escalate until they are throwing it back on me. Do this for a while and there's like a 25% chance she ends up making out with you, at least in my experience.
/r/seduction12/07/25 04:46 PM
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Do you ask them to dance?
/r/seduction11/07/25 11:28 PM
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Some would argue those kinds of women are the only ones who are worth it.
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:31 PM
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If you are only dating these women for sex you are probably doing a very bad job at hiding that fact.
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:24 PM
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Step 1. Realize you are on the spectrum Step 2. Work on pretending you are not on the spectrum If he doesn't feel the passion of romance women are looking for he needs to fake it til he makes it
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:20 PM
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